About to be going through the same. I have a 14 year old son and two younger kiddos. My 14 yr old is only mine So I’ll be experiencing all of this soon having time away from my two girls & I know it’s not gonna be easy whatsoever :( I really can appreciate this video & the time u showed spending with your son because that’s what my life will look a lot like soon. Considering therapy for myself because I’m starting to really blame myself for everything
Hey I really appreciate you sharing your journey and my heart goes out to you and your situation. Literally sounds exactly like what my situation looks like too. The nice part is it gives you the opportunity to reconnect with your oldest who unfortunately gets puts more on the back burner then we would like when we have young children. That’s one thing I try to focus on in a positive way. But I always suggest therapy, especially through these hard times. Mental health is so important and going through something like this (unless you have no feelings) is going to be hard. I think it’s good to take some accountability for how you could’ve been a part of the flaws in your marriage but it takes two, so don’t take all the blame. It’s easy as an empathetic person to blame ourselves and that’s another reason why therapy is good, to help you see things differently. My heart goes out to you during this time ♥️
I remember my first day without my son when he was 2.5. I had no idea what to do with myself. 3 years into it and I still miss him when he is gone for his 2 weekends a month. Hugs mama! 💙
so glad you and kolby got to hang out together and did some self care when u showed that rug in the walk thru i absolutely loved it love that you got it aweee lola so sweet thats great you guys can get along better for everybody still thinking of and praying for ya my friend!
Thank you friend! Yes I’m so happy we are putting the kids first through this. It’s not good for them if we get volatile with each other. Isn’t that rug so cute?! I’m so excited to decorate with it! 🥰
Thank you Frances! ♥️ It was so nice to have one on one time with him. I’m going to be starting them this week, although it’ll take me a little longer then usual since it’s just me now.
I loved this one! As someone who just found your channel around the last month, it’s really great to be able to catch up. Thanks for sharing and I really enjoy all the content where you tend to say it wasn’t exciting or maybe we don’t like it- I always love those details! 💗🤗
It was really lovely to see you getting a few things, and I love the shelf, it's gorgeous. Your t.shirt is fantastic, and will look amazing on. I can't wait to see the rug down. Have a wonderful weekend, hugs and love 💞
Lola was so cute playing Uno. We used to have a cat that played Uno with us. I also got those bath bombs for my granddaughters Easter baskets. Glad you had some one on one with Kolby. Love the rug.
Hi..Hi..Hi Becka 🌷🌷! YES, I feel nauseous often 🥴🥴, Self-Inflicted. I drink Cafe', Cafe', Cafe' & don't stop to eat 🙄🙄🙄🙄. The Rugs in Ross looked VERY, VERY, nice!!!, thank you for taking us along 💕. That's AWWWWW SUMMMMMMMMMM that you are going out to Dinner w/your son!! And, a Self-Care evening is always a GREAT one!!! Have MUCH FUN!!! I hope that you're enjoying the Weekend 💞!!
Thank you friend! It was a lovely night with my oldest. Always enjoy spending time with him one on one 🥰 Glad I’m not the only one with the coffee and forgetting to eat.
I gather things a little at a time for small changes I want to do our budget is really tight but you can still find things I think they feel like more of a score lol! I know today was hard but you did great, now more than ever you have to take care of yourself to be there for your boys. Take care, stay safe, thinking of you often you got this ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Christina! So glad you enjoy it! It will be little by little now that the budget is much smaller but I plan on starting and just work on it as I can. I’m excited, love burying myself in projects 🥰
Thank you Carol ♥️ You’re so right, we do need me time but sometimes I have to be forced to take it. Hate that I’m that way but this forces me to think a little bit more about myself now.
Love a good uno night! Glad u are focusing on yourself and that u all are choosing to be friends still. I'm a big fan of still being family for the kiddos cuz they deserve happiness too with their parents being civil 💕
So glad you and Chris are handling your separation peacefully as many couples don’t and the kids suffer, so happy your on good terms. Your handling the separation and smart gone to therapy for peace of mind.
