The way my brain works as chaotic, thank you for leading me to the path of mental health, therapy, and hypnosis. I highly suggest anyone try. But more deeply I want to thank you for being the person that you have 'been' your whole life... Willing to ask questions wonder why and transparent. It is taking me a long time to realize that I'm not the only person who doesn't accept reality the way that it is once a better explanation and it's completely honest about their perception... After finding your channel I've been able to realize that there are lots of people who feel the way that I do.I look forward to our call
I usually agree with a lot of your takes, Brittany, but I do not think in any way that Trisha has truly changed. Her present day behaviors reflect that. By consistently lying, copyright striking small channels and trying to take away their freedom of speech, and being the worlds biggest hypocrite by never practicing what she preached for almost a year on her soapbox Frenemies. I don't think she has changed for the better at all, and I think she was and continues to be highly manipulative to the audience and to her loved ones.
Even one step forward is representation of change. Might not mean much to you but as someone who works with mentally ill humans, it's something. Compassion means to suffer with, and I know that's hard to do but it's necessary for any real introspection in relation to the human condition 💜
Sometimes I look at Brittany and go “why aren’t I there yet” and then I realize she’s literally a decade ahead of me in life and I have a long journey ahead of me.
Sometimes she feels ageless to me 😂 like she’s so wise she could be in her 40’s but then at others she talks like she’s 20 and about people I should know being in that generation but don’t lol
My German shepherd changed my life. He is so incredibly important to me, and a huge part of changing my trajectory / giving me something to live for and showing me the path out of depression. He taught me joy and brought my family together after decades of issues. When my dad was victim of a hit and run car crash that shattered several vertebrae, my dog stayed by his side while he was bedridden and gently encouraged him to heal. I truly don’t think my dad ever would have walked again if not for the dog. My dad might have succumbed to disability and a gradual downward slide toward death. I too preemptively mourn losing my dog.
emotionally/introspectively intelligent or not, trisha ruined the relationship eons beyond repair when she manipulated her way back into the klein’s home specifically to secretly record ethan in hopes of blackmailing to get what she wanted and when that didn’t work, she falsely accused ethan of sexually harassing her during the entirety of frenemies. who would want that anywhere near their lives?
@@rachelnicole3899 @Rachel Nicole Because it's just a bunch of twisted facts that have been repeated so many times people think they're true. 1) She did not manipulate her way back into their home. Ethan asked her to come back to film a last podcast to promote the merch he was sooo afraid wouldn't sell. 2) She did not "secretly record him in his home." She recorded the podcast that was also recorded by ethan which she has done consistently because her bpd messes with her perception of reality so she wanted to be able to go back and see what happened without all the cuts that are made before the episode is released.
@@eurekai2300 She did not said she was recording. That's not forecoming and it is disrespectful. Also she recorded before and after thw podcast... Also, she accused Ethan of sexual arasment.. Because he made jokes on things she talked and joked about on the podcast. If she was mentally well, she would have sais : I can joke about this but i'm not confortable with you joking about it. That's fair. But Ethan cannot read minds... she knew him, knew how he can be, and didnt say anything.. She is not a healthy person to be around. She selfsabotage and destroy herself and others... it is sad. She is not a baaaad person per se. But the relationship is ruin, and it is 85% her fault
@Eurekai what are you talking about? ever since trisha rage-quit frenemies and regretted ruining the easiest paycheck of her entire life, she’d tweet-bait, mention h3+crew in her videos (several of which she’s since deleted) about how she hopes she can film frenemies again or how she would go back if ethan asked. then her stans start messaging/commenting on various platforms about bringing back frenemies. ethan, who is too stupidly nice for his own good, wanted to end things on a good note bc it would be an overall net positive since they are family, agreed to film a final ep. ethan was stupid and naive to trust her again but not everyone is fully equipped on how to deal with someone as unhinged as trisha paytas on a warpath. Off The Rails #3 - 38:25 ethan discusses trisha’s apology for trying to ruin his life & business by going on a twitter rampage and uploading many rambling videos falsely accusing ethan of horrible things (many of which are deleted now but you can still find reuploads). days before Off The Rails #8, trisha went on keemstar’s podcast which was the last straw for ethan so he shed light on everything that happened previously which led to trisha’s apology in Off The Rails #3. Off The Rails #8 - 1:29:51, ethan talks about that final frenemies recording and how it immediately went sideways bc trisha went there with the sole intention to get ethan to say he lied and everything was his and only his fault. at 1:34:28, he talks about how they (trisha & moses) secretly recorded everything the moment they entered ethan’s home in order to try to catch him in some kind of gotcha moment so they could blackmail him for whatever delusional reason. FYI - california is a 2-party consent state so it’s illegal to record someone without consent. that + possible extortion is pretty disgusting. trisha & moses’ attempted blackmail didn’t work which then led to the events that trisha apologized for in Off The Rails #3. she went for scorched earth on twitter liking tweets calling ethan racist/a woman-hater/anything she could think of, releasing their private messages about money/pay, kalli making the 5% video lying about ethan & hila inviting themselves to disneyland and not paying for their VIP tickets when it was a flat fee for the entire group and ethan & hila insisted on paying multiple times but moses declined, and then trisha making videos falsely accusing ethan of sexual harassment. most likely she probably wanted to be welcomed back with more money + an entirely separate crew catered to her since that was always her point of contention even though she had an incredibly generous contract with ethan for just doing 2 hours of work a week. she thought being a co-host for just one of his shows meant she was entitled as his business partner for his entire production company. she was also angry that she couldn’t get hila’s clothing/production contacts for her sadboy2005 line. she had everything easy and still demanded shortcuts. there was no way anything was ever going to be enough no matter how much ethan tried to appease her.
