Stalker Adopts New Persona and Discovers Ex-Girlfriend's Affair | Michele Reiter and Lanny Bush

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  • Опубликовано: 30 янв 2025

Комментарии • 313

  • @jayl3322
    @jayl3322 7 месяцев назад +20

    Sometimes when I'm encouraging myself to make the right choice I tell myself I'm not ending up on Dr. Grande's channel today.

    • @ginaqc78
      @ginaqc78 3 месяца назад +1

      Yeah me neither!!!!
      I’m trying to figure it out, seeing so many red flags 🚩 and still having doubts 😢😢😢😢

  • @tinameyer7080
    @tinameyer7080 8 месяцев назад +272

    Why on earth would you tell an internet "love interest" the full name of another man you're engaging in relations with? Can't you just say- "I'm single and dating right now"....The willingness of people to share information with people they've haven't even met (in reality) never ceases to amaze me....smh

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 8 месяцев назад +28

      I don't share even with people I actually know. I have a small circle I share with

    • @eeyoresgirl55
      @eeyoresgirl55 8 месяцев назад +27

      Morally bankrupt. A serial cheater with no concern their behavior is wrong. Some actually don’t think it’s wrong unless they’re the victim.Same thing with him, he will have things his way even if everyone involved ends up miserable. He could have moved on with his new girlfriend but chose not to.

    • @ivannovotny4552
      @ivannovotny4552 8 месяцев назад +34

      ​@@mightymouse1005- The fewer people you chill with, the less bullshit you deal with. 🙂

    • @patriciafeehan7732
      @patriciafeehan7732 8 месяцев назад +17

      Too much information shared.

    • @calico-kat-mom6204
      @calico-kat-mom6204 8 месяцев назад +5

      Your right on😮

  • @mightymouse1005
    @mightymouse1005 8 месяцев назад +170

    NEVER EVER Go to meet an ex partner or someone you're leaving. If thry have you're property, let them keep it, or have police go with you or a couple big guys.. also STOP the obsession with closure....closure is an illusion

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 8 месяцев назад +152

    Not diagnosing, but in a situation like this I'm so glad that I'm a boring old fart who lives an uneventful life.

  • @LúciaKitten
    @LúciaKitten 8 месяцев назад +101

    Had a guy, who I was in charge of, at work... he stalked me and my kids and when I informed him I was his Sargent and in no possible way would I ever go out with him, he... in front of another officer, told me he was going to "make me ugly, scar my face". Had patrols around my house watching for him, in case he came by when I was at work...
    He got fired, but he owned a gun, and officers would see him around the parking lot we would use at work. He was married with toddler and a baby. Crazy people comes from all walks of life!
    Thank you so much for the analysis, Dr.Grande!!

    • @NickvonZ
      @NickvonZ 8 месяцев назад +10

      You misspelled SERGEANT and Sgts are NOT OFFICERS.
      I find your tale dubious.

    • @LúciaKitten
      @LúciaKitten 8 месяцев назад +13

      @@NickvonZ Worked for the military, DOD, for over 10 years, went into private sector, worked my way to SERGEANT (my phone also spells the other languages I communicate in, so... my apologies for the oversight)
      And... it doesn't really matter whether or not you "find it dubious"... it's entirely your right to, you don't know me, I don't know you!
      Hope you have a wonderful life!

    • @foresttemple1380
      @foresttemple1380 8 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@LúciaKittenan officer of the law is indeed an officer .

    • @MargaretCho-pt3ng
      @MargaretCho-pt3ng 8 месяцев назад +1

      Women fake harassment because women love attention.
      Dubious story indeed.

    • @NickvonZ
      @NickvonZ 8 месяцев назад

      @@MargaretCho-pt3ng 😸👍

  • @NotTodayJesusPlease
    @NotTodayJesusPlease 8 месяцев назад +56

    I'm ready to diagnose in a situation like this without speculating. People are dumb.

    • @Fractal_blip
      @Fractal_blip 8 месяцев назад

      You need to start making these kinds of videos too dawg

    • @NotTodayJesusPlease
      @NotTodayJesusPlease 8 месяцев назад

      @@Fractal_blip yeah, do I can lose my license. Smart. Lol

  • @Meela234
    @Meela234 8 месяцев назад +128

    Michele did not deserve to die the way she did. But she literally did not have the ability to make a good decision about anything. She left her husband and children for this crazy guy and lived with his abuse for 5 years. Then she proceeds to have an affair with a married man and tells a stranger on the internet about it, who she decides she wants to have an relationship with him next. I wish she had decided to focus on self-improvement and bettering her relationship with her children. Lanny is a crazy loon!

