Becoming A Single Mom Of 2 Kids..

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
  • Hey guys.. I know this video wasn't what you were expecting and Im sad to announce this as well. I hope you continue to support me moving forward. I love and appreciate you all and want to bring you along my journey and everything im learning. Till next time xoxo
    Instagram: / hailey.lainee

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  • @Lisa-mh3ff
    @Lisa-mh3ff Год назад +107

    My POV only: You might be lonely, but you were never alone. Stop labeling yourself as a single mother. You are just a mother, and that deserves honor, not shame. Please consider getting counseling, not social media counseling. People can be cruel on social media. You children need their mom mentally healthy, and please don't rush into another relationship before you understand what went wrong in the last one or you'll just repeat your mistakes. It is time to create a support system, and you know we've got you back. Give yourself time to grieve. Just know this will pass. ✌️❤️

  • @michellmybelle5003
    @michellmybelle5003 Год назад +187

    I grew up in a single mom household as well. Trust me your children will appreciate and value that you chose your happiness, you deserve your own happiness outside of being a parent, that is the best way to show your babies how to live. We’re both the same age and I have so much respect for you and your decision. You got this mama! I’m so excited to see your future content ❤️❤️

  • @Jaxxx0723
    @Jaxxx0723 Год назад +151

    It’s amazing seeing you grow, and be so vulnerable. I remember your middle school makeovers to now seeing you make the best decisions for you and your family. Emotions are normal, crying is normal, and being a little nervous is normal! You’ve got this, give yourself some grace to process everything. Keep your head up babe, everything will work for you in the best way meant for you❤

  • @noellewhitaker2600
    @noellewhitaker2600 Год назад +335

    letting your kids see you cry is okay, showing healthy emotions is okay, letting your kids know its okay to not be so strong 24/7 is okay, I know every woman is different, but allow yourself to feel every parts of the waves of healing and emotions the highs and the lows
    have a safe healing journey, sending immense amount of love :)

    • @HaileyLaine
      @HaileyLaine  Год назад +39

      thank you baby.. you’re right

    • @solidbanjobanjo9367
      @solidbanjobanjo9367 Год назад +5

      Parents should not be emotional infront if there kids, you need to be stoic, emotionally vulnerable people are dangerous, kids need to be kept away from this

    • @noellewhitaker2600
      @noellewhitaker2600 Год назад +18

      @@solidbanjobanjo9367 that’s your opinion, every woman is different

    • @irisheyesofbelfast
      @irisheyesofbelfast Год назад +2

      @@solidbanjobanjo9367 utter nonsense.

    • @foziaashraf8857
      @foziaashraf8857 Год назад +5

      ​@@solidbanjobanjo9367my mom never cried infront of us she has always been so strong but now as an adult, I find it so hard to show I am upset or cry infront of anyone and that is harder then watching someone be sad and then helping them overcome their feelings.

  • @RiverofLife95
    @RiverofLife95 Год назад +385

    I didn't expect this, and I'm sorry you're going through heartbreak. I've been watching you since 2011 and you've always been so positive and strong. I hope you can rediscover that on your own.

  • @NikkiLachelle
    @NikkiLachelle Год назад +18

    No ring 💍 no kids ❤. God bless you all. Please ladies learn from this. Your future children deserve better. If a man cannot commit to you in terms of marriage. Why would you commit to giving him children. Things happen however if you can prevent please do.

    • @mudaawi
      @mudaawi 6 дней назад +1

      i hate to break it to you but there’s also a thing called “divorce”
      being married doesn’t mean they can never break up.

  • @lydiadegrassi
    @lydiadegrassi Год назад +82

    You and Matt had so much love for each other. I think everyone sees it in the way he looks at you in your videos. If things are meant to be then he’ll find his way back into your life. You guys also have the kids as a connection. This also give you guys time to both see what you want. I know you have the support of your family and your RUclips family. Don’t stress about it ❤️❤️

  • @crystalcastillo7575
    @crystalcastillo7575 Год назад +259

    Also make sure you put him on child support. Don’t let him walk out on his kids . Hold him accountable. An yeah focus on building and maintaining a community of people in person (and with other moms especially ) !!

    • @abbie5350
      @abbie5350 Год назад +45

      He hasn’t just ‘walked out’ she said he still sees them all the time. Don’t be making assumptions

    • @jalazzyy
      @jalazzyy Год назад +23

      He didn’t walk out as she said…they broke up. She literally said they are coparenting. Child support is for absent parents not failed relationships . Your comment is deplorable.

