My wise mother said to me dont be a doormat for someone that treats you like a dog. The older you get and the more life hands you the wiser you get ( hopefully). There is a good book called " Boundaries " and as well in my Masters class we discussed boundaries with clients. As a humanitarian worker for a well known company I prepared and take care of Palistinan families or otherwise. I had finally hit the wall this week in exhaustion and took the week off . I am a giver : as this is what God has called me to do but at some point you have to take some oxygen in any form of interactions or there will be no you around. Peace, DD
What if they constantly ask for money? And if I don't want to help they immediately get aggressive and say you are such a bad friend, I was counting with you and now you disappointed me so much and all that drama. Ah and I need to add that whenever I want something, even if it is just simple meet up for a coffee and talk, they never have time for me.
Healthy boundaries will deter the people not meant to be in your life. Many thanks, Fuad! You are amazing ♥️
Well said, Victoria. Thank you! 🙌
I've been here & have self experience on this topic.as a good person guilt is a challenge but this video gave me more clarity.
Thank u 🙏
Loving these videos, keep them coming. Great content and simply explained 🙏🏽
Thank you!🙏🏽
This is Right timing ❤️ I am struggling about giving and I cannot say No to everyone I love.
❤❤❤ couldn’t agree more
My wise mother said to me dont be a doormat for someone that treats you like a dog. The older you get and the more life hands you the wiser you get ( hopefully). There is a good book called
" Boundaries " and as well in my Masters class we discussed boundaries with clients. As a humanitarian worker for a well known company I prepared and take care of Palistinan families or otherwise. I had finally hit the wall this week in exhaustion and took the week off . I am a giver : as this is what God has called me to do but at some point you have to take some oxygen in any form of interactions or there will be no you around.
Peace,
DD
Thank you for your comment Diane!
I’m loving your videos! I always learn something from your perspective.
I appreciate that!
Jazakallah fuad
Thank you, Aminah!
Fuad you have the best hair on YT!
Thank you for the compliment Diane )
I need no validation except from God.
What if they constantly ask for money? And if I don't want to help they immediately get aggressive and say you are such a bad friend, I was counting with you and now you disappointed me so much and all that drama. Ah and I need to add that whenever I want something, even if it is just simple meet up for a coffee and talk, they never have time for me.
No, they're just using you
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❤❤❤ couldn’t agree more