Facing difficulties in relationships is normal, but there’s always a path to resolution. My marriage went through tough times, but with the right assistance, my wife and I resolved our issues and enhanced our connection. Solutions exist if you’re willing to work together and persevere. Don’t lose faith-answers are possible.
Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
“I divorced my husband because I had this senior position at work and thought I held the same position at home. “ That’s exactly the reason men don’t care about your degrees and income. It’s not that a man is insecure, it’s the way you come home acting.
You are so right. When a man makes more than a woman it's normal, but let a woman make more than a man, they treat it in their face, they want another man who has more money, her ex, moves on is living a happy life meanwhile she is single and having a hard time finding a man .
They're not gonna listen. My cousin divorced her first husband(he was her childhood sweetheart and a provider for her family) because she wasn't "happy". My aunt and my mom were both against the divorce but she didn't listen. Today she's in her 50s, single with 2 daughters from 2 failed marriages on her way to dying alone. You can't help those who don't want to listen.
@@jonthomson9262they really think they should be smiling all day every day. On top of saying that, one week every month their emotions are guaranteed to change because of their period.
I know a Lady who now works at a garage(Gas Station in America) she is in her late 40s and she always tells me she regrets divorce because she thought she could do better. 😂😂😂 She is single & has given up on "better".. What pains her more is that she regularly talks to the ex-husband and he is extremely happy with the new with and they own a farm now.
@Boogie-n2o facts - had a 10 yr relationship paid alll of the bills while she was in college - was cheating on me the entire time - I moved on and happy af - now she's on daddy's govt plan🤷♂️ now my fault
I was married, made 180k a year, paid 100% of everything and my ex filed for divorced. She let her single friends talk her right into divorcing me. Now she's living with her sister and her husband working part-time in a department store working for peanuts. This lady begged me to take her back. And I mean begged!!
and yet they blame everything on the wyte man with their victim mindset, not ever their toxic getho culture and materialitic society focusing on nothing but money and wealth. I say good riddance. black folks outside the US don't want you
I respect that sistah for taking accountability; that’s rare nowadays. I hope a lot of women get to see that video, because they need to understand that accolades don’t determine who leads the household. Life experiences outweigh what you learn in the classroom, because life will always be the best teacher. I truly believe, the women who divorce for petty reasons, are the ones who listen to their toxic, single girlfriends. Tia Mowry is a prime example. Her friends were in her ear about all the fun they were having, etc., and Tia wanted in on the action, even though she had a stable marriage. So as it turns out, instead of enjoying “hot-girl summers,” she’s experiencing “cold-girl winters.”
Yo that's mad real. We men are more important that money, careers, luxury, status, education, et cetera.. A man/husband is greatest thing that can happen to a woman. A woman should never leave her man/husband unless it's biblical...
I hope younger guys in their 20s are paying attention to how women move. Hopefully they will learn from the frustration and pain older guys have had to go through. When 70-80% of women file for divorce and take half that they never even worked for its too much of a gamble. Women and divorce courts have been tag teaming men for decades.
The higher the body count, the more likely she will divorce you. A deflowered woman will NEVER be yours. As long as she has memories of past lovers, you will not have a lasting marriage. #SYSBM.
I love this video @Eze but men like myself know you can't tell BW anything and men have given up trying. Why do you see single events being attended by women? You saw what happened with Kendra G's mixer in Philly. What about ATL? Nightclubs are filled with women. Black dating coaches quit because BW expectations are off the rails. I can go on but you get the point. Men in general (BM mostly) have checked out of dating, relationships, and marriage to BW.
I remember her story. It as mess because the young black women are hitting the wall at the age of 20 on down because the mothers don’t know what to tell them.
Married 42 years. As Luther Vandross sang, it isn't all happy, it isn't all sad, it isn't all good, it isn't all bad. It isn't all heaven, it isn't all hell. It's RIGHT DOWN THE MIDDLE! Can only be acheived with God's help and guidance.
Principles and Standards Gents: When you’re good to a woman and she goes scorched earth, let her and keep pushing forward. Don’t get mad. Just keep focused on your successes. When she fizzles out, she’ll eventually realize that she burned herself.
Sadly enough the same way she thought about her ex-husband that's how every feminist thinks too and since 50% of Modern Feminist will die alone amongst her we will be seeing a dime a dozen other videos like this.