    • @kristinjohnson8984
      @kristinjohnson8984 Год назад +13

      @@jalazzyy Child support isn't only just for absent parents. When my parents divorced, my dad paid CS to my mom as listed in their court arrangement, even though they had shared custody. Since it was shared custody his payments weren't expensive at all, but that is one example of CS even though the parent is very active and involved.

    • @ghostsheet777
      @ghostsheet777 Год назад +2

      ​@@jalazzyy yeah fr if he still there helping, that wud make things sour which I'm sure the lady & mama in this video don't want especially for the kids involved. 😢

    • @NarrowPath_7
      @NarrowPath_7 Год назад

      Breaking up, doesn't make her a single mother if the man is still taking care and being their for his children. Its not ideal, but its called co-parenting. Man, some of you American women are toxic. That's all you think about. Always has be something negative.

  • @adrianwalter1101
    @adrianwalter1101 Год назад +28

    Great job mama! A healthy environment is most important. I am a single mom of three and I went through all the emotions. You will have your days, but you will realize how strong you are with God by your side. Heal, love, laugh, and grow! ❤

  • @sophychan100
    @sophychan100 Год назад +70

    Girl I know I’m just one of your viewers, but I want to give you a hug for what you’re going through. I was shocked to see the title and I have followed you both since the beginning. I can’t imagine what you’re feeling but I hope it comforts you to know that we are rooting for you. ❤

  • @ayooKondom
    @ayooKondom Год назад +39

    Sorry this is happening babe. Also it’s not weak to cry. Teach your children that it is okay to go through all the emotions and not try to suppress them. That’s something I’m working through in my adult life and it’s important for them to know

  • @lavi5100
    @lavi5100 Год назад +50

    Been a single mom since I was pregnant… it’s tough. Even when you’re co parenting you’re also grieving that lost relationship.

    • @nicetomeetyou5909
      @nicetomeetyou5909 Год назад

      It's your damn fucking choice ! You opened your legs for the wront Guy !

  • @moviemaestrorecaps
    @moviemaestrorecaps Год назад +37

    GiRLLLL you are gonna have so much fun on this new journey creatively (RUclips) and just finding your feet. You're going to realize how much more independent and stronger you are. There will be moments when you feel alone but just know that God doesn't give you more than you can chew. So you got this mama. Proud of you. I for one can't wait for your new content and as a single mother I can't wait to watch the NEW YOU grow and create. So gwa'n wit your bad ass mama! We're all here for it! Love from Jamaica. P.s. Not sure why your video showed up on my feed But I've subscribed xxx

  • @pamelal3739
    @pamelal3739 Год назад +26

    you got this Hailey! it's so healthy and strong how you recognized staying together 'for the kids' isn't better than splitting up. My parents did that and seeing that kind of relationship everyday isn't the best example, you grow up thinking it's love when it's not.. And YOU deserve the real thing, all of it. I've been here since your first videos, so proud of the amazing mom and person that you are 🥺 I wish the 3 of you the very best, I know life has so much more happiness and love in store for you 🤍🤍🤍

  • @Butterfly-yv4qx
    @Butterfly-yv4qx Год назад +29

    Hailey I’m sorry that it didn’t work out for you guys, I’ve been watching your channel from the beginning. It is okay to cry and feel emotions, take it one day at time, rediscover yourself ❤

  • @diamondheart0723
    @diamondheart0723 Год назад +115

    Honey, even if it's temporary and you do find your way back to each other (or not) it was the right decision in the moment and you and your babies will benefit from this and this journey. It's a whole new chapter of rediscovery and growth, but don't hide from sadness, it's necessary. Thank you for always making us a part of your life ❤

  • @marias6626
    @marias6626 Год назад +91

    Im so sad this happened, but Hailey you are a great mom, stay strong ❤

  • @NenaBabe
    @NenaBabe Год назад +44

    Hailey we came here for you! You got this! I just know that you & your channels are going to flourish! ♥️✨🙏🏾

  • @kawaii1364
    @kawaii1364 Год назад +40

    you’re amazing hailey. i’ve been following you since you were smile buddies. you are so strong and i have seen you grow so much through the years. we’re so proud of you and it isn’t easy but it will be worth it. you are amazing ❤

  • @kay4228
    @kay4228 Год назад +62

    You got this Hailey! Been following you since the iPhone case videos. We are all here to support you and you will get through this. I also grew up in a single momma household and I absolutely adore my mom. Your babies will be grateful to grow up in a home filled w happiness and love. Be nice to yourself boo ❤. We are here for you!

