A Toxic Friendship Vs. A Healthy One: Ethan Klein & Trisha Paytas
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You could tell when he said “ex Bestie” That he was so hurt. Trisha is a psychopath who doesn’t care about anybody but themselves. Ethan really does deserve better
let’s not use medical terms to negatively describe people, shes shitty, but she definitely does not qualify to be described as a psychopath
She’s way too emotional to be a psychopath
they’re definitely not a psychopath. The symptoms don’t match them at all
They did confirm that they were diagnosed with bpd, which can be a lie of course like they did with DID, but a lot of her behavior does fit. I have bpd myself so I know a thing or two and I can see a lot of stuff I’ve learned in DBT how some symptoms can look unmanaged in Trisha. Of course we just see what they show and they show a lot all over the place.
The Scorpion (Trisha) & the Frog (Ethan):
“A scorpion asks a frog to carry him over a river. The frog is afraid of being stung, but the scorpion argues that if it did so, they both would sink, and the scorpion would drown. The frog then agrees, but halfway across the river the scorpion does indeed sting the frog, dooming them both. When the frog asks why, the scorpion shrugs and says, 'it's my nature' and they both drown."
tbh i dont really blame ethan for believing trisha, from an outside perspective its obvious especially if you’re already skeptical of these types of people (influencers, celebrities etc) its easy to see she’s full of shit, but ethan has always been kind of oblivious or less self aware if u will. she obviously has a thing for him & has been using him the whole time but because he is so genuine (the way you put it is really fitting, dumb but genuine) he couldnt see it. their whole ‘friendship’ has been a very entertaining train wreck but i think it was always gonna go down like this
Lots of projection in this video.
Ethan thought that with him it was going to be different, that he could interact with Trisha in a healthy way by having dr drew, being compassionate and walking on eggshells around her.
I would make the argument that Trisha’s mental illness isn’t some spiritual defect, it’s something they suffer with everyday and I imagine they’d get rid of no matter what it took, but it doesn’t work like that, not with BPD
And yes... you do walk around eggshells with people with BPD, but I try to imagine what it’s like for them to walk on eggshells living with themselves daily, Ethan knew her theatrics and dramatics would get views... and part of that if not all of it was her mental illness
I am SO excited for your Moses video haha. He always gave me "faux artist woke bro" vibes, trying to seem deep but not really going anywhere, using it as a façade to seem impressive. You know he's been married multiple times previously? You wouldn't know it from how he talks about being engaged to Trisha. But it's hard to always know how he must really think about things because it really seems like Trisha uses his accounts to post for themself... but its scary because none of the possibilities for their relationship seem good. Either 1) Trisha is abusing Moses and using tactics to separate Moses from his family and outside connections 2) Moses is using Trisha for 5 seconds of fame and money and doesn't care about their relationship really, 3) They are both messed up people using each other for their own benefit.
I always genuinely wanted Trish to do better. But I get the sense that Trish changes to be with whatever group they are currently with... morphing to be a little like Jason, like Ethan, I guess now like Keemstar? Obviously genuine change only comes when you want it for yourself and are willing to look in those shadows. Not sure Trish has been able to do that yet or would ever be willing to.
As far as my read on Ethan... I think he did genuinely want to help her be better. He seems like the type with the desire to help and nurture, and I think Trish gave him the impression that they were improving and that he was helping in some way. He just had to be patient enough, nice enough, believe enough, when no one else would. For a particular personality the allure of "if I just do enough they can change" is VERY strong. Combine that with a desire to keep peace with the family since now Trish would be part of his life no matter what he thought of them thanks to Moses... and this is what ya get. I hope he can really move on now and enjoy his soon-to-be second child with Hila and the hilarious, wholesome family dynamic with his parents on the podcast instead.
Moses acts and talks like every cult leader .. ever ..
Absolutely . Their relationship will not end well if not with a crime.