Bless her heart. She's keeping it real tho. I have a similar story. My wife divorced me. She called me a while back and told me she was homeless. I had no input for her. A few days ago I flew back to the USA from Gambia Africa where I was enjoying my new fiance. What a woman and what a cook!! I'm 61 and she is 45. My advice to bros; Passport your way overseas and find a good traditional woman. And not all Western American women are masculine and too modern. It's just too difficult to locate them.
I didn't go to Africa for my fiance I went to the Philippines and found my wife and she makes me happy and it doesn't take much to make her happy..3 years now and I love it..
We have good BW here that don't adhere to the BS being promoted. This election has woken up a lot of BW & BM to the forces thats been deceiving us. Once we unite again our people going to be a lot stronger. But this time God would be our guidance instead of worldly treasures. So I encourage my young brothers to hold on. Many of Our Sista's here will be walking beside us again and it wouldn't be a need to go overseas anymore
If my wife could ask for divorce, I would gladly give it to her, walk out and never look back. But one thing for sure, I would never get married or entertain any woman in my life again. Guarantee
I wish I could post pictures in the comment section; I live in a senior community and you' all should see how many single women that leave out in the A.M. going to work.
Most men, even some pookies and ray rays, are good men. The problem is that women want men to make them happy, while men are trying to provide for the family unit. The unhappy woman destroys her family, trying to remain the center of attention. If mama ain't happy nobody's happy.
@marcusjones5287 That is true, but if a woman labels a man that she was in a relationship with a pookie, she is not responsible for what happened in the relationship. In my 50+ years on this earth, I have seen this with a lot of women ( in and out of my family).
Hey Eze, it’s not ALL younger sisters that think they should be strong and independent. I’m 24 and honestly it’s hard to find a man that is marriage minded. Just as hard as it is for men to find feminine women. But I guess it’s what one will attract. A feminine woman attracts a masculine man ❤
Ese, good video, points and thank you! I hope that black women who still have life in them see this video!! All these black women were too selfish for their own good! They didn’t appreciate what they had so they threw it all away because they took pride in their independence, now look at them, all alone and subject to dying alone! No other man of other races are looking for them, black men wanted them only and now they see they should have appreciated those men! For many it’s too late, it’s so sad! Kevin Samuels has said that up to 75% of black women will never see marriage in their lifetime but I personally think that number is up to 80% or more because every few months I see at least one black women having a baby out of wedlock and they are not getting married even if they get boyfriends!! I’ve said in my family my oldest sister, the daughter and the granddaughter are ALL single, no husbands or boyfriends! That’s 3 generations of black women who are without men! I’m not sure that this problem will turn itself around because black women are still focusing on being these boss chicks because they think as they get older this will up their value in a man’s eye! My ex girlfriend who’s a nice looking black women for her age ( we’re both in our 70s) said to me she is working on buying a second house! Good for her! I complimented her yet it doesn’t make me want to be with her because she a woman who has NO accountability for her negative behavior! She could have 10 houses and it wouldn’t change my opinion of her!! So until black women start taking responsibility for their behavior nothing will change!!
My mother had 5 kids by 5 different men🤦🏾♂️ She used to run the streets on the weekend but worked and provided shelter for 3 of us while the others in cpc. She never married because the men she dealt with were trash. She's a beautiful woman who should of chose an athlete or someone in school. Now she's alone and has a lot of Chihuahuas.
It's not the package... The package 📦 can be perfect outside... But inside... They can be beautiful ❤️ but if they talk to you, you Will find that your talking to a demon 👿... Even the ugly ones...
The first chick said the regret was only for the children but she didn't like him anymore so fellas do not be with a chick that don't like you but we know they are playing chess with us!? They are Dangerous than a MF!!?
My wife divorced me remarried, divorced again and kept my last name. After 30+ years she still wants me back. She regrets what she did to cause the divorce as well as filing for the divorce. What some women fail to realize is that men marry for the good and the bad, take it all in stride. Men realize that whatever problems occur time and grade will erase all the bad, in the end you'll end up where you started together with a sense of accomplishment in the fact that you made it where others failed.