    • @TheRheverend
      @TheRheverend 8 месяцев назад +11

      Her terrible judgement was going to catch up with her in one way or another

    • @MargaretCho-pt3ng
      @MargaretCho-pt3ng 8 месяцев назад +7

      She couldn't keep her legs shut.

    • @ps8364
      @ps8364 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@MargaretCho-pt3ngthat's a gross thing to say

    • @MargaretCho-pt3ng
      @MargaretCho-pt3ng 8 месяцев назад +7

      @@ps8364 it's as gross as it is true. 🤢

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад

      we all been there, u never had crazy lifestyle. People do judge others,

  • @clqudy4750
    @clqudy4750 8 месяцев назад +26

    Does it ever occur to stalker/ murderers that there are so many other better things to do? Gardening, start a hobby, exercise, get some friends hang out and drink beer, etc.

    • @Fractal_blip
      @Fractal_blip 8 месяцев назад +2

      That's where the whole "mental health" thing comes into play, IMO. This Lanny character doesn't sound very stable.

    • @gossamer9966
      @gossamer9966 8 месяцев назад +2

      I can't even begin to understand their sick twisted minds. Why on earth would anyone chase after someone who doesn't want to be with them?? Who actually likes rejection? They just keep chasing more and more rejection and it makes zero sense to me.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад +1

      he not sound of mind, or he never thought it will help him, no family or friends maybe, hard to say

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@Fractal_blip yea, he not sound of mind

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад

      @@gossamer9966 u understand his mind? nobody know what goes into the human mind, do you? nobody understand the human heart and mind, mind is mysterious

  • @Ingaforagingandgrowing
    @Ingaforagingandgrowing 8 месяцев назад +32

    It was a great observation that Lenny didn't become a stalker when Michelle left him, he was always a stalker. Narcissists don't change, so sorry that all happened. RIP Michelle sending warm embrace to her family and friends💚🙏

    • @MargaretCho-pt3ng
      @MargaretCho-pt3ng 8 месяцев назад

      Women fake the idea of being stalked. It's quite common these days.

    • @falkor6615
      @falkor6615 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@MargaretCho-pt3ngI don’t think Michelle was exaggerating

    • @Ingaforagingandgrowing
      @Ingaforagingandgrowing 8 месяцев назад

      @@falkor6615 same here🌻

  • @SentMyOwnWay
    @SentMyOwnWay 8 месяцев назад +167

    The internet made romance a completely different kind of game

    • @jeremiahsantini5740
      @jeremiahsantini5740 8 месяцев назад +5

      No-fly zone

    • @chrisnanopoulos9905
      @chrisnanopoulos9905 8 месяцев назад +11

      Romance? It didn’t change it. It destroyed it.

    • @suzimonkey345
      @suzimonkey345 8 месяцев назад +9

      Predators used to use the Lonely Hearts section at the back of newspapers to find victims! It’s just easier & cheaper (no stamps!) now…😊

    • @calico-kat-mom6204
      @calico-kat-mom6204 8 месяцев назад +4

      And I don't play It.I'm so glad my time dating time was before the internet. 😮

    • @shanecrump7932
      @shanecrump7932 8 месяцев назад +4

      Yup. I feel so lucky to have a happy relationship and have never had to date or meet people on social media.

  • @reddishf0x237
    @reddishf0x237 8 месяцев назад +24

    im ready to speculate without diagnosing in a situation like this!

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 8 месяцев назад +11

    My anxiety is growing that sooner or later Dr.Grande with not diagnose me but will only speculate about what is going on in a situation like mine.

  • @jaimeparedes9188
    @jaimeparedes9188 8 месяцев назад +38

    I was stalked by a woman for several years and she wouldn't stop until I gave in to her demands. I finally gave in and 15 years later we're together with 3 kids. I'm just trying to figure out the right time to call the cops.

