How to know she's not interested through text

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  • @sirokemunto3280
    @sirokemunto3280 2 года назад +27

    The problem with this relationship thing is those we love don't love us and those who love us are not the ones we love🤔

  • @forkingdom-side3049
    @forkingdom-side3049 2 года назад +44

    The key words in a relationship is simply "Understanding" and "Communication" without one of these it will not last!!!!

  • @emmanuelmbao686
    @emmanuelmbao686 2 года назад +20

    And I qoute " she's your future wife only in your head"🤣🤣.. Jessica you make my days

  • @vickymawutor5213
    @vickymawutor5213 2 года назад +42

    You know,the fact that a lady gives you her number does not mean she probably wants to hear from you often through texts or calls. Sometimes, it's just courtesy...if she bluntly says no when asked she may be seen as rude. Great piece Jess.❣️❣️

    • @siphisojere1178
      @siphisojere1178 2 года назад +2

      I didn't know that

    • @chinedufelixie7814
      @chinedufelixie7814 2 года назад +9

      Lol, i see no reason why you’d give your number to a person you’ don’t wanna talk to. It’s makes no sense, or you just make it clear to him that you’re not interested, if he starts calling or texting.

    • @gundamt437
      @gundamt437 2 года назад

      @@chinedufelixie7814 I agree. Normal people will take what you say as common sense, and a reasonable conclusions....but alas some women aren't reasonable 😅

    • @nowsage
      @nowsage 2 года назад

      Plot twist. Simple truth girls love it when they have lot of guys crushing on them even though they are not interested and that is why they give out their numbers

    • @lawrencemensah9888
      @lawrencemensah9888 2 года назад

      @@chinedufelixie7814 I agree with you.

  • @yawampofo8529
    @yawampofo8529 2 года назад +8

    Short replies was what I spotted first. Jess needs to be protected guys. Ladies are scared. 👍👍👍👍

  • @enockgouyo6262
    @enockgouyo6262 2 года назад +66

    I'm basically in this situation, thanks for talking about it. I think I'm gonna move on and get to know more people

    • @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648
      @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 2 года назад +9

      Enoch, you should have backed off long ago. Life's too short to waste time over one girl. She's not your source of oxygen. She's not the only girl in town.

    • @enockgouyo6262
      @enockgouyo6262 2 года назад +4

      @@benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 Thank you so much my brother. Because of her i denied more than three proposals but I think now I'm gonna be more opened and get to reach out to more ladies

    • @isaacthompson9706
      @isaacthompson9706 2 года назад +1

      Same here. I really love her...

    • @ErvinTagoe
      @ErvinTagoe 2 года назад +1

      @@enockgouyo6262 Solid choice. Best to move on

    • @Shamkiritoyt6
      @Shamkiritoyt6 2 года назад

      @@benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 but him love har

  • @Dhamirs
    @Dhamirs 2 года назад +18

    You just dropped a bombshell right there Jess. Every single one of those points are accurate to military level precision. There was a certain girl that was acting like that and I just cut her off including blocking her temporarily. Took a couple off weeks meeting other girls and started posting their pictures wishing them their birthdays on my status. I removed the block for her to see and ALAS! Now she's chasing me and begging like an idiot.
    Moral lesson: Communication is key. Relationship is a two way traffic. If it doesn't work that way, cut them off and meet other people. Don't be shy to let them know that you are meeting other people. There are very few things that women want, and one of those is a man they can't have.

  • @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648
    @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 2 года назад +12

    After 24 hours, if I don't hear from her, I'd blacklist, block & delete her contact for good.
    I never beg girls. It's not in Genesis 2:18.

  • @ismailpatel7222
    @ismailpatel7222 2 года назад +11

    When she shows you the first time who she is believe her .....facts

  • @businessboom6143
    @businessboom6143 2 года назад +28

    Crystal clear advice Jessica!
    Actions speak louder than words so we must have a spirit of discernment to read between the lines.💯🎯

  • @noxious8008
    @noxious8008 2 года назад +12

    Most guys need to hear this, and am one of them lol. Thanks.

  • @limejuice2356
    @limejuice2356 2 года назад +7

    If you text her once and doesn't answer or reschedule, never text her again.
    There, simple.

