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    My name is Nikki Blackketter!
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    I am a short human, a cat lover, & a total kid at heart.
    I make vlogs, try-on hauls, get ready with me, workouts etc that are mostly about fitness / weight lifting workouts & adventures with friends, family, & cat companion.
    My vlogs show how I balance being in my 20s and having fun, with working out and making sure my diet and health is on point too! I like to keep a nice, toned figure!
    Glute & leg lifts are my specialty. :)
    I also enjoy video games, Game of Thrones, Star Wars, and have some stormtrooper friends.
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  • @nikkiblackketter
    @nikkiblackketter  7 лет назад +3058

    Hi guys,
    First of all,
    I want to thank y’all for the kind words and comments and the understanding that I’ve received. They mean so much to me. You guys bring tears to my eyes every day and I am so appreciative to have people so loving and caring, who take time out of their day to write something positive down to make me smile.
    (Or cry. SRS YALL ARE SO SWEET.)
    It’s really difficult to put yourself on such a public platform and to admit your vulnerabilities.
    To admit the good AND the bad that goes on.
    I am still learning what is appropriate to ‘share’ and ‘not to share’, but I really do like being open.
    I feel like it’s a diary and journey that I’m sharing with a bunch of friends.
    I was, however, very sad that I had to defend myself against a public accusation that villain-ized me, my integrity, and my privacy from someone I love very much.
    I never cheated.
    Please do not speculate and fill in holes with ludicrous assumptions, this was a weird, uncomfortable experience that I went through that I should have shared with my partner.
    (Yes, I have sworn off liquor. I hope to never have a black-out experience again in my life.)
    I will respect his decision to end it and would ask you all to as well.
    I tried really, really hard to love as hard as I could and give as much as I could to someone. It is very hard to have all of that good I have tried to do and give disregarded because of what happened.
    However,
    I’m still learning, every day, to be a better person, to be a bigger person,
    to love harder,
    learn more,
    to be happy,
    to stay positive even when I feel at my very lowest.
    I am growing and I am so happy that you feel I am worthy to follow, to learn with, to watch me make mistakes and get knocked down, and then to continue on, and to not be bitter towards the world, but to embrace it with all of its ups and downs, its beauty and its darkness.
    I truly love my life, and I am so appreciative for all that I have been given, all I have worked for, all I have received, including the respect and love of so many people around the world.
    I will try harder, I will love harder, and I will keep trying to conquer the world, because that is all I can do right now.
    Thank you so much. I really do love what I do and sharing with you all.

    • @kevin0412
      @kevin0412 7 лет назад +1

      Nikki Blackketter FIRST COMMENT HI!!!

    • @kevin0412
      @kevin0412 7 лет назад +1

      Nikki Blackketter U ARE AWESOME!!!

    • @babylovee8674
      @babylovee8674 7 лет назад +3

      Keep on keeping on girly!

    • @xxx27love27xxx
      @xxx27love27xxx 7 лет назад +4

      Nikki Blackketter love and support you all the way, Nikki. You rock ❤️

    • @marieluebbert4631
      @marieluebbert4631 7 лет назад +5

      So proud of you, Nikki!

  • @Kicksandweights
    @Kicksandweights 7 лет назад +462

    I never comment on stuff like this but...
    My wife (gf at the time) and I went through something very similar involving an aquaintance I that we both knew through a mutual friend and we broke up because of this. I took a a older guy fishing since thats what I love doing and it helped to get over things. I was asked one thing by him DO YOU LOVE HER UNCONDITIONALLY?? I said I love her but she broke my heart and I cant trust her ! He says love doesnt know right or wrong.
    We have a daughter together (4 yrs old at the time) and he says do you love your daughter, I said yes. Now what if you daughter steals from you, causes you heartache, makes life tough for you while raising her, do you stop loving her??? I said no and he says see if you truly love someone it has no conditions regardless of what happens or you really don't love that person to begin with. (see where Im going) ;)
    People will always be people, we all aren't perfect, we all make mistakes. Do what makes ya happy and it will all workout in the end with or without him.

    • @Kicksandweights
      @Kicksandweights 7 лет назад +7

      Yes we did/do have a daughter at the time but she had nothing to do with what was going on between us, you dont stay with someone because you have children and also we werent married at the time any of this happen! *****

    • @Kicksandweights
      @Kicksandweights 7 лет назад

      ***** :)

    • @barcelonadgreates
      @barcelonadgreates 7 лет назад +16

      Nah bro there gotta be boundaries now your wife is gonna believe she can get away with anything, you a good dude, but nice dudes always finish last my bro

    • @lilychard6784
      @lilychard6784 7 лет назад +16

      You should post this on CG page

    • @Kicksandweights
      @Kicksandweights 7 лет назад +3

      no such thing, how do you measure love? , I'm just sayin, love doesnt see good or bad, right or wrong, age, color, or if its from man or women, mom or dad, but i get what your sayin. :)Yadis G

  • @rhcpguitarar
    @rhcpguitarar 7 лет назад +227

    Fake Christmas tree? Nikki I thought you got rid of all the fake shit in your life after Guzman left?!