  • @dicedrice7216
    @dicedrice7216 8 месяцев назад +51

    It's shocking that she never verified Rocky's identity with her sister and others people she went to school with!
    She was either not very bright or enjoyed the thrill of putting herself in stupidly dangerous positions.
    Rest in peace Michele 🕯️

  • @ants_in_my_eyes_Wilson
    @ants_in_my_eyes_Wilson 8 месяцев назад +16

    I would not be surprised if lots of people accuse Dr grande of victim blaming at the end of the video. But he's right. Unfortunately, the only way for a woman to have her best chance of safely leaving a relationship like this, is to be aware of these things and to watch her back incessantly. Get help. A woman's life is never more at risk than at the time she's leaving an abusive partner.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад

      what she going to do? call the cops? so they could fail her lmao is she going move out? she can, is hard? maybe, not easy, or she have to kill him?? like the other woman who did, she took no chance having her life being stalked/.... u gotta see it as a enemy

  • @NYCHFAN
    @NYCHFAN 8 месяцев назад +11

    Stories like this make me happy I'm a committed single. 👍

  • @maryrichardson6029
    @maryrichardson6029 8 месяцев назад +14

    Always interesting
    I don't like people
    Thank you ❤

    • @Linda98671
      @Linda98671 8 месяцев назад

      Me either! I am married to one of the only people I trust, we keep ourselves to ourselves. That’s how we cope with the weirdness that is our world. Keep safe!

  • @marygoff3332
    @marygoff3332 8 месяцев назад +69

    The internet, social media and dating sites have basically ruined humanity.

    • @DBLRxyz
      @DBLRxyz 8 месяцев назад +23

      Or maybe just revealed it.

    • @calico-kat-mom6204
      @calico-kat-mom6204 8 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely.You are so on point with Your statement

    • @jaybee2337
      @jaybee2337 8 месяцев назад +21

      I think humanity has ruined humanity.

    • @thatisabsolutelykooooge2211
      @thatisabsolutelykooooge2211 8 месяцев назад +6

      More like the vanity of humanity ruined humanity

    • @kimsherlock8969
      @kimsherlock8969 8 месяцев назад

      Makes it a game for phycophaths to play people with deceitful profiteering money or sexual satisfaction 🤔

  • @Throatzillaaa
    @Throatzillaaa 8 месяцев назад +18

    When Lanny went and told the wife of the man that Michele was sleeping with, I wonder how she assumed the wife found out about the affair. She begins a flirtly relationship an "old high school acquaintance," for some reason tells him everything about her sex life, including the name of the man she was having an affair with (which seems particularly pointless since "Rocky" wouldn't know him anyway), and when the man's wife calls to tell her to stay away from her husband (and I am guessing that happened within a day or two of telling "Rocky"), she doesn't immediately realize Rocky isn't who he says he is? No blame to her. She was a victim of an abusive man who stalked her and ended her life. But I admit that I can't help but wonder how she figured the wife suddenly knew about the affair, even had her name and phone number.

    • @MargaretCho-pt3ng
      @MargaretCho-pt3ng 8 месяцев назад

      Being a woman means NEVER taking accountability of your actions.

  • @SeaBlue1976
    @SeaBlue1976 8 месяцев назад +18

    Since Covid lockdown Dr Grande helps me relax...
    P.S i had a stalker 2years ago.He never attacked me or something,but it was a very scary time in my life.
    And i am a 48 woman that was never got scared....Till then.
    Greetings from Greece 💙Stay safe

  • @captainhaire
    @captainhaire 8 месяцев назад +6

    Dr. Grande’s ad reads are the only ones I can stand.

  • @Swansong321
    @Swansong321 8 месяцев назад +37

    Rocky Switzer SO obviously made up!..but Lanny Bush sounds made up too.. pathetic perpetrator..REALLY get your own life..may she rest in peace..just awfulness

  • @returnofthereasoner3200
    @returnofthereasoner3200 8 месяцев назад +25

    How do you not recognize the voice/speech pattern of someone you know? 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 8 месяцев назад +2

      It's really easy to put filters on phones.

    • @Tranquility32
      @Tranquility32 8 месяцев назад +1

      Hi. I imagine in THIS day and age, it’s likely very easy to do.

    • @user-girlinterrupted
      @user-girlinterrupted 7 месяцев назад

      I thought the same thing.

