Education is the core problem. The higher your education level the more likely you are to stay married. If you come from a broken home you are less likely to achieve academically. It is a snowball effect. We can improve that with better government funded education programmes for preschool children. We must break the cycle.
Education isn’t the core issue. Culture is. We lived in a time period where we were not “educated” and we were far better at creating and maintaining families. There are regions in the world where women still can’t get an education but are far better at maintaining marriages because culturally it’s the standard to do so. It’s not shameful in black communities to be a single parent and that is where the problem is.
@@SibuAndSphe Black is not a culture. So if you speak about world statistics, you also have to consider other influences on households that contribute to broken homes. Education also directly influences culture. You are using your platform to educate people on cultural problems... because you are educated.
It’s a skill you gonna have to figure out and learn like any other important skill, otherwise you gonna be one of those guys who know nothing about women but you have money which are some of the worst guys out there and then there are divorced billionaires because they never learned to balance work and family.
Just don't. You're not mature enough for those commitments at least wait till you're settled in your career as well as emotionally strong enough to carry someone else's burdens.
Damn you know i was thinking about this a few days back, i was lamenting the degree to which we as Black people despise relationships, we even teach our kids against it. No friends, no relationships with the opposite sex and boom, we can't start businesses
@@SibuAndSphe definately, looking forward to see more future videos from you guys on this subject, and possibly some paradigm shifting solutions, cos ay ngeke 🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You have spoken like true parents😅. Anyways what you have said is 💯. Society would be very progressive if the family unit is kept strong. A strong family is the cornerstone of a great nation. I hope to have a beautiful marriage like you guys if I decide to have children 'if'
@@SibuAndSphe Is having children and or a marriage always worth it though? Because judging from how I'm seeing most people my age behave I'd rather die alone.
Don’t let the negative PR for marriage fool you. It’s one of the best human experiences you will ever have. No money and no worldly experiences will come close to building a good family where everyone is happy to be a part of it and grow in it. Your job is to find the right partner to do it with.
Educate our boys so they can get a good income. Financial pressure on our men is a disaster for black cultures worldwide. Our men are not equipped to cope with the modern world.
There’s a lot there but we must do right what we have control of. We have control over who we impregnate and have kids with. We need stop having kids with the wrong women and only have kids when you ready to
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Education is the core problem. The higher your education level the more likely you are to stay married. If you come from a broken home you are less likely to achieve academically. It is a snowball effect. We can improve that with better government funded education programmes for preschool children. We must break the cycle.
Education isn’t the core issue. Culture is. We lived in a time period where we were not “educated” and we were far better at creating and maintaining families. There are regions in the world where women still can’t get an education but are far better at maintaining marriages because culturally it’s the standard to do so. It’s not shameful in black communities to be a single parent and that is where the problem is.
@@SibuAndSphe Black is not a culture. So if you speak about world statistics, you also have to consider other influences on households that contribute to broken homes. Education also directly influences culture. You are using your platform to educate people on cultural problems... because you are educated.
So how do you balance your relationship (family) and making money in your 20s
It’s a skill you gonna have to figure out and learn like any other important skill, otherwise you gonna be one of those guys who know nothing about women but you have money which are some of the worst guys out there and then there are divorced billionaires because they never learned to balance work and family.
Just don't. You're not mature enough for those commitments at least wait till you're settled in your career as well as emotionally strong enough to carry someone else's burdens.
Damn you know i was thinking about this a few days back, i was lamenting the degree to which we as Black people despise relationships, we even teach our kids against it. No friends, no relationships with the opposite sex and boom, we can't start businesses
Which is wrong, can’t build strong communities with that mind set
@@SibuAndSphe definately, looking forward to see more future videos from you guys on this subject, and possibly some paradigm shifting solutions, cos ay ngeke 🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You have spoken like true parents😅. Anyways what you have said is 💯. Society would be very progressive if the family unit is kept strong. A strong family is the cornerstone of a great nation. I hope to have a beautiful marriage like you guys if I decide to have children 'if'
Rather say when you decide to. I will always encourage having children specifically with the person you will to live with
@@SibuAndSphe Is having children and or a marriage always worth it though? Because judging from how I'm seeing most people my age behave I'd rather die alone.
Don’t let the negative PR for marriage fool you. It’s one of the best human experiences you will ever have. No money and no worldly experiences will come close to building a good family where everyone is happy to be a part of it and grow in it. Your job is to find the right partner to do it with.
Educate our boys so they can get a good income. Financial pressure on our men is a disaster for black cultures worldwide. Our men are not equipped to cope with the modern world.
There’s a lot there but we must do right what we have control of. We have control over who we impregnate and have kids with. We need stop having kids with the wrong women and only have kids when you ready to