I was just talking about this with my partner! We're both doing a masters in opposite fields (he's STEM I'm in social sciences) and we're discussing the more we learn and research the more we realize how much information we’re lacking as a collective. Very interesting paradox 🤔
I felt the same way when I was a lab technician at a glaucoma research facility. It was maddening that the more information I obtained about the disease and the various ways can develop in the human body, the more I felt grateful to be in good health because literally every part of the body can form a rash, lesion, tumor, disorder, disease, syndrome, or cancer. It’s insane how much “harmony” the body needs with itself to live to 100 years old.
@@dianadias3 because the people funding the research have no real interest in helping us advance as a society. If there’s no return on investment there’s a good chance there won’t be an investment at all so the research will not go forward without funds.
@@margaridabaldini yes that is right.. But I believe the point in the first comment was not about the research in general, but more focused on individual knowlegde... The more we kno, the more we feel like we don't know everything. That's the paradox of knowledge
“let’s get you to a point where you don’t wanna die anymore” thank you for that. I was diagnosed with Borderline about a year ago and I am at what feels like my absolute limit. I am struggling to get consistent therapy and have a really difficult time processing DBT material outside of group sessions, and online groups have been generally so unhelpful and stressful. Getting better feels so far away, and I really appreciate your honesty and tough love. I’m about to turn 22, which is well past the point I thought I would live when I was 8, wondering what the purpose of being alive was. I am still struggling to find that purpose, knowing death is where I’ll end up whether it’s my choice or not. This does give me hope that I will be able to manage my symptoms, and find my way back to enjoying life and wanting to live. But for now, I am scraping by at rock bottom, looking for a foothold to restart my recovery.
Another absolute banger 👏 I love how you're able to see trisha as human, while still staying true to your observations of her, and therefore your judgements come across as like a family member wanting to see her do better. We're all apart of one big human family on this rock, and I think lots of folks could benefit from a reality check with an 'aunti Brittany' type. I know I have.
Hey! I’m a silent viewer and I have to say, your commentary is very refreshing to hear. Are there any books you can recommend that you found were particularly helpful on your journey of introspection?
Moses really does give me such fake vibes. Also I can’t believe she went on to marry him after the Stealthing allegations. That’s happened to me before and it’s not a fun time.
I disagree that the island boys were just reacting out of ego, & not mental illness. I agree that part of is that they’re dumb & also there’s some ego but there’s no ways those kids don’t have PTSD and likely something else going on as well. They were both in the Florida Juvie & gang systems as very young teens. They’ve gone through some pretty serious violence/trauma. They’ve been getting called-out & attacked online and in real life since they started to get some traction - and I think their trauma experience is that you have to fight or you get turned into someone’s b*tch. To them Having the Impaulsive guys suggest they wouldn’t make it is calling them out as possible failures, and doing it publicly- that is a fight for them. They felt challenged- and their response to that was to go into straight fight back mode. Gang mentality. They do a no jumper interview that is pretty interesting & I think they do another interview (can’t remember where I heard it) where they talk more in-depth about their earlier “success” online in Florida where an older guy who was supposed to be a mentor turned on them.
This is where I lean. I saw trauma all over their reaction. It was very painful to see. They werent only reacting to what they guys said but the layers of fear doubt and pain on top of those words.
Your hair and makeup is absolutely fab today. And 💯 a “philosopher” who doesn’t read is fraudulent. They tend to say things like “I don’t need to read, I already have the answer”
I feel like Trisha has had a growth in introspection since she met Ethan and had a semi consistent group of friends and coworkers who didn't take advantage of her and were there for her after her meltdowns.(For a while) I think she just needs to get out of the public eye so she isn't living with a thousand reflections of her triggered moments. When you burn a bridge you won't be able to heal if you stand in the flames.
Given up on her after CBB. I thought she would be more herself there or something, and not troll. Turns out, she's been her real self all along...yuck. But i think she gained more subs since that time, so people like watching her crap content it seems.
I love how she believes Trisha has changed, lol. Trisha was called out for lying about her sa allegations which was basically the end of her. Now she is scared to do anything in fear more will be exposed. She hasn't changed. She just has a new public persona.
Same thing ;) Change means learning. In the past she's been called out for lying and didn't learn and now she's doing something different. Change means something different than before ♡
Trishas channel is going down hill bc she’s not even her performative self lately. She seems bored all the time but maybe it’s just the lack of chaos in her life/emotions rn. Which obviously is good for her even if she is not getting views. I think she is in a more emotionally stable spot than I’ve ever seen her in and all the witch stuff and blah blah blah is just her trying to figure shit out just like the rest of us. You can tell she feels more and is searching for it even if she’ll never get there.
57:09 thank you for explaining that in the past I felt I had autism because my lack of social awareness when mixed with my intelligence came across as not giving a f***.
The island boy thing - I think they were very overly sensitive but I get why they were upset. It’s annoying that George continued to play dumb like he cannot fathom how someone who is touchy about “if it doesn’t work” could take offense to unsolicited advice. And they asked him to stop and he wouldn’t. The island boys definitely still have touchy egos and need to mature more. I dislike how George handled the situation with them.