  • @SebastianKrabs
    @SebastianKrabs 8 месяцев назад +42

    Why does everyone Google "How to do murder good but not go to jail"? 🤦‍♂️

    • @JamesQMurphy
      @JamesQMurphy 8 месяцев назад +21

      Because Bing sucks?

    • @SebastianKrabs
      @SebastianKrabs 8 месяцев назад +8

      @@JamesQMurphy obviously Google's not much better, it didn't return the proper results because they ended up in jail. 🤭

    • @JamilaJibril-e8h
      @JamilaJibril-e8h 8 месяцев назад +2

      I was thinking about it 🤔.....

    • @tanikokishimoto1604
      @tanikokishimoto1604 8 месяцев назад

      Perhaps some who do such searches are wannabe or actual writers of murder mysteries, seeking out vermisimilitude for their tales. But, yeah, if what they've searched online is very close to events they may have been involved in... Look deeper!

    • @tanikokishimoto1604
      @tanikokishimoto1604 8 месяцев назад +2

      But never just assume a search of anything automatically has a nefarious purpose! Geesh!

  • @tab6957
    @tab6957 8 месяцев назад +21

    Sadly I believe I'm dealing with something similar. Some guy I dumped after too many red flags has been trying to keep tabs on me and stalk me....although he moved in some woman. He falsely accused me of things too, to the point his gal literally wants to do something illegal to me. Now, I seriously believe he (maybe with her) is catfishing in response to my dating ad.

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 8 месяцев назад +5

      That's awful, narcissist are horrible. I would let friends and family know

    • @lindarockower6028
      @lindarockower6028 8 месяцев назад +14

      Don't have a dating ad right now. You need to be smart. Move away if you have to. Sorry, but you got yourself into this. Now you've got to get all the way out.

    • @twilightgardenspresentatio6384
      @twilightgardenspresentatio6384 8 месяцев назад +15

      Break all contact and make everyone aware of the threat

    • @Ingaforagingandgrowing
      @Ingaforagingandgrowing 8 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@lindarockower6028the person is in distress and possible danger it s not her behaving inopropriately, stalking and threatening, the ex should never do anything like that, no one is making him. It s not her faulght and it s not her and it s best to just support not blaming dear. I d suggest to reconsider writing/saying things like "it s your faulght, or you got yourself into the situation" in situations like this. Thank you for your energy and hope you have a good one🌻

    • @Ingaforagingandgrowing
      @Ingaforagingandgrowing 8 месяцев назад +5

      Sorry to hear that dear, you did well spotting the red flags and leaving. Please be careful, narcissists never change and it might be good to change your strategies re dating and places you go to, also maybe letting your friends and family know all the situation, screenshot, save and send copies of some text messages to them if there were any strange messages. Sending you lots of love ans positive energy🌻💚 i also follow dr Ramani to learn to navigate toxic relationships and smeat compaigns

  • @Cinder_311
    @Cinder_311 8 месяцев назад +11

    As soon as you said that Lanny told them they met earlier and had sex that sealed it for me. Guilty

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 8 месяцев назад +7

    What a terrible and odd case again. Narcissists never really change unless forced or really motivated. Great analysis again. Thanks Dr G😊💚🤎

    • @rickbrenner6079
      @rickbrenner6079 8 месяцев назад

      He definitely was a narcissist. I’d also bet he had psychopathic tendencies being the predatory stalker that he always was.

  • @mario-qi3yw
    @mario-qi3yw 8 месяцев назад +3

    I’m so sorry for Michelle’s family. Thank you Dr Grande for analyzing this case.

  • @grannyonwire8926
    @grannyonwire8926 8 месяцев назад +11

    You’re brilliant, Dr. grande❤

    • @LúciaKitten
      @LúciaKitten 8 месяцев назад +1

      I so agree with you!

  • @shee3073
    @shee3073 8 месяцев назад +5

    Let’s be real- Dr. grand is the biggest stalker of them all. How does he go about finding all of this detailed information on every one of these common every day people? iNteresting.

  • @yarnpower
    @yarnpower 8 месяцев назад +11

    Sad that many folks don’t understand or follow the Golden Rule.
    Lanny was not pleasant to her but still thought she would want to be with him. I would imagine he would not wanted to be treated that way.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад

      what u mean, he trying cope with emotions, even to point of googling. Probably no father figure in his life, no guidance just a lonely wolf

    • @MsSilverTulip
      @MsSilverTulip 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Moodboard39he was a horrible, abusive man. It was his choice to abuse and murder.

