@@johnroe4551 Unless, you're getting 100% success rate with every single girl you flirt with in every single country you've been in -- the ones who rejects you, probably see you as undesirable.
As a black man, I honestly grew up believing we were the most beautiful humans on Earth. I think this is why I've never been disappointed or upset that another race/culture is not interested in me/us. I just see it as me becoming more aware of the world but never been disheartened. And it never caused me to enjoy a place any less. As long of the food is good and people offer me respect (which I return).
@@rogar0x785 So not neglecting would be saying "everyone is the most beautiful"? my words did not put anyone down, I did not say I am more human, a better human, more capable, less capable, or entitled to anything. No one is neglected by my words. Maybe you are simply more comfortable with the idea of blacks and/or other groups fawning over european features or something
The interviewer is a sorcerer! No words said, yet the people he's interviewing are pouring their hearts out. For real tho, this was actually quite refreshing to have a discussion where the host is purely listening and we just get to hear, uninterrupted, the guest's thought process. Love it.
Or could it be that they rarely have people walk up to them for interviews since they are people of color so having someone of color walk up to them to talk to them and talk about real issues affecting them in Korea kinda made them more comfortable?
It is really sad to see how people discriminate against black people and use it as excuse by saying it is what they see on tv or social media. But when they see the same thing about white people it doesn’t change they view of them.
@@2mac_mini952 who is this "y'all' that you're referring to? proper grammar or not having a stereotype about a race isn't ok and cannot be justified whatsoever. you're obviously a weirdo.
As a brown person, I'm quite heartbroken over how a lot of people treat black people just because of their race. They could have so much to give and people don't find it good enough because of their skin colour? Man if black people set out to get revenge they would have enough heartbreak inside them to set the world on fire.
What if they set out to get revenge?? The black dude straight up said he doesn't date anyone but black, no what if needed. Everybody knows about black people doing it too. It's the same thing and who really cares? Let people fucking date who they want. And when you are going to a different country maybe don't have the expectation that people there just have been waiting for foreigners with a different culture to come around so that they can date them. You are never going to be happy if you think you are entitled to being loved by strangers. The tall girl prefers tall people, maybe korean guys prefer korean people too..? Like she said you need to keep your self respect and not define yourself by what others think. And you should also not define who you date by what others think. Look for someone that wants you. If they don't want you, you are not going to negotiate a relationship.
I am in Taiwan and one time a guy who was asking me out said to me he likes black girls as long as 'they are not sick or have infections'. I was very offended in that he is associating black people with disease.
@@Spokentruths725 a lot of the people over there watch movies about africa and with they closed minds they will just ASSUME that’s how we’re all living!! So I wouldn’t get to mad about it it’s really just them being selfish and not wanting to learn more about other cultures other then there own
Ignorant comments like this used to annoy me. But at this point, I laugh at it and stay away from people like that. My first ignorant experience was with a kid in Thailand who asked me why I don't shower? Insinuating if I did shower I wouldn't be black. What's even funnier, is that I told a buddy of mine and he wasn't surprised at all. Because some girl told him he needs to stop showering with hot water. 😂 We can't fix stupid. But we can avoid it like the plague though.
It don’t matter where I go,I’m going to still date my PEOPLE. I love myself and black people too damn much, to be worried about being accepted by another race.
I travel for fun and I noticed a lot of my folk thought it meant I was searching for a foreign partner. And I'm like "they cool but I'm just there to experience the culture". My love and affection for us is my foundation for what makes me comfortable experiencing things unfamiliar to me.
The French girl has such a wise and lovely outlook on the world even though she faces difficulty, what a sweet person! And I was amazed to see a fellow Alabama person in this video! Very insightful video as always. I don't know if it comes naturally to you to interview, but you do such an amazing job approaching people in multiple languages, so if it's way out of your comfort zone, I commend you extra!
My question is, all these beautiful melanin people in the video huh why can't they date each other but it seems all of them are looking for Korean men and women to date and it's very very sad... Why is that? some body tell me please... something not right with us period
@@AlkebulanJahmiah i think it’s mostly because it’s hard to meet a black person there? Like if you’ve ever been overseas in a white/Asian prominent country you’d understand that it’s really hard to meet your own race. And most of the time when you do, they end up not being your type (body and personality wise)
All I have to say…it’s not a Kdrama, if you’re going to Korea to find yourself a Korean girlfriend or boyfriend then just stop because ITS HARD. Not everyone there is open minded to a interracial relationship, they mostly see black people as “easy” or just “fun” and most of the time they just know their family won’t accept it.
Especially "Fun" Black men are viewed as Endowed men down there while it's not all of them are like that. But comparing to Koreans, I think They got a Chance to stand out, so many girls there will not take you seriously, maybe just for hookup, or no String attached thing, So if you try to put feelings on it, Bro, you will get a heart break in a second week like the guy in the video 😂
I want to visit South Korea one day because it's such a beautiful place, this dating stuff doesn't bother me at all because I prefer being single and I live in a country where I get judged for choosing to be single so SK doesn't sound too bad lol. I do feel bad for people who are interested in having relationships with Koreans but I think its a bit weird to go to a country for the sole purpose of being in a relationship with the people from that country. Things like that have to happen naturally otherwise you'll be heartbroken or end up being partnered up with the wrong person for the wrong reasons.
Can we date beautiful ❤️💖❤️. U being single is a choice and I respect that. After hearing many stories negative stories of people who are in a relationship will make u wanna stay single... But there's another side of it. That comes when you meet the right person. From your comment I see that u are a nice person. Can we be friends.
I wish every one who is enamoured with the Hulu Wave and are going crazy about the KPop, KDrama, KFood, etc., should watch your videos before going to Korea. It's a real eye opener. Everything boils down to how we are as a person, and how we adapt to rejection or acceptance. Listen to the wise words of, Moon, she said something amazing -dont loose your self esteem, try to understand what you need and what you want. Just be yourself and Love yourself. There no better words then these spoken by anyone. Too many stereotypes, beliefs, closed mentality exists in Korea. So go there with an open mind and a strong will.
I hate to say it but Koreans are just not interested in us black people. One, their close minded and two, they're just not into our skin tone. It's rough out here..
I loved living in South Korea while I was stationed there. Outside of the dating culture the people are mostly warm and welcoming especially in more rural parts. As you get closer to the city, you’ll definitely notice a shift in how you’re received. Most times it didn’t bother me and my daughter noticed it as well but that’s where we educate and teach self love 💯. I’d go back in a heartbeat but not to date. Note that All of the black women had a different experience than the black men. You’ve gotta be completely secure in yourself in order to experience a different culture because they Will stare but out of curiosity more than anything. We’re breaking stereotypes. Well said by Moon ❤
Yes and go over there for something more in-depthful than all this dating. A lot of the people there know that's what so many westerner's go over there for so they have a mindset already unfortunate for us anyway. But if you go over there differently and just "let things" happen if it does then it can turn out well. All that meeting on them apps are problematic too.
Yea, all the black women had a hard time. The Korean women just go get what they want I guess 😂. When our culture glorifies black women like Cardi B, Megan Stallion and Lizzo, I can see why Korean men would be afraid.
I am brown girl. I have a friend who went korea for masters degree...she said she felt do ignored by the dudes there even when she is considered pretty here. Even the most average looking white girl had more boys's attention than her and her other brown/dark friends.
So??? Having preference is bad?? If they gave brown skin attention...noone would cared....if they bothering someone for skin... that's bad...not having preference on dating....its all preference...if korean are into white... what's wrong in that?? They not bothering you or killing you
@@Mr.Eminem its not a preference. Nor its koreans only. In any part of the world people would choose white skin. Even in the west, dark skin is a trend. A trend by white people. Its not a preference if its highly influenced by colourist mindset.