    • @thebatman939
      @thebatman939 7 лет назад +3

      Professor Hubert J. Farnsworth Haha quality!

    • @karinasylvester
      @karinasylvester 7 лет назад +2

      Professor Hubert J. Farnsworth 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😂😂😂😂

    • @88Mikje123
      @88Mikje123 7 лет назад

      Lol I'm not listening to a random person on the internet. Nikki also has decent shaped legs, very good hamstrings, so I believe her ass is 100% real

  • @hayleypdowd
    @hayleypdowd 7 лет назад +70

    Please don't blame yourself for getting too drunk. It's incredibly easy to drink more than you are used to. Knowing where your tolerance lies is a learning curve. There's a million different types of alcohol, a million different types of drinks that have different quantities in them, a million different scenarios that can affect how drunk we end up getting. Also, getting black out drunk a lot of the time has nothing to do with HOW MUCH you've had, and rather with who you are in general. Certain people get black out far easily than others. It is NEVER YOUR FAULT for how someone takes advantage of you when you are drunk. That is on THEM. We don't blame the person whose house is broken into for having a house. We don't say "well your doors were unlocked sooo .... 2 bad 4 U".

  • @lianamitt
    @lianamitt 7 лет назад +179

    To put it simply, you are such a strong, inspiring, beautiful human being that deserves only the best. With you always Nikki B.

    • @lianamitt
      @lianamitt 7 лет назад +6

      Btw... cat food recommendation... Lotus Pet Foods

    • @Liarna23
      @Liarna23 7 лет назад

      Liana u have a cool name

  • @ashpat101
    @ashpat101 7 лет назад +190

    Oh Nikki, I wish I could just hug you. I've never felt so connected to a RUclipsr before. (As weird as that sounds). I love how transparent you are. You will get through this, what is meant to be will be. Nothing but love for you girl! ❤️

    • @ashpat101
      @ashpat101 7 лет назад +21

      & if you can remember you should totally update us on what you think about those books!!!

    • @veronicarivas6948
      @veronicarivas6948 7 лет назад +15

      I feel the same!! in the beginning of the video in her car she was tearing up I started tearing up.

  • @ellesin3089
    @ellesin3089 7 лет назад +194

    Everyone, just have pity for CG. Look who he has lost.. look who is going to move forward and be OH SO MUCH better without him....

    • @sharonsmilesphotography5553
      @sharonsmilesphotography5553 7 лет назад +25

      Absolutely, Nikki is a beautiful person on the inside and out. CG looks good on the outside but seems spoiled rotten from within.

    • @user-nl9gs4fk4j
      @user-nl9gs4fk4j 7 лет назад +19

      dude can buy another broad with the money he shits out of his ass. Doubt he cares.

    • @YoDadWasHere4321
      @YoDadWasHere4321 7 лет назад +8

      I'm not choosing sides here, I support both Nikki and CG but CG dumped Nikki cause she done fucked up this time. Everyone would've done the same. I believe they're both better persons without each other anyways.

    • @dragonixheli5474
      @dragonixheli5474 7 лет назад

      Stop hating on one side in a break up, it was a really shitty situation for both of them, it is just better for both people to move on and find someone more suitable for both to be happy

    • @bettemiddler7756
      @bettemiddler7756 7 лет назад +2

      Somebody else fuked up how? because she didn't wanna confront her sexual assault? he took what happened to her and made it about him. if anything he should have been there for her to sort it out.

  • @christinastevens7804
    @christinastevens7804 7 лет назад +167

    Does anyone else think that Nikki looked like a Victoria's Secret model during the q&a??? So beautiful!

    • @walterarama
      @walterarama 7 лет назад +10

      Christina Stevens yeah, the white pillow made it seem like angel wings or something

    • @nataliepassant8083
      @nataliepassant8083 7 лет назад +1

      Christina Stevens 100%. How gorgeous she is

  • @keithsavageone
    @keithsavageone 7 лет назад +83

    I unsubscribe to you know who. Much respect and hope him all the best. Really - is anyone perfect? ..if you can't forgive those you claimed to love - your maturity is not there yet...keep on chugging til you do. On my end - 4 kids and still with my wife and the #1 reason why it works is that you just make a solid decision to stick it out as long as the other person is willing to work it out forgiving themselves (when bad things go down) while you forgive them. We all make mistakes. Stay positive and no crazy rebounds. Just cuddle with your love ones (family) and it will heal over time. All the best.

