U have not addressed the issues of drugs and gun culture. Senior citizens parents visit US because of their children and grandchildren but afraid to stay for a long because of health issues
They also feel lonely and another issue is food because if there children marry in a different religion then parents face a lot of issues. Speaking from my experience.
Yes, sadly illegal mind numbing drugs are a widespread problem in most Western countries. It is coming to India too, but not yet as wide spread as in the USA, may be. Parents of first generation immigrants, most of whom would have grown up in India, is a serious issue. I have seen some languishing in old age homes in India. They don't have the same satisfaction now as before when they say, 'My sons / daughters are settled in the USA!!' With Desis who arrived in the USA in the 1960s and 1970s, they may have bought houses they could easily afford, whose children now talk their way out of difficulties with an American accent, they re unlikely to return to India, unless there is serious unrest in the USA. Then, they will surely think of INDIA!! After all, three million Bangladeshis have made India their home, seeing India as a 'comfortable country', especially Waste Bengal under Mammata rule!! Middle class Desis who arrived in the USA in the 21st century will surely find India a 'comfortable country' if they organise initial settling down financial and other arrangements. If Bangladeshis can do it, you surely can. You are the sons and daughters of the soil'!!!!!
@@krisi7562 All third world countries are poor countries because they are the ones who have serious terrorism, political, criminal, social, and religious unrest. That's why they are called third world countries! No one will want to come back to the third world country they were born in unless their visa/GC is denied or they get deported.
I am on H1B working in California and I am going back in 1 year , my visa is valid for 2 more years .My reason is quality of life is much much better in India presently and you get house help easily .
As my previous post says, if you can orient yourself, 'put on your Indian cap / hat', observe Indian issues with empathy and how to solve them, you will soon settle down in India. Look, there are millions upon millions of middle class - middle income - people in India with as good a living standard as the same middle class in California!! Everywhere the "daily grind' of traffic delays, cost of living and house / car repairs is the same. Why complain ever more loudly about them when in India? Yes, the autorickshaw fellow cheated you of Rs.100/- but it is not as bad as being burgled in Seattle of all the jewellery your wife brought as 'Sthree Dhan' when she got married to you. Or, some hoodlum sitting on your car bonnet, pointing a gun at you in the car park, demanding cash, 'everything you have got man' ( true episodes that happened to my Indian friends in the USA ). So, in that perspective we can forgive the autorickshaw driver and the clerk at the Municipality office taking Rs.500/- to issue 'domicile certificate'!!
Think carefully. There is no worklife in INDIA, companies will expect you to slog 13/14 hours daily. And will expect you to continue upskilling, do certifications etc. And there are other problems like traffic, layoffs, competition, water shortage, pollution. You can get household help but they will bunk most of the time so eventually you will have to cook clean wash dishes
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
Means you will be able to exploit other poor Indians as domestic help which you cannot do in US. Think from the perspective of domestic help who will work as your servant because they have no future.
I have been in houston for 47 years when I became a widow I wanted to go back to india but my own brothers and sister robbed me and cheated me of money like they were going to be there for me but I changed my mind
I think even people who have settled down well in USA honestly cannot say that they never miss their own country . I know friends and relatives who went there at a young age but were always worrying about the cultural influence of USA on their kids , always seeking more Indian families to gel with , searching for Indian food , looking to celebrate Indian festivals resulting in forming a closed community there . And the same people now that they are old , feel lonely as their kids who have now imbibed the American independence do not have much time for their parents any more . And if the kids have got married to a non Indian then this problem is felt even more . These people now look wistfully at us in India who get the warmth of the family .
Better to stay ... Don't ever go back to dump hole ... You are in a better place . Or try to move to a similar country like USA I mean developed nations.
@@rajgupte9899 we should think about new generation as well , kids will suffer more in indian system. I think it's best to make some kind of balance where parents also feel good.
@@khalsa3344India is far more better than the USA. Lol at least you have a sense of safety, plus prices are very cheap. Stay in the USA if you want to, but why are you forcing others? USA is no dreamland like they say..
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
Rajat bhai, one of my family friends' son, went back to India after 16 yrs. He came to the USA in 2006 after his engineering and came back this year. His kids are born in the USA.
We are on H1B Visa in Denver, our visa is valid for 3 yrs. We are going back to India in June 2025. We are so concerned about our old parent’s health issues. We feel Our own county is More safe and secured. Every day struggling with Visa issues
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
You are there from long so it may not be common in your circle but This trend is increasing these days because earlier US was way ahead but now there are many places in world including India which is becoming more lucrative and because of visa issues, safety issues etc are making US less lucrative
All parents r not comfortable to leave their roots at an old age. And it is not right of kids doing it . Old age is the time to stay where they r comfortable.
We are old couple age above 70 we are now citizen of usa because of our son my younger son is in australia l was working in bank for 41 years in india i think if you want to live with your family then you have adjust everything my husband is working here in store he is 74 years old
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
Too much work without house help. Expensive insurance, poor hospital service. These are all challenges . It won’t be a problem for super energetic and organized people.
This is a very hard one - Not many folks i know have gone back. Regarding parents situation, there are plenty of families where the folks in USA continue staying here, and the aged parents continue staying in India. Not many aged parents like staying in US. Very few parents from India will migrate to the US. Not an ideal situation - it's sort of sad, but also a reality.
I can proudly say, I'm one who is returning next year after 25 years. Reason: Greed breads only sadness, missing festivals, missed funerals where I was needed, too far from India (time and distance wise), less number of holidays in US, poor healthcare system, everything is expensive, don't have job good luck living here, racism, poor education standards (yes). FYI: I have lived in other parts of the world too, so the comparison is just not with India alone.
I had a question Rajat aapse. Maine aaplogon ko kafi time se follow kiya hai and kuch dusre logon ko bhi (jo America me rehte hain) Maine majorly yahi dekha hai ki aap sab indians k sath ghumte firte hain festivals indians k sath manate hain aur ghar ka sab lifestyle Indian he hai bas reh America me rahe hain. Mujhe aisa he feel aaya hai. Western close friends kisi vlogger k nhi dekhe maine na unke ghar pe aana jana ghumna party etc. Kya Indians sirf mainly zada paise k liye reh rahe hain America me? Ps( mere collg friends bhi MS krne gye the bhot saare sab Indian gang he bana k rehte hain toh aise America me rehne ka kya fayada?) Genuine thought tha mera.
I don't know about Rajat... But I agree with your observation... I follow a lot of Indians in other countries making vlogs. I hardly saw anyone having local native friends, going to their functions or celebrating the native festivals or inviting them to Indian festivals. I understand if they don't want to be on videos, but never have I seen this.... Rohan Virdy in his vlogs showed how he befriended local US people in his communities and how his neighbors not only invited him to their community functions but asked him about Indian foods as well. The only things he did was just went to them introduced himself.. I also don't understand foreign countries me jake sab kuch Indian chahiye to fir India me rahna hi sahi tha from all aspects... Anyhow, hum kya kare.. Just enjoying the vlogs..
