Prostitute interview-Ivy
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Ivy, a prostitute from Pasadena, California.
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@Soft White Underbelly Mark, it’s great to see the list of orgs you support on here. I have been an active member of & volunteered tons, for places like that, and been an original member of a group that was just forming, too. At one point I met and lived with a leader in that movement, also from the street, and she was better able to remain unbiased, when interviewing pimps and prostituted women for studies. You remind me of her, and then you went on to include tricks, also, in the equation. I know some people take it wrong because you know how to relate to people from the street and they find that suspect, but no square is gonna get these important interviews. People treat me the same because I don’t see it as black and white, because I’ve known the actual people involved. I’m glad you’re allowing the streets into the dialogue. That’s the only way we’re ever going to come up with solutions.
Agreed💯👏🏿
Britta Olson Right! It’s a lot of people who comment on these videos and talk about race and they think that race has to do with everything and it’s just ridiculous.
WicKid Grin I think race is a very important issue. I just want people to know that people of all colors and backgrounds can experience abuse or deprivation, and have very difficult lives. Anyone who’s poor in the US has limited chances. I do believe race oppression adds another deep layer of adversity to an otherwise hard life. The only thing I wish was not happening is people assuming others cannot have had hard times, based on race alone. A lot of people feel this way who still think racism is a big deal, such as African American adoptive parents of white children. People of color aren’t the only ones who sometimes assume another race has it better. White people complain about minority groups getting “free money” and opportunities all the time, which is also a distorted and untrue belief.
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She’s still young and she doesn’t look too far gone on drugs. I hope she gets the support needed to get out of this lifestyle.
Me too because that Meth is going to age her face very quickly and change her as a person overall!
I don’t think she’s ready. She said she’s addicted to the streets. I also hope she at least begins that journey for her daughter... at least
I think she lying look at her teeth & her conversation not even Street talk she either fresh or she lying...
Me too
She ain’t
I swear when she said she used drugs I was not expecting her to say she was on meth.
Neither was I. I was expecting weed and maybe coke here and there
Yeah that one I wasn't expecting
meth is cheap monetarily adderall
Meth use is rising among black folk now. It's cheap and prostitutes work 24/7.
She looks like a meth addict.
Man some times I have to take a break from watching these videos, they really become heavy on the heart.
Same 😢
Yes you do have to take a break
Same here so much pain in the stories
The exact same , I worry for dude sometimes.
I truly see hope in her.I believe if she had a good paying job,and a total different invironment,people will see great changes in her,she takes responsibility for everything she has done.As strong will as she is,she wants,and definately need change.She's hard,but meek in the in side,she still has hope.She strong will enough inside to know what she shouldnt be doing on the outside. I see potential.Reach out to her and her child,and get her off the streets.To me she is amazing.I've never seen a meth addict look so good.
We haven’t lost her yet, there’s hope for this young woman. I’m rooting for her to win and leave this trap.
As a father of two girls it hurt me to see alot of young black women in that lifestyle so-so 😥
Watch her update.
The last one from 22 of January says only that she smokes a lot. NO person perfect but picking drug over kids ? Last update ? She looks stunning with them tatoos, high, overtalking, crying and smiling at the same time. Giving good advices to everyone but not her self. It is what it is :D thing is you can change "IT"
These videos are helping me with the acceptance of my dad being on heroin. People only change if they are able to change and even then, NO person is perfect.
You said the key words Nobody is Perfect, show me that person and then I’m a believer!!!!!
Same here! It helps me understand my mother's addiction.
Praying for you and your dad. These vids show not only how addictive the drug is but life on the streets is too
@@nicksterp2805 Thanks for the prayers. My dad split a long time ago and it is probably for the best. He was stealing things, like our t.v., I'm sure to buy drugs. Not a great influence in my life, but he was physically beautiful.
She is the first person i seen you interview that actually doesn't point the finger at everyone else. She accepts her lifestyle with full responsibility.
Right!!!!!!
