Your speech impediment may be easier to cure than you think.

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024

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  • @tbone5675
    @tbone5675 7 лет назад +93

    It sucks cause I also have social anxiety disorder so knowing I may have said a word improperly to a person . my thoughts run with what I'm trying to say with what mistake i made in the sentence. so I come off rambling. I've ignored it when I was 12 based on like you said child hood trauma .

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  7 лет назад +2

      Hey T-Bone. let us talk more about this. e-mail me at valentine@academyofcommunication.com

  • @nicole-mm7wf
    @nicole-mm7wf 7 лет назад +73

    I had a speech impediment and they put me in a speech class ,, I couldn’t pronounce my Rs people would make fun of how I talk all the time. That made me so determined to get rid of my speech impediment and I did I’m now 13 and I speak perfectly fine ! it took some time but I learned how to control my mouth (if that makes sense) but I believe in anyone who’s trying ❤️

    • @xxTheCatsMeow
      @xxTheCatsMeow 6 лет назад +5

      Awesome! I did too! I couldn't pronounce my rs, I was teased, people did think it was cute when I was little, but as I got older I was embarrassed, so I taught myself without professional speech therapy, and by the age of 12 it was completely gone. I'm now 26 and can pronounce my rs. :)

    • @rintendotm5482
      @rintendotm5482 5 лет назад +3

      @@xxTheCatsMeow I'm facing the same problem I can't pronounce my rs. I'm 17 now but it's still there any tips to help me?

    • @clare7940
      @clare7940 5 лет назад +2

      I had the same problems, I never grew out of it sadly

    • @lyci_s
      @lyci_s 4 года назад +1

      Any tips ?

    • @kurstenhartsfield8567
      @kurstenhartsfield8567 4 года назад

      nicole can you teach me?

  • @dyracho6667
    @dyracho6667 2 года назад +17

    I'm born with speech impediment which led me to become an introvert. I am normally extrovert if I'm not suffering this damn thing. Sometimes, I want to say many things but words don't come out of my mouth. My speech sounds like a broken disc as I heard it from someone even when I was young. I feel so depressed , because like why can't I be a normal person who can talk normally?

    • @bfreeinjesus2323
      @bfreeinjesus2323 2 года назад +2

      Hello dyracho, I read paragraphs from books out loud daily and speak on the out breath. I take in a slow breath for 4 secs thru my mouth, then blow out a little air for 4 secs before I speak. Say about 6-7 words with each out breath, then exhale air slowly again to finish speaking. Repeat as needed in conversation especially when starting a new sentence. Inhale 4 secs, then blow out softly for 4secs to finish my sentence. This helps me a lot! Breath control is key! God Bless You!

  • @jabbaweezy
    @jabbaweezy 2 года назад +10

    Its weird because I developed a speech impediment out of nowhere during my senior year of high school. It gets progressively worse since then. Now I'm 24 and slurring my words at times.

    • @taszat
      @taszat Год назад +5

      bro sameee lmaoo just graduated and i sound nervous when i talk or something

    • @cezearr34
      @cezearr34 Год назад +2

      Same im 23

    • @Ilovejesuschrist012
      @Ilovejesuschrist012 11 месяцев назад +2

      Same I’m 18 and don’t know if 🌳 had an impact on it, I stopped smokn but yea been tryna fix it for years I speak 2 languages but I can’t even speak my native language properly now it’s so frustrating and tiring man

    • @woeful.xw23
      @woeful.xw23 5 месяцев назад

      NAHHH THIS ME ASF

  • @jacobmcclung3942
    @jacobmcclung3942 2 месяца назад

    Those are the words that ive needed to hear for years. Thank you for sharing.

  • @marsman01
    @marsman01 7 лет назад +16

    This ol man classy af

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  7 лет назад +2

      I think you mean I have a classy act. Well thanks. Need any help with voice or presentation? I have all the tips and tricks. Good luck.

