The Uncomfortable Truth About Playing the Victim

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

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  • @jollys596
    @jollys596 7 месяцев назад +22

    I wish millions of people are watching this right now

  • @tishrob912
    @tishrob912 7 месяцев назад +5

    Perfect title. This was uncomfortable to hear, but much needed!

  • @heywardreed5921
    @heywardreed5921 7 месяцев назад +14

    Gentlemen you are great we don't have many role models that look like us on a major stage. 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

  • @javonmcgee7688
    @javonmcgee7688 7 месяцев назад +4

    I been listening since day 1 of the podcast. This is def the top 3 episode of S2S. Thank yall for this. This is the game changer info i needed today. I AM FREE!

  • @ambrlight21
    @ambrlight21 7 месяцев назад +6

    I listen to E and the crew en route to work and en route home from work…120 miles round trip…has completely changed my life…#shiftinperspective I am not the same person I was 1 year ago🙏❤️

    • @olandofuller5588
      @olandofuller5588 7 месяцев назад

      Round trip is a stretch....
      You grinding...

  • @daniel_najar
    @daniel_najar 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great conversation about the perils of a Victim Mentality.

  • @diannahminefee8535
    @diannahminefee8535 3 месяца назад

    Keep living!!!! And, you will go through adversity! What helped me to heal& turn my pain into power was, I ask God to help me to get the lesson that this has come to teach me! I ask God to give me WISDOM where I lack, show me my part& what is the solution? I refuse to be a victim! Instead I will be victorious 🙏🙌

  • @MotivateSpeech00
    @MotivateSpeech00 5 месяцев назад

    These powerful messages have changed my perspective and given me strength. Thank you to ET, CJ, Carl, and the entire team for guiding us with such impactful truths.

  • @Him_KUSHWRLDWIDE
    @Him_KUSHWRLDWIDE 7 месяцев назад

    When I was low these talks gave me sight and comfort knowing there are one's who have the light.

  • @cornealiuswalker8595
    @cornealiuswalker8595 7 месяцев назад +2

    Bruh, I can RUN though a BRICK WALL right now!.. I promise on GOD! YALL BROTHER'S ARE THE BEST I HAVE EVER CAME ACROSS..... LOVE YALL! PLEASE KEEP TEACHING US!

  • @daniel_najar
    @daniel_najar 7 месяцев назад +1

    "Hard work is undefeated" 🔥

  • @dgkincy
    @dgkincy 7 месяцев назад +1

    Y'all always have "Choppin' it up" conversations that are real, challenging, and makes me reflect/assess and look at what I have in "my hands" that I can use👊🏿✊🏿🙏🏾!

  • @devonnamartin
    @devonnamartin 7 месяцев назад +1

    Changing my perspective on things I thought limited me in reaching my goals as an adult was a game changer. It started with me praying asking for god to mirror who I am to other people to me.

  • @TheMathAcademy2024
    @TheMathAcademy2024 7 месяцев назад

    It was a blessing that My dad wasn't in my life. He told me himself that he didn't want me to be around him because the life he was living. He was a hard crimanl and did 20 years in prisions. I probably would have went down the same path if he was in my life.

  • @CarlosJose-g4u
    @CarlosJose-g4u 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is such a mind-opening and clear message for me, wow, I'm totally shocked by the truth told by this team, wow, I now understand a lot of things about myself and this is a lot of power, thank you ET, CJ and Carl and the whole team!

  • @jaz0273
    @jaz0273 7 месяцев назад

    THIS ONE HERE... OUT COLD!

  • @victorboone2053
    @victorboone2053 7 месяцев назад

    🔥 🔥 🔥 thanks fellas! Definitely going down in the chronicles!

  • @rpon2367
    @rpon2367 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks ET FOR teaching me how to reset without playing the Victim

  • @andrewmacdonald6550
    @andrewmacdonald6550 7 месяцев назад +2

    Amazing episode.
    Praise God

  • @PLAYHARDGAINSUCCESS
    @PLAYHARDGAINSUCCESS 7 месяцев назад

    Stimulus - space then - response 🔥

  • @shaunbradley7958
    @shaunbradley7958 7 месяцев назад

    thank you for taking time to make this video, about this topic, with you guy's time...thank you

  • @outthemud6210
    @outthemud6210 7 месяцев назад

    In the words of the late Pastor Ricky Tejada, "We do not take loses we learn lessons.."

