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Комментарии • 153

  • @brandeerodriguez8536
    @brandeerodriguez8536 9 дней назад +70

    Watching you find yourself after your big public break up 8 years ago, was a beautiful thing. It was vulnerable and real.

  • @kristendreamy
    @kristendreamy 10 дней назад +93

    It feels like the good old days with nikki on youtube again 😊❤

  • @allisong3736
    @allisong3736 10 дней назад +91

    I love that you're back on your vlog game! You used to be one of my fave vloggers!!

    • @ericabaker7704
      @ericabaker7704 10 дней назад +2

      I swear man 😢❤

    • @steveaustin8870
      @steveaustin8870 10 дней назад

      till the next breakup which will definitely happen lol

  • @Girlchild406
    @Girlchild406 10 дней назад +49

    Therapy is great! But if anybody, ANYBODY, makes you feel annoying for still grieving a pet or a breakup then they are not your people! Grief has no time-limit! ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 4 дня назад +1

      Just Don’t use the therapy company she’s promoting!! They illegally sold all their clients medical records! She’s aware of this and keeps promoting them unfortunately

  • @kekelarue5974
    @kekelarue5974 9 дней назад +32

    It is an age thing, Nikki. I did so many embarrassing things in my 20’s regarding being overly emotional and/or clingy. I was your exact age 34 when I finally started to awaken to my real or mature self. Met my now husband at 36 after working out following finding your videos (you were great motivation). I got married at 39 and have been happily living the life I always wanted. Don’t beat yourself up too much for past relationships. Just enjoy your days and keep discovering you!❤

    • @AK-jd7td
      @AK-jd7td 9 дней назад

      100% agree. I am 31 and I did the same thing in my 20s and it’s definitely the age. It also is therapy. Nothing to do with birth control at all. I am on birth control because I’ve PMDD in it literally has no effect on me in that way.

  • @monicamaroney7050
    @monicamaroney7050 10 дней назад +72

    OG nikki energy

  • @christina7328
    @christina7328 10 дней назад +34

    We all remember the Castle Blackfinch videos of when you decorated in October. That house was pretty epic all decked out for Christmas before Halloween had even passed. Excited to see more fun videos!

  • @ness-lee-crunch
    @ness-lee-crunch 10 дней назад +28

    My cat Nikki (last name Blackcatter- for ours truly) . Was so concerned when Squish was meowing for the shower. 😂

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 10 дней назад +24

    So happy for you and where you’re at in life, Nikki! 😻❤️

  • @leslieclawson6319
    @leslieclawson6319 10 дней назад +8

    That is the best advice I've heard about responding to someone coming on too strong. Very smart! Sage woman!

  • @paniodtripow
    @paniodtripow 10 дней назад +10

    hey! So I am pretty sure I watched every single video of yours since 2014 and I love how you changed and evolved, but also how you got your glow back! Also it's awesome to see 2x week videos! Cannot wait for another one!

  • @kloekat62
    @kloekat62 10 дней назад +13

    The whole Q&A I was just admiring how beautiful Nikki’s hair is love love this color on her

  • @kala3019
    @kala3019 9 дней назад +10

    I’m sure Nikki’s contract has her in a position with better help. I just feel almost obligated to point out that better help got into pretty hot water for selling their patients’ data for profit. If you are considering using them, please look into it.
    Edit: typo

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 День назад +1

      I know of 5 other RUclipsrs that have gotten out of their contract (probably because the contract became void once BetterHelp broke the law) i honestly feel like Nikki keeps using them as a sponsor because they pay her so well and her RUclips channel isn’t doing very well so she needs the paycheck

  • @nicki9687
    @nicki9687 10 дней назад +8

    This hair looks the best on you!! So cute! Love you xo

  • @hanelno
    @hanelno 10 дней назад +12

    Love having you back this much. Such a treat. Been here since blondvsworld 👀❤️

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 9 дней назад +2

      Wish she would find a different sponsor. They literally illegal sells clients medical records for profit and Nikki is fully aware and keeps promoting them for the money 😢

  • @jujup7733
    @jujup7733 10 дней назад +7

    I love your new place! This video gave me Houston vlog vibes but better!! (when you lived in the four-story home)

