The Hard Truth About Managing People
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- Опубликовано: 14 сен 2018
- I really wanted to share this talk about trusting employees, giving them trust and then learning how they operate from there rather than the traditional "trust is earned" stance.
Also, for anyone that is confused, because I'm a very alpha character and I believe that the new "man" is growing in emotional intelligence and "soft skills". Kindness, empathy, and gratitude, which were once considered "soft" are now becoming cool.
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Killer as always Gary...Just started putting your advice into practice. For anyone who thinks otherwise, the man speaks truth, truth you'll only really understand when you start to implement it. Much love as always brother!
“99.9% of people that you judge you have no idea what the f#$+ is going on in their life” 🙌🏽
So the employer is supposed to be the psychologist?
People are just soft these days and also so what hes saying is if youre the owner or manager and worked ur ass off to get where u are u have to cater to the lazy needs of the needs even at the expensive of your own stress and spirit
I once had a shitty manager and I was a high performing individual and my results started to decrease when he took over. Shortly after he got fired things started to improve again. We did lose a few people. But just providing an example of how a shitty manager/individual can drive people out. Treat others with respect and simply the way you wanna treated, shit isn’t hard..
Gary, you’ve taught me how to look at myself before any decision. You show me daily how to rid myself of insecurities, and ultimately how to take control of my life. Thank you sir! I’m truly grateful to share my time on this planet with you.
I AM SO HAPPY YOU MADE THIS VIDEO! I really have this question all the time! I am very young for having my own business. I started with my boyfriend out of the back of a local bagel shop in their off hours at night when I graduated college. I had no money. I was living in my car with my boyfriend in the parking lot of the bagel shop. Now it's grown to it's first storefront location and doesn't look like it is going to stop there! So now, we have 26 employees and being only 23, I am still definitely learning how to empower them each day! Many of our employees are actually older then me which is pretty crazy to think about!
8:55 Marcus Aurelius said "waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one"
I love this man's videos! Gary, you're an inspiration. His shit makes me work even harder on my music and not only that, he gets me to think introspectively in different ways i never knew before.
I am beginning to understand.. The more I watch my thoughts the more I realize how deep these ultimate judgements really go and how unfounded the entire construct can be. By dropping my judgemenst of others it seems that self-judgement also ceases . And the free space that has been created by not judging easily fills with empathy :) Thanks for sharing your thoughts Gary, so much appreciated
"To me, trust is is given, and then you lose it." - Gary Vee
Everything is just a moment in time. There were so many gems in this video. Thanks for sharing!
I have been feeling this way for a long time. Thank you for sharing, reminds me I am on the right path and I look forward to discussing ideas with you sooner than later!
Yes, it is always wonderful when you have affirmation for what your own intuition is telling you.
Real talk! I work for a large corporation and they tend to get lost in how to treat employees.
Love how almost all of his messages come back to one theme “Be Kind”
Amazing Insight! . . . as usual! Thanks for being and doing you, Gary! Most of us are better because of you.
I love your clarification on judging. Thoughts run through my mind also, but I try not to judge because judgment is final.
Such depth here.... really making me think. Thanks for the unlock on seeing judgement for what it really is.
Be kind! It works! I love it Gary! I utilize this every day. It does work! Thank you! -Will
Your employees ARE your business!
Keep it up man!
Real leadership lessons here!
Love this, and how right you are. This is exactly what we've discovered both in our teaching and in our storytelling. If you trust people and allow them to be able to make projects their own as well as yours, they can do incredible work, and ultimately means we create much richer projects than anyone of us could create on our own. I also agree with you with regards to timing, as well as sourcing out the right people to put that trust in, as we've had to let go of some people that became too entitled and egotistical within our company. The flip side of that are the incredibly creative, loyal and hard working people we work with day to day, because of that trust and because we share the spotlight with them.
Amazing how terrifying some find that - giving trust in others - yet how powerful that can be.
Absolutely.
"Leave your two cents if you understood this video." It's just so much the truth that I live and breathe that I don't even know if I have anything meaningful to add other than to just repeat you and commend you for the work you do
Kindness!!that is what I preach 😊 the best feeling I get is when I see the look of appreciation on someone's face 😁 better than any feeling money can buy
This video made me realize I need to be better at given trust if I ever wants to go big and thank you for that Gary
In one life that you have, you need to bring happiness to people, not misery. Thank you GV.
Because of your content I am finding myself - noticing things that were there for the whole time, but I just didn't (want to) see.
People notice and ask me for advices.
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
A lot of valuable info to live by in 11 minutes..💯🎯
Its funny that you mention that some people get you from the get go and other take time. I actually heard you for the 1st time about two years ago and I hated you. But somehow without even realizing it, this year I clikced on one of your videos and I was hook. The only thing that has changed in two years is me. Two years ago I was negative and filled with fear... Today I'm optimistic inspite of my fears.