  • @helpingkind
    @helpingkind 7 лет назад +43

    You should get halloween and thanksgiving ornaments! I grew up with the tree staying up all the way through mardi gras with decorations on the tree changing for each passing holiday.

  • @VictorNLewis
    @VictorNLewis 7 лет назад +168

    When will you collab with CG?

  • @tessmaulit5131
    @tessmaulit5131 7 лет назад +8

    There's a light about you, Nikki that shines so bright. And all of us notice it. Thanks for always sharing your heart and always serving as a walking reminder to fight for our joy. Keep fighting for yours! We lurrvvvv you girlfriend!

  • @JenBretty
    @JenBretty 7 лет назад +7

    You inspire me so much further than just fitness. Just to be a better person and be positive and be happy. Love you Nikki.

  • @thoughtslikestars
    @thoughtslikestars 7 лет назад +6

    I didn't see the other video, I don't know the whole story. But from what I see and read, I know that you're handling everything as well as you possibly can. I can't imagine feeling upset over losing someone you love and trusted to share something like that with. It's vulnerable and scary and it's not easy to even come to terms with on your own, to have a friend take advantage of you in a moment when you cannot give legitimate consent. I'm so sorry Nikki, and I'm so happy that you have shared as much as you have and feel all of the support that you feel. You deserve amazing things in life and in love. You deserve to be heard and respected.

  • @jowiens32
    @jowiens32 7 лет назад +58

    The whole situation is tragic. I pray Christian can see that he should be supporting you through what was a horrifying experience. That's what a partner does. Yes, you lied. Understandable because you didn't even want to face it happened. Not because you were trying to hide something from him. Anyway. I think maybe it says something about his view of partnership and for better and worse. When things are "worse" you run towards each other not away. Maybe in the long run that is not a quality you need. I feel sad for you both. You're a beautiful couple. Love you Nikki.

  • @mdillavou07
    @mdillavou07 7 лет назад +1

    You are so strong! Don't ever think that "situation" was your fault. If someone can't stick by you through the hard times, then he shouldn't be there for the good. You can tell that you give 100% to a relationship, once the dust settles he will realize what he lost. You're such an inspiration

  • @arnolyn7085
    @arnolyn7085 7 лет назад +19

    Nikki, you're such an inspiration! I absolutely adore you and I know that times are hard, but you just have to push past them and think ahead! Life is big, wonderful, glorious and full of options. I think you'll be fine, and you'll find happiness wherever you go :)

  • @TheBrockwayBabe
    @TheBrockwayBabe 7 лет назад +58

    Take A little wisdom from someone 10+ years older than you, someday you will look back on your twenties from A much happier and emotionally healthier place in your life and wonder why you let yourself be upset, you will be fine, appreciate the people who love and support you no matter what and let the ones who don't fall away, they aren't worth your time and effort.

    • @ahora868
      @ahora868 7 лет назад +1

      Preach!

    • @ervinasmit-vonschukkmann8315
      @ervinasmit-vonschukkmann8315 7 лет назад +2

      I'm 37 right now and can agree to that!

    • @SamanthaYazzie
      @SamanthaYazzie 7 лет назад +1

      I'm in my twenties right now so this is really helpful advice bc I've been dealing with a lot of personal things.

  • @Jasmine-fz7ev
    @Jasmine-fz7ev 7 лет назад +1

    Nikki, I admire you so much. I am going through heartbreak right now and watching your videos has been the number one thing getting me through. Knowing that you are able to pick yourself back up and be positive and smile is very inspiring and I gain strength from you. Thank you for everything.

  • @sarahleahy663
    @sarahleahy663 7 лет назад +135

    I love that you already have your christmas tree up. NO fucks given lol. I love christmas! Are you excited for vlogmas?!

    • @nikkiblackketter
      @nikkiblackketter  7 лет назад +87

      Very excited for vlogmas!! Planning already.

    • @LaneyaMing
      @LaneyaMing 7 лет назад +1

      SARAH SBD omg I'm so excited for her vlogmas!!!!!

  • @MaryanaDvorska
    @MaryanaDvorska 7 лет назад +8

    Awh girl I feel you so hard on the family part. Glad that you have people like that in your life especially during times like this ❤️ also I can't fricken wait for your vlogmas videos 😻😻😻

  • @MontanaDior
    @MontanaDior 7 лет назад +13

    You look so refreshed and full of energy, very proud of you. Keep knocking down walls and breaking barriers darling..we got cho back #NIKKIBNATION ✊🏽😝

  • @SezElaine
    @SezElaine 7 лет назад +1

    You are actually one of my favourite people, not youtubers, but people. Even though I've never physically met you I feel like you're a friend. Your videos are not only inspiring for fitness but also for just improvement in yourself. The way we've been able to watch you grow through all this shit and become a more confident and independent person, whilst never losing your optimism is inspiring.
    I admire your openness and honesty with the world, I don't know how you do it but it's highly appreciated

  • @kellihuffstetler2572
    @kellihuffstetler2572 7 лет назад +4

    The fact you are listening to Christmas music and putting up a Christmas tree in October is exactly why I love your channel and you!