I hope girls stop attaching their worth to men. You don't need male validation. You may fit into the beauty standards of one place, but may not fit in another place. It still doesn't change your beauty 🥀.
@@MyUmer10 i'm brown and i never had problems with getting dates in america...and i don't think it's a trend. we have a lot more mixed people than most of the world, it's not as simple as blanketing white people. we have all been exposed to each other. we let our society be heterogenous. places like korea, and the rest of the world that is still homogenous, will not be ready to mingle with others until they start growing up around them.
I don't think they were searching for relevancy. That is their place of residence and they are sharing their experiences. Most of them didn't care if you noticed.
I go there quietly buy my skincare and nct albums comes back to my hotel or chill at the cafe alone but for first timers korean subway is going to be difficult
Wow, great video! The audio is perfect, the images are beautiful. The interviewees were great too in their answers. I lived in Seoul with my family for about 6 years. I was in middle school/high school in the French school (LFS) so I wasn't really dating at the time. But for sure, I could tell there's this ideal for them, especially the women, to rather date a white man than a Black man. Which is fine if it's your preference, but most of the time it's deeper than that and it's rooted in ignorance, stereotypes etc like the interviewees had said. Great video!
wow, its interesting that people feel the need to racialize black people CONSTANTLY.... she couldn't simply be the tall sweet beautiful girl. in a video full of black people you still felt the impulse to racialize her.... nothing against you, you are just mirroring whatever society you are from but its interesting....
EXACTLY. 1 billion percent fact. Even in our neighborhoods. They move in and yet for many of us trying to grow into the suburban life they discriminate. They can move into our areas with ease, but we are not allowed to move into their area. They can steal from our culture and pretend on the big screen, but they do not like seeing our films portraying us as upscale people. It is disgusting.
Whatever the reason why you are in Korea, please be the best person you can be and don't stop being your best self. Also, don't let your reason for being Korea be the main reason you are trying to find a boyfriend and or spouse. Be there in Korea so they can learn from you. And if the Korean man and women, are not interested in you. Say Amen and move on, there are other races out there who would love to know you and be appreciative of you who you are. Do not lower your standards as an individual because you are valued and deserve respect as a person. Don't be discouraged! Keep your head up! Reply
You’re definitely right about wanting to date someone who’s in within your own culture but the thing that’s weird is having disgust or hatred towards other cultures. I just wish things were different ☹️
@@memrman8331 i dont think they're going to Korea to date, or promoting that. they made this video to show people who potentially might wanna leave the US (which is valid asf) what life is like in other countries
Honestly speaking, I'm over every race that looks down on black people. They can continue hating from outside of the club. Being black is a blessing even though shxts kinda Dangerous sometimes , but I wouldn't have it any other way. It's LIT! 🔥 A proud black South African woman. 🖤
They maybe acknowledging the different kind of "blacks". You know like the ones from England, Caribbean, American, Africa. Not everyone see you the way you see yourselves. Only "Black" Americans walk around calling anyone with hue Black 😂
@@johnroe4551 Then they should state where they're from! The whole world knows who Black Americans are. We have different cultures and we're built different from the others.
People in Korea (foreigners included) are so obsessed with dating. I cannot tell how many times people (boss, clients, friends parents, taxi drivers...) told me why don't you date a Korean man they are nice. It's giving "you should come up here and get one of these, it's a chicken salad" 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dying from laughter. Ur comment has made my day seriously. If I ever go to Korea I’m just eat food and taking pics and getting wasted. I’m not wasting my vacation trying to find a Korean guy or girl to shack up with.
@@daihughes7710 Honey you already know! So many things you can enjoy in that country. You may come back home broke and thicker but not heartbroken 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I have dated a Korean guy here in the US once. It wasn't our culture that was the problem, he was just strange. I live in a highly Korean area in NJ and have a few Korean friends. Koreans are mostly dating each other. Its funny, this area is very diverse but we live in pockets. If Koreans live in a town with a lot of Koreans, its quite possible they do not interact with black people often. They are still hanging out with mostly other Asian people (All of Asia) and whites. They don't relate to black culture unless they have business that serve in Black areas (hair supply or nail salons come to mind). I would date Koreans again, but I just find the opportunity to meet one not so easy so it won't happen. For now I date a Ukrainian.
Honestly, this behavior of not taking foreigners seriously is not related to skin color. Based on my experiences, Koreans do not take foreigners, especially foreign women, into serious relationships. It is always a fun time for them.
@@cocaineminor4420 I think it’s not only that they also expect most foreigners to leave soon like they aren’t going to be in Korea forever and they can’t do long distance relationships.
I doubt good-looking white women and men that are considered attractive in Korea and can speak Korean will have much trouble finding serious dates. Specifically, attractive white people will likely be taken more seriously than other foreigners in Korea unfortunately.
@@maya_jones3411 negative in general as Korean. Most if not all Korean friends around me prefer to marry own kind. It's not racial but preference. But still entertain the idea of dating other race for curiosity. Less attractive Korean women end up with foreign guys
@@lee1445 Maybe your friends, but one of my friends has gone to Korea multiple times, she’s very beautiful, fits the Korean standards and random Korean men were asking for a date. At the end of the day, we’re all just human beings and a lot of people like hot/attractive humans lol.
Moon is very pretty but I hate how so many comments are about her beauty. It’s like dark brown girls have to look/be mixed or exotic looking to be praised for their looks and I’m sick of it. The other women were beautiful also but I haven’t seen one comment about it. African features are demonized even by African people.
Man, this channel is dope. I am brazilian, and i think i will travel to Korea in the future for study the language. So, manny thanks to you to share this videos.
I am a Korean man. To be honest, skin color is not a problem in Korea. In fact, when Korean men meet women, the important thing is what women look like. If you are black and pretty, they would choose you over white and Asian people. So if you have a hard time dating in Korea, it's just about your appearance or personality or language,, not because of your race. Maybe this is similar everywhere in the world. Please don't gaslight Korea as a racist country. Korea only discriminates based on appearance, not race lol. And don't meet people in clubs or apps. Isn't it obvious what they will be like?
I’ve never been to Korea but this sounds honest. Especially the part where you talked about meeting on apps. Omg I’ve had the worst cases from guys off the apps NEVER again. But I appreciate the honesty as a black girl ✨👍🏽
South Korea is like an irony in itself. It seems like dating is very prominent or it is like a 'couple country' and then they promote their idols as single for life and then label their dating situation as "scandal" if it gets revealed in the public. Ironic AF.
So from what I’m hearing, is the black men don’t think it’s hard for them to date. Not knowing they are being more fetishised. They don’t take black people seriously. The black women seem to have a harder time getting men, while the black man’s are fetishised because of what they believe every black man has below the belt, but still will not be taken seriously. That’s what I’ve taken…
@@advanced8998 I think most of them in this video think it’s easy for them to date because the girls want to sleep with them. Now knowing that they are not taken seriously and are being used for what the world believe they endow compared to their own Asian man. While the Asian men just think black women are easy but don’t want them either. It’s sad the black men don’t see it.
Let me share with you all my story, I’ve been in Korea and yes most people are racist as fuck compare to other places I’ve been, but eventually boils down to the person. I went there not trying to please or make others like me, I went there because I love their food, their culture and wanted to have fun. So guess what? That’s what I did and they loved me for it. I focused on having fun myself and didn’t care about all that racist stuff. And just like that I had Koreans trying to speak English and been polite to me. I dance with many Koreans girls, hook up with one of them whom I’m still friends with now days, drink with a bunch of random Korean dudes that like my vibe. I had a blast honestly. Play to your strength, I went to places where they played some salsa and reggaeton and you could dance in the floor, I didn’t bother with places where foreigners were not allowed, and so what? since I know how to salsa many Koreans loved me in those places. Again I went to those places because I wanted to salsa dance with Koreans, for my own pleasure, I wanted to experience it, NOT “THE OTHER WAY AROUND”, and let me tell you, Koreans mamacitas know how to salsa my friend. I had a wonderful time. Takeaway? just have confidence and have fun. Don’t go there criticizing, just know that some people are fucked up but so are we all lol, right? So just have fun and like any other country let the game come to you, dont act like a creep thinking you got game hehe.
