TIMESTAMPS First of all, make sure that a stranger is following you 1:05 Pretend to be unaware 1:30 Cross the street 1:50 Turn around and look at your stalker 2:30 Contact friends and relatives 3:00 Call the police 3:36 Scream, yell and make as much noise as possible 4:14 Run away 4:33 Don't head for your home 5:34 If the criminal gets ahold of you 6:14
Also if u have a key chain with multiple keys out a key in between each finger if someone attacks you jab them with your fist the keys will hurt and distract the attacker
A woman once asked me to walk with her and pretend to be her friend because someone was following her. And since so many of you have asked, yes, I did the whole tie-my-shoe thing and walked with her. No problem for me. He was a weedy little shit. 😼
I remember this one time my friend and I were just turning round and round this block because we had nowhere to walk to and we just wanted to walk and there was this one person we thought was following us. After like half an hour we saw that person again and he screamed ran away while we also screamed and ran away. Turns out he thought we were stalking him and we thought he was stalking us but we were all just taking a walk.
You should help him how about he needs help? Like for his knowing people how about he wants to but food every homeless is not bad black hoodie man is the dangerous ever
OK, sorry but as a person without a car, don't call family or friends to meet you. Why put them into any danger? Just call 911. Years ago while in a store, someone was becoming violent and directing it at me. I had my young child with me so instead of going thru the store trying to lose them, I stopped where all the registers were, screamed as loud as I could, and pointed the assailant out to the now quiet store. Security came and took the person away. If you think you're too shy to do this, remember the one trying to do you harm won't be shy when they are hurting you and your loved ones.
Your summary advice encourages unnecessary and wasteful use of the service, unless it's obvious as in your situation; the odds of someone experiencing something as blatantly dangerous as your experience are extremely remote. What I'm saying is, call if you *legitimately* need help. If not, then your call just endangers others who *need* the resource that you unnecessarily have taken "out of service".
This isn't a joke: it's a true story that happened to me: I was walking home from school and I saw this guy on the other side of the road, he looked way older than me, so I knew he wasn't in secondary. He looked like he was around 36 maybe older. I started walking a bit faster, and then he crossed the road, to be on the same side as the pavement as me. Then he started running after me. I was like 8 at the time so the only thing I could think about was running too. The worst part is that I was in an area where there were barely any people. I tried to do the classic thing which was turning right every time I came to a turn. I got to an area near a bus stop and I went to a lady who had a child that was around 6 so I assumed she was a mother. I told her what happened and she started calling the police but she told me to go home and tell my parents. It's now the reason why I never walk alone anymore. I saw the police arrive a little later and I saw the guy run away, he had literally no chance of not getting caught because police were on both sides of the road.
I was followed one day by a man, I was just a 6th grader coming home from school, I was alone, my friends had other work to do, and I was hearing loud noises like "Come child" and other noises. I got the courage to look back, and he was wearing everything in black, except.. he had a bandana to cover his face. I started running to my market, since it was the only thing I knew at the time, and I told the cashiers to call the police. I saw him standing in front of the market, but he was too afraid to enter. A tip for others, look for markets and contact police there
I heard woman screaming help, I ran to 3 men one of which had a woman in a neck lock, I told him to let her go which he did, rather than 'Thank you' being her first words, they were 'Get him'! They were running towards me and pulling something out their pockets when just by luck Police arrived to a different incident, and they ran off. Don't assume you're not the target.
If you aren't sure someone is following you, walking or by car, take four right or left turns if safe to do so. Be careful not to accidentally put yourself in a dead end. Essentially you'll be walking/driving in a big square. If they're still there, chances are you're being followed. Next thing you should do is go to a public place, a gas station for example, and ask an attendant or employee for help. This has saved some of my friends and family members from potential harm.
Yall if you have nothing at all here’s some tips: Kidnapped: try to get your kidnapper to trust you, be friendly with them and follow their instructions. If they’re violent try and escape in the ways you can. If they trust you they might let you walk around. Whilst they aren’t there dial a family member or your country’s emergency number. Stalker: Follow the instructions on the video cause that’s pretty much right. Attacker: don’t be afraid to fight back, use keys as weapons and another good thing is to punch them in the jaw as that can make them pass out. If that don’t work you can just poke in eyes, kick in the shin, if it’s legal to carry weapons and you have a weapon, USE IT!! Just a few facts lolol
Yep thats good btw if your hands are tied up with tape then put your hands up with your elbows as wide as possible then put yourself ur hand down fast and the tape will brake off if you do it right.
Tip: if someone is following you in a car, run, and turn around, it will buy you some time to get away quickly, because you are faster than a car when it comes to turning around Edit: ty for all the likes!! I didn’t expect it!
KitKat Karlberg u could walk into them if they r right by the sidewalk, if they r by the walk, ask a friend to pick u up, but use strange phrases, most people will realize something is wrong and call the police for u and tell them where u r
And if you think they're going to wait outside for you, wait for someone to enter the restroom, explain your situation, and ask them to walk out with you and maybe stay with you in a public place for a while until you can call a friend or family. Also, before you exit the restroom, ask them if they saw the stalker outside the bathroom. Even if the answer is no, ask for help.
If your being followed: Take a bunch of selfies (maybe you'll catch your stalker) FaceTime somebody (maybe the stalker will run away) If you see police cars, officers etc. Go near them (The stalker will probably run away)
I was very recently approached in a very uncomfortable situation. Stay in the lights. Try to find security cameras. He asked me if I was alone. I lied and said my husband was just around the corner.
You know what I would say? "Why you wanna know?" He would definitely say nothing about it and just walk away. But it's indeed pretty scary and you don't have much time to answer so... You did good there! 😆
I have a tip my mum said to me and I want to share it: If you're being followed or you think you are, it doesn't matter, say 'hi auntie!' or 'hi grandpa!' or 'hi bro' to any stranger you see. It's better if the stranger is an adult. Then run to them and tell them about the situation. They will let you be with them. Because if the stranger following you will think that it's your grandma or whatever, he won't try anything. But trust me, if you are or look like you are ten or less years old and someone will be dragging you to some house or something, nobody will find it suspicious. Yeah, it is like that. Because they'll think that it's your parent dragging you home. And even if you'll be screaming for help. Well I hope this will help but I hope it won't be necessary for anyone to use the tip!
@Erick Soto yeah, but that's unlikely. Search for women, especially older ones or ones with little children, there are much less of women kidnappers then men ones.
I’ve heard that if someone is dragging you to scream “I DON’T KNOW THIS PERSON!!!” Even if they are someone you know, like a boyfriend. If you are in danger, you make that known.
I once saw a story about a man followed a woman so the woman walked into police station but still the man walked in like he’s not suspicious at all. The woman told the police that the man followed her. Then the man walked beside her and said she is my girlfriend, she just mad at me and want me to stay away, the man started to drag her out but she insisted she is being stalked and refused to leave the police station. The writer end the story. I wonder the police believe whom. I think police will believe the girl. Better safe than sorry.
On multiple occasions ive 'called' my football player of martial artist boyfriend/friend to tell him I'm just down the block and to come meet me so we can head out to some event right away. In niether of those cases did I have a boyfriend or friend with either occupation, but the threat of both apparently was significant enough to dissaude the guys.
Random advice : You could pretend to take a selfie and make sure that the stalker's a part of the picture or at least in the corner of the picture. You could stand beside a black car and if the stalker's behind you, pretend take a photo of the car. Their reflection could be on the car somehow. It's easier for the police to believe you.
Or just take the pic of them flat out and tell them you sent it already when they get angry and attempt to steal the phone, which they will. If they think they are already identified it may deter them from attempting to harm you. They have an extreme disliking to being photographed in the act of perpetrating even minor crimes. Your picture idea is a good one. Use it as leverage but expect an extreme reaction.
Tip: This isn’t a commonly known fact; the soft area under your chin that’s surrounded by your jaw is one of the best places to strike someone with keys or even a blunt stick or fist . The area is very vulnerable and is easy to cut and will stop your attacker from breathing for a bit or if done hard enough can be fatal.
I have tips!! Plz EVERYONE read this comment!! Tips!: *Bring pepper spray! *If u need to give them EVERYTHING u have to get away! *If u have keys, put them in between ur knuckles/fingers! *Don't fight the attacker until they start attacking u if u haft to and u know they are gonna attack, fight them first! *Call or text ALL the ppl who can protect u! Thanks for reading! I want everybody to be safe! 😊 Edit: Plz reply if u have more! Edit 2: Thx for 61 likes Edit 3: Thanx for 100+ likes!! Edit 4: For all the people who r saying it's "have not" not "haft" go to quick typing school lol Edit 5: i didn't mean to be mean to anyone i was just trying to get people to stop replying that i spelled something wrong Edit 6: thanks for all the likes 🙃 I just want you guys to be safe!!
ok i love the tips and all but if u stab the follower with ur keys what will u have to say to the police? "oh its okay i took care of him" *find urself behind bars* and maybe even if u explain the truth like i was protecting myself u can be in jail for like a month but yeah still.