    • @romeodavis9957
      @romeodavis9957 Год назад

      Facts bro I've been there If a woman or man says we have to reschedule that person has to be a man or a woman of their word some folks these days can't be straight up

  • @nountrending
    @nountrending 2 года назад +10

    Thanks Jess. I've been in this situation of recent, we've been friends for four years but she has all this attitude you listed. She never told me she's not interested, I've been the one forcing everything cox i love her but I'm not getting loved in return this really hurts honestly. I've complained severally thinking maybe she doesn't know of her attitude but it got worse. If she has told me long time ago i would have just left her. I had to stop everything I've been doing before and she doesn't care either. I've moved on with someone else now I'm happy.

    • @mwongelsaac9713
      @mwongelsaac9713 2 года назад +4

      Woooow l believe l also need to move on with this gal cause l have the same issues, this gal.just comes back to me when she is in problems

    • @nountrending
      @nountrending 2 года назад +2

      @@mwongelsaac9713 That's the best thing. One day you will just find out that she's married to someone else meanwhile you are there waiting thinking you had a wife. It will be a worst heartbreak so it's better you move on with someone that truly loves you the way you are.

    • @Rassy_
      @Rassy_ 2 года назад +2

      Hate to say it but that's a beta mindset (Being in the friendzone in the hopes that she will like you with time). You should've let her know of your intentions from the get go so that you don't waste your time nor her time. 4 years is a lot

    • @ekpemeisong1331
      @ekpemeisong1331 2 года назад

      You are lucky.

    • @nountrending
      @nountrending 2 года назад

      @@Rassy_ I did actually. Seems she's not ready. She's still building career. Probably she want me waiting.

  • @abxgalela5275
    @abxgalela5275 2 года назад +9

    You always telling the truth, I think I'm little bit matured because most of the points you says I know them from my own knowledge 🙏❤️🇿🇦

  • @abdulkadirabdulsamad604
    @abdulkadirabdulsamad604 2 года назад +10

    This is exactly what I'm going through currently. Almost everything she does. Imagine you willing to take a girl out, she is telling she is always busy or even say it boldly that she is not interested in any hangout.

    • @gundamt437
      @gundamt437 2 года назад +5

      If she is telling you she isn't interested in hanging out, isn't that a good thing that you actually know?
      Or am I misunderstanding what you are saying

    • @Olight_om
      @Olight_om Год назад +2

      @@gundamt437 True , she is a good lady for her to tell you plainly

  • @cruisefamilytv1472
    @cruisefamilytv1472 2 года назад +3

    when you're rejected go out there meet other people thank you Jessica ❣️❣️❣️...

  • @akonluis6457
    @akonluis6457 2 года назад +1

    Another type is that who text you first but will hardly go pass greeting. Sending you greetings from 🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲

  • @justsaying993
    @justsaying993 Год назад +1

    This is actually one of the realest videos I’ve seen on this topic ngl

  • @TedVeroTV
    @TedVeroTV 2 года назад +1

    Great points. Usually the signs are very obvious, the trouble is not wanting to see them 👏❤️❤️❤️👏

  • @Tunjio
    @Tunjio 2 года назад +10

    Thanks very much for this...I'm in this situation and I know deep down she's not into me..I just needed to hear all your said for validation...moving on swiftly

  • @emmanuelchukwu8331
    @emmanuelchukwu8331 Год назад +1

    Absolutely brilliant if Men would respect themselves

  • @danielkibet8419
    @danielkibet8419 2 года назад +7

    This is awesome 🥳🥳 I am learning day in day out. Great thanks Jessica 🥰. Much love from Kenya 💪

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Год назад +2

    Being a victim of this one too many times and I seen to be getting the gist now. Thanks for putting it out there for us all to see. It's great to know where we have all had faults and correct it adequately and be free from bondage which has held most of us down.

  • @AineelAdu
    @AineelAdu 5 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you Miss Jessica OS
    It's hurtful what we can do walk away as gentlemen 😭

  • @eigobike3929
    @eigobike3929 2 года назад +3

    Nobody is too busy.