This. It's kinda weird going anywhere thinking how they will like you 😭 like nigga I don't careeeee. If you discriminate me I will discriminate you harder, or not at all, depending on how I feel. I just feel like I can never be put down by another race, i'm not insecure like that.
@@Jordan-xg4pn Why go somewhere where you're not wanted??? That's how people come up missing. Trying to fit in with people that don't like you is counter productive and dangerous.
@@menewsome So why don't you just live in an isolate island ? 'cause there's surely a lot of people who don't like your race in your country... If you want to be happy in this life, you need to detach yourself from the negative opinion of people on you !! Live for yourself no for what they expect of you !!
The female beauty gave the best advice especially towards the end of the video. Know and love yourself, never push who you are on others. They eye balling you anyways. Love yourself.
its sad because historically some of the first interactions koreans had with black people was in war time when black american soldiers lived and existed in segregated units but fought side by side with white soldiers. and even if they werent segregated, they were always commanded/head by white officers. i always wondered if that shaped their view on black people in that all of the stereotypes and racist sentiments became filtered through a white american lens. of course colorism plays into it as well. but what should be mentioned is how strong american exceptionalism is as a belief in korea. that american exceptionalism ties in with american race relations. even if western ideals in general are prominent there, the influence of the u.s specifically has a very significant history.
I remember yeeeears ago, this Korean guy was telling me about how he liked black people because of his interaction during the Korean war. He said the Koreans and black people were segregated together away from the whites.
Bro everyone has access to Twitter/RUclips. The way you act everyday on the streets is enough to deter people. Rest of the world doesn’t act like thugs and criminals.
@@juventus6728 korea is a very interesting country the culture there is different and the architecture there is beautiful it would be amazing to learn that there ....the countries you named are not something I would look forward to visiting
All of us have prejudices some based on individual natural instincts and some based on economical, social n political baises. Best is not to get disheartened and keep open mind. Many times some event happens and you end up getting strong relationships of life time.
I think that a lot of them would sleep with black people but not a relationship. A lot of this is down to the culture and a lot of parents from that generation would look down on it. It's a shame. Slow steps though. Things are changing gradually. *Edit - I live in the UK and the Asian girls do not rock with me at all except the ones born here. I feel like they are scared of me 😂😂 they LOVE the white guys though. A lot of this is to do with TV/films showing the heartthrob is a white guy.
No! actually it might be culture and belief maybe even religion and racism, indians in my country believe Blk ppl to be cursed race because of their holy books, stating one of their God's burnt our skin, even think we are sub humans lol, but many are now marrying Blk but still has stigma in relationships because of relatives and other folks as themselves, i love my own ppl first no one is superior or better because of hair or skin color
I am proudly Black skin, I love me, I love my skin tone, it radiate distinctive, I’m different in a beautiful way♥️ When I’m in a foreign land, I still love myself regardless and I’m always being nice to other skin tone because skin colour doesn’t matter🤞🏼🤞🏾 And please, you can’t be accepted by everyone, don’t put your hopes too high. It’s just life, live it and enjoy it!!!!
Watching all these videos show me that us blacks love to be loved/accepted by every race. But NONE of them care for us. I hope we get tired of being that foster kid nobody loves, and LOVE OURSELVES
Not being able to speak a native language before living in a foreign country is a huge oversight. Maybe that’s a main contributor why the dating scene isn’t working as well in their favor.
Yes, it is. Once I settled into Korea, my clothing changed and it was pretty obvious to Koreans that I had been there a while. I could get by speaking Korean for my basic daily needs and met several Korean guys who were open to being boyfriend/girlfriend. That was certainly NOT the case when I first arrived and didn't know what questions to ask to determine someone's relationship status or understand the normalcy/necessity of asking if someone is single and what type of woman they like EARLY on.
Back in the day people went over there telling Koreans all sorts of falsehoods about Black people and Koreans not knowing any better, believe what they were being told. I remember when I was stationed there back in 1980 and some Koreans wanted to see if we had a tail like a monkey, seriously. I can't make this up. They have been told so many crazy things that I guess it has been difficult for them to separate truth from fiction. Don't go looking for relationships, enjoy your time there and come on back home.
I know you’re not lying because my dad was stationed in Korea a long time ago, and that same story is what he told me when he was there. It’s a shame what they thought of Black people. He also told me that you literally have to pry those women off of you because they believe in having sex with their men all the time they believe “happy man makes happy work” that’s what my dad told me.
One thing that one of the people here said is true most places in the world, except America. People in other countries are more focused on relationships more than dating. After three dates, the expectations are that you commit to being in a relationship. They’re in it for a long time… not just a good time.
It's ironic that for such a relationship-obsessed culture, they have the lowest birth rate on the planet (maybe in all of history), a population that's already shrinking, and a growing national panic over 'demographic collapse'.
Fact of life. Always live in integrity. Never take anyone for granted. Have a mission. When you have a clear goal to be the best at a Trade or Career that is sexy. When you take care of yourself through exercise, good food, drink lots of water and hot tea that is sexy. When you are generous,set healthy boundaries, and have a good sense of humor that is sexy. When you know God without dogma you are unstoppable. You can have a big heart and don’t take crap from anyone being diplomatic always using your words that is power. The world is you’re oyster 🦪 when you stand in you’re power and have a clear goal what you would like to do with you’re life.
It's such a wonderful feeling, not giving a DAMN what other people/ethnicities think of you! It's a very liberating thing! Wish our brothers and sisters would try it more! Black culture is world culture..black folk need to recognize they are the ish when so many different cultures all over the world emulate dang near everything black folk do! Even if they don't like the color of your skin, and love to assume you're every stereotype they've been spoonfed by their foreign preference, just love on yourself and try your best to lose the rest! I've been blessed to learn to love people through/in spite of their ignorance/lack of knowledge! As long as the Lord love me, I'm BEYOND good!😊❤
Hey i just wanted to thank and salute you for the work that you do and the great, insightful content you create on your channel. I have been able to learn and gain much insight through your videos and feel like your open mind as well as your objective and unbiased style of asking them leaves so much space for people to reflect and express their thoughts and experiences. Very, very dope! Keep up the good work bro!
PLEASE KEEP MAKING MORE PARTS OF THIS. WE HAVE SO MANY BLACK PEOPLE WHO GLORIFY ASIANS, FOR SPECIFICS OF THIS VIDEO... KOREANS.. NOT EVEN UNDERSTANDING THEY DON'T LIKE YOU AND ARE OFTEN CONFUSED WHY YOU WOULD THINK THEY WOULD WANT YOU
It's the same in years US ppl like the thrill of being w a black person the sex etc but they haven't begun to understand what we go through so it's rare that you'll get someone that's going to go so far out of their way to get it to be supportive.