    • @HaileyLaine
      @HaileyLaine  Год назад +11

      I love you. Thank you for your kind words..

    • @kay4228
      @kay4228 Год назад +3

      Anytime 🤍

  • @thato_thaGA
    @thato_thaGA Год назад +78

    Proud that you guys are mature enough to work together to raise your beautiful children. Be strong Queen. You will get through this,you have the strength in you.

  • @lilianl1229
    @lilianl1229 Год назад +19

    This is so off-topic. But I used to watch you all the time when I was in middle school and you made me want to embrace my natural hair and become a model at one point. Watching you grow throughout the years has been crazy and I wish you the best of luck! With your gorgeous babies ❤

  • @gsel3309
    @gsel3309 Год назад +15

    hi Hailey I’ve been supporting you since I was 15 (now 23), im never going to stop supporting you!!! you are an amazing mama, stay strong❤take care of yourself and babies ❤ love you queen. Praying for your strength , healing And protection

    • @HaileyLaine
      @HaileyLaine  Год назад +6

      you're an angel. Love you so much thank you for supporting me and watching my videos for so long. Happy you're still here

  • @astroxkaliyah
    @astroxkaliyah Год назад +42

    I just wanna jump through the screen and hug you

  • @jasminejimenezgordonnnn
    @jasminejimenezgordonnnn Год назад +10

    This is why you marry before kids. I got married at 20 I’m 24 now. You did this to yourself sis. Marriage is like a cushion if you ever break up. Now it’s going to be hard to make sure you and the kids are financially stable. When you divorce with kids they start giving u child support and alimony as soon as your legally single and in some cases some of his retirement benefits. I’m sorry you had to learn the hard way. Marriage is for ur security if u and your children.

    • @jasminejimenezgordonnnn
      @jasminejimenezgordonnnn Год назад +4

      This really bothers me people have kids with out the intent to stay together. It’s so sad, me and my husband actually did a prenup addressing if this would happen and if we would ever leaned to divorce we went EVERY ROUTE to work it out. If it doesn’t I keep the house, I get alimony, if cheating is involved I get a pay out and if I cheat he gets a pay out. And we both have a will and trust set up for each other and a will. Also a blood trust for our kids, but we did both get our tubes sniped because we both refused to have kids with other people even if we are not together.

    • @fitzgeraldsemelfort3938
      @fitzgeraldsemelfort3938 12 дней назад

      How does marriage benefit men?

    • @jasminejimenezgordonnnn
      @jasminejimenezgordonnnn 12 дней назад

      @@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938 do t get married then

  • @malloryjadeee
    @malloryjadeee Год назад +8

    I’ve followed you for a long time, we’re about the same age. Last year I became a single mom, and hearing you talk about the strength you’ve felt is heartwarming. There will be hard days but you will discover so much about yourself and your ability to be a mother. Love you hails

  • @ItsCourtBlack
    @ItsCourtBlack Год назад +8

    Just gave birth 5 weeks ago and the father who I was with for 10ths broke up with me 9 hours after I gave birth.
    It’s been hard but so rewarding as my home is much more peaceful, happy, etc. Sadly my bd wants nothing to do with my son and is abusive… but GIRL as mothers we got this! Motherhood is hard let alone doing it solo but at the end of the day… it’ll get done❤❤
    I signed up for therapy to help get the emotions out and HIGHLY suggest it

    • @tikdoe7563
      @tikdoe7563 Год назад +2

      wtf? Where there any red flags?

    • @paulachin9130
      @paulachin9130 Год назад +1

      That's awful. You know what you will be better off without him the fact he is abusive your better off without him. Be the best mum for your son, and you will see in time you will be much happier

  • @ImpetuousPorkus
    @ImpetuousPorkus Год назад +8

    You already answered the most important questions. The babies and you are safe, you’re going to coparent with Matt, and you guys separated for private reasons. Anything beyond that is going to be a journey for you. No other questions need to be asked. It’s a tough road ahead of you, but you gave birth to two beautiful children. You already know you’re so much stronger than you realize.

  • @kaseymaison1658
    @kaseymaison1658 Год назад +6

    Sending so much love and peace your way. As a child who grew up with divorced parents between which things weren't always amicable, the fact that you and Matt are on good terms is such a beautiful thing xx

  • @miasimone6873
    @miasimone6873 Год назад +10

    Aww Hailey! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I can hear the pain in your voice. 💔 You are doing a wonderful job at taking care of yourself and your children! I’m glad you made the decision that was best for you and them both! You are loved by many and I will be here to still support you no matter what! 💕

  • @landlockedcroat1554
    @landlockedcroat1554 11 месяцев назад +4

    "this should be inspring"
    *immediate ass shot

  • @KaylenApril
    @KaylenApril Год назад +3

    How is it that couples look so happy on social media, even had a friend whose husband proposed , then they broke up???? How they look happy and things seem shiny then they end up separating. You would never expect.

