Conversation Techniques That Make You Magnetic | Jefferson Fisher

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  • Опубликовано: 23 июл 2023
  • Jefferson Fisher is a board-certified Texas trial lawyer and founder of Fisher Firm. With his extensive experience as a trial lawyer, Jefferson understands the art of persuading and communicating effectively in high-conflict situations, and is one of the most sought after names in functional thinking for modern day communication. Known for his practical videos and authentic presence, Jefferson has amassed over 5 million social media followers in one year-all from the driver's seat of his car. Jefferson is on a mission to be a messenger of positivity in the world and help people learn to talk to each other again-one conversation at a time.
    In this episode you will learn,
    How to have more control in an argument
    How to make your words more powerful
    How to be more likable
    Three passive phrases to avoid
    How to handle people who waste your time
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Комментарии • 248

  • @vital.elements
    @vital.elements 9 месяцев назад +102

    "How personally you take something is a direct reflection of how much grace you give other people." - Jefferson Fisher 💯🎯💥

    • @thomasblaye1873
      @thomasblaye1873 7 месяцев назад +1

      yup

    • @JenniferV.-hb2we
      @JenniferV.-hb2we 2 месяца назад

      Although, if you're a narcissist is this true?

    • @BagznBirdz
      @BagznBirdz Месяц назад +1

      @@JenniferV.-hb2we no rules that go for normal people touch narcissists.

  • @rydah1240
    @rydah1240 10 месяцев назад +122

    I have never heard of Jefferson Fisher before this podcast but I just became an instant fan after this episode! He has a very calm even keeled demeanor. Not to mention highly insightful. I definitely picked up on a few things from this episode and can’t wait to hear more from him! Such a great guest. Props to Lewis Howes for having him on! I yearn for episodes like this!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +11

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

    • @alaminia
      @alaminia 10 месяцев назад +7

      I just found out he's writing a book on communication via his Instagram account

    • @margoqu
      @margoqu 10 месяцев назад +9

      I have been following him for sometime now. He has an amazing charisma too and his understanding of human nature is mind blowing

    • @tinam761
      @tinam761 10 месяцев назад

      There are just a very few items I have bookmarked on IG and some of them are his posts… so insightful and so helpful in how to communicate better in relationships.

    • @antoniorusso5772
      @antoniorusso5772 10 месяцев назад

      😊

  • @IsaiahWG24
    @IsaiahWG24 10 месяцев назад +110

    “So try that, and follow me” - Jefferson Fisher

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +15

      👍

    • @shifralandsberg6109
      @shifralandsberg6109 10 месяцев назад +4

      Follow me with cupped hands😂

    • @AW-pw4iz
      @AW-pw4iz 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@lewishowesI was waiting for you guys to kiss 😍😘

    • @crissycobain8361
      @crissycobain8361 6 месяцев назад +2

      I love this!

  • @imdee9024
    @imdee9024 10 месяцев назад +37

    LOVE how Howie allowed him to tell his story before asking the real questions. This guy's so nice.

  • @wusrllygoood
    @wusrllygoood Месяц назад +4

    I LOVE JEFFERSON FISHER!!!

  • @dakine4238
    @dakine4238 10 месяцев назад +12

    He comes across as genuine and kind. Glad to see a lawyer like that. Usually they have a bad reputation. Hope his new sucess brings out even better qualities in him and he can find calm and peace.

  • @esiesi8635
    @esiesi8635 10 месяцев назад +24

    I’m just gonna say it- EYE CANDY🤭 both of them

    • @glb6154
      @glb6154 3 месяца назад

      😄

  • @Darkberriesmatter
    @Darkberriesmatter Месяц назад +4

    Let your breathe be your first word.

  • @marywahu6090
    @marywahu6090 10 месяцев назад +10

    Really proud of this human. True greatness. Rise up , and show up, no apologies for greatness.

  • @brigidivory4160
    @brigidivory4160 10 месяцев назад +10

    I adore him and his authenticity

  • @nehagc
    @nehagc 10 месяцев назад +18

    He is the coolest guy and such soothing personality.I like his practical doable advice.Happy to see him getting famous 😊

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you so much for watching!