I mean tbh if you really think about, fetishitization of other races happens in other places to, for example in the US Latinas are fetishized a lot. Many people would love to hook with them but wouldn't get into a ling term relationship w them. We must not be so critical of other cultures and think that our own is better, bc no culture is right or wrong or better than the other
I am an 8-year veteran. I see in this video, a couple of soldiers clearly stationed in South Korea talking about the local national women who frequent American military installations and clubs. Every nation that houses American bases, including, for instance, Germany, Japan, and Belgium, experiences the same thing. These young women the soldiers referring to are mainly interested in dating foreigners. There is a revolving door effect when these two groups date each other. We referred to those women as Barracks 304s. If you are clueless as to what 304 means, try searching RUclips. We military personnel hear the tales before we leave the United States. Since July 7, 1950, American military forces have occupied 15 locations in South Korea, it is now 2023. Anyway, Normal Asian girls do not, however, frequently hang out with Americans. When they do contemplate dating a foreigner, it is typically a white male like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth or a Latino man like Cristiano Ronaldo. Blacks are almost never taken into consideration.
As someone who was stationed in Korea you are absolutely correct. I laughed at some points of the video because I know for a fact that many of those women they were sleeping with were sleeping with them due to fetish reasons or for that green card. I know so many black and Hispanic soldiers that thought they had met the love of their life just to get played in the end lol. They were desperate for validation. But the white men, that's who they wanted. That's who got introduced to their families.
I lived for 3 years in Korea and I dated a lot. Long story short... I married a Chinese girl I met in Seoul. Korean beauty/looks/money/standards are just impossible. There's nothing like drama/kpop guys or girls there. Yeah, they are good looking specially women but that's all. Is a hard society to live in.
It's hard for outsiders, it's like introducing vegetables when you've eaten meat all your life. I love it there, felt right at home. I live in the USA and life is really hard here for me, I'm not used to being around white people who are also very uncultured
I think it’s naive to enter a country that is 95% (anything )and expect to ‘become family” quickly especially when you don’t speak their language. Cuz for them culture is everything . Being of another culture and wanting something more than just a hookup then you have to show that you fit into their culture especially when they’ve seen those cultures via social media and they clash with their own values and cultural norms. Korea Mansae! Hope to visit sometime 🕶& be the new black girl in town 😂
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i wont be suprised in a few years time, a lot of single men will fly down there to date. The west is finished
Não é verdade, eles fazem a diferença 1:21
Black people, learn to love yourself and stop trying to please other groups of people. There is nothing wrong with you.
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100 agreed. Peace
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Well said!!!
Thank you and God blessed
“It’s 50/50 they’re disgusted with me or love me.” Wow that hit me fr
It’s so true😭 one guy was all over me and one dude looked at me an ran away there is no in between i swear
That's literally how it is anywhere in the world.
@@user-gp1bt4vm3r exactly
Something tells me you can't prove that lmao
@@johnroe4551 Unless, you're getting 100% success rate with every single girl you flirt with in every single country you've been in -- the ones who rejects you, probably see you as undesirable.
As a black man, I honestly grew up believing we were the most beautiful humans on Earth. I think this is why I've never been disappointed or upset that another race/culture is not interested in me/us. I just see it as me becoming more aware of the world but never been disheartened. And it never caused me to enjoy a place any less. As long of the food is good and people offer me respect (which I return).
I used to think that my culture's people is the most beautiful too, then i realized that God doesnt want us to think that. #respect
"most beautiful human on Earth'' for real? That point of view is bad don't neglect other race beauty
@@houstonsportsfan242 I guess its only okay if we are talking about Angels. cause the bible identifies a most beautiful angel
@@rogar0x785 So not neglecting would be saying "everyone is the most beautiful"? my words did not put anyone down, I did not say I am more human, a better human, more capable, less capable, or entitled to anything. No one is neglected by my words. Maybe you are simply more comfortable with the idea of blacks and/or other groups fawning over european features or something
@@thaUnWavering " I honestly believe that my race is the most beautiful in the world" what the you call that?
The interviewer is a sorcerer! No words said, yet the people he's interviewing are pouring their hearts out. For real tho, this was actually quite refreshing to have a discussion where the host is purely listening and we just get to hear, uninterrupted, the guest's thought process. Love it.
Power of being a good listener
Or could it be that they rarely have people walk up to them for interviews since they are people of color so having someone of color walk up to them to talk to them and talk about real issues affecting them in Korea kinda made them more comfortable?
@@tosinyusuff9483 Ay good point.
Lol there cuts between the videos
@@alaosodiq4626 Read everything I said. The host just listens without interrupting and jumping in.
It is really sad to see how people discriminate against black people and use it as excuse by saying it is what they see on tv or social media. But when they see the same thing about white people it doesn’t change they view of them.
내가 tv에서 본 흑인들의 모습은 항상 동양인을 때리거나 죽임 난 흑인들 무서움
does’t change their view of them* Maybe they have stereotypes because yall cant even use proper grammar
@@2mac_mini952 who is this "y'all' that you're referring to? proper grammar or not having a stereotype about a race isn't ok and cannot be justified whatsoever. you're obviously a weirdo.
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Because white people are known to be coming from wealthy developed nations. Asians respect wealth and prestige more than anything.
As a brown person, I'm quite heartbroken over how a lot of people treat black people just because of their race. They could have so much to give and people don't find it good enough because of their skin colour? Man if black people set out to get revenge they would have enough heartbreak inside them to set the world on fire.
This happens within same race and similar skin color too. So nothing to fuss about it.
@@skagraw2yes it is we deal with pure hell and it sucks
@@skagraw2 You are full of sand.
What if they set out to get revenge?? The black dude straight up said he doesn't date anyone but black, no what if needed. Everybody knows about black people doing it too. It's the same thing and who really cares? Let people fucking date who they want. And when you are going to a different country maybe don't have the expectation that people there just have been waiting for foreigners with a different culture to come around so that they can date them. You are never going to be happy if you think you are entitled to being loved by strangers.
The tall girl prefers tall people, maybe korean guys prefer korean people too..?
Like she said you need to keep your self respect and not define yourself by what others think. And you should also not define who you date by what others think. Look for someone that wants you. If they don't want you, you are not going to negotiate a relationship.
Your right and that's actually what about to happen within the next 10 years
We as Blk ppl are discriminated against everywhere by everyone,wether it’s in the open or quietly. Remember that bros & sistas
Lol who tf cares get over it and enjoy life
@@Boomy2nicce obviously you do. Thanks for commenting….😏 works every time
@BadBlood_TheCommonGround ma'am
@BadBlood&TheCommonGround heard of freedom of movement
@BadBlood&TheCommonGround he said everywhere so where do you suggest he go then?
I am in Taiwan and one time a guy who was asking me out said to me he likes black girls as long as 'they are not sick or have infections'. I was very offended in that he is associating black people with disease.
That is disturbing
Yeah where tf would he even get that from. I dont even think the media is suggesting that part.
@@Spokentruths725 a lot of the people over there watch movies about africa and with they closed minds they will just ASSUME that’s how we’re all living!! So I wouldn’t get to mad about it it’s really just them being selfish and not wanting to learn more about other cultures other then there own
Ignorant comments like this used to annoy me. But at this point, I laugh at it and stay away from people like that. My first ignorant experience was with a kid in Thailand who asked me why I don't shower? Insinuating if I did shower I wouldn't be black. What's even funnier, is that I told a buddy of mine and he wasn't surprised at all. Because some girl told him he needs to stop showering with hot water. 😂 We can't fix stupid. But we can avoid it like the plague though.
Hi oumah
It don’t matter where I go,I’m going to still date my PEOPLE. I love myself and black people too damn much, to be worried about being accepted by another race.
Facts
this the comment!
When I tell to my relatives that no matter where I go I will find my black soulmate they don't trust me .... I agree with you✨🖤
I travel for fun and I noticed a lot of my folk thought it meant I was searching for a foreign partner. And I'm like "they cool but I'm just there to experience the culture". My love and affection for us is my foundation for what makes me comfortable experiencing things unfamiliar to me.