I hear you now. Despite the static and white noise in my life.
Let's keep going!
I LOVE GARYVEE!! He actually INSPIRED me to start my own channel. Thanks Gary I love you!
100% agreed. Putting yourself in other people's shoes is a great start to not jump to conclusions and also be a better practitioner.
It's sweet he asked Gary to describe something in one sentence!! Gary, thanks for all you give. Life is SO MUCH EASIER TO MANAGE when you lead with happiness and kindness. You get to stop walking through life in the mud... your steps are lighter and your GaryVee's stay a helluva lot cleaner!
Great personal views and great cueing from ur new guy. Struggle daily to mind my judgements, haven’t always been successful, which hurts my soul, it’s a well needed message.
Christopher Hebert the struggle is REal Chris
Love this format going deeper into some concepts
Gary thank you for all your videos and content. It help me moving forward and take small actions in long-term view. Take care man and keep going what're doing ;)
Feeling people... you are so on point! Force of good!
Thanks man - you put words to that "judging but not judging" thing I've had trouble explaining. Great questions and great answers!
No matter what I’m dealing with, I always find a Gary Vee video to help me out!
You da man Gary!
I agree with everything you just said, and I for myself see judging others or criticizing others as more spiritual, meaning, I believe and even more, KNOW, through studying certain things now for a while that we are all connected, we are all an expression of one source. And it’s just true and real that if I do bad to another, judge them, treat them bad etc it’s all going to come back to me FOR FACT because we are dealing with energy.
And intuitively we all know that, like, why would ANYBODY choose hate and negativity over love and positivity?
Because they don’t understand.
Thank you Gary, you light up this world in a very very good way, you are a huge inspiration to me personally, love you! 🙏🏻❤️
Interesting ideas. Certainly treating others well brings you more love and tends to make you a happier person, but not health, comfort, or financial success. I'd love to hear how those factor into your theory.
UBC MET sure.
You have to understand who and what you are. You are NOT this flesh and bone that you see physically, and yet you are it too. You are a spiritual being, you have an intellect and you live in a physical body. You don’t have a soul, you ARE a soul. And it’s what’s going on within you that manifests on the external world. If there is sickness know that it originated inside through wrong thinking/negative thoughts, because thought is one of the most potent forms of energy there is. Any thought you entertain consciously and internalize effects your biochemistry, it sets up a particular vibration in your body, and the vibration you’re in then dictates how you act/behave and also what you’re going to attract to you.
Man! I needed this talk before work today! I accepted the highest position in my company, COO, knowing that the Owner would stifle change and improvement. It’s very frustrating and I’ve caught myself complaining instead of forcing subjects. I need a kick in the ass at times to find my inner “TREX” as I’m called....thanks Dude!
I understood this episode, was very very interesting and have listened/watched this like 10 times already lol time to watch it again!
You were spot on at least in my situation about first time "users" of your platform being drawn to you. Personally I have been labeled as overly optimistic and I get off on growing in every facet of my life and helping those around me grow
You are the one who inspires me on a daily to live my life under my control
Kruz Abrey Inspired me to
Kruz Abrey 💪
Feeling people and empowering them, instead of manipulating them. That was powerful
yes. understood. kindness, compassion, sympathy, empathy, gratefulness, humility
loved it, focus on substance over flash (I like flash) but substance and simplicity always get me.
Finished this vid in my lunch and I’m amped up for everything ahead. Shoutout from Hong Kong!
I love this episode. Man, I wish I could just be a fly on the wall in his company, because you would learn so much just being there (watching, listening). :)
2 cents.... Gary hits the nail so much here. Kindness is the new era of manliness
i agree with you. you will never regret being helpful to other because by helping them you helped yourself.
now people will argue what if the other people abuse your help? well its their fault and not yours.
Great stuff Gary. I feel like a lot of the people I worked for would just be looking for things to get mad about and let their ego get in the way.
Thank you kindness... very true!
Great episode! If I may add to the idea of “emotional intelligence”, I believe the beginning of raising our emotional intelligence is first having a willingness to allow our courage to help us be more open to our own emotions. Gradually this turns to emotional confidence, and lends to our being able to move from empathy to a higher space of compassion - where we can then more positively influence others towards solutions. Loved this one!
Eloquently put.
Erica Hargreave Thank you 😊
I live in Syria and I start watching you (like your content starts to be an addiction for me),I just want you to know cuz I know you will get happy that you're reaching
Never really been too good with people because I'm not that emotionally intelligent, but ive always liked the warmth lf the "fuzzy" stuff and rhe like- it just feels sometimes lile its unacceptable to do so, so I often just mold to whatever the person I'm talking to is saying, good or bad, as long as it isnt down right horrific... After a few tries...
Even the first 20 seconds is great life advice.
