Her recounting of her public hospital experience, reminded me of my wife’s terrible experience at the Kimberley/RobertSobukwe hospital for our first born, fortunately our second born was born at a birthing centre in Klerksdorp with an experienced midwife it was really good. And I want to shoutout Sister Jeniffer at The Lighthouse Birthing Centre in Klerksdorp👌🏾
I enjoyed the conversation,loved it. However there’s a lot of instances where Nosi was saying men are “Who they are”, I have accepted this, I avoid then let go, women are affected by tv….. The issue with us women of today is that we are tired of that letting go. We also want to be who we are & men avoid with us & compromise…Yes perhaps it is bring a fight but men need to realise that they also need to understand women & compromise & put themselves in their shoes… that example about a kid winning an award @ school… you can’t be happy to celebrate that when you don’t value school enough to make sure school shoes are bought, tutoring lessons are paid for & the child went to that school trip… I see why a mother would remind u of that as you celebrate the award… other than that, beautiful insightful convo❤
Wow 😮, what a conversation and beautiful 🤩 brilliant minds... I mean the Nosisi she's 🫴🏽🌍🖤. This deserves to re-watched, both the logic, realism and reasoning is there. Hollywood is a narrative we are dealing with, daily. The partnership concept is explained so well since we are two different people with different perceptions. Top notch communication as well. Loved 😍💞🌍💪🏽 it!!!
As difficult as co-parenting is for you guys, I'd just like to say that you are still very blessed for that. Some of our children do not have the luxury of having time with their father's or their families.
One of the most enjoyable conversations to date on the Penuel Channel. We all have different views of what "normal" is, learn to be patient with people around you. We come from different households with different backgrounds. Appreciate you countering Nosisi's points and her doing the same, nothing wrong with challenging guests. It makes for a more engaging and robust end product. Cheers.
I thought I'd steal 30 minutes from my lunch break to watch this episode, and continue when I'm home. Long story short, I watched the whole episode in one sitting and missed my meeting.
My favorite topic, thank you for expanding on it - unfortunately/fortunately co-parenting is the new norm and these conversations need to be had - my mission is to raise emotionally healthy kids, co-parenting with two different (amazing) gents is an interesting journey but I'm loving it - I keep telling my baby daddies I was meant to be a "baby mama" because I excel shame *in a good way* 🤣😂
Absolutely enjoying this episode: so relevant, so relatable, sensitive but necessary. Lovely guest you've got there Pen. Thank you very much for this ❤
This really hit home. One thing i learned from this conversation was. Do not commit to having a baby if you are not committed to being together for the rest of your life.
Thank you for this conversation. I hope that it becomes a series Penuel, particularly with men having conversations with other men about parenthood, those who chose to be absent - those who chose to fight to stay in their lives and how women can also acceot accountability. As Ms Nosisi said, women's views on co-parenting are generally the same but I'd love to hear from different men about their views. Particularly why some men can dissociate themselves from their seeds. I am a parent to a beautiful four-year-old son. I'm from a family of women only and this is the first boy child in generations and to add to that I am unmarried and co-parenting with my son's father. In my journey of being a mother, I've come a long way with my growth and I appreciate the nuggets I receive from the likes of you Penuel, as a "baby daddy" because I've had several failed attempts at these types of conversations with my child's father. Simply put, thank you for this. I hope we can continue to learn from each other through these platforms until we get to a point where we can co-parent "successfully".
I thoroughly enjoyed this episode 😅 I have 2 baby daddies, the 1st is my ex husband and we have 2 kids who come first so we have buried the hatchet and really work well together (even the wife, who was the side then but story for another day). Second guy yoh is a narcissist and makes everything difficult just because he thinks having a relationship with me is having a relationship with his child so he is an atm. My ex husband includes my son so I am kinda sorted and grateful ❤
it really has to come about what we gents can call this thing of wanting multiple women to simply have kids with and how we can change the narrative for our women to understand it and not fight
@@nosisingakane889 I am basically trying to say that some people understand the importance of family building and values and some we have to explain our reality to.. What type of education does one need to explain that concept if they are not yet exposed to it..
😂😂 Beautiful conversation. But really women always expect that their way should be thee way. I like how she reacted about a father sleeping naked with his daughter naked. What may be a norm to you, may be the opposite to a man's context. Let's all be open that what you are comfortable with is not normal to other people and vise versa.
Vele we've really normalised the bad service abo mama, sisi, wives and girlfriends who work at government hospitals give to the public? I know it's not ALL of them who are guilty, but it's like a norm, like it is what it is? Ay noh kubi 😂
Happy Wednesday... Parenting is a topic I'm hoping to talk more and more about over time. It's very sensitive to me 🙏🏽❤️
Please do, great content brother 🙏
Her recounting of her public hospital experience, reminded me of my wife’s terrible experience at the Kimberley/RobertSobukwe hospital for our first born, fortunately our second born was born at a birthing centre in Klerksdorp with an experienced midwife it was really good. And I want to shoutout Sister Jeniffer at The Lighthouse Birthing Centre in Klerksdorp👌🏾
Thank you for sharing. I'm really sorry for your experience 🙏🏽
I enjoyed the conversation,loved it. However there’s a lot of instances where Nosi was saying men are “Who they are”, I have accepted this, I avoid then let go, women are affected by tv….. The issue with us women of today is that we are tired of that letting go. We also want to be who we are & men avoid with us & compromise…Yes perhaps it is bring a fight but men need to realise that they also need to understand women & compromise & put themselves in their shoes… that example about a kid winning an award @ school… you can’t be happy to celebrate that when you don’t value school enough to make sure school shoes are bought, tutoring lessons are paid for & the child went to that school trip… I see why a mother would remind u of that as you celebrate the award… other than that, beautiful insightful convo❤
Wow 😮, what a conversation and beautiful 🤩 brilliant minds... I mean the Nosisi she's 🫴🏽🌍🖤. This deserves to re-watched, both the logic, realism and reasoning is there. Hollywood is a narrative we are dealing with, daily. The partnership concept is explained so well since we are two different people with different perceptions. Top notch communication as well. Loved 😍💞🌍💪🏽 it!!!