Yes it makes sense to live in America for money, especially if u r working for MNCs. In India u work more for less pay. However US has its own benefits. It’s all about perspective some people like USA because it has better infrastructure. If there is someone on dependent visa whose educational qualifications are not accepted here and because of which he or she may not get a job straightaway- don’t think the infrastructure matters to him/her.
As a rule, we should adapt good things from other cultures . When our Indian culture is so beautiful, there is not much need to take from other cultures. Also Indians do celebrate Christmas and Thanksgiving in USA. Indians wear western clothes, speak English, and try American, Mexican food what else needs to be done. Indians are extremely friendly and adaptive.
Have been in US from 2007. I know very few people went back from both old and new circle of friends. The few folks who went back are those primarily who have been waiting for GC long time and have been frustrated. Once folks get used to the easy life in US, it becomes very difficult to go back to India and adjust to the day to day struggle and challenges.
Dude stop spreading false rumours if you haven't been to India. India has changed a lot. If you don't want to come, stay where you are, but why are you spreading lies about India? We don't want you here anyways.
Until nothing untoward happens to one's family, 'life is good' everywhere.... In 2007, in the USA, houses were cheaper, jobs were easier to get, could save well because of lower cost of living, crime was confined to Harlem and part of big cities. Sadly, even Rome changed for the worse. For the West, their economies will decline as China, India and other Asian and MiddleEast countries rise. For the well settled ones in the USA, they can manage. But the newer arrivals many will return to India. It is natural in both cases.
The grass is greener on other side But then ones country is their own My daughter too returned after 11 years I think we have evolved a lot over the years It is viceversa too if same salaries and comfortable stay closer to home is there where will you opt to stat I think we all know the answer
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Its making me laugh in today's world all of our so called smart Indians goes to foreign countries including America doesn't know the reality of America and then later ''crying and complain' about what America doesn't have
Okay my take 😅😅😅 I live in the US since 22 years I came pretty late in my age … I think it’s very important that’s why I have to say .. I come from a landlord background meaning still I have an inherited property.. we have a most modern house which has a facility for servants , driver obviously for guests we have literally pantry for them to cook food their own quarters…okay in short we have a dream house as a farm & a town villa too … later lived for a very long time in Mumbai where I used to have a pair of weekend attire , we had a unwritten law to go out for dinner … but the day I left for the US I was the most happiest person in the world.. reasons 1) too much of fake drama & rat race 2) there is no system like you have to be top notch to acquire even simple things , like out here they don’t give a shit who you are .. take out your auto generated token & keep an eye on your number to be called . 3) in India if it’s summer you can’t afford to switch on 24 / 7 heater , if it’s summer you can’t afford 24/ 7 Ac .. out here it’s common to have these facilities… 4) We Indians talk about culture .. Drugs are too easily available in India … even you go to small towns prostitution is free , you don’t even need a ID … if you are in bigger cities… you name it what type of girls , Auntie or from which region you want you will get it there is 14:17 no fear of getting caught, I know so many people they go to India to enjoy Desi sex 5) these so called families, how many will Accept you if you fail in business or loose your job , will the Indian society accept to living in the same society where you were driving your own car & since your downfall came you have to catch a bus instead 6) out here in the US let’s say you become poor or if you loose your job , living at the same place … socialise with the same people still you are accepted… eg .. I have a friend as I write he was very rich he had 100 thousand cash 3 months ago he lost everything in gambling… guess what now right now he is doing my lawns for $ 60 .. he is still my friend … my daughters mother lost a good job 9 months ago .. guess what I called for a food delivery & her she comes with the delivery… she thought its better to do delever job till she finds a good job which she did … we were & are the best friends.. her daughter had come last week for Overnight stay .. Tell me can you face all these downfall in India living in the same neighborhood… Hugh only one thing one can do is commit suicide About teaching about life & sanskar… I see the Indian kids back home so pampered & they know nothing.. I watch many Indian bloggers.. blady they know nothing about home management.. nor about doing handy things, I have a 10 year daughter… She cooks , pays all the house bills through e / bills … She goes with me to the shooting range , she does all the grocery by herself.. desi , American, & vegetable market … she is aware of what is needed to purchase from where … noooo I am not praising my daughter but honestly speaking I have come across too may Indian kinds with better Indian values living in the US 🇺🇸
I agree with you. The things you feel proud about your 10 year old daughter doing independently even 40 year old ladies are not comfortable doing. I personally know many v well of people in my social circle who can buy house above million dollars without any mortgage here, who have grown up children here but they don't want to settle because they can't get lots of cheap househelp here. I find it strange that people value cheap househelp more than their children and then Indians talk about values😅
@ I totally agree with you … by the way I mentioned about my lifestyle & what background I come from India just to justify that I had already seen A/ C cars , & a amazing nice life back in India … it’s not that I came from the slums & I am going crazy after seeing this American life … same way I mentioned about my Daughter too just to let the stereotype Indians that they have in mind that kids are cultured back home ..🤗… by the way the most funniest part is actually India to me is the 51 st state of the USA … Indian politicians can’t digest their food without mentioning about what Washington post & Newyork Times wrote about India ( MF … who are these news papers .. why so much Importance) … now the Indian cinema … so sad & pathetic to call it Bollywood ufff I feel like throwing… I almost cried when I saw the Chinese theatre next to the iconic Kodak theatre in LA , the place where hall of fame is … can you Imagine Hindi cinema is appreciated all over the world , from Africa to Middle East to China to Russia you name it !!! Anyways but our so called stars think Oscars is the ultimate.. why ! Why ! Can’t we love our own , award ceremony, same with the music world … they want or their dream is all about Grammy… so everyone every Indians are blady diwana of America & it’s lifestyle so why cribb …lastly what hurts me the most is come on that watchman who can’t take his daily shower who is sitting in a small post that too without fan , same those servants who knows nothing about hygiene , when these people says Saab these people tend to think they are really so called Saab lol 😂 what a pathetic .. what a world one live in … no wonder when they come to the US they come bag full of Maggie & I know someone who has brought some vegetables also with her 😂😂😂….
Also.... not everyone who is staying in UAS is happy.. not all parents want to come..they have their own social circle in india why will they come to USA... also the old people dont have to wait for medical issues in India there are many greencard holders who have returned...
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
The last point should have been placed as "first". I know of so many people who have problems with that. You guys are young now and may not prioritise that, touch wood hope you have a healthy life ahead, but life can throw surprises..
Parents and families are only reason , people are coming back. Your parents don't leave their own place so Money is not everything. If you're talented enough, you will definitely get good packages here and you can live your life here.
Fewer people has left US in ur known circle is bcs you have old company,you came US long back. But lot of Indians are returning who have moved ther in last 4-5years. Bcs struggle in life u too much now there.
