Me and my BM was together 13 years, she ran the streets, did drugs, cheated, lied, stole, but was expecting me to still marry her. I waited for the right time to make an exit and she couldn't deal with it, because I beat her to the punch. Women these days expect a Man to put up with their foolishness and not have a contingency plan already in the works
This is why black men must use their intuitions to examine a woman carefully before they are them, or if women approach them. Black men must analyze the situation before putting themselves in it. BTW, people attract who they are but it's a good thing that he decided to change his livelihood by getting away from that no-good GF.
@@JazeelBenIsrael They know what they are doing and don't give a damn because the vast majority of them are doing it to!! They are followers and copycats of each other and that's why they are doing the despicable shit!!
This is how most of them were taught! Going way back ,My own mom who is 74yrs old now told my 53yr old single sister long ago go to school get a career not a man,im really worried about my sister in her mid 50s and no man boyfriend husband ,and what's crazy is? My moms been married for 30yrs now RIPKS
I feel you fam. That's how it is in most families. We teach our girls to go to school and get education. My two girls are in their early and mid 30s. No talk of husbands or kids...and I blame no-one but ME. I was the one that planted that go to school and education bullshyt in their brains. Now, I regret that decision but it's too late. I deserve that L.
I have been saying this for the longest the older generation told the next generation this information because women are never satisfied or content they don't realize it's a selfish behavior and if you are man or woman then marriage is not for you
Passport brothers must be extremely careful. SOMETIMES, the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. Don't go overseas to look for a wife out of spite to get back at the American western women who are indoctrinated into feminism, which is the "New Racism." Go with good intentions but with extreme caution. Be aware of your surroundings.
Some of these women claim to be with men for a number of years, but it was really off and on. Sometimes, a man is giving her chances to develop into a suitable wife. Many women will never admit that.
Excellent video, much to be learned here for both sides. Knowing your value, especially men to a woman. When a man knows his value or worth to a woman, he can accomplish much in life. A woman is not wifey material until a man says that she is to him. It is key that she understands the word submit, someone has to lead, someone has to listen and trust.
I saw that video, she was very difficult to talk to. Kevin made point after point and she missed almost all of them. BTW, she described he boyfriends job. He was a Skyscraper?!? 😅😅😅😅
Women claim men dont listen. Actually a lot of women dont listen. If I tell her what I want but she gives me what she wants am I supposed to be happy? Even if she gives most of what Im asking its not going to cover what I didnt receive. Imagine how she would respond if she wanted one color paint for the walls and I picked up what I thought was best for her. If she asks to go to the Bahamas and I take her to Panama beach. Women do tend to communicate more but more doesnt mean they communicate better. Even women of the 🌈 community arent listening to each other and have serious diputes.
You can't be a wife without fulfilling the role and responsibility of being a wife. A college degree and a lucrative career does not make anybody marriage-material. Common sense through the operation of human intelligence is what makes a person marriage-material.
Great question. It starts with us. ..the parents. We are the ones that need to start putting respect back into being a wife/traditional woman. Modern women have destroyed the image of wife in America. Today, it's all about getting the bag and being a boss chick. We (men and women) need to go back and program our young girls to put family first instead of education and career. Look at all other race of women. They put family first. Always. And look at their result. God knows, I dropped the ball with my two daughters. And that was the biggest mistake I've ever made in my life. Not teaching my babies how to be wives. They're both now in their 30s, successful but no man/husband and kids on site. Yeah, I really dropped the ball.
😴💤 🗣️📢 He chose not to marry her she was not a wife therefore when he was ready to leave he could leave with no strings attached obviously he left after 13 unlucky years 👠👠👠👠
Eze, I see this from a 360 perspective! News flash: Being gay does not automatocally exclude from, or make one blind to the neuroses of relationships and how they work... Think about it, ppl...
"Open to cook 2-3 times a week" Has the bar sunk that low?!?! What are we gonna ear the other 5 days of the week 😅😅 and he works 5 or 6 days a week. Keisha is done.
I wasnt taught how to be a wife growing up but i was told how to be a classy lady how to cook and clean main tain a home most importantly no getting around with boys i was also taught if a man is not trying to meet my dad hes not serious about me grown folks know what they want and it doesn't take 13 years to figure it out this video was very educational😅😊
Asked ChatGPT , ' what makes a woman wife material?' Here is the answer: Kindness and Empathy Strong Communication Skills Supportiveness Shared Values Independence and Confidence Emotional Maturity Shared Vision Commitment to Growth Trustworthiness Humor These do not match up with anything that woman said, i think women should most times keep quiet, observe and learn.
You are right brother, just being raised by both parents does not make a woman a wife material. Unless and otherwise, they intentionally shape her to be one.