    • @marsman01
      @marsman01 7 лет назад +1

      valentine palmer. Actually in all seriousness, I do. I have pretty good speech patterns but for some reason, when I'm under a lot of stress my throat constricts and my speech slurs or I sound squeaky or my voice quavers. A horrible condition for being in sales, law enforcement or even talking to the ladies.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  7 лет назад +1

      Sounds like you just do not take in enough breath and control it, especially what you are at all nervous. When making a presentation, in an interview situation, or taking out a girl, your brain and inner system naturally speed up. Therefore you need more breath and breath control in these situations. Also, try doing some relaxing exercises for the throat before you go into these situations. Humming is great for this. Also, massage the back of your neck and gently, very gently, massage your throat. Good luck

    • @marsman01
      @marsman01 7 лет назад +3

      thank you sir. I will try that

    • @Trulipy
      @Trulipy 5 лет назад +1

      @@marsman01 In case, you're a Christian, Jesus said not to call people Master, and Mr. is derived from Master.
      Matthew 23:8-10 "[8] But be not ye called Rabbi: for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye are brethren.
      [9] And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven.
      [10] Neither be ye called masters: for one is your Master, even Christ."
      Feel free to share with you Christian friends.

  • @charlydatduclai7734
    @charlydatduclai7734 6 лет назад +9

    I’ve been suffering from a speech impediment since my High School years around the age of 16 or 17, and now I am 23 and I really need help overcoming my stuttering problem.

    • @b3959
      @b3959 6 лет назад +1

      Charly Dat Duc Lai i hear that im 21 and mines getting worse. Your not the only one just think we all got this one life to live lets make the most out of it.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад +1

      Come on and talk to me. Time to deal with this problem.

  • @defiantjv2920
    @defiantjv2920 Год назад

    I will binge watch you tomorrow, just heard of the term speech impediment… and i knew i had an issue with my voice before… i couldn’t talk for more than 4 secs long and i stutter a lot or i would gasp for air after a long talk, or i cant really project my voice to other people… it is mostly silent.. i remember this vivid memory i had back then, me and my cousin were reading out loud and my grown cousin pointed how i could not read for a considerable amount of time unlike my cousin of the same age! And i think i reacted to this very poorly, i took it to the heart as a criticism and eventually ignored it until now. I have always had this problem whether my saliva accumulates under my tongue so much to the point where i am unable to talk properly because of it. I do know that it is mental and that i need to start working on it diligently. I pray to myself that i overcome this issue

  • @amalgamer6812
    @amalgamer6812 8 лет назад +32

    i have speech impediment and i need help

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  7 лет назад +2

      OK then contact me at valentine@academyofcommunication.com and we will talk more about this.

  • @beccataylor1716
    @beccataylor1716 8 лет назад +41

    What about R's? What if you can't say your r's. I've been in speech therapy ever since I was in 1st grade and it's Improved but...they aren't rifht

    • @adameuell5680
      @adameuell5680 8 лет назад +17

      omg I hate the letter R😑😧

    • @yungmvne3011
      @yungmvne3011 8 лет назад +6

      Same

    • @marylancelot
      @marylancelot 8 лет назад +15

      I can't say r either. There's two in my name. I hate the damn letter. Therapy didn't help.

    • @kronos7866
      @kronos7866 7 лет назад +5

      I'm the exact same but my family does not not have the money to go to therapy :(

    • @UnchartedGamerandReviewer
      @UnchartedGamerandReviewer 7 лет назад +5

      Try again. My first therapist was decent, second was shit, third time was the charm

  • @cameronschwarz3950
    @cameronschwarz3950 6 лет назад +9

    I get bullied a lot because i have a speech problem with S.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Well then, come and talk to me and we'll fix it in no time. Talk to me at valentine@valentinepalmer.com

  • @AUSWQPCV
    @AUSWQPCV 4 месяца назад +1

    bro i tell you right now god had to nerf me by giving me a speech impediment, without it i would be a menace in my school bruh

  • @rintendotm5482
    @rintendotm5482 5 лет назад +7

    Well I couldn't say the words with "L" and 'R" ever since I remember eventually I learned how to pronounce "L" when I was around 12 but my R still sounds like W. I'm 17 now and tired of being made fun of and bullied. I hate socializing because of it more like hate even talking. I know it can be cured because after months of experiments I was able to say L that's why I'm sure but I just don't know the movement or what you have to do with your tongue to pronounce R or words with, R

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Of course it can be cured. I've been helping people around the world with this problem for years. Let's talk. Don't be afraid. I won't bite and I won't charge you a fortune.

  • @unlov_able
    @unlov_able 4 года назад +1

    I’ve been going to the hospital if you may say it like that, and I have had it for 12 years now.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      12 years! Let's get it sorted! Contact me through my web site www.valentinepalmer.com for a free assessment of your problem.