SHOULD A 15 OR 16 YEAR OLD, HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR GETTING INTO PROSTITUTION? IT DOESNT MATTER IF AN UNDER AGE TEENAGER MAKES A SMART OR DUMB DECISION, THE PARENT (ADULTS) IS "RESPONSIBLE"!
Or you forgot to read between the lines.😉
@@jabbarinnewyork7778 regardless if you have parents in your life or not we all make our own decisions and paths in life so that's not an excuse.
Brittany Benson , YES WE DO, BUT NOT AT THE AGE OF 15.
Damn my beautiful black sister....I hope you get out of this before it's too late
🎶 Black Pearl....put you high where you belong
I hope.she does too more to life than this!
Amen
Cops wear her first experience really serve and protect
So important to POUR love into our children even if we are lacking; they need & deserve it.
Absolutely true! Love and reassurance are so fundamental in childhood and adolescence.
You can’t give what you don’t have, unfortunately.
Facts
um22w22 : But if you’re going to bring children into the world, you need to go get it. Learn how to parent. Get psychological and emotional help. Lots if people know how they were brought up was wrong, but repeat the same patterns anyway.
You can’t give what you don’t have.....
"i gotta come back to my daughter, I always tell myself I'm coming back home to my daughter" 😭 i pray she make it through this chapter in Life.
She looked as though she didn't want to leave. Mark, you are probably the most positive person she's been around.
Yea I noticed that myself. Hope she meets good people one day
Nah she was tryna get some money 😭
@@fkkajtazovic386 or she came for the money and wanted to stay cuz someone actually asked about her and was interested in her opinions and life. You don't understand how rare can be to feel heard.
SOMEBODY really needs to get to her before she becomes another Amanda. And THAT would be a tragic shame.
Yep. Amanda's story and her decline was rough to see. Amanda's story needs to be part of anti drug campaign.
True fact indeed
@@enuphsayd9746 Absolutely 😞
Not sure she would let herself get that low, but the longer she leaves it, the harder it is to climb back up. I think Amanda, bless her, always had underlying mental health issues and literally, no one. This lassie is a lot more solid. Still needs all the support she can get to say bye-bye to this shit though. I've been on working class wages most of my life and still have way more than she does. It's not the way forward.
Real shit
It blows my mind how young these girls start. :(
It does mine too, it's almost unbelievable, but this is their reality, every stinkin day!! But the one thing that I literally canNOT wrap my brain around, no matter how hard I try to, is the PIGS that actually use her, and all the other little girls and boys, THAT'S what I can't fathom....and it's people that we'd NEVER expect or believe. So, so heartbreakin....😭😭😭
It’s crazy it’s always “I met this guy”
I can tell she doesn't want to be here ( the lifestyle). She's the best looking meth user, I've seen... Break free.. I believe in you.. Mark, having been homeless, kindly be cautious when asking: if they've saved money? When people know you have money, you're a sitting duck..
to the interviewer: please don't ask prostitutes if they are saving money. It is none of anybody's business but theirs. she so beautiful even her personality is solid. she could be a business women and make money. but who will nurture her? nobody. if she could just get away. like she said..it's a trap. we women who live normal lives are trapped if we just lose a job on paycheck away and no support. this is the world we live in. but I know one thing. All of these rich celebrities could help one at a time if they wanted to in the place of 5 cars in the driveway. but people want to take advantage of people instead. she is beautiful and that is how I look at her
She hadn’t been doing meth that long just yet. A year from now she’s gonna look like HELL unless she gets help
She is so pretty. She needs to get off the streets or that beauty will be gone. God bless her.
true story, son.., true story..
Bruh, don’t save her. It’s up to her to want to get out of the game
@@Trill_I_Am another true story, son.., another true story..
COSMO JOE bro STFU! All it takes is someone to show they care and she wouldn’t feel like her life is waisted. Don’t always assume a person is okay with their situation! She might just be used to it and afraid nothing else will work! You’re right it’s her choice, but who’s in her corner to encourage her? EVERYONE NEEDS SOMEONE!