The woman that comes from a two parent home is less likely to run off with your kids! Think about that! All cause of women moving to another state with the guys kids usually come from single parent homes! They really can’t grasp the concept of a child needing two parents because that’s all they know! That is a must on my list these days! Gotta come from a two parent home! I don’t know what you talking about!
@stevieking Did you watch the entire video?? If you did, you'll understand, he was referring to the woman Kevin Samuels was talking to. She said she came from a two-parent household, but that didn't make her wife material. So you are off base brother.
It's real hard to have a happy marriage when you've never grown up in one or close to one. Observed modeled and learned behaviors. Where traditional marriages are going nobody knows.
5:50 = men run from the idea of marriage, either because they’re irresponsible, or because of statistics and the way things play out in the courts. And with a ratio of 10 women to 1 man, it’s hard for women to be pushing the envelope without not getting left. She probably is a wife. He’s just not serious
Marriage is the man’s job, not the woman’s. You want to have to make her your possession. And she has to be worthy of being your possession. A woman worthy of being a man’s possession but never gets seriously claimed like marriage. Is nothing but a complete waste and shame on the man’s part. And we see this all the time, chicks that end up with dudes who aren’t serious of character
6:50 🧢 , I always told my daughter to save herself for marriage , not to be like her mother , when I cook she get a chair and was at the stove with me , I didn't cuss in front of her and so on , so on. AGAIN 🧢 cuz men want their daughters to be better than the ones that created her
So if a woman is ONLY respectful and submissive but missing the rest of, she is a wife ?? I’m only asking because of the beginning, and I’ve heard men tell a woman yea your submissive you respect me but your not nurturing enough , you not very supportive, you don’t have your own things going on etc so as a woman looking to be a wife one day id like more understanding on the topic.
I disagree with the whole 2 to 3 year timeframe thing. It should be about four or five, which is why people should stop serial dating and only date those who are serious candidates. Psychologist believe it takes about two to two and a half years for people to show their true colors when in relationships. The idea that you should be getting married within three is foolish to me. However, if you’re with a man for 10 years and he doesn’t show any signs of marrying you, yes, you are the fool.
bang! who teaches a girl to become a wife? you African. i'm married to an African woman. Mothers, and more aunties teach a women to be a wife. African women get wife training. taught to be respectful, and submissive. they are taught to be submissive and creat a peacfull house for her man. and her man will will provide and protect and keep her.
They always say how good the box is as a selling point, being promiscuous is not a positive, and It’s not a wife!!🤦🏾♂️💙
How many guys been telling them the box is premium? Yet none of them are married. Make it make sense!
Facts!
Me and my BM was together 13 years, she ran the streets, did drugs, cheated, lied, stole, but was expecting me to still marry her. I waited for the right time to make an exit and she couldn't deal with it, because I beat her to the punch. Women these days expect a Man to put up with their foolishness and not have a contingency plan already in the works
You should have a well thought-out practical contingency plan before even entering into a relationship with a woman.
Preciate ya sharing that with us fam.
@@ezereactionandreviews you're welcome bro
@@TheManInCommand definitely
This is why black men must use their intuitions to examine a woman carefully before they are them, or if women approach them. Black men must analyze the situation before putting themselves in it. BTW, people attract who they are but it's a good thing that he decided to change his livelihood by getting away from that no-good GF.
Women who are terminally on social media is enough for me to leave them alone.
👍 yep
Women tell on themselves on social media not realizing they make themselves look bad in the world of reality.
@@JazeelBenIsrael They know what they are doing and don't give a damn because the vast majority of them are doing it to!!
They are followers and copycats of each other and that's why they are doing the despicable shit!!
My brothers ruuuun!!!as fast as you can,these people are in business not marriage...
This is how most of them were taught! Going way back ,My own mom who is 74yrs old now told my 53yr old single sister long ago go to school get a career not a man,im really worried about my sister in her mid 50s and no man boyfriend husband ,and what's crazy is? My moms been married for 30yrs now RIPKS
@@ageshandsomely speechless my brother
Damn
I feel you fam. That's how it is in most families. We teach our girls to go to school and get education. My two girls are in their early and mid 30s. No talk of husbands or kids...and I blame no-one but ME. I was the one that planted that go to school and education bullshyt in their brains. Now, I regret that decision but it's too late. I deserve that L.
I have been saying this for the longest the older generation told the next generation this information because women are never satisfied or content they don't realize it's a selfish behavior and if you are man or woman then marriage is not for you
Sad, why did your mother set her up like that?
She tells y'all what a wife is and she doesn't have a wedding ring!! 😭
The circus and foolishness with these modern women are beyond words at this point.
@@ezereactionandreviews I believe there's know turning the clock back, It's over for this country!?
TOO LATE WE GOT PASSPORTS!!!
2:55 She told no lies. If you don’t want to do wife things don’t be surprised that you ain’t someone’s wife.