  • @jaseholland2836
    @jaseholland2836 7 лет назад +43

    "do you want to live with Christian soon?" I CACKLED AWKWARD-LAUGHING. OMG.

  • @msl5131
    @msl5131 7 лет назад +68

    You eyelashes look SO much better; much softer, natural and pretty♥

  • @npcbodybuilder203
    @npcbodybuilder203 7 лет назад +54

    Nikki's single? Now is my chance to capture them sugar walls😎

    • @rob3706
      @rob3706 7 лет назад +16

      keep dreamin

    • @npcbodybuilder203
      @npcbodybuilder203 7 лет назад +7

      it's a joke, calm it down there bud

    • @kevinhsu3102
      @kevinhsu3102 7 лет назад +8

      found the feminazi

    • @christina7215
      @christina7215 7 лет назад +30

      Don't talk about her like that. She's more than "sugar walls". Jeez so disrespectful.

    • @kevinhsu3102
      @kevinhsu3102 7 лет назад +17

      Did he trigger you

  • @Emma-wx4dj
    @Emma-wx4dj 7 лет назад +2

    I didn't wish this break-up on you, however, you seem to grow stronger and stronger when you go through these hard things. i love seeing you with your family and seeing that relaxed and happy side of you. you are so strong and beautiful! you're an amazing role model to young girls out there.

  • @vanessaalbuquerque2854
    @vanessaalbuquerque2854 7 лет назад +29

    in the beginning when you guys broke up , I was upset and sad. However I loved you being single it was so natural and you were happier. when you guys got back together I realized how much better you were off without him. SINGLE suits you better , he takes away who you are.

    • @breylTheBreyl
      @breylTheBreyl 7 лет назад +1

      Vanessa Albuquerque lol what? They were both so increadibly happy after getting back together. When i see these kind of comments i wonder if we watched the same videos...Christian was never happy, made short and low quality vlogs and Nikki had been just cuddling with her cat every night..

    • @vanessaalbuquerque2854
      @vanessaalbuquerque2854 7 лет назад +1

      Christian maybe ... like nikki said on the video she deleted .. he begged for her back. Take some psychology classes you will see the difference in her behavior and body language. She never felt comfortable being herself , he took who she was , like she mentioned in the break up video. She lost herself. If you can't love yourself first than you can't love nobody else.

    • @wuh93
      @wuh93 7 лет назад +3

      Thats a lot of information you're obtaining from just body language. Do yourself a favor, and don't speak for other people. Let these RUclipsrs talk about the way they feel.

    • @vanessaalbuquerque2854
      @vanessaalbuquerque2854 7 лет назад

      I used as reference her own words and the break up video and the recent video

  • @christinastevens7804
    @christinastevens7804 7 лет назад +7

    Love you Nikki! You're the strongest woman I have ever seen and I love how honest and real you are! No one could ever replace you 😊 thank you for inspiring me and so many others!

  • @IvankaSmirnoff
    @IvankaSmirnoff 7 лет назад +4

    No matter what people are writing now on social media, Nikki B are the BEST!

  • @ajahzi
    @ajahzi 7 лет назад

    This light comes out of you when you're faced with hard times that is truly out of this world. It's through the struggles where you find out how strong you are. You are such an amazing role model & I'm so sorry you had to go through such a horrible experience. Keep smiling beautiful! ❤️

  • @RebeccaL646
    @RebeccaL646 7 лет назад +3

    Nikki, your attitude and everything is so so admirable. I'm so thankful (is it thanksgiving yet??) to have found your youtube and look up to you. You are amazing. So glad you have Sammy, Max, family and ALL of us supporting you

  • @eveedmunds-diez3386
    @eveedmunds-diez3386 7 лет назад +3

    Nikki I feel like you've really worked on discovering yourself and I can relate to some of what you're going through. You of course look incredibly fit and amazing, but once you see one of your videos it is clear you are so down to earth and kind. Love you :D

  • @maryrosen7912
    @maryrosen7912 7 лет назад

    My roommate and I have been contemplating listen to Christmas music for a few weeks now. Breaking out a few decorations here and there. It's the BEST time of the year :) keep being happy Nikki! You got this!