  • @karis7649
    @karis7649 8 месяцев назад +15

    Excellent segue to the ad!!
    (And less manipulative feeling than the home-security ads on TC podcasts).

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 8 месяцев назад +2

    Your background in diagnosing personality disorders definitely helps you understand how the criminal mind works Dr Grande.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад +1

      not always agree in his assement

  • @EveningShadeLori
    @EveningShadeLori 8 месяцев назад +23

    Never ceases to amaze me how the people that commit these crimes-Obviously don't watch crime channels on youtube.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад +2

      most dont watch crime shows, they not interesting of learning or seeking knowledge

  • @soyyo143
    @soyyo143 7 дней назад +1

    She had two children and was running around all over town with these guys? Poor kids.

  • @moonshark006
    @moonshark006 8 месяцев назад +2

    I look forward to watching your videos everyday Dr. Grande. Thanks and please keep up the great work

  • @einalemainesra
    @einalemainesra 7 месяцев назад +1

    listen to your instincts! I would never meet up with an ex I didn’t trust especially if the relationship ended badly. one time I needed to return a key to an ex, so I taped it to the bottom of a park bench and let him know which bench to look under.

    • @mildredpierce4506
      @mildredpierce4506 5 месяцев назад +1

      Some people don’t have any instinct and do not see any red flags

  • @tickledpnk85
    @tickledpnk85 8 месяцев назад +4

    Love your videos Dr ❤

  • @mightymouse1005
    @mightymouse1005 8 месяцев назад +9

    It you're not currently im a relationship , its not their business what you do and with whom.
    People really need to understand that and stop with the obsessive behaviors......

  • @kelliearnold8498
    @kelliearnold8498 8 месяцев назад +7

    I'm in my happy place with the ducks and geese!! Listening to Dr.Grande!! Thank you!! Here we go!! I'm so Excited!!

  • @williamwelch7
    @williamwelch7 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Dr. Grande

  • @DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT
    @DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT 8 месяцев назад +26

    Some men never mature emotionally beyond the level of a teenager.

    • @nathanfoss2838
      @nathanfoss2838 8 месяцев назад

      Those men attract women of the same type.

    • @MargaretCho-pt3ng
      @MargaretCho-pt3ng 8 месяцев назад +6

      But the woman that slept with EVERYONE is mature?

    • @smoothdahustla9729
      @smoothdahustla9729 8 месяцев назад

      That's true, and some women can never mature enough to keep their legs closed. They're also bad at making decisions on the types of men they should interact with.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад +1

      @M-yb1cc they both aint perfect, but one judges and what they justify and what they dont' Typical humans

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад

      @@MargaretCho-pt3ng lol

  • @dlc5166
    @dlc5166 8 месяцев назад +5

    I like how you pointed out that Lanny was always a stalker...i never thought about stalkers from that perspective yet it makes perfect sense

    • @MargaretCho-pt3ng
      @MargaretCho-pt3ng 8 месяцев назад +1

      I was accused of "stalking" because I wanted custody of my kids.
      Give me back my kids and I won't "stalk" you.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@MargaretCho-pt3ng they blame u lol so much for the justice system courts

  • @elizabethwarman9028
    @elizabethwarman9028 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Dr Grande, excellent . As always I learn something new from your videos.

  • @calico-kat-mom6204
    @calico-kat-mom6204 8 месяцев назад +15

    His Current Girlfriend should RUN 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️

  • @brendaredmond4678
    @brendaredmond4678 8 месяцев назад +2

    Dr. Grande, you are such a cool guy. Mostly because of the cactus part. 🌵

    • @LaniLanilei
      @LaniLanilei 8 месяцев назад

      Lol and I agree. Its a resilient plant

  • @WhoIsWhatIDK
    @WhoIsWhatIDK 8 месяцев назад +9

    My stalker ultimately killed himself. Mental illness, evil… Im lucky I didn’t end up on dateline murder mystery.

  • @BuyBBStonk
    @BuyBBStonk 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm not speculating, just diagnosing.