  • @samuelwadada2488
    @samuelwadada2488 2 года назад +4

    My whole was boring... I know Jesse is going to make me smile ❤️❤️💤

  • @brainyguy6734
    @brainyguy6734 2 года назад +2

    You're talking to me. I'm dead 😭 and have been taken for granted for a very long time. I complain every time, but no changes. She does all these 6 signs. This is so heartbreaking right now! I have wasted time and money!!!

  • @nemonemo3685
    @nemonemo3685 2 года назад +3

    Do not simp

  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  2 года назад +2

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

  • @johng2996
    @johng2996 2 года назад +9

    Straight and timely message for me😃, thank you for the advise.

  • @andrewayeni
    @andrewayeni 2 года назад +1

    Hmmnnn 👏🏽 I love your transition on the advert right there! In/out instead of you repeating it 😂 Key note is Communication & Understanding 👌

  • @peteromeizaadabara9727
    @peteromeizaadabara9727 2 года назад +2

    C’mon Jess! 😂🤣
    This boss lady vibe been getting deep 😎😍
    Every move from your walk to sitting down and talking exudes too much confidence 🥵🤓
    All I’m saying’s ya breathtaking, period!!!!!

  • @andrewlee5848
    @andrewlee5848 2 года назад +4

    Thank you so much 😭...I guess I have to face the reality I'm in now.

  • @tribalchiefjeff
    @tribalchiefjeff 2 года назад +1

    Jess wore the shades and this became so so serious

  • @derrickcalhoun5119
    @derrickcalhoun5119 2 года назад +2

    Wow....this happen to me...every step except the last one, although this was an out-of-state situation...but I eventually accepted that she was not interested beyond just being a friend awhile ago. Thanks Jessica for the confirmation.

  • @pontianekakoro1737
    @pontianekakoro1737 2 года назад +1

    The good thing with me is that I am a researcher so I notice trends instantly and automatically. The moment I notice I am the only one initiating conversation, I am out. Immediately

  • @kyngryan422
    @kyngryan422 2 года назад +1

    From 🇯🇲& I am watching your videos over couple months now and I enjoyed all it motivates me inspired Me a lot thanks for taking the time out to Give ppl These Informative Contents

  • @sundaymuchika763
    @sundaymuchika763 2 года назад +5

    Well articulated as usual

  • @andytorto5416
    @andytorto5416 2 года назад +4

    She's your future wife only in your head😂

  • @sandranynj7118
    @sandranynj7118 3 месяца назад

    This guy in the neighborhood had too many red flags. So the next day, I simply texted him back and said "Nothing wrong with you, I am just not a good fit"

  • @lovebeing9840
    @lovebeing9840 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love you Jessica, you are really helping us

  • @chishimbabc4004
    @chishimbabc4004 2 года назад +1

    The genius on it again. Indeed truth lives here 🙌 looking great Jess!

  • @tobiseed1562
    @tobiseed1562 2 года назад +2

    Great content. Hope most guys will take these useful information and safe themselves from current or future heartaches

  • @jorgerios8472
    @jorgerios8472 7 месяцев назад +1

    If you always initiate text just walk away.

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 года назад +3

    Loving the intro! Amazing work, my friend 👏🏼❤️🏆

    • @aaronategeka2295
      @aaronategeka2295 2 года назад +1

      I love the feeling good vibe, the dress code just nailed it

  • @arthurjames9979
    @arthurjames9979 Год назад +2

    Jessica you are 100% correct.

  • @bestsoccerfreestylehub1123
    @bestsoccerfreestylehub1123 2 года назад +2

    I was once in that situation and I accepted it

  • @aseiduphyllis7906
    @aseiduphyllis7906 2 года назад +1

    I have been the one initiating the chat and it sometimes takes her 2 days to reply. Thanks again.

  • @yirehmiyahmagsayo361
    @yirehmiyahmagsayo361 2 года назад +1

    thanks a lot maam, for a women like who tell the truth about women, we can understand every video you sahred in youtube maam😇😎💪🇵🇭👍🥇✌️🏆

  • @Smartih
    @Smartih 2 года назад +1

    Well said Jessica: “she is your future wife only in your head” !
    I fell in love with a girl I just met… and after five msg exchanged… I have realised it.

  • @eliazarvalentine7690
    @eliazarvalentine7690 2 года назад

    Thank you Jessica I’ve been in the situation for the past month and I couldn’t figure out what the heck was going on thank you for opening my eyes,
    I’ve been wasting my time and energy and this girl for nothing.

