Life Lessons from my 46 Year Old Wife
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- Опубликовано: 30 янв 2024
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Candice made me feel so comforted when she was talking about how she felt at different points throughout her life. She’s always been so honest and genuine. Xoxo
no reply why ?
@@Iamdead666 My guess is because there's no tiktok people in Casey Vlog only old legend people 😅
true@@masterricks2622
“Sometimes the greatest impact to the world is controlling the mess in your bedroom, it makes you feel better”
I felt that
!!!
Clean your room! Possibly the most oft-repeated phrase 😂
That was philosophy gold right there.
Ikr, literally made me pause the video for a sec and take a moment 😅
I just love Candice. She never plays it up for the camera and she never tries to be anything other than herself. It’s so refreshing. I could listen to her little nuggets of wisdom all day. She is also so beautiful! Aging in reverse.
Agreed!!
Really
Yes her mind is interesting. Wisdom nuggets galore.
I wouldn’t say aging in reverse. I would call it aging gracefully. As far as I can tell, she’s not trying to pretend that she hasn’t aged like many other people try to do via social media.
I’ve always loved Candice. Role model
My wife and I have been together since we were 14, both 60 now. Life just gets better
Got a genuine question, how do make it last that long? With society now a days people want to cheat, sleep around, or change which make long term relationships not a thing how where yall able to over come that thx in advance
discipline and love for each other@@davson15
@@davson15 if you get married when both are virgins then the divorce rate is only 2%, it jumps to 45% if either one is not a virgin
My wife and I have been together since 15, both 30 now. Can't wait.
Chipping in here with having been together since 18, both 33 now with 2 kids. Truth be told, even when life is more difficult now (in terms of managing work, family stuff, money, etc.), our relationship is actually (much?) better now, than when we were young and childless, I think. I'm very grateful for what I have.
Don't give up, guys, work the issues through. Or - know when it's beyond saving, and end it fast, don't stretch the painful situation for years.
As a 26 year old, I’m living what she’s saying and sharing the same thoughts.
I am 58 when Candice described at 27 worrying about what other people thought about her oh how that rang true.
As I geo older I realised folk all to busy worrying about themselves to be bothered about what I was doing, how I looked or dressed.
I wish I could give my younger self that knowledge it would have freed up so much brain space and I would have been less stressed.
Please if that is a, area you worry about grab knowledge Candice, gave and what I am all my friends have learnt with age it is a magical feeling to think I will do me if someone dislikes what my dress style is that's ok I am not asking them to wear or llike it.
You are so young and who knows the path ahead there will be bumps and smooth patches but be kind to others and yourself and have no regrets 💜
@@hjcdormouse7337 Thanks for these words, I am 23 and feel a constant burden because of what people expect me to be and become, I hope I can let go of that feeling in next years. I have been doing so but it is a gradual process. The freedom you must feel when you 'simply don't give a fuck' must feel incredible
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Be kind to yourself if at 23 you are learning to as you wonderfully put not give a fuck you are on the right road.
I would say as long as you are kind to people and treat others, as you want to be treated if folks don't like something that is their problem.
It took me way to long to learn but truly the freedom is wonderful.
Is my life perfect nope I went from a fantastic career as a Nurse to being a patient and often bed confined for months and when up in a wheelchair.
I do regret time I wasted needlessly worrying and also not making me time to do things I loved like walking in rain and jumping in puddles lordi if I knew I could not walk in future you bet I would have jumped in many puddles.
So as I say we do not know path our lives will take so embrace life and if in doubt say Dormouse would say as long as I am kind and not hurting anyone don't give a flying fuck.
Go grab life and the idea you are a burden put out with the rubbish/trash... You go have a wonderful life so many adventures to have 💜
I'm 23, I just finished college and pretty much feel the same way. I don't know where I want to be or what I want to specialize in. Luckily I don't have to worry about much things, so I can explore a variety of career paths.
@@hjcdormouse7337 Thanks for your words
The juxtaposition between the old camera and new camera, but both being current footage, is so clever. Legend.