  • @Leo_Sneedinsky
    @Leo_Sneedinsky 8 месяцев назад +2

    Doctor Todd Grande, I hearby am requesting for you to do a breakdown of recently disgraced Minnesota lawyer and RUclipsr Nick Rekieta. It is very salacious and I think your insight would be fascinating!

  • @barbieblue3336
    @barbieblue3336 8 месяцев назад +5

    Sock puppets and diagrams would be helpful. Dr Grande's Puppet House of Criminal Investigations

  • @folee_edge
    @folee_edge 8 месяцев назад +1

    Breaking up your own marriage can be deadly🤷‍♂️

  • @sachinkumthekar6327
    @sachinkumthekar6327 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Dr.Grande, I am from India and enjoy all your videos. I like them very much. Just a quick question, why do you grill..roast...so much the New Jersey ? Seriously curious to know 😅

    • @MrNexor-cj8gs
      @MrNexor-cj8gs 8 месяцев назад +1

      It's just something people from New Jersey (or around it) do. It's like a running gag.

  • @Da1Dez
    @Da1Dez 8 месяцев назад +1

    Can you analyse the dissappearance of Laureen Rahn?

  • @QueenOfTheNorth65
    @QueenOfTheNorth65 8 месяцев назад +3

    Refrigerant? Yikes.

  • @eeyoresgirl55
    @eeyoresgirl55 8 месяцев назад +28

    When people show you who they are believe them the first time. She showed him she was an adulterer and he showed her he was toxic.

    • @6Haunted-Days
      @6Haunted-Days 8 месяцев назад

      Huh? THEY WERE SEPARATED! You sound just like him 🙄🤮 and sorry he much more than just toxic….he IS A MURDERER! So you think she got what she deserved for daring to. Date after separating? Unbelievable ignorance.

    • @eeyoresgirl55
      @eeyoresgirl55 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@6Haunted-Days smh she wasn’t separated from her husband when she started the affair with him, learn to read instead of acting out.

  • @KrohnosOW
    @KrohnosOW 8 месяцев назад

    I went to university in Brownwood. Didn’t even know about this!

  • @JP-wx6uh
    @JP-wx6uh 8 месяцев назад +9

    For a brief moment I thought I was looking at Robert DeNiro in the video's thumbnail.

  • @DJDouglasWarden
    @DJDouglasWarden 8 месяцев назад +1

    I guess maybe next time I'm trying to meet a new lady.I'll use the old.I was in a class with your friend line

  • @moemenace5345
    @moemenace5345 8 месяцев назад +1

    Dr. Grande, could you please analyze the case of Bossman Jack?
    Day 90 of asking 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

  • @anomboing
    @anomboing 7 месяцев назад +2

    She had no sense of self preservation

  • @emma.patrick
    @emma.patrick 8 месяцев назад +1

    can u please do daniel larson?

  • @HypocritesExposd
    @HypocritesExposd 8 месяцев назад +16

    He bought ammunition with his girlfriend’s credit card? If you’re going to ID someone using a credit card, I’d think if they were buying ammo that’s 100% the right time to ask for ID.

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 8 месяцев назад +1

      Someone buying ammunition should NOT be forced to show ID.......and for what?
      Unless a clerk has EPS and knows intent an ID shows nothing.

    • @zannigan222
      @zannigan222 8 месяцев назад +2

      Texas

    • @TrustMe55
      @TrustMe55 8 месяцев назад +1

      Some people are so sloppy at their jobs

    • @HypocritesExposd
      @HypocritesExposd 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@mightymouse1005 what did you not understand here? Credit card = required to show ID. Name on card is female when buyer is male = check ID. The third straw is the thing being purchased is ammo = check ID.

    • @MrNexor-cj8gs
      @MrNexor-cj8gs 8 месяцев назад +2

      I don't recall a time where anyone has ever even looked at my card when buying something.

  • @clownrituals587
    @clownrituals587 8 месяцев назад +18

    will…stay…at…home…with…my…cat

  • @FerintoshFarmsPhotography
    @FerintoshFarmsPhotography 8 месяцев назад +9

    Ooooh another Lanny. We are pretty rare, this should be good.

    • @Flamsterette
      @Flamsterette 8 месяцев назад +3

      Lanny MacDonald!

    • @Qrail
      @Qrail 8 месяцев назад

      Another Lanny? I have a brother-in-law by that name. No comparison.