A 57yrs old friend of mine divorced her husband years ago ,and works partime jobs when she can lives alone with no men vetting her for dates marriage sex nothing she told me she made a huge mistake her husband is now happily remarried in another state
Remember, they only take accountability when there are no other options left. During that time I can guarantee that people were talking to her about those bad decisions. They ignore all of the examples because in their mind they feel that "they're different. That happened to her, but not me because I'm special." This narcissistic mindset will not only be their downfall, but it will give rise to the "beggar" class. All of the crying about how life is hard for a single mom, and harassing anyone for cash to avoid eviction. Winter is here. Don't get caught outside
I see such women in my ffice. In their 40s or early 50s, divorced and exhausted. I conclude that if women get to these stages, looking for a so called good man is not an option. I think they naturally get exhausted with looking around and any relationship that doesnt lasf is a big blow for them. One told me that she just wants a man at home who she will get home akd cook for so that they sit together, have a nice chaf then go back together. I jokingly said to hold and give you a good one? She said not really but that feeling of soneonè who is a conpanion and when she sleeos know there is someone also on the bed woth her. I immediately took her seriously because it was deep stuff for me. I take relationships for granted as i jave been married for 2t years to the same woman. I gather from their conversation around the office that men are having a field day with them. Theyre giving out a lot of sex becaude it seems in their stage in life thats the only they are able to keep a man around. As for the rmotional traima they dump on ouf heads, its pathetic. Its fashionalbe for these women to travel to Bali or Gambia to have sex. One cake back with an injury to her face, which we later heard in the rumour meal that a gigolo boy beat her badly because she was mouthy with him and those bogs dont take such nonsense. Feminism failed them.
I married my Asian wife. I moved to her country, where the cost of living is better and the culture is not toxic like in the Western countries. They are more about family. I wanted to give them a better mother and life than I had. So I made the choice to date outside my race. To the good black men in the Western countries your future wives are not in the Western countries and she's not black. Get your passports and start your healing journey
Stop it man. If you want to abandoned your race then you do it. Dont try to single out our women because of your self hate. There's terrible women in all races just like there's good women as well.
As older men should stop giving wrong advice that women take 50% when they divorce you - they don’t. When they divorce you, they more often than not take the house. They take the kids, they take alimony, they take your reputation, etc. So in most cases they take 100%. Saying 50% makes it appear that it’s still worth getting married.
All these people are lying the real reason most of them divorced their husbands because they wanted to sleep around with different men and when they get old and worn out they want to be with someone that’s the real reason
I’d rather be in the middle of a forest than to sit with a gaslighting non empathetic partner. Regret happens when you don’t think about anything before making decisions.
My dear sister, marriage or relationship is not a romantic movie. No relationship that lasted more than 15 years, is without it's struggles and hardship.
Y'all get ran through, men smell it on you and you're mad because you're used up and not wanted. Besides from the looks of it. You're not looking for anything but a come up.
The only person that can diagnose a non empathetic and a gaslighting partner is a clinical psychologist. Preferably one that has over 50 years of experience who didn't get in to the industry in the last 10 years.
@@brianfreckles8542 sir I am not talking about you or any man on this thread. I am speaking from experiences. I am married happily. I’m speaking to some of the people who jump into a marriage when they know it’s wrong. If the relationship is struggling why marry the person? When I saw my relationship struggling I happily returned the ring. People sometimes get married for the sake of being married. You and your partner need to really have each other’s back. If you can’t deal with some of the things that you see in your partner. Don’t marry them. That something that will prevent a lot of divorces
Facing difficulties in relationships is normal, but there’s always a path to resolution. My marriage went through tough times, but with the right assistance, my wife and I resolved our issues and enhanced our connection. Solutions exist if you’re willing to work together and persevere. Don’t lose faith-answers are possible.
Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
You should
“I divorced my husband because I had this senior position at work and thought I held the same position at home. “ That’s exactly the reason men don’t care about your degrees and income. It’s not that a man is insecure, it’s the way you come home acting.
You are so right. When a man makes more than a woman it's normal, but let a woman make more than a man, they treat it in their face, they want another man who has more money, her ex, moves on is living a happy life meanwhile she is single and having a hard time finding a man
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They're not gonna listen. My cousin divorced her first husband(he was her childhood sweetheart and a provider for her family) because she wasn't "happy". My aunt and my mom were both against the divorce but she didn't listen. Today she's in her 50s, single with 2 daughters from 2 failed marriages on her way to dying alone. You can't help those who don't want to listen.