  • @monicacarrillo-no8dv
    @monicacarrillo-no8dv 21 день назад

    Love Jefferson BIG fan, learning so much from him.

  • @boutiquelove5391
    @boutiquelove5391 10 месяцев назад +9

    Love him🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰!!!
    Smart hot astute well spoke emotionally mature.... why cant there be more humans like u both!!

  • @angelaperry8231
    @angelaperry8231 10 месяцев назад +7

    He is a gem.

  • @sophiareed8266
    @sophiareed8266 4 месяца назад +3

    You are a beautiful soul, Mr. Fisher.

  • @alid3424
    @alid3424 10 месяцев назад +16

    What a fun conversation between calm, thoughtful souls. I don't even have an IG account and I still know who Jefferson is. For the record, JF, though I love listening to your easily implemented conversation tips, all of us out here who care about you wouldn't want you to keep doing it if it stopped nourishing your spirit or became a drain. We can't let anyone down if we're being true to our best selves ☺️

  • @leannwiederanders1844
    @leannwiederanders1844 10 месяцев назад +18

    LEWIS!!!
    AGAIN…as ALWAYS in ALL WAYS..you have facilitated another engrossing convo w/ a person who’s info & expertise is absolutely applicable in LIFE!
    Life - the courtroom where judges are not identifiable in their robes & all consider themselves judge & jurors.
    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
    Thank YOU Lewis & Jefferson!
    Please take care of yourselves as well as ya’ll take care of others.
    ❤✌🏻

  • @r.p.8906
    @r.p.8906 10 месяцев назад +11

    I am an expert witness and my blood boils when I hear other " experts" saying under oath complete lies in my field. I'm so loving this attorney!

  • @Bonitawrites
    @Bonitawrites 10 месяцев назад +11

    Another profound conversation interview, Lewis. @Jefferson Fisher, Thank you for sharing your experience with panic attacks and what triggered them.

  • @elev8tedminds
    @elev8tedminds 9 месяцев назад +4

    Hes so centered and relaxed. Loved watching this episode, I just came across Jefferson about a month ago. And of course my boy Lewis got the interview ready! Love to see it! So many takeaways

  • @Borromeo377
    @Borromeo377 10 месяцев назад +7

    I encountered a Jefferson speech by chance on LinkedIn and was so grateful to hear it. Highly admire him. Wonderful interview

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching!

    • @Borromeo377
      @Borromeo377 10 месяцев назад

      @@lewishowes Always a pleasure and always learning. Thank you for contributing with meaningful content

    • @vilhelm5549
      @vilhelm5549 10 месяцев назад +1

      Jefferson is a living example of the old saying: No one is an island.

  • @littlecat2222
    @littlecat2222 10 месяцев назад +15

    Really appreciate Jefferson’s very honest and authentic sharing. ❤

  • @7msjster
    @7msjster 10 месяцев назад +12

    Loved this. I learned how to communicate when I realized that we are not communicating. We just throw out words. Often I may say, "I am not trying to convince you to think how I do, but if I have communicated well my thoughts then I have done my job in this experience. I believe too often we speak to convince others your way is better. True communication is just an exchange of thoughts. That's all. Are you a good communicator is the question to ask yourself. Great video, thank you Lewis!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +2

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @yazminhab1945
    @yazminhab1945 10 месяцев назад +30

    Wow - congrats JF! I follow him on IG b/c of his great, clear advice. Surprised--and delighted--to see him on your show, Lewis. It's wild to see you both in this interview - both likeable, thoughtful men, of similar age & physicality, dressed similarly, and w/a similarly light energy, bouncing back n forth. I haven't seen you in such an interview, so this was interesting and fun. :)

  • @JoanneJaworski
    @JoanneJaworski 10 месяцев назад +7

    Jefferson has some great tips! I'd bet his nervous system's & body were brewing symptoms that he didn't know were connected to his panic years earlier. He even spoke of the expectation as a kid. People ignore, don't recognize or know what to do when the subtler "symptoms" tell us something is out of balance energetically.