Main 72 yr ka hun. Mujhe India ka koi chiz pasand nahi tha bachpan se. Mera sapna tha ki 1. main apani premika ko sath lekar USA chala jaun. 2. Main Physics aur Mathematics men research karun. Mere ye dono sapne sapne hi rah gaye. Maine iske bad, koi bhi Indian author ki kitab nahi padha. Mai kai sau books padhe European and American authors ke. Isi karan, meri 5 books publish hui from SPRINGER. Unfortunately, mai samundar par kabhi nahi ja saka. Meri ichha hai ki, mere marne ke bad meri lash ko USA ke kisi wirane men dafna diya jay. Main west ka aadmi hun jo galti se India men chhut gaya hun.
You haven’t mentioned the cold weather in north east which is not conducive to have parents here. The house may be heated but they will be prisoners at home for 3-4 months a year. And who likes to be that way - the freedom to step out and visit easily to temple without depending on someone to drive you. Not only daily help even driver is a super luxury here
Loads of love to Rajat Bhai, Shilpa Mam, and Hazel. I love your videos a lot as I see simplicity. I want to know what Shilpa Mam studied at her college. It's a request. I am obsessed about knowing the jobs of common Americans (Whities).
GUN CULTURE AND DRUGS MAFIA IS ALSO CONCERN FOR EVERYONE EVEN IN NEWYORK IS NOT SAFE JUST BECAUSE OF GUN AND DRUG CULTURE YOU CAN SEE A CEO OF UNITED HEALTH GROUP NOT SAFE SO WHAT ABT NORMAL PERSON....IF U R GETTING 1 LAKH-2 LAKH U R KING IN INDIA BRO.....THAT'S WHY AFTER 10 YEAR I MOVED BACK TO INDIA...🎉🎉🎉
Bhai healthcare is not cheap in india.It is at par as USA if u consider purchasing power parity.Yes here we can go to doctor at anytime as there are many doctors available but it is not possible in USA.You will have to take appointment first and reach before that particular slot.
I think there are pros and cons of living in any country. Many Indians do not adjust to western culture easily. You cannot expect Indian culture in the west. 90% of Indians talk about returning to India but they do not. One cannot get best of 2 worlds the reality most of Indians dont understand. US makes you independent & strong. You start respecting people. I could not take the help of manual labour in India and was disgusted how they are treated. Good way to stay physically fit.
Equivalent of 10K USD per month salary is now reality in India. specially in high tech industry. still you will not be able to live in a Bungalow like US near your workplace in India. luxury of domestic help...comparatively cheap and instantly accisible medical facilities...you should be physically fit to do everything by yourself in US...even all these things...US is till dream destination for many.
For historical reasons Indians' image of 'Brittain and Umrika' was too rosy to begin with, that is in the 1950s and 1960s, perhaps, accentuated by Congress governments misrule of India - antagonism towards private enterprise and 'Licence-Quota Raj'. But in the 21st century gradually the 'rosy tint' is getting smeared through reality of life in the U.K. and in the USA!! Drug addiction and 'aimless and pointless antagonism' towards family and Hindhu culture among ABCD ( American Born Confused Desis) can be a problem for the families and the larger Desi community.
I was craving to return back from abroad as being an Indian I was not able to manage house chores and office. I was happy with my decision until my maid for 3 years stole gold ,silver and other valuables while she was employed by me. After that my views be like, Bhai mujhe to na chahiye aise domestic helpers, apna haath jagannath. Vaise bhi yaha bhi metro cities me mahangai bahut hai. Nanny 15k-20k, cook 5k ( always asking ,kithni roti khaoge) jhadu pocha vaali ( depend on house size min 2k) We indians are too much dependent on others.
Parents ko visa mil bhi jaaye woh shaayad ek age ke baad wahan jaana pasand nahi karenge . Kuch reasons : lack of domestic help , emotional dependence on friends and relatives and way of life in India , inability to be independent in US as they are in India wrt driving their own car , almost non existent public transport . Other factors like cold weather as on the east coast states where you remain homebound almost entire winter . People in USA get used to breathing that stale air generated by internal air conditioning throughout the year , but in India we like our dose of fresh air through open windows . And parents who are financially independent , have their own home , health insurance etc in India would feel miserable there .
In the long run, your own children are your family. Time आने पर extended family काम नहीं आती, rather अगर आप अच्छे set हो, कई बार अपनी ही so called family मारे jealousy के जलते रहते है, legally, medically aur environment के हिसाब से आप USA में better हो अगर आप well set हो; आज कल तो India में भी culture नाम का हो रह गया है!
True !! financial commitments are the main reason for relocating to other countries. But at the end we must come back to our home country to take care of the family and settle in our country. Nice vlog Rajat and Shilpa Ji.😊😊😊🤝
Question is why people do not know these things before going to usa? Why they live their whole life in UAE, SA, Qatar those do not offer permanent residency or Citizenship but not wants to live in usa?Bottom line & 99.99% fact is Visa issues that forced them to move back or go to some other country..
I think one point you guys did not cover is that there are lots of indians who are working here for over 10 years and retire by 40s using FIRE approach in india without 9 to 5 compulsion and start their second innings in india. I personally know 5 families who did that in spite of my social circle is much smaller than yours. It all depends on several factors and some you then you covered. In the US, you never get retired, you are in the rat race to sustain, even Social security wants you to work till 67 before you start pulling the benefits. It's a personal choice.
Fine, India would be open to expatriate Indians' initiative and ideas, especially in the private sector. BE A BRIDGE BETWEEN INDIA AND THE USA!! Private sector is about 'net working' through contacts, processes and products. Organise a fit that benefits both India and the USA. To me private entrepreuners are the unsung heroes of all times, with the exception of Elon Musk and Zuckerberg. If you fail, 'try again'. I know of Sindhi Hindhus driven out of Sindh in 1947, some sold plastic flowers to avoid starvation, some polished shoes at Victoria Terminus, all millionaires now because they tried again and again, unlike the last Hindhu Raja of Sindh, Raja Dhaheera (who lost a war with the invader Md. bin Quassim, then disappeared)!!! Sindhi Hindhus are an example to all of us. 'Never say die / I am finished'!!!