When will women ever learn. Life and relationships aren't about 24/7 happiness. Happiness for a woman is nothing more than a dopamine fix.
@@jonthomson9262they really think they should be smiling all day every day. On top of saying that, one week every month their emotions are guaranteed to change because of their period.
Wow & I know he was crushed cause that was his HS sweetheart🤦🏽♂️
Hope he is doing better now
I know a Lady who now works at a garage(Gas Station in America) she is in her late 40s and she always tells me she regrets divorce because she thought she could do better. 😂😂😂 She is single & has given up on "better".. What pains her more is that she regularly talks to the ex-husband and he is extremely happy with the new with and they own a farm now.
That Hypergamy is killing them.
This shows who was the problem in the marriage.
@Boogie-n2o facts - had a 10 yr relationship paid alll of the bills while she was in college - was cheating on me the entire time - I moved on and happy af - now she's on daddy's govt plan🤷♂️ now my fault
A woman will always think she can do better. Always
she missed out
Marriage is high risk no reward for men in the west..
True. I am suprised RUclips has not taken your comments down.
@Huff627 I think they do this on the real popular channels.
94.7 percent of women WILL NOT listen to this message
98.8 % of women won't listen.
Nor do they care.. 😂@@eugenedantzler4485
@@eugenedantzler4485 True; THEN LET THEM DROWN IN THEIR OWN MADNESS!!
@@wesleyhillard4491💯
97.4*
They won't listen it's selfishness
They really think finding ANOTHER man to give them 90 of what they want is as easy as picking out produce from the supermarket.
That is what buffels me.. They usually think men's attention means commitment whereas it may just mean a good f@ck.@@trence5
They never learn!!
We did passport fellas✈️✈️✈️✈️
I have that's why I said dam a marriage
ECCLESIASTICUS 25:16 I RATHER DWELL WITH A LION AND DRAGON, THAN TO KEEP HOUSE WITH A WICKED WOMAN.
👍🏿
❤🔥👊✅💪👍💯🎯💭
Amen to that!!
Facts 100%. No time for madness. Life is too precious and short!
The lawyer generally gets about a third of the finances, not counting your time and emotional toil.
this is not talked about enough
I was married, made 180k a year, paid 100% of everything and my ex filed for divorced. She let her single friends talk her right into divorcing me. Now she's living with her sister and her husband working part-time in a department store working for peanuts. This lady begged me to take her back. And I mean begged!!
I hope you didn't.
Move on brother. Prosper and be happy.
Leave her right behind you and with her sister and husband 😂,,,,, problem solved
Yeah same happened to both my relationships both of the women asked me to take them back. Said no
Get Your Passport 🛂 go where you will be Loved, Appreciated, & Celebrated 🛫
They WON'T GAF...IT'S WHY WE ARE #SYSBM
Black culture relationship is rapidly
fading away slowly.
Not slowly... More like fast... Er...
and yet they blame everything on the wyte man with their victim mindset, not ever their toxic getho culture and materialitic society focusing on nothing but money and wealth. I say good riddance. black folks outside the US don't want you
I respect that sistah for taking accountability; that’s rare nowadays. I hope a lot of women get to see that video, because they need to understand that accolades don’t determine who leads the household. Life experiences outweigh what you learn in the classroom, because life will always be the best teacher.
I truly believe, the women who divorce for petty reasons, are the ones who listen to their toxic, single girlfriends. Tia Mowry is a prime example. Her friends were in her ear about all the fun they were having, etc., and Tia wanted in on the action, even though she had a stable marriage. So as it turns out, instead of enjoying “hot-girl summers,” she’s experiencing “cold-girl winters.”
Yo that's mad real.
We men are more important that money, careers, luxury, status, education, et cetera..
A man/husband is greatest thing that can happen to a woman. A woman should never leave her man/husband unless it's biblical...
Facts I most definitely agree with this knowledge ppl better study 2 be approved we living in the last days
I hope younger guys in their 20s are paying attention to how women move. Hopefully they will learn from the frustration and pain older guys have had to go through. When 70-80% of women file for divorce and take half that they never even worked for its too much of a gamble. Women and divorce courts have been tag teaming men for decades.
Greed, selfishness, now when they are single they wonder why they can't find a good man.
