Love this conversation. 15:42 I agree with Thavin on his point about Indian parenting. Coz my teen boy felt the same when I had a casual chat with him long back…so he completes his studies first and tell me honestly that I completed my works and now gonna play game for an hr.great point Thavin 👏🏻 thanks to both of u to get to know about this generation boy’s view and it’s very helpful to me having a teen boy in freshman.
26:30 the way Thavin laughs 😂😂😂 though Vivi is younger he put the very much valid point…great V…I could see proud mom on ur face Sain, while Thavin talks 😍
Thavin has good values and mature also a good Anna for his thambi. You have raised your sons well. I too have 2 boys 6&8 years and hope my kids grow up with good values.
Such a wholesome conversation for your family. All Families should have this kind of conversation. Sain Akka needs to understand the perspective changes for each kids and there is no proven solution parenting. I felt there was lot of cutting off by the parents (mainly father) whenever the kids started to say something that the parents did not want to hear...
Children are a gift! Thanks Thavin and Vivin for your honesty and wisdom. Love it! All the best in your future, guys! As a parent of 2 guys ( ages 20 and 17), I enjoyed this familytime discussion!
Sainthavi I don’t you( personally) and u don’t know me but mark my words Thawin will become 200% a very good parent ❤ hope I follow you till that time . Good job Thawin I learnt a lot from you 😍
@@srividhya8466 friends may be nice but we don’t know who else is there in that home. Gender don’t matter when it comes to sexual abuse. After 18 they’ll have a different outlook and they can decide then.
Hi Sainthavi can u plz talk about process to bring kids in India or Abu Dhabi to USA for under graduation. My niece is in abubdhabi in 8th grade INdia CBSE syllabus still not decided medical or computers can u cover fee structure and process for both streams and good states. NY/NJ is my preference as am here
Thawin hasnt understood why students need to take every year seriously. Middle school is a transformational year. If students dont change study habits at middle school then it is not possible in high school. The way he described your parenting doesn t look very positive. He is still second guessing. Basically he is very young to judge your parenting. May be wait until he gets a job and settles down. GREAT Selection of topics anyway.🎉
ஏன் உங்கள் பிள்ளைகள் தமிழில் பேசுவதில்லை ! என்னை பொறுத்தவரை மொழி வெறும் மொழி இல்லை அது ஒரு கலாச்சாரம் ... நாம் தமிழ் பேசுகிறோம் ஆங்கிலம் பேசுகிறோம் , அதனாலேயே இருந்து கலாச்சாரங்களையும் ஏதுவாக பின்பற்றுகிறோம் ! எங்கோ எப்பவோ இவர்கள் தமிழ் அடையாளங்களிலிருந்து தங்களை முழுவதும் விடுவித்து விடுவார்கள் என்ற அசச்சுறுத்தலே வருகிறது !
Good discussion, but somewhere i felt Thawin was being cut off inbetween where he was trying to explain what he felt. I understand we as a parent learn how to do parenting through our first child, i somewhere feel second kid gets all freedom and less responsibility put on that kid. Iam saying because iam a second child to my parents, more pressure was put on my elder brother.
You raised your kids well, but why do both of u critically present Indian parenting style back home while both of u have had very good parents and good grooming. I think thats the case for majority of Indian parents.
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Love this conversation. 15:42 I agree with Thavin on his point about Indian parenting. Coz my teen boy felt the same when I had a casual chat with him long back…so he completes his studies first and tell me honestly that I completed my works and now gonna play game for an hr.great point Thavin 👏🏻 thanks to both of u to get to know about this generation boy’s view and it’s very helpful to me having a teen boy in freshman.
26:30 the way Thavin laughs 😂😂😂 though Vivi is younger he put the very much valid point…great V…I could see proud mom on ur face Sain, while Thavin talks 😍
I was thinking Thavin is a shy kid…I have never seen u talking a lot…u spoke very well and nailed at many points Thavin…great…gold bless u…
Thank you taking time to share 🤗 💗
Appreciate your kindness and motivation.
T talks but quiet in nature
Vee shy but talkative in nature
@@SainthavisKitchen that’s nice, love to the kids
I love how bold and confident your boys spoke ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Absolutely overwhelmed and amazed
Thank you 😊 💗
Excellent talk by Thawin. Very very mature & insightful. Nice to hear from Vivin too. Lovely to see both your boys in this video❤
Thanks 😊🙏🏽💗
Thavin has good values and mature also a good Anna for his thambi. You have raised your sons well. I too have 2 boys 6&8 years and hope my kids grow up with good values.
Thank you 🙏🏽
Such a wholesome conversation for your family. All Families should have this kind of conversation.