COSMO JOE I hate ignorant people like you!
"My mom never put a leash on me..."
Educate your kids before the street does it for you.
Righr
I don't even have kids and I thought that was the most powerful statement in this video.
14 years on meth, former stripper/working girl. Homeless and living in sin, unaware of the fact that I was dealing with a war for my soul. I always knew God was there, but never believed I could be forgiven or that he could give me beauty for my ashes...but he did. 4 years drug free, married, buying my first home, custody of my younger children, respect from my adult children , my self worth and a good life. NOT PERFECT OR WITHOUT PAIN OR TRILES...but GOOD. Most importantly, I have been FORGIVEN . I pray for this young woman to fight the good fight, I pray God sends her a man one day who SEES HER, who truly sees her, who is moved by God to help change her life. A good man who brings her to God. We do recover, we do get better . 🥰 Love and solidarity
Your testimony is inspiring. I’m glad to hear that you let God put u on the right path and seeing success in your life. May God continue to bless you abundantly.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Ashee Ash , Praise be to God! Thank you so very much and may you be blessed as well 🙏🏻☀️
💙
I'm sorry that God let you get on that path in the first place, but at least you escaped
She can be saved from the streets she is not that far gone still young and beautiful black young lady praying someone can step up and help her and her baby
Agreed 💯
That's crazy looking her I never would've thought she use drugs
That's because she just used and is not strung out / coming down. She all good for anther hour or 2
@@LucindaSchumann tru tru👍
Please don't let her be another Amanda. The changes was so disturbing and sad 😪
Everyone doesn’t lose weight I think that’s why she she looks in the healthier side and she seems to be young.
@@miliaelainejones2421 right
When she said : It’s a different type of pain because you not supposed to feel it but you feel it and inside you got a force your self to be numb to it. I felt that
Girl get you a only fans and make that bread without the danger. She is gorgeous
You make it sound so easy
Hipping Hoppy ong💀
Hipping Hoppy Yea...idk about Only Fans, but to cam, you need a private place, and a background, some computer & camera skills & equipment or someone to film you and, often, a certain grade of camera.
Only is not as poppin as many believe. The track can pull x15 more than a top of model. Alot of Woman just don't have good folks that give them instructions and direction.
Yeah, people will wait till the stuff leaks on pornhub. That’s how I watch Matthew Camps onlyfans videos
I like her. she has a mature, calming presence. she seems like a deep thinker. I have the feeling she might do well if she decided to pursue an education. if this girl is academically inclined then it would be a shame for her to not go back to school.
Yes, you can tell that she is very smart. Contemplates her words before speaking. I could see her as a first-generation college grad 😢
She articulates well
yeah , even more evident in his latest with her
I went to high school with her and can’t remember her real name. But man I really want to help her. She can still change her whole life.
Cheyenne Lawrence Evelyn
But I know she wouldn't be comfortable facing you. So if you reach out understand if she don't respond. She's a different Evelyn.
what was she like in school
@@kaerose777 people giving two different names
Did you see her recent video 😞
I am a middle class, white Canadian who has had a charmed life but I totally understand why people stick to the streets. There is no judgment amongst addicts and the homeless. Judgement comes from those of us who think addicts and the homeless choose this life. I hope she finds peace.
Just watched her most recent interview, makes me so happy seeing how far she’s come. Praying that you continue on the right path ivy. More than proud of you! ❤️
She’s so pretty I hope and pray that she betters her life and take another route
Pretty, young, sexy, and real
How many times can you say life in one sentence
yEdi as much as I want tf
Amaiya there’s a thing called a thesaurus for a reason learn how to use it instead of saying the same thing three times go back to middle school
yEdi cool I am not going to go back and forth with you have a good day
This video versus the most current one shows that losing her daughter really broke her spirit. Praying for you Ivy.🙏🏿🙌🏿👏🏿
So at 16 she gets in a police car for her first time and nothing happens... no help.. Smfh..They want these girls to cycle thru the system
Yeah, I really hate to believe that but it seems like it, doesn't it? Its crazy!