Period
The French girl has such a wise and lovely outlook on the world even though she faces difficulty, what a sweet person! And I was amazed to see a fellow Alabama person in this video! Very insightful video as always. I don't know if it comes naturally to you to interview, but you do such an amazing job approaching people in multiple languages, so if it's way out of your comfort zone, I commend you extra!
Anybody know the insta of the tall black girl?
@@RamMohammadJosephKaur It's in the description lol
My question is, all these beautiful melanin people in the video huh why can't they date each other but it seems all of them are looking for Korean men and women to date and it's very very sad... Why is that? some body tell me please... something not right with us period
@@AlkebulanJahmiah i think it’s mostly because it’s hard to meet a black person there? Like if you’ve ever been overseas in a white/Asian prominent country you’d understand that it’s really hard to meet your own race. And most of the time when you do, they end up not being your type (body and personality wise)
She looks like a pretty praying mantis
All I have to say…it’s not a Kdrama, if you’re going to Korea to find yourself a Korean girlfriend or boyfriend then just stop because ITS HARD. Not everyone there is open minded to a interracial relationship, they mostly see black people as “easy” or just “fun” and most of the time they just know their family won’t accept it.
Hi rose 🌹
Dey should beez sticking to their own melanin peoples anyways. Dats why we don't beez having an empire.
@@gawo8375 that sounded so dumb i lost a few IQ points
yeah
Especially "Fun" Black men are viewed as Endowed men down there while it's not all of them are like that. But comparing to Koreans, I think They got a Chance to stand out, so many girls there will not take you seriously, maybe just for hookup, or no String attached thing, So if you try to put feelings on it, Bro, you will get a heart break in a second week like the guy in the video 😂
I want to visit South Korea one day because it's such a beautiful place, this dating stuff doesn't bother me at all because I prefer being single and I live in a country where I get judged for choosing to be single so SK doesn't sound too bad lol. I do feel bad for people who are interested in having relationships with Koreans but I think its a bit weird to go to a country for the sole purpose of being in a relationship with the people from that country. Things like that have to happen naturally otherwise you'll be heartbroken or end up being partnered up with the wrong person for the wrong reasons.
Preach. !
Can we date beautiful ❤️💖❤️. U being single is a choice and I respect that. After hearing many stories negative stories of people who are in a relationship will make u wanna stay single... But there's another side of it. That comes when you meet the right person. From your comment I see that u are a nice person. Can we be friends.
Yes sister single ladies club all the way
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Truth 🤍
Who in the hell is going to Korea to find a date? 😂
😂 fan boys and girls 🤣
Punks lol
Lmao😂😂
It was highly unexpected for me tho but it happen ❤️😂
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wish every one who is enamoured with the Hulu Wave and are going crazy about the KPop, KDrama, KFood, etc., should watch your videos before going to Korea. It's a real eye opener. Everything boils down to how we are as a person, and how we adapt to rejection or acceptance. Listen to the wise words of, Moon, she said something amazing -dont loose your self esteem, try to understand what you need and what you want. Just be yourself and Love yourself. There no better words then these spoken by anyone. Too many stereotypes, beliefs, closed mentality exists in Korea. So go there with an open mind and a strong will.
I hate to say it but Koreans are just not interested in us black people. One, their close minded and two, they're just not into our skin tone. It's rough out here..
Anybody know the insta of the tall black girl?
@@RamMohammadJosephKaur yes I do know her Insta why do you. Ask?
The one actually going crazy about hallyu wave is European girls but most Koreans aren't into the hallyu wave sooo that's kind of awkward.
"Closed mentality" They shouldn't have to change their cultural ways to appease some outsiders 🤷🏽♂️. They have that right
This is a very mature and rich street interview. Love it
I loved living in South Korea while I was stationed there. Outside of the dating culture the people are mostly warm and welcoming especially in more rural parts. As you get closer to the city, you’ll definitely notice a shift in how you’re received. Most times it didn’t bother me and my daughter noticed it as well but that’s where we educate and teach self love 💯. I’d go back in a heartbeat but not to date. Note that All of the black women had a different experience than the black men. You’ve gotta be completely secure in yourself in order to experience a different culture because they Will stare but out of curiosity more than anything. We’re breaking stereotypes. Well said by Moon ❤
Hi love
Am Bennett from Ghana west Africa …. Nice to meet you
Yes and go over there for something more in-depthful than all this dating. A lot of the people there know that's what so many westerner's go over there for so they have a mindset already unfortunate for us anyway. But if you go over there differently and just "let things" happen if it does then it can turn out well. All that meeting on them apps are problematic too.
Yea, all the black women had a hard time. The Korean women just go get what they want I guess 😂.
When our culture glorifies black women like Cardi B, Megan Stallion and Lizzo, I can see why Korean men would be afraid.
@@bennettaddo3792 Lol. No be here you go find love. Shift abeg
I am brown girl. I have a friend who went korea for masters degree...she said she felt do ignored by the dudes there even when she is considered pretty here. Even the most average looking white girl had more boys's attention than her and her other brown/dark friends.
So??? Having preference is bad?? If they gave brown skin attention...noone would cared....if they bothering someone for skin... that's bad...not having preference on dating....its all preference...if korean are into white... what's wrong in that?? They not bothering you or killing you
It’s so very different for black women than black men in Korea and I wish he would’ve spoke more on that.
@@Mr.Eminem its not a preference. Nor its koreans only. In any part of the world people would choose white skin. Even in the west, dark skin is a trend. A trend by white people. Its not a preference if its highly influenced by colourist mindset.
I hope girls stop attaching their worth to men. You don't need male validation. You may fit into the beauty standards of one place, but may not fit in another place. It still doesn't change your beauty 🥀.
@@MyUmer10 i'm brown and i never had problems with getting dates in america...and i don't think it's a trend. we have a lot more mixed people than most of the world, it's not as simple as blanketing white people. we have all been exposed to each other. we let our society be heterogenous. places like korea, and the rest of the world that is still homogenous, will not be ready to mingle with others until they start growing up around them.
We have to stop searching relevancy and hope with people that don’t matter. We need to start worrying about ourselves and we will do much much better
I don't think they were searching for relevancy. That is their place of residence and they are sharing their experiences. Most of them didn't care if you noticed.
Just go to Korea and enjoy the food lol
😩😂🤣 period.
Period lol
Exactly 🙄😂
I go there quietly buy my skincare and nct albums comes back to my hotel or chill at the cafe alone but for first timers korean subway is going to be difficult
Facts💯
The one tall dark girl looks asian herself.
She is 1/4 or 1/2 Vietnamese.
Wow, great video! The audio is perfect, the images are beautiful. The interviewees were great too in their answers. I lived in Seoul with my family for about 6 years. I was in middle school/high school in the French school (LFS) so I wasn't really dating at the time. But for sure, I could tell there's this ideal for them, especially the women, to rather date a white man than a Black man. Which is fine if it's your preference, but most of the time it's deeper than that and it's rooted in ignorance, stereotypes etc like the interviewees had said. Great video!
The tall black girl is so sweet and beautiful 😍
yes she is !!!
Seriously!
Yup! She is!
wow, its interesting that people feel the need to racialize black people CONSTANTLY.... she couldn't simply be the tall sweet beautiful girl. in a video full of black people you still felt the impulse to racialize her.... nothing against you, you are just mirroring whatever society you are from but its interesting....
@ReiN The account is fake because omg a black person happens to be beautiful to someone?
The last girl 😢 she was speaking to me through her own struggles ❤
Moon- half Nigerian/half Korean artist
Definitely been needing this video! Happy to see my people still thriving and traveling in a terrible world. Stay up, fam. 🙏🏽❤️
That why we return the treatment back in the the states. My uncle used to rob them all the time said it’s easy money.