Thank you Linda. I’m also so grateful that we’re not being toxic for the kids sake. There is just no need for it, we both want this to be as smooth for them as possible.
I am in the same situation as you are in your marriage. We have been separated for 3 months and are slowly mending our 18-year marriage. I will pray for you and your family. God bless.
Hey beautiful. Glad you were able to have some ME time. U need to take time for urself. Its good for ur mental health. And yes therapy is great too. To be able to talk to someone is a good thing. Just take ur time hon. Canto see all the lovely things put up. Love the shelf and rug. 💜💜💜💜
Awesome vlog, luv the shelf for the bathroom and the new rug is amazing. I have been decorating a bit at a time as well. I am a single mum with one son. I have 3 cats as well, much prefer the cats to my ex haha, have a great day.
New subscriber! Like your channel. Do all of your kids have the same dad? Sorry, if I overstepped! Was just wondering if the oldest just didn’t want to go with dad and leave you alone. 💕
Hey Cathy, no worries I’ve shared this in the past so it’s no secret 😊 My oldest I had when I was young with my high school sweetheart who still lives in my home state (Connecticut). My two younger boys are with my current husband/ex.
Hi Becka, Glad to see you in good spirits. Good for you to get out and get some things done for yourself. Nice to see you with Colby, going to dinner and playing Uno with him. Hope he is doing well with the situation. Can't wait to see your make overs, especially your bedroom. I hope you enjoyed your self care night and slept well. See you in the next one. 🥰💖
Thank you Susan ♥️ It was really nice to get some self care in, forgot what that was like to be honest 😂 It was a lovely night with my oldest though and I really enjoyed the one on one time with him.
Becka, If I may - first time watching your channel. I speak from experience so ---- its ok where your at in your life, my suggestions to you are change the interior of your house, change is good. work on yourself (self-esteem) work on your channel, (content) it will create $$ for you, so you don't have to go get a job. Eat well, sleep well, and basically take care of business. you will be ok, trust me. don't buy new stuff, diy stuff ( keeps your mind busy ) and makes your home different/ special & creates content. God speed you are young, beautiful and have your whole life ahead of you. Oh and please don't jump into a relationship right away think of your boys, they must come first. Please, please let Chris look for his own stuff, let go you are not a part of his life anymore, and he is not a part of your life. Becka and the boys come first and foremost.-------UNO is my most favorite game next to puzzles, paint the interior of your house (keeps your mind busy) buy yourself tools drills, sanders, screw drivers, hammers. ( DIYing) - shop facebook $$$$
Hey, I actually already have those tools as I’ve loved diying for a long time time now. Definitely will be diving into some projects, and you’re so right that will also bring content and help grow my business. I do not plan on getting into another relationship for a VERY long time. I am 100% focusing on me and my kids. I don’t “need” anyone to complicate my life to be honest. I’m content with the way things are 🥰 Chris is free to do what he wants as he sees fit, I do not try to control him in the least bit.
About to be going through the same. I have a 14 year old son and two younger kiddos. My 14 yr old is only mine So I’ll be experiencing all of this soon having time away from my two girls & I know it’s not gonna be easy whatsoever :( I really can appreciate this video & the time u showed spending with your son because that’s what my life will look a lot like soon. Considering therapy for myself because I’m starting to really blame myself for everything
Hey I really appreciate you sharing your journey and my heart goes out to you and your situation. Literally sounds exactly like what my situation looks like too. The nice part is it gives you the opportunity to reconnect with your oldest who unfortunately gets puts more on the back burner then we would like when we have young children. That’s one thing I try to focus on in a positive way. But I always suggest therapy, especially through these hard times. Mental health is so important and going through something like this (unless you have no feelings) is going to be hard. I think it’s good to take some accountability for how you could’ve been a part of the flaws in your marriage but it takes two, so don’t take all the blame. It’s easy as an empathetic person to blame ourselves and that’s another reason why therapy is good, to help you see things differently. My heart goes out to you during this time ♥️
@@sincerelybecka3 ❤️All so true. love your channel!