I turn 26 this month. I needed this today. Thank you Candace & Casey
HBD🎉 wishes
I just adore Candice. I always have. From the beginning of these videos, she's been real and honest and unapologetic. Everything she said in this video struck a chord with me, and as a 28-year-old her words have given me comfort.
Yes she’s so natural and beautiful ❤
So many things I loved about this video. The interview style with Candace, how real and raw her answers felt, the genuine discussion about therapy. Thank you for uploading Casey
I wish I can have a privilege of chatting with you
I'm 24 right now and those words from her hit hard. I've always heard that once people hit their 40s they are much more secure with themselves and care a lot less about the opinions of others. Thanks for the upload Casey
It’s so true. I’m almost 46 and wish I could take myself now back to my 20’s and do it better. Be a better mom, spouse, daughter, sister etc.
probably because kids get a lot of pressure put on them to become the best. when you’re old the pressure is gone (for most people)
Yeah being 25 right now, those words really struck hard. Not knowing what to do and stressing about future. Odd feeling
Not here to give real advice but once you ran the gauntlet of relationships and kids your threshold of bs is real low and you start not to care at all about others and what or what not they might think. Please be kind to others and good to yourself. Have fun along the way. Good luck
It's nice to enjoy self development after raising kids.
I'm at a turning point in my life. Separated from my wife. Failed business. Starting school again for a new career. This video is so timely. Thank you Casey.
Good luck man!
u really fkd up your life, eh?
Let’s go bro ! You gonna make it for sure!
You got this!!!! 🙌🏻
I’m rooting for you!!!!💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
My wife said "it is the length of our boobs."
38 extra long?😅
Our? 🤨
@@charlesafk2281 his wife was speaking for all women
You can fight a lot of things, gravity ain't one of them
the wiser, the saggier
Most sincere and kindest I have ever seen Candice. So nice to see you two growing closer and closer. She looks great
Casey pulling out the Nostalgia-cam. This is all sorts of meta.
The joy of reflection. Powerful. Thanks, Candice!
Man, this is really good. Thank you Casey and Candice. I'm 37 with four kids and definitely processing these same feelings and realities.
One of the first videos that I watched of Casey’s was when he surprised Candice in South Africa. Now years later it is great to see the two of them together sharing their perspectives on their family and life. What a treat it will be for their family to look back one day and see all of the documentation.
Gotta love a Neistat video out of nowhere! Thank you!
"sometimes the greatest impact is controlling the mess in your bedroom" such wisdom in that!
Jordan Peterson did a number on all of us, hasn't he?
This eased my anxiety so much. I’m 26 and worry about if I’ll ever have a family. Good to know someone as cool as Candace had the same thoughts and worries at my age 💜 thanks for sharing
Casey = Greatest Filmmaker on YT
Numero Uno
Honestly the moment he posts and I notice i'm earnestly thrilled as to what I will get to see from his mind camera and craft!
yes, yes.
could not agree more
He is trying to copy Emma Chamberlain and her style of video. The camera quality is awful in this and its nothing like his 2015 videos. Hence he is trying to copy Gen Z style
Love the deep, honest answers Candice gave. She is such a beautiful soul - I want to be friends with her! Thank you for sharing this video with us - it was so refreshing to watch! Lots of love! ❤❤❤
Hi Casey! I am going thru tough times both physically and mentally but just wanted to say your videos are one of the few things that always bring up my mood and make me feel more motivated for change. Thank You for that and i hope to see more of your uploads :)
One of the most blissful things about getting older is not caring what anyone thinks! Candice is so on point. We are all going to age and get older, but doing it as gracfully as possible is all we have control over.
This is so beautiful to hear her say to look back and see what we did.
Fastest human response to that notification
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Same I was so quick 😂
Same
I immediately clicked when it popped up 😂😂
We're athletes in this
This was fantastic so honest, open, reflective and thoughtful. Definitely one of your best works! Thank you for being so open for us.