Many will go back down the lane if IT jobs are impacted. Market is getting tighter with overflow of people coming in. Immigration is getting tougher every year. Best days are getting over slowly. Even if you tell people not to come they come and then complain 😂
All are excuses, people moved to india to take care of ailing parents in old age, those who have siblings and taking care of parents they are not at all going back to india. Second group is Going after 50 to enjoy retirement life with near and dears one in our own culture is different level of feeling
Shilpa di ata question tha.. App ki family to app logo ka pas aa jati ha par app log jab sa chief hua ho app ka parents ka gar to gaya he nahi.. Mah chata hu ki ap log baby ko la kar parents ka ghar jao.. It's a humble request ❤❤❤
12 salo se aap dono ke jankari ke anusar kewl 8 log wapas aaye india aur india se students aur any people 1 lakh per year ke hisab se america me jate hai to 12 sal ke hisab se 12 lakh log america chale gye aane aur jane ke number me jamin asman ka difference hai aur india aane wale log kewal khane pine festival aur family feeling ki bat krte hai main bat to ki hi nahi jo ek middle class ke family jhelta hai job opportunity kitni hai india me berojagari, cruption, jati dharm pr ladai danga, aur population ye sb kyo nahi batate jo america se waps india me aate hai aur america se india aane walo ka main resion hota hai Green card nahi milta hai aur jis visa pr gye hote uska time khatm ho jata hai main wajh yehi hota
Problems in India : mosquitoes, air pollution, noise pollution (someone may organise noisy 7 day long religious gathering in your neighbourhood without your permission), heavy traffic with jams in roads full of potholes, corruption and last but not the least reservation policy which will affect your future generation.
There is no dedicated ambulance service in India. My aunt met with an accident a passerby took her to the hospital in his car though she passed away because she could not get there in time.
Rajat what I love about your family is you are mature in your understanding of life, living in a foreign country/culture and in your communication. I have seen almost all your videos - oldest to the latest.. One of the few vloggers I love to see always... I agree with the VISA issues which makes life uncertain in USA.... Healthcare in USA is the worst of the developed nations.. India has far better healthcare... Other than that the other reasons are just typical Indian excuses... Just stating the hard facts - Indians love to gossip and they miss it in foreign countries... Homesickness, missing families, friends - why? Because gossip karna hain... Household chores maid se karane hain, time energy save karke extra gossip karna hain.. Luxury me gossip karna hain... Indians apne parents ka ghosle se bahar nahi nikalna chahte aur apne bachho ko bhi apne hi ghosle me rakhna pasanad karte hain... Foreign countries ke culture of - build your own nest Indians ko pasand nahi... Sadly, Indian parents want to teach about Indian culture to their kids... Unfortunately, Indian culture hai kya ye khud nahi jante... Just follow the traditions - it makes us proud. India is the land of wisdom... However, nobody in India cares about wisdom. Culture, Traditions or gossip has become the tradition. Security issues in US schools is present but watching the news would make anyone feel all doom & gloom. Indian schools are not safe either from sexual abuse of children, traffic accidents, or other issues. Again not all schools are everyday suffer the same. Everything comes down to - Luxury of gossiping and consuming unhealthy foods in insane amount in the name of festivals.
@@yogensewani6354 Not hate, it's more of disappointment.... The land of knowledge & wisdom has been turned into land of tradition, superstitions & non-stop gossip. 99% has no interest in learning about Sri Ram & Sri Krishna, Vivekananda or Krishnamurthy, their life, wisdom, principles, but in the name of them will do infinite superstitions... It's really hard to look at the Indian society - education system gone downhill, laws are discriminatory, no body cares.. Yet, in the name of traditions do just anything, eat as much as you can and gossip.
@@yogensewani6354 It's not hate. I am more disappointed with the state of affairs in our country. Indian is the land of spiritual wisdom & knowledge. However, today nobody bothers about learning about great sages & seers or personalities like Krishna or Ram or Vivekananda or Krishnamurthy... All are busy fulfilling corrupted traditions in the name of those great men and follow superstitions & beliefs. Our education system has gone downhill, people has no civic sense or responsibilities, yet nobody cares. Everyone is busy to gossip in the name of festival, traditions, or just time pass and eat as much as one wants... Gossip & entertainment has become the top priority. This is what saddens me when Indians go abroad instead of living a better higher life they expect & want the same that they have left in India.
No no novidesh rahna mjburi.hoti jo mja apne desh me vo prayo me kya khak hoga aab India bhut aage he uas piche logo se he kya Krna puchhre deshme rah ke jnha brtn khud dhona kitni kthin jidgi he hmare desh me sab aas pas jay hind❤❤🎉
U have not addressed the issues of drugs and gun culture. Senior citizens parents visit US because of their children and grandchildren but afraid to stay for a long because of health issues
Indian media only shows US having drugs and guns, which is not true. Did Rajat's parents say they faced these issues when they were here?
They also feel lonely and another issue is food because if there children marry in a different religion then parents face a lot of issues. Speaking from my experience.
Yes, sadly illegal mind numbing drugs are a widespread problem in most Western countries. It is coming to India too, but not yet as wide spread as in the USA, may be. Parents of first generation immigrants, most of whom would have grown up in India, is a serious issue. I have seen some languishing in old age homes in India. They don't have the same satisfaction now as before when they say, 'My sons / daughters are settled in the USA!!'
With Desis who arrived in the USA in the 1960s and 1970s, they may have bought houses they could easily afford, whose children now talk their way out of difficulties with an American accent, they re unlikely to return to India, unless there is serious unrest in the USA. Then, they will surely think of INDIA!! After all, three million Bangladeshis have made India their home, seeing India as a 'comfortable country', especially Waste Bengal under Mammata rule!! Middle class Desis who arrived in the USA in the 21st century will surely find India a 'comfortable country' if they organise initial settling down financial and other arrangements. If Bangladeshis can do it, you surely can. You are the sons and daughters of the soil'!!!!!
@@krisi7562 All third world countries are poor countries because they are the ones who have serious terrorism, political, criminal, social, and religious unrest. That's why they are called third world countries! No one will want to come back to the third world country they were born in unless their visa/GC is denied or they get deported.
I am on H1B working in California and I am going back in 1 year , my visa is valid for 2 more years .My reason is quality of life is much much better in India presently and you get house help easily .
As my previous post says, if you can orient yourself, 'put on your Indian cap / hat', observe Indian issues with empathy and how to solve them, you will soon settle down in India. Look, there are millions upon millions of middle class - middle income - people in India with as good a living standard as the same middle class in California!!
Everywhere the "daily grind' of traffic delays, cost of living and house / car repairs is the same. Why complain ever more loudly about them when in India? Yes, the autorickshaw fellow cheated you of Rs.100/- but it is not as bad as being burgled in Seattle of all the jewellery your wife brought as 'Sthree Dhan' when she got married to you. Or, some hoodlum sitting on your car bonnet, pointing a gun at you in the car park, demanding cash, 'everything you have got man' ( true episodes that happened to my Indian friends in the USA ). So, in that perspective we can forgive the autorickshaw driver and the clerk at the Municipality office taking Rs.500/- to issue 'domicile certificate'!!
Think carefully.
There is no worklife in INDIA, companies will expect you to slog 13/14 hours daily. And will expect you to continue upskilling, do certifications etc.
And there are other problems like traffic, layoffs, competition, water shortage, pollution.
You can get household help but they will bunk most of the time so eventually you will have to cook clean wash dishes
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work
And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
Wondering if you did not do this research before coming to US? No house help. US is more about independent living opposite to Indian culture.
Means you will be able to exploit other poor Indians as domestic help which you cannot do in US.