Exactly!
Protect yourself, fellas get your passports.
@@chilzone966 where was the first place u landed?
@@Domdaddychef Kingston, Jamaica
Passport brothers must be extremely careful. SOMETIMES, the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. Don't go overseas to look for a wife out of spite to get back at the American western women who are indoctrinated into feminism, which is the "New Racism." Go with good intentions but with extreme caution. Be aware of your surroundings.
@@Domdaddychef Japan!!!
Their women are the planet's Gold Standard.
The key is trusting God to bring one to you who is best suited for you. Can't go based off your own understanding.
Another well made,educational video to our BW. Thank you my brother Eze
Glad you enjoyed it fam! I truly appreciate ya watching. THANK YOU!
She's lying 😅😅😂😂 She better put them fingers back up !!
😆😆😆
I remember this lady her husband was a skyscraper 😂
Some of these women claim to be with men for a number of years, but it was really off and on. Sometimes, a man is giving her chances to develop into a suitable wife. Many women will never admit that.
You have a very solid point.
Thank you. Well-said. Fortunately men nowadays aren't giving these ungrateful heifers anymore chances. One chance is enough.
We, as men, know after two to three years if we want to marry a woman. Anything after that is just going through the motions.
Cook 2-3 times per week leaving the man to cook4-5 days per week. WOW!
Did she say cook 2 to 3 times a week? Smh 🤦♂️
Rebellion is witchcraft 1 Samuel 15:22-23
Preach!
In that clip, she listens to respond not to learn from and understand the question.
@@BamaNiiji you cooking 🍳
nothing new with some of these Morden women
Facts all day.
Willing to cook 2 or 3 times a week I eat everyday
For real...😂😂😂😂. That means the other 5 days, your gonna starve, if you're not getting takeout.
Exactly!!
Marriage contracts in the US is a living death sentence for any Man.
So true!
Hmm the standard we as women set is yr 2 😊 not 5 yrs and 2 children unmarried!!
Powerful Truth and Powerful Message.
Blessing fam! Thank you very much for watching.
I concur with the contents of this video clip; it is spot on.
Stop lying ladies , keep all the fingers up.
😆🤣😅
Them paws....suspicious 😮
Excellent video, much to be learned here for both sides. Knowing your value, especially men to a woman. When a man knows his value or worth to a woman, he can accomplish much in life. A woman is not wifey material until a man says that she is to him. It is key that she understands the word submit, someone has to lead, someone has to listen and trust.
@KEVIN SAMUELS .. SALUTE 🫡 👍🏾 💯
I saw that video, she was very difficult to talk to. Kevin made point after point and she missed almost all of them. BTW, she described he boyfriends job. He was a Skyscraper?!? 😅😅😅😅
😂😂 Oh yeah! I remember the full video now that you said that.
I remember that day 😂
Women claim men dont listen. Actually a lot of women dont listen. If I tell her what I want but she gives me what she wants am I supposed to be happy? Even if she gives most of what Im asking its not going to cover what I didnt receive. Imagine how she would respond if she wanted one color paint for the walls and I picked up what I thought was best for her. If she asks to go to the Bahamas and I take her to Panama beach. Women do tend to communicate more but more doesnt mean they communicate better. Even women of the 🌈 community arent listening to each other and have serious diputes.
Put a finger down if a man agrees….
@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 👇
It be most women but mainly black women.
You can't be a wife without fulfilling the role and responsibility of being a wife. A college degree and a lucrative career does not make anybody marriage-material. Common sense through the operation of human intelligence is what makes a person marriage-material.
Facts!
Good video
Thanks fam! Highly appreciated.
She’s slow😂😂
There are many woman that are NOT taught to be a wife or to require to be a wife. What is the solution😢??
To LEARN.
Great question. It starts with us. ..the parents. We are the ones that need to start putting respect back into being a wife/traditional woman. Modern women have destroyed the image of wife in America. Today, it's all about getting the bag and being a boss chick. We (men and women) need to go back and program our young girls to put family first instead of education and career. Look at all other race of women. They put family first. Always. And look at their result. God knows, I dropped the ball with my two daughters. And that was the biggest mistake I've ever made in my life. Not teaching my babies how to be wives. They're both now in their 30s, successful but no man/husband and kids on site. Yeah, I really dropped the ball.
😴💤 🗣️📢 He chose not to marry her she was not a wife therefore when he was ready to leave he could leave with no strings attached obviously he left after 13 unlucky years 👠👠👠👠
Right on bro
1:00 she was 🧢n
I know right.
I live in London, 1000s of women could be potential partners but it’s not on equal terms, it’s all a game now and I’m not playing.
Eze, I see this from a 360 perspective!
News flash: Being gay does not automatocally exclude from, or make one blind to the neuroses of relationships and how they work... Think about it, ppl...
