Khushboo Sundar Opens Up On Being Sexually Abused By Father: 'If I Would Speak Up, He Would...'
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- Actor, BJP Leader and Newly nominated member of the NCW opens up to Barkha Dutt in an conversation that set agenda for national media, about being sexually abused by her father since the age of 8. She says she could only speak about it when she turned 15. Her father, also abused her mother, Khusbu revealed to resounding applause for her courage
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8 year old, this made me cry! how I wish I could hug that lil 8-year-old and rescue her out of the mess!
A man who doesn’t respect his mother will never respect his wife, sister or women in general.
@@supriyamehra4281 its really awfully sad. who puts son’s on a pedestal. It’s the mother/woman. It’s where patriarchy and misogyny stems from. It’s even worse if the role model, the father/husband is abusive. Long debate.
There is no correlation. There are men who worship their mothers but ill treat other women in their life.
No it’s not true! The man changes completely after marriage mostly u might have seen! The son who loved their parents will go against parents! Mothers .. it has happened in my own family! Man will continue to hate mother but loves his wife n daughters!
HAHA,... guys well said n true. Not far wen 'We THE MEN' will be organised.
It's not true.
I'm so proud of you to speak to us . I hope this helps more girls stand up and get ourselves out of toxic situations
I appreciate Kushboo’s courage. Kudos her👍🏻. Bold and brave👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Very courageous character to just come out with such disgusting acts done by her own father. Our women folk certainly deserve better in this age.
How can own parent even imagine thinking of hurting their child. Such sick minds.
It's a great thing after reaching a stature to speak about it...great example for people going through this now that kisi ke saath bhi ho sakta hai ...its not ur fault
God bless you dear khusboo... stay strong, the light within you is beautiful ❤
Respect!!
She is very very humble human being..That’s what I noticed when I saw her at Indore airport(June2023)..No VIP swag,smiling face and humble conduct…
Khushboo is a brave soul. Much to b admired.
Jesus loves you
It's a terrible situation. Deeply traumatic. How and when did your mother find out? A traumatic experience affects ones behaviour and performance at school and career.
Brave Khushbu Sundar (Nikhat Khan)💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪
Many thanks, to put forward the issues related to women in their life ...
I could see, that she has got a great husband, so that she can share this in public.
Why don't we cover her achievements as part of women's commission
THE CONFIDENT WOMEN, TOUGH WOMEN OUTSPOKEN WOMEN, Men cannot handle, I truly agree. But that doesn't mean I am a feminist...but I respect Men, they should be our head but has to give respect and take respect.
Very sad😢, my heart bleeds, brave beautiful lady. Tc
But Barka u remember karigal war😤
Disgusting. When Paters turn to Predators. Is her father still alive, if yes then he must be prosecuted immediately n punished bcoz if these heinous crimes go unpunished it will increase n she is the NCW minister now she must lead by example n find out all such cases n punish the rascals.
Yes imagine if he is alive and watch she is now politician. How ashamed he should feel
@@gn293 Ashamed no, scared. Coz these perverts, predators, paedophiles r actually cowards n Psychos n have no such emotion of shame. . They should b dragged on the streets n whipped publicly n then given capital punishment. Then c how these crimes will decrease drastically.
He deserves to be shamed
@@Angle86 Exactly. But unfortunately r society shames n victimises the victim. Especially children. That's y v youth must buck this trend n push for naming n shaming n demand for public whipping n capital punishment of these predators so that every one can enjoy a safe n happy childhood like ours bereft of psychological scars.
@@teeny2024 well the number is too big.. how many can u punish??.. its happening in every household.. what we can do is make our kids strong.. teach them to stand for themselves.. not ignore the signs of abuse.. not make the victim feel they did something to deserve this.. stand fr them..
Barkha Ma’am I have been trying to reach out to you through many mediums but now that I have stumbled upon this video pls try and reciprocate to me too as I too have a incredible life journey to share with you which include my sexual exploitation at several levels which I survived to gain education to get married to again attract the same abuse for 22 long yrs by the hands of the man I married and the kids who I mothered to finally step out of the toxicity in 2020 and ever since then exploited abused humiliated within the courts by the hands of the judiciary and there is no level where justice prevails .
