22 Habits To Follow For A Happy Life - Kevin Kelly

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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024

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  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  Год назад +10

    Hello you beauties. Access all episodes 10 hours earlier than RUclips by Subscribing on Spotify - spoti.fi/2LSimPn. Here’s the timestamps:
    00:00 Intro
    00:20 Why Should We Be Optimistic About the World?
    05:05 ‘Don’t Be the Best, Be the Only’
    11:48 Dealing with Bad Days is the Secret to Moving Forward
    15:09 How Your Weirdness Will Bring You Success
    18:34 A Great Way to Understand Yourself
    21:35 Why You Should Ignore Websites That Have ‘Truth’ in the URL
    24:22 Ask Stupid Questions
    30:56 How to Prototype Your Life
    39:20 ‘Pain is Inevitable, Suffering is Optional’
    41:04 How to Reason with People Better
    44:53 What’s Really Behind Conspiracy Theories
    47:51 Importance of Attending to the Small Things
    49:04 What Kevin Learned About Leadership from Steve Jobs
    52:16 Celebrate the Present
    55:24 Why You Can Never Be Too Kind
    01:00:00 Where to Find Kevin

    • @javiantrotman
      @javiantrotman Год назад

      I would like to access your MW flashcards/ dictionary. if you are selling them I am likely to buy them. just let me know where

    • @depreciatingasset
      @depreciatingasset Год назад

      Can we ignore also anything with the word WISDOM in it? 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @TheLuxuryHybrid
      @TheLuxuryHybrid Год назад

      Regret is another way to not care about asking stupid questions and practicing the ask pushes you more into not GAF about what people think of you either!

  • @OnekamaProducts
    @OnekamaProducts 10 месяцев назад +3

    This man embodies what I believe an Ancient Roman Stoic would look like

  • @morganxavier
    @morganxavier Год назад +28

    Chris, I am only four minutes in and I am so grateful for this interview already. I NEED to hear this right now, as I am hopefully at the tail end of a decade that has been non-stop challenges and negativity. I'm not suicidal but the joy for life has been sucked right out of me and it has been very hard to stay positive.
    I already feel encouraged and I have barely gotten into the episode. You are inspiring and I appreciate you and your channel so much! ❤

    • @AnonDa
      @AnonDa Год назад +2

      Hang in there. You will be ok

  • @celesteschacht8996
    @celesteschacht8996 Год назад +6

    Your questions are sooooooooooo good!

  • @catsteinhilb2880
    @catsteinhilb2880 Год назад +10

    Love Kevin Kelly, so I knew I’d love this, however, Chris’s insight, intelligence and self awareness in the pursuit to be the best human he can be, elevates and changes this conversation to another level. It’s also fresh and not redundant. 👏🏻

  • @Astra-zp4gb
    @Astra-zp4gb Год назад +5

    Really enjoyed this. I’m glad I’m not alone in my optimism.

  • @benjams5743
    @benjams5743 Год назад +5

    Some really brilliant, and inspiring ideas... Disagree with the Conspiracy chapter, 'there's no them', i would definitely point to the WEF and their agenda's, which are just clear as day at this point, as an argument against that... but that chapter aside, a very valuable podcast. 👍

    • @MasseyThaiBoxing
      @MasseyThaiBoxing Год назад

      Fully agree. Most people just cannot handle the idea that culture is planned, it's too disruptive for them. Read Tragedy and Hope by Carol Quigley as an initiation, then try to find out who owns the bank of international settlements. There is definitely a Them.

    • @mowthpeece1
      @mowthpeece1 Год назад

      LMAO!!!! You people are incredible. You've confused planning, which happens in everything from what you're having for breakfast to the Monetary Fund, for conspiracies, which are criminal by definition. And Conspiracy Theories, which are psyop mind control devices designed to turn you against your government, media, medical establishment, religious establishment, universities, etc., by scaring you away from the air you breath, water you drink, food you eat, medicine you take, etc.
      But hey, if it makes you feel important for "knowing what the stupid sheeple don't know" then have at it. You're just getting farther and farther away from reality. And don't that THAT not a plan, too! LOL!!

  • @mhuntprofessional
    @mhuntprofessional Год назад +7

    Regarding the mindset of dealing with bad days:
    I heard this piece of advice once that I've since used to tune my mindset.
    "Today could be your best day ever, and you just don't know yet. But believing that it could be already puts you closer to it being true."
    When I start any day thinking that, or remind myself that even despite setbacks, there's no reason that isn't still true, it puts me in such a positive mindset to approach every other activity or task in my day.

