OVERCOME ANXIETY | POWERFUL SPEECH BY JORDAN PETERSON

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Комментарии • 634

  • @michaelcollins1507
    @michaelcollins1507 2 года назад +1282

    To all those watching this video for their mental health, in case no one tells you today, just know you’re not alone (a lot of us are here for the same reasons) and you’re doing an amazing job getting on top of your mental health. And you should be proud of yourself for doing so. I hope you have an amazing day, and know we’re all here with you :)

    • @allisonficsor1000
      @allisonficsor1000 2 года назад +17

      Thank you for this. I’ve never suffered from anxiety and depression more than I have in the last 2 years. This is comforting. God bless!

    • @KahelGaming
      @KahelGaming 2 года назад +3

      thankyou sir

    • @k1lori
      @k1lori 2 года назад +2

      Right back at you!

    • @wilmerperez9094
      @wilmerperez9094 2 года назад +4

      I needed to hear this.

    • @fzl271
      @fzl271 2 года назад +1

      Ty buddy

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all 3 года назад +2095

    Our anxiety is lying to us. Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows; it empties today of its strength. Fight back 🖖

    • @efrainsandoval3883
      @efrainsandoval3883 2 года назад +18

      Not to be a downer, but if you’re implying to fight anxiety then I’d say that’s a bad idea. Definitely don’t give in or give up on life tho ✌🏾

    • @mhb.mrathletesfeetand30mis62
      @mhb.mrathletesfeetand30mis62 2 года назад

      Chills

    • @bluspirit5456
      @bluspirit5456 2 года назад +3

      Wrong! Your ancient crocodile brain just wants you to survive, but we have to be teach ourselves consciousness because we are no crocodiles we are humans and as such have the power to decide and manifest the best in us.

    • @adrianma7698
      @adrianma7698 2 года назад +10

      @@efrainsandoval3883 Anxiety is something you can fight back. It's not like "stress" or "depression" which is something you have to embrace because of the nature of what it is. But for anxiety you need to take action and force yourself into the world for it to dissipate. If you don't then you stay weak and you'll think of yourself as weak and it will linger on forever.

    • @efrainsandoval3883
      @efrainsandoval3883 2 года назад +3

      @@adrianma7698 fighting it and confronting it mean separate things to me. I choose to confront.

  • @glizzygoblin-nl2uh
    @glizzygoblin-nl2uh Год назад +513

    A man who lives in sadness is living in the past, a man who lives in worry is living in the future, a man who is calm is living in the present

    • @1Thedairy
      @1Thedairy Год назад +1

      So true

    • @nicb8723
      @nicb8723 Год назад +3

      That saying is helpful-thanks for sharing:)

    • @glizzygoblin-nl2uh
      @glizzygoblin-nl2uh Год назад +1

      @@nicb8723 your welcome friend

    • @johnbeattie3146
      @johnbeattie3146 Год назад +3

      Thankyou so very much for providing such a simple yet so profound statement; I really needed it

    • @glizzygoblin-nl2uh
      @glizzygoblin-nl2uh Год назад +1

      @@johnbeattie3146 i didnt come up with it haha its an ancient japanese proverb

  • @bunkaiking
    @bunkaiking Год назад +168

    We suffer more often in imagination than we do in reality. Definitely one of favourite quotes

    • @whynot1548
      @whynot1548 Год назад +3

      When I was anxious, my imagination would literally invent things to be afraid. And they were always things that couldn't ever happen. Cuz our minds can concoct the most rotten thing based on nothing

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +1012

    “You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.”
    *―C. S. Lewis*

    • @ndumferdy2545
      @ndumferdy2545 2 года назад +3

      Gold!!

    • @mimitim7749
      @mimitim7749 2 года назад +3

      But what if it’s too late ?

    • @Dave-sr2vu
      @Dave-sr2vu Год назад +5

      @@mimitim7749 its never too late

    • @mathew5956
      @mathew5956 Год назад +1

      thats also where anxiety from over-analysing kicks in

  • @Xaistons
    @Xaistons 3 года назад +572

    "What you most need will be found where you least want to look" -Carl Jung

    • @paulinemiller1597
      @paulinemiller1597 2 года назад +4

      This seems to be true. Is it because you’re trying to avoid what you most need?

    • @jonchippure52
      @jonchippure52 2 года назад +8

      @@paulinemiller1597 I believe it means: you are painfully aware of what you are doing/what you are not doing and how it is negatively affecting your life. It is not a mystery you need to uncover, it is a battle you need to endure.
      There is incredible humility and shame with accepting your negligence in the past and doing your best to clean up the mess you have made for yourself.
      Often times people occupy themselves with the worlds problems and distract themselves with literally anything so that they can continue to live in ignorance. But at some point you must face your flaws and anxieties… the longer you wait, the more damage it will cause.
      It can be anything, from difficult tasks to difficult conversations, or difficult realizations to accept and move forward from.
      Start with small simple tasks, do your best, and try to improve. Eventually, the bigger underlying issues will become more obvious. You must be courageous, and do what is difficult, as it will almost always help you out most in the long run. Good luck!