Who is they? And are you holding "them" more responsible than the woman that decided to have 4 kids and then then her?
@@lisalove7303 "they" is the police.
The girl was 16, a minor.
...."they" should of done something to help that poor girl
I was wondering if the cop had sex with her and just let her go.
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Omg Ik this gurl we went to school together she was the most sweetest & kind hearted person I’ve ever met...I’ve been looking for her
Did you find her? There's an update video today.
If you could help her God will repay you!! I don’t believe she’s too far gone yet! 🙏❤️ May God give you the strength to help her. May God Bless.
She seems very sweet. I hope she can turn it around.
@@Rebecca-hc5ju the follow up was heartbreaking
@@shieroc I know, been thinking about her for days....😟
Dead end. Turn around now
Yep
So right
Real talk.
Dead end in what sense .? As in she’s lost to the streets
The kind of pain she's talking about is the pain of taking. People take from her all day, everyday. It's not just sexual exploitation, it's the fact that she allows it to happen. That's the real pain. She has given people permission to take from her everything she has. Her thoughts, hopes, and dreams. She lives in fear 24/7. I pray she can get out ❤🙏
I see soooooo much potential in her man 😞
enough is Enough is that all you can point out. With all due respect.
Enough is enough it’s people like who get the dog shit slapped outta them and beg for mercy after they said some stupid shit
Pearl Unruly lmoa
i dont
Shes not raising her daughter if shes working alllllll day and allllll night , taking meth and never sleeping. So that's bull.
Delusional.
@@phyllysanantonio how do you know who are you to judge
how do you know
@@demetiademetia5466 because im not sitting on skid row w sagging boobies. So there, sit on that oh holy one !!!! :)
@@phyllysanantonio She's not from skid row . And your comments are just dumb.
*"TURN IT AROUND LORD"🙏*
Amen... Lord please.
Please Jesus she needs you🙌🏽
Please God, turn this one around, in Jesus Name. In Jesus Name 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
🙏🏾🙏🏾
Been there... Used to do hook ups so i could support my daughter
Then i met my husband in 2018..everything changed and i thank the universe for bringing him to me... My life changed... I stopped doing drugs
I am so proud of you for trusting yourself to make such a huge change! Go head sis!💙
Thank JESUS the one who created the universe!
@@frankiellamas713 God did not Jesus
You are lost!!!! Wake up!!! God lives inside us
I’m next
Good for u! GOD is good💞
This broke my heart!!! She’s only 20, she has a daughter. Omg, I hope her daughter is in a safe place and god is with both her and her daughter every second of the day. I hope she can get herself together for the sake of her baby. Praying for you Ivy🙏🏽
I see so many good looking, smart, young men and women interviewed only problem is they don't see it.............So much more to their life............. if only...........
Alot of them never learned or were taught to love themselves. I hope that one day she values herself more and leave this life alone.
Amanda Chandler Amen!!!
They would focus and sacrifice.
This one is tough. That’s all she know is the streets. She’s probably scared to get out because people will judge her for what she’s done. Damn. Somebody good will have to get in her ear and show her a better path w/o judgment.
PurplePoplickle okay but what’s the alternative? Keep doing this forever? She’s going to have to get out at some point, she might as well do it now while she’s still young and actually capable of learning a new way of life. The longer she waits, the harder 8ts going to be to reprogram her old ways. It’ll also be harder to just get a job. That’s a huge gap in employment history to have to explain. Not to mention the charges she’s racking up. If she had any sense, she would have been out of this life.
That is tough she gone have to lie to niggas which is not right
@@dewilew2137 Easier to say then done smh
I really wished there was a greater motive behind these interviews .. he gets these people to pour out their lives on camera, gawks at them and makes joke during the interview.. why isn’t HE the “good somebody “ to get in her ear
@@demiparker6332 Man idk what he can do to actualy help these people. Like he's a millionaire or anything like that .So to me giving these types of people a platform to speak on is gr8 because most of the time they die without never being heard or cared for .So to me I think that giving these people a platform to speak on can help the future generation see that doing those types of thing is not good for them .