George didn’t stop because that was a topic the brothers could just stop to think about, yes he was persistent but seriously what is so wrong about asking someone what would you do if this go sour? They need to learn to be mature enough to hear things take them, think about it and just let it go if they decide to, but at no point they stopped to think about it because they were ego driven and maybe triggered
@@ms.shineray but they did not want to stop and think about it and they made that clear. George is playing dumb when he acts like he doesn’t know why the situation escalated. I don’t know if you properly read my post as I never said there is something wrong with the question. I said that this is something they are sensitive about (yes, overly sensitive and need to mature) and made clear they don’t like to discuss.
@@Coastpsych_fi99 but people can state their boundaries stand their ground in a respectful mature way, not because you think someone is disrespecting you, you have to disrespect them back, act immature or go away into hiding,.
this was a fantastic conclusion to the trisha series on your channel! love watching your analysis of people’s online presence. also, i always look forward to the middle eastern goodbye!! makes me smile every time :)
Long time, old school H3 fan here. Been watching Ethan since what, 2015ish? Before he struct it big and back when him and Hila and his friend made videos in Israel and New York... That said, I fell out of touch with his podcast for years till Frenemies came out and I recognized the problematic Trisha involved. I watch it Evey week like ya would school bus crash. Both in shock and awe and tbh after a few eps, her anti-Semitism was too loud to ignore so when I searched RUclips for Frenemies deep dives, I found you right away and just wow.. Mad respect dude, for real. You're both genuine, ADORABLE and a much needed sensible voice on this matter. I still stan Ethan and H3 podcast, now more than ever since they booted Trisha off but you nailed it time and time again (in real time) mind you and not as a grifter later on, on how toxic she was and blew the lid off this whole roose she had about 'changing for the better/becoming a better person' So thank you. For restoring much needed fate in common sense; the lost art of the 21st century.
Another incredible video! Thank you, Brittany. Your experiences hit so close to home. You have really helped me with radical acceptance for myself and loved ones. I am so appreciative of your nonjudgmental views of other people’s existence. As a recovering borderline, it’s so important to see someone similar to myself thrive in the way you do. Thank you for giving me hope. Have a beautiful day!
I vibed within the first 40 seconds of the video, by 10 minutes I found an excruciatingly hard not to look for the thumbnail for when you were going to start talking again. I didn't have enough spoons to hear these people talk 😂
I’m so glad you’re feeling better. As always, I really enjoyed your point of view! I was wondering if you could do a video on how the levels deal with grief.
When you said you like your tiny corner of the internet that's literally my mantra on my youtube channel. I consistently tell my five returning subscribers not to promote me lol
Did you ever read the four agreements? I hear you talk about radical acceptance often and that book is what lead me to radically accepting society and life and all the ways people are.
man i thought i was pretty happy in my life until i started watching you but now im even better. like i literally am doing amazing mentally and it reflects my reality and my life in general. your thoughts scratch by brain the right way
Looking beautiful Brittany! love listening to you while I paint, even if sometimes I have to stop everything I'm doing to fully be in the moment with your words
For some reason your videos found me . You feel so authentic great delivery and lovely energy 👏 😮 👏 what time are your live shows am here in the UK England 🇬🇧
Hey Brittany! I love your ideas and content. I was curious if you listened to or read Brene brown's work. I feel like her ideas about joy and gratitude overlap with yours. She is definitely worth a listen.
Would you consider looking into either Lex Friedman or Tasha K and assessing their levels? Idk if there is anything there, but I wanted to bring them up. Lol
The island boys reminds me of machine gun Kelly when he first started rapping. He had such a big ego and burned so many bridges with big names in hip hop that he had to change to rock to keep his music career. Even his friends that “went to fame” with him begged him to wait until they were rich and famous to burn bridges, and MGK couldn’t do it. MGK’s downfall kind of reminds me of what happened Limp Bizkit. Fred Durst had the biggest ego in the 90s when Limp Bizkit was huge. He was honestly a real jerk with everyone but his band was big so everyone dealt with it. The moment fans started moving to other bands, Durst had to start being a decent person.
Nah Logan Paul telling them to go call Guinness Book of World Records was condescending but the Island Boys were too stupid to understand the joke - they were so stupid and arrogant that they couldn't tell Logan was making fun of them. George was giving them real advice which is love until one of the twins told him to shut up bc they got offended bc they thought George was calling them poor which he didn't. Edit: That's why one of the twins responded, "I probably make more many than you."
I think that's fair. I didn't see it that way, or at least, if he was, I think it was a fair question and I would have no issue if he spoke to me that way. Though, for be fair, I'm a youtuber, I hear that all the time from everyone haha
@@BrittanySimon yeah, I think it is about perspective. It seemed like they were making fun of them the whole time. I get they’re the gag, but if you’re going to bring someone on the the podcast at least show some respect
Yes!!! Love to not know it all. I think the mysterious nature of life makes it just more fun! 😎 there's always something new to learn so you never get bored
The chilled and sweetened hibiscus tea is called Jamaica in Spanish, pronounced ha-my-kuh. So delicioussssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss. I have a pound of dried hibiscus in my cupboard at all times!
though I thought it was slightly odd that George wasn't even the one who questioned/said that their jewelry wasn't even worth enough. ¿but he was the one catching the flack?