  • @theIdlecrane
    @theIdlecrane Год назад +4

    This is an amazing show. I am a designer with 20 years experience, I am just now producing my first piece of furniture as a commercial product, and the process I am adopting is exactly the same as this show..

  • @thevalleyofdisappointment
    @thevalleyofdisappointment Год назад +9

    55:33 You CAN be kind with a random act to a stranger. But when it comes to dealings with an associate there must always be an escalation in value exchanged. It starts on your part with a smile and good energy and then its THEIR turn to reciprocate and raise the bar. Anyone who comes to you for a hand out without offering value first is someone who is JUST looking to take. Even if your resources were infinite your dignity should guide your response.

  • @pratikkodial5428
    @pratikkodial5428 Год назад +1

    Always wonderful to hear Kevin. Love his book..

  • @janamitic5127
    @janamitic5127 Год назад +1

    Wonderful episode 👌🏼Went so smoothly and made my day better.

  • @CedarSpringWolf
    @CedarSpringWolf 10 месяцев назад

    55:49 that is similar to resume virtues vs eulogy virtues by David Brooks

  • @eawil-sunart
    @eawil-sunart Год назад

    Modern Wisdom here

  • @evamirikantor
    @evamirikantor Год назад

    This was a very insightful discussion for me. Made me think a lot about what influences my won opinions. Thank you.

  • @davidhermanson2361
    @davidhermanson2361 Год назад +3

    Excellent, very enjoyable, well done. 👍

  • @SpaceExplorer
    @SpaceExplorer Год назад +2

    is there a list of the 22 things

  • @upvotecomment2110
    @upvotecomment2110 Год назад +1

    I love Mr.Kevin "Let the World burn and only then we think about how to extinguish it" Kelly
    But seriously, I love this guy.
    His Principles are top-notch (His conclusions are what's cringe for me, borderline trolling. I no longer know which)

  • @akselpd
    @akselpd Год назад +1

    Wow, that's gonna be great even before I watch it.

  • @pariaheep
    @pariaheep Год назад +6

    Such a great episode, thank you Chris!

  • @mino18d
    @mino18d Год назад +3

    Elevating your average or worst days instead of going for peak experiences fits neatly to Malcom Gladwell's talk about weak and strong link sports!! Great interview!!! Thank you very much for your content :)

  • @perfect12386
    @perfect12386 Год назад +2

    My cousin had a tiny bit of fame when I was a teenager. He was in a band that toured with Busted, so of course all the Busted fans also became his fans. He couldn't have a cup of coffee in the train station with his parents. I know from that point that I never wanted to be famous, ever.

    • @grannyannie2948
      @grannyannie2948 Год назад

      Depends what you are famous for, a novelist might be famous but anonymous.

    • @spiritlevelstudios
      @spiritlevelstudios Год назад +1

      @@grannyannie2948 aye. Banksy is another low key example.

  • @ME3WarrantyVoider
    @ME3WarrantyVoider Год назад +1

    thank you both for this :)

  • @AthleticEducation
    @AthleticEducation Год назад +1

    I’ve never had that much money, but I think you can definitely spend a billion lol

  • @mattanderson6672
    @mattanderson6672 Год назад

    Thanks Chris

  • @feliciareichbart7625
    @feliciareichbart7625 Год назад +1

    love this chris ! = )

  • @RMoore713ify
    @RMoore713ify Год назад +8

    Do my best not to be a billionaire. I got this!

  • @dfinma
    @dfinma Год назад

    34:38 Chris, this is really quite good old chap! 😄

  • @Bobbyblack6
    @Bobbyblack6 Год назад

    wow this video was incredibly eye opening and interesting

  • @mattegan3439
    @mattegan3439 Год назад

    Great episode Chris!

  • @alexlimion2624
    @alexlimion2624 Год назад

    what a great interview, thank you Chris

  • @TheLuxuryHybrid
    @TheLuxuryHybrid Год назад

    Regret is another way to not care about asking stupid questions and practicing the ask pushes you more into not GAF about what people think of you either!

  • @SuperBajafresh
    @SuperBajafresh Год назад

    Practice these Six Pillars of good Character: Trustworthiness, Respect, Responsibility, Fairness, Caring and Citizenship. We recommend always using good CHARACTER does COUNT

  • @darkerisbetter8699
    @darkerisbetter8699 Год назад +1

    "Being right vs. being kind" has a lot of nuance that wasn't explored here.
    Is a CEO kind when he fires 100 people to save the jobs of 200? Is it kind to tell someone something that makes then feel bad in the short term but improves their long term outcome?
    In most professional settings, we want someone to who finds the kindest way to be right (e.g. a doctor).