  • @alyssafleck757
    @alyssafleck757 7 лет назад +2

    Nikki I just wanted to say that I was going through a very similar situation and I appreciate this video SO much. Your little comment about picking yourself up and I really started crying because it totally opened up my eyes. Break ups are hard and for the past few weeks I really felt completely lost and this video gave me a positive direction. So thank you times a million. You're a beautiful strong woman and so positive. Keep up the good work love!

  • @TLHowie
    @TLHowie 7 лет назад +17

    Hi Nikki, I just wanted to say that you did nothing wrong. CG is crazy to think that there aren't guys out there even his friends that dribble and lust over you, that is one of the attractions that he himself loved about you. You were taken advantage of, its disappointing to think that CG didn't stick up for you :-( then it is hardly surprising considering his life is about him and his goals etc. You gave him balance in his life, sacrificing your own sense of wellbeing and enthusiasm for your own goals, that is love. He didn't see you for you he is so blinded by his own expectations. I'm sorry you are hurting. Family is a good place to be. God Bless

  • @bobbylavigne7671
    @bobbylavigne7671 7 лет назад +4

    life is extremely short and we are humans ...we make mistakes...nobody is perfect. you are real and an inspiration to soo many people. Thank you!

  • @LRmama2019
    @LRmama2019 7 лет назад

    You're amazing and we've all been through this. I just turned 30 and when I was in my mid 20s I had a lot of the same experiences. You're a wonderful person and such and inspiration.

  • @lisaho3325
    @lisaho3325 7 лет назад

    I have been watching your videos non stop the last few days. The emotional strength you have inspires me to the point of tears. Thank you so much for posting these videos.

  • @daisylulu9197
    @daisylulu9197 7 лет назад +5

    Omg Nikki, I feel like your about to cry at any minute! 😢 Please don't be sad. You're such a sweet girl and you will always be loved by your viewers. 😊

  • @alexislex11
    @alexislex11 7 лет назад +3

    I know I'm a little late to comment on this but I absolutely love you and you deserve every bit of happiness in the world. You are a genuine ray of sunshine and quirkiness and I will ALWAYS support you. If you ever want to hit up Tennessee, I have a very comfortable couch. Much love. ❤️

  • @VanMaiTai
    @VanMaiTai 7 лет назад

    Love that the tree is up this early!! And I cannot fault anyone listening to Christmas tunes anytime of the year Lol. I was listening to them a few weeks ago coming home from work and 90 degrees out.

  • @Librado316
    @Librado316 7 лет назад

    i love the fact that you never let anything put you down and that you just pick youself back up and you get even more stronger!! I jusst love the person you are! you defintiley inspire me live a life full of happiness and to always go after my dreams! You certainly will find happiness and so much more!! love you Nikki B!! :)

  • @haileybase6102
    @haileybase6102 7 лет назад +3

    Nikki, as much as what you're going through sucks, and as hateful and gross as some of these comments get, seeing you fighting HARD to continue to move forward and pursue a beautiful life for yourself is inspiring to say the LEAST. It shows that your strength doesn't lie just within fitness, you're a whole lot more. Keep pushing forward, things always have a tendency to get better :)

  • @roseg2516
    @roseg2516 7 лет назад +5

    You are such an awesome person Nikki. I love your attitude towards life. Keep being YOU and thank you for the great videos you post.

  • @baileym8702
    @baileym8702 7 лет назад +1

    i love that you view this (and very maturely) as what it is: a bump in the road to get over in time. everything happens for a reason

  • @martineksin
    @martineksin 7 лет назад

    I LOVE you, Nikki! Have been following your for a long time now and you are so genuine and such a good person. You inspire me EVERY DAY to be a strong, independant woman who loves myself and I learn from you, from every video you make. I really appreciate your videos. Lots of love from me!!❤️

  • @SilverLotus5
    @SilverLotus5 7 лет назад +4

    Hey Nikki! Cat owner and pre-vet student here, since Maximus is not liking new foods being introduced to him, try doing it gradually by mixing the new food with the old and decreasing the amount of the old by the end of the week! This will also help his tummy, avoiding vomiting and what not. As far as quality brands I would recommend Blue Wilderness-Blue Buffalo, Natures Variety Instinct, Wellness. Note: Cats are true carnivores and need their protein (them gains) so refrain from high grain diets! You want to notice that the first ingredient is a protein like Chicken or Turkey (avoid anything with byproduct like Chicken-byproduct or soybean meal which indicate low quality)
    Hope this helps! Stay strong girly Love ya

  • @jasminredzic5753
    @jasminredzic5753 7 лет назад +34

    15:18 Im back in a minute

    • @BlackMist123
      @BlackMist123 7 лет назад +1

      I knowww man. It looks so good.

  • @paigemackenzie24
    @paigemackenzie24 7 лет назад

    Honestly Im so proud of you for learning to live through all the emotions thrown your way lately and how you constantly find little ways to find happiness even during the rough days Nikki!