I haven't watched a Neistat video in almost 8 years. Don't really know why I stopped. I thought about Casey and remembered I enjoyed his vids so went looking. Glad he is still around 🙂 I share that because this video of Candice is so interesting. "Don't care how I look or what people think as much any more". You are still beautiful Candice. It is so interesting to see people mature and become comfortable with themselves and life. It is so sad when a person gets older and they never really become adults. Great vid!
I love this. I turn 29 tomorrow. It’s good to hear this. I live for traveling and have lived in Mexico City for the past 4 years on and off.
wow, so young! happy for you.
Getting older is a blessing. I truly thought that I wasn’t gonna live until 25 when I was in high school and now in two years I’m gonna be 50 and this whole journey has been worth it and really fun at times
enjoy the journey, you're on a great route of opportunities
Enjoy every moment of it! Travel, eat food you've never tried, hug the people important to you. I'm going to turn 37 soon and im looking back to when i was 26 and i was sooo worried and anxious about everything, just like candice. i realized now, i shouldnt have been!
i turn 28 tomorrow, can't stop the time(
This is the phase of Life my wife and I are now in at 45 and 46 very relatable, also I remember when Casey hearted one of my comments, that was epic!
What a beautiful video. Thank you so much for sharing. The wisdom and reflection from youth ti motherhood and family is spot on. I really appreciated the slow pace of the conversation as well- it wasn’t rushed or choppy in the delivery and felt like a conversation vs an interview. Bravo and thank you! ❤
This literally brought me to tears... of joy. Wonderful words from a wonderful human being ❤
What's crazy is how every time you post a video it always seems to be in the right time in my life. Thank you for always staying positive.
Always good to see Candice in your videos; hearing her talk about her 20s and not knowing what to do, made me think about the stage I’m in right now: 22, and not knowing what to do either
Casey, your creativity always amazes me
Love ya.
So comforting to hear what Candice said about life, knowing it will be okay, all those worries and questions. Also love the honest advice on therapy
It's always a pleasure when you upload Casey. Thank you for everything you show and showed us.
The best constant on this channel has been Candace's authenticity. Great video.
Crazy how Franny will have all this footage to look back on, and see just how in love Casey was with her mum
I’m so grateful to be close in age to Casey and Candice. Even after watching them for years, it still hits in the feels just how perfectly they capture the Zeitgeist of our generation exactly as we’re experiencing it.
Life is so rich!
OK, you think this pair of millionaires represent a generation of millions still living at home with their parents, who cannot afford their own homes, who are in student loan debt they may never repay that gave them worthless degrees, living off credit cards and dying en masse in an opioid epidemic. You must be one of the lucky ones.
Much of what you said sounds like you're referring to Millennials. Candace is Gen X @@plica06
Jeez, what a great video. A little ode to your wife and amazing bond you share. Being reflective and growth from that Is for me the biggest achievement of getting older and I like it. Cherish what you have Casey, it shows like it is amazing and pure. I miss that and I am happy to see that it is out there ❤
Casey! Thank you for uploading this made my day
This lady aged like fine wine. You are lucky dude. She gave you her youth, the kids. Cherish every moment. Life passes by in a fluke.
I’m almost 20 and still look like a young kid
I don't think fluke is the right word...
@@cozyxstitchvibezyea that’s normal when you’re only 20
@@cozyxstitchvibez be happy about it, looking young is best thing that can happen to you
Im sure Casey becoming a millionaire through his hard work and sacrifice helps her too with keeping the youth and raising kids.
the joy of reveling in the life you created! Same here, now at 41. Candice has always been so effortlessly herself. what a testament to her upbringing. I've always admired her confidence.
My favorite videos are the most personal. I know it makes me a voyeur, but these more intimate videos really resonate. They seem the most genuine, human. Thank you for sharing.
This video was a great showcase of Candice's wisdom. the happiness of experience and the joy of reflection. Hope to be as content as Candice one day.
totally agree with the family part, 51 here, never been married, no kids, traveling the world almost freely, but having no "purpose" like a family or kids, makes it surprisingly challenging to find motivation sometimes. And yes, getting older gives way more IDGAS about what others think, rather prefer to be surrounded by a tiny circle of valuable people :-)
and when did that studio thing happened???? how did I miss that!!! the "back to the root" extension looks great!!!!