The higher the body count, the more likely she will divorce you. A deflowered woman will NEVER be yours. As long as she has memories of past lovers, you will not have a lasting marriage. #SYSBM.
I don't believe in marriage it's not marriage its lockdown I'm not wake-ing up to the same ass till death do us part
🎯
ECCLESIASTICUS 26:25 A SHAMELESS WOMAN SHALL BE COUNTED AS A DOG:BUT SHE THAT IS SHAMEFACED WILL FEAR THE LORD.
Always dropping biblical seeds from the rule book. All begins and ends with God no contest.
They'll sacrifice their future for a right now self gratification
I never regretted anything! But I have been married for 42 yrs! ❤
I love this video @Eze but men like myself know you can't tell BW anything and men have given up trying. Why do you see single events being attended by women? You saw what happened with Kendra G's mixer in Philly. What about ATL? Nightclubs are filled with women. Black dating coaches quit because BW expectations are off the rails. I can go on but you get the point. Men in general (BM mostly) have checked out of dating, relationships, and marriage to BW.
Go to Kenia Sir!!!!
Facts can't tell them nuthin
@@judiie.3800Kenyan women are prostitues bro. They let disgusting 70 year old fat old white men do all kinds of freaky segs acts to them
Life is going to get tougher and more women will literally lose themselves. Put the cape away men and go to work every day..
The only reason why women find a reason to break up is to get back out there.
They'll regret their moves.
I remember her story. It as mess because the young black women are hitting the wall at the age of 20 on down because the mothers don’t know what to tell them.
Married 42 years. As Luther Vandross sang, it isn't all happy, it isn't all sad, it isn't all good, it isn't all bad. It isn't all heaven, it isn't all hell. It's RIGHT DOWN THE MIDDLE! Can only be acheived with God's help and guidance.
AMEN
Were missing the voices of Luther, Freddie, Anita and Ron. Need voices like this to fill our airwaves again
AMEN!!
Principles and Standards Gents:
When you’re good to a woman and she goes scorched earth, let her and keep pushing forward. Don’t get mad. Just keep focused on your successes. When she fizzles out, she’ll eventually realize that she burned herself.
They don't won't to listen until it's to late
Unfortunately sisters still not going to get the message. They are too conditioned to being strong , independent and held without any accountability.
What a lot of people don’t do is believe when God says he is against divorce and one cannot re-marry until the other spouse has passed.
Sadly enough the same way she thought about her ex-husband that's how every feminist thinks too and since 50% of Modern Feminist will die alone amongst her we will be seeing a dime a dozen other videos like this.
Bless her heart. She's keeping it real tho. I have a similar story. My wife divorced me. She called me a while back and told me she was homeless. I had no input for her. A few days ago I flew back to the USA from Gambia Africa where I was enjoying my new fiance. What a woman and what a cook!! I'm 61 and she is 45. My advice to bros; Passport your way overseas and find a good traditional woman. And not all Western American women are masculine and too modern. It's just too difficult to locate them.
All western woman the same i went to nigeria bro. Thats where the real hebrew women at is west africa.
I didn't go to Africa for my fiance I went to the Philippines and found my wife and she makes me happy and it doesn't take much to make her happy..3 years now and I love it..
@@bklynkid4249 Awesome. At least we got away from these modern American women.
We have good BW here that don't adhere to the BS being promoted. This election has woken up a lot of BW & BM to the forces thats been deceiving us. Once we unite again our people going to be a lot stronger. But this time God would be our guidance instead of worldly treasures. So I encourage my young brothers to hold on. Many of Our Sista's here will be walking beside us again and it wouldn't be a need to go overseas anymore
Hindsight is always 20/20, at least she learned, but the hardheads still think they know it all, as demonstrated by some of the comments!
If my wife could ask for divorce, I would gladly give it to her, walk out and never look back. But one thing for sure, I would never get married or entertain any woman in my life again. Guarantee
I wish I could post pictures in the comment section; I live in a senior community and you' all should see how many single women that leave out in the A.M. going to work.
Fact: 80% of the occupants of Senior Care facilities are women. Single women who never married or divorced and never remarried.
Mostly BW?
It applies to every race on earth.
Those images that I saw between the times of 815 and 833 were absolutely terrifying... the idea of dying alone...