I want this sad apathy to come in public so that more and more women get strength to gather the courage to fight it out to bring a change which will empower and inspire all the women of this country
Pls ma’am let me know how in can get in touch with you 😊
Dear, I am sailing in same boat as yours.... even though I proved that I was abused by my ex bf.. the police, lawyers did not to much... that's the faith of this useless society.. where's abuser in power pervades..a women is always considered weak n a easy target by anyone so she gets easily exploited..uff these men will be taught lessons by the own blood.. by there daughters hopefully.. it's still a long way..ppl who are already abused never got a chance of acknowledging that nor got a chance to speak about that..nor got justice when went to court n police..I feel sorry for them.. bcoz I am one of them.. the police is weak.. the lawyers for the sake of money can switch cases n parties.. there is no justice!! That's the truth.. animals will always be animals (man) ... may be that complusion of them to show power on women ( weak ) that's itself is a way of punishment for them to live !!
HMM A VERY HEART TOUCHING PAST OF KHUSBOO MAAM ...BUT THEN BEING IN THE BJP WHY HASNT SHE THOUGHT OF SPEAKING TO HER BJP MEMBERS TO BRING OUT A RULE TO SAVE A WOMEN CHILD FROM RAPES AND ABUSES WHY STILL NO STRICT RULES ARE BEING IMPOSED ON RAPIST ...SPEECHES ARE ONLY GOOD FOR TV SHOWS ...WE NEED SOLUTIONS
I am SO SO SO SORRY, Khusbhu maam. i am SO SORRY for what you have experienced!!
NOONE...NOONE DESERVES To go through this!
Very Brave Khushboo ji, Must be very diffcult.
I want to share what will you say if your own mother and sister left you alone after knowing that you are phisycal abuse by your in laws and they both kept quite just becaue they dont want she to come back to parent's house, told her brother and father and ask them to be quiet as well
is it worth she raised her voice or she should ignore or suicied or leave the place go hide ?
Surprised how naive people are. BRAVE? she has openup of an incident at age 8 in her 50s... WHY? pls understand.
The victim women should leave everyone including parents n parent-in-law's....cut all emotions n feelings n relationship with them,what z the point of living in those relations when they are fr bonding but only fr misery?! ....she should go away ,far from everyone,as much as possible....if possible take money n gold of her share n should leave....no one z going to help anyone , not family, not courts better start living alone somewhere else
2:41 If Khushboo was born into a Muslim family, how come her mother thought of her father as her god? Isn't that haram in Islam?
So this is what happens in your community but in our Tibetan society, there are no such cases of these things that we are proud of. I am proud of being a Tibetan. Long Live His Holiness the Great 14th Dalai lama.
Why the interviewer is so agresively excited in her tone
It’s true taking some one controlling abusive toxic manipulative on us very courageous
One thing I disagree with them is. How do they define beauty. I find all confident women beautiful. Problem with these women that they put there appearance in front also. Saying I am beautiful mean u r saying someone else is not
👌👍
Why do you think women who aren’t confident are not beautiful?
PLEASE address your jealous personality
Evil man should be in jail sicko
She should read Beauty for Ashes by Joyce Meyer
Please name your father, kushboo?
Khushboo is actually Punjabi Muslim and she is originally from Lahore. I was amazed to read this.
more power to you Kushboo ji 🙏
It’s sad about what she went through. But can I ask her why has she not stood up to the wrestlers who have faced a similar problem? Is it because he is a bjp politician? A woman should never have double standards. None of the women from the bjp have come forward in support of our wrestlers. That’s a shame. Hypocrisy!
Great she spoke up
what about kalalshetra,,& other BJP ladies harassment?
Why was she quiet all these years?
The so-called Christian nations are the most enlightened and progressive...but in spite of their religion, not because of it. The Church has opposed every innovation and discovery from the day of Galileo down to our own time, when the use of anesthetic in childbirth was regarded as a sin because it avoided the biblical curse pronounced against Eve. And every step in astronomy and geology ever taken has been opposed by bigotry and superstition. The Greeks surpassed us in artistic culture and in architecture five hundred years before Christian religion was born.
- Mark Twain, a Biography
I wish barkha would speak less and listen more. She is so quick to jump in and randomize the question. Really needs to back off. It’s annoying.
This attitude is especially among arrogant men as politician.