    • @paulinemiller1597
      @paulinemiller1597 2 года назад +4

      @@jonchippure52 you nailed when you pointed out the preoccupation with distractions. That is exactly what I do. I’m not even sure why I’m fighting so hard against doing the inner work because the misery of staying the same is definitely worse than the pain it would be to change.

    • @Loopedtime
      @Loopedtime 2 года назад +2

      @@jonchippure52 thanks. Nice to read. Life’s tough.

    • @1complex187
      @1complex187 2 года назад

      Bbcc

  • @eviltwin906
    @eviltwin906 Год назад +143

    As a 35 year old male that has dealt with anxiety all my life my advice is it's just a word. You won't always have good days, bad days are innevatibe. There is beauty everywhere you just have to look. Get outside everyday, go for a walk, go to a store. Life's too short too miss out on. Be strong and never give up.

    • @phantomskim698
      @phantomskim698 Год назад +2

      Train like david goggins and that pain from traning will be unbearable and when u know u succeeded against all odds anxiety wont exist in u any more

    • @phantomskim698
      @phantomskim698 Год назад

      @@m3kbeatz Do u fight?
      ruclips.net/video/_MNgw2D76Bg/видео.html

    • @cd-jk4rh
      @cd-jk4rh Год назад +2

      @@phantomskim698 hard when you go to work a physical job (ironworker) and it literally kills your body, the anxiety of not able to push hard workouts due to worry of getting hurt, or the day being astronomically terrible due to soreness etc. tough mistress

    • @heinmolenaar6750
      @heinmolenaar6750 10 месяцев назад

      I take long walks in nature every day. It's so good for your mental health.

  • @TopGun_-
    @TopGun_- 2 года назад +273

    To you reading this right now... you are beautiful. Everything will work itself out. Everyone here knows how you feel right now. This feeling sucks, but know that you will be be ok. This too shall pass...Don’t fight the anxiety, just allow it to work it’s way through. Just let it do it’s thing. It will leave on its own. I’m right here with you right now. We’re gonna do this together. This won’t stay long. It’s on its way out now. Just Embrace the moment as you become at peace with things. You are shedding this off as we speak. Now I want you to close your eyes and place your hands in front of you and lightly wiggle your fingers like you’re playing a piano. Feel it melt off yourself. Feel it drip off your fingertips...See, there it goes......we love you . Daffodils, sunshine, blue skies, refreshing peace. Breathe out. You are loved....Heavy eyelids, drift away, ahhhhhhh, light fluffy thoughts. There you go, you got this. (I’m still here with you) Now sleep. Stay at rest. Shhhhhh....Breathe out. At peace... at peace.... at peace... at peace....🙏🏻🌼🍀☀️✨🌼🍀🌼🍀🐣🌼🍀☀️✨🙏🏻. Ahhhh... That was Great! You did great! You are freaking awesome!!!
    Now, if you need to, quietly and softly go back and SLOWLY read this again.

    • @charlesrodriguez7984
      @charlesrodriguez7984 Год назад +6

      This really helps. Thanks a lot :) I can already feel the anxiety melting off of me.

    • @roshanimodi9540
      @roshanimodi9540 Год назад +2

      Thank you. Power to you too

    • @kanye729
      @kanye729 Год назад

      5.30am 5.30am 544555s

    • @charlesrodriguez7984
      @charlesrodriguez7984 Год назад

      @@kanye729 eeee

    • @Buwlaan
      @Buwlaan Год назад +3

      had anxiety all day, after reading this i can finally breath calmly, thank you.

  • @519achilles
    @519achilles Год назад +44

    We are a community which has lots of taboos. I am 34 and was feeling ashamed of dealing with health anxiety for years, because I was always an athlete powerful and the first one to do risky things when I was younger and I couldn’t admit that it turned around. I always thought that anxiety is for the weak minded, but recently I realised that it is the exact opposite. It requires real mental strength to power through all this negativity, panic attack, the fear that you might die and what you think is best for you. We are strong and smart, but unfortunately he think negatively. We are also a great community! Everyone is trying to help anyone else as much as he/she can. I ‘ve never seen any other community being so sympathetic and caring. Well done to everyone, I wish everyone to be healthy physically and mentally. All the love!

    • @puhacz4271
      @puhacz4271 Год назад

      I also been this type of person and never really understood i could deal with anxiety issues till one day.. hang in there mate, even the toughest guys are hit with it

  • @analuiza.960
    @analuiza.960 9 месяцев назад +9

    When I was in my highiest level of anxiety, I couldn't even go outside my house without start shaking, sweating and having an asthma attack. It was in that point I knew I had to change or I would die soon (I isoleted myself completely and stopped eating) . Its in our lowest, when we have no where to go, that we win. Keep going guys, we can do it!