“Ethan is a dumb genuine person” I love that . I’ve been seeing so many people saying he’s just as fake as her for all the dumb shit he’s said in the past , which is completely irrelevant to this situation but it doesn’t mean he’s not genuine
Feels like she’s a little creepy for going for Moses just to be under ethans skin she snaked her way into that family lowkey lol
I've ALWAYS got that vibe too. I think she had feelings for both Hila and Ethan and they rejected her
@@dandelion5410 omg yes!! I mean come one let’s look back on that very first time she was ever on the show it’s really predatory
@@jasminegonzalez6391 Exactly! She prob propositioned them and went after Moses. They have a right to be creeped out by her, but they've always kept it above belt and professional to not hurt her. Her views on love/relationships in general seem so trauma based and predatory. Moses is a combo of self-assured and docile enough to fit her needs. I hope she gets help like for real for everyone's sake. Her content is like trauma bonding w her audience at this point
Shes pulling blac chyna… Finding the weakest link in the family for revenge.
If Ethan thought that was beneath Trisha then he obviously didn't know her very well.
the last couple mins of this video really hit home. i'm starting to realize some of my "friends" and I just dont have the same values and its exhausting having to rationalize/ explain myself all the time. life is literally too damn short to have shitty friends. BRB going to cut some people off now :)
How did it go?
Ooo I understand that, I changed a lot from my friend group after highschool and it was making me feel sad and lonely to be around them because I had to pretend to be someone I'm not. Much happier now after making new friendships with people I am more compatible with
You've got this!!!!
I like Ethan, but i totally agree that the set himself up for failure and wanted to be this white knight that would save Trisha.
That being said, this isn't all his fault, but he definitely lit the fire
Moses has been married twice. It’s been exposed. I totally think he’s a con artist. He pretends like he has no idea how a wedding works and says marriage is for life 😳😳😳😳
I'm sorry, what?!?!?!!? Married twice? 😬 I did not know that. I wonder if those women were rich as well. Interesting. I shall research!
@@BrittanySimon one was a Dr so probably decently well off
@@BrittanySimon yes it’s in the H3 Reddit. I just wonder when she learned about this bc his story was he was lonely alone for 10 years and never lived with any female but Trisha. Last divorce was 2019 😳
@@kristiehigdon7357 a couple months before they started dating 😬 geeez
The shadow on your shoulder from the leaves keeps making me think you have a huge bruise on your arm lol
Omg me too! I thought it was my sunburn at first 🤣
Can you make a video about how to make friendships with people who really see you? I am an introverted person I do have a few friends but these friendship feel very shallow and I never actively cultivated any of them. Would like to hear your thoughtson cultivating friendships for different types of people extroverts vs introvert, agreeable vs disagreeable people etc.
I can relate to this so so soooooo much. It’s weird. It’s like the happier and more self actualized I become, the more lonely I feel. I, too am looking for true friends who truly see me. I crave connection, I’m a connection junkie and the more connected I feel to myself the more I realize that the people in my life don’t see me.
One of your answers is already in your comment. You have to put energy into relationships with people that interest you and have simmliarties you want I'm a friendship instead of friendships that just happen to you. It's harder for introverts but not impossible. If you try to talk or interact with people you wanna be friends with its much more rewarding and they will probably reciprocate.
Omg I have the saaaame problem
I had a friend that basically said "when I say yes it's cause I have trouble saying no and you should know that already" and I was done. Im not gonna sit here and guess what you mean and what you want and in the end be the bad guy cause I hurt your feelings without even knowing it. There were other things as well where I saw a different side to them and I thought to myself "do I even know this person?". It hurts but it feels way better to let people go than be in misery together.
Damn she had a victim mentality .
Mysterious has a good video about trisha that breaks down all of her lies. I knew she was a liar, but to see it all in a video was eye opening.
Very good. Eye opening
I always like watching Mysterious tea. She is fair, has well researched videos and looks at all perspectives and just really wishes the people she talks about the best and to be their better selves.
Watching that video... everything clicked in my head (as an onlooker)
Yes, and Trisha put a claim on that video and that means she gets the money from it. Mysterious said there were 3 parts of the video she claimed and that means mysterious would have to cut those 3 parts out but she won't. She said it's to important to the video. But now she's torn on what to do because the video is getting so many views. Trisha is a piece of crap.