  • @ChyloeReece
    @ChyloeReece 7 лет назад +4

    What if your speech impediment is a result of hearing loss? I can't find any videos or exercises that really cater to that.. They all say read aloud! and practice! But I can't tell what I'm doing wrong in the first place.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      This is an interesting situation. But I'm sure it can be handled. Want to spend a few minutes talking to me to find out? I'm at valentine@valentinepalmer.com

  • @catasticoffie
    @catasticoffie 7 лет назад +1

    I have full on speech impediment. And I hate it! It makes my voice sound completely different and sometimes people doesn't even know what I'm saying. My British accent doesn't help one bit.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  7 лет назад +1

      So, would you like some help? Whatever your speech problem, there will be a way that you and I can work to cure it, sometimes in just a few hours. I am happy to give you a free half hour of my time, so that we can together assess what the problem, or problems, are. If you have Skype, send a connection request to me at valentine2. Or give me your Skype name so I can send you a request to connect on Skype. If you don't have Skype, you can download it in seconds from the Skype site, and it's free to download and free to use. Alternatively, connect with me on Face Book and we can talk for free on Face Book messenger. Please also e-mail me with more details of your speech problems, so I can consider these before we meet. I'm at valentine@academyofcommunication.com Thank you for sharing your concerns. Nothing is impossible, when it comes to dealing with the human voice.

  • @awedora
    @awedora 2 года назад

    I’ve had a speech impediment for a while now, it used to be really bad, I’ve improved alot since then now I can’t say r, but recently I’ve become homeschooled, and now I don’t have a speech therapist

  • @nayacarson6989
    @nayacarson6989 Год назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @groundvieww
    @groundvieww Месяц назад

    i always talk too fast or stutter and i dont know how to correct it. my social anxiety and shyness make it no better

  • @B3fstew
    @B3fstew Год назад

    thank you I needed that :)

  • @jacewhetten7686
    @jacewhetten7686 3 года назад +2

    I dont know if i have a speech impediment or what but i hear myself different than in reality i hear myself fine but others and cameras hear me like i still talk like im 5

    • @josephgeorge620
      @josephgeorge620 3 года назад

      that's normal, the way you hear your voice is different then other people hear it (because of echo or something) so when you hear yourself on camera it sounds different, same thing for pictures, normally you see yourself in a mirror which reflects what you look like, so when you see yourself in a picture you feel like something is wrong.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Oh dear. This is very strange. We need to see what happens if you have a Zoom or Skype call with me. Remember that the voice you hear in your head when you speak is not the voice other people hear when you speak. Call me on +44 7746 121 974 and I will listen to see if I can trace the problem. Also, go to my web site www.valentinepalmer.com for advice

  • @allprojectscancelled1533
    @allprojectscancelled1533 6 лет назад +3

    I have problems with stuttering. And maybe that could contribute with my anxiety?

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад +1

      Absolutely. The two things are often connected - speak difficulty and anxiety. Talk to me now, before it gets worse. I am at valentine@valentinepalmer.com

  • @klutzes
    @klutzes 5 лет назад +3

    I have a speech impediment and it shall never be cured. I am antisocial and very socially awkward.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Come on! Let's get your problem cured. Don't sit there thinking you have to be the way you are. Sorting out your voice will change everything for you. Come to www.valentinepalmer.com Make effort and get cured!

  • @WrongWayCrew1
    @WrongWayCrew1 6 лет назад +3

    Sir I am 18 years old and I dont know what speach impendement I have but sometimes I start speaking really fast messing up words , and sometimes words dont come out easy , I don't stutter like s-s-stuttering , I just face a problem with fluency like I start accelerating and my tongue cant keep up with the things I wanna say in my mind. This pisses me off cause I wanna become a rapper this is my dream I am very good at it but sometimes fluency when I speak makes me feel so sad about it. Please could you give me an advise?

    • @Marian-xt1go
      @Marian-xt1go 3 года назад

      Literally me

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Come on Miko. Talk with me about your problem. Talk is free. I want to help.

  • @inactiveaccount4733
    @inactiveaccount4733 6 лет назад +1

    I have a speech problem with l, when I was little it used to be with only C and G but then as time when by my c's and g's we're normal but I started to struggle with L's and to this day I still can't say it, it gets in the way with everyday, to talking to friends to performing in drama, I hate it.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Come and talk to me. Talk is free. We can handle this together.

