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  • Опубликовано: 12 апр 2022
  • This is a Gautam buddha motivational story which revolves around Gautam buddha his young disciple monk and a prostitute whose name was Amarpali. In this story you will learn how to overcome sexual desires and sexual thoughts in your mind all the time. Also you will learn how to stop masturbating. What are the disadvantages and side effects of masturbating. This new buddha story is a great example for all those young people who indulge in bad habits in very young age. Hope you will learn some positive things from this video and if you like this video then kindly share it maximum.
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  • @wordsofwisdomstories
    @wordsofwisdomstories  2 года назад +108

    Dear friends if you like this video then please support us with the thanks button ♥️ 🙏

  • @xxChacaronXX
    @xxChacaronXX 2 года назад +206

    She thought she was looking for love but what she was really looking for was her true self! 😇 Such a great story!

    • @jamestucker4800
      @jamestucker4800 Год назад +4

      The Self is love, but divine love, which is different than our Hollywood notion of "romantic love" based on attachments

  • @firezebra3767
    @firezebra3767 2 года назад +1481

    Bro compared to all the other lessons ,this is #1 most useful lesson for me from your channel.Cuz I have been suffering to quit it and failed many times.Thanks a lot brother.

    • @samapras
      @samapras 2 года назад +27

      Why to quit in the first place?

    • @samapras
      @samapras 2 года назад +13

      @CiyontL7 does 5-10 min cost the efforts to achieve that?

    • @samapras
      @samapras 2 года назад +4

      @CiyontL7 I don't think so

    • @samapras
      @samapras 2 года назад +9

      @CiyontL7 I wish and hope you remain bachelor ever

    • @richdude8150
      @richdude8150 2 года назад +18

      Keep trying one day something will click in your mind and you will just stop

  • @shubhashish_ranjan
    @shubhashish_ranjan 2 года назад +107

    Meditation really works as a miracle, I have been practicing it for the last 10 years and results are totally visible in my life. ☺😇

    • @warrenbradford2597
      @warrenbradford2597 2 года назад +7

      I hope I can achieve the same results as you did.🙂

    • @shubhashish_ranjan
      @shubhashish_ranjan 2 года назад +8

      @@warrenbradford2597 You'll, just start with 15 minutes a day and increase the time in upcoming weeks.

    • @warrenbradford2597
      @warrenbradford2597 2 года назад +5

      @@shubhashish_ranjan I will get in the habit doing that. I have to be careful not to meditate too long, especially when I have something important to do.

    • @shubhashish_ranjan
      @shubhashish_ranjan 2 года назад +2

      @star 3 To be honest, yeah I did 😃

    • @gd0116
      @gd0116 Год назад +1

      Bro what is meditation..how to do

  • @urkoolUncle
    @urkoolUncle 2 года назад +493

    I remember a time when my work was driving a taxi at night into the morning. Most of my fares were dancers from strip clubs going home. Most tried the 'hi sweetie' and 'you want to buy me something?'
    I would immediately cut them off and honestly confess: "I have never been in a strip club; only parked on the outside for picking up patrons needing a ride. I am not interested in the atmosphere or lifestyle." Without fail, close to 100% of those girls would burst out crying and start confessing their trapped state. Many gritted their teeth and angrily voiced, "I HATE this job; I HATE my life." For most, I was able to offer a Higher Path that exposes the matter realm as illusion and the unseen as the Real.
    Not all 'bad' people want to be 'bad'. Plus, it's not about good or bad but more about being connected to Spirit / Abiding and disconnecting from matter / the transitory.
    Good people are not always holy; Bad people are not always evil !!!

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад +16

      *For rational spiritual knowledge Read*
      1 *Bhagvat Gita*
      2. *Bhagvat Mahapuran*
      *Scriptures par excellence*

    • @davidjayson1814
      @davidjayson1814 2 года назад +14

      I love this, the most wise comment I've ever seen

    • @aliengod2039
      @aliengod2039 2 года назад +11

      When human beings realize that highest purpose of life is not to enjoy sensual pleasures and material comforts, but to seek spiritual exaltation and attainment of "moksha". There are 2 ways men can use their sexual fluid. One is by conserving it and using it only for the highest sacred purpose of creating a perfect child free of diseases, disabilities and defects and all karma so he or she will never undergo any pain or suffering. Another way is in yoga where you conserve the energy, release the nerves around each chakra or energy center and attain a state called samadhi and then moksha which is death without pain or suffering. Not all are gifted in this. There maybe 1 in million who can attain this state as 99.99999% of humans in this world are surrounded by sexual material and distractions one way or another.
      Nobody is so lucky to die off in sleep. Nobody dies as and when they want to end their life. They have to live it on and on and on and they just don't know how they will go... either through cancer or heart attack or brain tumour or kidney failure or lung cancer or anything else. Hence, attainment of moksha is a gift and for that, one has to abandon sensual pleasures of which sexual pleasure is the crippling force that is ruling the world of today.

    • @ajaypatel19
      @ajaypatel19 2 года назад +2

      Very True

    • @ScarlettFire341
      @ScarlettFire341 2 года назад +5

      Remember we are all on different Paths heading to the same destination from different perspectives of purview & understanding.
      All Paths are unique so right for the Individual on it

  • @thembinkosidube3918
    @thembinkosidube3918 2 года назад +817

    Our semen is our energy,if we conserve it we will find great success in all fields of life...
    Thank you ❤

    • @victorogabz3346
      @victorogabz3346 2 года назад +3

      Thanks

    • @theaditxys
      @theaditxys 2 года назад +38

      no research has been done that shows that besides that it's the placebo effect.

    • @hamannshaikh7398
      @hamannshaikh7398 2 года назад +26

      Today's youth is just wasting wasting and wasting there semens 😢

    • @RT-oz3lg
      @RT-oz3lg 2 года назад +12

      @@theaditxys Are you perhaps a teenager?

    • @theaditxys
      @theaditxys 2 года назад +13

      @@RT-oz3lg indeed I'm and that doesn't conclude that I'm ignorant.