@@Nina525 Yeah I heard about that. Trisha has been known to do that. She got someone’s whole channel taken down a couple of years ago
So I'm new here... so every time you said 2s and 5s I legit thought you were speaking about looks 🤣
🤣🤣Don't worry, you were not alone!
someone in your inner circle as a "perpetually useless person" LOL, love that descriptor
It is what it is 🤪😭🤣
How much do you feel that the attempts he was making were initially motivated by the fact that she is marrying his brother in law who is close with his family. It was almost as if holding Trisha close kept his family together. Trisha does not like her husband emotionally being in a different place vs her because of the fear he will leave.
I think this is true. I don't think Hila and Ethan cared about Trisha to the extent they portrayed to their audience. A big part of it was fake for views and to make peace in their family
I think Ethan liked Trish. I think that he really let down his guard even against his better judgment and opened himself up for her. I think he put A LOOOT of effort into trying to understand her and give her grace and be there for her and fight for her like a big brother. But I think it was his dedication to family that fueled it. Initially I think it was a family need to do so. I wish Trish could respect protecting the family unit the way that Ethan does.
@@ItsAlysCorner I agree to some extent. Trisha expected way too much out of what was essentially a professional relationship and H3 manipulated the reality of the friendship for content, wanting their affection and being content hungry T went along w it. I do suspect they truly disliked her early on, esp Hila and the crew, and disingenuously extended kindness on air which triggered her MH issues bc she knew it was bs. E&H were willing to keep trying after she went after Moses in a blatantly predatory attempt to cling to them but it became impossible, and E had to maintain his reputation. Yes he offered more grace than Trisha deserved but it's naive to believe his intentions were simply to maintain a friendship, he cared about content to begin w and himself/his family/his business in the end, the latter is in no way a negative reflection upon him. It's just a shitty situation and I really hope Trisha gets serious help
@@dandelion5410 That's one take I guess. Ethan seemed genuinely hurt by Trisha's actions in a way that as an H3 fan I have rarely seen so I don't think their friendship was completely fake, his genuine care for them is what made him so easily fall for their bullshit. I think it may have started as a fun goof and maybe a way to support Moses by showing that Ethan was actually interested in bringing his love interest (Moses is a whole other story) into his life but then a genuine friendship formed and was broken once he realized how treacherous Trisha actually was.
I think people are underestimating Trisha's abilities, how manipulative and street smart they can be, and remember we are only seeing a tiny part of their life as Ethan and Trisha have talked about family events, birthday parties, outings, etc. and we're not there to see that dynamic. I think Ethan was almost too genuine with Trisha and tried to help them and got burned for it. While it did bring H3 and Ethan and Hila to a wider audience it also brought a LOT of grief and stress to their family, and most of us fans are over it and want them to move on, which Ethan seems all too happy to do now that he's seen Trisha's true self.
@@christmastiger I don't think the Klein's are particularly awful people but they used her for their business and Trisha is so messed up it all ended in their favour without them even having to try. They’re wise enough to not make poor choices and themselves publically, Trish and most youtubers are not.
It was blatantly clear how troubled Trisha was from the beginning and they invited her on with the tone of it being friendly but underhandedly it was a gimmick for exposure. Trisha was the main attraction and everyone wanted to see. Trisha sets that standard for herself but H3 engaged w her knowing that.
I've watched Trisha on and off for years, her street smarts are part of what make her likeable, she’s incredibly multifaceted. Being cunning isn't necessarily bad especially in business, but she doesn't have a healthy grasp of reality and doesn't know how to make choices w/o harming people and sabotaging herself. The Klein's are just as cunning, they have to be to survive in their line of work, and they end up the good guys in these online feuds bc objectively they are no where near as publically disgraceful as other ytubers and they know how to behave with tact to maintain their integrity publically. That doesn't mean they didn't use Trisha and manipulate her and have any ulterior motives, there was never an even playing field, by youtube standards they’re angels.