Brave lady🎉
How is this surprising! Coming from a South Indian mindset where you get married to your sisters daughter and a muslim on the top of it where cousin marriages happen all the time. How big a deal it is for fathers to see their own daughters as sexual objects. I am rather surprised that the uncle niece and cousin marriages are still at large and government laws are not strong enough to abolish these customs and young girls are at the forefront of it. The way in which a female child is exploited since inception is beyond my comprehension. How has one gender been assigned to another gender for so long?
Her childhood name was nikhat Khan was born in Muslim family
Not to say in other cultures it does not happen, But in Islamic culture particularly it is considered halal to beat up and use your women as you want even if the child happens to be your very own. Kudos to Khushboo for her courage
No sorry it is not ...
Please don't use words which you don't have read about much...
And beating women is not permitted in Islam
😢😢😢
Bravo 💪
Have you ever heard mother help to abuse her daughter
How her father used to abuse her, she should clarify that too!!!
She was psychially and sexually abused
People like you want kids and women to Shut up... Sorry your time is up. We are NOT going to shutup. Instead shut up your body parts
Are you a sexual voyeur, that you want to know details? Do you like to know such details about children?
I believe she was born Muslim, Nikhat Khan. Why doesn't she reveal that. How cunning? She said her mom believes" Mera pati Mera devata hai" . Muslim women believe that Allah ka hukam hai
Dont bring religion in this.. indias majority is hindu n their abuse towards their women is more in number.. its about men.. they just cant keep it in their pantsss..
Fanaticism is a curse... By all religious people. Please get help
@@Angle86 u did the same she did
But s not to bring religion here
@@rebel6042 i did the same to make her understand.. in the end i even said its the problem with men in general.. didnt u read that part😏
Wow beautiful and strong
Her name was nakhat khan.... Her mother nazma khan.... She doesn't want to reveal her crooked father name.... He was a peace loving... Faith person.. Ha ha
Exactly
Who
People like you want kids and women to Shut up... Sorry your time is up. We are NOT going to shutup. Instead shut up your body parts
Her being abused by her father was bad. She was Prabhu Shivaji Ganeshan's mistress, who hurt another woman.
Dude that's not as bad as being abused by your father. We trust our parents to look out for us. Prabhu isn't a child himself, he dated her knowing what's he's doing to his family and may be his marriage wasn't working out anyways. Putting this solely on her is unfair without knowing the whole picture.
@@cauliflowerhead2735 don't put more into my comment than intended. We are into right and wrong here, not the measure of it.
They were consenting adults. Who are u to use word mistress? Bloody misogynist
@@AyushGupta-rq4qu Bloody ignoramus. Understand and comment. Seems your education has been primarily by rote without understanding.
Is the word mistress okay? When we know the kind of negative views people have about this word because of history. She must not be getting dollars. Such harsh words should not be used on women.
Gud he left u all, my so called father didn't leave n stayed with us he was also very abusive, of course no molestation n all but he was a sadist n would scold me for even sitting, standing, laughing infact wen inwas a teen I had small pimples or bumps on my forehead n I bought a baby soap worth 25rs n had to get scolding throughout the month till it got over n I had a sister n she nvr ever came to my support ever she was so cool in her place that anyways he is not scolding me rt then y shud I even interfere
dont know why Khusbu is in Mojo. Barkha irrelevant to today's world
Not at all. Barkha is a real journalist ..she will continue to have more and more followers ..every person does mistakes..she did that as a young journo ..so what should she do
@@bonzoandfamily9091 i don't know what mistake she committed. did she repeat that mistake again and again
Very bold lady and bold enough to admite and say she is abused by her own father ok. Afterwards she is not abused by any one ? Why can't she admite the other side of her life and get the sympathy of the society ?
Only to barkha she can say but not to Chennaits 👍
Hey help yourself ..by thinking properly
@@amug3536 there are better things to think why should I waste my time by thinking of these useless talks. 👍😀
Many daughters are going thru this. They can't speak. No one ll trust them.
If ONLY many speak up and many women (esp mothers) believe and support each other
This lady in black saree… crappppp she has not seen discrimination until she became a legislature…does she live in India or mars? This is the quality of our rulers!!!!! Doom india!!!! - I am not commenting about khush but the lady next to her
Man,especially usalman
Not interested in Barkha Dutt.
We the women is a LGBTQ platform as cn notice colours in the background....
Elections are near
Kya Tu Election Mey Apne Ghar Ki Kisi Female Member ( Wife - Bahen - Beti ) KHADA Karega ???????