    • @sumisum2813
      @sumisum2813 Год назад +5

      Because the happiness is fake. Real happiness doesn't need to show off or be seen.

  • @ThePrettiestCommenter
    @ThePrettiestCommenter Год назад +4

    Been around here since we were in middle school! Back during the Smilebuddiesxoxo days when you’d hang around Katharine all the time!! Everything will be okay Hails. I’ve been through similar and literally single handedly the only thing that helped me through was when I started praying more and talking to Jesus about the pain and heartache I had. I 100% wouldn’t have gotten better if I hadn’t gotten through the awkward stages of listening to bands like hillsong and maverick city music and praying for peace and better days. The song ‘Promises’ by maverick city was so peace inducing and good too. I promise I will say a special prayer for you, too.💕 Hang in there girl

  • @LoVeMeH101
    @LoVeMeH101 Год назад +4

    no way I turn on your video and our daughters are wearing the same shirt 😂 Praying for you and your fam on this journey. parenting is never easy, even with with someone else but you were blessed with everything you need to take care of your babies! What’s best for you is best for the children. Proud of you and you got this super mama! 🥰🤍

  • @twesaruby7471
    @twesaruby7471 Год назад +182

    I’m new here but you gave the man two babies and he didn’t want to married? Sorry but very inevitable. If a single baby can take a toll of happily married couples, what of just bf/gf with two kids? You will be ok though. You got this.

    • @hayleeighmarie
      @hayleeighmarie Год назад +56

      how about we stop judging young mommas and learn to be empathetic of their situations. She obviously loved him whole heartedly and didn’t see herself becoming a single mom in the future.

    • @leah4514
      @leah4514 Год назад +27

      It also takes two to tango. If he didn’t want other kids he could have done protective sex

    • @doneeshacunningham2949
      @doneeshacunningham2949 Год назад +52

      Chile please men that are married do their wives bad like this too . My father did my mother this way and they were married. You can be a whole single mom while married/ in a relationship. Let's hold both accountable as well

    • @hayleeighmarie
      @hayleeighmarie Год назад +10

      @@doneeshacunningham2949 this one.

    • @doneeshacunningham2949
      @doneeshacunningham2949 Год назад

      @@hayleeighmarie shit crazy how some women are willing to be captain save a dusty just for him to kill a black woman like her or any woman . These men have the sperm and know they don't want kids but still do it anyway and yes she is at fault because he showed her the first he wasn't shit but that change the love bombing and manipulation he did

  • @neenaweddington1473
    @neenaweddington1473 Год назад +11

    What?! Wow, I'm really sorry about the break up. It's important to be strong for the kids so keep your head up mama❤

  • @Synceditxboxoffice
    @Synceditxboxoffice Год назад +4

    only time a man is gonna be serious about having kids with you when he is marrying you thats it

  • @Aryka08
    @Aryka08 Год назад +8

    You got this Hailey ❤ You are such an amazing person and mother. Even on the bad days just remember you are doing you best and you are enough 😊 Been here since your smilebuddies days and love to see you grow🎉

  • @denisewalker7217
    @denisewalker7217 Год назад +4

    Hailey, so sorry to hear this news, but know that you just need to take it 'One Day At A Time'! Some days will be good days, others not so good, but that is normal. Remember as a mom, you #1 priority is the children. Hearing you say that the two of you are still friends and continue doing things together, especially with the children is a great thing. You will do well on this new channel of yours and I wish you the best of luck & will be sending you lots of 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. Happy Friday!

  • @beatricewalker6287
    @beatricewalker6287 Год назад +4

    I'm so sorry hunni, sending you and your babies so much love! You can pivot, you are allowed to feel all the feels, and you are strong. You are loved and you have support!

  • @marysia8151
    @marysia8151 Год назад +8

    I hope that every day you will feel better and better. I believe in you, you are a great mom and a powerful, independent woman. It's ok to be sad 'cause life sucks sometimes but I promise you it will get better. You are amazing Hailey ❤

  • @stephodeh570
    @stephodeh570 Год назад +562

    Reason u should never give a man kids without marriage. They most likely won’t marry u at the end. I hate to sound insensitive. You’re a pretty lady with a big heart and your kids are blessings. Stay strong. However, for single girls out there, please never give a man kids without marriage. Except you’ve made your mind up to be a single mom

    • @medstudent9654
      @medstudent9654 Год назад +227

      They can still divorce you after you have kids, and you can still become a single mom. Even if you were married

    • @stephodeh570
      @stephodeh570 Год назад +79

      @@medstudent9654 is it as common as the unmarried ladies though?