  • @Kaden270
    @Kaden270 3 года назад +314

    Jordan’s message is hardest to listen to when, when it is needed the most. He speaks harsh realties that must be heard. In the end, curing through truth.

    • @nemesis1248
      @nemesis1248 3 года назад +8

      This. ^

    • @charmainejeffrey2116
      @charmainejeffrey2116 2 года назад +15

      His message is so true but so scary to allow myself to go down that path. I feel more anxiety just thinking about it.

    • @HawaiianCrow
      @HawaiianCrow 2 года назад +8

      @@charmainejeffrey2116 - Same. So so hard and so so scary.

  • @foodsportsnewspk4020
    @foodsportsnewspk4020 Год назад +21

    Who ever is reading this i pray that you get all that your heart desires 💚

  • @lightsacco
    @lightsacco Год назад +42

    My wife died, after 33 yrs together OCT 28th, this helped ,its a constant mind struggle but your words have helped me deal with the worst thing ever in my life.

    • @raygirard5554
      @raygirard5554 Год назад +7

      May Our God walk with you through this, may he comfort you with what goodness you were given and knowing that he will have you join her after his mission here is complete. God bless brother 🙏

    • @txl420
      @txl420 Год назад +2

  • @_v1si0nary64
    @_v1si0nary64 3 года назад +127

    The best way to build positive mindset and thoughts is to drop bad habits and consciously replace them with good ones. Good routine keeps the mind focused on positive forward thinking. Then comes discipline and hard work.

  • @jokerski3250
    @jokerski3250 Год назад +49

    One of the first steps in learning to manage anxiety is to be willing to change how you view your own anxiety. It isn’t something to battle. Anxiety is the way your brain tells you to be aware of or to watch out for something. It’s trying to protect you. Recovery from anxiety is based in allowing yourself to experience it and to treat it as irrelevant. This teaches the brain that what ever it is that it’s telling you to be afraid off doesn’t need to be of importance. Once the brain realizes you don’t mind the idea of whatever it is that might happen it will dial back the severity of the fight or flight signal it is sending you. Over time it’s how to become desensitized to anxiety. It is the best way. Fighting it only makes it worse in the long run. Simple mantras and positive reassurance and reinforcement only work for a very brief time.

  • @kinstar
    @kinstar 11 месяцев назад +10

    Sometimes courage isnt always a loud roar, sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day that says 'I will try again tomorrow'. Whoever this message is for I just want you to know that you'll get there and back on your feet whether you believe it or not. Remember sometimes the smallest things can make the biggest difference.

  • @reef6826
    @reef6826 2 года назад +111

    Don't lose yourself to ego, you are not your thoughts, our actions make us who we are, its about the small victories.. no matter what you have done in the past, hell even if you have killed somebody, you can change and move on with yourself, there is not such thing as only good, or only bad person. You got this.

  • @bumble8588
    @bumble8588 Год назад +16

    This is the most realistic answer to fear and anxiety in the world we live in right now. Thank you!

  • @SimDeck
    @SimDeck Год назад +12

    This man has transformed my life. I have experienced poverty in various aspects and areas, but through reading his books and attending his lectures, I have undergone a profound change. Today, after half a century, I can proudly say that I am a genuinely content individual. My life is enriched by a wonderful family, including two thriving children. Furthermore, I am now earning a sufficient income that alleviates my financial concerns. All of this became possible because he instilled within me the courage to confront my fears, pursue education, and aspire to career opportunities that I never believed were within my reach.

  • @mirchole
    @mirchole 2 года назад +149

    I came across this video while in a really dark place and it hit me hard but gave me comfort. God bless to anyone else going through this, and thank you Mr. Peterson. You inspire me more than you know.

    • @waden404
      @waden404 Год назад +3

      U are totally correct. I am also struggling and with Jordans teachings/words, maybe i can fix myself and finish this life in a much better state of mind.
      Hope things are better for you. Fight back,,,,we must fight back. Best wishes to you from here on out. Wade

    • @mirchole
      @mirchole Год назад +2

      @@waden404 well thank you, kind stranger! And good luck to you with whatever you're going through.

    • @lea-rw5cb
      @lea-rw5cb Год назад

      Going through this? It isn't a head ache it's a lifelong battle, I suffer with anxiety, and it's always there. Whether it shows in symptoms or just thoughts in my head, it's always present. You have to keep positive and bury those negative thoughts to the back of your mind. otherwise, it will consume you 🙂🙂

  • @conorsaintlouis9790
    @conorsaintlouis9790 2 года назад +87

    Most people, like myself, don't like too talk about it because it triggers it. But this is very calming and super important message !

    • @sourcehealing82
      @sourcehealing82 Год назад +1

      Talk about it and face it head on. Then when it hits, you can accept it and it fades quicker.

