How Letting Go Can Make You Unstoppable
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- One really important key to become the man you want to be is developing a deeper awareness and relationship with your body, feelings, and emotions so you're more conscious and can release and let go of all the thoughts and beliefs that are the real things holding you back from being the man you want to be and living the FULL life you want.
We've become too analytical and heady as a society today, and especially as men. A strong logical, analytical mind can be a powerful tool, but too often these days it comes at the expense of our relationship to our feelings, emotions, and relationship with our physical body.
When we're SO caught up in our analytical minds - when we're so stuck in our heads - that we lose the feelings of really being deeply in touch with our body, we lose touch with our emotions and form more subconscious thoughts and beliefs about ourselves, life, and what's possible. That subconscious baggage is what's weighing you down in any area of your life that you're not happy with or not progressing quickly in the right direction. Becoming conscious of it, fully facing it, and letting it go is the key to become the man you want to be, accomplishing your goals, having the relationships, dating, and sex life you want, the adventures and experiences you want to have, and just living a "fuck yes!" dream life...the man you were born to be.
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"Are your beliefs and thoughts holding you back in life?"
*Camera nods*
Good modern day trsnslation of chakra's
This is why I appreciate you Brian. You have a gift for getting to the meat and potatoes of the issues plaguing society specifically us Men and offering real nail on the head solutions no one else thinks of on what really matters ,getting to the real root of things intellectually emotionally not just band aid solutions or dancing around the point with jabber that doesn't help and solutions that don't completely get to the root. Keep doing your great work you are a true humanitarian in my eyes and warrior. Love you brother
Great compliment! Thank you
Can't say enough good about Brian!
Thanks!
@@TheFearlessMan I second that comment (as did 17 other people)!
Hey Brian, I would think that you'd be able to put one of these coaching sessions on in the Seattle area because Seattle is full of introverted computer programmers who have tons of money. I'm not one of those guys with tons of cash, but I do need this training and have a VISA card! :) Google "Seattle freeze". (There are hotels in SeaTac/Tukwila/Renton (which is close to the airport), and up in Alderwood/Lynnwood... all of which would probably be cheaper than using a hotel in the Seattle city limits).
Thanks for all these wonderful hope-providing, depression destroying videos!
I love you man.you helped me to change my reality.thank you
This is life changing, thank you Brian💪🏼
Love to hear that! Glad it connected so well for you. How has it helped you?
The Fearless Man I always felt that changing thoughts and beliefs isn’t enough, but you explained the process perfectly, I had tendency to analyze everything, your videos help me stay in the body 👌🏼
You my friend is my Mentor. Thank you.
These high quality videos could have so many more views
Bro please come to South india
Im ready to join you.
Are you familiar with Simon Sinek? He has a video: "Why Leaders eat last" here on youtube. He talks more about what makes a good leader, and he goes back to the caveman days and the relationship to the Alpha male, I see a lot of dynamics between what the two of you teach. If you havent checked it out I think youd find it very interesting and maybe even applicable in your own works. I liked this video, lots and lots of info! looking forward to next one!
This literally is the work for all of us humans! Who is your female counterpart doing this work?
Meaning someone that women can do this work with as well.
I'm not religious, but you are doing God's work
That’s extremely high praise. Thank you
Iam really depressed before watching the video.. But after knowing the truth.. Feeling good...instantly feeling great after i try to ground...
Awesome! Glad to hear that
good you in the first stages of becoming what you really are :P.or you were back then. i guess by now the robotification must have been progressed. the "truth" always makes you feel good instantly. we are so fucking stupid
Another awesome video thank you! Like the chakras!
Awesome Video!
Brian, I meditate every morning and currently I'm listening to your meditation Video from last year July while I meditate. Could you do another meditation guideance? Would help immensly! Thank you!!
Noted. Glad it's helped!
Great insight, as always!
Glad it connected!
I love the new Intro music :) Content of the video is even better. I feel like I am declining with all that NLP stuff.
Letting go gives me so much relief and helps me enjoying the moment.
Glad it's helping!