    • @nicetomeetyou5909
      @nicetomeetyou5909 Год назад +8

      And a lady who lacks long term thinking, and no descent man would be in a relationship with a single mom !

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Год назад

      Go further. How about abstaining from sex all together till marriage. Stop riding the hot dog carousel.

    • @kkw-pal1178
      @kkw-pal1178 Год назад +9

      Even so, they will keep it moving.

  • @brisolovelyy
    @brisolovelyy Год назад +353

    Aww I’m sorry this happened girl 😭💕 I’m 7 months pregnant with twins and I’ve been single my whole pregnancy besides the first few months ! My baby daddy cheated on me my whole pregnancy and I understand how you feel completely 😭 we got this girl and anyone else going through the same thing 😇💕

    • @Nikkistylezz
      @Nikkistylezz Год назад +22

      wow,ur so gorgeous seriously❗️I’m in utter disbelief how men can be so foolishly ignorant ,this world is a sad place.

    • @independent9172
      @independent9172 Год назад +11

      me I'm pregnant with my daughter I'm 6 months pregnant I be 7 months pregnant next month and I have a toddler ors crazy how men do their kids get em on child support I work at the same time I'm single mom as well we going to make it

    • @unlockmyfullpotentialsupap6577
      @unlockmyfullpotentialsupap6577 Год назад +6

      DAMN

    • @brisolovelyy
      @brisolovelyy Год назад +7

      @@Nikkistylezz thank you 😭 and yes it’s sad and disgusting, I’m trying to be as mature as possible and a good co parent , I don’t wanna be a bitter women, I just want my babies to have the best💕 even tho I’m so disgusted by him lol.

    • @abie6837
      @abie6837 Год назад +10

      Hey beautiful, this happened to me. My baby is now 4 and he's thriving and is so beautiful and intelligent! When my baby was 2, I married a great man who's an amazing step daddy. It'll get better, I wish you a safe and peaceful pregnancy and delivery

  • @ughhdanni
    @ughhdanni Год назад +10

    been here since before the laine family and will be here after. this is all part of your journey. you got this ❤️

  • @nicolew8147
    @nicolew8147 Год назад +7

    didn’t expect that.. stay strong:( breakups are the worst. sending love

  • @Cloudymama27
    @Cloudymama27 Год назад +1

    I was hoping this was click bait but I'm right there with you girl. And for those who say this is why u should get a ring um no I GOT THE RING AND HE STILL CHEATED. So I left because sometimes you gotta know ur worth. A ring and a piece of paper don't change shit. I'm sorry you're going through this BUT you are not alone. God knows I'm so tired of hearing how can you split up a family like we wanted this shit like stfu with that. Nobody wants this for our kids. It's not weak to cry either you gotta get it out. I've been trying to figure out how to heal so I'm following your healing journey now too while going through mine. Keep ur head up tho. Journal, cry, meditate when u have free time, get back to what u used to do outside of ur relationship (that's really been helping me), and take care of you. Like seriously don't forget to take care of yourself I often do and then I get stressed and break down. Even if it's just 15 mins take that time to do something for you. You got this 🤗 I've been subbed to you since you were just Hails by yourself ❤

  • @dabofhalo
    @dabofhalo Год назад +70

    been watching you since i was a kid. i’m now 21 and this breaks my heart for you. you’re unbelievable strong and an amazing mother. wishing you nothing but pure genuine happiness going forward 💗

  • @Contessa6363
    @Contessa6363 Год назад +3

    You are young look in your inner strength! I was a single parent of a disabled child we broke up before his birth. It wasn't always easy but look for support groups among other single parents. Good luck to you treat yourself kindly and move on. Yes they do happen for a reason I firmly believe that! Hugs to you and your babies!!❤😃👍👍🐕🐕❤❤

  • @cheyb1539
    @cheyb1539 Год назад +2

    I’m sorry you are going through this. Remember crying infront of your babies isn’t weakness. It shows them that it is okay to feel their emotions and let it out. It will also make them feel better about opening up to you and crying to you when they are older. Keep it up !

  • @Rokia2003
    @Rokia2003 Год назад +63

    This is so sad but I kinda saw this coming. You’re doing great!❤

    • @KK-pn5gg
      @KK-pn5gg Год назад +7

      How?