BTW I don't see him making fun of them or anything like that
I really hope she sees her worth one day and does something that makes her happy. She seems so bright and sweet, I felt so sad that she doesn’t have support. Her and her daughter both deserve a life full of happiness and love. ❤️🙏🏻
My heart goes out to her daughter
Who’s caring for her????
Ivy says she works all the time and doesn’t sleep! Where is her child?
Ivys tough outer shell ( protecting her pain) and lifestyle puts her daughter at great risk of all kinds of abuse 😢
Ivy, I have a daughter a few years older than you and I can't imagine. You My Dear, are born for GREATNESS regardless of what the "streets" say! I pray for your protection and that your self importance SHINES through the mess of the past and you walk firmly in your "incredible" destiny...for you AND your daughter.
"You never know who your getting in the car with" chilllls
She's still new to the game. Lord, guide her out ASAP.
@@enuphsayd9746 4 years
@@thematriarchy2075 Well, in that case,...LORD, PLEASE HURRY AND GET HER OUT!!
I couldn’t imagine having sex all day and especially with several ppl. Heart goes out to her.
I mean I don't mind the all day part..just not with several people
@@Sandra-xn7qv Imagine some clients are not so clean, some are very low intelligence, some see you as an object and treat you like dirt, and some are dangerous. Just wow
This is crazy she was my friend and I went to school with her. This truly broke my heart. 🥺
What’s her real name? I wish I could help her
I would love to to help this queen....if anyone knows her....let me know
hannah grace Evelyn
I want to donate if yall find her
Yeah sure
This cycle seems to continue on in the black community! These young girls need to be protected! This is why girls need their fathers! Protection! They always meet pimps because they’re vulnerable, run always, looking for love etc.
black community excuse me its not a race thing
nomo whites true ignorance is bliss
Sorry White women started it
Not true at all, not all that goes on in the black community Please know your true facts before making a statement like that!!!
at least 1/2 the pimps interviewed say they prefer the white girls cause they're more submissive. so where you coming from saying the black community? its not about race. 99% of the people in these interviews have one thing in common. they've experienced childhood trauma & it fucked them up! probably they had "parents" who had "parents" that were unhealthy. this is a multigenerational pattern that needs a hero to break away & begin to heal & change those patterns. in all communities we need to do better for our kids!
Devil you are a liar in the name of Jesus christ let go this young lady
I’m Muslim but I so agree
Yes Jesus save her
As I listen to everyone share their stories, I try to picture everything in my mind. I could only imagine how it would feel to actually go through what they go through. She is young, beautiful and deserves more.
I’m so mad at her mom🤦🏾♀️ “what do you want me to do?”
It seems like all these people stories start with a bum ass Mother who doesn’t give a shit, why did they even have kids if they weren’t going to take care and protect them it makes me mad after listening to all these stories it’s the mothers
Our Mother's do it, Because they never had a mother who cared....
You know her mom could of raised her in the best way and good schools collage and you still can fall victim you just have to be very strong stay away ugh a lot of people do get lost and it also comes from kids having kids so I just pray she be safe out there cause they kidnap girls who don’t have a pimp I pray she got a tool frfr or a eyebrow archer I swear a eye brow archer is so dangerous slice they ass open frfr
TheReal Ricki Yea but somebody has to break the cycle. I refuse to have kids until I work through the trauma my mother put me thru & if I get pregnant before I get the chance to do so, I’ll work 10 times harder during my pregnancy. I’ll know I’ll make mistakes as a mother but this cycle has to end with me!
Sun Millions oh of course but her mother put her at an even higher risk. Mothers are supposed to protect and educate their children and it’s obvious that’s not what happened here.
Its unfortunate that sooooo many of us are constantly in survival mode instead of having the chance and/or opportunities to LIVE.