  • @jennifercleveland
    @jennifercleveland 10 дней назад +6

    Love seeing you so light and happy. Love all the videos lately. I feel like the move has been so good for you. I thin that other place had some stagnant energy in it :)

  • @Nina52117
    @Nina52117 10 дней назад +16

    So glad to see you happy and no longer depressed, you’ve been through so much! hopefully a forever ever after! 💍 ❤️😍 much love! 🤗

    • @steveaustin8870
      @steveaustin8870 10 дней назад +3

      till the next breakup which will definitely happen lol

    • @Loryxvwmwke
      @Loryxvwmwke 9 дней назад

      @@steveaustin8870alright loser, are you planning on orchestrating it or something?
      What a sad little man to be hating on a harmless vlog.

    • @beccs5050
      @beccs5050 9 дней назад +2

      ​@steveaustin8870 which big break up is she talking about? She always a different boyfriend everytime she pops up on my socials.

    • @Kat-g3d
      @Kat-g3d 9 дней назад

      What's the point of you watching her content and commenting negative things? Get a life Steve. ​@@steveaustin8870

    • @grezb7828
      @grezb7828 8 дней назад

      @@beccs5050 it’s called life you guys! You evolve and grow! Should try it some time. Moving on…

  • @kainabeltran-rodriguez5619
    @kainabeltran-rodriguez5619 7 дней назад +2

    Wow. This video is really telling of who you are. You still prove to me all the time how truly genuinely real you are. You really care and have issues that we can all relate to a million times over. I’ve been here since 2014!! Love what you do. ❤ you!

  • @leslie3566
    @leslie3566 10 дней назад +1

    Love this Nikki! 😊

  • @fruitygal957
    @fruitygal957 10 дней назад +1

    Loved this vlog. Your attitude is rockin girl. Such positive energy, and inspiring words.

  • @kzfingerprint
    @kzfingerprint 10 дней назад +1

    Enjoyed this!😊

  • @lauramazzenga1423
    @lauramazzenga1423 9 дней назад +1

    love your videos!! So glad to see you posting more XO

  • @CreativelyPhoenix
    @CreativelyPhoenix 10 дней назад +2

    OG Gymshark Meetup in Washington, DC 🤩🎉 it was a vibe and so great meeting you Nikki 😊

  • @paulavu3
    @paulavu3 9 дней назад +3

    Love Nikki! We grow up and whatever is the past is the past. You’re doing awesome! 😊

  • @elizabethholt1014
    @elizabethholt1014 8 дней назад

    Love the videos and your happy vibe! Keep posting, q&as are great!

  • @chelsea7755
    @chelsea7755 9 дней назад +2

    I love your dark hair, but this caramel, bronde colour is just beautiful!

  • @leslieclawson6319
    @leslieclawson6319 10 дней назад +8

    You look gorgeous in PINK!

  • @MISSYMINX261
    @MISSYMINX261 10 дней назад +1

    Your kitties are so precious.

  • @OfficialFinalGirl
    @OfficialFinalGirl 10 дней назад +2

    Purposely saved this for Monday morning to get me out of bed 😂

  • @togather4ever
    @togather4ever 10 дней назад +8

    You mentioning pet grift ugh. I lost my dog of 11 years about 7 months ago and there are sometimes my soul is just grieving it hurts so bad 😢. But thank you! ❤

  • @AngelqueM
    @AngelqueM 9 дней назад +7

    You notice you start posting videos when you are in a relationship?

    • @beccs5050
      @beccs5050 9 дней назад +6

      I've said this before!! A long time ago. She has patterns, and it always ends the same. Even her mumbling hasn't changed when she mentioned years ago she knows she does it and was working on it. Poor girl is stuck in a never ending cycle.

    • @Diana-wk9qv
      @Diana-wk9qv 9 дней назад +5

      She’s only happy when she gets into a relationship and that’s very sad. She needs to be happy with herself and not only when a guy validates her

  • @jenniferj4063
    @jenniferj4063 9 дней назад +1

    Hi Nikki, I'm new to your channel and just wanted to say hi 👋 and I am looking forward to seeing more of your content 😊 ❤. Love your chill vibes 😎

  • @Jodypar
    @Jodypar 9 дней назад

    Yes please more q and a’s!!!