Thank you so much, so love the point "you don't know enough" to make a judgement (-:
This wisdom resonated with me. I am characterized by candor and nonjudgement, which I personally think of as forgiveness, allowing the opinions to run through your mind and respect despite. I’m certainly not all there on feeling people and knowing what to do with it. It would help me a lot if you tried to explain how to cultivate that intuition for those of us to whom it comes weakly. Love you Gary.
Zontik Mercy is one of the greatest emotions that makes us human.
*You should understand people and gain their perspective before you want to say something. We are there for each other.*
Gary, you rock as always! ❤️
Winny out... _for now_ 😉
Moraribapu
I loved it ill send this to 10 people who I think needs to hear this!!!
I don't know who you are and I just happen to watch this video. One thing I am sure is that I like you so much. I love your frankness, your believe system and thought process.
I heard exactly what you said, in order to empower your employees and people is, simply, to love them
Love it. Thanks brother 🙏🏻
I been told my hole life I'm wrong for giving trust lol so ur video I totally agree with keep shining gary ur amazing on day 5/6 ... thank u for being great man
YES! This new guy is killing it.
One man's perspective (BTW, I'm a filmmaker in LA. I say that on every comment, not hoping you'll reach out, I've got my own shit I'm doing, but so you have the data to gather) I think this Caleb kid is KILLING it on his perspective of you. He's bringing out some really great shit and I feel like he pushes you emotionally a bit, which is different from your other stuff say, 16 months ago.
Thank you for continueing to put out content. I look for it every day. Thank you.
Quite talk with Mr. Gary. Thanks for the good vibes 😎
Wisdom.. great we have the internet to look at such good examples as Gary sharing his human wisdom
I've definitely found empowering my employees to make a massive difference in my own field
Great stuff Gary, bringing this to my leadership conference tomorrow.
THANKFUL FOR YOU GARY
Thoughtfulness of others can be contagious in most situations. Even in situations you won't expect.
Fantastic content
I got insight today listening to this
Thank you 🙏
I’m opening up a shop. And I realized : I never consciously did something because I wanted to get an interest in return. I’m intelligent and capable of self-analysis. That’s one of my first realizations as a business girl. I want to bring value.
I want people to trust me to bring value to them. I want to earn it. That’s what I’m made of. It’s genuine.
This is great, really solid content
Massive perspective ditched out of this video. Thanks! Gary.
Impactb4income TV 💯
Too much value, everyday, thank you
Thank you good as always bro
Thanks so much for your insights Gary!
Acee yeah I agree! He helped inspire me to start daily vlogging!
@@GriffinCaseyVlogs great! I see you've just started, I wish you the best, but just try not to lose faith if it doesn't come as easy as you think it should
Acee thanks for the advice!
Great advices for thing that I've been looking for
I have followed Gary V throughout my journey as an entrepreneur and he speaks nothing but the hard true fact
Thank you 🙏🏼
I Admire this man Gary Vee❗️ He’s inspire me to start my own Brand years ago Called Audirome ! I am not driven by fear !
I've been watching your videos like crazy the past week & have been motivated like a MF on my music. I thank you for your inspirational, no BS content
Gary Vee never fails to call people out😂
He's pretty much made a living doing it... legit.
Awesome gary as always
Well understood and intimately known to be true. #2cents The time and effort taken to put theses hard to communicate issues down so eloquently and succinctly in such an easily sharable format is greatly appreciated.
Tip #1: When your employees fart, don't beat them up.
lol, personal experience?
Fantastic segment
U ARE INCREDIBLE BRO
Great video, and Great tips. 🔥🔥
Dude, people spend way too much time on what you’re talking about around 9:00.
All that does is 1, they’re holding themselves back from producing (because they’re too busy worried about if someone is real or not), or 2, gives that person an excuse not to move forward in doing something substantial with their own lives.
Also, I love your perspective on valuing your employees. Although I’ve only managed a small team in my prior job, I carried that same level of empathy and truly caring about my people.
And I’ll carry that into my current business as my partner and I will more than likely need to hire staff towards the end of the year l (which is exciting!)
On that note, thank you for all of the content you give us!
spot on
gary i'm really impressed.
Amazing video, loved it.
Love it!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
Trust is Encouraging. Awesome question new guy!
That’s so true!
I agree completely!! 💯💯💯💯
I always say the best gift is opportunity!
gary vee droping that fire
Yessir made sense to me thanks for the hustle!
Joshua Jones get on it JOSH!
@@ZacharyLaid I am I'm grinding as we speak !
Real man talk. So true. BTW, I've seen that video somewhere before. I can't remember where thougt
"The world is grey." - I love that line a lot, and I couldn't agree more that "everything's within context"... I feel like that makes it hard sometimes because if you look at people that way, you can't pin *anything* down. But I guess that makes sense, it's not like people are binary. Great content as always Gary, love watching you while I work on my art! :>
deff seen part of this before, really good message regardless
BdrumMerX14 great message 💯