Perhaps you are one of the father!!!!
So
Do u have a daughter 😂
Gutkha dutta🤣🤣
What do you expect ? She looks upto mad woman Bachchan. There is jhanvi, the participant in her mother's murder also featuring majorly.
😂
I think she is just trying to get publicity. All of sudden her father abused her. These people will say and do things just to be recognized.
No one in the right mind would for fame bring out a disgusting behavior of her own parents She is already famous This revelation gives other women to be brave to face it Salute her
Wahoo you are effing sick 🤢 i pray you get some sense or see a doctor. Sicko
People like you want kids and women to Shut up... Sorry your time is up. We are NOT going to shutup. Instead shut up your body parts
You are a woman or monster ?
Must be because you are a rice bag that's why you want to be against a Hindu woman from a Hindu party even if what you're saying doesn't make sense.
Bhurkha ji, don't yell at the truth. The terms discriminations and racism are western inventions . for us it was part and parcel of culture, religion, qismat and god's will. Give the credit where it's due.
People like you want kids and women to Shut up... Sorry your time is up. We are NOT going to shutup. Instead shut up your body parts
What made her to open up abt her father now.......That too after a long period ...Women face a lot of harrasment n it's not a big thing....In day today life we come across with n number of incidents daily.....When the news in abt an women ....the news gets a lot of attention from public n becomes sensational.....But all such news doesn't impact the society ... that's the most unfortunate thing abt it....News vl b highlighted for arguments for n arguments against it n all of a sudden within days vl vanish by itself without impacting the society....
Kush has lost her credibility. Pls dig out her tweeter, she was 1000% against MODI wit a horrible tweet one day n next day she was 10,000% praises to MODI wen she joined BJP moving against her previous party. She has ventured every party in n out. She was in TEARS on national tv when Bilkis Bano rapist were released, but wen her own women colleague Gayatri Raguram was thrown out with sexual degrading allegations for re-tweeting, mind u, RE-TWEETING a tele conversation of a BJP party guy threating a BJP party lady of getting her raped in broad day light, cut her private parts n thown it on beach. Kushboo was physically unavailable on earth for the Porn-telecom n cries of Gayatri Raguram for sexual harassment by the party leader.
Trust comes naturally based on ones history.
@@dcuano3074 As a person, I personally sympathize Khusbu. Pity tht she had to undergo molestation in front of her mother n 3 elder broz till age 15. I can never forgive r consider her a mother for d torture she has allowed. Molestation is a nightmare for me. Anytym my children r a bit upset, my heart pounds till I clarify with them directly/indirectly like what happened at school, outside, friends. I'm an admirer of khusbu'z acting skill n still like her movies. Although itz her right to open up wen she wants, at tis juncture of her political situation, means somethings else. As a women, now a victim, atleast she shd have voiced out for Gayatri Raghuram (8 yrz active member, shez fighting all alone against total BJP at TN and shez openly harressed by BJP m ofcourse the tool is her chastity & character), her colleague in films n party; she shd have voiced out for Daisy-BJP (shez a doctor)wen was threatened openly on a telephone call by a BJP candidate to openly get her raped in broad sunlight, cut her private (using vulgur language) parts n throw them on beach. These r party atrocities against women, right in front of her in d same city in last one month and the issue is on. She conveniently chose to ignore. why did she not voice out r atleast comment? shez hasnt even spoken to the victims, her colleagues living next door.
Wit tis back ground, i cud appreciate Khusbuz acting skills at bharka show .... If u still feel I'm wrong... I'm sorry.....
Pls stand by Victims n help them appropriately, not people who play victim card for political gains.
People like you want kids and women to Shut up... Sorry your time is up. We are NOT going to shutup. Instead shut up your body parts
Divya, u included ur father into the category of Khusboos father, although u praised him to b a god. Say FEW or MOST of d men not MEN!!!! I'm a man, my dad is a man, my son is a man n we r nowhere close to what u r saying. Don't generalize. If u take pride in generalizing... then visit any newly married city bred man, visit police station to know more abt the attrocities of Most women.... not WOMEN, but most of Women now. Not far when men will have 'WE THE MEN' discussions.
Well i'm totally against male chauvinism.. but d discussion above is a feminist discussion. Sorry....