They were open minded and accepting of her with the interest of the show, their reputations and their family in mind, not because they particularly liked her. It became lucrative and their quarrelsome but affectionate on camera friendship charmed the audience. During her redemption arc it was endearing to see Trisha making healthy friendships and having people w knowledge of mental health tactfully show care to her after a long history of drama. If the initial shows did poorly I truly doubt they would have befriended her at all. They were her generous friends and mentors while cashing in on it all and having basic care for her wellbeing seemed above and beyond. I think Ethan liked her more than Hila but not much.
Trisha showed her true colors time and time again and it was clear they must have disliked her esp Hila and the production team. Her ignorance, narcissim, casual racism and problematic comments, just general Trisha antics would have been near impossible for anyone to deal with.
She was unsatisfied with how she was portrayed and the creative direction and that sparked her attack on the production team. Watching herself on the show meant she had to see herself in a brutally honest light for once and people expected integrity from her and she had no idea how how to cope with it. The redemption arc was too much pressure and she totally broke down and regressed back to “old Trisha” - her unmanaged mental health issues overwhelmed her.
I agree w her that the production was lacklustre and I hope H3 develop more. To be fair H3 is basically is a podcast and Trisha and had unrealistic expectations in many ways. I suspect the team didn’t want to do unpaid work (obviously) by putting in extra creative development. It also seemed like they knew very little about her and hadn’t watched much of her content, why would they not have done more research? Like no shiz she has a sketch past. Ethan refused to allow her any input besides creative suggestions which was legally acceptable given it’s his production company, but wouldn’t a close friend and family member have been given more say? Apparently not, not if it’s Trisha. The finances are also entirely hearsay on Ethan’s part. We don’t know the truth of it all.
It’s obvious to Trisha’s fans she had a creepy crush on Ethan and I highly suspect Hila too, she probably propositioned them (it’s Trisha ofc she did) and was rejected and developed an inappropriate emotional dependency and need for closeness in what was a professional friendship because she had not had many stable and reliable people in her life. The image of this nurturing friendship and the hype around it compared to the reality was confusing for her and contributed to her breakdowns. They would have seen these red flags in her. Becoming an extended family member would’ve been difficult if not alarming but they chose to be publically accepting for the greater good and to not seem like dirtbags. They had her best interest at heart, wanted her to stay on a positive path and they were hurt by the fallout, which is simply basic human decency. Their motives were not as sincere as they seemed, they were manipulative and they used her, her drama, her mental health all of it to further their careers. Ofc I’m not rly going into the extent of Trisha’s toxic actions, i’m just explaining how H3 exploited her and the situation too.
If anything general public awareness of mental health and conflict resolution in relationships have become more prominent since the show so that’s admirable.
If you read this far this just my take as someone who has watched Trisha for years, I’m def not a fan I just find her fascinating. This whole thing was such a big deal online and it was good to get this out lol. I feel like we all have a tiny amount of vicarious trauma from it all. Lets hope things work out for all of them
Oooo can’t wait for the Moses video! He is interesting to me because of his choice in mates.
I watched your channel the last time you made a video on Ethan and Trisha and was happy to hear your take on Aba and Preach vs. F&F because I love Aba and Preach. I could listen to their opinion and wisdom on anything. I have to say I love to hear your take on it all and share a lot of the same thoughts on things, so I had to subscribe! I can't wait to hear more of your thoughts and opinions in the future and good luck with you channel, I really think you're going to make it pretty big 😊 -fellow H3 and Aba & Preach fan
ngl, I honestly thought Trisha was changing... I was so wrong
Although I hate this friendship, I’m glad that it got someone to bring Jason and David’s problems to light
"It's a circle" reference had me laughing! Took me back to old memories and friends where we'd banter with movie quotes. Thank you ❤️
I wasn't sure anyone would get it 🤣
I used to quote that line toooo
This video really came at the perfect time for me.
“Pay attention to how they keep your secrets / private information”. This was so powerful and I really needed to hear it. I’m tired of my entire “friend group” knowing about all of my secrets when I only told one person.
Yesss Josie! Be open but have boundaries. You got this!