Do you feel that people with neurodivergent brains may have a correlation to higher levels reached easier and/or faster than people with neurotypical brains? Or in people with PTSD or anxiety disorders? 🤔
How do you handle grief in relation to death? This year/month, I lost a close childhood friend to an OD a few weeks ago. then this week, an adult who participated in raising me (my moms best friend) passed to ALS. One was expected and the other was not. I’ve never had to experience death like this until now at the age of 23. I’m struggling with trying to accept the reality, but closure is not being found. If there is anything you have to offer for advice on this, it would be so greatly appreciated. No pressure lol
I wonder if Anna may be histrionic, grouped in cluster b with narcissism. To me histrionic is more dramatic and victimy than narcissism but they share self absorption
Yes! It is one of the most important religious texts for Hindus, the most popular section of the Mahabharata. There's a lot of great philosophy takes that have helped me, I encourage you check it out 🕉️☺️
brittany this whole thing you do now where you speculate on what people have ("i think shes narcissistic") is why i stopped consuming your content. it is crossing a boundary. you do not know these people and it is rude and inappropriate to be speculating on their mental health.
That's fine. We all have different ways of learning. I prefer to observe and understand people based on what I know and what I believe. I've already stated I'm just guessing. If you cannot handle that, move on. It's your boundary, not the worlds.
Bro those island boys clearly haven’t finished second puberty with how quick to emotional reactions they are. I know I’m getting old cause these 20 year olds bring out the mother/mentor side. Lol
One thing you seem to have missed is, that Trisha has never been diagnosed with BPD. A therapist once told her, that she was displaying traits of it (which is why she's claiming to have it), which is not the same as a diagnosis. She has claimed to have DID and Schizophrenia as well, but was also not diagnosed with either of those. This is not to say that she doesn't have a mental illness. I'd say it's pretty clear to see, that she does. Edit: Forgot to mention also - Moses is not on the spectrum. That is something Trisha started saying to belittle him. He himself, his mom and Hila have all denied that he is, and Moses has many times told Trisha to stop saying he is autistic. I love your videos, and I wish you all the happiness!
Good luck out there, babes! Life is chaotic but you don't have to be 💖
Great episode!
2 very different people but you and shallon Lester have a similar ability to analyze and explain humans. Have you watched her channel?
@@SilverLayna Thank you girl!!!
The way my brain works as chaotic, thank you for leading me to the path of mental health, therapy, and hypnosis. I highly suggest anyone try. But more deeply I want to thank you for being the person that you have 'been' your whole life... Willing to ask questions wonder why and transparent. It is taking me a long time to realize that I'm not the only person who doesn't accept reality the way that it is once a better explanation and it's completely honest about their perception... After finding your channel I've been able to realize that there are lots of people who feel the way that I do.I look forward to our call
So excited for this ep
I usually agree with a lot of your takes, Brittany, but I do not think in any way that Trisha has truly changed. Her present day behaviors reflect that. By consistently lying, copyright striking small channels and trying to take away their freedom of speech, and being the worlds biggest hypocrite by never practicing what she preached for almost a year on her soapbox Frenemies. I don't think she has changed for the better at all, and I think she was and continues to be highly manipulative to the audience and to her loved ones.
Even one step forward is representation of change. Might not mean much to you but as someone who works with mentally ill humans, it's something.
Compassion means to suffer with, and I know that's hard to do but it's necessary for any real introspection in relation to the human condition 💜
Sometimes I look at Brittany and go “why aren’t I there yet” and then I realize she’s literally a decade ahead of me in life and I have a long journey ahead of me.
Omg I think this often
mood asf
It’s hard to remember sometimes cause girlie literally looks 20
I'm a decade older and I'm still not there yet, but I'm working toward it.
Sometimes she feels ageless to me 😂 like she’s so wise she could be in her 40’s but then at others she talks like she’s 20 and about people I should know being in that generation but don’t lol
You saying “I think the edible is hitting” made me remember I also took one about 2 hours ago. This made me laugh extremely hard to myself.
😜😜😜😜
My German shepherd changed my life. He is so incredibly important to me, and a huge part of changing my trajectory / giving me something to live for and showing me the path out of depression. He taught me joy and brought my family together after decades of issues. When my dad was victim of a hit and run car crash that shattered several vertebrae, my dog stayed by his side while he was bedridden and gently encouraged him to heal. I truly don’t think my dad ever would have walked again if not for the dog. My dad might have succumbed to disability and a gradual downward slide toward death. I too preemptively mourn losing my dog.
Is It Time To Give Up On Trisha Paytas? My answer is a loud YES!
And that’s on period 😂
It's been time
Without a doubt
Yep, already did lol
emotionally/introspectively intelligent or not, trisha ruined the relationship eons beyond repair when she manipulated her way back into the klein’s home specifically to secretly record ethan in hopes of blackmailing to get what she wanted and when that didn’t work, she falsely accused ethan of sexually harassing her during the entirety of frenemies. who would want that anywhere near their lives?
Whaaaaaattttt??? I haven’t heard about any of that???!!
@@rachelnicole3899 @Rachel Nicole Because it's just a bunch of twisted facts that have been repeated so many times people think they're true.
1) She did not manipulate her way back into their home. Ethan asked her to come back to film a last podcast to promote the merch he was sooo afraid wouldn't sell.