Think from the perspective of domestic help who will work as your servant because they have no future.
I have been in houston for 47 years when I became a widow I wanted to go back to india but my own brothers and sister robbed me and cheated me of money like they were going to be there for me but I changed my mind
If we started working as hard in India as we work abroad, everyone in India would be a millionaire and billionaire
Baccha hai tu.
India is the best country to live ❤
I think even people who have settled down well in USA honestly cannot say that they never miss their own country . I know friends and relatives who went there at a young age but were always worrying about the cultural influence of USA on their kids , always seeking more Indian families to gel with , searching for Indian food , looking to celebrate Indian festivals resulting in forming a closed community there . And the same people now that they are old , feel lonely as their kids who have now imbibed the American independence do not have much time for their parents any more . And if the kids have got married to a non Indian then this problem is felt even more . These people now look wistfully at us in India who get the warmth of the family .
It’s time to go back home again…We’re in USA for more than 30 years..Parents will suffer and feel lonely if they come to USA permanently
Better to stay ... Don't ever go back to dump hole ... You are in a better place . Or try to move to a similar country like USA I mean developed nations.
India will be always home no matter what!!!
@@rajgupte9899 we should think about new generation as well , kids will suffer more in indian system. I think it's best to make some kind of balance where parents also feel good.
@@khalsa3344India is far more better than the USA. Lol at least you have a sense of safety, plus prices are very cheap. Stay in the USA if you want to, but why are you forcing others? USA is no dreamland like they say..
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work
And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
Rajat bhai, one of my family friends' son, went back to India after 16 yrs. He came to the USA in 2006 after his engineering and came back this year. His kids are born in the USA.
We are on H1B Visa in Denver, our visa is valid for 3 yrs. We are going back to India in June 2025. We are so concerned about our old parent’s health issues. We feel Our own county is More safe and secured. Every day struggling with Visa issues
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work
And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
You are there from long so it may not be common in your circle but This trend is increasing these days because earlier US was way ahead but now there are many places in world including India which is becoming more lucrative and because of visa issues, safety issues etc are making US less lucrative
India is becoming lucrative??
@@nimig5143 you aren't addressing the issue
@@nimig5143Yes, in terms of health care system, booming IT hub.
All parents r not comfortable to leave their roots at an old age. And it is not right of kids doing it . Old age is the time to stay where they r comfortable.
I agree
We are old couple age above 70 we are now citizen of usa because of our son my younger son is in australia l was working in bank for 41 years in india i think if you want to live with your family then you have adjust everything my husband is working here in store he is 74 years old
Please guide me how can i come there ?
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work
And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
Too much work without house help. Expensive insurance, poor hospital service. These are all challenges . It won’t be a problem for super energetic and organized people.
This is a very hard one - Not many folks i know have gone back. Regarding parents situation, there are plenty of families where the folks in USA continue staying here, and the aged parents continue staying in India. Not many aged parents like staying in US. Very few parents from India will migrate to the US. Not an ideal situation - it's sort of sad, but also a reality.
Time has changed.. You can do. Multiple things in India.. Lifestyle, Dollar game of US will get over in few years for sure.. Wait and watch 😊
Dollar not going anywhere. Its a myth. Watch Dollar Milkshake Theory
Parents who have always worked, have their pension will value their freedom and will only visit their children for holiday.
U tackle the situation which bothers all indians living in usa👍👍
I moved back to India from the USA a few months ago.
I can proudly say, I'm one who is returning next year after 25 years. Reason: Greed breads only sadness, missing festivals, missed funerals where I was needed, too far from India (time and distance wise), less number of holidays in US, poor healthcare system, everything is expensive, don't have job good luck living here, racism, poor education standards (yes). FYI: I have lived in other parts of the world too, so the comparison is just not with India alone.
I had a question Rajat aapse. Maine aaplogon ko kafi time se follow kiya hai and kuch dusre logon ko bhi (jo America me rehte hain)
Maine majorly yahi dekha hai ki aap sab indians k sath ghumte firte hain festivals indians k sath manate hain aur ghar ka sab lifestyle Indian he hai bas reh America me rahe hain. Mujhe aisa he feel aaya hai. Western close friends kisi vlogger k nhi dekhe maine na unke ghar pe aana jana ghumna party etc. Kya Indians sirf mainly zada paise k liye reh rahe hain America me?
Ps( mere collg friends bhi MS krne gye the bhot saare sab Indian gang he bana k rehte hain toh aise America me rehne ka kya fayada?)
Genuine thought tha mera.
I don't know about Rajat... But I agree with your observation... I follow a lot of Indians in other countries making vlogs. I hardly saw anyone having local native friends, going to their functions or celebrating the native festivals or inviting them to Indian festivals.
I understand if they don't want to be on videos, but never have I seen this....
Rohan Virdy in his vlogs showed how he befriended local US people in his communities and how his neighbors not only invited him to their community functions but asked him about Indian foods as well. The only things he did was just went to them introduced himself..
I also don't understand foreign countries me jake sab kuch Indian chahiye to fir India me rahna hi sahi tha from all aspects... Anyhow, hum kya kare.. Just enjoying the vlogs..
Bilkul sahi americans accept nahi karte
Yes it makes sense to live in America for money, especially if u r working for MNCs. In India u work more for less pay. However US has its own benefits. It’s all about perspective some people like USA because it has better infrastructure. If there is someone on dependent visa whose educational qualifications are not accepted here and because of which he or she may not get a job straightaway- don’t think the infrastructure matters to him/her.
As a rule, we should adapt good things from other cultures . When our Indian culture is so beautiful, there is not much need to take from other cultures. Also Indians do celebrate Christmas and Thanksgiving in USA. Indians wear western clothes, speak English, and try American, Mexican food what else needs to be done. Indians are extremely friendly and adaptive.
Agree with you
Elderly parents feel very lost in western countries. They only want to visit for a short term every few years.
Have been in US from 2007. I know very few people went back from both old and new circle of friends. The few folks who went back are those primarily who have been waiting for GC long time and have been frustrated. Once folks get used to the easy life in US, it becomes very difficult to go back to India and adjust to the day to day struggle and challenges.
There is no struggle in India. Here life is very smooth. I think you have no perfect idea about India
Dude stop spreading false rumours if you haven't been to India. India has changed a lot. If you don't want to come, stay where you are, but why are you spreading lies about India? We don't want you here anyways.
Until nothing untoward happens to one's family, 'life is good' everywhere.... In 2007, in the USA, houses were cheaper, jobs were easier to get, could save well because of lower cost of living, crime was confined to Harlem and part of big cities. Sadly, even Rome changed for the worse. For the West, their economies will decline as China, India and other Asian and MiddleEast countries rise. For the well settled ones in the USA, they can manage. But the newer arrivals many will return to India. It is natural in both cases.