  • @Spiritueli
    @Spiritueli 8 месяцев назад +1

    before you go on and commit to any relationship, make sure you know the person, inside and out ... iam in favour of teenage and childhood sweethearts, which is a relationship based on freindship, as you know the person from the youg age, which grows into the mature partnership. althoue, people rarely change, so you can know what to expect, since you know the person for decades before you actually marry and commit ... i also had this in my life, but sadly, my girlfreind at that time, offered me, to go traveling and adventuring life with her, so i had to make a choice ... i made a mistake, and ended a very healthy and strong relationship with my boyfreind ...

  • @Anniearchy
    @Anniearchy 8 месяцев назад

    BANG! BANG! bANG" DR. GRANDE IS ON FIRE!!!

  • @MrBillcale
    @MrBillcale 8 месяцев назад +6

    this guy aounds like a real nut, i feel for the poor girl, there are so many sick men out their with possesive eprsonalitis its an epeidemoic what is wrong with them, its so insane

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад

      soceity and government who made it like this, is always usa and white folks

  • @ilicarriedoll2843
    @ilicarriedoll2843 8 месяцев назад +4

    I don't like victim-blaming but Michele is really a lost cause....
    My former friend unfortunately is like this as well...she enjoys the thrill having affairs and secret escapades, and finds normal, stable relationship to be boring.
    I tried everything, from gentle talk to being firm against her bahavior but she ended up calling her a bad friend. Many times I helped her bailed out from sticky situation but never once I support her behavior.
    Then things escalated. Everyone knows I am her bff since hs, so the other half of people she have affair with couldn't find her, they would go find me instead. And then I found out she also had been borrowing money then go MIA - and these people would come find me as well.
    I was fearful of my life. I had been living a peaceful and stable life by living honest life, I can't have my life destroyed by some destructive....our almost 20 years of friendship ended there.

  • @gianfrancofini
    @gianfrancofini 8 месяцев назад

    Dr grande could you do Chico Forti case ????

  • @devereuxbirdzell
    @devereuxbirdzell 8 месяцев назад +5

    I don't mean to sound like I'm victim but blaming here, but holy cow! She did just about everything wrong here. I feel it's possible she may not have been the brightest bulb which seems like it contributed to her chronic poor decision making.

    • @mildredpierce4506
      @mildredpierce4506 5 месяцев назад

      Sometimes victims cause or contribute to their problems.
      Michell was going to have sex with someone she had never met.
      I feel sorry for her children

  • @birdworldist
    @birdworldist 8 месяцев назад +8

    Yes king go off

  • @schrutebuck88
    @schrutebuck88 7 месяцев назад

    "I guess Launie's (?) dates would've been upset if he did show up, so he was trying something new"
    Haha. Classic Dr Grande zinger

  • @kingjoe3rd
    @kingjoe3rd 8 месяцев назад +1

    People's complete ignorance of technology makes solving cases for police so much easier. It seems like half the cases I hear about these days would never be solved had the perpetrator just taken the battery out of their phone while they were committing their crime.

  • @happy_bubble7
    @happy_bubble7 2 месяца назад

    Stalkers often arent mentally stable all on their own. Add in a dysfunctional relationship... oh boy.

  • @seanh0123
    @seanh0123 8 месяцев назад +1

    Oof gotta love the 10 negative attribute smackdown

  • @priyokabi
    @priyokabi 8 месяцев назад +14

    Dont understand why a middle-aged woman should be behaving like a 14 year old! She had some serious problems

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 8 месяцев назад

      maybe have austism

  • @karastired
    @karastired 3 месяца назад

    Not me trying to figure out why this sounds so familiar and realizing it's because this happened in my area. This isn't the first time I've clicked on a random true crime video and it was from Abilene.

  • @kevinc809
    @kevinc809 8 месяцев назад +1

    They were in a Rocky relationship.

  • @Powderboxqueen
    @Powderboxqueen 8 месяцев назад +1

    What steak house closes at night?

  • @taydestiny38
    @taydestiny38 8 месяцев назад +2

    No remorse for Michelle. Hope the first husband and kids are doing okay.