2) She did not "secretly record him in his home." She recorded the podcast that was also recorded by ethan which she has done consistently because her bpd messes with her perception of reality so she wanted to be able to go back and see what happened without all the cuts that are made before the episode is released.
@@eurekai2300 She did not said she was recording. That's not forecoming and it is disrespectful.
Also she recorded before and after thw podcast...
Also, she accused Ethan of sexual arasment..
Because he made jokes on things she talked and joked about on the podcast.
If she was mentally well, she would have sais : I can joke about this but i'm not confortable with you joking about it. That's fair. But Ethan cannot read minds... she knew him, knew how he can be, and didnt say anything..
She is not a healthy person to be around. She selfsabotage and destroy herself and others... it is sad. She is not a baaaad person per se. But the relationship is ruin, and it is 85% her fault
@Eurekai
what are you talking about? ever since trisha rage-quit frenemies and regretted ruining the easiest paycheck of her entire life, she’d tweet-bait, mention h3+crew in her videos (several of which she’s since deleted) about how she hopes she can film frenemies again or how she would go back if ethan asked. then her stans start messaging/commenting on various platforms about bringing back frenemies. ethan, who is too stupidly nice for his own good, wanted to end things on a good note bc it would be an overall net positive since they are family, agreed to film a final ep.
ethan was stupid and naive to trust her again but not everyone is fully equipped on how to deal with someone as unhinged as trisha paytas on a warpath.
Off The Rails #3 - 38:25 ethan discusses trisha’s apology for trying to ruin his life & business by going on a twitter rampage and uploading many rambling videos falsely accusing ethan of horrible things (many of which are deleted now but you can still find reuploads).
days before Off The Rails #8, trisha went on keemstar’s podcast which was the last straw for ethan so he shed light on everything that happened previously which led to trisha’s apology in Off The Rails #3.
Off The Rails #8 - 1:29:51, ethan talks about that final frenemies recording and how it immediately went sideways bc trisha went there with the sole intention to get ethan to say he lied and everything was his and only his fault.
at 1:34:28, he talks about how they (trisha & moses) secretly recorded everything the moment they entered ethan’s home in order to try to catch him in some kind of gotcha moment so they could blackmail him for whatever delusional reason.
FYI - california is a 2-party consent state so it’s illegal to record someone without consent. that + possible extortion is pretty disgusting.
trisha & moses’ attempted blackmail didn’t work which then led to the events that trisha apologized for in Off The Rails #3.
she went for scorched earth on twitter liking tweets calling ethan racist/a woman-hater/anything she could think of, releasing their private messages about money/pay, kalli making the 5% video lying about ethan & hila inviting themselves to disneyland and not paying for their VIP tickets when it was a flat fee for the entire group and ethan & hila insisted on paying multiple times but moses declined, and then trisha making videos falsely accusing ethan of sexual harassment.
most likely she probably wanted to be welcomed back with more money + an entirely separate crew catered to her since that was always her point of contention even though she had an incredibly generous contract with ethan for just doing 2 hours of work a week. she thought being a co-host for just one of his shows meant she was entitled as his business partner for his entire production company. she was also angry that she couldn’t get hila’s clothing/production contacts for her sadboy2005 line. she had everything easy and still demanded shortcuts. there was no way anything was ever going to be enough no matter how much ethan tried to appease her.
I was just talking about this with my partner! We're both doing a masters in opposite fields (he's STEM I'm in social sciences) and we're discussing the more we learn and research the more we realize how much information we’re lacking as a collective. Very interesting paradox 🤔
Yeah why that happens?
I felt the same way when I was a lab technician at a glaucoma research facility. It was maddening that the more information I obtained about the disease and the various ways can develop in the human body, the more I felt grateful to be in good health because literally every part of the body can form a rash, lesion, tumor, disorder, disease, syndrome, or cancer. It’s insane how much “harmony” the body needs with itself to live to 100 years old.
@@dianadias3 because the people funding the research have no real interest in helping us advance as a society. If there’s no return on investment there’s a good chance there won’t be an investment at all so the research will not go forward without funds.
@@margaridabaldini yes that is right.. But I believe the point in the first comment was not about the research in general, but more focused on individual knowlegde...
The more we kno, the more we feel like we don't know everything. That's the paradox of knowledge
“let’s get you to a point where you don’t wanna die anymore” thank you for that. I was diagnosed with Borderline about a year ago and I am at what feels like my absolute limit. I am struggling to get consistent therapy and have a really difficult time processing DBT material outside of group sessions, and online groups have been generally so unhelpful and stressful.
Getting better feels so far away, and I really appreciate your honesty and tough love. I’m about to turn 22, which is well past the point I thought I would live when I was 8, wondering what the purpose of being alive was. I am still struggling to find that purpose, knowing death is where I’ll end up whether it’s my choice or not. This does give me hope that I will be able to manage my symptoms, and find my way back to enjoying life and wanting to live. But for now, I am scraping by at rock bottom, looking for a foothold to restart my recovery.
Wishing you a wonderful journey! Sounds like you're heading in a great direction ♡
watching the end of frenemies never gets easier
It is sooooooo uncomfortable, I physically can’t watch it, had to skip over
RIP
Yup that was painful!