  • @justgabbb
    @justgabbb 4 дня назад

    Nikki never misses! Loved this video esp the breakup advice! your under-eyes are so bright! What did you use to conceal? Love you Nikki 💕💕💕💌

  • @T-xw1nm
    @T-xw1nm 8 дней назад +2

    “He he he look at these” hahaha I totally feel this. 😅

  • @jenoshea462
    @jenoshea462 8 дней назад +2

    Nikki your like your old self again 🥰🥰🥰 but bettterrrr!!! Hold onto you always boo ❤

  • @mariemcleod46
    @mariemcleod46 4 дня назад

    Love the 3rd person journalling ❤

  • @rachelromero5056
    @rachelromero5056 4 дня назад +1

    Nikki! I’ve been following you for a decade now. I love you so much! I just need to make sure you’ve read ACOTAR. I just read it and I thought you’d love it lol also I’m so proud of you. I’m 34 too with no kids and single. So I feel you on everything.

  • @kharazif
    @kharazif 10 дней назад +2

    pink bikini is adorable and super flattering!

  • @Hermionegoh
    @Hermionegoh 9 дней назад

    Hey hey Nikkiiiiii miss youuuu xoxo

  • @Jennifer-hk4jy
    @Jennifer-hk4jy 10 дней назад +9

    Is his name hunt or will? Or goodwill hunting?

    • @cristinaAvila2
      @cristinaAvila2 9 дней назад +1

      😂 this is what comes to mind for me lol

  • @fullyactivated
    @fullyactivated 10 дней назад +7

    Does Nikki and Jasmine still talk? I think I must have missed something years ago. Never see them in each other’s videos but they don’t even talk anymore.

    • @Mariely1
      @Mariely1 10 дней назад

      They can’t be in eachother videos bc they live a couple hours away. But I’m pretty sure they are still friends

    • @fullyactivated
      @fullyactivated 10 дней назад +5

      @@Mariely1 I hope so. I understand if they are never in each other's videos again, but they don't even mention each other. Maybe they are just friends but not super close anymore. I still remember the days, Niki, Jasmine, Whitney, and a a few more, always doing collabs and such.

    • @lulu2cool4u
      @lulu2cool4u День назад +1

      They still are! I had asked Jasmine during one of her TikTok lives and she said yes!

  • @Astrialynnx
    @Astrialynnx 7 дней назад

    ❤❤❤ love ya Nikki!!! OG follower here!!

  • @anthiepapa8352
    @anthiepapa8352 10 дней назад

    Hi Nikkiii!! omg watching here from Europe 🩷

  • @elizabethalmaraz3061
    @elizabethalmaraz3061 3 дня назад

    Thank u for your advice.

  • @kylierene1378
    @kylierene1378 8 дней назад +3

    Oh you should foster cats or kittens. It's a great way to test the waters of a 3rd cat while helping your local shelters/rescues. This way too if it's overwhelming you don't have to foster again or you might find a wonderful match for your current kitties. I have 8 so I totally understand. 3 is actually a great number because I always felt when I had 3 they always had someone to play with when one wanted to just chill.

  • @camryndina1171
    @camryndina1171 6 дней назад

    Omg the bikinis look so good! The second one that you’re not sure about looks AMAZING girl, so flattering, I always think higher waistbands on things give the illusion of longer legs (my legs are short), so the fact that it’s more narrow and higher really suits you if you’re comfortable
    In it!!

  • @AestheticallyJess_
    @AestheticallyJess_ 10 дней назад +3

    The message thing was 100000% an age thing! I did the same after my big break up - I was 24, I’m 34 now and looking back I WOULD never.

  • @jesusm2159
    @jesusm2159 10 дней назад

    Much success

  • @headbounce22
    @headbounce22 10 дней назад

    Let’s go!!!