    • @alexjohnson-nelson3977
      @alexjohnson-nelson3977 Год назад

      But I don’t want a anxiety attack sitting through it will trigger fight or flight right?

    • @alexjohnson-nelson3977
      @alexjohnson-nelson3977 Год назад +3

      Im a hypochondriac and I keep having these images of having seizure or heart attack and fake sensations that aren’t there sometimes too

    • @coleymoley09
      @coleymoley09 Год назад +3

      @@alexjohnson-nelson3977 me too brother. I have these daydreams/visions that I’m going to have a heart attack. Then BOOM, anxiety through the roof.

    • @filipposmanolis6514
      @filipposmanolis6514 Год назад

      Same with u guys

  • @christinegibson8398
    @christinegibson8398 2 года назад +8

    Knowing and focusing on the sovereignty of God solves so many anxieties. We are created to glorify him.

  • @mohamedatefasal1
    @mohamedatefasal1 2 года назад +31

    This is the best advice for anexity I have ever heard.

  • @JM-co6rf
    @JM-co6rf 2 года назад +40

    ate breakfast today. feel 30% better already. letting my fears play out instead of suppressing them starts now

    • @charlesrodriguez7984
      @charlesrodriguez7984 Год назад

      Same. I’ll let it play out.

    • @TBanks-gi6du
      @TBanks-gi6du Год назад

      how are you doing now? did this technique help you?

    • @JM-co6rf
      @JM-co6rf Год назад +1

      @@TBanks-gi6du I started drinking again, went downhill. Quit again about 10 days ago. Feeling alive again. I hate this rollercoaster

    • @jandon603
      @jandon603 Месяц назад

      True, it's a crazy roller-coaster but one we must put ourselves through. As far as for me, this advice has opened my eyes to many things. No more suppressing my thoughts because obviously that has yet to work. Might work temporarily but not permanently. Now I understand why my fears reappear. No more fear, no more worry. I have and will fight this shit.

  • @Robertb00
    @Robertb00 2 года назад +38

    I have been to a dozen counselors with different approach to helping anxiety. To me there is different levels of anxiety. Mine is driven from 22 years of military service that involved years of using fight or flight. The problem flight is not an option, I can’t seem to adjust to a new normal. My panic attacks are so severe the physiological symptoms caused me to have a heart catheter for no reason. Due to constant chest pressure, extreme blood pressure at times, dizziness, nausea, night sweats. I could go on for days about how anxiety affects my body. I just wanted to share because the people reading this get it and no medical provider can even fathom what it’s like.

    • @Thomas-wl3wg
      @Thomas-wl3wg 2 года назад

      hey man do u have instagram?

    • @christinegibson8398
      @christinegibson8398 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for serving - God bless you.

    • @Noname-vv7ii
      @Noname-vv7ii 2 года назад

      Thank you for serving. I do get it and I’m sorry you are going through it along with me. Have you tried what he has suggested? This is my first time listening and what I’ve been doing is trying not to follow the thoughts so it’s completely opposite

    • @apr2222
      @apr2222 2 года назад +2

      I’m in no way trying to compare your experience with mine but I get it. There’ve been times I thought I was really dying. Big hug to you x

    • @gabrielparanormalchildhood7559
      @gabrielparanormalchildhood7559 2 года назад

      Thank you for serving man

  • @TopGun_-
    @TopGun_- Год назад +9

    Let go and relax right now, knowing that you are exactly where you are supposed to be at this moment in time.

  • @Macd496
    @Macd496 Год назад +8

    I just went through one of the worst anxiety attacks I’ve had in my life. This video brought me back. Thank you Dr. Peterson.

  • @jimdavies4209
    @jimdavies4209 Год назад +7

    Thank you! Anxiety is a conditioned response in our family

  • @Glitchfaction
    @Glitchfaction 2 года назад +41

    I struggle with health anxiety. And it’s odd because it’s not constant. I go along perfectly ok then something triggers my fear and it’s all I can think about. I coach football and recently one of our sophomore players died of cancer. He was 15. Then a month or so later, I had a scare that I though was testicular cancer but turned out just to be a bad strain in that area. Even after a Drs visit, a urologist visit, ultrasound and blood work all came back good, in my mind, there’s is still something wrong. But I’m getting better every day on dealing with it.

    • @divineconfetti9482
      @divineconfetti9482 Год назад +5

      I also struggle with this terribly, i feel you so much, we'll be ok ❤️

    • @michaelthau1007
      @michaelthau1007 Год назад +2

      @@divineconfetti9482 Heath anxiety is brutal! Has left me with chronic insomnia! Very debilitating
      May God Bless you with peace in all your thoughts!