  • @lenahcaruana6750
    @lenahcaruana6750 10 месяцев назад +3

    Yes :) Was hoping to see him on your channel! Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @donatahaneborg7488
    @donatahaneborg7488 10 месяцев назад +9

    Great and warm discussion. Thanks for reaching out with vulnerable and emotional experiences and thoughts.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡

  • @shalusunder
    @shalusunder 10 месяцев назад +3

    Wow, this is super inspiring and next level for sure!! Thank you so much for pulling this together.

  • @schenelle79
    @schenelle79 10 месяцев назад +2

    Have been watching this guy's snippets on Insta for a while, didn't recognise him till he mentioned the clips. So chill and clever.

  • @azitakouchekmanesh725
    @azitakouchekmanesh725 10 месяцев назад +9

    What a wonderful episode/conversation! 😊 I enjoyed it so much. What a gorgeous human being your guest is. And the questions were awesome.
    Thank you to Lewis Howes and to Jefferson Fisher who I did not know.
    I learned so much.
    Sending everyone health, joy, love, and inner peace.. and kindness. ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @robino941
    @robino941 10 месяцев назад +7

    Excellent interview. I think you're both magnetic!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much! 😊

  • @heathergonzalez6890
    @heathergonzalez6890 10 месяцев назад +8

    Jefferson Fisher, Congrats! I’ve been following you for only a few months, but I am happy for you to be on such a big show like Lewis Howe’s The School of Greatness. Your advice has helped a lot, and I’m glad more people will get these tips.

  • @ignorantlyspeaking
    @ignorantlyspeaking 10 месяцев назад +5

    Every time someone describes their first anxiety/panic attack and say they believed it was a heart attack, I think of Bedros Keuilian's story.
    Jefferson has some really great insight, he shares really great knowledge. I hope neuroscientists and other researchers study him and share their findings with the world with credit to him.

  • @angiesullivan7328
    @angiesullivan7328 10 месяцев назад +2

    Big fan of both of your content, very exciting to see you exceptional humans creating together!

  • @annoravetz5908
    @annoravetz5908 10 месяцев назад +2

    Lewis, thanks for having him on! I found his shorts easy to digest and use. So good to see a full-length interview with him.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for taking the time out of your day to check out the interview! So glad you enjoyed it🧡

  • @jane_collins
    @jane_collins 10 месяцев назад +8

    This has helped settle me in a time of high anxiety and given me some new perspectives to think on, thank you

  • @loralevis625
    @loralevis625 9 месяцев назад

    Could listen for hours...💚! Thank you guys! You are wonderful!

  • @AngelicaChristi
    @AngelicaChristi 10 месяцев назад +6

    Great interview! I have saved so many of Jefferson's videos on Instagram, and honestly, I don't really go on there as I am not a fan of social media, but I always watch his, and normally, several times. Thanks for all your info and honesty! I am sending this on to a beloved that has had panic attacks for about 10 years and I didn't really understand them. The shallow breathing part was super interesting to me.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @joshseligman2243
    @joshseligman2243 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks Lewis and Jefferson, so great to hear this today!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      Happy to hear this :)

  • @gardencali-arkansasstyle6995
    @gardencali-arkansasstyle6995 10 месяцев назад +2

    Wow!! What a special treat, I’m one of his fans that seek out his short insightful advice. Thank you greatly. Dear Lewis, you have the best podcast guess!,

  • @1CrackedActress
    @1CrackedActress 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love this. I've followed Jefferson on tik tok for a while, his perspective has helped me immensely as I've been promoted into higher stress jobs over the past year. Thank you both!

  • @KaleighHendershot
    @KaleighHendershot 10 месяцев назад +3

    Loved this conversation and love Jefferson!!!!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @scott.mcclellan
    @scott.mcclellan 4 месяца назад

    Such a fantastic conversation. Thank you both!

  • @ChristianSoschner
    @ChristianSoschner 7 месяцев назад +5

    Fantastic conversation. 16:00 how to stay cool in complicated conversations - worth watching

  • @barbarakan-waechter1412
    @barbarakan-waechter1412 9 месяцев назад

    I love his softness and clarity

  • @abigailstone738
    @abigailstone738 10 месяцев назад +1

    What a beautiful, authentic conversation. I appreciated every minute. Thank you!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @spiritualmafia888
    @spiritualmafia888 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you. We love grace.