  • @gabirao9357
    @gabirao9357 7 дней назад +1

    Shoulders be bouldering and I’m in support 🎉

  • @krystlerae74
    @krystlerae74 10 дней назад +9

    I hate to ask but im a long time viewer. Confused. Is the “big breakup” you’re talking about the last one or the first when you were in when starting vlogging? It’s wonderful to see the light back in you! 💜

    • @drx6139
      @drx6139 10 дней назад +16

      She probably meant the first big breakup because maybe she would’ve said the LAST big breakup if she was talking about the recent ex. I felt it too when she went through those, so happy to see her journey and how lighter and happier she seems. It feels like her happiness is coming from within herself.

    • @Guyvermectin
      @Guyvermectin 10 дней назад +1

      @@drx6139you’re dumber than a box Of rocks

    • @hollyparsons4234
      @hollyparsons4234 10 дней назад

      I was wondering this too!

    • @josephinehaas5337
      @josephinehaas5337 7 дней назад +2

      I think she’s talking about the one like 8 years ago because she also said she’s not “lashing out” in her 30s so this was back when she was in her 20s!! I know in a big offender of the lash out so I totally understand ❤😂

    • @drx6139
      @drx6139 7 дней назад

      @@josephinehaas5337 haha good deduction skills! The lashing out in texts is relatable, I think we all have once or had a friend that has done this lol

  • @izzilizzi2
    @izzilizzi2 10 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤ you're the best

  • @Crimsonowl35
    @Crimsonowl35 9 дней назад +1

    31 y/o and I love making messes and just having fun with it. Doesn't matter how if it's cooking, painting, gardening etc anything that I do and can make a mess. It's the most freeing feeling lol I have so much fun making it and just as much fun cleaning it up. Cheers to your 30's 🍻🥂

  • @Fuzzytolee
    @Fuzzytolee 10 дней назад +67

    That ex Teddy seemed bad for you like he was a Narc

    • @SusieQZee
      @SusieQZee 10 дней назад +10

      He was also young wasn’t he?

    • @Jess_Bishop
      @Jess_Bishop 10 дней назад +3

      @@SusieQZeeyep!!

    • @benicio1967
      @benicio1967 10 дней назад +22

      I get a strong feeling that he may have been very very immature in many ways. He didn’t grasp adult relationships or how to empathize, communicate or work together with a partner. He may have been fairly bright and ambitious but emotionally and socially he was much MUCH younger than his age. I could see he was painfully naive too.

    • @Mariely1
      @Mariely1 10 дней назад +42

      He immediately got back with his ex girlfriend after breaking up with Nikki. Which made me like him even less. They are now married. Imagine going through a pet loss, moving cross country for someone, a relationship loss, and come to find out ur ex proposes to his ex girl within months of a breakup!!? Ouch. My poor babygirl Nikki went through so much

    • @Jess_Bishop
      @Jess_Bishop 10 дней назад +2

      @@Mariely1 this is awful! She literally moved to be with him. Ughh! How do you know he’s married?

  • @gina1710
    @gina1710 10 дней назад +1

    Was there a link for the bathing suits?!

    • @denarendall
      @denarendall 8 дней назад

      They’re from Knight swim - you’ll love them! My fave swim brand!

  • @letsgetdownwiththelindsays
    @letsgetdownwiththelindsays 10 дней назад +2

    Hey Nikki, quick question are you going to dye your hair that cowboy copper color. I remember you saying you were few videos ago. My sister and I were wondering!!!! lol 😂 😊

  • @laurenbx
    @laurenbx 9 дней назад

    Can relate on the June gloom - I live in England so the whole year is just gloom and it’s depresssssing. I try not to be phased by the weather but after 32 years I’ve had enough 😂

  • @karlaviviane8839
    @karlaviviane8839 10 дней назад

    Nikki💜

  • @brandeerodriguez8536
    @brandeerodriguez8536 9 дней назад

    I looooove the last two bikinis on you!

  • @michellesteele5307
    @michellesteele5307 10 дней назад +1

    Nikki! Im going to San Diego in August, id love a video on what to do there from your perspective!

  • @lisaharry5829
    @lisaharry5829 7 дней назад

    Couldn’t agree more about June gloom

  • @keepitinthediary
    @keepitinthediary 10 дней назад +6

    I stopped counting my age at 30 😂

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад +1

    Gray May June gloom lmao 😂 20:15

  • @brittanyheisler2288
    @brittanyheisler2288 8 дней назад

    Nikki!!