  • @motivationeyes2852
    @motivationeyes2852 2 года назад +125

    As-salamu alaykum
    Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world.

  • @DC-qj8dt
    @DC-qj8dt 2 года назад +724

    The moral of the story is well explained by Amrapali at 4.38.
    The young monk's sexual desire is not about control, it dropped after self realization through meditation.
    Any desire controlled will not go away, it'll grow in intensity and resurface when your awareness is relaxed.
    To transcend sex is not about suppression, is through insight.

    • @ak5257
      @ak5257 2 года назад +8

      Correct

    • @oliverstadler350
      @oliverstadler350 2 года назад +25

      common, don't be to hard with yourself, we are all human. Sexuality is not to feel ashamed of, but ok don't exaggerate it. It is with everything: the way of the middle. Namaste.

    • @gormenfreeman499
      @gormenfreeman499 2 года назад +14

      I tell you don’t think about monkeys for 10 seconds. If you try, you can’t, now for several days now you’ll be thinking about monkeys.

    • @Xavaje
      @Xavaje 2 года назад +35

      The way I am interpreting what you're saying is, what you resist, persists. When you're aware of your thoughts and why you're thinking them, there's no longer a need to try and control it. Your awareness of it is what gives the thought and desire no more power over you, therefore no longer needs to be controlled. To control something means to resist what the opponent wants or wants you to do. To be aware of your opponent's presence, means you know where they are and can avoid their presence altogether while allowing them to be and exist how they please while sparing yourself the conflict whether from the exterior or from within.
      I'm new to all of these teachings, but I'm really trying to find and understand the meaning and concepts of these teachings. I was raised Roman Catholic, but I don't believe in any man made organized religions. When I was younger, the contradictions of any religious scripture I would read vs the actions of the followers and teachers are what turned me off and makes me skeptical of each religious leader's intentions. Very few if any lead by example from my observation. As a person who has had leadership positions in my career, I've always believed that as a leader I would never expect my subordinates to do something that I wouldn't be willing to do myself.
      As I've matured, I am starting to see more value in certain scriptures and teachings. Not because of the leaders preaching or teaching it, but because I am trying live what I am learning without needing a leader or an example. Why can't I be my own example? Why can't I lead myself? I'm appreciateling this concept of self awareness because it's something you can pursue on your own and if you attract the people with the right energy to help you along the way, then so be it, but the need for it is not there. It materializes if it serves you and if you accept it.
      If I sound like I'm talking shit, please let me know. I am not sensitive to criticism. I don't mind opposing views and I appreciate honesty. It gives me something to compare to and make adjustments in my understanding along the way in this journey we call life.
      Love, Peace and Chicken Grease!
      ❤✌🏼🍗

    • @DC-qj8dt
      @DC-qj8dt 2 года назад +16

      @@Xavaje You are right.
      From my own experience, when you aware of your desire (thought, feeling or body sensation), a gap is created between you (observer) and the desire (the observed). You no longer identified with the desire and it loses its grip on you.
      If you try to control it, it means now you desire not to have that desire.You are still identified with that desire by creating another desire, so it will persist.
      Not sure if it helps.
      All the best to you, fellow seeker of truth.🙏

  • @rohitkf8474
    @rohitkf8474 2 года назад +17

    Tried a lot of things. Was very hard to come out of it.
    Then i met my future wife. And immediately, i just had this change of heart to BE A BETTER MAN for hwr and for myself.
    Just like it's said
    WHAT THE MIND THINKS, THE BODY BECOMES
    Take control of your body.
    Coz I haven't done anything ever since 😊.

  • @LamSham
    @LamSham 2 года назад +72

    Nature never goes against reality but man made laws do. Good though with a good deed always within. Thank you for sharing it👍🙏

  • @user-nt4nm4fb3u
    @user-nt4nm4fb3u 2 года назад +54

    No need to control mind nor emotions or nothing, the true consequence of a deep meditation practice is that you'll become free from Body, Mind & Emotions. To become free: you don't need to control anything, you just need to observe it as it is.

    • @kurtcornwall2793
      @kurtcornwall2793 2 года назад +3

      🧐wow I never thought of it that way. Thanks man

    • @user-nt4nm4fb3u
      @user-nt4nm4fb3u 2 года назад +2

      @@kurtcornwall2793 In fact, that is the way my friend... controlling it makes it more stronger. you are welcome!!!!

    • @jetd6764
      @jetd6764 2 года назад +6

      Man don't cry. That is what we have been taught. One day when I was in the US Army I started to cry from 7:30 to 3:45 in the afternoon. On my wedding day, I cried again from 6:30 to 11:45. The cameraman made a joke. This video should be on American Funny video. I called this event a storm of a century. Don't try to control your emotion; just let them flow. Now I never try to stop my urge to cry unless I am at work or surrounded by customers. Thank you for ur comments. U are right. Don't try to control anything
      By the way, I am a survivor of the Khmer Rouge Genocide. Many people in my family were killed during the communist. Those memories still haunted me; I still have flashbacks on regular basis. Now I cried almost every day, but the pain gets less severe because I just let the storm pass by not trying to influent any thoughts

  • @MinuteWisdom
    @MinuteWisdom 2 года назад +177

    Great lesson. Semen retension is a good way to control desires and use that sexual energy in other fields of life and become successful. Right woman will come later on.

    • @Krthik462
      @Krthik462 2 года назад

      Now it is nearly impossible bcz girls r exposing themselves that is very bad and it is natural that we get attract towards them bcz we can't help plz request to girls do not expose urself have some manners I see lot of tik tok videos girls r exposing all much that it is unbelievable plz girls don't do like that have some morals or do onething remove all ur clothes and Rome freely

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад +28

      Be celibate and happy. Sex desire and woman is cause of misery. Sexual pleasure is available even to stool eating dogs and hogs. Read Bhagvat Gita and Bhagvat Mahapuran scriptures par excellence.

    • @swervsplatt9672
      @swervsplatt9672 2 года назад +23

      @Saswat Dev Stop using Instagram. Lower your gaze...