    • @the_real_patrick17
      @the_real_patrick17 Год назад

      Completely relate, hope we both rise above this and are better and stronger from it

    • @MoonsaultMadLad
      @MoonsaultMadLad Год назад

      Yes! Definitely one of my sources of anxiety is health anxiety.
      In the past two years so many horrible things have hindered my life that I never thought would happen. I have realized that a lot of the things I worried about never came to fruition and things I never expected would happen are those that rocked my life.
      What purpose did all of that worrying serve? I made myself sick over it. Doctor visits, EKGs on my heart. It was so serious I had to be put on medication for anxiety. I decided I didn't want to take the medicine any more so I stopped. I let myself feel the emotions. I have a much better grip on reality now that I have experienced all of these things. I am more peaceful, albeit sad.

    • @thelords4691
      @thelords4691 Год назад

      I suffer from the same. I’m convinced that I have skin cancer, I’m actually waiting on my biopsy results and every time my phone rings I panic thinking that it’s my Dr and how am I going to handle hearing that the results are positive. My aunt also suffered from health anxiety, All those years she worried about cancer and everything kept coming back negative until later on in life she got breast cancer, the worry from that killed her, not the cancer.

  • @stephenmurray588
    @stephenmurray588 Год назад +7

    Seems like the only time I'm living in the moment is when I listen to this gentleman speak. Because everything he says strikes nervous with me in a good way. I am bipolar manic depressive with insomnia it's 2:00 Sunday evening Monday morning now. And I hope everybody has a truly warm healthy and wonderful day. Nobody told you today, I love you. Each and everyone. This community needs to stick together. Just my opinion.

  • @Liz-JWB
    @Liz-JWB Год назад +3

    Personal comment that may or may not be read. But here it is for anyone dealing with the same situation as me. 🤝
    I didn’t know how bad my anxiety was, until I finally didn’t feel it one day. I felt so calm. No thoughts or the anxious feeling inside your body. It kind of felt like I was being pranked. Like is this really how it feels to just feel calm?
    Anxiety is not just racing thoughts of “what if”. It’s a feeling/ sensation inside the body. It’s hard to explain..
    I feel like I’m finally taking control of my anxiety though.
    Sometimes I just can’t explain why my body feels anxious. Not one clue as to why I’m feeling anxious. The brain is interesting.. I’m a calm anxious person now. And it’s so confusing to me but It’s okay because it’s just part of the process of becoming better at controlling it. I’m just thankful I can acknowledge the feeling and try to control it.

  • @piercebyrne23
    @piercebyrne23 2 года назад +12

    This has just opened a huge door that has been locked and never opened until now , thank you for your advice.

  • @ikawinner960
    @ikawinner960 3 года назад +36

    Thank you dear Peterson, I pray in my heart for your health

  • @rules4life337
    @rules4life337 2 года назад +24

    The world wouldn't be the same without this man
    What an amazing man.

  • @JackSather
    @JackSather 2 года назад +14

    Damn i was looking all over the place for ways to deal with my anxiety, who knew the possible most effective way is to confront it. Life’s a difficult adventure, best of luck to anyone dealing with anxiousness, it’s the worst, but we can suppress it and we can enjoy life again!

  • @MegaMonk1992
    @MegaMonk1992 Год назад +3

    This isn't the first time that Jordan has brought me to tears with the beautiful intensity with which he talks about the human condition and the human dilemma. He straddles the line between science and poetry. I am so incredibly grateful to Jordan Peterson for helping me understand how to handle the darkest parts of being a human by putting the struggle into terms that adequately communicate the immense weight of some of life's biggest problems. It makes me angry that he has become so politicized because I believe these narratives distract people from the very helpful insights he has to share after decades of clinical practice and independent study of history, religion, etc. Much love to everyone in these threads who loves and appreciates Jordan.

  • @IrishPharaoh2008
    @IrishPharaoh2008 Год назад +5

    10 minutes of meditation a day (use headspace) truly people with bad anxiety, fear worries, make it a habit, I always thought meditation was nonsense until I did it when I was having an anxious patch, it literally did wonders, really helped me catch those negative thought trails before you go down that wormhole of thought into despair

  • @nickhayden2299
    @nickhayden2299 Год назад +4

    Thinkers that are able to overcome addiction and such are true values to our society. People like this man are gifts to us from God. And I'm not even religious.

  • @stephenmurray588
    @stephenmurray588 Год назад +5

    I've had an intense migraine headache for the past 4 or 5 hours. I listen to that powerful very powerful prologue on anxiety and really listen to it twice actually, no more headache. I took heat to the advice I applied it and I moved on. It's really so simple but we are complex individuals we make things very difficult for ourselves. For the past four or five years I've been saying that I don't need any enemies because I am so bad to myself, toxic or what have you. I think really what it's boiling to is just being plain stubborn! I will definitely listen to this gentleman speak many many more times I hope.