Any ideas about your future in maybe 20 years?
I’ve been watching y’all for years. And let me say it is so beautiful where y’all have ended up. I will forever watch your videos as a movie of the dream life I wish to have one day. Wishing y’all all the love in the world
The life lesson: Press record.
this tbh
Man keep your damn phones down and live.
THIS. 99.999% OF US ARE NOT LIKE CASEY! PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND LIVE !@@hogg1220
He has lived. Yall must not know him. Well
@@hogg1220you’re literally on your phone if you wasn’t you wouldn’t be able to comment 😂
Im in my early 40s, and so far it's turning out to be my best decade yet.
Such a beautiful content. Thank you Casey and Candice for sharing the perspectives!
She is so interesting and thoughtful and deep.
You're a lucky man to have met her Casey, and a strong one for having put in the work to be able to stay together this long the way you two do.
Love from Italy.
Thanks casey and candise for visiting my country DR 🇩🇴, happy birthday 🎉
Such a beautiful video, thank you both!!
this is the best video he ever made that I've watched, the context, the subject, the music, the type of the cameras and the editing style...even the sponsor. Thank you, greetings from brazil.
She is true to herself in every vlog/video, she is a part of. At times she is crazy wanting to be adventurous whereas the other times you can feel the calm and humbleness in her. Amazing!
Watching this at 26 before I turn 27 lost as ever- will I make it? It is a bit comforting to hear Candice’s words of reflection. I’ve always cherished her boss mentality and the way she carries herself. She will always be beautiful. I hope everything will work out for everybody struggling.❤
Same age as you and fighting with my own demons! Hopefully we both go thru it :)
26 .. 27 in May and I think about my future everyday.
Wow, I'm a lot like her. And I thought no one else was. Thanks for the therapy session!
Casey thank you for this. I have watched you for 12 years now and this is too notch you from one of those videos all the way back then. You continue being the best and retaining that 2006 RUclips vibe after all these years. Love yall.
Ever since I followed Casey many many many many years ago when I found his vlog and his business and his moving and seeing his wife on the vlogs, I have respected her greatly. Thank you Candace for your credibility and your honor and for your life lessons that you taught us today I’m 65 I can really relate. I’ve already been a mother, a successful business woman and I travel a lot now I’m also writing a book my best times are with my family and my children, who are now 32 and 39. Enjoy every minute that’s my go to. Thanks Casey. Love you guys. ❤
Been with my husband for over 46 years and still realize that we have so much more to learn about each other. 😁 Happy Birthday Candace!
So sad you never saw our blue sky!!! Nice video, as always and thx for visiting DR, you are welcome! ❤
I love Candice’s insights and her introspective mind. Her answers always feel authentic to who she is and what her journey is reflecting. I’m also happy to see she seems at peace. I guess seeing a video like this it’s cool to see the fruition of a marriage that’s been and being fought for as we all live in a society where it’s so easy for many people to just give up. What Casey and Candice have created and are nurturing is a great example, flawed as every marriage is, this is still good for society as a whole to see and I personally believe that the concept of family is worth the hardships that come along with what it means to love and sacrifice to keep that holy union alive and well. Thank you for this video and I pray that God blesses you more and more. I’m rooting for your success in life and the lives of your family.
I saw his post on IG and said I wish he would make more videos and BOOM! Thanks C & C Neistat for getting us through life with your awesome vids. Congrats
i LOVE how some old scenes mix with today's scenes.
Sometimes i could not tell the difference, maybe cause Candice looks awesome in all the footage or you made some editing magic - it just made the movie fun and intriguing to watch.
it's such a small detail but i love it, it actually defines the movie :))
When you're young, you live to make memories. When you're old, you live off memories you've made. This has stuck with me since the day I heard it from a wise older man.
So very true. My husband and I are both in our 60’s now and we love to remember our younger days.
Amazing wife you have, always so honest and fully relaxed, feeling just her own self at front of the camera. Thank you for recording and sharing her for us.❤❤❤
Casey you and Candace are a power couple... These questions really are questions we should ask of and "listen" to from our spouses. Thanks for demonstrating real commitment.