    • @aliengod2039
      @aliengod2039 2 года назад +2

      If you examine nature deeply, sexual energy is purely used for the higher purpose of procreation. If sexual energy, fluids are wasted off for selfish pleasures, then Law of Karma will ensure pain and suffering in some way, shape or form. The child of a sex addict may suffer a lot of pain. We see many children born with diseases, disabilities, defects. All these plus all the pain and suffering in this world is directly a consequence of LUST and Greed alone. In that, Lust alone is the biggest part as we see how human population exploded to 8 Billion. This desire to enjoy is like taking a loan from bank and then struggling to pay interests later on. The soul of a true seeker who abandons all worldly desires, jumps to higher conscious level and is reborn into higher heavenly world where those beings are literal Gods and Goddesses.
      So, choice is with us. If we wanna be born in this material body template with pleasures and pains, then we just repeat the same mistakes of the Lustful world of today. If we wanna evolve spiritually and jump to more evolved species in some other galaxy or planet, then we gotta reject this material world. Our desires shape our future bodies. If we our souls become superior to human souls of today, then it will not choose human body in it's next lifetime.

    • @MinuteWisdom
      @MinuteWisdom 2 года назад +1

      @@aliengod2039 well said brother

  • @vegainlifestyle7693
    @vegainlifestyle7693 2 года назад +99

    Love the moral of the story and it's wisdom. Although completely erasing my sexual desire isn't something I want in my life, retention and conscious use of it is something I seek.
    Like restraining from the unnatural maturbation and channeling this life energy to create good but also life.

  • @alien1971
    @alien1971 2 года назад +39

    I'm a Buddhist girl and love this story

    • @sanjayreddy1388
      @sanjayreddy1388 2 года назад +2

      Its tuff for giris to remain a monk is it not so? That too in india it's very difficult

    • @swarnadas6677
      @swarnadas6677 2 года назад +2

      Y not.....?????

    • @vimalsehgal6947
      @vimalsehgal6947 2 года назад +1

      *Read Bhagvat Gita spoken by God. Also read Bhagvat Mahapuran Scripture par excellence.*

    • @swarnalidutta2643
      @swarnalidutta2643 Год назад +1

      @@vimalsehgal6947 pls don't forget abt Veda🙏

    • @skk5405
      @skk5405 Год назад

      Vimal Sehgal.. swapnil... Varna caste system, dev dasi system, sati pradha ,etc,etc ??

  • @Mahi_interiors09
    @Mahi_interiors09 2 года назад +102

    This is very greatful information for youngest generation.. now a days lot of people not controlling these type of things..
    Yeah meditation is god's gift.. this will be control our feelings ,bad thoughts and increase our positivity...

    • @Jango975
      @Jango975 2 года назад +2

      The mind is not easy to master what eve we think we meditate we meditate all day just by working performing daily task and what we think we become

    • @thetruthseeker1606
      @thetruthseeker1606 2 года назад +2

      There's no such thing called a bad thought, they're all just thoughts.

  • @AsperK.22
    @AsperK.22 2 года назад +90

    I think there are some changes in story, amrapali also known as ambapali in pali language is a court dancer or not a prostitute and people yeah use to call her nagarvadhu but she isn't prostitute. Many great kings used to came to see her classical dance and she has lover known as ajatshatru. The story of seducing a monk seems quite different and I never heard about that.

    • @singh4259
      @singh4259 2 года назад

      Yes you are right, I think the story of Haridas Thakur (who was a Muslim originally) a disciple of Chaitanya Mahaprabhu, has been mixed here. A prostitute tried real hard to seduce him but her heart got transformed after listening to holy mahamantra from Haridas Thakur. You can easily find more about him on RUclips n google.

    • @jidrit999
      @jidrit999 2 года назад +1

      i heard this story in osho talk

  • @IwanSetiawan-ol5jg
    @IwanSetiawan-ol5jg 2 года назад +30

    🙏Namo Amitabha Buddha, may all being be Happy. Thank you

    • @rajatsubhramitra7508
      @rajatsubhramitra7508 2 года назад +2

      Amitava Buddha and Sakyamuni (Goutam Buddha) are different Buddhas This story is about Sakyamuni Buddha not about Amitava Buddha

  • @silentlatif
    @silentlatif 2 года назад +73

    However told/narrated, it is a beautiful story that sends you with a POSITIVE MIND!

  • @uditkumbar8541
    @uditkumbar8541 2 года назад +16

    Background vioce,
    English subtitles,
    Background music,
    & Ur story with good message
    Are awesome n lively. ❤️

  • @sramkumar3225
    @sramkumar3225 2 года назад +20

    Glory to that woman! Glory to that true monk, true renunciate who wasn't tempted even a tinge and transformed her being!

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад

      For rational spiritual knowledge Read
      1 Bhagvat Gita
      2. Bhagvat Mahapuran
      Scriptures par excellence

  • @Dmytroboyco
    @Dmytroboyco 2 года назад +30

    With the voice of this man story telling surely many would be rescued from long term draught..... Great textbook call 🤙

  • @07sushy
    @07sushy 2 года назад +36

    Along with control of mind, it is also important to control the senses, especially the eyes. If the ten senses are not controlled, then mind control is not possible. This is clearly mentioned in the Bhagavad Gita. Desire must be removed from the mind, by telling yourself that the mind and senses can never be satiated by indulging in sense pleasures and their objects. Only by rising above these sense objects and pleasures, can we get rid of desires. We can rise above them by convincing ourselves that these pleasures are consuming us, and are hollow and vain.

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад +2

      For rational spiritual knowledge Read
      1 Bhagvat Gita
      2. Bhagvat Mahapuran
      Scriptures par excellence

    • @hdhellion4128
      @hdhellion4128 2 года назад

      What are the 10 senses?

  • @ramoesgaston9966
    @ramoesgaston9966 2 года назад +18

    I know this story but is through sincerity that she changed and so did the sangha. It is a valuable lesson that often only takes experience to devote a mind to do better in face of adversity. May all sentient beings witness this profound brilliant glory.