  • @keekeemykidda5533
    @keekeemykidda5533 Год назад +3

    Worry is like a rocking chair it gives you something to do but never gets you anywhere

  • @jezabeltokio
    @jezabeltokio 2 года назад +25

    A few years ago I couldn’t stand listening to him but now he’s just that therapist that I need. He says the most real advice thanks so much, I need it

  • @izzyburr
    @izzyburr Год назад +3

    I spent most of my young life engaged in unhealthy behaviors to try and control/get rid of my anxiety. I have now learned, through some very tough lessons in my early 20s, that the correct approach is to move with your anxiety in faith that it won’t harm you or kill you. It’s an energy source. As you learn to open the door to this nervous energy, I believe it can be life changing. I still have my struggles but I believe I am on the correct path. Let the past die, let the future remain in the clouds of uncertainty. Your cure lies in the present moment.

  • @thurmanmerman6248
    @thurmanmerman6248 Год назад +3

    Thank you Jordan for this video I suffer from agoraphobia and social anxiety this video helped me open my mind.

  • @angelalocke7340
    @angelalocke7340 3 года назад +25

    Thank you for your advice Jordan- Followed your advice and the outcome seems more manageable now in my mind, although the feelings were hard to go through
    You’re a diamond in this crazy world- Thank you 🐝🌈🇬🇧

  • @richbenz8455
    @richbenz8455 Год назад +4

    This world is unfair sometimes but we must try and let them go .Is very hard seeing the one you love the most moving away from your life …but let’s overcome it ❤

  • @bryanwasserstrom7872
    @bryanwasserstrom7872 Год назад +4

    You got this - if you watched this video, or reading this comment you are taking the necessary steps to better yourself and become the best version of yourself . We all go thru rough patches, some worse than others, but god gives the toughest battles to the toughest warriors. Peace and love. I will get through this too, and so will you ❤

  • @iaber1698
    @iaber1698 3 года назад +7

    Mr. Peterson, you just helped me heal and I Thank You!

  • @dylanresto9549
    @dylanresto9549 2 года назад +5

    Jordan spits pure gold it's honestly the best

  • @lwh6308
    @lwh6308 Год назад +4

    Thank you for the reminder. He's someone I really like and respect. I hope you are always healthy and happy. I feel once again that how you think is important.

  • @Mr.Schitzengigglez
    @Mr.Schitzengigglez 2 года назад +1

    Awesome advice..
    Jordan is one of the most caring people you'll ever meet, or hear from.

  • @Foreverceltic
    @Foreverceltic Год назад +1

    Once you say fuck right off to every one and thing that brings you down you will move forward and be free to enjoy your existence. Turning it from just that, and existence into something worth writing about. We are all who we are today, leave everything that’s bad in the past and learn. Motivate yourself in whatever way you can and boss the fuck up. Love yourself more than you love anything else. In a good not cocky way. Always!

  • @tomlyon7605
    @tomlyon7605 3 года назад +20

    heavy topic but great advice, atm im experiencing anxiety here and there from coming off alcohol.
    the heart palpitations tend to worry me, then i become super aware which makes it worse LOL.
    i have to remind myself it will get better with time. its only been 10 days since quitting alcohol
    and already had anxiety anyway which im now seeking help for.

    • @damnbro0707
      @damnbro0707 3 года назад

      How is it going mate?

    • @tomlyon7605
      @tomlyon7605 3 года назад +4

      @@damnbro0707 thanks for asking, it is better but have been on diazepine. working on reducing the alcohol and started counselling today. just takes time i guess, i feel capable of working again which is good

    • @namechange399
      @namechange399 2 года назад +1

      You are a strong guy!! Keep it up you got this 👊🏼

    • @em.t2210
      @em.t2210 2 года назад +1

      I’m going through the same anxiety too because of alcohol.

  • @periclesdasilva5973
    @periclesdasilva5973 3 года назад +82

    Love you all. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation present your requests to God by prayer with thanksgiving. And the peace of God which transcends all understanding shall guard your minds and hearts in Christ Jesus." Phil 4:6-7

  • @nickconroy930
    @nickconroy930 Год назад +2

    May God bless this wonderful man 🙏

  • @suzannal6047
    @suzannal6047 3 года назад +8

    God never promised us a Rose Garden..... well, not in this life!! Heaven is "A PLACE OF ROSES"..

  • @jamesmadison6838
    @jamesmadison6838 Год назад +2

    Today I needed to hear this. Thank you Dr. Peterson.

  • @sebastianmller4544
    @sebastianmller4544 Год назад +2

    A good way to do this is meditating. That combined with getting all of your basic needs met is super helpful. Things like enough sleep, enough food, socializing, having a purpose.

  • @zacharydacosta911
    @zacharydacosta911 Год назад +2

    I swear I need to meet Jordan Peterson and just tell him that he has absolutely impacted my life for so long now. I love that man like he's my father, and I hope I get to tell him that.