This young lady seems so depressed, and disappointed how her life turned out. So much pain on the inside, that it is just pouring out. She is beautiful. May God touch her, and she finds her way out this life style. It doesn't seem like, it's for her
My heart is filled with compassion for her
She had to just started crystal meth she got all her teeth she’s gorgeous skin is glowing if she’s really doing it you’ll see later
For sure, even in the follow-up video, her appearance is still beautiful. I really pray she can get better 🙏🏾
doesnt affect everyone rite away
If she doesn't sleep who is taking care of her child who is with her?
Thank you for being so HONEST and REAL about the advice you give to young girls wanting this lifestyle. Ivy you have a good heart and you are a good person despite what you are currently doing...i pray you get out NOW!
She’s so pretty. I hope she gets out of this lifestyle and off drugs. Also, I can’t imagine how she even stands in those shoes 👠 much less walk in them. How she does it is beyond me. I’d definitely fall and probably crack my head open if I tried on heels that high. That alone is one of her super powers.
The parent is the problem if all their kids have ended up in the ‘street life’, as this young woman describes herself and her siblings. It’s rare for someone aged 16 to just leaves home and go on the game unless they have been exposed to that side of life before, via parental abuse and neglect or simply parents modelling chaos in the household. She is very disturbed and I suspect her mother is the big reason why.
I hope she knows this isn’t 100% her fault if all of her siblings are in bad predicaments and her mom doesn’t care it’s the parents fault all of her children ended up in that situation when you have a parent who doesn’t care about you & no father it makes things 100000% harder
You also can’t always blame your parents...you get to a certain age where you know right from wrong. She probably didn’t think she would get this deep into the streets
These interviews always just grabbed me by the heart strings with these young girls .
It blows my mind that there are people out there the same age as I am, just like Ivy, that are on completely different paths of life. I pray for these young girls and hope they can find their peace.
I watch a lot of your videos but it’s something about this one that just broke me down with tears I pray for her and her baby to get some type of comfort in their lives man this one got me 😢
Yes she breaks me down.. have you seen her most recent video ?
@@lavenderblu253 hey luv n no I haven’t saw it I’m gonna check it out right now tho thank u ☺️
@@pocketslife8963 your welcome love ❤️
Addiction of the lifestyle is just as hard as getting off of the drugs when I first got clean 6 years ago from heroin I would go to meetings where there was a lot of using trickng & Chaos just to have a little bit of a ratchet lifestyle without using drugs and that kept me going to meetings for the first couple months and then I started to finally heal from the lifestyle but it's a very very long process
I hear you. Were these twelve step meetings that you were going to?
@ yes mam. Eventually i had to make better decisions but it definitely took time. I needed mens attention for validation i needed the drama and fast lifestyle. I needed hearing constant relapsers
@ also in metro Detroit area u find great ones and not so great. As im sure everywhere
@@ShanieCakesss Damn, what a coincidence. I was JUST telling my friend how I used to be addicted to getting attention from men. If we went out and I didn't get a phone number and my friends did, I would be DEPRESSED, like I didn't have any worth.
@@ShanieCakesss Also, another coincidence, I am from Detroit. Before the pandemic, I was thinking of moving back. It's still up in the air.
Heavenly Father I come before your throne of grace and mercy asking that whenever this precious young lady is RIGHT NOW that you touch her. Heal her brokenness. Give her strength. Guidance. Support and wisdom. Send her love and people who will show her love and help her become all that you have created her to be. Please allow her to see herself the way you see her. Please keep her daughter safe and away from harm and place their young woman on a path of righteousness for her self and more importantly her daughter. In Jesus’s Mighty name. Amen!
Amen
Amen
Amen
Interesting that each interview with Ivy in this series gets longer and longer. The last one (most recent) is INCREDIBLE, omg...this woman is amazing. She's an artist.
You are absolutely extraordinary! You should feel so proud of yourself for getting rid of the creepy pimp so quickly and no I don't know about this at all but I've listened to tons of interviews and many girls and women stay dependent upon and feel "safer" with an abusive pimp! You're insightful, strong, honest and intelligent! I hope you can DISTANCE YOURSELF from your mother and siblings, get therapy (from a female) and eventually get clean (don't think about that right now). I truly wish you and your little girl all the very best! Do NOT give up!!!