Problem with us black people we accept everyone we need to stop that tbh
EXACTLY. 1 billion percent fact. Even in our neighborhoods. They move in and yet for many of us trying to grow into the suburban life they discriminate. They can move into our areas with ease, but we are not allowed to move into their area. They can steal from our culture and pretend on the big screen, but they do not like seeing our films portraying us as upscale people. It is disgusting.
Huh?
And stop wanting to be accepted by everyone else. We have a problem frfr.
Hell yeah
So we need to do what we don’t like being done to us ?
Whatever the reason why you are in Korea, please be the best person you can be and don't stop being your best self. Also, don't let your reason for being Korea be the main reason you are trying to find a boyfriend and or spouse. Be there in Korea so they can learn from you. And if the Korean man and women, are not interested in you. Say Amen and move on, there are other races out there who would love to know you and be appreciative of you who you are. Do not lower your standards as an individual because you are valued and deserve respect as a person. Don't be discouraged! Keep your head up!
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so no one appreciates the interviewer's fits😍 .... just me okay
That bucket hat wasn’t it
i swear he has some good taste
Everybody’s drip 🔥😆
I’m glad that these people kept it real!!!! Very honest and real interviews!!
All the interviews were fire. The short British girl with braids is crazy intelligent. 🤩 🌹👌🏿
It would seem that Korean women are more open to dating black men whereas Korean men are less inclined to date black women. That’s what I noticed
I like Moon's msg/advice at the end. It's not entirely new advice but the way she expressed it was non-preachy and well-explained.
She’s half-Korean so that’s probably why she can articulate the issue as such.
It's not far fetch for a person to want to date within their own culture & language. Us black people should prioritize dating other black people
yes please do that instead of trying to go to korea to get girls
@@memrman8331 tf
You’re definitely right about wanting to date someone who’s in within your own culture but the thing that’s weird is having disgust or hatred towards other cultures. I just wish things were different ☹️
@@DerickLucas-i6e what is wrong with that
@@memrman8331 i dont think they're going to Korea to date, or promoting that. they made this video to show people who potentially might wanna leave the US (which is valid asf) what life is like in other countries
Love the “tall” girls advice at the end! (Sorry didn’t remember her name) she seems so genuinely sweet
Her mane is Moon and she's a rapper.
Honestly speaking, I'm over every race that looks down on black people. They can continue hating from outside of the club. Being black is a blessing even though shxts kinda Dangerous sometimes , but I wouldn't have it any other way. It's LIT! 🔥
A proud black South African woman. 🖤
Agreed. Very LIT ! 🔥 Signed, your sis, a proud Black American woman. 🖤
Say that again for the slow people in the back👏🏽🗣️🔊
Absolutely 🖤 it’s lit. I would not have it any other way 😊
Firstly, respectfully, everybody is so beautiful, including the interviewer! I love this channel- very refreshing content.💗
ITS MOON THE NEW KPOP IDOL 4:28
It was really interesting to watch all the different opinions and perspectives. Keep making these type of videos K explorer.
Black people not “Blacks” we aren’t things.
They maybe acknowledging the different kind of "blacks". You know like the ones from England, Caribbean, American, Africa. Not everyone see you the way you see yourselves. Only "Black" Americans walk around calling anyone with hue Black 😂
@@johnroe4551 Then they should state where they're from! The whole world knows who Black Americans are. We have different cultures and we're built different from the others.
@@menewsome absolutely. I'm far from being a black American, but I'm still black. Lol
@@JKAnu-yq1tr I like to be called African American more then black tbh . We should
Make people call us by our ethnicity not a color
@@johnroe4551 doesn't matter mate. Black people. Its not that difficult. Nobody says whites or browns.
The French girl is so amazing ❤ this was a great video with great questions! Keep up the content.
People in Korea (foreigners included) are so obsessed with dating. I cannot tell how many times people (boss, clients, friends parents, taxi drivers...) told me why don't you date a Korean man they are nice. It's giving "you should come up here and get one of these, it's a chicken salad" 🤣🤣🤣
It’s like that everywhere because ppl understand the importance of relationships & family unlike there in America
😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dying from laughter. Ur comment has made my day seriously. If I ever go to Korea I’m just eat food and taking pics and getting wasted. I’m not wasting my vacation trying to find a Korean guy or girl to shack up with.
@@daihughes7710 Honey you already know! So many things you can enjoy in that country. You may come back home broke and thicker but not heartbroken 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"you should come up here and get one of these, it's a chicken salad" 🤣🤣🤣
Interesting 👀
I have dated a Korean guy here in the US once. It wasn't our culture that was the problem, he was just strange. I live in a highly Korean area in NJ and have a few Korean friends. Koreans are mostly dating each other. Its funny, this area is very diverse but we live in pockets. If Koreans live in a town with a lot of Koreans, its quite possible they do not interact with black people often. They are still hanging out with mostly other Asian people (All of Asia) and whites. They don't relate to black culture unless they have business that serve in Black areas (hair supply or nail salons come to mind). I would date Koreans again, but I just find the opportunity to meet one not so easy so it won't happen. For now I date a Ukrainian.
Oddly the same situation here in Georgia
@@ChieftainHawke facts🤣🎯
Edison?
@@graycat7704fort Lee or palisades park most likely
Pallisades?
So interesting hearing some of these responses .. whew! Deep.
either completely disgusted or love...that hit real deep
Honestly, this behavior of not taking foreigners seriously is not related to skin color. Based on my experiences, Koreans do not take foreigners, especially foreign women, into serious relationships. It is always a fun time for them.
Well you have to blame Hollywood media for that.
@@cocaineminor4420 I think it’s not only that they also expect most foreigners to leave soon like they aren’t going to be in Korea forever and they can’t do long distance relationships.
I doubt good-looking white women and men that are considered attractive in Korea and can speak Korean will have much trouble finding serious dates. Specifically, attractive white people will likely be taken more seriously than other foreigners in Korea unfortunately.
@@maya_jones3411 negative in general as Korean. Most if not all Korean friends around me prefer to marry own kind. It's not racial but preference. But still entertain the idea of dating other race for curiosity. Less attractive Korean women end up with foreign guys
@@lee1445 Maybe your friends, but one of my friends has gone to Korea multiple times, she’s very beautiful, fits the Korean standards and random Korean men were asking for a date. At the end of the day, we’re all just human beings and a lot of people like hot/attractive humans lol.
That french girl was spitting hella FACTS!!!!!
Moon is very pretty but I hate how so many comments are about her beauty. It’s like dark brown girls have to look/be mixed or exotic looking to be praised for their looks and I’m sick of it. The other women were beautiful also but I haven’t seen one comment about it. African features are demonized even by African people.
Moon is half black & half vietnamese apparently.
Man, this channel is dope. I am brazilian, and i think i will travel to Korea in the future for study the language. So, manny thanks to you to share this videos.
I am a Korean man. To be honest, skin color is not a problem in Korea.
In fact, when Korean men meet women, the important thing is what women look like.
If you are black and pretty, they would choose you over white and Asian people. So if you have a hard time dating in Korea, it's just about your appearance or personality or language,, not because of your race. Maybe this is similar everywhere in the world. Please don't gaslight Korea as a racist country. Korea only discriminates based on appearance, not race lol. And don't meet people in clubs or apps. Isn't it obvious what they will be like?
I’ve never been to Korea but this sounds honest. Especially the part where you talked about meeting on apps. Omg I’ve had the worst cases from guys off the apps NEVER again. But I appreciate the honesty as a black girl ✨👍🏽
South Korea is like an irony in itself. It seems like dating is very prominent or it is like a 'couple country' and then they promote their idols as single for life and then label their dating situation as "scandal" if it gets revealed in the public. Ironic AF.