Start a live stream or act like it.... Like talk to your phone and move it around getting different angles so that they get scared about getting caught on camera following you. See if they get in or out of a car that appears to be theirs or maybe stolen and copy the license plate number down. Maybe call an Über or try to catch a bus and get away from the person. Also try to get pictures of them incase something happens. Or act like your on the phone with somebody. Another one is try and start walking faster until your jogging. Always carry some sort of sharp object like keys or a pocket knife. Another thing that is a loud sound that could scare them is have a box of pop-its in your purse and grab about five and chuck them at the ground and it should scare them away, or atleast startle them. Anyways thats all I have I hope you enjoyed. ❤
If someone is trying to grab u or hurt u, don’t yell HELP! Because that sometimes makes people around u think that u r just in a fight with a boyfriend or friend or someone else u know.... it’s better to yell BACK OFF! Because that will most likely to attract more attention.
if someone is near by, most likely if u scream, they will not help, 80% of people will not help you.. instead of screaming for help.. say "you" and point at the person. The person will feel responsibility to help, also scream FIRE if ur somewhere in a neighboor hood, mall, parking lot, etc. the person will be alerted that something is happening and when they come they will se you and so step one, point and say "you", if your lucky.. the stalker/predator will notice that someone saw them and will run away. run to ur nearest police and tell them what happened.
If you are on your phone and you see someone following you, pretend to take a selfie, but aim the camera slightly behind your shoulder so you can see your stalker. You can also use keys and put them in between your fingers like wolverine claws. Remember, the second amendment is the right to keep and bear arms. Don't be afraid to carry around things like a taser. Just don't accidentally sit on it in your car... ;-;
Well i think my mom doesnt want me to carryy taser because here i think tasers are not allowed to my age cuz well here weapon stuff is very different than in america but you can still carry knife
Scratch them a lot. You'll have DNA maybe even blood. Plus the attacker will have to hide this or even get medical help, making them much easier to catch.
Was on my way home once, where there was a group of guys who seemed to be looking at me. They didn't seem like criminals, but they didn't seem like good people either. Regardless, I walked passed them with music in my ears and once I walked passed them, I slowly saw them following me. Then I immediately walked faster, and saw them walk faster. Once I reached the pizza place close to my house, I started running to my door quickly opening it. Phew, this is probably the most problematic stalker situation I've ever had.
Running home was the best choice. Usually I just kick or turn around (I'm very tall so sometimes it works). But these are only options for one stalker. You did good there! 😆
I've heard you shouldn't run home but I imagine in the situation it must be hard not to. Well done for getting away man and mai thing is you're safe :)
@@Zalidia Absolutely not! A stalker has the potential to be something worse if you allow it to happen. It is very possible that a stalker's purpose for following you is to locate your house, so they can then not lose track of you.. The many possibilities unfold. Please be careful, but careful also means smart, in this case.
I was in Washington DC with my mom last year. The tour guide dropped us off the bus at our hotel around midnight. The tour guide legit flipped his hoodie and started walking behind us into the hotel lobby. We both immediately knew what was going on and decided to take action. We pretended that we lost our keycard and we couldn’t get it. The security guard slowly walked in and he got scared and left. One of the most scary moments of my life! Good thing I’m an actor omg
sean mahoney is an actor, but this guy isnt him, he has 7 subscribers, no tick next to his name, no profile pic (im sure all celebs hav one) and 1 playlist called christmas songs i think(i cant remember wat it was called) and no videos, but he could of meant hes an actor as in, hes good at acting
Tip: Ask them if they seen something that you "dropped" and get a good look at them and walk far behind them and look around. If they are still following you, turn around and up to them and say "why are you following me" and if they get closer to you open hand them in bitren the eyes and punch them in the stomach and run. Then alert the police.
1. if being followed in a car, how to be sure is to go around in circles or unpredictably take lefts or rights. If they do the same its most likely they are trying to stalk you. 2. if walking around a neighbourhood and you feel someone is following you, walk up to a random doorstep as if you were planning to meet someone in the random house. This will tell the stalker that you are not alone, this might work.
I'm scared if I'm being followed by a car cause they could bring a gang with them and...TRAP U!
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I was being followed. (I turned right 4 times and he was still there) then i happend to have a knife. I walked in an empty street. I pulled out a knife and i was checking knife out. (i am sure he saw a knife) and turned around and gave him a deadly look. He stopped,turned around and walked away.
That might be scary for you to witness im sorry..😢😔
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It was scary, but he couldnt do anything in public, so i took advantage of that, then when i found out i have a knife, i got in the empty street and scared him. The key is not to panic
Apperently... I don't need a knife to scare stalkers or bullies. I forgot who but someone told me that I'm so tall I just have to turn around and look em in the eyes and then look very serious. But yeah a knife works well too! 😆
hold on. Let me dig that out of my back pocket. fire extinguisher....no. that one tennis shoe I lost five years ago... no. Pepperoni pizza.... yummy but no. Oh here it is! BAM!!
If anyone comes with a car and you are a child and they tell you come with me because your mother is in the hospital or for whatever reason. Then just say "no" and go away. I they are still following you then scream and when somebody comes to help you the stranger will go away. Make sure to remember how you're person looked and then go to you're parents and they can call the police.
Our family had like a password thingy... Once a “police officer” came to our high school to pick us up saying that our parents were in a car crash and he got told to pick us up. So, the I said what’s the password and he was like what and then another “police officer” came and he had a gun, dagger and a thingymajig. So I just brought my siblings to my teacher and she took us to the hospital, we asked if our parents were there, she called 999 and took us home.
That was an example for an excuse to stop. Remember, before anything, you are trying to make sure the person is actually following you or not. In a public place with many people around, if you stop, the stalker wont grab you because there will be a lot of people already, but if the stalker stops when you do, it means you're being followed. You can also stop for taking random selfies or simply just "angling your phone to get better network" in order to confirm the visual appearance of the stalker, by selfies you have photographic evidences too. Another excuse will be to just "wonder about directions", look around as if you don't remember the direction and are looking for it then you suddenly recall the right one. To the stalker, this would justify your zig-zag route and give you more time. Additionally, you can approach anyone else on the street, appearing to discuss directions by pointing directions while secretly telling them that you are being followed. By being aware but acting unaware he means that you should be aware of the stalker but you should'nt let that person know you are, especially in less crowded places, by this you reduce the chances that he might come running at you for a last chance. You appearing unaware, the stalker would feel that there's no need to hurry into action and you infact would get more time to craft an exit plan. One more thing. Do not call anyone while the stalker can see you. This will alert the person making him attack sooner as the help will take atleast some little time to come. Remember, the stalker is the most desperate person in the world, don't give any excuse to hasten things up. Simply ask your contact to call you via SMS or just add an alarm for 2-3 minutes later to appear as an incoming call and you can call your contacts. Talk casually, laughing and smiling while telling the situation. The stalker mostly will be in line of sight but not in range to hear you speak in low volumes.
I was attacked in a very small community , result : hospital, scream, yelling, nobody was on the street, just lucky, 1 car passed by but to afraid because it we're 4 people, woke up in ambulance, the 2 people in the car said that all to the judge, I won off course, but it's not easy if 4 people wants attack you
I remember one time I was walking home from the bus stop and this random dude grabbed me (I was 13 btw) and then I kicked him in the “groin”, jabbed my fingers in his eyes, and bit him and he let go and I ran away...
This doesn't have anything to do with the video. Well, maybe. But if a stranger ever starts pulling you somewhere and puts their hand over your mouth: 1: Kick your legs because you could kick them. 2: If their hand is over your mouth, bite their hand 3: If you have the chance to turn around, kick their knee. (It's a weak spot)
Ilove Elaine It's pretty easy to block a kick to the nuts and it doesn't impair their walking for that long at all. A hard kick to the knee makes it difficult to move quickly for a few minutes. Both knees would be ideal but only if the first kick has him all the way down.
If they grab your form behind kick back (kinda like a horse) Your legs will be on the same level as there. The inside of the leg has a lot of nerve endings so hurts ALOT Plus, the kneecap will break if you angle the side of your shoe into it. You sweep there leg out easily by kicking the back of the ankle, and if you kick the back of the knee their leg will crumple or they'll at least stumble. AND legs are really hard to defend especially without martial arts or combat training, even more so if there holding you with there arms as a natural response is to block with hands. So yeah, legs are good.
Yell and point at the stalker and say “THIS PERSON IS FOLLOWING ME!” And keep on saying it until he or she go away or when another person comes and ask you about it.
Once i was at home a burgler came to my house and tried to hurt me but one thing that he didn’t expect is that i have a pitbull. My dog was at my room and when i noticed someone was in the house i ren to my room as the burglar chasing me than i opened the door and my dog ripped his arm.
Katie Holt You can't do that. Dogs and people are allowed to harm those who commit breaking and entering and attempt of robbery. The dog and all people who harmed you would be justified in court.
