This was the most interesting and inspiring discussion on a book that I’ve ever listened to. Of course Stoner, the singular source material, has a ton to do with it, but the thoughtful analysis by all the participants made this video fascinating. Thank you to all 5. I want to now re-read Stoner. ❤️
It's about time this discussion happened! You guys brought up so many great points. I also feel like this book was Williams' love letter to literature with how he portrayed Stoner's dedication to it. Fun discussion!
To my understanding Edith was a type 1 bipolar, her problems already existed before meeting Stoner due to her upbringing or could even be genetic, seeing that her father committed suicide( I understand that he became depressed due to a traumatic event and not initially ) and her daughter became an alcoholic. In other words she was a manic depressive, her bouts of mania gave her the energy to handle parties and her theatre group but on many occasions she went overboard and had an episode. Other times she was in a prolonged depression which rendered her unable to function normally. The reason she was obsessed over her daughter was not because she loved her or she hated Stoner but she saw her as a project of purpose which kept her in a hypomanic state which sometimes turned into hypermania. As for her relationship with Stoner, she used him as a way to get away from her father, pretty much the same way Grace did with her husband. After her father's death, instead of healing, she started seeing Stoner as a stand-in for her father and directed a vindictive crusade towards him, something she wanted to do against her father.
Thank you all for this wonderful discussion. You guys doing this discussion actually was the motivator for me to finally read this. There were so many revelations of topics and details that I hadn't picked up on in your discussion. Like, I didn't pick up on Edith's trauma, but looking back, it seems starkly obvious. Thank you Jimmy for making us all read this! It's definitely one of the best books I've ever read and I hope to pick it up many more times in the future.
33:30 this part was so good. I'm currently learning in my life to be less passive because my father was and it really screwed up my ability to speak my needs and wants into existence and that same effect I noticed started changing my children even. So I started speaking up and it's HARD. A lot of people don't understand how hard. But yeah, hard agree with Jimmy hear. Love this book to death.
Finished Stoner last night. You're discussion was so enlightening, so deepening to the story, that I appreciate it even more. So first, thank you for the recc (in the Pacing video) and second, thank you for this intelligent conversation. Much love and reading ❤️
I loved Stoner and I was fascinated with your thoughts. For me, the books is about the devaluation of education. Stoner is the bastion of higher learning against a changing world that views education as a commodity that can be purchased. Thanks.
Such a good chat. I didn't even noticed what had happened to Edith. I interpreted her response to sex and her relationship towards Stoner the exaxt other way: That the way girls were raised back then, being sheltered, not aloud to be young men on their own and told sexuality is shameful made her react that way. It was so interesting to understand her better now.
I was always paranoid about Edith after she suggested their daughter lie about pregnancy to trap a man. In fact if Grace hadn't been born too long after the wedding I might've thought... they got married awfully quick. I did suspect Edith of infidelity. There were just too many little moments.
Loved this discussion and it was wonderful getting to chat with you all! Thank you all for pushing me to give this book a chance!
I never knew a book about weed could be so moving
"Cool" thumbnail, Allen! 😁I have never been prouder of being a nerd than when chatting with this crew!
Hahahahahahah thanks Philip
This was the most interesting and inspiring discussion on a book that I’ve ever listened to. Of course Stoner, the singular source material, has a ton to do with it, but the thoughtful analysis by all the participants made this video fascinating. Thank you to all 5. I want to now re-read Stoner. ❤️
Thank you for the kind words!
It's about time this discussion happened! You guys brought up so many great points. I also feel like this book was Williams' love letter to literature with how he portrayed Stoner's dedication to it. Fun discussion!
Such a great book! Thanks so much for watching!
To my understanding Edith was a type 1 bipolar, her problems already existed before meeting Stoner due to her upbringing or could even be genetic, seeing that her father committed suicide( I understand that he became depressed due to a traumatic event and not initially ) and her daughter became an alcoholic. In other words she was a manic depressive, her bouts of mania gave her the energy to handle parties and her theatre group but on many occasions she went overboard and had an episode. Other times she was in a prolonged depression which rendered her unable to function normally. The reason she was obsessed over her daughter was not because she loved her or she hated Stoner but she saw her as a project of purpose which kept her in a hypomanic state which sometimes turned into hypermania. As for her relationship with Stoner, she used him as a way to get away from her father, pretty much the same way Grace did with her husband. After her father's death, instead of healing, she started seeing Stoner as a stand-in for her father and directed a vindictive crusade towards him, something she wanted to do against her father.
Great insight…I also thought she seemed Bipolar.
Thank you all for this wonderful discussion. You guys doing this discussion actually was the motivator for me to finally read this.
There were so many revelations of topics and details that I hadn't picked up on in your discussion. Like, I didn't pick up on Edith's trauma, but looking back, it seems starkly obvious.
Thank you Jimmy for making us all read this! It's definitely one of the best books I've ever read and I hope to pick it up many more times in the future.
This was a gem of a conversation! Gave me so many new perspectives. Thank you for this video!!
33:30 this part was so good. I'm currently learning in my life to be less passive because my father was and it really screwed up my ability to speak my needs and wants into existence and that same effect I noticed started changing my children even. So I started speaking up and it's HARD. A lot of people don't understand how hard. But yeah, hard agree with Jimmy hear. Love this book to death.
Listening to this before reading it. Don’t try to stop me!
Finally managed to watch this. Lovely discussion. Made me tear up
Finished Stoner last night. You're discussion was so enlightening, so deepening to the story, that I appreciate it even more. So first, thank you for the recc (in the Pacing video) and second, thank you for this intelligent conversation. Much love and reading ❤️
Thank you and I'm glad you enjoyed the discussion!
Just ordered a copy, will have to check both this and your review video out after I read it.
It's so good!
S tier discussion!! I really need to reread this book annually and check out William's other books.
Thank you guys!
You all brought your A game for this discussion. I just want to say thanks
Thank YOU for watching!
I loved Stoner and I was fascinated with your thoughts. For me, the books is about the devaluation of education. Stoner is the bastion of higher learning against a changing world that views education as a commodity that can be purchased. Thanks.
Yes! Such a good point! That devaluation has only continued
Such a good chat.
I didn't even noticed what had happened to Edith. I interpreted her response to sex and her relationship towards Stoner the exaxt other way: That the way girls were raised back then, being sheltered, not aloud to be young men on their own and told sexuality is shameful made her react that way. It was so interesting to understand her better now.
Glad to see you back Allen. I miss your videos.
Thank you! Hoping to more or less be back at it now
I was always paranoid about Edith after she suggested their daughter lie about pregnancy to trap a man. In fact if Grace hadn't been born too long after the wedding I might've thought... they got married awfully quick. I did suspect Edith of infidelity. There were just too many little moments.
Yes!
I’m just finishing this now. Not a favorite but enjoyable, looking forward to this discussion.
This was an awesome chat to listen to!
Thank you for watching!
Fellow dude bros unite!
Yea!!!!
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Nerds aren't cool (everyone except Allen)? Triggered.
yooooo
MERPHY!!! and the rest...
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