Name of music plz
Explain to me what happened to human beings that all this stuff is even necessary. I think alot of this sounds real and pretty deep. Deeper than the typical bs u see out there. I feel this had to have been natural for humans in the past. What the fuck ruined so many people.
Our analytical minds and technology/modern life and the overwhelming amount of stimuli that comes at us every day. It's part of our evolution as a society-now we have to find balance
I've been watching your videos for a while and applying it to my life. Ive being aware where my attention is throughout the day whether I'm in my head or my body and i can say that the moment I go into my body I feel like I become a magnet for people to come up to me
Very cool man! - Andrew, TFM Team
I found your stuff last year. I have been incredibly busy, and a lot has happened in my life, but it was a huge breakthrough to realise that what I feel on a moment to moment basis is really important. And that emotions won't destroy you if you allow yourself to experience them.
I definitely have much more work to do, but I feel much better now thanks to your advice about just basically allowing yourself to feel, good or bad. As men we're taught to stuff down emotions, and this can cause a lot of pain in the long run.
Glad to hear it's all helped!
You just remember me that attraction =trust (heart) +lust (the balls)
A beautiful mission you have accepted, Brian. I'm glad and eternally grateful that I found your videos two years ago browsing for dating tips. This is more than I expected, but I think it is what I needed. I have a good feeling about this. The true effect of your work may never even be visible to you. I am a powerful, embodied man. I will fuck beauty into this world. Thank you.
I’m married so the pickup part may not apply to me. But I love what you’re doing here about grounding!
BTW, Landmark Forum?
I did a little bit of it in the past, yes. Glad you like the grounding stuff
Hey Brian I just sent you an email with subject "literallycaneven" about this video. Please read it when you can.
About 3 weeks ago, my intuition told me to sleep naked, i did, feels great, like im more image confident and its very freeing opening, nicer.
what do u mean when u say grounding , I feel all these but whats grounding ?
I can't find your books in amazon or audible, it is a shame I would like to buy them but I am not willing to get out of amazon ecosystem
Hi, your stuff is so good; could you give the link to the video minute 11:15 ?
Thank you for this video, I'm really interested in a life change, do you have a series of videos or can you make a series of videos for the people like me who may not be able to meet you in person but is really hungry for a change in their life. Thanks again and any help will be highly appreciated
There are tons of videos on the channel. Not sure what you mean
The Fearless Man I'm talking about a series with you getting more in-depth with the areas in the body you pointed out in this video
Sounds like your offering some psychedelic treatment :)
I really respect and appreciate your work and would love to participate. Unfortunately I live in Peru and will move to Austria next month.
I’m quite sure there is no possibly effective way to take part remotely right?
Guys fly from all over for programs!
You are the one that says not to analyze shit and you are the one that does it the most.
Thank you.... immensely.
You're welcome!
Hi brain does this work for OCD?
Cool theme song!
Im confused about letting go. Can someone answer this. If I don't become attached to the outcome ...because I know something better will come if I don't so therefor im always happy with or without the goal...then, I noticed my motivation depleted however my happiness went up
Can you be more specific about what you are confused with?
Landon, TFM
@@TheFearlessMan totally. And thanks for getting back. Purchased the book btw and love it. Half way through. So back to my question like, when you “let go “ of attachment I find my motivation to accomplish that goal gone …you know that old saying “burn the boats, go all in live or die mentality” I been living like that and I’m not happy until I take the “land” or like a client for a real world example. But, with this letting go strategy you gentlemen are saying “be happy no matter what, win or loose because there is always something better for you in the future”
Very interesting!..what do you think about somebody with all this issues and also feels dificulty expressing himself verbally since he doesn't speak the languaje well? Any advice or suggestion?
I started watching and a few seconds in I realized he's only addressing men, and straight ones. I still wonder why.
I'm not him and and am in no way associated with this channel, but it is probably because his business is teaching self-improvement and dating to men who are interested in women.
I think that his videos probably apply to any man who needs to be more self accepting and needs to step into his masculine confidence and connect with his emotions.
Here's something I find interesting: Every gay man I have ever met (and also Elton John) had a horrible relationship with his father (that they don't want to talk about) and felt that their father did not love them at all.