If someone is following me, and is very near ( near enough to hear whatever i would say) i will stop by a near by restaurant and pretend to look for someone. Then I will take out my phone and dial 911. "Hello? Where are you?" I would say. In order to give out my location, i would say "Didnt you remember? (Place where im at) !! Thats where we shouldve met."
Once a stalker started following me and my phone's battery was dead. When I realized that someone is following me, I went to a crowded area and intentionally started walking towards a wrong way. He started walking behind me on that way too so I turned and went back to the same crowded area again. When he again followed me, I turned back and stared at him, just to make him realize that I am aware of it. With an angry look, I took out my dead phone from my pocket and pretended that I am dialling a number. While staring at him, I pretended that I am complaining someone about this. Within the next 10 seconds, that person ran away! 😀
i heard this thing so you know if someone is followiing you so what you do is turn around a corner four times (until your back where you started) if they still follow you then there definitely stalking you
A little boy came running to me i said whats wrong where are your parents? He said i dont know but a strange man was following me i said where? He pointed at this hella tall dude wearing a blue hoodie covering his face and blue jeans and red sneakers and he was fast walking i was worried so i told the boy to say MOM MOM A STRANGER IS FOLLOWING ME out loud and he did it then the stalker turned around and fast walked back. So i took this boy to the police and told them everything and they said some parents came crying for their lost child so i was surprised so the police called the parents and it was the little boy’s parents!( i got the stalker’s info to the police and they found him walking at the area i met the boy he was actually a kidnapper that has never been caught). So i got rewarded 10,000$ dollars.
That’s very unlikely, then it’ll be very obvious that the person is following you. They’ll get unwanted attention which they try to avoid at all costs. Unless they’re very idiotic criminals.
me:hello 911 im being stalked and im worried about my dear life 911:ok sir i need u to tell me here u are me:......a street 911:which street me:u got GPS just track me and send help now 911:......ok...
i got followed once while walking back home from school. i looked back a couple of times and even crossed the street twice without even needing to. so he kinda knew that i was aware of him following me. weirdly around the church in our town was crowded. i stopped there and watched him walk right pass me while looking at him in the eyes. dude speed walked so fast i didn't have time to blink
Stop and get your phone, turn it on and contact a friend or family member. Doing so most likely will make them leave you alone. Pretend to be talking to someone if you really got no one. And do not always, take the same path you always do, change it and at other times call for a ride home. If you for sure got someone following you call the police on the spot 911 in the US, they will ask for the location be sure to know where you are. If you do not want to cause too much attention while you wait to notice if you're being followed, turn your cam recorder on to record or voice recorder if you'd like. One or more keys are good for protecting a bit, place each key between your fingers quickly ready to strike. Buy Pepper Spray or a Taser, could be purchased on Ebay.com or Amazon.com keep them in your bag or pocket at all times.
This one time me and my sister were being followed by a man. We crossed the street and went into a crowd. But then he crossed the street too still trying to look and follow us. Then we started walking home and he jumped out of a bush and started walking towards us. He saw use go into our house but there's always someone there plus we have 2 dogs and 2 cats who know what the word attack is. Yes, are cats know how to attack people
If I were to be fallowed I would grab my phone go to video and say , " hey guys welcome to my Livestream"! And just keep talking. I'm 💯% sure that would scare them off.
Another tip is that if you aren't sure someone is following you, turn 4 left turns of 4 right turns, making a loop. Nobody would go in a loop unless they were following someone
One time I saw this chubby guy checking out my mom at Chipotle and as he was staring at her I kept staring back at him with a weird look on my face. He stopped after that...
I always have my keys (with pepper spray attached) ready and out when I exit a store or building. When walking to my car I look around my car to see if any van or big suv is next to me...people get stolen by people with those sliding door vans. I also look for people say in their car like waiting for someone....never look at your phone when walking either that makes you a target because you are not paying attention to your surroundings. Lock the doors when you get in your car immediately and if you are out at night park in a well lit area not in the darkness behind a building. Always have the mindset that you are being watched...and don’t dilly dally outside your car or shopping center go straight to the car and lock it.
Put ur phone in ur back pocket so the cameras facing them and record them. Cross the road loads and if they follow u they are stalking u. U will have proof as well cos ur vidioing them
Sooo,if I was being followed/stalked in a public area I would most likely scream FIRE! But if I wasn't in a public area I would do these steps,use the women fighting tactics,in a video by you a while back and most likely bite them if I had to face them,my sister was bitten by me once...she started to bleed,my poor sister,anyways really helpful vid!and I hope no one has to face a situation like this.
The changing appearance thing works a lot for me. Whenever I wore a jacket and I was playing hide and seek with my friends, I would just take off my jacket and take out my spare one. They didn't catch on for two years because I always switched back to my original jacket, so they never knew I had a second one.
Or just get a conceal carry permit for a handgun. If you don't live in the US then at least have some form of self-defence, like learning martial arts or carrying pepper spray, a tazer or a knife. It is your duty to always defend your own life! "Seconds count when the police are minutes away".
The British Patriot UNLESS your a middle, elementary, OR sometimes even high schooler you can't Look students can't carry weapons so we can't have any hanguns ya know? Anyways if you a student I would say to just run to the closest store and say your being stalked
Jmj Mjm - that's a fair point! If you're too young to carry a weapon legally, then learning martial arts or running away to safety as fast as you can and screaming loudly, are really the only alternatives.
I am an 12 year old and I have been followed 2 times by the same man after school, and I was in my bike both times but he also had a bike so I just tried to peddle as fast I can home luckily I’m safe. And I don’t usually like talking about this but I don’t want anyone to have the same experience as I did.
*im depressed* forever if you can’t change your attitude, see a therapist. This ain’t genetic. I know Latina girls, they can change their attitude just fine
One time after a party ut was 3am as I walked home. During my walk I had to pass my old gradeschool, a small sports center, a lake nearby home and an elderly center. On my home I passed the sports center and noticed that someone walked behind me, quite closely I should say. I noticed this by making a small gesture for correcting my hair and after a few extra steps near the lake I decided to cross the road to a small row of buildings where I took a short leap and hid. The guy following my wore a light brown Stone Island jacket, a black hat from probably deus ex, nike sneakers, and skinny jeans. He had his habds in his pockets the whole time. I watched him from a distance behind A fence, one with those small splits you can look through. He took his phone (I took note this was an Iphone) and he called someone and what made it even more horrific for me was that that he described what I looked like, clothes and everything. Now this is where it all may starts to sound like I make this up. But I actually walked up to him.and asked him why he was following me. It all turned out he was actually a police officer and he followed me to check on my destination. His fellow colleagues arrived in a real police car, explaining the situation of an earlier event happend in the streets I passed and they were looking for the perpetrators. A verry odd event. But one I felt like sharing due to me finding this video :)
Okay, I think I remember this one time I was getting stalked by these girls.... But they didn't "attack" me, they were "messing" with me by calling my name back in high school....
I was once followed in an airport (if anyone's ever been to china airports, its near the gates where people wait for their plane in that really small space) and it wasnt one person but it was a whole group of men. By that time i was just 13 and i remember my mom crying and asking a few people that looked trustworthy for help to watch me. Luckily because so many people were keeping an eye on the followers till the point that we were in the plane, they didnt do anything to me, but it was scary asf and kinda traumatizing for a 13 yearold
Come on, this story is a bit ridiculous. You and your mum could get help from anybody worked at that airport. Your mum just needed to let the staff know. And anyway one chinese man looks exactly like another, so you most likely saw always different men but you were in a wrong belief that those men were the same.
Melba 10 no bc the staff only spoke chinese and although you would think staff members would be multilingual, they didn't understand a single word of what we were saying. And the people following me werent chinese, not even asian, but Egyptian or Saudi Arabian or smth
Me and my cousin are still kids, we are not teens, and we go on walks or runs alone sometimes, and I get so scared I look through every crook and cranny in the woods while walking, (considering the woods are next to the road) and I always make sure the brightness on my phone is down all the way to save battery in case I need to call my mom or dad for help. These 2 things may sound silly, but may save your life one day.
ok i have 2 ideas that i'm pretty sure haven't been commented before. you could turn around and ask them for bus money or like money for gas and give a reason like "hey, i just lost my job could i have a few dollars to take the bus" and that way they'll know that you have nothing worthy on you and probably just leave you alone.And my 2nd thing is you could always dress a little bit less fancy when you're by yourself or if you're not gonna plan on meeting up with someone.
prabhji kaur . ya you could like carry around a cardboard box that says “no money plz offer” and if the stalker walks away get up and run in the other direction. Your idea is genius thank you
Random person: *grabs you* Me: *falls to ground screaming and pretending to be insane and have schitzophrenia Random person: o fudge *DASI RUN RUN RUNS* Me: *does victory worm*
TIMESTAMPS
First of all, make sure that a stranger is following you 1:05
Pretend to be unaware 1:30
Cross the street 1:50
Turn around and look at your stalker 2:30
Contact friends and relatives 3:00
Call the police 3:36
Scream, yell and make as much noise as possible 4:14
Run away 4:33
Don't head for your home 5:34
If the criminal gets ahold of you 6:14
BRIGHT SIDE that is really going to be usful
This will help me I have a very dangerous neighborhood
BRIGHT SIDE don’t ring police with stalker near you he or she will know try do it in a cafe
BRIGHT SIDE is it for lady?