The grass is greener on other side
But then ones country is their own
My daughter too returned after 11 years
I think we have evolved a lot over the years
It is viceversa too if same salaries and comfortable stay closer to home is there where will you opt to stat
I think we all know the answer
Chalo chalein let’s go to our homeland 🇮🇳🙏
In America or Canada life is very difficult to live. Indian youths are leaving because of beauricatic corruption , no proper law and order,insecurity.
Nothing wrong going back to india as long as kids are not effected by the move
India is so westernised so i am not sure what sanskar and culture people are missing
Very Nice Both of you..Well ExplainedI hope this Blog has helped many people..Welldone Nd Keep it up ji..Hazu Bhe peechy kuch bol rahi thee😂😂.Well Bless All Sweet Family..Anti Uncle ji kese hai..Her Blog Mai unki Yad Aati hai..❤❤
Uncle aunty are great too, we are planning to visit India next year
@ouramericandream1183 Wow Great News...
Buddy Teddy ko mere pass chord jao aap
Aap Buddy Teddy Mere pass Chord de ..
Agar flight me aa sakte to India hi le jate haha, UK kaise aaenge vo dono. But thanks for offering
Its making me laugh in today's world all of our so called smart Indians goes to foreign countries including America doesn't know the reality of America and then later ''crying and complain' about what America doesn't have
Hey Rajat.. Muje esa kyu lag raha hai ki aap log INDIA shift ho rahe ho..
These NRIs are having substantial properties back in India
Okay my take 😅😅😅 I live in the US since 22 years I came pretty late in my age … I think it’s very important that’s why I have to say .. I come from a landlord background meaning still I have an inherited property.. we have a most modern house which has a facility for servants , driver obviously for guests we have literally pantry for them to cook food their own quarters…okay in short we have a dream house as a farm & a town villa too … later lived for a very long time in Mumbai where I used to have a pair of weekend attire , we had a unwritten law to go out for dinner … but the day I left for the US I was the most happiest person in the world.. reasons
1) too much of fake drama & rat race
2) there is no system like you have to be top notch to acquire even simple things , like out here they don’t give a shit who you are .. take out your auto generated token & keep an eye on your number to be called .
3) in India if it’s summer you can’t afford to switch on 24 / 7 heater , if it’s summer you can’t afford 24/ 7 Ac .. out here it’s common to have these facilities…
4) We Indians talk about culture .. Drugs are too easily available in India … even you go to small towns prostitution is free , you don’t even need a ID … if you are in bigger cities… you name it what type of girls ,
Auntie or from which region you want you will get it there is 14:17 no fear of getting caught, I know so many people they go to India to enjoy Desi sex
5) these so called families, how many will
Accept you if you fail in business or loose your job , will the Indian society accept to living in the same society where you were driving your own car & since your downfall came you have to catch a bus instead
6) out here in the US let’s say you become poor or if you loose your job , living at the same place … socialise with the same people still you are accepted… eg .. I have a friend as I write he was very rich he had 100 thousand cash 3 months ago he lost everything in gambling… guess what now right now he is doing my lawns for $ 60 .. he is still my friend … my daughters mother lost a good job 9 months ago .. guess what I called for a food delivery & her she comes with the delivery… she thought its better to do delever job till she finds a good job which she did … we were & are the best friends.. her daughter had come last week for
Overnight stay ..
Tell me can you face all these downfall in India living in the same neighborhood… Hugh only one thing one can do is commit suicide
About teaching about life & sanskar… I see the Indian kids back home so pampered & they know nothing.. I watch many Indian bloggers.. blady they know nothing about home management.. nor about doing handy things,
I have a 10 year daughter…
She cooks , pays all the house bills through e / bills …
She goes with me to the shooting range , she does all the grocery by herself.. desi , American, & vegetable market … she is aware of what is needed to purchase from where … noooo I am not praising my daughter but honestly speaking I have come across too may Indian kinds with better Indian values living in the US 🇺🇸
I agree with you. The things you feel proud about your 10 year old daughter doing independently even 40 year old ladies are not comfortable doing. I personally know many v well of people in my social circle who can buy house above million dollars without any mortgage here, who have grown up children here but they don't want to settle because they can't get lots of cheap househelp here. I find it strange that people value cheap househelp more than their children and then Indians talk about values😅
@ I totally agree with you … by the way I mentioned about my lifestyle & what background I come from India just to justify that I had already seen A/ C cars , & a amazing nice life back in India … it’s not that I came from the slums & I am going crazy after seeing this American life … same way I mentioned about my Daughter too just to let the stereotype Indians that they have in mind that kids are cultured back home ..🤗… by the way the most funniest part is actually India to me is the 51 st state of the USA … Indian politicians can’t digest their food without mentioning about what Washington post & Newyork Times wrote about India ( MF … who are these news papers .. why so much Importance) … now the Indian cinema … so sad & pathetic to call it Bollywood ufff I feel like throwing… I almost cried when I saw the Chinese theatre next to the iconic Kodak theatre in LA , the place where hall of fame is … can you Imagine Hindi cinema is appreciated all over the world , from Africa to Middle East to China to Russia you name it !!! Anyways but our so called stars think Oscars is the ultimate.. why ! Why ! Can’t we love our own , award ceremony, same with the music world … they want or their dream is all about Grammy… so everyone every Indians are blady diwana of America & it’s lifestyle so why cribb …lastly what hurts me the most is come on that watchman who can’t take his daily shower who is sitting in a small post that too without fan , same those servants who knows nothing about hygiene , when these people says Saab these people tend to think they are really so called Saab lol 😂 what a pathetic .. what a world one live in … no wonder when they come to the US they come bag full of Maggie & I know someone who has brought some vegetables also with her 😂😂😂….
Also.... not everyone who is staying in UAS is happy..
not all parents want to come..they have their own social circle in india why will they come to USA... also the old people dont have to wait for medical issues in India
there are many greencard holders who have returned...
What an interesting topic I really enjoy listening to your points even though I live in the Uk 😊
Rajat Bhai aap btaiye apko kaisa lgta h yaha hum log phle Dallas m hi the ab Columbus Indiana m rhte h
badhia video banate ho aap log.. :-)
Hlo sir am bsc nursing graduate currently working in delhi gotted liescence in nwyrk and planning to go us nex year but after 5 yrs what options i had so i can stay more in usa and work
And if my agency file green card application for me so at that time what will be the outcome please suggest
The last point should have been placed as "first". I know of so many people who have problems with that. You guys are young now and may not prioritise that, touch wood hope you have a healthy life ahead, but life can throw surprises..
Parents and families are only reason , people are coming back.
Your parents don't leave their own place so Money is not everything. If you're talented enough, you will definitely get good packages here and you can live your life here.
U will get more insight into this when u visit Bangalore. The city is full of US return people. I know quite a few within my family n friends
Achha hua maine wo video nhi dekhe time bach gaya.Aapka video dekh liya final jurisdiction ❤
Fewer people has left US in ur known circle is bcs you have old company,you came US long back. But lot of Indians are returning who have moved ther in last 4-5years. Bcs struggle in life u too much now there.