It was unfortunate if it was true. Father and children have most beautiful relationships in Indian Culture. If they are rich or poor, the Indian families show love and affection towards each other.
Unfortunately,She has come from a nasty family.
What do you mean by IF???
She didn't come from a nasty family, her father was nasty! Let's not blame the whole family for what a disgusting man the father was. Unfortunately there are many little girls, women, even young boys who have gone through similar situations whether it's India or other countries.
These women sat to talk about equality and when a man changes in same room they want to play the woman card
Make up your minds
Wha do you want
Best would be just don’t try to be men
Be women and achieve
Be a daughter and don’t be happy when someone says “this is my son”,
Don’t keep men in the dark about what exactly you want
Asking for equality does not mean woman should be forced to watch you expose yourself
@@wowser2153 exactly therefore equality doesn’t mean do whatever man does
The kind of equality these women are asking for is confusing men
Fact is you are women and men are men
Can be equal
Both have their own world so try to be best I. Your own world
Men never demand to be equal to women but women demand to be equal to them as then have inferiority complex and are not proud of being women and proud of their own world
People like you want kids and women to Shut up... Sorry your time is up. We are NOT going to shutup. Instead shut up your body parts
SOmeone who knows Khushbu and her family in her childhood can say that...
Khushbu is utterly lying... She was 11 when she did Dard ka Rishta movie as a Child Artist and she was 14-15 when she did Janu movie with Jackie Shroff as a heroine. What kind of struggle she faced?
In childhood she was living in one of the posh areas of Andheri West. The Man who introduced Khushboo as child artist was my distant relatives and also the school where khushbu was studying I was studying too (ofcourse i was quite junior).
Infact her Dad was quite gentle, timid and quite person and i have heard story from my relatives that all the family members, her mum, and others use to beat her dad and don't serve foods or anything else.
She is just making all these stories. She is saying she stood up when she was 15, howcome? she was 14 when she worked in movie as heroine and that too we heard the story that her mum gave her injection to get adult quickly. She is a big liar....
I don't think a women say lie about this.Btw u were living with her?
@@mermaidrose1659 Do you know her father personaly? why she will lie?
Please get HELP... And get educated!!!! MOST abusive men are quite and timid outside the bedroom!!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
If this is so, it is not up to you to say. It is up to her mother and brothers to come out and contradict her. The fact that they are silent proves that she is telling the truth. Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors, certainly not distant relatives as you claim you are. Stick to commenting about your own immediate family and what they did to you - that's all you're qualified to speak of. But nobody wants to hear it because you're not a celebrity.
Is he (Khusboo's father) still alive? Why can you not take him to court now and put him behind bars?
Would love to see khushboo parents on the platform also to stamp her side of story, let's get to transparency barkha...
Why would a child defame her own father?
You may doubt Khusboo but will you doubt the rest too.
It's easy for u to put out comments like this...learn to show some empathy
@@re-alm9731 Kush has lost her credibility. Pls dig out her tweeter, she was 1000% against MODI wit a horrible tweet one day n next day she was 10,000% praises to MODI wen she joined BJP moving against her previous party. She has ventured every party in n out. She was in TEARS on national tv when Bilkis Bano rapist were released, but wen her own women colleague Gayatri Raguram was thrown out with sexual degrading allegations for re-tweeting, mind u, RE-TWEETING a tele conversation of a BJP party guy threating a BJP party lady of getting her raped in broad day light, cut her private parts n thown it on beach. Kushboo was physically unavailable on earth for the Porn-telecom n cries of Gayatri Raguram for sexual harassment by the party leader.
Trust comes naturally based on ones history.
Only those who have suffered will understand
Get a life
Khushboo.. seriously.. this channel is stooping to such low levels...
Why though? It's her story and this happens. Kids are abused by people known to them. Stop living in your bubble.
क्योंकि तुम लोगों के लिए जो तुम्हारी भाषा नहीं बोलता तुम उसको ऐसा ही बोलते हो, तुम्हारे लिए वह लो लेवल ही होता है, लेकिन एक सड़क छाप फटीचर भी तुम्हारे लिए हाई लेवल का हो जाता है, अगर वह तुम्हारी भाषा बोलता है,या वो वह बोलता है जो तुम्हें पसंद है
People like you want kids and women to Shut up... Sorry your time is up. We are NOT going to shutup. Instead shut up your body parts
They should have called u to elevate in heights 😂