  • @-mrbright
    @-mrbright 6 лет назад +1

    Guys most speech impediments are caused by a brain defect mainly the wrong side of the brain is trying to produce the words causing the stutter it can't be cured but can be improved

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Well, that's an interesting comment, Jobe. I would certainly like to discuss it further with you. Would you care to make contact through www.valentinepalmer.com ?

  • @dzayn4263
    @dzayn4263 6 лет назад +2

    I talk fast so that’s why i am here but idk if its the right video or not

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Talk to me an learn the power of speaking slower.

  • @winiver77
    @winiver77 7 лет назад +3

    where are you ? i need help!

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      I am in the UK. But I work with clients all over the world via Zoom, Skype and WhatsApp. Drop me a line and we'll see what we can do. valentine@valentinepalmer.com

  • @kelseyfloyd9909
    @kelseyfloyd9909 Год назад

    What if have a overbite how can someone control speech impediment and use vocal

  • @tango1191
    @tango1191 6 лет назад +1

    Do you have a video on how to fix the S in words I have that problem I’m 15 had tied tonite my whole life. I thought I would have to get surgery to fix this. I want to be a singer, but I can’t if I know I’m not saying sounds right.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Hold it, Tango! You don't need surgery. Talk to me. No charge to start with. Contact me through www.valentinepalmer.com

    • @tango1191
      @tango1191 3 года назад

      @@valentinepalmer well I’m not sure if I have it anymore but if I do it’s not that bad now I think it’s barely noticeable now

  • @osiris5449
    @osiris5449 2 года назад

    hey, i use to take anti-deprecations and it caused me to have seizures and now i have bit of a speech impediment. im very brilliant, i just struggle saying things... Now because the medicine it's worse and i can say my Ss but very rarely ill whistle with it. how to recover from this side affect from ruining my life?

  • @leafsandcanucksfan3132
    @leafsandcanucksfan3132 6 лет назад +1

    I have one and have recently gotten into acting and cant seem to completely shake it yet my agent tells me I really need to completely get rid of it any especially when It comes to the S'sis any help would be gladly appreciated?

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      As one actor (ex) to another, let's get your voice fixed. Join me for a chat at www.valentinepalmer.com

  • @MareDMare
    @MareDMare 6 лет назад +1

    Do you have advice for the letters K/Q/T/R/S

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      We need to go through this together to get it absolutely right. Talk to me at www.valentinepalmer.com

  • @tahasheikh5038
    @tahasheikh5038 2 года назад

    I feel like I have a speech impediment "R" bcuz whenever I record myself, I sound so weird when pronunciating any word which includes "R". Is there any exercise? or way to treat it?.
    Also I face problem pronunciate words having "S", "T" etc.
    Maybe because I have tongue-tie.

  • @b3959
    @b3959 6 лет назад

    At age 21 i was hoping id grow out of it but its worsening as the months go by. Im fit i have 20 20 vision and tried to join the miliatary but my speech impedinent can get in the way.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  6 лет назад +1

      If you want to discuss how to handle/eliminate your vocal problem, then agree to a free 30 minute assessment on Skype or phone. However, you must be willing to work hard to eliminate your problem in the shortest possible time. Are you seriois?

    • @charlydatduclai7734
      @charlydatduclai7734 6 лет назад

      Casper Sorry to hear that, there is a way to overcome speech impediments. It just takes lots of hard work to overcome them.

  • @SA-ci7dl
    @SA-ci7dl 7 лет назад

    sir i am oromandibuler(open jaw)destonya patient last 4year my problem is chewing and speech but some time speak normal but short time pls you help me some suggestion wat i do my english language very weak sorry

  • @cannababie
    @cannababie 6 лет назад +3

    I have an impediment where I can’t pronounce CH and SH correctly and speech therapy didn’t work :^(

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  6 лет назад

      Hello Aleks, I can probably help you, so, drop me an e-mail at valentine@academyofcommunication.com
      And we can arrange to talk. Best wishes

  • @tarrelleharris1441
    @tarrelleharris1441 5 лет назад +1

    I have it but don’t think it’s a cured

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      Then let's cure it. Talk to me at www.valentinepamer.com

  • @kevinmiranda8365
    @kevinmiranda8365 7 лет назад

    I can’t say the R I have a overbite I dont know if that affects it I am 13 and when I talk my R sounds like a D I need help

  • @b3959
    @b3959 6 лет назад +1

    I wonder if smoking cigarettes can make stuttering worse since the brain is affected by carbon monoxide. Just a thought

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      If you have a stutter, come and chat to me about it. Talk is free. There has to be a way. I have helped many people with this problem.