  • @monicabrante
    @monicabrante 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much. I will need to see this interview several times... - Love this interview, and love the philosophy -a great way of creating sustainable communication.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @CAROS_FITNESS
    @CAROS_FITNESS 10 месяцев назад +4

    This was absolutely incredible thank you both of you for the great communication skills and knowledge 🙏

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

  • @beingintrinsic
    @beingintrinsic 9 месяцев назад

    MOST meaningful acknowledgement!

  • @lilianabarnes9158
    @lilianabarnes9158 10 месяцев назад +1

    Have been a fan of Jefferson for a year now; every time he speaks I learn something; or is a great reminder on how to conduct myself in any convo! TY 🤗

  • @cynthiasaracino7114
    @cynthiasaracino7114 10 месяцев назад +1

    WOW this was amazing!!! Such a great perspective, really learned from this.❤

  • @kathleenmillington4860
    @kathleenmillington4860 10 месяцев назад

    Great show !❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @LongHoang-hy5it
    @LongHoang-hy5it 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @CuriouslyChris1
    @CuriouslyChris1 10 месяцев назад +4

    Yesss! Sometimes people just want to vent, I let them, to move to the next step! We have an issue resolve, it takes 2 to move forward to resolution.

    • @CuriouslyChris1
      @CuriouslyChris1 10 месяцев назад

      Yes, you don’t own other people problem, you are only in their space for a short time! You are just trying to resolve an issue!!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      👍

  • @shifralandsberg6109
    @shifralandsberg6109 10 месяцев назад +3

    Wow, worked on people who hi are looking to grow. Jefferson you have really helped me on instagram, and Lewis tbh you always get the best interviewees and real, great, thought out questions. Thank you both so much. True VALUE.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +1

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

    • @shifralandsberg6109
      @shifralandsberg6109 10 месяцев назад

      @@lewishowesthank YOU ❤

  • @craigosterberg5045
    @craigosterberg5045 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks

  • @nguyetle1293
    @nguyetle1293 10 месяцев назад +1

    Haven't heard of Jefferson Fisher until this youtube episode! Now I'm a follower! Thank you for bringing Jefferson to us!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      You're welcome, thank you for watching 🧡

  • @missdivinevlogs
    @missdivinevlogs 10 месяцев назад +2

    Great interview. Thank you, Lewis.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @Mercermm
    @Mercermm 5 месяцев назад

    Best podcast ever. I have so much respect for Lewis Howes. He interviews the best speakers. I learn every day!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you! Your support means a lot🧡

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Jefferson!

  • @yq2280
    @yq2280 8 месяцев назад

    Such a great Interview! I need to learn to “ Put It Down” thanks Jefferson .

  • @HappyLifewithMaria
    @HappyLifewithMaria 10 месяцев назад +2

    I never heard of him before, but he is fascinating to listen to! Thank you Lewis!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @lisawilliamsreal
    @lisawilliamsreal 10 месяцев назад +3

    I love Jefferson!!!

  • @leahannwhite1111
    @leahannwhite1111 10 месяцев назад +2

    Commanding the room is imagined.

  • @maisantos3467
    @maisantos3467 2 месяца назад

    I love this guy!!!!

  • @Megan-fs2el
    @Megan-fs2el 2 месяца назад

    I loved this! Thank you so much ❤

  • @musclelegancemusclelegance5642
    @musclelegancemusclelegance5642 9 месяцев назад

    This is absolutely phenomenal ❤

  • @AdirFerreira
    @AdirFerreira 10 месяцев назад +5

    I follow JF on IG and his tips are beyond amazing. Congrats on a great interview, greetings from Brazil!

  • @cathaire
    @cathaire 9 месяцев назад

    What a wonderful interview!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  9 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @loveme24evr74
    @loveme24evr74 7 месяцев назад

    Love this guy!
    Jefferson is so intelligent.
    His suggestions on communication are valuable in any setting.
    Tried that and following!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for being here!

  • @spinz805
    @spinz805 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +1

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @kristykeers7491
    @kristykeers7491 Месяц назад

    Jefferson... Awesome

  • @LilassHd-ev3md
    @LilassHd-ev3md 10 месяцев назад +1

    I am listening and excited for what next

  • @SiritaW
    @SiritaW 10 месяцев назад +1

    Great information!