  • @imdaniellehunt
    @imdaniellehunt 7 месяцев назад +1

    I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!!! GOD does send you opportunities and ANGELS even if it's just one...hardest part for me is having to talk to people face to face and ask for help as well as look at them in eye when for so long my shame kept me down, I've always loved your speeches!! ❤❤❤

  • @JabariHall
    @JabariHall 7 месяцев назад +1

    Quality discussion gentlemen. Amen.

  • @jaronspicer
    @jaronspicer 7 месяцев назад +2

    This was a good one! 👏🏾

  • @an.dr3w78
    @an.dr3w78 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great podcast guys, thanks!

  • @princewet
    @princewet 7 месяцев назад

    Love you guys thank you for making me a better person and professional 🐸👑

  • @LeadingLady1.
    @LeadingLady1. 7 месяцев назад

    This ministered to me. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @gabethomas6549
    @gabethomas6549 7 месяцев назад +2

    There's no trophy for being a victim 😂😂 real talk tho

  • @DjenInspires
    @DjenInspires 7 месяцев назад

    Informative and on point as always. I am learning and trying to apply as you guys share . Fantastic content 🔥

  • @blizzerdxlr82011
    @blizzerdxlr82011 7 месяцев назад +1

    Best episode

  • @C4_da_hooper
    @C4_da_hooper 7 месяцев назад

    Needed this .

  • @aclark1197
    @aclark1197 7 месяцев назад

    When you deal with filth it tends to get on your hands

  • @DaveG1017PHI
    @DaveG1017PHI 4 месяца назад

    Tuna-Salmon is crazy! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @outthemud6210
    @outthemud6210 7 месяцев назад

    Fair is what come town every year.

  • @familyofprofitabletraders9563
    @familyofprofitabletraders9563 7 месяцев назад

    Karl coming in kind of threw me off... Varsity is expanding❤!

  • @staycrazy2836
    @staycrazy2836 7 месяцев назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @suni77788
    @suni77788 7 месяцев назад

    In the Marvel world, you could be CONSISTENCYMAN, even in the real world you are already it.
    🔥

  • @Mrsgtalks
    @Mrsgtalks 7 месяцев назад

    2.55 mark: Folks don't want to apply the advice, they just look for more. ~CJ

  • @leronnspaternalpresencepod5247
    @leronnspaternalpresencepod5247 7 месяцев назад

    Did Karl drop from the ceiling? lol He jumped in the convo like he was there the whole time! lol

  • @SpoileralertGMA47
    @SpoileralertGMA47 7 месяцев назад

    40:26 lol I’m not going to lie it does happen; my coach definitely didn’t like me and was willing to go just far enough that we wouldn’t lose (admittedly because of me largely). I averaged 9.1 yards per carry so he would sit me but he couldn’t sit me for long because of my skill level so I saw both sides of it; I got plenty of playing time but when it wasn’t a pinch and they didn’t need touchdowns, first downs, etc. they would sit me 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @stokesr08
    @stokesr08 7 месяцев назад +1

    44:10-44:15, #1!! Victim!! Hall Of Fame! Victim Of The World!! Lol🤦🏿‍♂️ that’s me I admitted. Certain things in my life I play victim. Ummmm!! I have to do better!!

  • @TechOutAdam
    @TechOutAdam 7 месяцев назад

    Going through a break up right now out of an 11 year relationship. Wild to think of how it’s over. But it’s all about moving forward. I made mistakes. I could’ve done better. There’s always two sides to a story. But I know I can do better. If you’re reading this, I’d appreciate a prayer.

    • @divinemotivationpodcast
      @divinemotivationpodcast 7 месяцев назад +1

      The fact that you’re able to be self aware of your mistakes is big…your def on the right path ima pray for you

    • @ambrlight21
      @ambrlight21 7 месяцев назад +1

      Praying forward!