As difficult as co-parenting is for you guys, I'd just like to say that you are still very blessed for that. Some of our children do not have the luxury of having time with their father's or their families.
Thank you, Yolanda 🙏🏽
One of the most enjoyable conversations to date on the Penuel Channel. We all have different views of what "normal" is, learn to be patient with people around you. We come from different households with different backgrounds. Appreciate you countering Nosisi's points and her doing the same, nothing wrong with challenging guests. It makes for a more engaging and robust end product. Cheers.
Pen bro, you are building the nation. keep pushing.
Thank you, Albert 🙏🏽
I thought I'd steal 30 minutes from my lunch break to watch this episode, and continue when I'm home. Long story short, I watched the whole episode in one sitting and missed my meeting.
Amazing
🙆🏽♂️😂
Pen, you are the best conversationalist in the country. This was one of the best as it dealt with issues that we face everyday. Dope
Thank you 🙏🏽
My favorite topic, thank you for expanding on it - unfortunately/fortunately co-parenting is the new norm and these conversations need to be had - my mission is to raise emotionally healthy kids, co-parenting with two different (amazing) gents is an interesting journey but I'm loving it - I keep telling my baby daddies I was meant to be a "baby mama" because I excel shame *in a good way* 🤣😂
😂😂😂 thank you for sharing 🙏🏽
Couple of my kids were born at Genesis Clinic in Saxonwold.
Oxford Midwifery is the new spot. Free plug!
Two more plugs in Pretoria are City View Birthing Retreat and Midwives Exclusive. At the latter I had a positive water birth experience😇
@thembingcezu2114 thank you for sharing 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Both my kids were born at Genesis. Not that I am planning to have more but I was pretty sad to hear that it has closed down
Crucial conversations. Siyabonga.
Absolutely enjoying this episode: so relevant, so relatable, sensitive but necessary. Lovely guest you've got there Pen. Thank you very much for this ❤
Great conversation parents! Conference for parents desperately needed. Please please! Lots to unpack hey
Brilliant. The epitome of the Dope Conversation.💯🔥
I enjoyed listening to you both...she is an inspiration in this parenting space....looking forward to the next conversation
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you so much... I am learning, and growing everyday❤
This really hit home. One thing i learned from this conversation was. Do not commit to having a baby if you are not committed to being together for the rest of your life.
Omg. My language. Heavy. Bless the interview
This was a Dope Conversation indeed.
Thank you for tuning in 🙏🏽
We need more conversations like this
Discussed a very important topic. Parents of the boý are obliged to pay the maintenance. This thing of co parenting is a war most of the time.
Wow I love her so much as much as enobu tsotsi here and there 😅😊😂 her Prawess are rare 👊👏
Dope Conversation indeed
I enjoyed this chat👌🏾
Thank you for this conversation. I hope that it becomes a series Penuel, particularly with men having conversations with other men about parenthood, those who chose to be absent - those who chose to fight to stay in their lives and how women can also acceot accountability. As Ms Nosisi said, women's views on co-parenting are generally the same but I'd love to hear from different men about their views. Particularly why some men can dissociate themselves from their seeds. I am a parent to a beautiful four-year-old son. I'm from a family of women only and this is the first boy child in generations and to add to that I am unmarried and co-parenting with my son's father. In my journey of being a mother, I've come a long way with my growth and I appreciate the nuggets I receive from the likes of you Penuel, as a "baby daddy" because I've had several failed attempts at these types of conversations with my child's father. Simply put, thank you for this. I hope we can continue to learn from each other through these platforms until we get to a point where we can co-parent "successfully".
Blessings to you 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I would definitely appreciate an absent father's perspective because I am sure they have reasoned it out.
Content I signed up for ❤😊😊😊 💯
Great topic, I learnt alot.
Enjoyed this on so much!!
"I'm breaking your "🤭
I died 😂! Glad he stopped it right there
I love it!
Lol Penuel, breaking your????? 😂😂😂😂
Talk about biting your tongue....
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Part 2 pls
I thoroughly enjoyed this episode 😅 I have 2 baby daddies, the 1st is my ex husband and we have 2 kids who come first so we have buried the hatchet and really work well together (even the wife, who was the side then but story for another day). Second guy yoh is a narcissist and makes everything difficult just because he thinks having a relationship with me is having a relationship with his child so he is an atm. My ex husband includes my son so I am kinda sorted and grateful ❤
Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing. And shoutout to your ex-hubby... really sounds like a keeper 🙏🏽
it really has to come about what we gents can call this thing of wanting multiple women to simply have kids with and how we can change the narrative for our women to understand it and not fight
Please expand on this? Not sure I understand fully.
@@nosisingakane889 I am basically trying to say that some people understand the importance of family building and values and some we have to explain our reality to..
What type of education does one need to explain that concept if they are not yet exposed to it..
Sbonge 🙌🏾
😂😂 Beautiful conversation. But really women always expect that their way should be thee way. I like how she reacted about a father sleeping naked with his daughter naked. What may be a norm to you, may be the opposite to a man's context. Let's all be open that what you are comfortable with is not normal to other people and vise versa.
Drop those pants 😂
Part 5
Vele we've really normalised the bad service abo mama, sisi, wives and girlfriends who work at government hospitals give to the public? I know it's not ALL of them who are guilty, but it's like a norm, like it is what it is? Ay noh kubi 😂
The struggle of abantu befuna to be white