  • @debster05
    @debster05 7 лет назад +1

    OMG! I'm from Seguin and my parents still live there. I love going back to see my family and feel all the love when life gets to me. Hope you feel better!

  • @cynmillar1
    @cynmillar1 7 лет назад +3

    I met Christian while he was building his first Gym and you both were still working out at Lifetime. I had so much respect for him and told him so. After this last break up, I lost all respect for him. He talks about being transparent and vulnerable on his videos but I don't feel it, except when you two got back together this last time. How could he leave you at your most vulnerable? His lack of compassion is frightening. God forbid he figures out we are all human. Maybe Mama Guzman needs to have a talk with her boy. You represent the authenticity Christian wants so badly. Much love to you.

  • @sandyarthur2516
    @sandyarthur2516 7 лет назад +9

    I really hope you write that book :) Love ya Nikki! I would love to see you do more things with Jazzy and Omar eventually!

  • @rachelgrace327
    @rachelgrace327 7 лет назад

    i LOVE how excited you are for Christmas, no one in my family gets it, but finally someone who understands lol!

  • @BeyondGenetics
    @BeyondGenetics 7 лет назад +85

    Who Else Watches Nikki's Videos And Then Watches Christians?

    • @abraxsis
      @abraxsis 7 лет назад +102

      Nope, the guy is an infantile show off, can't stand him.

    • @jaybee7807
      @jaybee7807 7 лет назад +9

      abraxsis agreed. Unsubbed IMMEDIATELY after all of the drama he's caused. Such a piece of shit.

    • @KD_RN
      @KD_RN 7 лет назад +5

      BeyondGenetics 🙋🏾🙋🏾🙋🏾 but then I unsubscribed to Xtian right away when he broke up FOR THE SECOND TIME with Nikki!!!

    • @MegamanXLT
      @MegamanXLT 7 лет назад

      Lol I just noticed that I was unsub'd from Nikki since the first time they broke up. Had to type her name in the search engine.

    • @abraxsis
      @abraxsis 7 лет назад

      Yipyo1986 I formed my opinion of him long before I ever followed Ms. Blackketter. It is based on his videos and on nothing else. Just not my style. As for your asinine slur, you are no more privy to the truth about their relationship than me or anyone else in this thread. So how about you just keep on moving and keep your clearly IQ-deficient insults to yourself, okay?

  • @MissyMSU
    @MissyMSU 7 лет назад +41

    How do you curl your hair so freaking well!? Do you use a wand or curling iron? It looks AMAZING and I'm super jealous! lol

    • @nikkiblackketter
      @nikkiblackketter  7 лет назад +20

      Sarah Steinhauser I used a wand! Thank you so much!!!

    • @thebatman939
      @thebatman939 7 лет назад +2

      Nikki Blackketter Looks amazing Nikki!!!

    • @MissyMSU
      @MissyMSU 7 лет назад

      A DD I'm sorry your life is so pathetic you have to try hurting others while hiding behind your computer screen. You should look into getting some help for that. Best of luck!

    • @MissyMSU
      @MissyMSU 7 лет назад +6

      Nikki Blackketter No problem!

    • @hintsandtipsonhowtosavemon5814
      @hintsandtipsonhowtosavemon5814 7 лет назад

      what you been thru in the last few days, do you think it is a major turning point in your life?

  • @andreabeatee
    @andreabeatee 7 лет назад +3

    It`s soo cute looking at how happy you guys are with that christmas tree! Cutest ever

  • @YessiWaters
    @YessiWaters 7 лет назад +1

    I love this vlog so much because you gave such great advice and suggestions all throughout it!

  • @brittneys.7356
    @brittneys.7356 7 лет назад

    Wishing I could hug your through my phone screen! Thanks for keeping it real, girl- and always trying to stay positive. I know you're going through a rough time but you've got friends all over the U.S sending good vibes your way. Love from Florida. Stay happy! 💗

  • @cindy03709
    @cindy03709 7 лет назад +14

    Sam seems like a really good best friend

  • @forschoolprojects
    @forschoolprojects 7 лет назад +7

    I would LOVE to see a Year of You collar with you and Marissa! Talking about positivity and health and mental health. Would be awesome

  • @krystalmarie595
    @krystalmarie595 7 лет назад +1

    Love you Nikki!! Keep doing what you're doing. You continue to motivate me everyday in many ways. Don't give anyone a second thought who doesn't see your worth. "Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth" keep being you beautiful and positive. Love the Christmas tree!! ☺️

  • @amyxoxo33
    @amyxoxo33 7 лет назад

    I think that you are handling all of this in such an amazing way. The best thing to possibly do is to respect the decision that led you both to where you are now, which is exactly what you're doing. I hope you know watching your videos truly brightens the life of your subscribers

  • @tersadailey
    @tersadailey 7 лет назад +7

    Punishment doesn't fit the crime. its too severe. you should be forgiven, not punished. that's right, you didn't cheat. you told a lie, you made a mistake, i'm sure you apologized for it. You shouldn't be punished for that. It's called LOVING SOMEONE IN A REAL ADULT RELATIONSHIP. Yes, sometimes the ones we love hurt us, but we don't punish them for it. We learn, we forgive them and we go on loving them. We get over our hurt because we love them so much. and we'd rather be with them, than not.