Korean Idols out here being scapegoat eunuchs 😢😂
like why would you try to find a man when their own women/men can't even date in peace as a star? weirdo
I literally was JUST thinking this
This one
yeah
So from what I’m hearing, is the black men don’t think it’s hard for them to date. Not knowing they are being more fetishised. They don’t take black people seriously. The black women seem to have a harder time getting men, while the black man’s are fetishised because of what they believe every black man has below the belt, but still will not be taken seriously. That’s what I’ve taken…
Black men are lost
@@advanced8998 I think most of them in this video think it’s easy for them to date because the girls want to sleep with them. Now knowing that they are not taken seriously and are being used for what the world believe they endow compared to their own Asian man. While the Asian men just think black women are easy but don’t want them either. It’s sad the black men don’t see it.
@@advanced8998 some not all . Black women too.
I agree I married an Argentinian woman.
It was cool but it was always missing something
Let me share with you all my story, I’ve been in Korea and yes most people are racist as fuck compare to other places I’ve been, but eventually boils down to the person. I went there not trying to please or make others like me, I went there because I love their food, their culture and wanted to have fun. So guess what? That’s what I did and they loved me for it. I focused on having fun myself and didn’t care about all that racist stuff. And just like that I had Koreans trying to speak English and been polite to me. I dance with many Koreans girls, hook up with one of them whom I’m still friends with now days, drink with a bunch of random Korean dudes that like my vibe. I had a blast honestly. Play to your strength, I went to places where they played some salsa and reggaeton and you could dance in the floor, I didn’t bother with places where foreigners were not allowed, and so what? since I know how to salsa many Koreans loved me in those places. Again I went to those places because I wanted to salsa dance with Koreans, for my own pleasure, I wanted to experience it, NOT “THE OTHER WAY AROUND”, and let me tell you, Koreans mamacitas know how to salsa my friend. I had a wonderful time. Takeaway? just have confidence and have fun. Don’t go there criticizing, just know that some people are fucked up but so are we all lol, right? So just have fun and like any other country let the game come to you, dont act like a creep thinking you got game hehe.
That’s the way to do it.
This. It's kinda weird going anywhere thinking how they will like you 😭 like nigga I don't careeeee. If you discriminate me I will discriminate you harder, or not at all, depending on how I feel. I just feel like I can never be put down by another race, i'm not insecure like that.
@@Jordan-xg4pn Why go somewhere where you're not wanted??? That's how people come up missing. Trying to fit in with people that don't like you is counter productive and dangerous.
@@menewsome If you care about that then it's best to just stay home.
@@menewsome So why don't you just live in an isolate island ? 'cause there's surely a lot of people who don't like your race in your country...
If you want to be happy in this life, you need to detach yourself from the negative opinion of people on you !! Live for yourself no for what they expect of you !!
The female beauty gave the best advice especially towards the end of the video. Know and love yourself, never push who you are on others. They eye balling you anyways. Love yourself.
French lady is so wholesome!
its sad because historically some of the first interactions koreans had with black people was in war time when black american soldiers lived and existed in segregated units but fought side by side with white soldiers. and even if they werent segregated, they were always commanded/head by white officers. i always wondered if that shaped their view on black people in that all of the stereotypes and racist sentiments became filtered through a white american lens. of course colorism plays into it as well. but what should be mentioned is how strong american exceptionalism is as a belief in korea. that american exceptionalism ties in with american race relations. even if western ideals in general are prominent there, the influence of the u.s specifically has a very significant history.
I remember yeeeears ago, this Korean guy was telling me about how he liked black people because of his interaction during the Korean war. He said the Koreans and black people were segregated together away from the whites.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
We taught them how to fry chicken
Bro everyone has access to Twitter/RUclips. The way you act everyday on the streets is enough to deter people. Rest of the world doesn’t act like thugs and criminals.
Honestly, I will watch any video featuring Moon🥰✨️ She's so lovely and talented
I plan on moving to South Korea or studying abroad there. I’m black and these videos help a lot.
me too
I would just say to go with no expectations. Just vibe and roll with the flow! Have fun :)
Why South Korea bro? When you can go to Germany, France or Italy?
@@juventus6728 why not korea?
@@juventus6728 korea is a very interesting country the culture there is different and the architecture there is beautiful it would be amazing to learn that there ....the countries you named are not something I would look forward to visiting
The French girl is gorgeous and has a wonderful personality. I doubt she has any problems meeting people just based off of that fact.
All of us have prejudices some based on individual natural instincts and some based on economical, social n political baises. Best is not to get disheartened and keep open mind. Many times some event happens and you end up getting strong relationships of life time.
I think that a lot of them would sleep with black people but not a relationship. A lot of this is down to the culture and a lot of parents from that generation would look down on it.
It's a shame.
Slow steps though. Things are changing gradually.
*Edit - I live in the UK and the Asian girls do not rock with me at all except the ones born here. I feel like they are scared of me 😂😂 they LOVE the white guys though. A lot of this is to do with TV/films showing the heartthrob is a white guy.
No! actually it might be culture and belief maybe even religion and racism, indians in my country believe Blk ppl to be cursed race because of their holy books, stating one of their God's burnt our skin, even think we are sub humans lol, but many are now marrying Blk but still has stigma in relationships because of relatives and other folks as themselves, i love my own ppl first no one is superior or better because of hair or skin color
A lot of it has to do you how you act on the streets
Moon is so cute❤️
I am proudly Black skin, I love me, I love my skin tone, it radiate distinctive, I’m different in a beautiful way♥️
When I’m in a foreign land, I still love myself regardless and I’m always being nice to other skin tone because skin colour doesn’t matter🤞🏼🤞🏾
And please, you can’t be accepted by everyone, don’t put your hopes too high. It’s just life, live it and enjoy it!!!!
Nah they shouldn’t treat us like that. Glad my uncle used to rob them back in LA. Said it’s easy money.
@@laqueenawilliams4762 No one cares. Y’all in jail 😂
@@laqueenawilliams4762Yeah you keep the stereotype alive.
I agree, come to Korea just to enjoy the country and have fun💃💃! Love will find you if it's meant for you❤!
Agree with this statement wholeheartedly 😊
But the problem is sexpats go because of lust, not love.
the french girl is beautiful omg
So basically they see black people as an experience more than a serious relationship partner lmao 🤣 that's wild
"so what advice would u give to other black ppl"
"keep it P"
bro what💀
You pushin P?
@@frenzobloxroblox1003 always.
Lmao
Been scrolling through the comments looking for the meaning of "Keeping it P"...your comment cracked me up!!
Lmao right like huh
Moon is GORGEOUS!
Watching all these videos show me that us blacks love to be loved/accepted by every race. But NONE of them care for us. I hope we get tired of being that foster kid nobody loves, and LOVE OURSELVES
Not being able to speak a native language before living in a foreign country is a huge oversight. Maybe that’s a main contributor why the dating scene isn’t working as well in their favor.
Yes, it is.
Once I settled into Korea, my clothing changed and it was pretty obvious to Koreans that I had been there a while. I could get by speaking Korean for my basic daily needs and met several Korean guys who were open to being boyfriend/girlfriend. That was certainly NOT the case when I first arrived and didn't know what questions to ask to determine someone's relationship status or understand the normalcy/necessity of asking if someone is single and what type of woman they like EARLY on.
Back in the day people went over there telling Koreans all sorts of falsehoods about Black people and Koreans not knowing any better, believe what they were being told.
I remember when I was stationed there back in 1980 and some Koreans wanted to see if we had a tail like a monkey, seriously.
I can't make this up. They have been told so many crazy things that I guess it has been difficult for them to separate truth from fiction. Don't go looking for relationships, enjoy your time there and come on back home.