Awesome wisdom. Thanks for sharing
Quite possibly your best video yet and wow Candice has changed over the years, in a good way. You're still both very young. I will be 57 in a few months and my wife just turned 59. We will celebrate 19 years together in September. It just keeps getting better. Congratulations to you two. It's not easy but it's worth it.
Candace was in such a deep place ! Great to hear - super beautiful to see y’all chatting from such a deep place
Casey, those transitions between shots with the video lagging behind were so good. Keep adding to you and your wife’s life book. There’s so much more to live!
Kudos you two. You have "done it"! And the world, or a little slice of it, is better because of you. Many thanks 🙏
Watching Candice speaking spanish is a major highlight moment of this video.
I love all of her thoughts here! ❤ Thanks for sharing! I totally agree with so much she said.
Thank you both for living; and sharing your lives with us.
I've learned more about video production from Casey's videos than I would have from film school
Dang! Not a chance I would have thought she was 46! She looks great
Great Video, gives me comfort now that i am in my early 20's. You really got a great wife, she is just so honest and grounded.
love these types of videos Casey, you guys are really gifting us with perspectives on us young bloods! keep it up!
gosh, candice is sooo pretty
I’m sure she’s going to enjoy seeing her age in the title Casey 😆
What a cool gal. I can understand why she's the one you chose to spend your life with. I love that you bring us along on your growth and journey. I think you and Candice have a lot of wisdom to share, and great perspectives on life.
Great to see a new video!! Being 41 I’m in the same place right now and Candice’s answers summed up everything I’ve been feeling the past few years. We all need more Casey therapy!!!
I’m turning 46 this year, and it’s amazing how much I relate to this video! It’s so true, in your 40s you really don’t give a shite about what other people think, or sweat the small stuff. If only I knew what I know now when I was in my 20’s.
I also turn 46 this year (next week, actually 😳) and I feel the same way. Idgaf about anything small anymore. I care about my family first now. It used to be chasing money and success, but not anymore.
I thought she was in her 30s
Absolutely loved this video!! Been following forever and have to say this is one of my favorites. Real talk I love it! I’m 56 so I can relate! My daughter recently moved to Seoul South Korea after living in New York where she got her masters and it’s been the hardest thing for me literally! As a mom of 2 I get it. It’s hard when they leave the nest.
This was so insightful and thought provoking thank you for sharing!
Casey has never been a teenage girl so he does not know why a Mom is wondering when that day will come, lol
Few millions in the bank can help.
facts
This made me wish we had more in depth chats with Candace throughout the years, it was great hearing her thoughts. Great video, thanks!
omg Casey. You keep doing it! thank you for these delightful 8 minutes. keep rocking 👊🏼🙏🏼💜
CASEY 😎
0:33 she even look like 46 😂
I'm 26 watching this. Probably drinking too much and consistently worried about where tf my life/career/dreams are headed. Wow. Thx Candice.
Everything has changed… also, everything prevails intact.
Thank you, Casey. Always a great reference for filmmaking.
Damn, what a bummer. Normally I love Casey's videos but really hated the format of this one, and then to endorse such.a shitty therapy company? It's not like Casey needs the money!
what you mean you try to get away once a year? you are multi millionaires with nothing but time, Get real.
If you have a family and live in New York millions are more like 10's of thousands. The cost of living there is just stupid. Families are demanding and getting away alone as a couple is challenging.
Yeah I was about to say. Also, Candice comes from a rich South African family. Her precious advice is as irrelevant as can be.
Loved this video! Candace talking about the joy of reflection reminded me of a quote from Desperate Housewives - "You know you've hit middle age when your memories become more important to you than your dreams." There is something comforting to me that the need to keep searching for the next thing usually calms as you get older. I think it may also have something to do with feeling content in where you are in life.
i feel like this video was a therapy session i needed. Having Candice in these videos is really comforting,
Casey, I get you're just trying to make some extra money, but betterhelp literally stole my money and left me in a worse place than before. Please do some research on the brands you work with.