    • @Blessings.M
      @Blessings.M Год назад +5

      Same

    • @mariabrown6926
      @mariabrown6926 Год назад +4

      What signs made you think that?

    • @rosesqu6012
      @rosesqu6012 Год назад +53

      I kind of always got flakey vibes since he was very hesitant to talk about future plans. Like major red flag if your bf doesn’t talk seriously about y’all future together.

    • @Rokia2003
      @Rokia2003 Год назад +5

      @@rosesqu6012 exactly

  • @gabbybibi7
    @gabbybibi7 Год назад +5

    crying is not a sign of weakness. it is just human emotion. heaven forbid your children learn that. it is totally okay to cry in front of them.

  • @Cubisum
    @Cubisum Год назад +3

    I’m sorry to hear that Hailey! I’ve been on the same page as you tbh. I’m 25, I have two little ones about the same age as yours (2 year old, 7 month old)! It’s hard asffff raising little humans but I believe that you will have an amazing support system even if it comes with time. You’ll be a great mother regardless of your new journey. Stay strong mama

    • @Cubisum
      @Cubisum Год назад

      I’m also very proud of you for doing your best and trying to be strong

  • @faithpatienceabraham122
    @faithpatienceabraham122 Год назад +3

    Been following you sind day one since it was just you and let me tell you. You got this the strength you described that you knew you had is indeed from God.
    Lean more into your faith as you go through this new journey and you will make it!

  • @astroxkaliyah
    @astroxkaliyah Год назад +10

    We got you girlie we still love you :))🩷

  • @baltimore4life34akallswerv3
    @baltimore4life34akallswerv3 Год назад +4

    Hailey you should post storytimes, vlogs, life updates, challenges like try not to laugh, try not to say wow and any other challenges, girls talk, reactions and more 🔥✨

  • @millyn2217
    @millyn2217 Год назад +2

    it feels forced for the break up sorry really still processing

  • @taylorbrock9769
    @taylorbrock9769 Год назад +3

    I'm going through the same thing right now. Change is scary but we got this! Im excited to see your journey

  • @brie7239
    @brie7239 Год назад +6

    I am so sad for this change but I have watched you before your relationship and will continue to support you even afterwards. You can do this girly! 💜

  • @iLovePurple4367
    @iLovePurple4367 Год назад +2

    aww hailey ❤️ i am soo sorry you are going through this. know that you will be okay, you will get through this, and your heart will be healed! you will be the best mother you can be to and for your children!!

  • @mld9775
    @mld9775 Год назад +3

    Vous êtes si adorables, ça me fait de la peine. Je vous partage tout mon soutient pour surmonter cela. Et bien sûr que je continuerai de regarder vos contenus. ❤❤❤

  • @humanperson7114
    @humanperson7114 Год назад +2

    I have been here for years and I will continue to be! We all love and support you.. you’ve got this. You are so strong and such a good mom!

  • @hungarianszilvia9815
    @hungarianszilvia9815 Год назад +2

    OMG !!! I was crying with you , SO SOO SOOO SOOOOORRRYYYY for what you are going through , you are so beautiful, keep on keepin on 🥰 We are so much stronger as we feel like, and we can manifest whatever we like/love 🤩😘

  • @martinecooper6669
    @martinecooper6669 Год назад +2

    This is very crushing but I've been through it. I tried to make it work until I realized it was just time to walk away and love myself and my babies. It will take a lot of time to heal over your family not working out and things not going as you imagined it. Stay strong and take it a day at a time. I hope there is a light at the end of the tunnel for both of us.

  • @73rr4lyn
    @73rr4lyn Год назад +17

    Stay strong sis!! 💚

  • @tameronn.7917
    @tameronn.7917 Год назад +6

    You’re doing great, momma !! 🙏🏾💕

  • @carlottawilliams7267
    @carlottawilliams7267 Год назад +6

    Women need to stop giving men wife benefits and you only a girlfriend you are single until you married bottom line marry before you carry.