I know you’re not lying because my dad was stationed in Korea a long time ago, and that same story is what he told me when he was there. It’s a shame what they thought of Black people. He also told me that you literally have to pry those women off of you because they believe in having sex with their men all the time they believe “happy man makes happy work” that’s what my dad told me.
@@kornwhiskey95 👍🏼👍🏼
Wow when they’re actually the ones that used to have tails.
@@kornwhiskey95last part sounds nice lol
Nah it’s the 21st century now, that isn’t a valid excuse
Is nobody goin too point out my boys outfits?? He killin em!!
The women and the guy with locs are the only ones that spoke with substance and elaborated very well.
One thing that one of the people here said is true most places in the world, except America. People in other countries are more focused on relationships more than dating. After three dates, the expectations are that you commit to being in a relationship. They’re in it for a long time… not just a good time.
It's ironic that for such a relationship-obsessed culture, they have the lowest birth rate on the planet (maybe in all of history), a population that's already shrinking, and a growing national panic over 'demographic collapse'.
What moon said about why he wouldn't date guys shorter than her is soo true, i felt that. Especially as a tall black woman.
SailorJupiter.... Poor girl was so sweet but all the boys were afraid of her height.
1:24 I have also experienced this multiple times in Korea, and they think it's a compliment when you say you're black. It's just awkward
Even them knows you are mixed race
Again, a great interview! And your black sunglasses and leather jacket!?! So sick 😎👍👍
One thing I don’t like about this is majority of the Men in this video are in the military.
The African diaspora is diverse enough for us to date within our race. This is disgusting honestly. We don’t need to seek acceptance from anyone.
Yea, like why are they seeking validation from Asian culture when we are what they want to be like.
Ghetto is still ghetto. So everyone wants to go to an actual culture since blacks destroyed theirs they’re upset they don’t get invited 😂
@@jo2x705 who want to be like black ? tell me
Fact of life. Always live in integrity. Never take anyone for granted. Have a mission. When you have a clear goal to be the best at a Trade or Career that is sexy. When you take care of yourself through exercise, good food, drink lots of water and hot tea that is sexy. When you are generous,set healthy boundaries, and have a good sense of humor that is sexy. When you know God without dogma you are unstoppable. You can have a big heart and don’t take crap from anyone being diplomatic always using your words that is power. The world is you’re oyster 🦪 when you stand in you’re power and have a clear goal what you would like to do with you’re life.
9:31 Merci pour tes mots de sagesse, Moon. T'es vraiment une belle représentante des valeurs de la société française 🇫🇷.
Amour et respect du Canada 🇨🇦
Moon is BEAUTIFUL
Moon is so beautiful 😍
It's such a wonderful feeling, not giving a DAMN what other people/ethnicities think of you! It's a very liberating thing! Wish our brothers and sisters would try it more! Black culture is world culture..black folk need to recognize they are the ish when so many different cultures all over the world emulate dang near everything black folk do! Even if they don't like the color of your skin, and love to assume you're every stereotype they've been spoonfed by their foreign preference, just love on yourself and try your best to lose the rest! I've been blessed to learn to love people through/in spite of their ignorance/lack of knowledge! As long as the Lord love me, I'm BEYOND good!😊❤
Love that the guy from Bama said he's pro black 🖤
0:20 Omg its Moon
BTW I really like how gentle man the Interviewer is. I just watch the video to see his mimics and gestures!
The comment on Korean dating being so commercialized is so on point. -Coming from a Korean.
Hey i just wanted to thank and salute you for the work that you do and the great, insightful content you create on your channel. I have been able to learn and gain much insight through your videos and feel like your open mind as well as your objective and unbiased style of asking them leaves so much space for people to reflect and express their thoughts and experiences. Very, very dope! Keep up the good work bro!
Wtf dude was in a short term relationship and got his heart broke in 2 weeks 🤣🤣🤣 3:35
PLEASE KEEP MAKING MORE PARTS OF THIS. WE HAVE SO MANY BLACK PEOPLE WHO GLORIFY ASIANS, FOR SPECIFICS OF THIS VIDEO... KOREANS.. NOT EVEN UNDERSTANDING THEY DON'T LIKE YOU AND ARE OFTEN CONFUSED WHY YOU WOULD THINK THEY WOULD WANT YOU
I am a fan of Korean dramas and will like to meet one, but watching this video 😄
@@NaalamileyTV my family loves kpop and korean everything. They don't FWU
It's the same in years US ppl like the thrill of being w a black person the sex etc but they haven't begun to understand what we go through so it's rare that you'll get someone that's going to go so far out of their way to get it to be supportive.
victim card again, black is treated better than asian in US 100 time, only us has right to cry victim there not you
The tall girl with the black jacket kinda looks like Giselle from Aespa, genuinely lol, she's so pretty !!
I mean tbh if you really think about, fetishitization of other races happens in other places to, for example in the US Latinas are fetishized a lot. Many people would love to hook with them but wouldn't get into a ling term relationship w them. We must not be so critical of other cultures and think that our own is better, bc no culture is right or wrong or better than the other
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I don’t this is about better… they asked them what is their experience…. And being fetishized is one of the actions occurring
I am an 8-year veteran.
I see in this video, a couple of soldiers clearly stationed in South Korea talking about the local national women who frequent American military installations and clubs. Every nation that houses American bases, including, for instance, Germany, Japan, and Belgium, experiences the same thing.
These young women the soldiers referring to are mainly interested in dating foreigners. There is a revolving door effect when these two groups date each other. We referred to those women as Barracks 304s. If you are clueless as to what 304 means, try searching RUclips.
We military personnel hear the tales before we leave the United States. Since July 7, 1950, American military forces have occupied 15 locations in South Korea, it is now 2023.
Anyway, Normal Asian girls do not, however, frequently hang out with Americans. When they do contemplate dating a foreigner, it is typically a white male like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth or a Latino man like Cristiano Ronaldo. Blacks are almost never taken into consideration.
As someone who was stationed in Korea you are absolutely correct. I laughed at some points of the video because I know for a fact that many of those women they were sleeping with were sleeping with them due to fetish reasons or for that green card. I know so many black and Hispanic soldiers that thought they had met the love of their life just to get played in the end lol. They were desperate for validation. But the white men, that's who they wanted. That's who got introduced to their families.
I LOVE THIS INTERVIEWER!!!! ONE OF FEW I SEE THAT DONT TRY TO INTERRUPT WHAT PPL IS SAYING FOR THE LOVE OF GOOODD
I lived for 3 years in Korea and I dated a lot. Long story short... I married a Chinese girl I met in Seoul.
Korean beauty/looks/money/standards are just impossible. There's nothing like drama/kpop guys or girls there. Yeah, they are good looking specially women but that's all. Is a hard society to live in.
Are you still living in South Korea?
@@dominicjohnson310 no
Want to hear the long story
It's hard for outsiders, it's like introducing vegetables when you've eaten meat all your life. I love it there, felt right at home. I live in the USA and life is really hard here for me, I'm not used to being around white people who are also very uncultured
@@sew_gal7340 Same. Even with tje difficulties I liked Korea more.
I think it’s naive to enter a country that is 95% (anything )and expect to ‘become family” quickly especially when you don’t speak their language. Cuz for them culture is everything . Being of another culture and wanting something more than just a hookup then you have to show that you fit into their culture especially when they’ve seen those cultures via social media and they clash with their own values and cultural norms. Korea Mansae! Hope to visit sometime 🕶& be the new black girl in town 😂
Being Black is an extreme sport..
Being Black and African too is an extreme extreme sport.
Come to Africa guys. it's really not that bad .
The interviewer has a good sense of fashion👏🏽 great content too, they really said a lot
The first girl nailed everything 😊
The man with the durag I feel is blinded by the fetishized view of black men and is mistaking it for “loving black men “