  • @cheddarfodder
    @cheddarfodder Год назад +3

    22:10 or any country that has the word "Democratic" in its name.

  • @plapbandit
    @plapbandit Год назад +1

    Wise.

  • @Garrus1995
    @Garrus1995 Год назад +4

    I’m always down because I feel I wasted years of my life not doing anything, and I feel it may be too late for me to accomplish some of those things I still seek. I don’t know how to forgive myself and move forward. Can anyone help me out here?

    • @josephllinas2672
      @josephllinas2672 Год назад

      Yeah brother. You don't control the past. You only have right now, so do the next right thing. Outside of making things worse and doing the next wrong thing. It's the only choice you have

    • @danxdanx8877
      @danxdanx8877 Год назад

      Were you born in 1995 ?

    • @pariaheep
      @pariaheep Год назад

      You are bold for expressing this

    • @Garrus1995
      @Garrus1995 Год назад

      Danx Danx, Yeah.

    • @perrycoffey5410
      @perrycoffey5410 Год назад

      In the same boat

  • @DeadManVlog
    @DeadManVlog Год назад

    Great. 👏

  • @charlesd3024
    @charlesd3024 Год назад +5

    Happiness makes up in height what it lacks in length

  • @obionoshoes8111
    @obionoshoes8111 3 месяца назад

    非常好。我们非常喜欢KK

  • @SamK2525
    @SamK2525 Год назад

    The wealth for time is very subjective, and to me, most people I admire are less about free time and more about producing, working till they day they die, always looking for new ventures.
    Not saying it’s healthier or better but seems to me that the people with the most free time are the least happy and interesting.

  • @Romie15
    @Romie15 Год назад

    Thank you! ❤ Great episode! I'm actually watching it in full for the second time. There is so much to learn from this one. I also felt that there was a lot of chemistry between Chris & Kevin Kelly.

  • @leesy218
    @leesy218 Год назад +2

    Wow

  • @vonroretz3307
    @vonroretz3307 Год назад +2

    Read the Gospels. Most radical, more radical than anything since.

  • @StuartFerguson55
    @StuartFerguson55 Год назад

    Idk... I feel like there is a "them" in some cases.

  • @alreadythunkit
    @alreadythunkit Год назад +2

    Interesting chat, but it seems like y'all are overthinking things in order to seem deep.

  • @mephestopholes
    @mephestopholes Год назад +39

    That's a lot of habits. I can't even follow the 10 Commandments. Looks like I have more work to do...

    • @breadwinner541
      @breadwinner541 Год назад +3

      😂

    • @pariaheep
      @pariaheep Год назад

      (the 10) Commandments are in fact "utterances"

    • @Mickey-os2my
      @Mickey-os2my Год назад

      22 habits to follow ??? No wonder I ‘m a misfit 😅😅

    • @Sheyshel
      @Sheyshel Год назад

      Be optimistic

    • @hofmanntile4817
      @hofmanntile4817 Год назад

      It's only a lot if you try to build them all at once.

  • @gitgenKE
    @gitgenKE Год назад +1

    I just want to be

  • @stevebrambley9948
    @stevebrambley9948 Год назад

    Wired was a great magazine when it first appeared. Genuinely interesting articles and different viewpoints on niche unfolding issues. Now though, it’s nothing more than a predictable and boring mouthpiece for the establishment regurgitating the usual dogmas.

  • @MariaDeAngelusMcCoy
    @MariaDeAngelusMcCoy Год назад

    👏👏👏

  • @carolspencer6915
    @carolspencer6915 Год назад

    💜

  • @isaacwinters6954
    @isaacwinters6954 Год назад +1

    Kevin Kelly looks like the saltiest of sea dogs of old who would still croak through a gravelly voice and sing sea shanties like “Drunken Sailor” or “Wellerman” with the lads

  • @jackgoldman1
    @jackgoldman1 Год назад

    Heaven and Hell. If you are living in your car and you want to, you are in Heaven. If you are living in your car and you don't want to be, you are in Hell. All just a point of view. Making love and rape are just "consent", I want to or don't want to. The secret is in being on the right path.

  • @doublesteakhouse4475
    @doublesteakhouse4475 Год назад

    Barack Obama 😳

  • @dinosemr8141
    @dinosemr8141 Год назад

    ❤️💖❤️💖🙏💖❤️💖❤️

  • @MD-ib4ix
    @MD-ib4ix Год назад

    The more Kelly speaks the less impressive he seems to be.

  • @cliffbooth4826
    @cliffbooth4826 Год назад +1

    boring zzzzzz

  • @GavinCee
    @GavinCee Год назад +2

    Went off kev after he started only fans