  • @shay_27
    @shay_27 Год назад +3

    The message this video is trying to give, is that, no matter how humungous the situation in your head is, if you practice going over it, over and over again, you would reach a point where the uncertainty of it won't bother you anymore. At the end of it all, the only thing that is not under our control is our death, because everything else can be worked out somehow. It might be scary to live through few things, but as long as we are alive and breathing, we have a purpose and we can swim through any sea of adversity we face..

  • @Chiclette-ld1xx
    @Chiclette-ld1xx Год назад +1

    Thank YOU, Dr. Peterson! Exactly what I and I'm sure hundreds of others needed to hear tonight! God bless.

  • @Wonders_Delight
    @Wonders_Delight 2 года назад +3

    It won't let you go untill you deal with it.
    Stay strong. Whenever you find yourself okay lets make this thought work out in my favour thats the exact moment you need to get up and to something that makes you busy.
    Stay strong. You are not alone.
    Much love. Gratitude.❤️❤️

  • @manitdahal4587
    @manitdahal4587 Год назад +1

    Thank you Jordan

  • @John-mj8ri
    @John-mj8ri Год назад +2

    100% this is me and watching this is starting to realise what I need to deal with 👌 Jordan Peterson you are an amazing thinker helping literally millions become a better part of themselves, for that I say thankyou

  • @KKKaTTT123
    @KKKaTTT123 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Jordan ❤️

  • @markpalmar70
    @markpalmar70 Год назад +1

    Validates my own approach. Facing the big guns has changed my life. Tremendous film.

  • @SeviersKain
    @SeviersKain Год назад +1

    This is actually the first phase of turning the negative thoughts into the neutral ones, It took me about 2 fucking years to get there, I finally lay down in bed without anxiety, but still can't have a normal sleep as before, I surmise the rest work will be done in another year or two...

  • @rosajimenez7777
    @rosajimenez7777 2 года назад +1

    God bless J Peterson

  • @lorettagallagher9577
    @lorettagallagher9577 3 года назад +8

    Wow, did I need to hear that. You nailed it for me. Ty

  • @connorgames6668
    @connorgames6668 7 месяцев назад

    When he sticks to psychology, I love him. Amazing speech about facing your monsters. Drawing your sword and saying " I'm going nowhere, so you better go through me then".

  • @lawsondave5076
    @lawsondave5076 Год назад +3

    Mushrooms containing psilocybin saved my life. The aided my benzodiazepine withdrawal allowing me to quit illicit pill addiction after three years of heavy daily use before it would had became medically dangerous to quit. It has also helped me survive depression.

    • @woolmanangela
      @woolmanangela Год назад

      Psychedelics definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again but it's just so hard to source out here

    • @timkenndy
      @timkenndy Год назад

      @Philip Johnny I feel the same way too. I put too much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels. I am also glad to be a part of this community.

    • @ellaaysun
      @ellaaysun Год назад

      Microdosing mushrooms can not be deemed bad but one has to find a good mycologist to teach you the right things you need to know

    • @woolmanangela
      @woolmanangela Год назад

      @Dennis Scott Thanks. I’ll get in touch with him right away

    • @johnjude2402
      @johnjude2402 Год назад

      @Dennis Scott This whole thing is pretty new to me, can I contact quinn_psychs for guidance?

  • @arteeejr
    @arteeejr 8 месяцев назад

    I can personally relate to the struggle of managing anxiety, and that's why the insights shared in this video by Jordan Peterson truly resonate with me. His discussion about embracing our inner thoughts and fears is invaluable. It reminds me of Lisa Haisha's teachings in her work. Lisa emphasizes the importance of confronting our anxieties and not suppressing them. By allowing ourselves to explore our fears and thoughts, we can build the psychological strength to live authentically and face life's uncertainties head-on. This is a great reminder that self-discovery and self-acceptance, as encouraged by Lisa Haisha, are powerful tools in managing anxiety and finding our true purpose.

  • @acerp8123
    @acerp8123 Год назад +2

    I find that living alone and having no one to talk to makes it even harder

  • @goboy55
    @goboy55 Год назад +3

    Brilliant. This is perhaps JP's greatest ever message. I know, because I am married to a brilliant woman who managed to find this path with no one's help. She discovered this path Jordan discusses in the lonesome darkness of deep depression. And then, as JP discusses, she conquered that not-so-small dark demon, that anxiety machine that had her by the coat tail. This was something extraordinary and painful to watch. But now, hearing JP describe the method of victory, I realize even more how extraordinary my wife is. It's so uplifting. Thank you for sharing this JP talk.

  • @andrewbell8458
    @andrewbell8458 3 года назад +5

    This is amazing...thank you

  • @dannymcgivern80
    @dannymcgivern80 Год назад

    Hi all I’m 67 have a great wife and family sitting in a resort in Vietnam,and having the worst anxiety attack ,everyday can’t go on like this but trying to fight it

  • @carlosgarciamusic953
    @carlosgarciamusic953 10 месяцев назад

    Day by day. Ty so much

  • @BecomeConsciousNow
    @BecomeConsciousNow Год назад +1

    Thank you! This is what I needed to hear.