  • @TSixSix
    @TSixSix 2 года назад +2

    I got this treatment and left her alone

  • @intelligentleader123
    @intelligentleader123 2 года назад +2

    Jessica l love your advice so much. You are such a previous jewel.

  • @nabalegwameddy1002
    @nabalegwameddy1002 2 года назад +4

    Thanks for always informing us about some stuff like this, bless up 🙏

  • @petertosh6860
    @petertosh6860 2 года назад +1

    Nakupenda sana Jessica.
    Salamu kutoka 🇩🇪 🇰🇪

  • @mugerwafredrick4725
    @mugerwafredrick4725 Год назад +1

    You know what your doing!!!!!

  • @TimothyGPTSanders
    @TimothyGPTSanders Месяц назад

    When i notice this happening, i immediately delete the contact number. Most women dont want to deal with men and i understand this now, especially through text 📱

  • @ChisomAkahTV
    @ChisomAkahTV 2 года назад +1

    My girlllllll. My friend in my head...keep being amazing

  • @m.r_goat
    @m.r_goat 2 года назад +3

    Another content worth watching❤

  • @siphisojere1178
    @siphisojere1178 2 года назад +3

    Hi Jessica today you are spot on the my current situation 😂😂

  • @moboyejallow5486
    @moboyejallow5486 2 года назад +2

    I like your confidence...and this video is the best gift you can give dash to my fellers.

  • @pontianekakoro1737
    @pontianekakoro1737 2 года назад

    Quick recovery from the cold/flu messing with your sweet voice.

  • @mohammedhasim3632
    @mohammedhasim3632 2 года назад +2

    Thank u so mch n very true.....having same situation madam

  • @patrickyeboah570
    @patrickyeboah570 2 года назад +8

    One way to know if a girl really likes you 😌is if she figures out a way to keep a dry ass conversation going
    As for the rest just respect yourself and move on
    Stay safe young kings 🤝

  • @SAM-lb4iy
    @SAM-lb4iy 2 года назад +1

    Hi Jessica,
    Good stuff, I love your work in Nairobi Kenya.👏

  • @danieloche1442
    @danieloche1442 2 года назад +1

    I'm doing exactly what is discussed here...it feels like i watch it before the relaeae.😂

  • @OLUROPOJADU
    @OLUROPOJADU 2 года назад +1

    I have been in that situation; i know better now. thanks for talking about this; much appreciated

  • @wmstv-s3w
    @wmstv-s3w 2 года назад +3

    Me just focusing on glasses🔥

  • @intergalactic11
    @intergalactic11 2 года назад

    Fully explanatory!
    Jess, you're adorable!
    I have to absorb and assimilate all these truths.
    Be blesseth!

  • @chessclarke2831
    @chessclarke2831 2 года назад +1

    Boom Jessica did it again 👏🏽

  • @Effekts1992
    @Effekts1992 2 года назад +1

    Very nicely put Jessica! I can relate with this, definitely.....Good work of art(this video) as always. Further successes

  • @chopgamer3719
    @chopgamer3719 2 года назад +2

    First much love 🥰 from Nigeria

  • @jivonstephen6677
    @jivonstephen6677 2 года назад

    Obviously for most people but yea lol , I'm always here still watching . Hope all is well with you Jess and glad to hear you every time . Have a wonderful day ok .

  • @Shamkiritoyt6
    @Shamkiritoyt6 2 года назад +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣sitting dung an say a him future wife while she na show no interest lol

  • @dilinwabuokei2519
    @dilinwabuokei2519 2 года назад

    Jess, you're a gift you're a gift to men. I owe you a drink whenever our paths cross.

  • @imanishimwerenovat8622
    @imanishimwerenovat8622 3 месяца назад

    Whatching from Lusaka Zambia 🤝

  • @fambaassumani2253
    @fambaassumani2253 2 года назад

    I have watched lot videos from u, but this one here is a sensational and high quality message. Wowow, incredible. Je t'aime beaucoup ma belle. Thank you darling.