  • @peggylyons6898
    @peggylyons6898 10 месяцев назад

    Great conversation!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  9 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @IsaiahWG24
    @IsaiahWG24 10 месяцев назад +3

    Ahhhh this will be a 🔥 interview

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      Let me know your thoughts once you have seen it!

  • @KAMILITA
    @KAMILITA 10 месяцев назад +1

    It is no small thing to have so many eyes on you suddenly... the internet has created such overwhelming connectivity and to have so many people suddenly have access to your soul so to speak, is not normal, for sure. Great interview, love both of these guys, great character and integrity and great rolemodels... and remember that great role models are sensitive just like everyone else and need protection too. 😊 Thanks for the insights.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +1

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @nancymoreland3711
    @nancymoreland3711 8 месяцев назад

    You are amazing!❤

  • @spiritualmafia888
    @spiritualmafia888 7 месяцев назад

    That is a great question!!!!!

  • @Kimber_le
    @Kimber_le 9 месяцев назад

    Omg my two favorite people ! I love Jefferson!!

  • @spiritualmafia888
    @spiritualmafia888 7 месяцев назад

    Wow. Nailed it.

  • @ViajandoconFio
    @ViajandoconFio 10 месяцев назад +3

    AMAZING!!

  • @rafaelgomez1989
    @rafaelgomez1989 10 месяцев назад

    GREAT GUEST JEFFERSON ...ANOTHER GEM OF CONTENT LEWIS !!!!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @lizanne3442
    @lizanne3442 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Gentleman this chat was real

  • @audrinkaa
    @audrinkaa 10 месяцев назад +5

    Oh no, another instagram creator that I already follow and wanted to keep as my secret :) Thank you for sharing what you know. I really enjoyed this conversation, too.😊

    • @kavbee
      @kavbee 10 месяцев назад +1

      Hahahaha, trust me, you're not alone..even though he gives the best advice, I follow him because he is good-looking, calm and has the most pleasant voice.

    • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
      @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 10 месяцев назад +1

      the secret's now out!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +2

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @kiraharlamor391
    @kiraharlamor391 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve taught everyone this gif years too! Amen!

  • @user-ti6qm3od1j
    @user-ti6qm3od1j 9 месяцев назад

    Awesome

  • @vervemdp4396
    @vervemdp4396 10 месяцев назад

    This is GOLD

  • @deetissera1492
    @deetissera1492 10 месяцев назад +4

    Wow ! 🔥 thank you both ! 🙏❤️

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +2

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @r.p.8906
    @r.p.8906 10 месяцев назад +2

    studying for the LSAT as we speak! Super!!

  • @TundeEszlari
    @TundeEszlari 10 месяцев назад +2

    Super video.

  • @antmann9123
    @antmann9123 10 месяцев назад +1

    Could listen to him talk for hours!! 😍✌🏼

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

    • @antmann9123
      @antmann9123 10 месяцев назад

      @@lewishowes first time I’ve come across your podcasts mate. Love it!! Looks like I’ve got plenty to watch as well 😂👍🏼❤️✌🏼

  • @xplayer81
    @xplayer81 6 месяцев назад

    I love this guy

  • @AchiniKaravita
    @AchiniKaravita 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love his content. Thank you for having him❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  10 месяцев назад

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @skyepalmer5719
    @skyepalmer5719 10 месяцев назад +3

    Over 3m subscribers 🎉 well done Lewis from London UK

  • @spiritualmafia888
    @spiritualmafia888 7 месяцев назад

    Thats beautiful.

  • @spiritualmafia888
    @spiritualmafia888 7 месяцев назад

    Flare up. Touche!

  • @nancymoreland3711
    @nancymoreland3711 8 месяцев назад +1

    It's called stress. At a period in my life my throat was tightening up and could not swallow food well. Had heart tests done and finally told my heart was fine and doctor told me I had to get my stress under control. So I did everything I could do to be less stressed. Breathing techniques for one.
    Anyway over time I have gotten better.
    Take care.🙏

  • @user-od5ki5km1i
    @user-od5ki5km1i 2 месяца назад

    That was a very inspiring interview.. his very last answer ... says it all ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 месяца назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.