Most men, even some pookies and ray rays, are good men. The problem is that women want men to make them happy, while men are trying to provide for the family unit. The unhappy woman destroys her family, trying to remain the center of attention. If mama ain't happy nobody's happy.
By definition, Pookies and Ray Ray's are not good men.
@marcusjones5287
That is true, but if a woman labels a man that she was in a relationship with a pookie, she is not responsible for what happened in the relationship. In my 50+ years on this earth, I have seen this with a lot of women ( in and out of my family).
@turahngordon4898 I never really thought about that. That makes a lot of sense.
They rather go thru trauma than learn from others trauma
3:21 Tia Mowry singing the same foolishness! 😮😢
I divorced my wife and the only thing I regret was ever getting married.
Hey Eze, it’s not ALL younger sisters that think they should be strong and independent. I’m 24 and honestly it’s hard to find a man that is marriage minded. Just as hard as it is for men to find feminine women. But I guess it’s what one will attract. A feminine woman attracts a masculine man ❤
Having a Pension at Retirement is a TRUE Blessing!
I hope she find some body Shes being self accountable and deserves a 2nd chance.
Man so happy she did a follow up video😊
4:55 She sounds like the late Mr Kevin Samuels 🎺🫡
At her age she still looks good
No lies were detected.
I agree 💯...
Nailed it 💯
It's too late
I approve this message 🥶🥶💯
I wish i could regret things but the law of the universe is balance so i gonna be alright with the ride I'm on
Eze, this one hit home. Thank you 🤗
I approve this message .
Algo love ❤
Seller's Remorse.
They will not listen. They will listen when they are too old, then it will be too late.
All caught up Brother.
Well now she know the next guy will benefit Lol 😂
The problem is, one day may never come.
@@coache1nine you more than likely would be right but I would hate that for her. She sound very sincere and is doing the right thing now.
@@dbig48dI agree. It's just a shame that some people wait so long to admit they made a mistake.
Hindsight is always 20/20
Ese, good video, points and thank you! I hope that black women who still have life in them see this video!! All these black women were too selfish for their own good! They didn’t appreciate what they had so they threw it all away because they took pride in their independence, now look at them, all alone and subject to dying alone! No other man of other races are looking for them, black men wanted them only and now they see they should have appreciated those men! For many it’s too late, it’s so sad! Kevin Samuels has said that up to 75% of black women will never see marriage in their lifetime but I personally think that number is up to 80% or more because every few months I see at least one black women having a baby out of wedlock and they are not getting married even if they get boyfriends!! I’ve said in my family my oldest sister, the daughter and the granddaughter are ALL single, no husbands or boyfriends! That’s 3 generations of black women who are without men! I’m not sure that this problem will turn itself around because black women are still focusing on being these boss chicks because they think as they get older this will up their value in a man’s eye! My ex girlfriend who’s a nice looking black women for her age ( we’re both in our 70s) said to me she is working on buying a second house! Good for her! I complimented her yet it doesn’t make me want to be with her because she a woman who has NO accountability for her negative behavior! She could have 10 houses and it wouldn’t change my opinion of her!! So until black women start taking responsibility for their behavior nothing will change!!
My mother had 5 kids by 5 different men🤦🏾♂️ She used to run the streets on the weekend but worked and provided shelter for 3 of us while the others in cpc. She never married because the men she dealt with were trash. She's a beautiful woman who should of chose an athlete or someone in school. Now she's alone and has a lot of Chihuahuas.
It's not the package... The package 📦 can be perfect outside... But inside... They can be beautiful ❤️ but if they talk to you, you Will find that your talking to a demon 👿...
Even the ugly ones...
@@davido3109 the Lilith demon
Yes sir
Good job
I had to tell my wife that she is a manager at work, but not when she gets home.😂
The first chick said the regret was only for the children but she didn't like him anymore so fellas do not be with a chick that don't like you but we know they are playing chess with us!?
They are Dangerous than a MF!!?
Facts!
My wife divorced me remarried, divorced again and kept my last name. After 30+ years she still wants me back. She regrets what she did to cause the divorce as well as filing for the divorce. What some women fail to realize is that men marry for the good and the bad, take it all in stride. Men realize that whatever problems occur time and grade will erase all the bad, in the end you'll end up where you started together with a sense of accomplishment in the fact that you made it where others failed.