"Open to cook 2-3 times a week" Has the bar sunk that low?!?! What are we gonna ear the other 5 days of the week 😅😅 and he works 5 or 6 days a week. Keisha is done.
I wasnt taught how to be a wife growing up but i was told how to be a classy lady how to cook and clean main tain a home most importantly no getting around with boys i was also taught if a man is not trying to meet my dad hes not serious about me grown folks know what they want and it doesn't take 13 years to figure it out this video was very educational😅😊
Asked ChatGPT , ' what makes a woman wife material?' Here is the answer:
Kindness and Empathy
Strong Communication Skills
Supportiveness
Shared Values
Independence and Confidence
Emotional Maturity
Shared Vision
Commitment to Growth
Trustworthiness
Humor
These do not match up with anything that woman said, i think women should most times keep quiet, observe and learn.
You are right brother, just being raised by both parents does not make a woman a wife material. Unless and otherwise, they intentionally shape her to be one.
The woman that comes from a two parent home is less likely to run off with your kids! Think about that! All cause of women moving to another state with the guys kids usually come from single parent homes! They really can’t grasp the concept of a child needing two parents because that’s all they know! That is a must on my list these days! Gotta come from a two parent home! I don’t know what you talking about!
@stevieking Did you watch the entire video?? If you did, you'll understand, he was referring to the woman Kevin Samuels was talking to. She said she came from a two-parent household, but that didn't make her wife material. So you are off base brother.
I'm going to protect myself 🙏🏿
I agree. Like Kanye West & Bill Withers sings about all those 13 years is wasted water and tears!!!!?? 😢😢😢😢😂😂😂😂😮😮😮
You are a fool if you still stay with me 😂
I think more women need to watch red pill to learn and win because y’all losing at alarming rate.. chef
I’m with you but when they get the information that is needed, they will still go against it. They’re hardheaded.
@@1987cotten damn! good brother you right.. 👨🏾🍳
I agree and use to watch Kevin Samuels a lot even though I am married. Helps me appreciate my husband more which lead to a better marriage.
@@angorachic congrats my sister.. and may the blessings be plentiful.. 👨🏾🍳
@@1987cottenmama said hard head makes a soft arse😮
It's real hard to have a happy marriage when you've never grown up in one or close to one. Observed modeled and learned behaviors. Where traditional marriages are going nobody knows.
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5:50 = men run from the idea of marriage, either because they’re irresponsible, or because of statistics and the way things play out in the courts. And with a ratio of 10 women to 1 man, it’s hard for women to be pushing the envelope without not getting left. She probably is a wife. He’s just not serious
I agree 100%. He wasn't serious about her. 13 years living together and not marriage? Yeah, he really wasn't serious with her.
Marriage is the man’s job, not the woman’s. You want to have to make her your possession. And she has to be worthy of being your possession. A woman worthy of being a man’s possession but never gets seriously claimed like marriage. Is nothing but a complete waste and shame on the man’s part. And we see this all the time, chicks that end up with dudes who aren’t serious of character
Homemaker needs to be put back in school
He's getting all wife benefits without been married.Most important he didn't put her into the wife category
Men ' are you looking and listening...🐻
6:50 🧢 , I always told my daughter to save herself for marriage , not to be like her mother , when I cook she get a chair and was at the stove with me , I didn't cuss in front of her and so on , so on. AGAIN 🧢 cuz men want their daughters to be better than the ones that created her
great analysis needed to hear that
Preciate ya watching fam.
So if a woman is ONLY respectful and submissive but missing the rest of, she is a wife ?? I’m only asking because of the beginning, and I’ve heard men tell a woman yea your submissive you respect me but your not nurturing enough , you not very supportive, you don’t have your own things going on etc so as a woman looking to be a wife one day id like more understanding on the topic.
Fuckem and move on it's working out for me
4:02 or she is someone to avoid.
I disagree with the whole 2 to 3 year timeframe thing. It should be about four or five, which is why people should stop serial dating and only date those who are serious candidates. Psychologist believe it takes about two to two and a half years for people to show their true colors when in relationships. The idea that you should be getting married within three is foolish to me. However, if you’re with a man for 10 years and he doesn’t show any signs of marrying you, yes, you are the fool.
bang! who teaches a girl to become a wife? you African. i'm married to an African woman. Mothers, and more aunties teach a women to be a wife. African women get wife training. taught to be respectful, and submissive. they are taught to be submissive and creat a peacfull house for her man. and her man will will provide and protect and keep her.
#1. Put a finger down if u a (VIRGIN) 😳😳😳🔥🔥🔥
Next 😤😤😤
"I feel Body count doesn't matter"
If they aren't submissive from birth and teachings from Mom then you can't make them become a wife!
No GOD, No marriage for ALLAH lays down the laws of marriage in the Torah, Bible and Quran