Also if u have a key chain with multiple keys out a key in between each finger if someone attacks you jab them with your fist the keys will hurt and distract the attacker
A woman once asked me to walk with her and pretend to be her friend because someone was following her.
And since so many of you have asked, yes, I did the whole tie-my-shoe thing and walked with her.
No problem for me. He was a weedy little shit.
😼
K August what happened? Did you walk with her?
Basic boy scout behavior.
If u did u are a brave dude
Player, is your theory that she's working you on a con? Brrrr.
The Ultimate Player Naah.
I remember this one time my friend and I were just turning round and round this block because we had nowhere to walk to and we just wanted to walk and there was this one person we thought was following us. After like half an hour we saw that person again and he screamed ran away while we also screamed and ran away. Turns out he thought we were stalking him and we thought he was stalking us but we were all just taking a walk.
Angel BK OMG 😂😂😂
Angel BK lol this is funny
Omg😂😂😂😂😂😂
XD I'm just thankful the three of you were fine xD
Angel BK lol
Bright side: when you see a stalker don't panic
Me: Screams and runs faster than the fastest human. 😂
that's what panic means tho xD
@@ΕλένηΚούλη-ε7γ that was the point😔😂😂
@@ΕλένηΚούλη-ε7γ r/whooooosh
Lol
Lol
I got chased by a homeless man today, that was one of the scariest moments in my life
He probably wanted food
/ is he away or not
69th like
Woah
You should help him how about he needs help? Like for his knowing people how about he wants to but food every homeless is not bad black hoodie man is the dangerous ever
OK, sorry but as a person without a car, don't call family or friends to meet you. Why put them into any danger? Just call 911. Years ago while in a store, someone was becoming violent and directing it at me. I had my young child with me so instead of going thru the store trying to lose them, I stopped where all the registers were, screamed as loud as I could, and pointed the assailant out to the now quiet store. Security came and took the person away. If you think you're too shy to do this, remember the one trying to do you harm won't be shy when they are hurting you and your loved ones.
JadeStrawberry well said agree with you
Smart
Well done.
Your summary advice encourages unnecessary and wasteful use of the service, unless it's obvious as in your situation; the odds of someone experiencing something as blatantly dangerous as your experience are extremely remote. What I'm saying is, call if you *legitimately* need help. If not, then your call just endangers others who *need* the resource that you unnecessarily have taken "out of service".
Read what I said. If you can't do that, then don't speak. It's better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.
This isn't a joke: it's a true story that happened to me:
I was walking home from school and I saw this guy on the other side of the road, he looked way older than me, so I knew he wasn't in secondary. He looked like he was around 36 maybe older. I started walking a bit faster, and then he crossed the road, to be on the same side as the pavement as me. Then he started running after me. I was like 8 at the time so the only thing I could think about was running too. The worst part is that I was in an area where there were barely any people. I tried to do the classic thing which was turning right every time I came to a turn. I got to an area near a bus stop and I went to a lady who had a child that was around 6 so I assumed she was a mother. I told her what happened and she started calling the police but she told me to go home and tell my parents. It's now the reason why I never walk alone anymore. I saw the police arrive a little later and I saw the guy run away, he had literally no chance of not getting caught because police were on both sides of the road.
Were you OK I feel really bad for you especially that you were only eight years old
Wow that must have been really scary for you to experience as a little girl
@@CR-wi6eo no age should have it actually
Oh my goodness
I was followed one day by a man, I was just a 6th grader coming home from school, I was alone, my friends had other work to do, and I was hearing loud noises like "Come child" and other noises. I got the courage to look back, and he was wearing everything in black, except.. he had a bandana to cover his face. I started running to my market, since it was the only thing I knew at the time, and I told the cashiers to call the police. I saw him standing in front of the market, but he was too afraid to enter. A tip for others, look for markets and contact police there
11.Always keep a pepper spray in ur bag
I do bring some lynx when I go around the town
*glock*
Grandma have peper spray
Free knives anyone?
or have a weapon for safety :)
I heard woman screaming help, I ran to 3 men one of which had a woman in a neck lock, I told him to let her go which he did, rather than 'Thank you' being her first words, they were 'Get him'! They were running towards me and pulling something out their pockets when just by luck Police arrived to a different incident, and they ran off. Don't assume you're not the target.
That must have been scary 0-0
So they tricked you?
so the woman was with them?
Yep! So they're sure to pull that trick again.
I've heard this before. It's scary to know you can be deliberately put in danger for a good deed.
If you aren't sure someone is following you, walking or by car, take four right or left turns if safe to do so. Be careful not to accidentally put yourself in a dead end. Essentially you'll be walking/driving in a big square. If they're still there, chances are you're being followed. Next thing you should do is go to a public place, a gas station for example, and ask an attendant or employee for help. This has saved some of my friends and family members from potential harm.
Cheyenne R.C you got this from kutie, right?
Sugar Face don't you mean Kyutie
sup_its_pkelly 13 yeah I forgot how to spell her name
Sugar Face don't worry, i use to spell it like Kyotie😂😂😂
Yall if you have nothing at all here’s some tips:
Kidnapped: try to get your kidnapper to trust you, be friendly with them and follow their instructions. If they’re violent try and escape in the ways you can. If they trust you they might let you walk around. Whilst they aren’t there dial a family member or your country’s emergency number.
Stalker:
Follow the instructions on the video cause that’s pretty much right.
Attacker: don’t be afraid to fight back, use keys as weapons and another good thing is to punch them in the jaw as that can make them pass out. If that don’t work you can just poke in eyes, kick in the shin, if it’s legal to carry weapons and you have a weapon, USE IT!!
Just a few facts lolol
Right
I will just take a pepper alway
I did not say that it was my little sister
Yep thats good btw if your hands are tied up with tape then put your hands up with your elbows as wide as possible then put yourself ur hand down fast and the tape will brake off if you do it right.
thankyouu
Normal person being followed: "Oh no!"
Me being followed: "Yay time to test out my spy skills!"
ya mee to
Me too 😅😅😅
interesting name ya got der🧐
LOL SAME
mee too
Tip: if someone is following you in a car, run, and turn around, it will buy you some time to get away quickly, because you are faster than a car when it comes to turning around
Edit: ty for all the likes!! I didn’t expect it!
K
KitKat Karlberg u could walk into them if they r right by the sidewalk, if they r by the walk, ask a friend to pick u up, but use strange phrases, most people will realize something is wrong and call the police for u and tell them where u r
That’s what I’ve done and it works
KitKat Karlberg ty
Or instead shoot the car, likely in the engine or the windshield, the tire is also a good choice
I was being stalked when I was 13 and I yelled at them:
'DORITOS SMELL WEIRD, JUST LIKE YOU.' and they ran xD
I wish i could give u 1,000 likes rn
I want to be your friend just cause you seem as weird as me, I wish I could’ve seen that
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣bro you deserve alot likes
Hey Sans, how's Papyrus? =)
Ha ha! That was funny.
Tip: If your a different gender than your stalker, use a restroom.
hahaha no joke tho good tip 👌🏼
Yep
And if you think they're going to wait outside for you, wait for someone to enter the restroom, explain your situation, and ask them to walk out with you and maybe stay with you in a public place for a while until you can call a friend or family. Also, before you exit the restroom, ask them if they saw the stalker outside the bathroom. Even if the answer is no, ask for help.
thanks, princess Saria .
Lol logic
If your being followed:
Take a bunch of selfies (maybe you'll catch your stalker)
FaceTime somebody (maybe the stalker will run away)
If you see police cars, officers etc. Go near them (The stalker will probably run away)
Haley M Straine thank you :D
Wut if u don't have a phone and no cops around
fisheryyouth pretend you have a phone by using something of similar shape
Thx 4 the tips
Ty
If you dont go outside ... no one will follow you. Tried it for years, very easy and working way :)
aya aya yeah i know, like the safest place in the world is our moms basement
aya aya i live there because i am 15 so you
How I will get food?
Joy Active Professional Gaming your mom buys it for you
Hawcun you have understood the secret my friend
I was very recently approached in a very uncomfortable situation. Stay in the lights. Try to find security cameras. He asked me if I was alone. I lied and said my husband was just around the corner.
Wow that would be scary!!
You know what I would say? "Why you wanna know?"
He would definitely say nothing about it and just walk away.