  • @OMGItzKontrol
    @OMGItzKontrol 6 лет назад

    Wow dis wheally hewped me, thank you so much! I am so in wov with this video!

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад +1

      It doesn't look like you really need my help but just want to make a joke of the whole thing. Is that true?

  • @justinschreiber813
    @justinschreiber813 5 лет назад

    I can say right and really and stuff like that but I can’t say four, Or, are, and stuff like that and I talk a little fast so that doesn’t help

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  5 лет назад

      The R sound in English is completely different from the F sound in the way that it's formed. For F sounds, try making sure that your top teeth come over your bottom lip for this. Try this movement and keep trying it . I'm sure you'll find this helpful.

    • @justinschreiber813
      @justinschreiber813 5 лет назад

      valentine palmer I don't have a problem with f or word that begin with r but when I try to say are, or, four it sounds like are sounds like ah. Or sounds like oh and four sounds like fouh

  • @ajjohnson5379
    @ajjohnson5379 7 лет назад

    I have one too plz help

  • @meengineer2318
    @meengineer2318 7 лет назад

    i have also speech impediment. so some please help by mentioning any medicine name

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  7 лет назад

      Are you sure you need medicine? Or do you mean that you think you need medical help? Please e-mail me (valentine@valentinepalmer.com) details of your problem, so that i can help.

    • @meengineer2318
      @meengineer2318 7 лет назад

      i am osman from bangladesh.
      i need medicine or medical help on my impediment disease.
      now a days i can not speak a single sentence without impediment. but 4 or 5 years ago this problem wasn't as much as present and it is incresing in day by day .

  • @karimkansouh9063
    @karimkansouh9063 6 лет назад

    I have speech impediment can you help me please

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  6 лет назад

      You would have to discibe your impediment in detail before i can give an opinion. Opinion is free, after that it becomes a consultation. Would that be alright? No cure - no charge. Best of luck. I await your e-mail letter. Send to me at
      valentine@academyofcommunication.com

  • @mikesmiths1936
    @mikesmiths1936 3 года назад +1

    Ssssssssiirrrr you have my Ssssssubscription ! Thanks a lot , even the Sssss exercise helped a lot. #Thanks Sir! #rowl4nd99

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      You're are ssssso welcome. More good stuff at my new site www.valentinepalmer.com

  • @adamstadethelegend
    @adamstadethelegend 5 лет назад +1

    for a speech video the audio is absolute crap.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      If you think it's crap, could you tell me why you think this?

  • @valentinepalmer
    @valentinepalmer  2 года назад

    Give

  • @jataviouswilliamson3598
    @jataviouswilliamson3598 3 года назад

    i got a Learning Disability and a speech impediment 😢

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  3 года назад

      So, would you like some help with this? Most speech impediments are curable.

    • @DragonBallNOW
      @DragonBallNOW 3 года назад

      @@valentinepalmer Hi Valentine! Love your stuff on here as it's very educational warm to watch so to speak. How come you don't really upload anymore? Just curious as I know many others are. Not a problem if you have just been busy with life and haven't had the time. Just curious is all ♥️👍

    • @alagbede_1
      @alagbede_1 3 года назад

      @@valentinepalmer i need help sir

  • @mikeangelo94
    @mikeangelo94 7 лет назад +2

    Thanks for not helping at all. "Many speech impediments are to do with something... mental." Uhhh no shit Sherlock.

    • @milchmoon.7543
      @milchmoon.7543 7 лет назад

      mikeangelo94
      Mm, actually, some speech impediments can be physical. Like a lisp could be caused by braces or a retainer of some sort.

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  7 лет назад +2

      Hey, Rude Boy, there are exercises that work, if you follow my work enough on line. Hate to see someone getting so pissed off, but i can well understand it. Talk to me man to man. e-mail me at valentine@academyofcommunication.com

    • @valentinepalmer
      @valentinepalmer  7 лет назад

      Hello,Mike. I deal with the mental blocks, as well as the physical impediments to clear speech.

    • @MyPrimeone
      @MyPrimeone 6 лет назад

      valentine palmer,I need help how can I contact you