A 57yrs old friend of mine divorced her husband years ago ,and works partime jobs when she can lives alone with no men vetting her for dates marriage sex nothing she told me she made a huge mistake her husband is now happily remarried in another state
He found better as he should
Remember, they only take accountability when there are no other options left. During that time I can guarantee that people were talking to her about those bad decisions. They ignore all of the examples because in their mind they feel that "they're different. That happened to her, but not me because I'm special." This narcissistic mindset will not only be their downfall, but it will give rise to the "beggar" class. All of the crying about how life is hard for a single mom, and harassing anyone for cash to avoid eviction. Winter is here.
Don't get caught outside
Hope they listening....!!!!👍🧔🏿.
My ex-spouse divorced me after 25 years because I told her she wasn't being the wife I needed her to be. . She will d_e alone.
Wow, that’s the same woman…? She looks 20 years older in her original video than the recent one…
My desire is to stay married for life. BUT- I would divorce her ass over ONE text message violation in New York minute.
You see a lot of older women now who ran the streets when they were younger and now they are the new cat ladies, at home with a bunch of cats.
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I see such women in my ffice. In their 40s or early 50s, divorced and exhausted.
I conclude that if women get to these stages, looking for a so called good man is not an option. I think they naturally get exhausted with looking around and any relationship that doesnt lasf is a big blow for them. One told me that she just wants a man at home who she will get home akd cook for so that they sit together, have a nice chaf then go back together. I jokingly said to hold and give you a good one? She said not really but that feeling of soneonè who is a conpanion and when she sleeos know there is someone also on the bed woth her. I immediately took her seriously because it was deep stuff for me. I take relationships for granted as i jave been married for 2t years to the same woman.
I gather from their conversation around the office that men are having a field day with them. Theyre giving out a lot of sex becaude it seems in their stage in life thats the only they are able to keep a man around.
As for the rmotional traima they dump on ouf heads, its pathetic.
Its fashionalbe for these women to travel to Bali or Gambia to have sex. One cake back with an injury to her face, which we later heard in the rumour meal that a gigolo boy beat her badly because she was mouthy with him and those bogs dont take such nonsense.
Feminism failed them.
I married my Asian wife. I moved to her country, where the cost of living is better and the culture is not toxic like in the Western countries. They are more about family. I wanted to give them a better mother and life than I had. So I made the choice to date outside my race. To the good black men in the Western countries your future wives are not in the Western countries and she's not black. Get your passports and start your healing journey
You are trying to erase your own bloodline by creating diluted offspring
Why I don't believe anything you said 🤥
Stop it man. If you want to abandoned your race then you do it. Dont try to single out our women because of your self hate. There's terrible women in all races just like there's good women as well.
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As older men should stop giving wrong advice that women take 50% when they divorce you - they don’t. When they divorce you, they more often than not take the house. They take the kids, they take alimony, they take your reputation, etc. So in most cases they take 100%. Saying 50% makes it appear that it’s still worth getting married.
All these people are lying the real reason most of them divorced their husbands because they wanted to sleep around with different men and when they get old and worn out they want to be with someone that’s the real reason
I’d rather be in the middle of a forest than to sit with a gaslighting non empathetic partner. Regret happens when you don’t think about anything before making decisions.
My dear sister, marriage or relationship is not a romantic movie. No relationship that lasted more than 15 years, is without it's struggles and hardship.
Y'all get ran through, men smell it on you and you're mad because you're used up and not wanted. Besides from the looks of it. You're not looking for anything but a come up.
The only person that can diagnose a non empathetic and a gaslighting partner is a clinical psychologist. Preferably one that has over 50 years of experience who didn't get in to the industry in the last 10 years.
I know and understand that I’m 49. I know all about hardships and struggles 😂. That’s why you don’t marry unless you weigh out the pros and cons.
@@brianfreckles8542 sir I am not talking about you or any man on this thread. I am speaking from experiences. I am married happily. I’m speaking to some of the people who jump into a marriage when they know it’s wrong. If the relationship is struggling why marry the person? When I saw my relationship struggling I happily returned the ring. People sometimes get married for the sake of being married. You and your partner need to really have each other’s back. If you can’t deal with some of the things that you see in your partner. Don’t marry them. That something that will prevent a lot of divorces