As someone currently going through a sort of friendship crossroads, trying to figure out whether or not we’re going to continue our friendship or let it end, I really enjoyed your perspective on this topic.
I liked this topic. I didn’t have a inner circle of friends for a long time, or rather, they were my circle of friends, but I wasn’t theirs. Not sure if that makes sense.
Anyway, after never really being part of a circle, I just accepted that everyone’s got their lives. Maybe anime played a part on what I wanted from a friendship; like, I remember daydreaming about having a rival that’s also my best friend so that we pushed each other to compete and be better, etc.
But right now, I’m happy with my friends having their own passions, and I’m ok with having to compete with just myself haha.
Yes! That makes total sense ♡
She really just called someone in her inner circle useless 💀 💀 💀
Yes girl. He knew beforehand he was playing with fire. Its just ignorance
And them him continueing to feed i to her hes making his own situation worse
Honestly, Ethan seemed like the kind of person who's mental health was fragile to begin with, so he shouldn't have embarked on a "difficult" relationship with someone like Trisha in the first place given that he's not equipped to handle that
And therefore, a lot of his anguish is ultimately his fault. Someone can lead you to a cliff, but when you're the one who jumps off, that's your problem
Brittany, I love your videos and always feel a sigh of relief hearing your perspective on these types of things. What a beautiful life we all have and what a wonder it is to analyze these things through the lens of love. Always leave your channel feeling equally as motivated to grow/challenged as I do validated that I’m not the only one who thinks this way. Much love ❤️
Finally someone that admits they think her stories are all fake af, especially the non binary stuff, it's 100% a MESS, she came up with it when it was becoming popular and "trendy"
"Just look at fairytale" was not expecting that lmao 🤣🤣
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"Would I take a bullet for them? Yes."
In the same breath;
"But would I ride out across state for them? That would be innapropriate." Oh but literally risking your life is? Makes sense.
Just saw you pop up on my suggested. Started watching some videos and immediately subscribed! Love how you use your spiritual knowledge to evaluate these situations ❤️❤️❤️
brittany i honestly cant wait for the moses video, i really love your takes on this topic of ethan and trisha. and moses has been hiding under the radar, lets shine the spotlight on him cause i feel like behind the scenes, he is not so innocent. i could be so wrong, but i really think this will be a great topic for you to touch on.
Your videos always give me so much perspective on myself. Thank you Brittany!!
Thank you so much for hearing me out Elizabeth 🥰
I wanted to believe that Trisha would be able to grow and change.
...and I've had my 'Trisha'-friend, too, which ended with me filing a police report.
I had to walk away from all my friends bc they were not 100% loyal and loyalty is everything to me.. for my wellness and protecting my energy I had to drop them without an explanation to really get to my core self and choosing myself was the best choice I made.
Please post the video on Moses ASAPPPPPPOPPO!!!! 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
So excited to see the Moses video!!
I will never understand her and her genuine views on how she views people, society, love & friendship. It’s almost like she did backflips to make sure that this wasn’t going to work out.
Unfortunately that is the essence of borderline personality.
I came across your channel yesterday, love it, love your delivery and the content. Subscribed.
Welcome Farah ♡
I am so glad to have found your channel. So refreshing. 💜
WAIT! can I also say regarding Moses, I truly believe that most tweets/comment interactions is Trisha and not Moses, since it's known that Trisha knows all his passwords. I don't think he's a saint, but imo it seems like he is part of an abusive relationship.
His youtube channel is his personal work. Water channel. Check it out. It's just crazy talk.
@@BrittanySimon oh, I'm sorry I misunderstood. I thought you were also talking about tweets/comments his leaving on social media.
What is the number stuff about? Like "moses is a 2", I feel like I have missed some important info.
It's her social philosophy called the "Levels" that she came up with a friend. If you put her name and levels in the search engine you should find it.