🌱💗🌿
So Mark didn’t ask her who is taking care of her daughter while she’s walking the street all day and night trapping and smoking meth? Mark didn’t ask what if your daughter follows you to the street in a few years bec that’s all she knows? She’s smart enough to know it’s not about just coming home to your baby it’s about wanting to do better for your baby than what was done for you. She’s giving advice to young girls and she has a young girl. Sweetie you need to get your life for that baby’s sake.
You could interview them yourself
TheCrownOfFusion No Mark is doing an excellent job for the most part. But you... you could go and find a thick ... never mind. Have a good day.
@@DoubleDee126 ur so dramatic but you have a good day as well
At the end, it sounds like she's never heard a positive, encouraging word in her life.
She probably hasn’t🙁
She has. She just can't trust people to be truthful in what they say
She still looks innocent .. doesn’t look hard yet.
You too respectfully beautiful
She's the most attractive one i've seen with no physical damage so i hope she gets her stuff together before she permanently wreaks herself, i do not want to see her turn out like that other girl Amanda, that had me to tears.
Was anybody shocked when she said she never knew her dad? It can't be stressed enough how important the role of the father is. I pray that a truly God-fearing person comes into her life and shows her true love, understanding and compassion and reveals to her that she has a heavenly Father that can & will be a better father than her earthly father ever was and that even with all the things she's done at this point in her young life there's still forgiveness and salvation awaiting her.
@Krunchy Vurn Bictim unfortunate that you feel that way. Hope you realize before it's too late just how real he is
@anthony Brown 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I'm more shocked about the amount of people overall that don't know their father's!! Have we ever truly pressured the MOTHER'S for this??? Nope!!
@Jim Carter we all do. That wasn't the point and that's another study in itself. If the father was in the home was he engaged with the child? Distant? Abusive? Overbearing? Did he set good examples? You can't underestimate the effect parents, both fathers and mothers have on children. Regardless it wasn't shocking to hear that this particular young lady had not only a absentee father but also a lenient mother. And all of her siblings are in and out of the system. Shocker.
@Krunchy Vurn Bictim let me guess. You also have a poor relationship with your father correct? Most atheist do.
She’s so aware but also unaware. Holding a lot of emotion in. A tough woman. Already been though so much at such a young age. I hope she gets out soon and saves her kid
She knows that her choices should be better that type of honesty is uncommon
I can tell by how she answered her question that she isn’t taking care of her daughter.... hope she gets it together
Parents really need to be better parents. Poor girl. If I got a phone call that my daughter was on the streets, I would pick her up in a cocaine heartbeat.
She was telling straight FACTS and truths in this one. Her words demonstrate wisdom, so close. Imagine what she could do if she had good opportunities, love, therapy and care.
I hope she’s good for her daughter!
Shes not. You cant be gone ALL day and be good to your daughter.
Brittany Fletcher and be on drugs
I want her to get her thyroid checked. The lump on her neck is concerning.
She’s so intelligent and aware . There is still hope for her to get clean and go to school .
My heart hurts so much for this girl. Despite being raised in an environment where this was the norm, she has an innate knowing that this ain't it and there's something more. She's very young and she has a chance and she has time on her hands. I hope she can get over her addiction to the game before it's too late.
She is a Beautiful Queen that got lost in the streetz. But the most disturbing thing about these interviews is really not about the individual but about how flesh pleasing, selfish, cruel, evil and perverted men are in this world. They use women most precious being as a tool for sick self pleasure.
Yes
Get her off the street.. pretty and still full of dreams to achieve
"You're gonna need somethin".."It's a trap" ...wise words.
she's pretty.. hopefully the streets won't take her turn her out into a heartless broken female..
the potential for growth and development as a square chick is still in front of her..
I don't want her to turn into what Amanda transitioned into. I pray see saw that video or knows about her.