  • @blandine9259
    @blandine9259 Год назад +3

    So glad you two at least have a good relationship still. I hope y’all can maintain that. I know it sucks now but it’s going to get better ❤️. Getting some mom friends and going out when the kids are with him will help a ton

  • @zoe-rq9fd
    @zoe-rq9fd Год назад +2

    Hailey I literally grew up with you! We are the same age. I have older sisters. I know how hard it can get marriage isn’t easy. Just know we love you so much and you’re an amazing mother 🤍🤍🤍

  • @deidra7850
    @deidra7850 Год назад +1

    This is my first time watching I’m going to support you I’m gonna press the channel the buttons every time your video comes up and watch it girl when we are finished supporting you you want to be OK financially watch trust the process God got you 🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾💕

    • @kalebponds5848
      @kalebponds5848 Год назад

      Me too 1st tome watching. Keep ya head up girl. I went thru the same when I was young too. If I can do it, you can do it 💪🏽 😏 😉

  • @Contessa6363
    @Contessa6363 Год назад +6

    Looking forward to seeing your babies grow!❤❤

  • @paulachin9130
    @paulachin9130 Год назад +2

    So sorry to hear this, I thought it was a prank. I hadn't seen you a while and last week I saw you guys and you seemed so happy and with a 2nd baby. The little girl looks just like him. I was a single mum at a young age as married at 19 and 7 years later divorced. I worked throughout it all which helped but was tough and took me a long time but I did great and turned out well in the end. I'm proud of myself brought my house paid for it, my daughter working and have her own flat and she's incredible. You stay strong and your kids will bring you joy even through the bad times, your path will guide you to where you should be even if you cannot see it now.

  • @MiracleMonique
    @MiracleMonique Год назад +1

    God has you guys ! 🙏🏽💓 God’s Will, His plan for our lives is way better than what we can ever plan ourselves. God bless you love

  • @Evaleya2020
    @Evaleya2020 Год назад +1

    Hey Hailey, sorry to hear that you are going through such a difficult time.All our love and support ❤❤❤I also have 2 small babies and can only imagine what is happening in your heart!❤❤

  • @MalikaRedeemar
    @MalikaRedeemar Год назад +2

    i been here since before a family channel and i always look forward to your videos. i actually searched you up the other day so I was so excited to see theses videos pop up. sorry you’re going through this love. and I’m sure there’s so many of us from back then that are excited for your content. and you don’t owe us an explanation of what happened either.

  • @kamnole5051
    @kamnole5051 Год назад +2

    Hailey I’ve been watching you since you made those middle school /high school makeup vids. You are a beautiful adult women, with two beautiful babies and I am so proud of you!! I’m excited to see the next journeys you and ur babies take🥰🥰 much love.

  • @susanarodriguez744
    @susanarodriguez744 Год назад +1

    ❤Ask God for strength/help/direction!! You will be ok❤! Sending lots of love/ hugs!❤

  • @Meowsarz
    @Meowsarz Год назад +6

    I feel like he didn’t appreciate her enough.. idk it seemed like her emotions always bothered him . Which they shouldn’t!! I feel like he wasnt a good match for her but someone out there will be ❤

  • @Bestdayever2020
    @Bestdayever2020 Год назад +1

    Your channel popped up as a recommendation and i'm glad it did. On another channel a young woman commented that she was raised in a home where her parents never married, but they co-parented so well that she always felt loved . She stated her parents were better as friends . You're going to be fine and look forward to your new content that you are truly interested in.

  • @lexbae
    @lexbae Год назад +4

    I’m sorry this happened love ❤😞 I hope you continue to be strong for your babies!! & I’m glad at least you both can continue to be friendly with each other 🫶🏽 you’re an amazing mom!!

  • @june3336
    @june3336 Год назад +1

    I'm new here but let me say that you're doing great! Parenting is damn hard and doing it alone sometimes feels monumental. You seem to have a sensible head on those shoulders. Keep your kids as your focus and take time to heal and find yourself. It's good that you're friends with their father but keep clear boundaries. Going forward there will be curveballs especially if either of you move on but if you keep your kids front and centre you will make good decisions. I look forward to following your journey and yes I've been where you are. Keep strong and positive ❤❤❤

  • @elviraj1971
    @elviraj1971 Год назад +6

    You can do this! I became a single mom after 18 years of marriage; my only regret was that I should have called it quits when I was pregnant because my son gave me a purpose to continue. Long story short, my son is now engaged and knows what a real marriage is about so obviously, I did a good job. I did not have any co-parenting options since I never did see his dad again after the divorce. I realize now that I always had it in me to raise a family alone, but on my terms. Keep your vessel full, get spiritual and continue doing what you love on your terms. The time with your babies is so fleeting, and that will be the real regret if you don't make the most with them. You've got this! Keep your energy and flourish with your own beautiful self. You deserve the best and so do your children. A partner is just that, your life is already full and beautiful, and a partner just adds to that. Blessed be!