But it's indeed pretty scary and you don't have much time to answer so... You did good there! 😆
Quick thinking
@Melina CoviYeah.. But if it would get more dangerous, just kick stalker in DA FACE
Once I had a nightmare about being kidnapped
I have a tip my mum said to me and I want to share it:
If you're being followed or you think you are, it doesn't matter, say 'hi auntie!' or 'hi grandpa!' or 'hi bro' to any stranger you see. It's better if the stranger is an adult. Then run to them and tell them about the situation. They will let you be with them. Because if the stranger following you will think that it's your grandma or whatever, he won't try anything. But trust me, if you are or look like you are ten or less years old and someone will be dragging you to some house or something, nobody will find it suspicious. Yeah, it is like that. Because they'll think that it's your parent dragging you home. And even if you'll be screaming for help.
Well I hope this will help but I hope it won't be necessary for anyone to use the tip!
What if they're friends 😖
@@madaiheenandez3931 well, then you are one of the unluckiest people on this planet. But if you end up alive, you can write a book about it!
@Erick Soto yeah, but that's unlikely. Search for women, especially older ones or ones with little children, there are much less of women kidnappers then men ones.
Thats an awesome idea
I’ve heard that if someone is dragging you to scream “I DON’T KNOW THIS PERSON!!!” Even if they are someone you know, like a boyfriend. If you are in danger, you make that known.
Go into a Police Station, they won't follow you into a POLICE STATION. I mean, what stalker would go into a Police Station
a really weird one, that's who lol
a police stalker
Because police stations are just on every block of a city....
Epico Piano one with an iq of 63😂💀
I once saw a story about a man followed a woman so the woman walked into police station but still the man walked in like he’s not suspicious at all. The woman told the police that the man followed her. Then the man walked beside her and said she is my girlfriend, she just mad at me and want me to stay away, the man started to drag her out but she insisted she is being stalked and refused to leave the police station. The writer end the story. I wonder the police believe whom. I think police will believe the girl. Better safe than sorry.
Lol I called my dad and said "Hi daddy, you know, can you come here cuz some weird idiot is following me" and I turned to this person. He ran away :_:
On multiple occasions ive 'called' my football player of martial artist boyfriend/friend to tell him I'm just down the block and to come meet me so we can head out to some event right away. In niether of those cases did I have a boyfriend or friend with either occupation, but the threat of both apparently was significant enough to dissaude the guys.
Katelyn Dawbar my dad is a police officer xdddd If i call him that means i call the police xd
You should have told him to bring a .50 cal. and some CZ scorpion
Lol
it was me i just wanted to chat
Random advice : You could pretend to take a selfie and make sure that the stalker's a part of the picture or at least in the corner of the picture. You could stand beside a black car and if the stalker's behind you, pretend take a photo of the car. Their reflection could be on the car somehow. It's easier for the police to believe you.
B.R.A.I.N.
I wouldn't even think about the reflection of the black car or the selfie one
Or just take the pic of them flat out and tell them you sent it already when they get angry and attempt to steal the phone, which they will. If they think they are already identified it may deter them from attempting to harm you. They have an extreme disliking to being photographed in the act of perpetrating even minor crimes. Your picture idea is a good one. Use it as leverage but expect an extreme reaction.
and then send it two a friend of family
Bright Side : Don't take martial poses if you don't have the slightest idea how they work.
Me : never mind...
Me: JOKES ON YOU BRIGHT SIDE, I WENT TO TAEKWONDOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Tip: This isn’t a commonly known fact; the soft area under your chin that’s surrounded by your jaw is one of the best places to strike someone with keys or even a blunt stick or fist . The area is very vulnerable and is easy to cut and will stop your attacker from breathing for a bit or if done hard enough can be fatal.
Helpful. Thank you.🙂
Rani Aleida Mariano
you shouldn't really say you're that young but oh wel..
I usually have a knife on me,but if I dont I usually jab the neck
Other times just yell "911", that can cause people to call 911 for help
Thanks for the tip! I’ll use it next time I go to Walmart! 😂
Rani Aleida Mariano then you wouldn't be able to do that if you're nine
I have tips!! Plz EVERYONE read this comment!!
Tips!:
*Bring pepper spray!
*If u need to give them EVERYTHING u have to get away!
*If u have keys, put them in between ur knuckles/fingers!
*Don't fight the attacker until they start attacking u if u haft to and u know they are gonna attack, fight them first!
*Call or text ALL the ppl who can protect u!
Thanks for reading! I want everybody to be safe! 😊
Edit: Plz reply if u have more!
Edit 2: Thx for 61 likes
Edit 3: Thanx for 100+ likes!!
Edit 4: For all the people who r saying it's "have not" not "haft" go to quick typing school lol
Edit 5: i didn't mean to be mean to anyone i was just trying to get people to stop replying that i spelled something wrong
Edit 6: thanks for all the likes 🙃 I just want you guys to be safe!!
ok i love the tips and all but if u stab the follower with ur keys what will u have to say to the police? "oh its okay i took care of him" *find urself behind bars* and maybe even if u explain the truth like i was protecting myself u can be in jail for like a month but yeah still.
k'sahn Washington 😥
*Kick them were it hurts.
Lollipop Gamez w/ friends ya lol
Animallover 14 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Start a live stream or act like it.... Like talk to your phone and move it around getting different angles so that they get scared about getting caught on camera following you. See if they get in or out of a car that appears to be theirs or maybe stolen and copy the license plate number down. Maybe call an Über or try to catch a bus and get away from the person. Also try to get pictures of them incase something happens. Or act like your on the phone with somebody. Another one is try and start walking faster until your jogging. Always carry some sort of sharp object like keys or a pocket knife. Another thing that is a loud sound that could scare them is have a box of pop-its in your purse and grab about five and chuck them at the ground and it should scare them away, or atleast startle them. Anyways thats all I have I hope you enjoyed. ❤
Marshmallow Fox AJ go into your camera and if you have a iPhone bring it up to your ear and talk and use the volume buttons to take photos.
Marshmallow Fox AJ thanks for tip
I mean tips
Pretend to take a selfie😂
Or actually take a selfie 🤳 and get them on it!
Pastel Wølf AJ Don't take a pocket knife it is illegal even for defense.
Pepole: shout HELP ME!
Me: HIT OR MISS???
Kar Wai Leong I heard yelling FIRE works best
Yell fire
I play Hit Or Miss
If someone is trying to grab u or hurt u, don’t yell HELP! Because that sometimes makes people around u think that u r just in a fight with a boyfriend or friend or someone else u know.... it’s better to yell BACK OFF! Because that will most likely to attract more attention.
I’ve taken self defense classes and that’s one thing that ur instructor may tell u to say when someone is attacking u.
It's also best to yell *FIRE* because that's the best way to get help from what I learned in karate.
I would just go to a random person and pretend they are my friend... Stalkers seem to usually attack people that are alone.
must be embarrassing...
Smart, just say "Listen, i think someone is following me, i need you to pretend i know you" and they will have to play along
@@PrExists ikr
pick a big guy if possible
if someone is near by, most likely if u scream, they will not help, 80% of people will not help you.. instead of screaming for help.. say "you" and point at the person. The person will feel responsibility to help, also scream FIRE if ur somewhere in a neighboor hood, mall, parking lot, etc. the person will be alerted that something is happening and when they come they will se you and so step one, point and say "you", if your lucky.. the stalker/predator will notice that someone saw them and will run away. run to ur nearest police and tell them what happened.
XxCoolGurl_ AlexxX you got that from weingie
Adeline Faris yes I am and maybe them so what?!?
Sometimes when strange man stare at me I probably give an angry look so they turn back
that's a pretty cool move or sharp whatever u like
Someone following me.Me:Turns around and walks backwards.
Smart Enough the best comment
Me: *walking backwards*
Follower: *looks at me like im crazy*
Me: *dabs and calls 911*
Lol I'd do that too
Yeah and act if you have a gun or if you have a gun say hay want a bullet in your head
Underrated comment 😂
I pray and ask God to protect me before i leave out!😊
God bless you dude! :D
dee dee johnson yeah thats right 😀😀😀
dee dee johnson Amen
Yea... that'll really help,
dee dee johnson same
If you are on your phone and you see someone following you, pretend to take a selfie, but aim the camera slightly behind your shoulder so you can see your stalker. You can also use keys and put them in between your fingers like wolverine claws. Remember, the second amendment is the right to keep and bear arms. Don't be afraid to carry around things like a taser. Just don't accidentally sit on it in your car... ;-;
hehehehehe yeah
EnderCookie345
Or u culd act like ur on the phone with someone but have ur camera up instead. While ur "talking to someone", u take their picture.
EnderCookie345 Yup
EnderCookie345 lol
Well i think my mom doesnt want me to carryy taser because here i think tasers are not allowed to my age cuz well here weapon stuff is very different than in america but you can still carry knife
Scratch them a lot. You'll have DNA maybe even blood. Plus the attacker will have to hide this or even get medical help, making them much easier to catch.
But it can potentially backfire. The attacker might be stronger than u putting u at a disadvantage. It's best not to resort to brawling at first.
Was on my way home once, where there was a group of guys who seemed to be looking at me. They didn't seem like criminals, but they didn't seem like good people either. Regardless, I walked passed them with music in my ears and once I walked passed them, I slowly saw them following me. Then I immediately walked faster, and saw them walk faster. Once I reached the pizza place close to my house, I started running to my door quickly opening it. Phew, this is probably the most problematic stalker situation I've ever had.