  • @wilfredsaho3332
    @wilfredsaho3332 2 года назад +1

    Second to like the video❤️🙏🏿thanks Jess

  • @bobbyajomiwe9617
    @bobbyajomiwe9617 2 года назад +1

    Thanks Jessica, this was really helpful... you're as awesome as always👍

  • @dwayneneal3342
    @dwayneneal3342 2 года назад +1

    And in order for her to have high interest you got to be good looking,so how can even average men win?

  • @ezrakaunda3208
    @ezrakaunda3208 2 года назад +1

    Thanks Jessica you have made me. Keep up doing the great job.

  • @corrickkonie
    @corrickkonie 2 года назад

    Awesome! Straight forward and precise. Thank you for the heads up to us men.

  • @michaelg7456
    @michaelg7456 2 года назад +1

    Hi Jess keep up the good work! First

  • @timothyogaro1381
    @timothyogaro1381 2 года назад +1

    I really got inspired by this video, thanks a lot Jess

  • @worldvideos501
    @worldvideos501 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Jessica i'm really happy watching this, this is exactly what i've been going through, i talk something and next message from her *OH* thanks for this video i've learnt alot.. na to stay my own now be that

  • @agyeimaxwell.
    @agyeimaxwell. 2 года назад +1

    Here to impart here we go✌🔥📌🔓

  • @romainspuyt9634
    @romainspuyt9634 2 года назад +1

    Hey Jessica thanks for this video/for talking about this subject,so like yeah I'm in this situation,but I've decided to take a ride and go out and meet other people.(Ladies specifically)

  • @tblack9711
    @tblack9711 8 месяцев назад

    If you're not interested don't give any contact information at all. You're not being courteous or nice, you know that if a man is asking for your contact info he's interested. If you don't want to talk us then kindly say no thank you or find some creative way to say no. We don't work on the hint system.

  • @ogbefunaugustine1483
    @ogbefunaugustine1483 2 года назад

    you are just too much in all u do .this is exactly happening now to me! I'm grateful for this video.jessi.thanks to you very much

  • @fossnevergiveup2061
    @fossnevergiveup2061 2 года назад

    Very meaningful Thought.Thanks #Jassica much love to Everyone watching this channel 🙏❤️

  • @BaltazarDeniega
    @BaltazarDeniega 10 месяцев назад

    Very well said it's so opening not only eye but mind to .greatly said.welldone

  • @henryolali8822
    @henryolali8822 2 года назад

    Weldon Jess...
    To also add, there are so many women who's gaming and test of seriousness or true intent stretches far longer than others.
    Some men have been known to end up catching up with these kind of women by being patient, until something happens that changes her orientation and thoughts towards and about them.
    Some men even start off as a Mugu or Maga in the eyes of such ladies, until they gradually win the hearts and emotions.
    It will be very wise to also, know her passion, desires and interests.
    This will also very much help.
    Thanks Jess ...
    You have always been amazing and I never get bored or tired of watching yours videos.
    Brief, well structured, straight to the point, but captivating and always on point.
    Well done

  • @erniemyers1239
    @erniemyers1239 2 года назад

    Awesome topic so much truth to this content.you are doing a great job lov ❤ l love the difference in your appearance looking so gorgeous

  • @muriithispeaks485
    @muriithispeaks485 2 года назад

    You have a soothing voice Jessica. Great content

  • @fambaassumani2253
    @fambaassumani2253 2 года назад

    Jessica. You are really awesome. This message today is very very very good. You nailed it. You are the best. You're from different planet. Incredible. Lot of love and respect Darling. Love u. Thank you.

  • @ezeigwechukwubundu3999
    @ezeigwechukwubundu3999 2 года назад +1

    Best start...
    Really cool 😎😎

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 2 года назад

    Lovely Jessica, your advice is always right on the spot and you are simply a most beautiful wonderful and awesome person and with a big heart!
    🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-dq3kh2ls1h
    @user-dq3kh2ls1h 10 месяцев назад

    You just hit it on the nail right there... keep Up opening minds..

  • @bakermamboleo377
    @bakermamboleo377 2 года назад

    God bless you Jessy...thanks for the great content,it came just after I had the knowledge to manuvour the days I came across such a lady,thanks to God for having shown you this, not every relationship coach talks about it, thumbs up .

  • @marvinkalela3528
    @marvinkalela3528 Год назад +1

    100% well articulated