the solution to this is equality for men in dating/relationships. the average woman can go on a dating app and easily find acceptance by many men when it comes to both sex and relationships. the average man will likely get no matches and feel invisible. incels are resentful for the same reason anyone would be resentful over gender inequality. we just want what women have. we don't think it's OK that our sexual/romantic/reproductive autonomy is so much less than our female counterpart just because of our genital parts. the average woman swipes right on
I'm not sure I follow your perspective on men just wanting what women have unless your referring to having sex with them. You make some good points but neither myself nor I suspect most of the men I know are unhappy being men and maybe that's why we don't have much of an issue being with or without a woman. It sounds like the problem your expressing is rooted in social media which might not be a bad thing if it's possible for some of these kids to get off line. It might just be that women want to meet men in a different environment or that meeting them in a different environment would be more successful. In the end, in my experience, women don't want men who want what a woman has anyway, they want men who know they are men and show it. Thats the beauty of the two completely different sexes is that they can only make a whole when their together. No need to be jealous of what the other has if your together.
@@Mike-tc8ob "no need to be jealous of what the other has if you're together" you are misinterpreting what I'm saying. I'm talking about gender inequality. back when women weren't allowed in the workplace, they complained (and rightfully so) that they want what men have so they can have financial equality to men. men gave women that financial equality and women can work and there is no longer a pay gap. however equality comes from both sides. even though it's 2024, men do not have sexual equality with women. the average woman has far more sexual autonomy than men do, just like how in the past men had more financial autonomy than women did. yes, social media has exacerbated this inequality by increasing male competition from a small social circle to the whole city...but it doesn't have to be this way if we teach women the damaging impact unrealistic standards have on men.
@@klimtkiller I understand where you’re coming from but I disagree. For many reasons. One being, women do NOT have more sexual autonomy than men do. That’s one. Men absolutely have sexual equality to women. Women in fact have less autonomy than men hence, abortion rights being taken away & the strange scarcity on contraceptives. Women can no longer risk to be as sexual as they were before since they don’t have much autonomy anymore. Men want to require these things not realizing they are the main problem. Women aren’t going for the top 10% men. Women are actually okay being alone now. They are also retreating from unhealthy relationships & refusing to settle. A woman isn’t low hanging fruit. In a true natural environment, majority of men wouldn’t even have access to women they would have to earn it. Your argument is about men having automatic access to sex & a variety to choose from. That’s not something men are entitled to. Men earn that. The male’s main biological goal is sex. We all know that by now. But it doesn’t mean women have to give that away freely for men to not lose their sanity & become a complete detriment & terrible dangerous human beings to society. There are many ways society can help men. But let’s keep it real. The entire society was meant to benefit men more than women. Patriarchy is an assistance for men. Very problematic system though. I think men need to become better citizens without depending on automatic access to sex from women. Women are not the property of men. Most women want to be left alone nowadays, because men have not evolved. The man needs to evolve past his lower nature. The world is tired of war, chaos, violence, ma*sacres, se*hale violence at the hands of men. It’s a global issue & it’s entirely out of hand. More access to women will NOT change men. Men had aaaall the access to women back then & still didn’t become better human beings, still didn’t stop war, famine, resource hoarding, you name it. Women in fact need to keep retreating because way too many men are unsafe. Work on yourselves.
the solution to this is equality for men in dating/relationships. the average woman can go on a dating app and easily find acceptance by many men when it comes to both sex and relationships. the average man will likely get no matches and feel invisible.
incels are resentful for the same reason anyone would be resentful over gender inequality. we just want what women have. we don't think it's OK that our sexual/romantic/reproductive autonomy is so much less than our female counterpart just because of our genital parts.
the average woman swipes right on
I'm not sure I follow your perspective on men just wanting what women have unless your referring to having sex with them. You make some good points but neither myself nor I suspect most of the men I know are unhappy being men and maybe that's why we don't have much of an issue being with or without a woman. It sounds like the problem your expressing is rooted in social media which might not be a bad thing if it's possible for some of these kids to get off line. It might just be that women want to meet men in a different environment or that meeting them in a different environment would be more successful. In the end, in my experience, women don't want men who want what a woman has anyway, they want men who know they are men and show it. Thats the beauty of the two completely different sexes is that they can only make a whole when their together. No need to be jealous of what the other has if your together.
@@Mike-tc8ob "no need to be jealous of what the other has if you're together"
you are misinterpreting what I'm saying. I'm talking about gender inequality. back when women weren't allowed in the workplace, they complained (and rightfully so) that they want what men have so they can have financial equality to men. men gave women that financial equality and women can work and there is no longer a pay gap.
however equality comes from both sides. even though it's 2024, men do not have sexual equality with women. the average woman has far more sexual autonomy than men do, just like how in the past men had more financial autonomy than women did. yes, social media has exacerbated this inequality by increasing male competition from a small social circle to the whole city...but it doesn't have to be this way if we teach women the damaging impact unrealistic standards have on men.
@@klimtkiller I understand where you’re coming from but I disagree. For many reasons. One being, women do NOT have more sexual autonomy than men do. That’s one. Men absolutely have sexual equality to women. Women in fact have less autonomy than men hence, abortion rights being taken away & the strange scarcity on contraceptives. Women can no longer risk to be as sexual as they were before since they don’t have much autonomy anymore.
Men want to require these things not realizing they are the main problem. Women aren’t going for the top 10% men. Women are actually okay being alone now. They are also retreating from unhealthy relationships & refusing to settle. A woman isn’t low hanging fruit. In a true natural environment, majority of men wouldn’t even have access to women they would have to earn it. Your argument is about men having automatic access to sex & a variety to choose from. That’s not something men are entitled to. Men earn that. The male’s main biological goal is sex. We all know that by now. But it doesn’t mean women have to give that away freely for men to not lose their sanity & become a complete detriment & terrible dangerous human beings to society. There are many ways society can help men. But let’s keep it real. The entire society was meant to benefit men more than women. Patriarchy is an assistance for men. Very problematic system though. I think men need to become better citizens without depending on automatic access to sex from women. Women are not the property of men. Most women want to be left alone nowadays, because men have not evolved. The man needs to evolve past his lower nature. The world is tired of war, chaos, violence, ma*sacres, se*hale violence at the hands of men. It’s a global issue & it’s entirely out of hand. More access to women will NOT change men. Men had aaaall the access to women back then & still didn’t become better human beings, still didn’t stop war, famine, resource hoarding, you name it. Women in fact need to keep retreating because way too many men are unsafe. Work on yourselves.
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