Oooooh we are so spoiled 🖤
Your content is filling lol
Thank you!!! I don't know how long this will last but I have extra spoons this week ♡
I don’t even know if this is therapy, body language reading, mental health assessment idc it’s AMAZING
I really needed this. Thank you
Omg the titanic reference,, I'm literally crying 🤣🤣🤣
Always love hearing your thoughts, Brittany! Really looking forward to the moses video
If Trisha and Moses started a cult I wouldn’t be surprised
I wouldn't want to be your "useless friend" watching this 😂😂
Oh yeah, no one would want to be them 🤣 they don't even want to be them but that's cause they know they're a 1.
@@BrittanySimon have you talked about this friend more in depth in a video before? Because you've mentioned them a few times already and it would be interesting to hear why you think they're a 1
@@ciriiluu I can't share all the reasons they're a one because it would be an issue of privacy but my podcast on narcissism covers them in as much depth as I'm willing to go publically.
“Find who you are in the anime...” hits home 🥺
Is the deeper understanding of levels video available anywhere? It’s privated
ruclips.net/video/s2EUoRlak30/видео.htmlsi=i8NChbzw1E6Tjxkz 💗
Your video is great. Subscribed to see the Moses video.
I think the thing with Ethan and Trisha started out as part goof, part "hey maybe this could be entertaining to people" and part Ethan trying to do well by Moses. I think he started off trying to make this work for Hila and her family's sake and then it turned into an actual friendship. Yeah, he was gullible when it came to Trisha's past and behaviors but....it feels a little like you're blaming him for trying to help a *family member* and seeing it as Trisha being just simply a friend that you can easily cut out of your life. I think that's the big thing missing, this was more about family than friendship. I'd like to hear your thoughts on that angle in general because I have several in-laws (brother- or sister-in-laws) who I don't think are best for my siblings but unfortunately at this point kids and houses and all that are involved and it's very complicated.
Anyway, this was a nice video and very informative about friendships with many nuggets of wisdom, and maybe there were a few moments that felt a little dodgy (personally I wouldn't phrase a friendship, even 20 years long, as "I won't let you leave me" that seems a bit odd and ironically like the thing you're speaking against in the first place) but I think you had your heart in the right place and hope this video helps people struggling with friendships.
That thing about friendship happens after many years. My bestie feels the same. It would be like leaving my sister. Unless there is abuse why would you leave your inner circle? Your favorite people in the planet? Seems odd to me.
Of course there's a Toxic level to friendship but we are all consenting.
I'm soooo glad I found your channel. Your take is so interesting. Had to sub :)
Yay, thank you!!! WELCOME!
Several points in this video hits home for me, especially when it comes to ending a friendship. Thank you for the video!
Ethan is a good man. It's that simple.
LMAO ethans hand ticks and the sound effects
Yeah... wouldn't want to be friends with a person like Trisha anyway. Too much eggshells for me.
para-social relationship or not, watching all of this happen makes my heart hurt for the kliens.
Truly enjoy your insight on topics.
There relationship is pretty entertaining. They are so different and it's wild when trisha gets pissed off and storms off the show.
Thanks for info, B this was definitely a great video about healthy n toxic relationships 💯🔥
Love the subtle cosplay
Thannnkkkkkkk you!!!! 😭💖
they started off on the wrong foot and it never got right
You helped me reflect a lot, thank you for this video
anyone else think moses could’ve been a cult leader in another life?
I really enjoyed this one! You made so many insightful points 😌
What does she mean when she refers to someone as a "2" or a "5"? Sorry, new to this channel. I remember from my one college psychology class studying a psychologist who came up with a rating scale of like 1 to maybe 6 on morality. A 1 is someone who behaves only because they don't want to face consequences, where a 6 is like a Harriet Tubman, who will risk their lives to do the right thing. Is that what she's talking about?
I'm talking about my own system called "The Levels" check out the description for more info ♡
@@BrittanySimon Thank you, I will :)
I honestly couldn't wait six months to hear Brittany take on the recent events...
Wait lmao another inconsistency with Trisha “wait what did he do” also Trisha “well you haven’t killed people”
I think it was just a general thing of 'well you're not a murderer soooo you're good'
@@ghosty8193 she claimed in the podcast she didn’t know what hitler did. There are quite a few times she spoke about the Holocaust and hitler, so my comment was in reference to her acting dumb on the podcast.