Running home was the best choice. Usually I just kick or turn around (I'm very tall so sometimes it works). But these are only options for one stalker. You did good there! 😆
I've heard you shouldn't run home but I imagine in the situation it must be hard not to. Well done for getting away man and mai thing is you're safe :)
@@Zalidia Absolutely not!
A stalker has the potential to be something worse if you allow it to happen.
It is very possible that a stalker's purpose for following you is to locate your house, so they can then not lose track of you..
The many possibilities unfold. Please be careful, but careful also means smart, in this case.
I was in Washington DC with my mom last year. The tour guide dropped us off the bus at our hotel around midnight. The tour guide legit flipped his hoodie and started walking behind us into the hotel lobby. We both immediately knew what was going on and decided to take action. We pretended that we lost our keycard and we couldn’t get it. The security guard slowly walked in and he got scared and left. One of the most scary moments of my life! Good thing I’m an actor omg
OK then let me Google u
Lucky u not to scare you
sean mahoney is an actor, but this guy isnt him, he has 7 subscribers, no tick next to his name, no profile pic (im sure all celebs hav one) and 1 playlist called christmas songs i think(i cant remember wat it was called) and no videos, but he could of meant hes an actor as in, hes good at acting
Digital TheIdiot I’m a local actor and I perform in local productions...lol actor doesn’t mean famous
Pretty sure that's not true it would be on the news gurl
If someone comments "OMG IT WORK" then there is something wrong with your life
OMG IT WORK
OMG IT WORK
OMG IT WORK
OMG IT WORK
LOL XD
When you have a pocket knife but then in these situations you forgot to bring it.
Right!! Or pepper spray bro worst fear
Lets be honest. We are gonna 100% forget these tips and freak out hard af
Naturally
Not me
Ucharlie thats so true
But im not that person that forgets everything only a little things
MastiffPug Gamers so true
If someone tries to take you're wallet or phone, you can just take a backup wallet that has fake money or a backup credit card that has no money
The Phoenix bruh thas smartttttt💀💀
That’s actually smart but what if they look in the wallet before they leave then u dead
Jamilla Panisan You put fake money in the wallet.
Ashley xox but what if they notice that’s it’s fake money so ya
Put a flashbang in your wallet.
In this situation what you do is turn around to face the attacker, realise who it is, and tell your ex to get a life !
Mxddie L03 LOL!😘
Haha
Mxddie L03 lol
Ikr ! 😂
Mxddie L03 lol haha
Tip: Ask them if they seen something that you "dropped" and get a good look at them and walk far behind them and look around. If they are still following you, turn around and up to them and say "why are you following me" and if they get closer to you open hand them in bitren the eyes and punch them in the stomach and run. Then alert the police.
So what if the stalkers and thugs are watching this.. O. o
omg.......
Drake Myers 😅😅😅
Trixie Velvet ikr
Then that would explain all of the dislikes this video has gotten.
They're onto us
1.
if being followed in a car, how to be sure is to go around in circles or unpredictably take lefts or rights. If they do the same its most likely they are trying to stalk you.
2.
if walking around a neighbourhood and you feel someone is following you, walk up to a random doorstep as if you were planning to meet someone in the random house. This will tell the stalker that you are not alone, this might work.
I'm scared if I'm being followed by a car cause they could bring a gang with them and...TRAP U!
I was being followed. (I turned right 4 times and he was still there) then i happend to have a knife. I walked in an empty street. I pulled out a knife and i was checking knife out. (i am sure he saw a knife) and turned around and gave him a deadly look. He stopped,turned around and walked away.
That might be scary for you to witness im sorry..😢😔
It was scary, but he couldnt do anything in public, so i took advantage of that, then when i found out i have a knife, i got in the empty street and scared him. The key is not to panic
why and how did you have a knife
Apperently... I don't need a knife to scare stalkers or bullies. I forgot who but someone told me that I'm so tall I just have to turn around and look em in the eyes and then look very serious. But yeah a knife works well too! 😆
LOL
If they pin you, arms close to neck, slip out and grab a frying pan,repunzel style 😂
Omg yes
Trueeee
hold on. Let me dig that out of my back pocket. fire extinguisher....no. that one tennis shoe I lost five years ago... no. Pepperoni pizza.... yummy but no. Oh here it is!
BAM!!
I cant think of a lamer joke than that one
MinecraftGamerDaily 9 what if I don't have a frying pan
If anyone comes with a car and you are a child and they tell you come with me because your mother is in the hospital or for whatever reason. Then just say "no" and go away. I they are still following you then scream and when somebody comes to help you the stranger will go away. Make sure to remember how you're person looked and then go to you're parents and they can call the police.
I'm not dumb my mom told me to never talk to strangers and I never do and one never came up to me anyways but I'm already 11
Sree Ramamoorthy Swayampakula im 12
Our family had like a password thingy... Once a “police officer” came to our high school to pick us up saying that our parents were in a car crash and he got told to pick us up. So, the I said what’s the password and he was like what and then another “police officer” came and he had a gun, dagger and a thingymajig. So I just brought my siblings to my teacher and she took us to the hospital, we asked if our parents were there, she called 999 and took us home.
+T- Let'sPlay im 20
Chrystalla Inglis R.I.P Chrystalla is probably dead by now
Stop and tie your shoe? And you’ll be... Easy to grab.
Act unaware. Show your aware?
Rebekah Wolkiewicz I’m confused too
Confusion!
Rebekah Wolkiewicz you stop and tie your shoe you gotta untie it the you gonna run and face plant then your done
That was an example for an excuse to stop. Remember, before anything, you are trying to make sure the person is actually following you or not. In a public place with many people around, if you stop, the stalker wont grab you because there will be a lot of people already, but if the stalker stops when you do, it means you're being followed.
You can also stop for taking random selfies or simply just "angling your phone to get better network" in order to confirm the visual appearance of the stalker, by selfies you have photographic evidences too. Another excuse will be to just "wonder about directions", look around as if you don't remember the direction and are looking for it then you suddenly recall the right one. To the stalker, this would justify your zig-zag route and give you more time. Additionally, you can approach anyone else on the street, appearing to discuss directions by pointing directions while secretly telling them that you are being followed.
By being aware but acting unaware he means that you should be aware of the stalker but you should'nt let that person know you are, especially in less crowded places, by this you reduce the chances that he might come running at you for a last chance. You appearing unaware, the stalker would feel that there's no need to hurry into action and you infact would get more time to craft an exit plan.
One more thing. Do not call anyone while the stalker can see you. This will alert the person making him attack sooner as the help will take atleast some little time to come. Remember, the stalker is the most desperate person in the world, don't give any excuse to hasten things up. Simply ask your contact to call you via SMS or just add an alarm for 2-3 minutes later to appear as an incoming call and you can call your contacts. Talk casually, laughing and smiling while telling the situation. The stalker mostly will be in line of sight but not in range to hear you speak in low volumes.
easy to grab or be Analed
I was attacked in a very small community , result : hospital, scream, yelling, nobody was on the street, just lucky, 1 car passed by but to afraid because it we're 4 people, woke up in ambulance, the 2 people in the car said that all to the judge, I won off course, but it's not easy if 4 people wants attack you
What?
I didn't understand a word...plz type clearly
This is a mess. I'm glad you survived
Shoganai Shikataganai
Good thing u survived
I remember one time I was walking home from the bus stop and this random dude grabbed me (I was 13 btw) and then I kicked him in the “groin”, jabbed my fingers in his eyes, and bit him and he let go and I ran away...
fatality!!!!
Where are you really stopped were you scared
Thank you for this! I hope I never have to use these tips though!
Samantha Torres same here
Samantha Torres always remember t
Wise words Samantha
Samantha Torres i
Samantha Torres god
This doesn't have anything to do with the video. Well, maybe. But if a stranger ever starts pulling you somewhere and puts their hand over your mouth:
1: Kick your legs because you could kick them.
2: If their hand is over your mouth, bite their hand
3: If you have the chance to turn around, kick their knee. (It's a weak spot)
Kk B More like the crotch hurts the most...just kick them in the nuts until they scream and cry like a baby 😌
Ilove Elaine It's pretty easy to block a kick to the nuts and it doesn't impair their walking for that long at all. A hard kick to the knee makes it difficult to move quickly for a few minutes. Both knees would be ideal but only if the first kick has him all the way down.
Or try and crawl or run behind them, bash their head if you can, and then knock their knees from the behind
Kk B Why to kick your leg?
If they grab your form behind kick back (kinda like a horse)
Your legs will be on the same level as there.
The inside of the leg has a lot of nerve endings so hurts ALOT
Plus, the kneecap will break if you angle the side of your shoe into it.
You sweep there leg out easily by kicking the back of the ankle, and if you kick the back of the knee their leg will crumple or they'll at least stumble.
AND legs are really hard to defend especially without martial arts or combat training, even more so if there holding you with there arms as a natural response is to block with hands.