Another absolute banger 👏 I love how you're able to see trisha as human, while still staying true to your observations of her, and therefore your judgements come across as like a family member wanting to see her do better. We're all apart of one big human family on this rock, and I think lots of folks could benefit from a reality check with an 'aunti Brittany' type. I know I have.
why is it so fitting to me that moses doesnt read books lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hey! I’m a silent viewer and I have to say, your commentary is very refreshing to hear. Are there any books you can recommend that you found were particularly helpful on your journey of introspection?
That’s what I want to know too
Moses really does give me such fake vibes. Also I can’t believe she went on to marry him after the Stealthing allegations. That’s happened to me before and it’s not a fun time.
I disagree that the island boys were just reacting out of ego, & not mental illness. I agree that part of is that they’re dumb & also there’s some ego but there’s no ways those kids don’t have PTSD and likely something else going on as well. They were both in the Florida Juvie & gang systems as very young teens. They’ve gone through some pretty serious violence/trauma. They’ve been getting called-out & attacked online and in real life since they started to get some traction - and I think their trauma experience is that you have to fight or you get turned into someone’s b*tch. To them Having the Impaulsive guys suggest they wouldn’t make it is calling them out as possible failures, and doing it publicly- that is a fight for them. They felt challenged- and their response to that was to go into straight fight back mode. Gang mentality. They do a no jumper interview that is pretty interesting & I think they do another interview (can’t remember where I heard it) where they talk more in-depth about their earlier “success” online in Florida where an older guy who was supposed to be a mentor turned on them.
Fair. Ptsd is very possible.
This is where I lean. I saw trauma all over their reaction. It was very painful to see. They werent only reacting to what they guys said but the layers of fear doubt and pain on top of those words.
Omg im so excited to hear your take! I just binge watched all of your fresh and fit content. I love it! Have a wonderful night Brittany. 💕
Thank you! You too!💕
Your hair and makeup is absolutely fab today. And 💯 a “philosopher” who doesn’t read is fraudulent. They tend to say things like “I don’t need to read, I already have the answer”
I feel like Trisha has had a growth in introspection since she met Ethan and had a semi consistent group of friends and coworkers who didn't take advantage of her and were there for her after her meltdowns.(For a while) I think she just needs to get out of the public eye so she isn't living with a thousand reflections of her triggered moments. When you burn a bridge you won't be able to heal if you stand in the flames.
Given up on her after CBB. I thought she would be more herself there or something, and not troll. Turns out, she's been her real self all along...yuck. But i think she gained more subs since that time, so people like watching her crap content it seems.
came here after seeing you on destiny's channel. I like how empathetic/understanding you are, i look forward to checking out the rest of your content.
Welcome!!!!!!
I love how she believes Trisha has changed, lol. Trisha was called out for lying about her sa allegations which was basically the end of her. Now she is scared to do anything in fear more will be exposed. She hasn't changed. She just has a new public persona.
Same thing ;) Change means learning. In the past she's been called out for lying and didn't learn and now she's doing something different.
Change means something different than before ♡
Trishas channel is going down hill bc she’s not even her performative self lately. She seems bored all the time but maybe it’s just the lack of chaos in her life/emotions rn. Which obviously is good for her even if she is not getting views. I think she is in a more emotionally stable spot than I’ve ever seen her in and all the witch stuff and blah blah blah is just her trying to figure shit out just like the rest of us. You can tell she feels more and is searching for it even if she’ll never get there.
i really can’t express how much your videos have helped me learn so much about myself. thanks for another great video 🖤
Brittany, this was one of your most powerful videos. holy shit. you pulled a couple quotes but i was noting YOURS.
THANK YOU LAURITA!!!! I really appreciate that 🙏
I wld LOVE to know your take on her arc since and because of the Colleen thing.
Beautiful way to say goodbye to a train wreck of a journey!
57:09 thank you for explaining that in the past I felt I had autism because my lack of social awareness when mixed with my intelligence came across as not giving a f***.
The island boy thing - I think they were very overly sensitive but I get why they were upset. It’s annoying that George continued to play dumb like he cannot fathom how someone who is touchy about “if it doesn’t work” could take offense to unsolicited advice. And they asked him to stop and he wouldn’t. The island boys definitely still have touchy egos and need to mature more. I dislike how George handled the situation with them.
George didn’t stop because that was a topic the brothers could just stop to think about, yes he was persistent but seriously what is so wrong about asking someone what would you do if this go sour? They need to learn to be mature enough to hear things take them, think about it and just let it go if they decide to, but at no point they stopped to think about it because they were ego driven and maybe triggered
@@ms.shineray but they did not want to stop and think about it and they made that clear. George is playing dumb when he acts like he doesn’t know why the situation escalated. I don’t know if you properly read my post as I never said there is something wrong with the question. I said that this is something they are sensitive about (yes, overly sensitive and need to mature) and made clear they don’t like to discuss.
@@ms.shineray Well it’s about respecting peoples boundaries and where they are at. They were clearly uncomfortable and it likely triggered them.
@@Coastpsych_fi99 but people can state their boundaries stand their ground in a respectful mature way, not because you think someone is disrespecting you, you have to disrespect them back, act immature or go away into hiding,.
I recently had a debate about reading. The counter was that a person can live up to their full potential without reading books. We agreed to disagree.
Good one
‘Girl, we always want to die. So let’s get you to a point where you don’t want to die.’ I’m not gonna lie, that hit home.
this was a fantastic conclusion to the trisha series on your channel! love watching your analysis of people’s online presence.
also, i always look forward to the middle eastern goodbye!! makes me smile every time :)
Long time, old school H3 fan here.