  • @nicholaskearney678
    @nicholaskearney678 2 года назад +15

    Top effort Buddha. Respect for her and 'trust the remark."

  • @FOLLOW_THE_SOCIAL_MEDIA
    @FOLLOW_THE_SOCIAL_MEDIA 2 года назад +13

    You grow us, guys don't keep quiet with good information just do as others do, we need your helps each and everyday guys.
    Thank you.

  • @lifelearn7083
    @lifelearn7083 2 года назад +4

    This is the first most educative video I have seen on RUclips. Another useful reminder for achieving greatness in life.
    You just won yourself a new Subscriber😀
    Keep up the good work.

  • @kshetrimayumdiamondsingh5660
    @kshetrimayumdiamondsingh5660 2 года назад +30

    This is a very good message to young generations

    • @younglove3362
      @younglove3362 2 года назад +2

      Also easier said than done. When we're young we're full of semen and testerone. I know that I was.

  • @vinodsingh-gr1xj
    @vinodsingh-gr1xj 2 года назад +6

    Yes absolutely true . divert the attention on good thoughts and meditation and physical activity and work , reading what is happening around the world.

  • @soapshouse9275
    @soapshouse9275 2 года назад +44

    👑 DHAN DHAN SRI WAHEGURU JI
    DHAN DHAN SAT GURU NANAK DEV Ji👑
    WAHEGURU JI BLESS ALL HIS CREATIONS.

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад +2

      For rational spiritual knowledge Read
      1 Bhagvat Gita
      2. Bhagvat Mahapuran
      Scriptures par excellence

    • @shahidshaikh-dp4bi
      @shahidshaikh-dp4bi 2 года назад

      @@allahthepimp6042 gay shree raa*nd

  • @Thefoodtravelling
    @Thefoodtravelling 2 года назад +4

    One of the best lesson i have heard in my life thank you so much for giving wonderful message.

  • @ArunKumar-nl4nf
    @ArunKumar-nl4nf 2 года назад +1

    Thank you sir I am overcamed from negative thoughts anxiety confusions masturbation thank you for your channel from 2 months im feeling strong confidence ...

  • @infernapegaming6699
    @infernapegaming6699 2 года назад +8

    Thanks for making video on my and other so much request it will definitely help us a lot. Hats off to you and thanks again I'll keep supporting you ❤️❤️

  • @835_subham9
    @835_subham9 2 года назад +16

    ## Our semen is our energy. My most important lesson in my life is in knowing my true-self & discovering mine greatest of potentials!! Thank you Gautama Buddha..

    • @darkforces4156
      @darkforces4156 2 года назад

      no. shithead😂😂
      semen is not anyone's energy.

  • @sunilnagar9948
    @sunilnagar9948 2 года назад +15

    If you want to destroy any nation without war,make adultery or nudity common in the youth generation.
    -- Philosopher words

  • @dannyfisher6681
    @dannyfisher6681 2 года назад +53

    Awesome message! Stay till the end as it is more informative than the story in this case.

    • @carsongabriel1949
      @carsongabriel1949 2 года назад +1

      Exactly the end gives you the key takeaways 🤔👍👍👍💪👌🙏🙏

  • @anonymousworld8295
    @anonymousworld8295 2 года назад +23

    this is a really good video.....
    as a human we may cannot eliminate sexual thoughts.....but we can sure control it.....

    • @swedensy
      @swedensy 11 месяцев назад

      Just cut off your balls.

  • @trendingsaround2249
    @trendingsaround2249 2 года назад +7

    We all born with a purpose. Even buddha born for that purpose to prach the world. So listen to your true, good and genuine inner voice about you, fellow men, society around and the whole world and do your best. This world has created from the "nothing". The "nothing" is "complete". That is God. If you become "nothing", you will merge with God. We all born here to clear our desires and duties. 🙏

  • @aproudhater9158
    @aproudhater9158 2 года назад +6

    The more u will think not to think bout it the harder we will fall into this it's better to keep ourselves diverted into positive things

  • @elmario2228
    @elmario2228 2 года назад +41

    I am at 168 days of semen retention an I feel great. Meditation, Sun gazing and semen retention it's what you need to do.

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад +1

      For rational spiritual knowledge Read
      1 Bhagvat Gita
      2. Bhagvat Mahapuran
      Scriptures par excellence

    • @badactor3440
      @badactor3440 2 года назад

      What is "Sun gazing" ?

    • @biggemmyonline
      @biggemmyonline 2 года назад

      @@bojankojic108 Hahahahahahaha

    • @user-gz3rb7uw6z
      @user-gz3rb7uw6z 2 года назад

      Taking sunlight

    • @dniilii
      @dniilii 2 года назад

      Don't you have sex though? Like, with women, I mean...?

  • @antrikshachatterjee368
    @antrikshachatterjee368 2 года назад +4

    Yes well said majority of the young generation sd practice this beautiful thought

  • @carlosmacmartin4205
    @carlosmacmartin4205 2 года назад +20

    Interesting story. It's taken me over 35 years control my libido. But not sure about "semen retention". Prostate Cancer is no joke and I've known a handful of older men who have dealt with removal of their prostate. I don't agree with the No Fap proponents.

    • @anantsharma738
      @anantsharma738 2 года назад

      Lol prostate cancer is very rare.

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад +2

      Be celibate and happy. Sex desire and woman is cause of misery. Sexual pleasure is available even to stool eating dogs and hogs. Read Bhagvat Gita and Bhagvat Mahapuran scriptures par excellence.

    • @carlosmacmartin4205
      @carlosmacmartin4205 2 года назад +1

      @@allahthepimp6042 I've been turning down dates for almost a year. Too much drama. But I have not stopped Fapping away. 🤣

    • @younglove3362
      @younglove3362 2 года назад

      Fapping is not the issue. Too much Fapping is the problem. And it's true, it becomes addicting to the point of you don't even enjoy it, you just want the release. But Fapping is a decent substitute for sex, just not too much of it.