  • @kocopuff27
    @kocopuff27 10 дней назад +1

    I love you SO much & this is JUST what I needed today! thank you for being so open 🩵 I was a lil distracted by the "among us" (?) audio in the background prob due to my neurodivergence lol but I wanted to mention that a lot of RUclipsrs have been finding some GREAT royalty-free background music that actually reminded me of your vibe! you know way more than me though & regardless, I SO appreciate you uploading, & seeing you happy makes me so happy! 💙

  • @LL-wu5ui
    @LL-wu5ui 10 дней назад +6

    When you've been following for so long ypu're confused about which big breakup she is talking about.

    • @josephinehaas5337
      @josephinehaas5337 7 дней назад +1

      I think the first one ! The big one. Miles and teddy weren’t that big. I think more mutual breakups.

  • @laurawassy
    @laurawassy 9 дней назад

    Yesss, more YT 😺

  • @brandeerodriguez8536
    @brandeerodriguez8536 9 дней назад +3

    Don’t get a 3rd cat. I have 3 cats and they don’t play with each other. The first two that were bonded are less bonded now

  • @camryndina1171
    @camryndina1171 6 дней назад +1

    Side note, the lighting is so nice in this new house lol

  • @lisajudkins6265
    @lisajudkins6265 7 дней назад

    Nikki your voive is so soft and soothing girl im falling asleep listening to you ❤️

  • @mpbeautyinsight
    @mpbeautyinsight 7 дней назад

    May gray, June gloom.

  • @GoldysGym
    @GoldysGym 4 дня назад

    it was definitely a birth control thing for me and my cousin, now that we are older we can afford to get off of it thank goodness :)

  • @dennettmolly
    @dennettmolly 9 дней назад

    You’re dating a will?!?! I love that!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @blanket101
    @blanket101 10 дней назад

    Yay

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    I really like the pink and red it looks good on you 😳💯 6:36

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    No you don’t miss it 18:24

  • @annaknelsen5099
    @annaknelsen5099 8 дней назад +6

    Why are u still promoting better help :(

    • @TiffSingh-tz8uy
      @TiffSingh-tz8uy 7 дней назад

      You don't like it - you don't have to be influenced...can't we allow her to just have her sponsorship.

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    😂 0:09

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    No you have the right cats because normally same sex cats want to fight and not play fight but throw down 😂 19:56

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    😂 1:36

  • @lenemariakowalczyk9777
    @lenemariakowalczyk9777 9 дней назад

    🌞❤️

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    Lmao 😂 19:07

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    😂 4:10

  • @gretchenmanresa4435
    @gretchenmanresa4435 9 дней назад +1

    Kids change them alot.. small ones are 10/10! You forget u even got any.

  • @lula1908
    @lula1908 10 дней назад

    🩷

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    😂 10:19

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    You need some steel toe shoes 😂 3:08

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    😂 16:26

  • @lorenaespinoza6342
    @lorenaespinoza6342 7 дней назад

    Sometimes, we just lose ourselves in relationships unfortunately

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    Jk I hope it heals soon 3:08

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад

    We ❤ U 2 😳💯 25:14

  • @Lkm296
    @Lkm296 10 дней назад +9

    Better help is a scam

  • @celesterizza519
    @celesterizza519 3 дня назад

    Its so weird to think I’ve been watching you for 10+ years hearing about how the fitness industry has changed!

  • @m56620
    @m56620 10 дней назад +1

    Can we just say your 🍑 whaaaaat! Love your videos 🎉

  • @vmarsfiles
    @vmarsfiles 10 дней назад +1

    One thing Nikki gon do is find a new man! I need to go outside more lol

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 10 дней назад +1

    You are 34 💯🤔💯 14:27

  • @user-ss8ul6po7h
    @user-ss8ul6po7h 7 дней назад

    I am just wondering do you make all your income from RUclips?

  • @jessrene2350
    @jessrene2350 8 дней назад

    Do you ever want to get married