  • @letseatfitness8674
    @letseatfitness8674 7 лет назад +8

    always keep your head up because.. in the darkest hr of the night the sun begins to rise..remember that

  • @Colbzzk
    @Colbzzk 7 лет назад

    Nikki, you just got me so inspired to start working out! I just turned 22 and to think that if I start working out now I have a shot at getting my body in the kind of shape you're in is so exciting! :)

  • @laurelineremacle5830
    @laurelineremacle5830 7 лет назад +2

    Watching this video brings tears to my eyes, and reading your comment. I love how positive you are and how you just handle everything that happens with such a positive attitude. You truely are such an inspirational person, and I look up to you so much. Just keep doing what you're doing and remember that everyone loves you 😘❤️🍷

  • @kajsaknutsson
    @kajsaknutsson 7 лет назад +6

    Just a reminder that youre amazig and wonderful and aaah, thanks for bringing me happiness Nikki :) Love watching your videos, inspiring me so much

  • @ModernMolliee
    @ModernMolliee 7 лет назад +8

    I'm so proud of you for conquering the world! So much respect for you :)

  • @halliejt
    @halliejt 7 лет назад +1

    i love Christmas as well and if i was in college i know for sure my christmas decorations would be up rn. Its honestly so great that your decor is up

  • @Esmeraldagarcia92591
    @Esmeraldagarcia92591 7 лет назад

    Hey Nikki, I rarely comment on RUclips videos, but I wanted to just say thank you for yours. You really do inspire, but at the same time, keep it real. When I'm feeling lazy or down on myself, you always seem to have the right thing to say. Your confident, and yes, I understand the heartache, but you seem so strong and confident, and that is difficult to do when your in the spotlight. You really seem fun and loving, and so down to earth that you put life into prospective and without even trying, become an awesome role model for the tons of women who follow you. (me included) I think your amazing, I love your videos- especially the raw ones (the fancy edited workout videos i've seen on other channels are starting to get annoying) but yours seem real. And I appreciate all of the work you put into your content.
    Thanks again!

  • @wickidgrrl
    @wickidgrrl 7 лет назад +7

    I would love to see you and Sammy go on a girls' trip to Bali or Costa Rica together! That would be an epic journey and vlog...travel and amazing friends are so good for the soul!

  • @VanessaBlanco
    @VanessaBlanco 7 лет назад +5

    Family is EVERYTHING!

  • @brittanycobble9789
    @brittanycobble9789 7 лет назад

    Nikki your positivity and happy spirit bring so much joy to your channel!! Your honesty and openness you give off make you so down to earth, and not just some RUclips guru! Keep smilin' girl!! You rock!! And Merry Christmas 😂❤️🎄

  • @mmmaddiex3
    @mmmaddiex3 7 лет назад

    Thank you for showing me what strength is, I'm going through relationship stuff as well and I just wish I had someone like Sammi as a positive light around me. So congrats, you get to me my virtual positive light 😊💙

  • @crystalingram1945
    @crystalingram1945 7 лет назад +4

    Omgness! Gorgeous at 6:32 😇 Praying for your strength.

  • @SoccerStar348
    @SoccerStar348 7 лет назад +4

    LOVE YA NIKKI

  • @kannaya9
    @kannaya9 7 лет назад +1

    Nikki, you are truly so positive and inspiration. You have taught me so much and I appreciate how positive you are.

  • @MsMaxxyMaxx
    @MsMaxxyMaxx 7 лет назад +1

    Love you, Nikki!! I enjoyed the video. I definitely try those workouts. I am not much of a holidays person but you are seriously making me want to get a Christmas tree!

  • @Otileo
    @Otileo 7 лет назад +6

    Killing it in that one piece, damn

  • @willsdaman100
    @willsdaman100 7 лет назад +58

    im usually very supportive of you nikki, but its freaking october 10th and you put up a christmas tree already LOL. This, I cannot support.