    • @raphaelyvens3974
      @raphaelyvens3974 2 года назад

      @@allahthepimp6042 you should also agree that for some sex is part of their happiness and being with Somebody

  • @dawnfm00
    @dawnfm00 2 года назад +5

    No one can leave this habit just by listening to a story. Buddha gave a practical way to people who were heavily indulged in sexual activities, he asked them to go to the cemetery and observe the dead bodes lying there infested with worms, maggots etc, so that they can realize that their own bodies will end up like this and physical attraction is just an illusion, this brought a significant impact on people's mind. And this was just one of the 82000 ways that he introduced to the mankind. Unfortunately we all forgot Buddha's teachings since they declined 500 years after he passed away.

  • @mauricelexington5083
    @mauricelexington5083 2 года назад +9

    Transmute Negative Human Desires into Positive Creations/Hobbies.And Balance the Sacral Chakra.That's the #1 Essence of Soul.

  • @timothystormacker4101
    @timothystormacker4101 2 года назад +3

    painful at first , can't deny it's remedial benefits , suffering has it's rewards though.....
    AMEN 💥🙏🔥✴️

  • @hamannshaikh7398
    @hamannshaikh7398 2 года назад +16

    Very beautiful and deep meaning story..... Respect ☺️ May Allahtala forgive me and bless me with his showers Ameen.....

  • @thetruthseeker1606
    @thetruthseeker1606 2 года назад +4

    But I have no desire to stop my need for sex. I love it, that's the greatest gift I've received as a man.

    • @raphaelyvens3974
      @raphaelyvens3974 2 года назад +3

      Same here but you should also value retention when you Want to acheive something cause thats where your will power came from .beside that I like sex

  • @ravindertalwar553
    @ravindertalwar553 2 года назад +14

    I feel highly obliged and humbled by the grace of God 🙏🙏🙏

  • @arunkumar1610
    @arunkumar1610 2 года назад +1

    Our mind is a like a vessel, what you fill is what matters. Thanks for sharing.

  • @carrotbrainYT
    @carrotbrainYT 2 года назад +11

    It's not about eliminating sexual desires,it's about understanding your emotions,it's about understanding our mind not about controling it, don't you think??

    • @07sushy
      @07sushy 2 года назад

      Mind will only run after pleasures and attractive sense objects. It is the nature of mind and senses to be drawn towards such things.

    • @cashflow2816
      @cashflow2816 2 года назад

      This is your desire speaking

    • @Richard--Fox
      @Richard--Fox 2 года назад +1

      It IS about eliminating desires completely. It's Your desires that are speaking on behalf of you.

  • @pramodmp2728
    @pramodmp2728 2 года назад +16

    You cannot eliminate that thought or desire 🤔 but, you can achieve that stage of "virakti"(losing interest in something) by over doing it. And that is the only possible way for common people.

    • @srinivasanj7693
      @srinivasanj7693 2 года назад +1

      U may get virakthi in doing good things but not in bad things u will dig deep d deep.. No end my experience

    • @gregglockhart9551
      @gregglockhart9551 2 года назад +1

      So true! It’s been said that the only way to understand what is enough is by finding out what is too much.

    • @pramodmp2728
      @pramodmp2728 2 года назад

      @@srinivasanj7693 it's not like that. It is according to a person's mind. And it changes person to person. (Person means not an ordinary human but a capable candidate. If you administer it properly he or she could gain control over it...
      Ordinary people can also test their capacity but, before that you must set levels. You must set many parameters most importantly you must know yourself and must be aware of your capacity.
      Beware of blue whale kind of 🐳 🎯🎮 games. 🎮

    • @pramodmp2728
      @pramodmp2728 2 года назад

      @@gregglockhart9551 MIND....

    • @pramodmp2728
      @pramodmp2728 2 года назад

      @@TcCT238 Thanks bro. As per our book there are no difference between attaining supreme spirituality of ladies and gentlemen as well.
      So don't waste time on hide and seek. We all belongs to that One supreme being. We are here to seek and realise it. Hopes some of us are enlightened.🙏🏼✌️

  • @festusjohnson9692
    @festusjohnson9692 2 года назад +52

    This video contains great solutions to the challenges of many young people. Thank you!

    • @thetruthseeker1606
      @thetruthseeker1606 2 года назад +1

      By the way, how old are you?

    • @festusjohnson9692
      @festusjohnson9692 2 года назад +1

      @@thetruthseeker1606 I am 110
      How old are you too?

    • @thetruthseeker1606
      @thetruthseeker1606 2 года назад

      @@festusjohnson9692 I'm young enough to get a boner. But why would you watch this video? I'm sure your T levels are in the negative.

  • @t.y.jayalakshmi5133
    @t.y.jayalakshmi5133 2 года назад +7

    Hare Krishna Hare Rama 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌷

  • @kanatislings9307
    @kanatislings9307 2 года назад +3

    Sex isn’t wrong …it can be healthy under the right circumstances.

  • @sriramjayaram6027
    @sriramjayaram6027 2 года назад +44

    Good message. Well narrated story to motivate everyone to improve health.

  • @PrincessMargaretJoacquim1111
    @PrincessMargaretJoacquim1111 2 года назад +2

    My life was just opposite n I was spoken among my friends that I was not normal human being... I know this n I believe in myself how you can stay strong mentally and physically 🤗🤗🤗♥️✌️🕊️😎👍n this happens when you are spiritually strong 🙏

    • @younglove3362
      @younglove3362 2 года назад

      So you're one of those rare nonsexual females. I dispise and envy you at the same time.