Years ago, back when I was still a Christian, I saw a video on RUclips of a guy who was gay and then turned straight after becoming a Christian (and imagining that he was experiencing the totally unconditional love and approval of Jesus).
He said something that was very interesting... He said that he had sex with men because he was looking for the approval and love his father never showed him in the eyes of his partner. I thought that was very interesting because it appeared to confirm my suspicion.
In today's society, my inference that there could be something that is not totally emotionally 100% in the psychology of a person who was "born this way" is considered hate speech, but I've always wondered what would happen if a gay man who had a terrible relationship with his father got therapy to work through his emotions about feeling rejected and unloved by his father.
Society (Lady Gaga? :) insisting that there is absolutely nothing to address/investigate/improve/correct actually does a great disservice to anyone who would actually like to change their orientation for some reason (I'm NOT saying that they SHOULD want to!).
As for me, I live and let live and have no judgements about anyone or how anyone acts or lives. After all, it is none of my damn business.
But I do have this little theory... but I don't know if it is right or wrong.
Have a fantastic day!
Brian, I think the process of embodiment is very abstract. I watched several of your videos but I don't get it. I think I feel already too much, and I don't understand how this relates to the body. I studied "letting go" and Sedona method, read several books on it, but so far it didn't affect my (nonexistent) love life.
It makes a tonne of sense Brian, now this explains to me what Chakras are and most importantly how to have access to them.
glad this helped
13:25 NAILED IT AS USUAL!!!
Brian Thanks so much You are amazing. I've never seen such an impactful video. AWESOME
Very good
Nothing works if you are living in Japan as a foreigner:)
After watching this video, I've become convinced that this approach to not only meeting women, but living your life in general, is the truth. However, I can't make it all the way to LA for some time yet, but I would like to get started on this process ASAP. What sources do you recommend I research in order to learn the process of feeling your body and letting go in my own time, or without a mentor?
Here's a post I just published:www.thefearlessman.com/start-believing-in-yourself-with-these-powerful-but-simple-steps/
And here's one on grounding: www.thefearlessman.com/5-steps-to-develop-and-become-a-grounded-man/
Poke around the website. Also check out The Brotherhood program on the site
Hey Brian, I love your content it's just helpful and inspirational. So my problem is lately I became to have this fear of talking to women which I hadn't before and It reflects automatically on my relationships and I began to have any results with women. So right know I begin to talk to random women in the streets or at the bar i got some numbers but the confidence isn't here (maybe after getting the number) but after that, it's gone and I go back every time to point 0.
See if this resonates: www.thefearlessman.com/what-if-youre-getting-more-emotional-as-you-work-on-yourself/
Brian ,I haven't seen a pretty girls yet in US.I had lots of beautiful girls in Europe especially in Czech republic,but very seldom an average girl in USA.I was spoiled
There are tons of beautiful women in the US
How do you get in touch with fear
Do things that scare you. f nothing scares you but you know something's off, you're probably in Apathy: www.thefearlessman.com/get-out-of-a-funk-apathy-depression-qa/
What is love?
What does love mean?
Baby don’t hurt me
Anyone know what that intro song is? It’s Fantastic
I'll try to find out for you Scott - Andrew, TFM Staff
Hey Scott, It's a song Fearless licensed so there are complications to giving out the source. Sorry bro :) I guess just watch a lot of Fearless videos lol
@@TheFearlessMan lol all good, appreciate you looking into it
So this is basically a tantra course focused on men's development?
Not really, Fearless principles draw on a wide range of sources. Brian put together the things that he teaches over a period of years and he's never been focused on tantra. - Andrew, TFM Team
Brian so approaching more women or doing more public speaking and feeling the anxiety is a form of releasing ?
Allowing yourself to feel it-yes. A big part of letting go is actually allowing. Letting go of your resistance to feeling it
That was just wonderful 😇😇😇
STONE COLD STONE COLD STONE COLD
Someday I would love to attend your events..
But for now I can't can you help me with something which is..I am still angry about my ex ditching me been I am releasing on it but it still runs me from inside I have been releasing on it.. how do I let that feeling of anger out..