Thank you, I’m so glad you’re enjoying it 🥰
It’s awesome that y’all can co-parent without the anger and negativity and Animosity
Yes so grateful for that! 🙌🏼
Hang in there, girl! It will get easier as time goes on. I’ve been in your situation so I’ll be rooting for ya!! 😉❤
Thank you Lindsey, I appreciate it! 🥰♥️
I remember my first day without my son when he was 2.5. I had no idea what to do with myself. 3 years into it and I still miss him when he is gone for his 2 weekends a month. Hugs mama! 💙
Yes it can be hard, but I try to keep myself busy and give myself things to look forward to 😊
Never let go of self-care.
I did for far to long, not anymore 🥰
Hi, I feel so bad for you and your family . But I hope everything works out. Thank you for sharing
Thank you Denise ♥️
so glad you and kolby got to hang out together and did some self care when u showed that rug in the walk thru i absolutely loved it love that you got it aweee lola so sweet thats great you guys can get along better for everybody still thinking of and praying for ya my friend!
Thank you friend! Yes I’m so happy we are putting the kids first through this. It’s not good for them if we get volatile with each other. Isn’t that rug so cute?! I’m so excited to decorate with it! 🥰
Hey Becka so happy to see you doing something for yourself. Enjoy the quality time with your older son. Much love ❤
Thank you Janice! It’s been nice getting some alone time with him 🥰
I'm glad you got time for yourself and spent one on one time with Colby. I can't wait to see your make-overs.
Thank you Frances! ♥️ It was so nice to have one on one time with him. I’m going to be starting them this week, although it’ll take me a little longer then usual since it’s just me now.
I enjoyed it. I have been divorced since 2005. It's the first marriage and not rushing into another one.
I loved this one! As someone who just found your channel around the last month, it’s really great to be able to catch up. Thanks for sharing and I really enjoy all the content where you tend to say it wasn’t exciting or maybe we don’t like it- I always love those details! 💗🤗
I love that shelf. I've been loving wood tones lately.
Yes me too! Alway love accenting with wood.
It was really lovely to see you getting a few things, and I love the shelf, it's gorgeous. Your t.shirt is fantastic, and will look amazing on. I can't wait to see the rug down. Have a wonderful weekend, hugs and love 💞
Thank you friend! Hope you had a great weekend ♥️ So excited about the rug! It’s going to look great in the laundry room 🥰
Just wanted to say your doing amazing, your so strong and resilient and a real inspiration. Keep being You and we are all behind you 100%. ♥️
Thank you so much! That means more than you know ♥️
It’s nice to have some time for yourself 😊 the dog is so sweet, think she wanted to play too 😂
She always wants to be a part of everything 🥰 It was nice to get some time to myself, doesn’t happen often but I’ll have to get use to it now.
Lola was so cute playing Uno. We used to have a cat that played Uno with us. I also got those bath bombs for my granddaughters Easter baskets. Glad you had some one on one with Kolby. Love the rug.
Thank you friend! ♥️ We used some of them this week, the kids loved them!
Hi..Hi..Hi Becka 🌷🌷!
YES, I feel nauseous often 🥴🥴, Self-Inflicted. I drink Cafe', Cafe', Cafe' & don't stop to eat 🙄🙄🙄🙄. The Rugs in Ross looked VERY, VERY, nice!!!, thank you for taking us along 💕.
That's AWWWWW
SUMMMMMMMMMM
that you are going out to Dinner w/your son!!
And, a Self-Care evening is always a GREAT one!!! Have MUCH FUN!!! I hope that you're enjoying the Weekend 💞!!
Thank you friend! It was a lovely night with my oldest. Always enjoy spending time with him one on one 🥰 Glad I’m not the only one with the coffee and forgetting to eat.