    • @PrincessMargaretJoacquim1111
      @PrincessMargaretJoacquim1111 2 года назад

      @@younglove3362 😂😅🤣yup isn't that story of Amrapali amazing 😍 facts don't lie, People Do 🤗🤗🤗❤️✌️🕊️🕺💃🕺💃🕺💃 Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be honorable among all, and let the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge sexually immoral people and adulterers.🙏🤩

  • @vasishtvemuri4181
    @vasishtvemuri4181 Год назад +2

    I will try to share what made me come out of this. The idea is simple: what is not true doesn't sustain, truth alone sustains, truth alone is 'the truth'. Whenever we are confused about what is right or wrong, if we just ask ourselves whether 'is it true or not', we'll get the answer. Therefore, if we ask ourselves truly we will realize that the truth is our sexual desire is clouding over the fact that this person is a unique individual, who is also related to others just like how we're related to other women in our own lives, like our mother, sisters, friends etc. Once if we can just pause, and mentally subside our desire, we will suddenly recognize that this is an individual, a fellow human being, who has much more value than just being an object of my desire. How would I feel if someone perceived me/my loved ones like that? So, firstly our desire is objectifying an individual and clouding over the intrinsic value of a human being.
    Next, just like other desires, is there an end to this desire? No, it comes, we satisfy it, it goes, then again it comes and this cycle repeats. But, truth is not something that comes and goes, it is something that is always there, it is always true. Just like how our desires and karma keeps us in a continuous cycle of life and death, there is no point in this cycle, we need to break this cycle and reach to the state of our true selves. Desire for things that are fundamentally untrue (like lust, money, power, fame etc.) are all the mini cycles in this larger cycle of life and death.
    Everything has a 'true' purpose in this world. For example, the purpose of food is to aid the larger purpose of our health by providing nutrition to this body. Hence, food that doesn't serve this fundamental purpose is not true. We can see that how refined foods, artificial flavors, overuse of chemicals etc. are leading to a range of consequences like obesity, early heart attacks, high blood pressure and so on. Similarly, the purpose of our sexual desire is nothing but procreation, to aid in bringing another life to this world. That's all, that is its use. Now, we can take that and make it attractive, just like adding excess sugars and artificial flavors to our food. But it is useless, it is untrue. There is nothing wrong in trying to make our food tasty, but it mustn't come in the way of its fundamental purpose, which is nutrition. In fact, the art of cooking is to make a nutritious meal tasty. Similarly, the fundamental purpose that governs our relationship with our partner is love, the physical aspect only aids that relationship. But, just like a tasty meal without nutrition is useless, a relationship that is only physical without love is meaningless.
    Whenever a sexual desire crops up in our mind, if we just pause, close our eyes and remind ourselves that this person is just like me, another individual, a fellow human being, and open our eyes, we are filled with empathy towards that person. This is the truth.

  • @srinivassubrmanian
    @srinivassubrmanian 2 года назад +3

    Sir such an inspirational video a real change of mind ☺️🙏🏼

  • @danielespeziari5545
    @danielespeziari5545 2 года назад +114

    I think this is debatable. Science has proven that 21 ejaculations a month are needed for a man to stay healthy and avoid prostate cancer. As always, the law of the middle is the way to go. Not being a slave to desire, not being obsessed by sex, but also not avoiding sexual activities altogether (be it alone or in a couple).

    • @jas2819
      @jas2819 2 года назад +48

      Rubbish! Many people are celibate and are happy. 🤔😏

    • @jonah5348
      @jonah5348 2 года назад +7

      just like religions are debatable too, whose truly right in following christ words,

    • @07sushy
      @07sushy 2 года назад +43

      Stop eating meat, and then see if you still have the same sex drive. Then talk about science.

    • @sramkumar3225
      @sramkumar3225 2 года назад +26

      @@07sushy I agree on this fact. Our food type really has an effect.

    • @tanjohnny6511
      @tanjohnny6511 2 года назад +1

      If what you said is true,then most monks or celibate people will have health problems but i do not see that.Base on my understanding,sexual ejaculation drains your energy and your minds equanimity.Its not dirty or immoral but it just not conducive for people who seeks spiritual wisdom and peace.

  • @ayyappansri
    @ayyappansri 2 года назад +2

    Potentially stronger message that indulges our undesirable thoughts in to the pest control called "The Powered Meditation"

  • @robertkonsam2222
    @robertkonsam2222 2 года назад

    I meet this channel only today I think this channel is also one of the best RUclips channel among the Best RUclips channel And I believe it can control our Mind until to reach my Destiny🔥👍

  • @borntoflyhigh
    @borntoflyhigh 2 года назад +7

    amazing history 🙏🏻🤗

  • @donotwantahandle1111
    @donotwantahandle1111 2 года назад +4

    I now see ED as a blessing rather than a curse!

  • @JuCarlos-ex8ip
    @JuCarlos-ex8ip 2 года назад +2

    Great video, very true meditation 🧘‍♀️ really helped me out thanks for sharing such amazing video

  • @davidcopperfield2278
    @davidcopperfield2278 2 года назад

    I like your calm and non forcing voice.
    Trust me, I don't say that to every Hindu I find on the internet. In fact you are the first one.

  • @ruvinikarunaratne6991
    @ruvinikarunaratne6991 2 года назад +5

    Such a beautiful channel. Thank you so much for sharing these for us.

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад

      For rational spiritual knowledge Read
      1 Bhagvat Gita
      2. Bhagvat Mahapuran
      Scriptures par excellence

  • @canopyfields
    @canopyfields 2 года назад +4

    Sex is natural. When you're one half you seek another half to complete. Yin and yang needs each other to become whole. When you're whole and One, you need to go into the contrast again to experience

  • @RawrTilUsDeath
    @RawrTilUsDeath 2 года назад +2

    I am a female,
    and this speaks to me.

  • @gregorio4646
    @gregorio4646 Год назад

    I agree with this concept of self control, still many find that dangerous.

  • @oliverstadler350
    @oliverstadler350 2 года назад +4

    sexuality is something to get in contact with yout higher being. sexuality is a part of our being, sexual attraction is part of humanity and also of spirituality.

    • @darkforces4156
      @darkforces4156 2 года назад

      sexuality has nothing to do with your higher being😂😂
      you must be pervert or in contact with some perverts
      sexuality is just for fun and procreate. nothing spiritual or weakening in it.