Been watching Ethan since what, 2015ish? Before he struct it big and back when him and Hila and his friend made videos in Israel and New York...
That said, I fell out of touch with his podcast for years till Frenemies came out and I recognized the problematic Trisha involved.
I watch it Evey week like ya would school bus crash. Both in shock and awe and tbh after a few eps, her anti-Semitism was too loud to ignore so when I searched RUclips for Frenemies deep dives, I found you right away and just wow..
Mad respect dude, for real. You're both genuine, ADORABLE and a much needed sensible voice on this matter.
I still stan Ethan and H3 podcast, now more than ever since they booted Trisha off but you nailed it time and time again (in real time) mind you and not as a grifter later on, on how toxic she was and blew the lid off this whole roose she had about 'changing for the better/becoming a better person'
So thank you. For restoring much needed fate in common sense; the lost art of the 21st century.
Another incredible video! Thank you, Brittany. Your experiences hit so close to home. You have really helped me with radical acceptance for myself and loved ones. I am so appreciative of your nonjudgmental views of other people’s existence. As a recovering borderline, it’s so important to see someone similar to myself thrive in the way you do. Thank you for giving me hope. Have a beautiful day!
Thank you Emma!!! I'm so happy to hear you're doing well. That BPD brain really had a tendency to close us off. Happy recovery ♡
I took the “playing with the big boys now” as a prince of Egypt reference and I loved it
“Life is chaotic but you don’t have to be” 👏👏 thanks for talking with us today Brittany, I really appreciate it 💕💕. Hope you’re feeling better!
Yesss so excited! NGL it makes my day better whenever you post
I hope you enjoy this one!!!!
@@BrittanySimon loved it!! I have BPD too and am at the final intake appointment step to start DBT
@@ASMRGirlsTired Awesome!!!! HAPPY Dbting!!!
so excited for this discussion!!!!
I vibed within the first 40 seconds of the video, by 10 minutes I found an excruciatingly hard not to look for the thumbnail for when you were going to start talking again. I didn't have enough spoons to hear these people talk 😂
I’m so glad you’re feeling better. As always, I really enjoyed your point of view!
I was wondering if you could do a video on how the levels deal with grief.
You already know I turned on my reminder for this!
When you said you like your tiny corner of the internet that's literally my mantra on my youtube channel. I consistently tell my five returning subscribers not to promote me lol
so glad youre feeling better !!! god i love this channel
THANK YOU TINA!!!!
Blessed with yet another podcast from your channel, thank you!!! ❤️🙏🏼
…I think you may have missed quite a few moments from Trisha, judging from this “trish has changed for the better” or even “changed at all” take.
Watch the whole video first.
I completely agree with you
@@conradkorbol Indeed, I am very optimistic ♡
29:46 I thought she was going to say I'm not worried about my stalker because I'm super 'saiyan' (safe)
Just wanna give a(nother) thank you for being a model to show how to be better
Did you ever read the four agreements? I hear you talk about radical acceptance often and that book is what lead me to radically accepting society and life and all the ways people are.
man i thought i was pretty happy in my life until i started watching you but now im even better. like i literally am doing amazing mentally and it reflects my reality and my life in general. your thoughts scratch by brain the right way
Right I started reading when I was old enough to start I’m 71 years old and still read.
I wish my mom could hear 58:10 whew that’s a powerful statement!
Looking beautiful Brittany! love listening to you while I paint, even if sometimes I have to stop everything I'm doing to fully be in the moment with your words
“We’re gonna cut this part out”
Yeah we’ll see about that 😭😂
I can’t believe it’s been 6 months already
I was literally thinking I hope you do another video on Trisha and yesss here we gooooans your hair looks so good the curls are popping
What's the song at the end of the video? I've been thinking of it lately.
My friends music but she isn't ready to go public yet ♡
@@BrittanySimon its a beautiful song, I hope she becomes ready to go public one day.
For some reason your videos found me . You feel so authentic great delivery and lovely energy 👏 😮 👏 what time are your live shows am here in the UK England 🇬🇧
Hey Brittany! I love your ideas and content. I was curious if you listened to or read Brene brown's work. I feel like her ideas about joy and gratitude overlap with yours. She is definitely worth a listen.
26:54 *starts singing you’re playing with the big boys now from Prince of Egypt*
I unsubbed also. I do hope the best for her always though, and I hope you are doing well also Brittany 💜💙💚
Thank you Jessie! You tooo!!!! Happy 2022 girl!!!
I wish u could do audio book. Your voice is lovely to listen to
Would you consider looking into either Lex Friedman or Tasha K and assessing their levels? Idk if there is anything there, but I wanted to bring them up. Lol
Omgoodness CANNOT WAIT for this one! Love every one your videos!! ❤️❤️
The island boys reminds me of machine gun Kelly when he first started rapping. He had such a big ego and burned so many bridges with big names in hip hop that he had to change to rock to keep his music career. Even his friends that “went to fame” with him begged him to wait until they were rich and famous to burn bridges, and MGK couldn’t do it.
MGK’s downfall kind of reminds me of what happened Limp Bizkit. Fred Durst had the biggest ego in the 90s when Limp Bizkit was huge. He was honestly a real jerk with everyone but his band was big so everyone dealt with it. The moment fans started moving to other bands, Durst had to start being a decent person.
SO READY FOR THIS!