So yeah, legs are good.
Yell and point at the stalker and say “THIS PERSON IS FOLLOWING ME!” And keep on saying it until he or she go away or when another person comes and ask you about it.
BlinkxOncexArmy Aghase did I say at the person ? I said at your stalker. Only say that when a person is following you.
The Great Mighty Yoshi
only if you're sure.
I watch these videos to see if it helps with my fear but it is making me more scared 😂 😟 😢
Me too
Me: see's teenagers walking to wards me I clench my fists and think oh for god sake not this.
I know how you feel
Sugashooky Me too
Same I used to not be so scared of this stuff but then i saw this vid and went. “Some one is stalking me?”
Ye same 😂
Hence the reason my dad carries a bat with him every time our family walks
*Im actually not kidding.He really does.*
Oh my
U wot m8!?
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! O_O
You sure its youre dad and not a random police guy who makes sure while you're father really died that you won't notice
(Joking)
My dad doesn't need a bat, he has 12+ years experience in Muay Thai and Jujitsu
*grabs the stalkers ear * okay ur coming with me to the police station NOW
xD funny
Mounir Maziri me😂😂
thats the spirit
Lol
Time out
The people who disliked this video are stalkers
good joke
Cute we bare bears picture
Ahhh welp,time to watch this video again
true
😂😂😂😂
*Runs at the stalker grabs ear and yells intensely*
If ya gonna grab them by the ear ya gotta say something like "Just wait till your mother finds out what you've been doing!"
@@sheilarowe7529 youre killing me here man-
Once i was at home a burgler came to my house and tried to hurt me but one thing that he didn’t expect is that i have a pitbull. My dog was at my room and when i noticed someone was in the house i ren to my room as the burglar chasing me than i opened the door and my dog ripped his arm.
drahmet1976 If i were the guy I'd get the court to order the dog to be put down
Katie Holt You can't do that. Dogs and people are allowed to harm those who commit breaking and entering and attempt of robbery. The dog and all people who harmed you would be justified in court.
drahmet1976 OH JEES
drahmet1976 thx now I'm gonna buy a pittbul
Oh um-
If someone is following me, and is very near ( near enough to hear whatever i would say) i will stop by a near by restaurant and pretend to look for someone. Then I will take out my phone and dial 911.
"Hello? Where are you?" I would say. In order to give out my location, i would say
"Didnt you remember? (Place where im at) !! Thats where we shouldve met."
lol I know this is off topic but I luv ur icon!!!!!!!! seven deadly sins is life
Mi Casa thanks so much! I can say the same as yours
thx :3
Wendy Marvell thank you for the advice
Ahh... so the police would know where you are... clever
Once a stalker started following me and my phone's battery was dead. When I realized that someone is following me, I went to a crowded area and intentionally started walking towards a wrong way. He started walking behind me on that way too so I turned and went back to the same crowded area again. When he again followed me, I turned back and stared at him, just to make him realize that I am aware of it. With an angry look, I took out my dead phone from my pocket and pretended that I am dialling a number. While staring at him, I pretended that I am complaining someone about this. Within the next 10 seconds, that person ran away! 😀
Inshu Wadhwa congrats, as a male I am worried the same will happen to me even if not as common but I will use your tips
Awesome story!! You are so genius! :D
Thank you. I think your tips are really helpful. I don't think a usual stalker would stop at nothing to attack you, no matter what you do.
i heard this thing so you know if someone is followiing you so what you do is turn around a corner four times (until your back where you started) if they still follow you then there definitely stalking you
A little boy came running to me i said whats wrong where are your parents? He said i dont know but a strange man was following me i said where? He pointed at this hella tall dude wearing a blue hoodie covering his face and blue jeans and red sneakers and he was fast walking i was worried so i told the boy to say MOM MOM A STRANGER IS FOLLOWING ME out loud and he did it then the stalker turned around and fast walked back. So i took this boy to the police and told them everything and they said some parents came crying for their lost child so i was surprised so the police called the parents and it was the little boy’s parents!( i got the stalker’s info to the police and they found him walking at the area i met the boy he was actually a kidnapper that has never been caught). So i got rewarded 10,000$ dollars.
Princess well not really😂😂
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If you feel a car is following you immediately sprint in the opposite direction the car will have to stop and turn around and you can get away
Wagwan Wagwan If there is nothing behind them, they can always reverse instead of turning the car around.
India Salmon yeah but it will be hard for them to reverse and if you take as many turns As you can, they will struggle to keep up
Wagwan Wagwan good idea
That’s very unlikely, then it’ll be very obvious that the person is following you. They’ll get unwanted attention which they try to avoid at all costs. Unless they’re very idiotic criminals.
me:hello 911 im being stalked and im worried about my dear life
911:ok sir i need u to tell me here u are
me:......a street
911:which street
me:u got GPS just track me and send help now
911:......ok...
If they are following you do a back kick 🦵 🙂➡️😣
Tracking takes time...
Dis ain't no movie
What if a stalker watches this video?He /She will surely be cautioned!!!!!
The dislikes explain it
Robber: Give me all your money!
Me: Okay! I’m sorry. **Holds out bag**
Robber: **Reaches for it**
Me: **Smacks him with it**
YEET YOU THOUGHT
Lol I actually did that XDD
Ruby mar! 😂😂 no way! That would be awesome. especially if u may or may not have forgotten to take out that brick
omg i would totally do that Xd!!!
@CrazyGamer
oooookay..... if u say so
Lol it'd be funny if they said SIIIIKE!! Then dashes off faster than the stalker lol
Whoever is reading this have a GREAT day/night! Okay?? AWESOME 😝😝😊😂
Thanks
cc splat! No worries cx
cc splat! No worries XX
1,000 videos with no subs cheers 😊
llCrystalQueenll me also :) also visit Med Guide
i got followed once while walking back home from school. i looked back a couple of times and even crossed the street twice without even needing to. so he kinda knew that i was aware of him following me.
weirdly around the church in our town was crowded. i stopped there and watched him walk right pass me while looking at him in the eyes. dude speed walked so fast i didn't have time to blink
Stop and get your phone,
turn it on and contact a friend or family member. Doing so most likely will make them leave you alone. Pretend to be talking to someone if you really got no one. And do not always, take the same path you always do, change it and at other times call for a ride home. If you for sure got someone following you call the police on the spot 911 in the US, they will ask for the location be sure to know where you are. If you do not want to cause too much attention while you wait to notice if you're being followed, turn your cam recorder on to record or voice recorder if you'd like. One or more keys are good for protecting a bit, place each key between your fingers quickly ready to strike. Buy Pepper Spray or a Taser, could be purchased on Ebay.com or Amazon.com keep them in your bag or pocket at all times.
PEPPER SPRAY!!
Marissa Johnson o.O what kind of phone is this
Yes I think your right
Why does no one use conceal and carry?
This one time me and my sister were being followed by a man. We crossed the street and went into a crowd. But then he crossed the street too still trying to look and follow us. Then we started walking home and he jumped out of a bush and started walking towards us. He saw use go into our house but there's always someone there plus we have 2 dogs and 2 cats who know what the word attack is. Yes, are cats know how to attack people
Really ? Neet
CATS ARE EVIL USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE!!
srsly do
our *
Detective Dot. Okay? And what should we do about that, we rlly don’t care.
Cats will scratch the attacker
If I were to be fallowed I would grab my phone go to video and say , " hey guys welcome to my Livestream"! And just keep talking. I'm 💯% sure that would scare them off.
I would also always bring a tazer stick with me.⚡😄
That would not work 🖕🏽
EJ Thor The taser stick or the livestream?
unless they grab your nice expensive phone before you can get to video...
jamo mabey followed*
This actually saved me, I was so scared and then I was like "REMEMBER THE VIDEOS REMEMBER THE VIDEOS" in my head.
Another tip is that if you aren't sure someone is following you, turn 4 left turns of 4 right turns, making a loop. Nobody would go in a loop unless they were following someone
I would have a heart attack before knowing someone is after me😂Its too creepy!!
True
Omg it will work [read form comment]
Dragon fighter I know
One time I saw this chubby guy checking out my mom at Chipotle and as he was staring at her I kept staring back at him with a weird look on my face. He stopped after that...
Cristin Cashmoney - same when people look at my mom i look at them with a scary or weird face
Cristin Cashmoney wow
I do that when someone is looking at me
I do that all the time!i do this face-😑😲😒😝😡😠STOP STARING WILL YA!?
Good
I always have my keys (with pepper spray attached) ready and out when I exit a store or building. When walking to my car I look around my car to see if any van or big suv is next to me...people get stolen by people with those sliding door vans. I also look for people say in their car like waiting for someone....never look at your phone when walking either that makes you a target because you are not paying attention to your surroundings. Lock the doors when you get in your car immediately and if you are out at night park in a well lit area not in the darkness behind a building. Always have the mindset that you are being watched...and don’t dilly dally outside your car or shopping center go straight to the car and lock it.