    • @raphaelyvens3974
      @raphaelyvens3974 2 года назад +1

      Agree

  • @gustavoadolfomonterohernan6159
    @gustavoadolfomonterohernan6159 2 года назад +4

    I don't understand, is making love wrong? or only masturbation? Shall I cut it off and only leave the desire for having children? what do you think, do you have any experience to share?

  • @mahlakupeterphillips8940
    @mahlakupeterphillips8940 2 года назад +2

    What a wonderful message.

  • @argon1611
    @argon1611 2 года назад +1

    What an inspiring story, thank you!

  • @rajkumat7856
    @rajkumat7856 2 года назад +10

    I’m not sure the moral of the story as narrated was to eliminate all sexual desire and masturbation (isn’t this contrary to the middle path?) It was about a monk keeping his solemn vow of celibacy and showing compassion to someone who was judged by others. Equally Amarpali gave up a life of prostitution because it made her unhappy and sought moksha by following the eightfold path Not everyone will become a monk or attains enlightenment, but all selfish desires especially when practised excessively and without limits, will cause unhappiness.

    • @michaelwhittierpearson
      @michaelwhittierpearson 2 года назад +1

      Some day the dogmas of religion will address the differences in hormone levels that are hereditary or caused by pre-natal or early childhood environments. Will the dogmas be some more blurry wisdom then too? My childhood hero compared sexual energy to water in a reservoir. Okay. These are helpful commentaries. They don't answer all our questions, and the absolutism doesn't fly very well.

  • @abbeeapen4162
    @abbeeapen4162 2 года назад +20

    The term Prostitute may kindly
    be avoided, all the old prof names
    has been, changed in this case
    SEX WORKER, a humble request. Excellent episode 🙏🙏🙏

    • @ivaylotsankov7292
      @ivaylotsankov7292 2 года назад

      Repeat after me PROS TI TU TE. Sex worker ... ahahahahah. PROS TI TU TE. Liberal like my morning sh.t before i flush it you are...

    • @younglove3362
      @younglove3362 2 года назад +3

      Please, prostitution is one of the oldest professions. It is what it is.

    • @jeunejaegerx3458
      @jeunejaegerx3458 2 года назад +2

      Get out of here, its called prostitution, stop trying to change the language

    • @younglove3362
      @younglove3362 2 года назад +1

      @@jeunejaegerx3458 he's not, he's explained how this weak and pitiful, politically correct, wanna righteous, society is trying to change the language.

    • @talkinglegend5435
      @talkinglegend5435 Год назад +1

      Yes

  • @divyanshnegi6492
    @divyanshnegi6492 2 года назад +1

    This Has Really Being A Great Help 🤗🤗🙏🙏
    Thank You Ji 🤗🤗🥰😘😘😘
    Jai Shree Radhe Krishna Ji 🧚‍♀️🙏🙏🤗🤗

  • @Joker92658
    @Joker92658 2 года назад +2

    Om Namo Budhdhay Namo❤❤❤🌸🌸🌸🙏

  • @atundaade1888
    @atundaade1888 2 года назад +16

    Powerful admonition!
    Thank you 🙏 sir.

  • @EleKokky
    @EleKokky 2 года назад +38

    This is the first video which I'm not agree at all. I think that, sexual thoughts are not a bad thing, except in the case of sexual violence. I even don't think that sexual masturbation is something you should be ashamed for. I think sex is good in all that cases that you do it by respecting others.

    • @07sushy
      @07sushy 2 года назад +10

      Lust, anger and greed are the three gateways to hell. Hope you realise it someday.

    • @tanjohnny6511
      @tanjohnny6511 2 года назад

      Sexual thoughts and acts drains your energy from being mindfull and equanimity to excitement and mental upheavel.It is not unnatural to a commoner but for a spiritual practitioner who is training his mind to be calm and focus to know the ultimate reality,it is unnatural and unproductive.😁✌

    • @SumithDammika
      @SumithDammika 2 года назад +5

      Sexual desire and and experience it while doing necessities for that is good for lay people.
      But to have a pure mind without defilements you need to practice this! Only those who knows Dhamma knows this

    • @Krthik462
      @Krthik462 2 года назад +4

      Doing sex is another thing and having sexual thoughts and lust is whole different thing

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад

      @@Krthik462 Muhammad was a terrorist rapist sex maniac who had eleven wives and raped women at random including children. Read his biography.

  • @djdigital3806
    @djdigital3806 2 года назад

    As a Las Vegas 🎰 Dj, l needed to hear this! Subscribed ☑️

  • @jamestetteh1537
    @jamestetteh1537 2 года назад +1

    Great pieces joined together my brother.
    Thank you

  • @adityasah369
    @adityasah369 2 года назад +16

    When one is truly fallen in love, one doesn't have even sexual desires in his/her mind.
    This is just my personal experience, I don't know about others.

    • @k.bhavithkumar5708
      @k.bhavithkumar5708 2 года назад +3

      How can that be?sex is one of the ultimate way to express love to ur partner..how can u truly love widout doin sex?

    • @adityasah369
      @adityasah369 2 года назад +4

      @@k.bhavithkumar5708 in the beginning there's no such desire. After getting married or mutual understanding, you can have sex. I know sex makes love stronger and long lasting. It's a way to express and make love. But in the beginning when you fall in love, you don't have such intention or desire. You only want to take care of her, later on you get physical.