“People only listen to what I say next to a man”
Also Trisha next to a man:I don’t think hitler was a bad guy
Middle Eastern goodbye lmao. Yup. It’s real.
Great video, you summed up their relationship (or atleast what they portray on their show) so perfectly!
I was wondering if you could make a video about celebrities like Olivia Rodrigo & Awkwafina getting cancelled for using “blaccent” or “AAVE” (African American Vernacular English). I would love to hear your thoughts on this topic!
I’ve personally had an experience where a black friend cut me off completely for calling him boy as he was triggered and thought it was racist. (I didn’t mean any harm Ofcourse. I call everyone boy/girl as I’ve lived in the South most of my life.)
such an important conversation to have. thank you!
This gives me hard-core joy sparkle BS vibes lol
Hi!
I’m new here, and you keep referencing being a 2 and trying to be a 5.. and I’m extremely curious as to what you’re referring too? If someone could tell me what videos to watch to figure that out, I’d appreciate it tremendously!
Also, uhm, I love you. Lol 🤣🧡 your voice is keeping my attention, the edits are funny, and it just feels like good energy.. you know?
Check out her video called “the levels” :)
@@jade811 thank you so much!!
On which video do you introduce the 1 2 3 types and all? Ok the levels. It has been answered lol thx
Lmao you talk about someone in your inner circle who is useless. Does this person know you view them as useless ?? Just curious. Also just found your channel and I'm really loving your videos!
Yes, they're aware ♡ They're also aware that I don't hold it against them in a way real way because they're aware that I believe in a humans ability to change but they have to want to change, and they currently do not want to.
I meet them where they are at, and they're currently not functional because they don't want to be, and that's their right to choose uselessness.
First here!! I almost broke a nail clicking.
🤣🤣🤣oh no!!
Trisha's pronouns are She, her, they them. It's on her Twitter. She doesn't feel misgendered if you use she. Just FYI.
Because she’s a she. I honestly believe that’s a lie to save face after the transgender video
@@kristiehigdon7357 Very likely, actually.
This is a great take! Subscribed!
Fairy Tale REPRESENT!!
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You are literally the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen in my life
Omg stop!😭 you're so sweet 🙈
Videos like these always absolve the "mentally ill" person either explicitly or in tone.
Pretty counterproductive to blame folks for attempting to be decent people, but hopefully Ethan knows that starting a relationship on pity is doomed to fail.
You should watch it again.
I want to be a fan but every time you talk I feel like you move away from the topic. You start talking about yourself and then I get confused on what we were discussing in the first place 🙁
It's my style to use my real life experiences as examples because people often think "oh, that's this famous person's problem" or "oh, this never actually happens" but my job and life puts me in front of thousands of people a year. So, I have stories to share that relate ♡ I am much more interested in people and their stories, but there are content creators like Teal Swan who are much more "abstract concepts" rather than personal stories. Check her out, you might like her ♡
i cant wait for the moses video!
What is a feeder group?
Never mind I think I get it. Ethan is feeding into het dysfunctionality while he thinks he is helping her.
Do you think its really possible for men and women to be just friends? I hear all sorts of opinions on this and I'd be interested in your opinion.
Yes? I have plenty. So do likely most people in this community.
Yes.
Where there can be trouble in friendships is when one is attracted and the other is not. Or it is real lobsided. I have female friends and our characters are compatible we have simular interests and are about the same intellligence level. But there is no se xual or romantic attraction at all.
I find it really strange that some people think there must be some se xual or romantic aspect going on when a man and a woman talk or interact. Kinda icky.
Yeah because if not then how do you explain bisexual people having attractive friends?
If you guys don’t know what I’m talking about just look up studies on how most men want to have sex with their female friends lol I’m not saying they’re valid. I’m not qualified to answer that. I just have a lot of experiences where either guys cheated on me with their “female friends” or my male friends at some point confessed feelings for me
@@Katrawrina I mean, sure you can be sexually attracted to people and not act on it unless its mutual. We get those boundaries.