Will you cover the Sienna Mae SA allegations? You would have intersting thoughts about it. :)
Great video! I just found you 😁new subscriber 🤩thank you 💖
I look up to you so much & am so glad I found you
I mean from what I watched, George was also being condescending
Nah Logan Paul telling them to go call Guinness Book of World Records was condescending but the Island Boys were too stupid to understand the joke - they were so stupid and arrogant that they couldn't tell Logan was making fun of them. George was giving them real advice which is love until one of the twins told him to shut up bc they got offended bc they thought George was calling them poor which he didn't.
Edit: That's why one of the twins responded, "I probably make more many than you."
I think that's fair. I didn't see it that way, or at least, if he was, I think it was a fair question and I would have no issue if he spoke to me that way. Though, for be fair, I'm a youtuber, I hear that all the time from everyone haha
@@BrittanySimon yeah, I think it is about perspective. It seemed like they were making fun of them the whole time. I get they’re the gag, but if you’re going to bring someone on the the podcast at least show some respect
Hey brittney! So I want to start reading, but I've always disliked it, do you have any recommendations?
I've been waiting for this ^^
Absolutely! Can’t wait to watch this
Girl how are you so beautiful & so intelligent 🤦🏼♀️🙄 FUHHHHHK, I love the dress & how it compliments your curls too ♥️❤️ is your dress from lulus?
Yes!!! Love to not know it all. I think the mysterious nature of life makes it just more fun! 😎 there's always something new to learn so you never get bored
The chilled and sweetened hibiscus tea is called Jamaica in Spanish, pronounced ha-my-kuh. So delicioussssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss. I have a pound of dried hibiscus in my cupboard at all times!
Another great video Brittany! Always love listening to you speak. Take care XOXO
Island boys have my vote, I didn't see ego, I feel like G's session is not a useful conversation in a settling like that
though I thought it was slightly odd that George wasn't even the one who questioned/said that their jewelry wasn't even worth enough. ¿but he was the one catching the flack?
Still when someone gives you an advice, you take it and thank the person..
So rude of them
Do you feel that people with neurodivergent brains may have a correlation to higher levels reached easier and/or faster than people with neurotypical brains? Or in people with PTSD or anxiety disorders? 🤔
How do you handle grief in relation to death? This year/month, I lost a close childhood friend to an OD a few weeks ago. then this week, an adult who participated in raising me (my moms best friend) passed to ALS. One was expected and the other was not. I’ve never had to experience death like this until now at the age of 23. I’m struggling with trying to accept the reality, but closure is not being found. If there is anything you have to offer for advice on this, it would be so greatly appreciated. No pressure lol
What level do you think Hasan Piker in? You should do a video about him and his level.
I wonder if Anna may be histrionic, grouped in cluster b with narcissism. To me histrionic is more dramatic and victimy than narcissism but they share self absorption
that dress color on you!!! 😍😍😍 holy cow ❤️
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I’m so here for your content recently!
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the way anna speaks reminds me very much of jody arias and i`m scared
I don't think the Bhagavad Gita is a 2C book. Hbu? Love your content Brittany!
I don't know that book. Is that the last one she held up? That was hard for her to read?
I'll check it out!
Yes! It is one of the most important religious texts for Hindus, the most popular section of the Mahabharata. There's a lot of great philosophy takes that have helped me, I encourage you check it out 🕉️☺️
@@danringdahl41 I will! Sounds great ♡
I have been waiting for thiiis, yeees💜💜
yes. I liked her mukbangs but ever since she got married heck got moses as her boyfriend it's been boring.
They are so boring. I’ve never seen 2 people that have zero chemistry like them
Book recommendations ?
Everything!!! I did just finish Five Lives Remembered by Dolores Cannon and am currently reading The Life Of Plants and The Body Keeps The Score.
Gorl… I thought we gave up on Trisha a long time ago 😂
All her books and none have even been cracked open
Can you react to Encanto Movie !
Her happiness spell is an epic fail. I would not buy her book of spells. 🤣
I just can't play your videos at 2x speed.
brittany this whole thing you do now where you speculate on what people have ("i think shes narcissistic") is why i stopped consuming your content. it is crossing a boundary. you do not know these people and it is rude and inappropriate to be speculating on their mental health.
That's fine. We all have different ways of learning. I prefer to observe and understand people based on what I know and what I believe. I've already stated I'm just guessing. If you cannot handle that, move on. It's your boundary, not the worlds.
My fav is how you say figure
ok daaaaamn you're fabulous!!!!!!!
This thumbnail 😂
Bro those island boys clearly haven’t finished second puberty with how quick to emotional reactions they are. I know I’m getting old cause these 20 year olds bring out the mother/mentor side. Lol
One thing you seem to have missed is, that Trisha has never been diagnosed with BPD. A therapist once told her, that she was displaying traits of it (which is why she's claiming to have it), which is not the same as a diagnosis. She has claimed to have DID and Schizophrenia as well, but was also not diagnosed with either of those.
This is not to say that she doesn't have a mental illness. I'd say it's pretty clear to see, that she does.
Edit: Forgot to mention also - Moses is not on the spectrum. That is something Trisha started saying to belittle him. He himself, his mom and Hila have all denied that he is, and Moses has many times told Trisha to stop saying he is autistic.
I love your videos, and I wish you all the happiness!
Wow gurl! You looking beautiful like the outfit wished you took a bit to fully flaunt your look