Main 72 yr ka hun.
Mujhe India ka koi chiz pasand nahi tha bachpan se.
Mera sapna tha ki
1. main apani premika ko sath lekar USA chala jaun.
2. Main Physics aur Mathematics men research karun.
Mere ye dono sapne sapne hi rah gaye.
Maine iske bad, koi bhi Indian author ki kitab nahi padha.
Mai kai sau books padhe European and American authors ke.
Isi karan, meri 5 books publish hui from SPRINGER.
Unfortunately, mai samundar par kabhi nahi ja saka.
Meri ichha hai ki, mere marne ke bad meri lash ko USA ke kisi wirane men dafna diya jay.
Main west ka aadmi hun jo galti se India men chhut gaya hun.
You haven’t mentioned the cold weather in north east which is not conducive to have parents here. The house may be heated but they will be prisoners at home for 3-4 months a year. And who likes to be that way - the freedom to step out and visit easily to temple without depending on someone to drive you. Not only daily help even driver is a super luxury here
Loads of love to Rajat Bhai, Shilpa Mam, and Hazel.
I love your videos a lot as I see simplicity.
I want to know what Shilpa Mam studied at her college. It's a request.
I am obsessed about knowing the jobs of common Americans (Whities).
GUN CULTURE AND DRUGS MAFIA IS ALSO CONCERN FOR EVERYONE EVEN IN NEWYORK IS NOT SAFE JUST BECAUSE OF GUN AND DRUG CULTURE YOU CAN SEE A CEO OF UNITED HEALTH GROUP NOT SAFE SO WHAT ABT NORMAL PERSON....IF U R GETTING 1 LAKH-2 LAKH U R KING IN INDIA BRO.....THAT'S WHY AFTER 10 YEAR I MOVED BACK TO INDIA...🎉🎉🎉
Apka kya plan hai in future?
4:01 bhai parents hamare generation ke nehi hai, unko india ka mahol waha kaise doge? Language barrier, cultural barrier, many many things
Its very hard to bring parents.
Bhai healthcare is not cheap in india.It is at par as USA if u consider purchasing power parity.Yes here we can go to doctor at anytime as there are many doctors available but it is not possible in USA.You will have to take appointment first and reach before that particular slot.
Too good.
I think there are pros and cons of living in any country. Many Indians do not adjust to western culture easily. You cannot expect Indian culture in the west. 90% of Indians talk about returning to India but they do not. One cannot get best of 2 worlds the reality most of Indians dont understand. US makes you independent & strong. You start respecting people. I could not take the help of manual labour in India and was disgusted how they are treated. Good way to stay physically fit.
Nice vieso ..can u make videos abt where u live like how is u r community and school area & work possablity ...
Equivalent of 10K USD per month salary is now reality in India. specially in high tech industry. still you will not be able to live in a Bungalow like US near your workplace in India. luxury of domestic help...comparatively cheap and instantly accisible medical facilities...you should be physically fit to do everything by yourself in US...even all these things...US is till dream destination for many.
Good observation Rajat Bhai and Shilpa Mam❤❤ Special guest cute appearance by little Hazel ❤❤🎼
For historical reasons Indians' image of 'Brittain and Umrika' was too rosy to begin with, that is in the 1950s and 1960s, perhaps, accentuated by Congress governments misrule of India - antagonism towards private enterprise and 'Licence-Quota Raj'. But in the 21st century gradually the 'rosy tint' is getting smeared through reality of life in the U.K. and in the USA!!
Drug addiction and 'aimless and pointless antagonism' towards family and Hindhu culture among ABCD ( American Born Confused Desis) can be a problem for the families and the larger Desi community.
I was craving to return back from abroad as being an Indian I was not able to manage house chores and office. I was happy with my decision until my maid for 3 years stole gold ,silver and other valuables while she was employed by me. After that my views be like, Bhai mujhe to na chahiye aise domestic helpers, apna haath jagannath. Vaise bhi yaha bhi metro cities me mahangai bahut hai. Nanny 15k-20k, cook 5k ( always asking ,kithni roti khaoge) jhadu pocha vaali ( depend on house size min 2k)
We indians are too much dependent on others.
Please make video for L1 visa...Thank you
The person who has capabilities can earn money from anywhere..y need us jobs..people are crazy..wasting time outside country
Parents ko visa mil bhi jaaye woh shaayad ek age ke baad wahan jaana pasand nahi karenge . Kuch reasons : lack of domestic help , emotional dependence on friends and relatives and way of life in India , inability to be independent in US as they are in India wrt driving their own car , almost non existent public transport . Other factors like cold weather as on the east coast states where you remain homebound almost entire winter . People in USA get used to breathing that stale air generated by internal air conditioning throughout the year , but in India we like our dose of fresh air through open windows . And parents who are financially independent , have their own home , health insurance etc in India would feel miserable there .
In the long run, your own children are your family. Time आने पर extended family काम नहीं आती, rather अगर आप अच्छे set हो, कई बार अपनी ही so called family मारे jealousy के जलते रहते है, legally, medically aur environment के हिसाब से आप USA में better हो अगर आप well set हो; आज कल तो India में भी culture नाम का हो रह गया है!
Shilpa you said chota chota doctor somehow that made me laugh😅
vai ap logo ka sab kuch smoothly huya hain issiliye bari bari baat kar rehe hain
इडिया थोड़ा पैसा आराम से जिंदगी चल जाते अच्छा
Uncertainty
Mai aur meri wife greencard holder hai fir bhi mai 6 monh me vapas india aa gaya.
Usa 🇺🇸 mein sari life emi bharte raho bus😂
Live in US i feel i did mistakes when i came from india. When your kids start school they faces many raises
Especially if you have kids you need house help and family. It is extremely difficult and overwhelming and depressing.
True !! financial commitments are the main reason for relocating to other countries. But at the end we must come back to our home country to take care of the family and settle in our country. Nice vlog Rajat and Shilpa Ji.😊😊😊🤝
Bharat ko jarurat nhi bhai vahi raho chill 😂
Question is why people do not know these things before going to usa? Why they live their whole life in UAE, SA, Qatar those do not offer permanent residency or Citizenship but not wants to live in usa?Bottom line & 99.99% fact is Visa issues that forced them to move back or go to some other country..
I think one point you guys did not cover is that there are lots of indians who are working here for over 10 years and retire by 40s using FIRE approach in india without 9 to 5 compulsion and start their second innings in india. I personally know 5 families who did that in spite of my social circle is much smaller than yours. It all depends on several factors and some you then you covered. In the US, you never get retired, you are in the rat race to sustain, even Social security wants you to work till 67 before you start pulling the benefits. It's a personal choice.