Thanks for your question again Arshad. I'm linking a video that goes in-depth into this but there is a particularly good technique for releasing anger that Brian discusses. Anger is fundamentally a response to a feeling of insecurity. Anger by itself is volatile and gets sprayed around but from a place of courage we can direct the energy of our anger towards that insecurity. This means for example not directing the anger at your ex because she is not really the source of the insecurity. The real source of the insecurity is the internal self-judgement that gets triggered by being dumped. Use this video to learn more and start to focus the raw energy of anger towards those self-judgements. - Andrew, The Fearless Man
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@@TheFearlessMan Thank you so much. Team fearless has been nothing else except pure blessing in my life.
You people are going to leave the world in a better place than you found it and that is such a great achievement.
May God bless you all with unlimited success and gratitude.
I love you all..
Many thanks Arshad :) We're doing our best. Very glad to hear we have been helpful to you brother _/\_
I love your content! it really helps me! love everything despite the grounding cable of the battery, that is a bad metaphor haha
Glad the content is helping!
1) what would you say about guys who have low testosterone - surely they need some medical assistance as well.
2) I know you're not a classical pick up artist and have nothing to prove; but why don't you record some 'in-field' footage to illustrate your point. For example a few approaches using bad technique on purpose and a few approaches using good technique and energy etc
Sometimes addressing your issues medically can be really good-if you’re not taking care of your health, everything else will be slower and harder to shift. But I’d look at whether there are underlying emotional/behavioral issues that are contributing as well: Ie overuse of porn and masterbation, or just emotions and past experiences relating to your Sex and dating life that you’re numbing out, that could be the core cause of the low testosterone
Well, don't make it an exuse. I had low testosterone. Basically I don't have testicles and can't produce my own testosterone. It gave me a pretty delayed puberty, but now I feel and function as a masculine guy. Nobody can tell that I don't produce my own. I got medical help. If I hadn't, I would still be sitting weak and with a child voice in my parents house. Now I live on my own and I'm one of the most popular men at my school. Get help if you can't help yourself man.
Julian I - show me the money.
@@TheFearlessMan you completely avoided Daniel K's question about footage of you in the field. Why?
Hey bro how come you dont talk about facing the dark aspects and feeling depressed for a while due to repressed emotions from long time ago coming to surface the more you let go?
That's certainly a part of it I've talked about in other videos. I think I was just more focused on other things in this particular one
thanks for the reply mah man, btw, is it normal if the more i let go the more my shyness and social anxiety worsens?
wakeel himself
Social Anxiety is a learned perception of threat, when you stress this prolong enough to your body's nervous system, you have emotional disorder which will activate the FFF Respond (This is the intense fear and a dysfunctional Fight Flight Freeze Respond)
Amazing.
Im too much inside my head😪. Too much judgement inside my head as well. Being in present is hard time for me
I feel it
So work on it!
Wow nice video man .can sombody telles me the music in the intro plz
It's a mix our editor put together
Anyway to get it?
When is the next workshop in europe?
Hi Adam, the specific weeklong I'm talking about in this video is only going to be in LA for now, but we have seminars and intensives in Bucharest again at the end of September/into October. You can find them at www.thefearlessman.com/events/
Im 22 and I'm dead broke both financially and emotionally
23 here, kind of same thing (well broke most of the time, but have a father I'm grateful for his financial support). But head up. Work on it, slowly. Can only get better. Don't victimize yourself though.
Koeras I will keep pushing, thank you
So what's your plan to work on that?
The Fearless Man My current plan is to keep working out and finish degree but my biggest problem is that I am terrible with woman so need to start talking to them more. So keep working out, finish degree, talk to woman
wow i would like to do this training
fearless i really enjoy your videos , so what kind of meditation i can do to become more grounded
www.thefearlessman.com/5-steps-to-develop-and-become-a-grounded-man/
www.thefearlessman.com/start-believing-in-yourself-with-these-powerful-but-simple-steps/
Brian you are such an amazing coach , once again i really appreciate your work .
Thank YOU! Hope to meet you at an event.