  • @thygreatmark
    @thygreatmark Год назад +1

    One of the best videos about anxiety.

  • @fyodordostoevsky9671
    @fyodordostoevsky9671 2 года назад +5

    I’m going to hear this every morning for weeks…I’ve never felt what I’m feeling and I’m scared. This video helped me so much. Thank you Jordan Peterson and thank you life and all who share it. I love you.

  • @donnaduhamel6004
    @donnaduhamel6004 Год назад +1

    Again..thank you.💗

  • @jeff8228
    @jeff8228 Год назад +2

    I recently realised that when I have crippling panic attacks I'm not so much afraid of me dying, me being sick, me not being around. It's all based in robbing my daughter of having her daddy. That thought terrifies me and it's motivating me to be healthier for her.
    A tip for a panic attack is to turn on something familiar that you enjoy and know well. A cartoon you like, a comedy show you find funny, a music video you like. Sit with it on so the familiarity of it is with you - at certain points it'll draw you in and make you feel like paying attention. When that happens, say out loud sarcastically "Oh NOW you can calm down?"
    It may not work for everyone but it's helped me.
    All the best to everyone - June is Men's mental health month 👌

  • @lornaraine3570
    @lornaraine3570 3 года назад +4

    I needed to hear this ♥️ thank uou

  • @zezezeze4152
    @zezezeze4152 Год назад +3

    Just wanna send prayers to everyone here. We’re all alone in this together

  • @ryantaube6546
    @ryantaube6546 Год назад +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @tracy3364
    @tracy3364 3 года назад +27

    Wow this is just amazing my daughter is going through lots of anxiety at the moment its terrible to watch her

    • @behindstoney6520
      @behindstoney6520 2 года назад +3

      I hope she is feeling better now, more life🤙

    • @KahelGaming
      @KahelGaming 2 года назад +2

      hope she okay now

  • @islamack1710
    @islamack1710 Год назад +1

    can't express how helpful this was

  • @yolakin8210
    @yolakin8210 Год назад +1

    Thank you💫

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 8 месяцев назад +2

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 837 subs and > 400 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

    • @perspectivemotivation
      @perspectivemotivation  2 месяца назад +1

      This is so incredible! I am so honoured to hear that, and I wish you the absolute best of luck in your future endeavours 😊

    • @nathananderson8720
      @nathananderson8720 2 месяца назад

      @@perspectivemotivation Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my RUclips channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a RUclipsr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this RUclips thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)

  • @SGTWinchester85
    @SGTWinchester85 Год назад

    I’m so worried about things everyday. My weight, my heart, my head, my anxiety blood pressure. Id give anything for peace within

  • @Juice_grows
    @Juice_grows 2 года назад +3

    Wow powerful. Made me think about things in a way I never have before

  • @user-jf2pw5ki6m
    @user-jf2pw5ki6m Год назад +1

    Wees oor niks besorg nie maar laat julle begeertes in alles deur gebed en smeking met dankseging bekend word by God❤God is bigger than your problems

  • @fishionboy9911
    @fishionboy9911 2 года назад

    Just thank you

  • @Cody-zd2ye
    @Cody-zd2ye Год назад

    Thank you big J

  • @leoace9903
    @leoace9903 Год назад +1

    My brother recently had brain surgery that made him in vegatable state, My Mother was recently diagnosed with Breast Cancer the thought of her going thru all these pains and financial constraints made me worry a lot.
    I don't know where to get strength and how I can apply this video in my situation. I have sought professional help and I'm praying and hoping real hard that these medications would really work and help me get back on track.

  • @tameyourmonkeymind3382
    @tameyourmonkeymind3382 3 года назад +3

    Love these videosss 😍

  • @iamthatiam363
    @iamthatiam363 3 года назад +15

    I was eating a big breakfast and doing all this! I got so bad went to doctor because I couldn't stand the chest pain from anxiety anymore. For 2 months I lay in bed suffering and it turned out to be a UTI with no normal signs!!!🙈

  • @flyingvnman
    @flyingvnman 2 месяца назад

    thank you

  • @J4YsonPG
    @J4YsonPG Год назад

    thank you Michael 🙌🙏

  • @mickeyconnolly-ur7or
    @mickeyconnolly-ur7or Год назад +1

    Inspirational speach which I can relate to thanks for sharing

  • @truejedi5547
    @truejedi5547 Год назад +1

    Something I don't understand how I could have the perfect family and yet be so miserable and hateful with myself. I let my anxiety win too many times. I hated feeling this way so much I made my family suffer my new ugly personality; I know they hate me now, but they'll never say that. For me, I learned suicide bringing peace was a misguide. Peace is for the living and we have to be bold enough to live for something so beautiful.
    Thank you Mr Peterson