Sain Akka needs to understand the perspective changes for each kids and there is no proven solution parenting. I felt there was lot of cutting off by the parents (mainly father) whenever the kids started to say something that the parents did not want to hear...
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Children are a gift! Thanks Thavin and Vivin for your honesty and wisdom. Love it! All the best in your future, guys! As a parent of 2 guys ( ages 20 and 17), I enjoyed this familytime discussion!
Thank you for the kind words! 🙏🏽
Such a beautiful conversation so interesting u should be very proud of your kids
Thank you 😊 🙏🏽
Sainthavi I don’t you( personally) and u don’t know me but mark my words Thawin will become 200% a very good parent ❤ hope I follow you till that time . Good job Thawin I learnt a lot from you 😍
Aww thank you for your kindness and support. Your words gave me hope and positivity 🤗 💕
Great video sain , nice to see ur kids grown so gracefully ❤, best wishes to them
Thanks a ton
Loved your kids and this conversation. So mature at this age. ❤
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Loved this conversation Sainthavi ❤
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Our love & blessings to dear Thawin & Vivin.. couldn't fully follow their views due to their American style pronounciation ❤
Thank you 🙏🏽😊💕
Good discussion,we are learning to be better parents as well.Good understanding into Thavins point of view. Parents, why no sleepovers pls explain?
Will try to make a video. Also it’s for the safety of the children. Sexual abuse is one of the concerns.
Tks.Safety first always,my kids don't understand that they are away arguing with me.🙆♀️
@@srividhya8466 friends may be nice but we don’t know who else is there in that home. Gender don’t matter when it comes to sexual abuse. After 18 they’ll have a different outlook and they can decide then.
Nice video
Thanks 😊 ! 🙏🏽
Insightful and has brought out a genuine take on from T & V as a Gen Z point for young parents ! Wooow ❤️
Thanks 🙏🏽💗
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Thavin and Vivin hair one curly one straight! Lovely
Thank you 😊
Hi Sainthavi can u plz talk about process to bring kids in India or Abu Dhabi to USA for under graduation. My niece is in abubdhabi in 8th grade INdia CBSE syllabus still not decided medical or computers can u cover fee structure and process for both streams and good states. NY/NJ is my preference as am here
You should check individual universities.Write SAT exam, have lot of extracurriculars etc
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Can you explain why sleepovers are not allowed?
As Vinodh mentioned it’s for the safety of the child
@@SainthavisKitchensleepovers are more dangerous than we think. Thank you for discussing this issue.
Thawin hasnt understood why students need to take every year seriously. Middle school is a transformational year. If students dont change study habits at middle school then it is not possible in high school. The way he described your parenting doesn t look very positive. He is still second guessing. Basically he is very young to judge your parenting. May be wait until he gets a job and settles down. GREAT Selection of topics anyway.🎉
Thanks
ஏன் உங்கள் பிள்ளைகள் தமிழில் பேசுவதில்லை !
என்னை பொறுத்தவரை மொழி வெறும் மொழி இல்லை அது ஒரு கலாச்சாரம் ... நாம் தமிழ் பேசுகிறோம் ஆங்கிலம் பேசுகிறோம் , அதனாலேயே இருந்து கலாச்சாரங்களையும் ஏதுவாக பின்பற்றுகிறோம் ! எங்கோ எப்பவோ இவர்கள் தமிழ் அடையாளங்களிலிருந்து தங்களை முழுவதும் விடுவித்து விடுவார்கள் என்ற அசச்சுறுத்தலே வருகிறது !
Good question
Filmed the response will share
Good discussion, but somewhere i felt Thawin was being cut off inbetween where he was trying to explain what he felt. I understand we as a parent learn how to do parenting through our first child, i somewhere feel second kid gets all freedom and less responsibility put on that kid.
Iam saying because iam a second child to my parents, more pressure was put on my elder brother.
Every first child will have that pressure. No choice but to be the experiment child.
Thavin looks like dad Vivin look like amma
Thanks
Please speak in tamil
Are you guys Telugu? Since you call Patti ammama? I mean Tamil Nadu Telugu?
Yeah Amma is from Virudhnagar ( Tamil speaking Telugu )
I called my grandma Avva
@ that is totally TN Telugu we say avva for dads mom and ammama for moms mom 😊
Please let him talk you are pushing him
You raised your kids well, but why do both of u critically present Indian parenting style back home while both of u have had very good parents and good grooming. I think thats the case for majority of Indian parents.
Thank you 😊
Can you stop saying “aggressive “ to your own kid? Thinking that’s funny, poor boy couldn’t keep his eyes straight. Parenting is natural
Thank you for the parenting advice