Paul Coughlin: Bullies in Ministry

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024

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  • @melissaschubert1653
    @melissaschubert1653 2 года назад +11

    This soooo rang true with me (and many many in the area where I live) with a narcissistic “pastor” and bullying team of “elders”. So evil - all you have said about how to handle bullies is true. We had to push back ultimately as they wanted to take over our children and break up our family. But God Himself freed our family (except one stubborn foolish one who we are praying for and putting truth in front of) from this evil and we are stronger and happier in Jesus because of His wonderful plan to get us out of it. And we are hopeful that the truth will be seen by our other child and the many caught up in the cult of personality of these false leaders. And God will expose it in the community as well in His perfect timing❤️😊😌

    • @Missy.1955
      @Missy.1955 11 месяцев назад

      I'd like to have it mandated into federal law that you can't be liable and to hold people accountable that spiritually take from you.

  • @anonymous1297
    @anonymous1297 2 года назад +9

    A pastor bully ruined my life. He is full of audacity, and I believe that audacity has grown because he’s protected by his institution. This man is right, you need a bigger stick than they have, or no one will listen. You’ll just be bullied more.

  • @ivanasimic2072
    @ivanasimic2072 2 года назад +6

    Yes, thank God for Julie. God bless you both!!

  • @stephthinks3109
    @stephthinks3109 2 года назад +4

    This is so incredibly important. I'm going into mental health field and I hope one day to join you all in the fight.

  • @ivanasimic2072
    @ivanasimic2072 2 года назад +10

    How to name it, when so called pastor slander you in public speaking lies about you in order to cover his wrong doing, and when you finally speak out about spiritual abuse, he sue you knowing that you are "powerless" without money and lawyer. It happen to me here in Croatia. What to do?!!

    • @DEJ.BiblicalProductions
      @DEJ.BiblicalProductions 2 года назад +5

      I will be praying. The word or phrase that you could be looking for is "ad hominem;" attacking the person instead of the issue at hand. That is hard to say, but when Hezekiah was faced with the issue of the Assyrians surrounding him he spread the documents before the Lord in prayer. I recommend reading 3 John. The best thing is continue to pray for a good church. I am unfamiliar of any trusted or vetted search engines in Croatia that could assist, but if not just continue to pray (of coarse) and search by just visiting for a church that one preaches the word of God and I recommend that be expositional and not topically. We will not fix everything in this life, but a Judgement Day is coming (Hebrews 9/27) But at the same time I am terrified eternal of the fate of the ungodly. I hope this somewhat helps. Have a wonderful day.

    • @ivanasimic2072
      @ivanasimic2072 2 года назад +2

      @@DEJ.BiblicalProductions Thank you a lot!! Love & blessings

    • @ivanasimic2072
      @ivanasimic2072 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@DEJ.BiblicalProductions I won in the court :) This is miracle, thank you a lot for prayers, appreciate it a lot. God bless you much more!!!!!!

    • @Marlaina
      @Marlaina 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ivanasimic2072Amazing update! Praise God for that ❤

  • @ivanasimic2072
    @ivanasimic2072 8 месяцев назад +2

    Paul, please check out pastor/apostle bully over here in Croatia. His name is Damir Šićko Alić, word of life cult/WOF/NAR "church". I would love that you analize his preaching which is in fact ad hominem against some of us witnesses about spuritual abuse. I cant understand why anyone is not talk against it in Croatia. Among 3.5 milion people there is no one! 😢😢😢

  • @JacquelineRPrice
    @JacquelineRPrice 2 года назад +2

    Excellent! I needed to hear that. As a CC person, I grieve at what happened at Applegate because Jon Courson's study notes are a big part of the Life Application Study Bible. It's really sad and tragic what happened.

  • @1MCR13
    @1MCR13 Год назад +2

    Thank you
    Thank you
    Thank you. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mollyjean576
    @mollyjean576 2 года назад +2

    This is so so good! Thank you for putting this up for us all to benefit from

  • @trishgoski4944
    @trishgoski4944 3 месяца назад

    This is SOO good & ‘spot on’. There is also an excellent book, Traumatic Narcissism & Recovery by Daniel Shaw.

  • @tedbrooks-formerwordoffait1316
    @tedbrooks-formerwordoffait1316 2 года назад +2

    Through an exhaustive study of the miracles of Jesus I discovered that every miracle came with a confrontation or a judgment.

  • @mattleitner5194
    @mattleitner5194 2 месяца назад

    Wow, super valuable content!

  • @michaelhagerman7829
    @michaelhagerman7829 5 месяцев назад

    I think he just answered 95% of societies problem

  • @Katie-me5kp
    @Katie-me5kp 4 месяца назад

    There was 2 bullies in the church that I went.They used racism.... Because apparently it's okay for females to control each other. They get to be the guardians of who is allowed to be in a relationship. And they were allowed to do whatever they want to each other. And as a christian are not allowed to end any relationships with them....because one of them had the pastor as a friend .

  • @donnyetta
    @donnyetta 10 месяцев назад +1

    Spiritual bullies? - I got physically assaulted at church three times and ended up with an injured arm which has only just healed after four months! She denies attacking me from behind and gaslighted "it must have been somebody else". The elders accused me, in front of everyone, of not being peaceable because I communicated with her by whatsapp instead of face to face. They did not discipline her in any way because "there is no evidence".

  • @mcgarrtirishgal3903
    @mcgarrtirishgal3903 29 дней назад

    37:29 I remember one of my college tutors did that experiment, it didnt work though with the person they chose to be the lone sheep 😁

  • @petrazhang2409
    @petrazhang2409 6 месяцев назад

    Two by two ❤❤❤

  • @claudiabannister6414
    @claudiabannister6414 9 месяцев назад

    ~❤~
    (May 7, 2024) profound heartfelt gratitude for this....p.s. i like your shoes!! 😊)

  • @patchr5491
    @patchr5491 2 года назад

    So interesting 🤔.ya know Jon seems so sincere.

  • @johntobey1558
    @johntobey1558 9 месяцев назад

    The Baltimore Ravens organization does not take mysogyny seriously. Domestic abuse in players homes.

    • @Marlaina
      @Marlaina 9 месяцев назад

      The Baltimore Ravens aren't a Christian organization.

    • @johntobey1558
      @johntobey1558 8 месяцев назад

      But they sure still held to the standards of the rule of law of Maryland.