    • @thebatman939
      @thebatman939 7 лет назад

      willsdaman100 Woop it's the holidays

    • @Vielleichtinteressantblog
      @Vielleichtinteressantblog 7 лет назад +10

      hahah it actually made me love her even more. Listening to christmas songs since weeks...hahah! #obsessed

    • @ExXxOtIcMiZz
      @ExXxOtIcMiZz 7 лет назад

      +Vielleicht Interessant thank the lord I am not the only one!! 😂😍❤️

    • @Samantha-li6rl
      @Samantha-li6rl 7 лет назад

      willsdaman100 my Christmas tree is up as well lol

  • @stellaobryant2785
    @stellaobryant2785 7 лет назад

    It's therapeutic to verbalize the things that fill your mind. Don't ever apologize for bringing "the situation" up. Hearing you talk through the day to day struggle of all of this makes you even more relatable and is probably helping more people than you realize. It's okay to show your heart is hurting. Anyways...I am rambling...but one more thing (a tip that got me through a horrible situation I was in just 4 short years ago) "Be excited for your upcoming unknown unanticipated story of you"

  • @jenliftsss
    @jenliftsss 7 лет назад +2

    Nikki I'm obsessed with Harry Potter and Christmas... This vlog gave me life 🙌🏼🙌🏼 I don't feel bad singing Christmas music in my car now 😂

  • @chelseaalyssefit
    @chelseaalyssefit 7 лет назад +4

    You're such a strong and beautiful person inside and out Nikki - stay strong girl 💪

  • @AlyseParker
    @AlyseParker 7 лет назад +4

    Freaking AWESOME workout! Thank you for sharing all that you do :) Sending you tons of Love & Abundance! muah! 😘 😘 😘

  • @KellyM728
    @KellyM728 7 лет назад

    Ahhh got so excited when you said philly was your favorite! ❤️ love the positive spirit without hiding your vulnerability. As much as we are always expected to put on a happy face, it's refreshing to see both sides. ☃

  • @DarcyKnott
    @DarcyKnott 7 лет назад

    I love watching your videos, because i feel that (obviously judging from what I see in your videos- Ive been watching for a good two years or so) we are so similar and I'm going through a breakup and have been loving that you've been posting more regularly as its so nice to see someone dealing with such a thing so well and it helps keep me positive and want to keep pushing through. thank you for being you

  • @tiffanyortiz4064
    @tiffanyortiz4064 7 лет назад +6

    I love that your so strong and fight everyday to be positive :) keep up the good work. Come decorate my tree now :) 😚 Team Blackketter

  • @cvp512
    @cvp512 7 лет назад +9

    you need pumpkins and scarecrows for your tree.

  • @ShannonAlexa711
    @ShannonAlexa711 7 лет назад

    Omg!! I love you!! The fact that you put your Christmas tree up in October makes me love you even more!!! This made me so happy ☺️🎄

  • @perlestaomosowofa4363
    @perlestaomosowofa4363 7 лет назад

    OMG I want to put my tree up SO BAD NOW!!! I have been listening to Christmas music for a couple months now, but knowing you have your tree up makes me feel like I need mine up too!

  • @melissamccann9120
    @melissamccann9120 7 лет назад +3

    Christmas does make everything better! 💚🎅🏻

  • @jamiejames9697
    @jamiejames9697 7 лет назад +3

    you have such a sweet and loving family

  • @becky8683
    @becky8683 7 лет назад +2

    I'm so glad I clicked on the comments. What a nice heartfelt note to your fans. I don't even know you or CG but it brings tears to my eyes seeing you guys go through breakup again. Just stay true to yourself and God will give you the strength once again to get through this. Personally, I think you and Sammy should hop on a plane and hit the beach somewhere. Girl time, the sand, and sun always does the soul good. :-)

  • @bexbrown6456
    @bexbrown6456 7 лет назад

    Just want to say I love your videos and the positive outlook on life , it has helped me so much these last couple of months .
    You are truely an inspiration not just for your workout videos but all your positive vibes! Reaching all the way to New Zealand

  • @SC-he5xt
    @SC-he5xt 7 лет назад +4

    Merck dry cat food---all natural. It's found at the pet stores: but I also give the same cans of cat food that u give max to my cats----there's no other wet food like that, that they love!

  • @frostyxelectra
    @frostyxelectra 7 лет назад +11

    I had an anxiety attack when I saw your videos getting together. I really hope it doesn't happen again and you can move on from him.

  • @natashagartin5770
    @natashagartin5770 7 лет назад +2

    Nikki,
    You're so incredible! I love watching your journey including your ups & downs! We're all human & we're all trying to figure it out even us married folk. The best thing you can do is accept yourself without judgement & go forward living in the present because it's the only thing you have control over. Also I cry almost every time I leave my parents house too! Gratitude & happiness have a very strong relationship 😘😘😘

  • @hipnhappenin
    @hipnhappenin 7 лет назад

    So true. You realize who is truly there for you after something as distressing as a breakup. I visited my family every weekend after my breakup