I have a hard time seeing them as friends since Ethan appears to be just using her a circus freak for profit
I dont think thats true from my perspective. I think he had genuine feelings of friendship towards them, maybe enjoyed certain aspects of the friendship like dressing up, doing the activities they did, talking shit too yeah. Every time they had an episode and treated him like shit tho, he seemed stressed, didnt seem to enjoy it. I think it came down to the negative outweighting the positive (even the money) and realizing the things they bonded over were ultimately superficial and there wasnt a strong foundation.
@@honeynmilk00 100%.
What is the best way to end a friendship with someone when the other party is still trying to hold on to it? Is it better to try and gradually detach or do you sit down and tell them up front that you no longer want to pursue the friendship?
it depends on the person, and you as a person, and the different consequences depending on what you want to deal with/do to someone. i think honesty is always a safe position to take n can be very liberating. i hope you can get an answer that works for you❤️
I like your channel, but its hard to believe you are regularly receiving invites to youtube events with creators who have millions of followers and you are having to turn them down. Was that part of the video an ego thing?
I can see why people might think that if they're new. I stopped going to events in 2019. It's not a flex, I just make friends easily and have been invited to events.
The point is to remind people that queer and women's spaces often are falsely portrayed as these "honest, open and authentic spaces" but its not really like that.
I've met all kinds of celebrities, and the world they live in is often very wanting. That's the point. Trisha thinks she's Kim K and Ethan thinks they're regular people.
Love the dbz references
pls tell us what u use in your hair 😭😍
ur glowing btw 😊
Omg thank you for asking! I switch it up but today it was Cantu Shea Butter For Natural Hair. Moisturizing curl activator cream ♡ It's one of the best I've used for my hair 🥰
Is it just me? Cause I feel more and more we go on in this society (u.s.) I feel like people can call fewer people there close friends wonder if this is an epandemic or a pandemic and do other countries feel this too?
On a lighter note that scarf getup looks suppah cute wish you stood for a few seconds so we can see more of it 😉
**Joke time** "how does Brittany Simon greet her 'peers'?..
"hi five!"" high five 👏....
Disclaimer, after watching the stream for just a short while I am under the understanding that she probably does not agree with the term peers since that would be putting into a group(bubble) that one would associate with and hold identity with us not making them want to go to the next level.
Second disclaimer, Brittany, I would like to broadcast some of your deep thoughts over my twitch while I game. Because your words have been able to help some friends of mine unfortunately not all of them are willing to sit down and watch a RUclips video. I'm not trying to get any cloud off of you and I'm not trying to get any of your subscribers. What are your thoughts.
papa bless
I had a period of drawing in a number of toxic friends, one ended up being diagnosed with BPD (after our friendship dissolved), one other I think also had undiagnosed BPD.
I was new to making an effort in forming friendships. Anyway it did not end well but was a great lesson.
I was totally upset, angry, confused with their behavior but over-time I realised it was a good experience and made me look at my own behavior and what to look for in healthy friendships and what I need to be to be a healthy friend.
Luckily now I have a few great friends, and it’s so easy. No drama, no bitching, no neediness, we have interesting discussions on science, philosophy, day-to-day life and just lots of laughs when we catch up. I always walk away feeling at ease and happy compared to the previous friendship group. I also have to say I probably enjoyed getting sucked into the gossip, drama with previous group so it was up to me to let go of seeking that sort dynamic and curbing me own tendency to want to get the inside scoop. That’s why it’s so important to have healthy friends otherwise you start taking on toxic behavior yourself.
And like Ethan said once you realize some of the things a person has said is a lie, but you’ve gone along supporting them only to realise actually the other person might be innocent, you end up feeling really icky. So a good thing to avoid is friends that want you to take sides or insert themselves into other peoples business, or even just constantly criticize other people, lying or stories not matching up is also of course a big red flag.
And funnily enough one of my good friends now, did get diagnosed with BPD (quiet BPD) , but I only knew him after he was in remission (because of therapy).