@@sincerelybecka3 😅😅😅😅😅.
Good luck on your new journey
Thank you Norma ♥️
Hi again 🙂! I like ALL of the items that you purchased!! Your Dinner looked YUMMMMMMMIE 😋.
TYFS 💞!! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍.
Thanks for being here friend ♥️
@@sincerelybecka3 I'm here for you always, I'm here to stay ❣️❣️ 😚😚.
Sending love ❤
Thank you Amber ♥️
I gather things a little at a time for small changes I want to do our budget is really tight but you can still find things I think they feel like more of a score lol! I know today was hard but you did great, now more than ever you have to take care of yourself to be there for your boys. Take care, stay safe, thinking of you often you got this ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for your sweet words friend. We’re falling into our new groove. I agree when you score a good deal is always so satisfying 🥰
That shelf looks great!! Can’t wait to see the makeovers!! ❤
Thank you Sharon 🥰 I am going to start working on the laundry room here and there the next few weeks. So excited to see it transform!
Thank you for sharing ❤
Thank you for being here! ♥️
U looked better to day thanks for ur message we will get it in time it will get better when its time i do like ur content enjoy ur self u deserve it
Thank you so much! ♥️ it means a lot to me that you enjoy my channel.
Love the shelf and colour of your new rug, I can’t wait for these makeovers you have such great taste and style
Thank you Christina! So glad you enjoy it! It will be little by little now that the budget is much smaller but I plan on starting and just work on it as I can. I’m excited, love burying myself in projects 🥰
Sorry that you are feeling sad without the kids. Prayers you are still doing OK. hugs I hope.
Thank you friend ♥️ We’re getting into the new groove of things.
@@sincerelybecka3 blesses
Becka thank you for taking us along with you today. You needed this today & You need me time. Have a Wonderful day my Sweet Friend
Thank you Carol ♥️ You’re so right, we do need me time but sometimes I have to be forced to take it. Hate that I’m that way but this forces me to think a little bit more about myself now.
Love a good uno night! Glad u are focusing on yourself and that u all are choosing to be friends still. I'm a big fan of still being family for the kiddos cuz they deserve happiness too with their parents being civil 💕
Absolutely Amy, we are on the same page my friend. No need to make it any harder for the kids then need be. They didn’t ask for this.
So glad you and Chris are handling your separation peacefully as many couples don’t and the kids suffer, so happy your on good terms. Your handling the separation and smart gone to therapy for peace of mind.
Thank you Linda. I’m also so grateful that we’re not being toxic for the kids sake. There is just no need for it, we both want this to be as smooth for them as possible.
I am in the same situation as you are in your marriage. We have been separated for 3 months and are slowly mending our 18-year marriage. I will pray for you and your family. God bless.
Thank you ♥️ I hope things look up for you and work out as they should.
Hey beautiful. Glad you were able to have some ME time. U need to take time for urself. Its good for ur mental health. And yes therapy is great too. To be able to talk to someone is a good thing. Just take ur time hon. Canto see all the lovely things put up. Love the shelf and rug. 💜💜💜💜
Thank you so much friend! ♥️ Therapy has been a real saving grace for me through this and my therapist is amazing, love her! Thanks for being here!
You and Chris are amazing. Love you and am here for you. 💚💚💚💚💚💚
Thank you so much Sondra! ♥️
Thank for your honesty sending love and hugs sweet friend 💖 ❤️ 🤗
Thank you Cindy ♥️
it's not easy for sure but times hard decisions are made for the best for everyone xx I love you girl you are amazing
Thank you so much Audrey! That means the world to me! ♥️
Thank you for vlogging and sharing with us. You are doing good. I’m praying for you and your family!!❤
Thank you Wanda, it’s therapeutic to share and know I’m not the only one going through this ♥️
Awesome vlog, luv the shelf for the bathroom and the new rug is amazing. I have been decorating a bit at a time as well. I am a single mum with one son. I have 3 cats as well, much prefer the cats to my ex haha, have a great day.