Put ur phone in ur back pocket so the cameras facing them and record them. Cross the road loads and if they follow u they are stalking u. U will have proof as well cos ur vidioing them
Snape_Unicorn 99 smart idea
Fidelia Galindo thanks its what I should have done when me and my friend were being followed
He would just steal the phone
SwishSwisher _Yt dude 1. Think positive
2. Didnt think of that
3. If worst comes to worse smack 'em in the face
Snape_Unicorn 99 good idea
WHY ARE THERE SO MANY DISLIKES?! Do they want to be protected?
Thank you for the likes!
Edit: OMG 73 likes thank you all!
Tiffany Peyton true
Stalker dislike it
Sooo,if I was being followed/stalked in a public area I would most likely scream FIRE!
But if I wasn't in a public area I would do these steps,use the women fighting tactics,in a video by you a while back and most likely bite them if I had to face them,my sister was bitten by me once...she started to bleed,my poor sister,anyways really helpful vid!and I hope no one has to face a situation like this.
Gacha Squad nice one 😂
Hello
Gacha Squad but If you screen fire everyone will run away and you'll be alone with the attacker
Gacha Squad If someone following me I WOULD PEPPER SPRAY THEY EYES AND RUN AWAY
Gacha Squad I did, I was with my horse
Take a selfie with lots of background in the image ....
Not a bad idea!
Oooo thats smart
The changing appearance thing works a lot for me. Whenever I wore a jacket and I was playing hide and seek with my friends, I would just take off my jacket and take out my spare one. They didn't catch on for two years because I always switched back to my original jacket, so they never knew I had a second one.
But eventually they just knew what my shoes looked like.
Smart.
omg, thanks for the new tactic.
Ok thanks dark side i am scared to go out alone in a quiet place now...
That's always how I feel after watching these videos
Ye Im always a bit scared
H I soo samee
Because they're helping you stay on the safe side. In this case, the Bright Side.
4:33 oh thanks man my next plan was to go give him a hug
Surge Yeah give him a hug and a high five, maybe a coffe too😊😊
Yeah...
BECAUSE HE A LONER!
Meme: OHHHHOHHHHHHHHHHH!!! *dabs*
Swift_Warrior now I want coffe
And free candy and porsche
If you are a girl this is what you do
Stalker: *grabs you*
You: *kicks him were it hurts* then run like there’s free stuff in your favorite store
Thanks, but my way to do it is the use of pepper spray for some reason
How offensive!(I’m a male!)
Yea yea make it sound so easy
Just to clarify I mean guys should do the same thing
@@ct-1529 ehh, it sounds horrible and usually there aren't girls who kidnap and stuff but if they do ofc u need to do it
Or just get a conceal carry permit for a handgun.
If you don't live in the US then at least have some form of self-defence, like learning martial arts or carrying pepper spray, a tazer or a knife.
It is your duty to always defend your own life! "Seconds count when the police are minutes away".
The British Patriot UNLESS your a middle, elementary, OR sometimes even high schooler you can't
Look students can't carry weapons so we can't have any hanguns ya know?
Anyways if you a student I would say to just run to the closest store and say your being stalked
If not a store then run or give them what they want
Vlad G. If they have a gun then you need to learn how to take a gun or give them what they want or anther way to drop em from ya
Jmj Mjm - that's a fair point!
If you're too young to carry a weapon legally, then learning martial arts or running away to safety as fast as you can and screaming loudly, are really the only alternatives.
Never go outside
Boom
Fixed
If someone was following me, I would look at them, shout “despacito” and run away.
zenroku28 Me too
😂😂😂😂😂😂
zenroku28 lol
no u yell"OMG THERE IS A CURVY LITTLE ANT O. UR HEAD" that is so random I'm sorry
zenroku28 you forgot the “2”
Can't be stalked if you never leave your house
2 words: Internet Stalker
prplaysmc true
Lol
Ya u can
Sorry but I disagree you can be stalked in your house to like windows,texting,letters etc you never know it depends on the situation...?
😫
1:08 , right, got that.
The next day: *HeLlO i Am A dEfEnCe LeSs PeRsOn, PlEaSe MuG mE!*
Yeah! Your right 😂
😂
I am an 12 year old and I have been followed 2 times by the same man after school, and I was in my bike both times but he also had a bike so I just tried to peddle as fast I can home luckily I’m safe.
And I don’t usually like talking about this but I don’t want anyone to have the same experience as I did.
Teh_KingZ I’m sorry that has happened to you. Please find someone you can talk to and maybe contact the police to have them guard the area.
Potential abductor
Have you talked to your parents or a guardian about this?
I'm 9 when I was 5 someone was spying on me thank goodness my mom was near bye
Sounds scary
6:50 don't talk bad and don't give them attitude.
What if im latina , and raised giving attitude to anyone?
Gabriela Arellano exactly us Latinas can't control our attitude 😂
*im depressed* forever Frrrr estos vatos 😂😂😂
Gabriela Arellano these dudes are funny thoo😂😂 mi gusta tu nombre mine is boring (Kayla)
*im depressed* forever if you can’t change your attitude, see a therapist. This ain’t genetic. I know Latina girls, they can change their attitude just fine
Then your parents didn't raise you well, and you will be attacked
One time after a party ut was 3am as I walked home. During my walk I had to pass my old gradeschool, a small sports center, a lake nearby home and an elderly center.
On my home I passed the sports center and noticed that someone walked behind me, quite closely I should say. I noticed this by making a small gesture for correcting my hair and after a few extra steps near the lake I decided to cross the road to a small row of buildings where I took a short leap and hid.
The guy following my wore a light brown Stone Island jacket, a black hat from probably deus ex, nike sneakers, and skinny jeans. He had his habds in his pockets the whole time. I watched him from a distance behind A fence, one with those small splits you can look through.
He took his phone (I took note this was an Iphone) and he called someone and what made it even more horrific for me was that that he described what I looked like, clothes and everything.
Now this is where it all may starts to sound like I make this up. But I actually walked up to him.and asked him why he was following me. It all turned out he was actually a police officer and he followed me to check on my destination. His fellow colleagues arrived in a real police car, explaining the situation of an earlier event happend in the streets I passed and they were looking for the perpetrators.
A verry odd event. But one I felt like sharing due to me finding this video :)
Dam son
I need these bc I always fell like I'm being watched or followed
Okay, I think I remember this one time I was getting stalked by these girls.... But they didn't "attack" me, they were "messing" with me by calling my name back in high school....
@@ksmart1235 Oh I'm sorry to hear that but don't feel bad I'm going through that now too
I was once followed in an airport (if anyone's ever been to china airports, its near the gates where people wait for their plane in that really small space) and it wasnt one person but it was a whole group of men. By that time i was just 13 and i remember my mom crying and asking a few people that looked trustworthy for help to watch me. Luckily because so many people were keeping an eye on the followers till the point that we were in the plane, they didnt do anything to me, but it was scary asf and kinda traumatizing for a 13 yearold
Esmée - That is so scary, specially in a foreign country. I'm so glad they didn't get you.
Come on, this story is a bit ridiculous. You and your mum could get help from anybody worked at that airport. Your mum just needed to let the staff know. And anyway one chinese man looks exactly like another, so you most likely saw always different men but you were in a wrong belief that those men were the same.
oh yeah that would be scary
Melba 10 no bc the staff only spoke chinese and although you would think staff members would be multilingual, they didn't understand a single word of what we were saying. And the people following me werent chinese, not even asian, but Egyptian or Saudi Arabian or smth
Melba 10 who said the people following him were Chinese..
Me and my cousin are still kids, we are not teens, and we go on walks or runs alone sometimes, and I get so scared I look through every crook and cranny in the woods while walking, (considering the woods are next to the road) and I always make sure the brightness on my phone is down all the way to save battery in case I need to call my mom or dad for help. These 2 things may sound silly, but may save your life one day.
ok i have 2 ideas that i'm pretty sure haven't been commented before.
you could turn around and ask them for bus money or like money for gas and give a reason like "hey, i just lost my job could i have a few dollars to take the bus" and that way they'll know that you have nothing worthy on you and probably just leave you alone.And my 2nd thing is you could always dress a little bit less fancy when you're by yourself or if you're not gonna plan on meeting up with someone.
prabhji kaur . ya you could like carry around a cardboard box that says “no money plz offer” and if the stalker walks away get up and run in the other direction. Your idea is genius thank you
prabhji kaur Why ask them for bus money when u can ask for help?
Boi that's suicide if he wants to kidnap you ur done he caught u, if he wants to harm u ur also done I would probably run as fast as I can
Rip x I always carry a pocket knife, and I always keep my hand on it at night.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Random person: *grabs you*
Me: *falls to ground screaming and pretending to be insane and have schitzophrenia
Random person: o fudge *DASI RUN RUN RUNS*
Me: *does victory worm*
@Dimanthi Induruwadon lol 😂
Dimanthi Induruwadon you can do the dab
Exactly or fake a seizure.
Are you an army
Haha I’m weak