  • @alantaylor353
    @alantaylor353 8 месяцев назад +1

    If Lanny grew up in the UK you'd better believe that everyone in school would've called him Fanny Bush.!!! 😉

  • @erikamccarthy1457
    @erikamccarthy1457 8 месяцев назад +1

    5/29/24 Smart enuf to hack text & emails, catfish her. Not smart enuf about tracking of cell phones. Lanny’s guilty, only one stalking & motive! Michele, rip

  • @seph4667
    @seph4667 7 месяцев назад

    What fabric is used as your studio background? Did you hang it yourself? How often do you find yourself pondering the choice? Do you sing in the shower? How many toothpicks do you have? What is your favorite song of all time? If crimes cease, will you spiral into untreatable depression?

  • @puspavelai8353
    @puspavelai8353 8 месяцев назад

    This woman must have been caught off guard. Perhaps, in a "happy mood" for the new date - which this stalker used in his plan. His planned murder included meeting his victim as himself in the end - it's most probably for shock effect, a revenge that satisfied him best.

  • @lindas5964
    @lindas5964 8 месяцев назад +1

    His prison photo says a lot

  • @MsSilverTulip
    @MsSilverTulip 8 месяцев назад +2

    This is why most women would choose the bear

  • @markferguson3745
    @markferguson3745 8 месяцев назад +6

    Gold digging and monkey branching clearly function across all levels of social stratus, with the same destructive results and outcomes.Divorce and selfish greed have made many a lawyer rich, many children neglected and miserable, and many a father alone and financially crippled.The fact that this often leads to other various felonies should surprise no one.

  • @fuferito
    @fuferito 8 месяцев назад +1

    Doing an awful thing on September 11th?
    9/11; it reminds me of that tragedy.

  • @rachaelb.
    @rachaelb. 8 месяцев назад

    i'm sorry you have had a lof of stalkng cases, Dr. Grande. That 's gotta be disturbing!

  • @carfo
    @carfo 8 месяцев назад +17

    why would anyone want to stalk such a terrible woman and throw your life away when you can just find someone else?

    • @thecastle09
      @thecastle09 8 месяцев назад +1

      Not that simple.especially for older people.

    • @eeyoresgirl55
      @eeyoresgirl55 8 месяцев назад +7

      He actually already had someone else, I don’t think he wanted her back he wanted to pay for rejecting him. Narcissistic AF.

    • @verone272
      @verone272 8 месяцев назад +4

      He was a terrible man 😂 And he had a new girlfriend

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 8 месяцев назад +3

      How do you know she's terrible?
      If everyone's secrets and worst of them was a focus, we would all be terrible....

    • @carfo
      @carfo 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@mightymouse1005 multiple affairs with married men isn’t what good people do imo, dunno bout you

  • @SunnysRoyalSkipper
    @SunnysRoyalSkipper 8 месяцев назад +5

    Never been so early!!

  • @cplmpcocptcl6306
    @cplmpcocptcl6306 8 месяцев назад

    Is anyone surprised the police didn’t investigate and just arrest?

    • @Brittanyjones-sf7rc
      @Brittanyjones-sf7rc 8 месяцев назад

      They do that as normal with men. I am surprised they did that with a woman though.

  • @TrustMe55
    @TrustMe55 8 месяцев назад +6

    Some women just have to have a man any man will do!

    • @rokess5053
      @rokess5053 7 месяцев назад

      I like to say, "Any man is better than no man!" just to hear people gasp in horror.

  • @LaniLanilei
    @LaniLanilei 8 месяцев назад +1

    Rocky, who is Lanny. Gawd. These are adults? Playing games is incidental to youth. You think?

  • @Vaultboy101
    @Vaultboy101 8 месяцев назад +2

    Mr Bush looks more like Mr Clinton.

  • @ARBBFamily
    @ARBBFamily 8 месяцев назад +2

    This sure didn’t have to happen… you go meet this guy alone? The justice systems are funny thing he’s guilty. just not that guilty… oh wait a minute he is that guilty

  • @mzalenski1
    @mzalenski1 8 месяцев назад +1

    You're only 1 cactus away from ascension

  • @Brittanyjones-sf7rc
    @Brittanyjones-sf7rc 8 месяцев назад

    Also, a 304 got what a 304's life will bring.

  • @yogeedough56
    @yogeedough56 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is why women are choosing the bear. 🐻

  • @lizmonard
    @lizmonard 2 месяца назад

    Do you think all stalkers have borderline personality disorder?