  • @Wiktoria-se7pq
    @Wiktoria-se7pq Год назад +3

    Your strong Hailey, it’s all gonna be alright you’ll see

  • @ohheyimparis
    @ohheyimparis Год назад +3

    We still riding with you sweetheart ❤ you’re an amazing mom and honestly things happen, you’re taking this so well

  • @SymphonyTaylor
    @SymphonyTaylor Год назад +3

    You’ll be okay, time heals. Can’t wait to see more of YOU and the babies! 💖🙏🏼

  • @delight876
    @delight876 Год назад +9

    I'm sorry to hear that I thought it was a prank

  • @orphicghoul2838
    @orphicghoul2838 Год назад +1

    I'm so glad I found your channel, and im sorry you're through something difficult. Motherhood is new to me, and my pregnancy hasn't been the best because of the emotional roller-coaster the baby daddy put me through. Now I'm 8 months pregnant and single . It's lonely , I feel abandoned and betrayed 😞.

  • @sabrinalockamy6618
    @sabrinalockamy6618 Год назад +1

    I am choosing to leave my husband of two kids as well. I can feel your pain, I'm crying with you. You are so strong to choose your peace and happiness and make the best adjustment for your two little ones. Your an inspiration. It's okay if things don't always work. God had different plans and that's okay too 🙏💕 God bless you and keep your strength! Your doing amazing

  • @traisildamarak8242
    @traisildamarak8242 Год назад +1

    Being a single mother it's very difficult to maintain the family but Almighty God loves each and everyone. MGBY ❤️ for kids, take care them❤❤❤

  • @kaylasmalls13
    @kaylasmalls13 Год назад +3

    Stay strong babes, I also grew up in a single-mother household so I know how hard it can be but you got this! Excited to see your future content, we'll always be here! ❤

  • @LifeWithNaJvia
    @LifeWithNaJvia Год назад +2

    I knew I recognized you! I had to scroll down to the older videos I used to watch you all the time idk why I lost your channel! can't believe you have 2 kids now wow me too! sad this is the video I find you from again ! sorry this is happening I went through it too but you'll get through it with your kids keeping you sane and positive!

  • @tabitham8298
    @tabitham8298 Год назад +3

    You’re such an amazing mom Hailey❤ We love you so so much !! Sending you all the love you deserve ❤

  • @daunnemonique6540
    @daunnemonique6540 Год назад +7

    A single mother also referred to as a “single mom” is an unmarried female aka single parent who has little to no support from the child/children's father.
    You don’t have to be a single mom.
    Take him to court for split custody.
    No matter how sad you are. Remember you don’t have to do this alone. He needs to take care of his responsibilities. You will also need time for yourself!

    • @nicetomeetyou5909
      @nicetomeetyou5909 Год назад

      Her life is fucked up because of opening her legs for the wrong man ! End or story !

  • @gabbysenior5298
    @gabbysenior5298 Год назад +1

    Aww Hailey hang in there! You and your family are so special and beautiful. 💗

  • @Isababe-qh3jc
    @Isababe-qh3jc 3 месяца назад +1

    Im a single mom too now, and not even sure if he can see the baby or no but im already afraid and its so early... Im 9 weeks preggo. Man switch up so fast, caring at first then he hits me and spits on me. But i know my value

  • @garylight3602
    @garylight3602 Год назад +4

    Kinda funny how 3 years ago they was tongue kvssing and posting it on YT

  • @12333asdfghjkl
    @12333asdfghjkl Год назад +1

    Girl I’m so sorry. It must be so hard but you are really strong! Thank you for sharing it with us… You are a great Mom with 2 beautiful children. I hope one day you will find someone who really deserves you and you will be happy again because it breaks my heart seeing you like this now. Stay strong beautiful mama!❤️

  • @unavailablea511
    @unavailablea511 Год назад +1

    The fact that I watched y’all old videos and was like “the way he looks at her is so cute” and then I started thinking “I wonder if they ever would break up” and this happens…

  • @jagodamazurek-bh6cw
    @jagodamazurek-bh6cw Год назад +1

    Dear Hailey, it must be so hard time for you☹️❤. You're going to be all right love, becouse you are strong, beautiful and amazing woman, who can handle this hard time. You got this Mama✨️! Sending hugs and love from Poland❤❤❤

  • @Ronelle__
    @Ronelle__ Год назад +2

    Been here since the beauty guru days 💛 always rooting for you, you’ll be okay babe!

  • @Ax_nl
    @Ax_nl Год назад +1

    This is the first video I’ve watched of yours but I just want to comment and let you know that I’ll be sending you a lot of love and strength. You can do this ❤