She is burying some deep inner pain. You can tell that she wants a better life but doesn't know how to go about it. Lord please come and rescue her.
To be 20, and have a understanding of what’s going on. Like she really understands where she is in life. A average 20y/o is in the clouds.
Girl u are beautiful...I hope u take some of your own advice and get off the streets..I can see u doing something way better..
It appears she senses that this lifestyle isn't for her. She's fighting her soul.
She is so pretty she actually favors my cousin i wish her the best in life she deserves better
This is so sad. Sounds like she didn't stand a chance with her upbringing - if all her siblings are in prison and she is out on the street. She hesitated to admit she gets depressed... probably scared it would show "weakness". I hope she can find her way out of this.. She is only 20.
So sorry, Ivy. I think I understand what you mean about the pain of the streets, versus the pain of a 'normal' life. The streets are totally feral and the pain is unproductive. The best you can do is survive. It's not comfortable, but it is a kind of comfort zone, in that you don't have to worry about the appearance of success. You are not going to be judged by the same yardstick as, say, someone trying to make it in a challenging and competitive career environment. However, the price is so high and the rewards, in an overview, seem pitiful. I hope you and your daughter can get to a better place.
What a nice comment. 💕💛
I hope she can get out of it. There is so much hope for her (and everyone for that matter). She is SO wise and so smart you can literally see it beaming out of her she’s an asset to the world. You can tell she KNOWS that, I hope she acts on it soon.
I wonder if Ivy were offered a way out, including treatment, education, counseling...would she accept it? I think she would.
Again it all starts with their home life. Most times these videos that display the underbelly of society, where they begin this type of lifestyle come from broken and Fatherless homes, either their "mothers" just popped out humans without the benefit of a father that was married to their mothers, or that their parents divorced and the children were without any boundaries and borders as small children; with little loving discipline. Women must be wise in who they allow into their sacred womb, the seed of the father will manifest in their children, children.
So true, Generational Curses, it just goes on and on until the cycle gets broken.
@Katherine Dobson listen kids are going to make mistake but I think the way u are brought up determines what kind people that come from 2 parent house holds with strong values kids are just not going to do certain stuff I m praying for u and it may or may not be your fault remember that
@Katherine Dobson Never did I state it was 100% , yet the statistics prove my statement correct that there are many negative consequences where children come up in broken and fatherless homes. Just google the stats. The optimum way to bring up children is when both the parents are married and sober, for the provision and protection of the child.
@Katherine Dobson well, Karen, with your many years of life experience, I can see your point. However, he said most times this life style begins with the abusive type of life at home. In most of addiction, there is some type of trauma from the past that the addict is using substance to cover up the pain.
@Katherine Dobson So father's are not important? Would you say the same thing about mothers too? Are mother's necessary? Never did I say, "Always"..
I respect her honesty threw the Interview 🙌🏾 prayers for her❗️
She’s taking ownership for all her actions and life choices. I really hope she makes a good life for her and her child. She’s so beautiful
Sweet, sweet girl. She is the sweetest girl 😢 I don’t want her to be alone. She needs somebody. God, little girl. Don’t rely on anyone. You can find the best things yourself.
" a type of pain you're not supposed to feel". OMGGGG these videos are so eye opening
It’s so heartbreaking. There must be a way out... just look at her eyes. When she spoke about levels of the pain in the streets I felt that... 😢😢
I hate when they agree to be truthful and still lie. She does not raise her daughter why is it so hard to admit that?
Ivy, I watched your videos backwards. Your last video is bitter sweet. You spoke with more wisdom & seemed to be fully aware of your demons but yet your relationship with your daughter lapsed. You have so much potential. You are scared of the unknown. There is so much more to life than what you know now. Get the fuck out your own way & be great!! Break the cycle. You do not have to continue to be your mother. Create a path for that little princess of yours. Don't be the streets. Find Ivy....
I will be praying for this young lady & her baby. She will be on my mind day & night.
I would love to ask questions like -' what do you think it will take for you to quit this lifestyle'.