    • @vishalnath5494
      @vishalnath5494 2 года назад +2

      @@adityasah369 exactly

    • @marcus3672
      @marcus3672 2 года назад

      @@adityasah369 But you have to be careful because I have experiences with women leaving relationships because of sex. They may not tell you mostly for fear of being judged but it is very important too. Of cos you must take care of her but don't be afraid to show that side to her too. For some reason they very sensitive and respond more to men who make them feel desirable (if they love you they want to feel you desire them cos words are not enough for them) Just a friendly advice from a random brother to you

    • @marcus3672
      @marcus3672 2 года назад

      @@adityasah369 You welcome bro

  • @natureboy6941
    @natureboy6941 2 года назад +15

    You can't control sexual energy , you can only direct it to lower chakra ( sacral or swadishthana) and release it or upper chakras like Ajna and Sahasrar and become a Bramha or God ! Also if you try to suppress any desires or feeling it's like you are hiding them inside and eventually it will come up and backfire ! Be a witness to your thoughts and feelings watch them without any judgment and attachments ,then miracles happen .love and light to all my brothers and sisters 💚

  • @RickSanchezc-xh3ky
    @RickSanchezc-xh3ky 2 года назад

    This is the best nofap motivation. The story represented the motivation perfectly

  • @nghakabeita3198
    @nghakabeita3198 2 года назад

    I don't know, i admire the physique of a person, the beauty and the intrication of all creations amazes my little mind

  • @ARSA4U
    @ARSA4U 2 года назад +3

    Wow ❣️

  • @johnygood5833
    @johnygood5833 2 года назад +5

    THAT WAS A GOOD ADVICE, JESUS ALREADY SAID THAT IT ALL STARTS FROM LOOKING !

  • @pinomarkovich3370
    @pinomarkovich3370 2 года назад

    The core of Buddha's teaching in a nutshell.

  • @samarjitbhattacharya666
    @samarjitbhattacharya666 2 года назад

    The best lesson till date... thanks

  • @natalievol5706
    @natalievol5706 2 года назад +4

    I have been living this life already few years now... I clean my lush trough meditation...
    sex is emptiness, emptiness is sex.

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад

      For rational spiritual knowledge Read
      1 Bhagvat Gita
      2. Bhagvat Mahapuran
      Scriptures par excellence

    • @raphaelyvens3974
      @raphaelyvens3974 2 года назад

      Mhh I feel for you

  • @chrisbreezetay40
    @chrisbreezetay40 2 года назад +8

    thanks Sir I'm glad I got the idea on how to get over masturbation I've been doing it for years now but I choose to stop right here right now you have help me a lot 😥😥🙏🧠💔

    • @allahthepimp6042
      @allahthepimp6042 2 года назад +1

      For rational spiritual knowledge Read
      1 Bhagvat Gita
      2. Bhagvat Mahapuran
      Scriptures par excellence

    • @raphaelyvens3974
      @raphaelyvens3974 2 года назад

      You Can not stop until you really see the negative side effect and You will not stop until you make the descision to quit not trying to quit but just quit that simple

  • @bennazay4414
    @bennazay4414 2 года назад +2

    Thank you brother for this information ✨🌻

  • @TeamC4D
    @TeamC4D 2 года назад

    Thank you for this video & Namasté 🙏🏼

  • @sudhakarreddypolam2432
    @sudhakarreddypolam2432 2 года назад +5

    Jai Sri Krishna 🙏

  • @supersharath7
    @supersharath7 2 года назад +11

    Does meditation really helps in avoiding masturbation?? I am being honest here. I have been masturbating since 10 years and I am addicted to it and I am unable to focus on my career. If someone could help me with the tips and all, it woud be helpful to me. Thanks in advance.🙏

    • @sachinvinod96
      @sachinvinod96 2 года назад +6

      Create a path towards spirituality and do meditation consistently.
      Drink 4-6litres of water and do regular exercise..
      Whenever u get sexual thoughts listen to devotional songs or mantras
      If u can do it for a week consistently then u will realise there is somewhat changes in you.
      I hope it will help u.
      Thank you.
      Radhe Krishna 🙏🙏🙏

    • @supersharath7
      @supersharath7 2 года назад +4

      @@sachinvinod96 thank you friend. I will try to do it and I will update you.🙏🤞

    • @Emperor-Of-Karma
      @Emperor-Of-Karma 2 года назад +2

      @@supersharath7 it need not be devotional alone. It can be anything that diverts your attention from it, like arts or singing or playing with friends or hanging out etc also

    • @supersharath7
      @supersharath7 2 года назад +2

      @@Emperor-Of-Karma thanks buddy. I am an artist too and I own cherry's arts page in Facebook. But as of now I am not sketching. Need to start drawing again. And also I am into electronic games bro. People are suggesting me to use that as well. Hoping for the best. As of now it's been 2 days I stopped it but still my mind is craving for it.🥺😭

    • @Emperor-Of-Karma
      @Emperor-Of-Karma 2 года назад +1

      @@supersharath7 i think I know when you will get the urge. Normally while doing other things you won't even think about it. But then when you see some actress photo or ad video you will get it. Am i right?

  • @globalcitizen813
    @globalcitizen813 2 года назад +1

    Bro thank you so much! please make another video regarding this topic please!

  • @paavanfitnessvlogs4509
    @paavanfitnessvlogs4509 2 года назад

    Thanks reciting us this story of monk🥰

  • @trinitylyrics98
    @trinitylyrics98 2 года назад +4

    Thank you so much am a Christian but your words has touched me

    • @anjalianjali6131
      @anjalianjali6131 2 года назад +1

      Sexual life before marriage is sin I think, I'm Christian religion too

  • @alexanderokoro2843
    @alexanderokoro2843 2 года назад +3

    This lesson made me understand what was quite confusing for me to understand. Everything has to do with controlling one's thought.

    • @JeffCaplan313
      @JeffCaplan313 2 года назад +1

      Control is an illusion. Just like thoughts. ✌️

  • @Bootsystem66
    @Bootsystem66 2 года назад +2

    In recent years frustrated women and the society are wondering why men are no longer interested in dating. To counter this, they embarking on shaming men about masturbation. Fortunately, men are no longer falling for that.
    Better than live a stressful life with a woman.

    • @ranganathmaringanti4380
      @ranganathmaringanti4380 2 года назад

      True… unfortunately, a woman has become embodiment of countless desires with the eternal stress which is breaking men’s spine and ribs… Let’s don’t get in to a trap on to that tender skin with biological bumps and openings!!

    • @Bootsystem66
      @Bootsystem66 2 года назад

      @@ranganathmaringanti4380 😄😄😄

    • @martinkibet4074
      @martinkibet4074 2 года назад

      Your funny, but I love you.

  • @nonnon283
    @nonnon283 2 года назад +1

    Amen thank you God thank you universe 🙏