Fine, India would be open to expatriate Indians' initiative and ideas, especially in the private sector. BE A BRIDGE BETWEEN INDIA AND THE USA!! Private sector is about 'net working' through contacts, processes and products. Organise a fit that benefits both India and the USA. To me private entrepreuners are the unsung heroes of all times, with the exception of Elon Musk and Zuckerberg.
If you fail, 'try again'. I know of Sindhi Hindhus driven out of Sindh in 1947, some sold plastic flowers to avoid starvation, some polished shoes at Victoria Terminus, all millionaires now because they tried again and again, unlike the last Hindhu Raja of Sindh, Raja Dhaheera (who lost a war with the invader Md. bin Quassim, then disappeared)!!! Sindhi Hindhus are an example to all of us. 'Never say die / I am finished'!!!
jitne bhi nri america me hai vo vapes india aa jaye...modi ji ne golden age vapes la di hai.....saare nri vapes se bharat aa jao
Aap log india hi aa jao waha indian ko respect nhi karte ❤❤
Aisa nhi h
@@Shreyanshu-i8k buddy teddy ka kya hoga fir
Many will go back down the lane if IT jobs are impacted. Market is getting tighter with overflow of people coming in. Immigration is getting tougher every year. Best days are getting over slowly. Even if you tell people not to come they come and then complain 😂
aap kb ja rhe ho vapis India
buddy teddy ko nhi dikhate aap
All are excuses, people moved to india to take care of ailing parents in old age, those who have siblings and taking care of parents they are not at all going back to india. Second group is Going after 50 to enjoy retirement life with near and dears one in our own culture is different level of feeling
Shilpa di ata question tha.. App ki family to app logo ka pas aa jati ha par app log jab sa chief hua ho app ka parents ka gar to gaya he nahi.. Mah chata hu ki ap log baby ko la kar parents ka ghar jao.. It's a humble request ❤❤❤
12 salo se aap dono ke jankari ke anusar kewl 8 log wapas aaye india aur india se students aur any people 1 lakh per year ke hisab se america me jate hai to 12 sal ke hisab se 12 lakh log america chale gye aane aur jane ke number me jamin asman ka difference hai aur india aane wale log kewal khane pine festival aur family feeling ki bat krte hai main bat to ki hi nahi jo ek middle class ke family jhelta hai job opportunity kitni hai india me berojagari, cruption, jati dharm pr ladai danga, aur population ye sb kyo nahi batate jo america se waps india me aate hai aur america se india aane walo ka main resion hota hai Green card nahi milta hai aur jis visa pr gye hote uska time khatm ho jata hai main wajh yehi hota
Eesha👍
Yanha (India)ka health insurance bhi bhut costly hai, advertisement mei sab achha batatey hain. Compare karoge toh dollar v/s rupee,
Brother agar Bache apne parents k sath aye us to Kya unhe rehna chieye ja pir apne Bache ko yha chodkr India Chle jae . App Kya suggestions Doge.
Problems in India : mosquitoes, air pollution, noise pollution (someone may organise noisy 7 day long religious gathering in your neighbourhood without your permission), heavy traffic with jams in roads full of potholes, corruption and last but not the least reservation policy which will affect your future generation.
Reservation in India is since 2000 years.
What about health care ? Indian health care system is much better than the US.
There is no dedicated ambulance service in India. My aunt met with an accident a passerby took her to the hospital in his car though she passed away because she could not get there in time.
We are here 16years ...
Noted your points...Well put.
Till end i listen carefully yr vedio....but why dont you bring yr baby today ?????? I love yr baby sooo much....she is v cute n ..sweet
Chote chote doctor shilpa😂
“ TO EACH THEIR OWN “
Indian have adopted western culture like any thing, seems sanatan will vanish in future.
Nice vlog
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are bhai office jaate bhe ho ya youtube par he lage rahte ho.
Rajat what I love about your family is you are mature in your understanding of life, living in a foreign country/culture and in your communication. I have seen almost all your videos - oldest to the latest.. One of the few vloggers I love to see always...
I agree with the VISA issues which makes life uncertain in USA.... Healthcare in USA is the worst of the developed nations.. India has far better healthcare... Other than that the other reasons are just typical Indian excuses...
Just stating the hard facts - Indians love to gossip and they miss it in foreign countries... Homesickness, missing families, friends - why? Because gossip karna hain...
Household chores maid se karane hain, time energy save karke extra gossip karna hain.. Luxury me gossip karna hain...
Indians apne parents ka ghosle se bahar nahi nikalna chahte aur apne bachho ko bhi apne hi ghosle me rakhna pasanad karte hain... Foreign countries ke culture of - build your own nest Indians ko pasand nahi...
Sadly, Indian parents want to teach about Indian culture to their kids... Unfortunately, Indian culture hai kya ye khud nahi jante... Just follow the traditions - it makes us proud. India is the land of wisdom... However, nobody in India cares about wisdom. Culture, Traditions or gossip has become the tradition.
Security issues in US schools is present but watching the news would make anyone feel all doom & gloom. Indian schools are not safe either from sexual abuse of children, traffic accidents, or other issues. Again not all schools are everyday suffer the same.
Everything comes down to - Luxury of gossiping and consuming unhealthy foods in insane amount in the name of festivals.
Why so much hate for India?
@@yogensewani6354 Not hate, it's more of disappointment....
The land of knowledge & wisdom has been turned into land of tradition, superstitions & non-stop gossip.
99% has no interest in learning about Sri Ram & Sri Krishna, Vivekananda or Krishnamurthy, their life, wisdom, principles, but in the name of them will do infinite superstitions...
It's really hard to look at the Indian society - education system gone downhill, laws are discriminatory, no body cares..
Yet, in the name of traditions do just anything, eat as much as you can and gossip.
@@yogensewani6354 It's not hate. I am more disappointed with the state of affairs in our country. Indian is the land of spiritual wisdom & knowledge. However, today nobody bothers about learning about great sages & seers or personalities like Krishna or Ram or Vivekananda or Krishnamurthy...
All are busy fulfilling corrupted traditions in the name of those great men and follow superstitions & beliefs.
Our education system has gone downhill, people has no civic sense or responsibilities, yet nobody cares. Everyone is busy to gossip in the name of festival, traditions, or just time pass and eat as much as one wants...
Gossip & entertainment has become the top priority. This is what saddens me when Indians go abroad instead of living a better higher life they expect & want the same that they have left in India.
No no novidesh rahna mjburi.hoti jo mja apne desh me vo prayo me kya khak hoga aab India bhut aage he uas piche logo se he kya Krna puchhre deshme rah ke jnha brtn khud dhona kitni kthin jidgi he hmare desh me sab aas pas jay hind❤❤🎉
Rajat ji baby bhi baat karna chahta hai video mein
haha yes
They have Indian culture yet, it’s getting worse than here
I think it’s all upon your gut. Whether to embrace the moment.
simple si baat h, jab tak visa h aur cheejein normal h koe nahi jata. Sab battein h
Main reason is India has become viswaguru and Atmanirbhar and going to be the third largest economy of world .