😂 I can definitely relate to that, but I’m more of a dog person. Always happy to connect with those who can relate to my situation ♥️
New subscriber! Like your channel. Do all of your kids have the same dad? Sorry, if I overstepped! Was just wondering if the oldest just didn’t want to go with dad and leave you alone. 💕
Hey Cathy, no worries I’ve shared this in the past so it’s no secret 😊 My oldest I had when I was young with my high school sweetheart who still lives in my home state (Connecticut). My two younger boys are with my current husband/ex.
Hey girl! Hope you have a good weekend.
Thank you friend! Hope you had a great weekend ♥️
I love the shelves
Thank you friend, such a good find! 🥰
I love the shelf ❤
Couldn’t pass it up! 🥰
Nice haul. Shelves look awesome
Thank you, yes such a great find! 🥰
Hi Becka, Glad to see you in good spirits. Good for you to get out and get some things done for yourself. Nice to see you with Colby, going to dinner and playing Uno with him. Hope he is doing well with the situation. Can't wait to see your make overs, especially your bedroom. I hope you enjoyed your self care night and slept well. See you in the next one. 🥰💖
Thank you Susan ♥️ It was really nice to get some self care in, forgot what that was like to be honest 😂 It was a lovely night with my oldest though and I really enjoyed the one on one time with him.
@@sincerelybecka3 I wish you nothing but the best 🙋♀️😘
Great video.
Thank you friend ♥️
It was nice u and colby let Lola play cards with u😊
😂 she’s always apart of everything, being the only girl she definitely acts like the diva.
After a breakup you need to have a girls night, let loose, be around people you can be yourself with, deserve it!
Thank you Rozanne! I couldn’t agree me 🥰♥️
My daughter is going through this too she has a three-year-old girl and I am sick about it
I’m so sorry to hear that Dee. My heart goes out to her ♥️
Becka, If I may - first time watching your channel. I speak from experience so ---- its ok where your at in your life, my suggestions to you are change the interior of your house, change is good. work on yourself (self-esteem) work on your channel, (content) it will create $$ for you, so you don't have to go get a job. Eat well, sleep well, and basically take care of business. you will be ok, trust me. don't buy new stuff, diy stuff ( keeps your mind busy ) and makes your home different/ special & creates content. God speed you are young, beautiful and have your whole life ahead of you. Oh and please don't jump into a relationship right away think of your boys, they must come first. Please, please let Chris look for his own stuff, let go you are not a part of his life anymore, and he is not a part of your life. Becka and the boys come first and foremost.-------UNO is my most favorite game next to puzzles, paint the interior of your house (keeps your mind busy) buy yourself tools drills, sanders, screw drivers, hammers. ( DIYing) - shop facebook $$$$
Hey, I actually already have those tools as I’ve loved diying for a long time time now. Definitely will be diving into some projects, and you’re so right that will also bring content and help grow my business. I do not plan on getting into another relationship for a VERY long time. I am 100% focusing on me and my kids. I don’t “need” anyone to complicate my life to be honest. I’m content with the way things are 🥰 Chris is free to do what he wants as he sees fit, I do not try to control him in the least bit.
Hi and good morning or afternoon
Hey Devonda! ♥️
Please don’t take this wrong, but is Chris picking anything up for you
I’m 66 and as you get older you see things differently ❤❤❤
Hey Kathy, what do you mean is he picking anything up for me? Physically?
@@sincerelybecka3 lol no, I saw where you picked up stuff for him at the store. The towels ♥️
Oooooh gotcha lol. Yes he actually grabbed me a new Stanley cup.
How are the kids taking the separation??
There doing better than expected to be honest.
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❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
I had to go threw devorice therapy..
Sorry you went through that, but therapy is much needed sometimes.
( please don’t wear giant fake eyelashes, it takes away from your natural beauty 🥲)
I appreciate your opinion but I love them 🥰