    • @TechOutAdam
      @TechOutAdam 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@divinemotivationpodcastIt’s hard to admit but if I lie it’s going to make it worse for my future partner and myself. There’s always two sides to a story for sure!

  • @marcuswilliams4668
    @marcuswilliams4668 7 месяцев назад

    💪🏾

  • @Rockstarleni
    @Rockstarleni 7 месяцев назад

    I got a lot of work to do !!!!!

  • @evanhubbard8840
    @evanhubbard8840 7 месяцев назад

    💯💯💯💯

  • @sharonbrown6202
    @sharonbrown6202 7 месяцев назад +2

    I will definitely say that it was a blessing for me not to have my father in my life. I never had any ill feelings about my dad and felt blessed. That absence allow me to strive for greatness. Later in life, I discovered , if we do not go deep within ourselves that absent parent does play a part in our lives. It’s like an invisible puppet, making the moves for us. So go deep within your soul, even if you don’t feel or believe an absent parent played apart because the soul knows that something is missing and is waiting for you to fuel it with your soul.

  • @RickeyThePastor360Pearson
    @RickeyThePastor360Pearson 7 месяцев назад

    Napoleon Hill fam??? Sheeesh

  • @thatomofolo452
    @thatomofolo452 7 месяцев назад +2

    👍😁👍

  • @K_DOT.1369
    @K_DOT.1369 5 месяцев назад

    I’m not listening for free(Audible) the book 😅😅

  • @tjomotayo8184
    @tjomotayo8184 7 месяцев назад

    God blessed me when He removed my biological father from my life!!

  • @Tamas-bc4vf
    @Tamas-bc4vf 7 месяцев назад

    36:30 timestamp

  • @FilipSimonovski085
    @FilipSimonovski085 7 месяцев назад

    I'm relistening this podcast until I hammer it into my brain:
    stop playing a victim, stop relishing in validation for cracking jokes and being a smartass and telling them your sad story, this isn't getting you anywhere.
    Victim trophy won't get your girl an engagement ring.
    Victim trophy won't make you stop losing projects because you think that they don't like you after a few months, when instead they don't like you because you talk big, deliver little. If even that. And then you're surprised and act: world is against me.
    Victim trophy won't get you to stop losing your days to putting out fires, which run ablaze due to your negligence and lack of planning and executing.
    Victim trophy won't get you your 94 year old grandma to say "look at you, you're such a man now, me and your momma are so proud" when you're wasting time on foolishness to be busy and bsing to them over the phone.
    This is a rant from me to me. Much love everyone. Let's stop playing victims and accept responsibilities.

  • @nicholasugwu7901
    @nicholasugwu7901 7 месяцев назад

    What’s so great about being white ? Make sure you fill me on that one on the next episode you explain the great advantage of being white in comparison to be black in 2024 im waiting to hear. If not then just drop out that subject matter

  • @PrimeMoverFitness
    @PrimeMoverFitness 7 месяцев назад

    MLB 😂

  • @LifeasNyrae8
    @LifeasNyrae8 7 месяцев назад +2

    The more I listen to Mr. ET & this podcast, the more encouraged I get. This segment hit different though, I am no longer a victim. I am a victor!

  • @SlimShaggy-v4g
    @SlimShaggy-v4g 7 месяцев назад

    I love the videos keep them coming can you bring some new videos

  • @sharonbrown6202
    @sharonbrown6202 7 месяцев назад +1

    I will definitely say that it was a blessing for me not to have my father in my life. I never had any ill feelings about my dad and felt blessed. That absence allow me to strive for greatness. Later in life, I discovered , if we do not go deep within ourselves that absent parent does play a part in our lives. It’s like an invisible puppet, making the moves for us. So go deep within your soul, even if you don’t feel or believe an absent parent played apart because the soul knows that something is missing and is waiting for you to fuel it with your love

  • @familyofprofitabletraders9563
    @familyofprofitabletraders9563 7 месяцев назад +1

    Karl coming in kind of threw me off... Varsity is expanding❤!