I married a girl that wouldn't let me smash for 2 years. I had so much respect for that. The chase is far more interesting, makes the catch far more rewarding.
@@The_Black_Anarchist so bisexual men then , stop trying to make up your own set of facts, straight men are straight, gay people are gay. Do I really have to tell you that straight men are in no way attracted to or even think about experimenting with gay guys? Do I seriously need to say this to you? Y’all love living in this alternate reality where what you say is ultimately fact and it’s not
@@The_Black_Anarchist any man that you been with was gay or bisexual, there’s nothing wrong with that, but to say you’ve been with STRAIGHT men… just hear that statement out loud it literally makes no sense.
The flamboyant gay culture for relationships is very dramatic and toxic. It's basically a reality TV show. Now if he wasn't flamboyant he would probably be in an actual decent relationship and be able to give decent advice
@@NoName-sp5dp and explain how's that misogyny?? He's a gay man not a woman no wonder terfs exist women like you have really watered down feminism to not only include transwomen but apparently gay feminine men I doubt you'd care if he was a masculine gay man
Here's what I've learned: if he's into you, he's into you. Whether you put out fast or slow, whether you tease or don't. If he's into you- you got him. And as long as you keep treating him with the same respect you want in return, you'll probably keep him. End of story.
Plot twist: while you did all this and got the man, there’s another woman studying these same videos to steal your man. It will work, because he’s easily manipulated and coerced. How you got him is how you gonna lose him.
I learned to never take advice from these relationship "experts" or online guru's who don't have a ring on their finger themselves. How you coaching the game from the bleachers? Have a seat.
MJ is not a relationship expert or guru. He’s the CEO of an insurance company who tells juicy stories about his love life and sometimes he gives advice based on his experience. I think he’s hilarious. But just wanted to clarify that he doesn’t proclaim to be an expert. This is more like his personal blog content.
I didn’t have to manipulate my guy to be with me. I was just myself and he accepted me. There’s no trick to getting a man. If you gotta do all this to get a guys attention, most likely he isn’t the one. It’s should be easy and organic
You know what men want? Someone who is straightforward, up front and honest. If ur interested, just tell them and chances are the honesty will be attractive in itself. You wanna play games? Have fun at the arcades
Fr I'm just saying him being a gay man saying "we don't chase men" is bad and funny enough, but like.. Shouldn't one of the perks of being gay be avoiding all these bullshit games? Lool
Have confidence, don't look desperate, and communicate what you want. This is for men and women. Communicate what you want if y'all aren't on the same wavelength then move on. Once again Communicate.
People in real life, don’t react to that. People react to negativity. Unfortunately that’s the only time anybody has a single word to say in real life. On the internet y’all are so positive and upbringing. You guys talk your best and give your all to be likable behind a screen when it comes to videos like this. But when I step out into the real world, don’t nobody have a clue what kindness or communication is.
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@@Kal-El207 maybe cuz your only looking for the wrong people 🤷🏾
Women who believe this crap: "Imma make myself difficult to 'get'." Men subjected to this crap: "Sweet, she's finally leaving me alone. Time for video games with the homies."
The irony of being "difficult to get" is that the girl almost always never get attention from the one they want it from. Espescially since the one they want only get negative or dismissive bodylanguage. "Turn into a fucking Tsundere" cus that always fucking works in the shows, right? It's not like the "will they won't they" tropes used in series and movies use Tsundere personalities purely to HALT the progression of the relationships between the main characters or anything xD
@@RasenRendanX They're not just used in anime unfortunetly, but I have no clue if there is an english word to describe them.. other than derogitory terms like "stuck up" and "bitch", commonly used together.. There are some series and anime that pulls it off, but those usually also emphesise the negative sides of that personality trait, such as difficulties making relationships with anyone because they are acting toxic towards people whom are friendly towards them, a good western example of this is disneys frozen. Not saying that movie is particularly good, but the symbolism of the ice-queen-esc girl living in a fucking ice castle because of her cold af personality and have no visitors or communication with any other people, does atleast show abit of consequence of such traits. I gotta wonder what the actual precentage of males whom think girls being bitchy and grumpy is cute. Not that it matters, imo, as previously stated, I'm failry certain they only exist to extend "will they wont they" tropes to keep viewers watching more episodes. I do begin to think though whilst writing this that maybe the men who actually fantasise about these women looks for a women which is hard to get to know just so they can "have them all for themselves" or some similar primal ownership shit.. which would be kind of creepy if I'm right about that :S
@@arvyarvy4242 sorry but you guys are more manipulated here in my opinion because aba and preach find him a way alll the others find him that way. I've seen multiple videos of that guy which is very positive and good, he makes just videos on youtube which we won't spend anything for.
In Britain you get primary school (4 to 10 years old) then secondary school (11 to 15/16 years old) I wish Americans would simplify the way they describe school.
I refused to sleep with my boyfriend for almost 8 months because he refused to get tested for hiv. I don't think I was wrong, I had my own negative results but he wouldn't go get tested because he was embarrassed that people would see him and think that he was sick. People don't sleep together for other reasons that don't include playing hard to get.
Preach's laugh reminds me of my late uncle. He passed away a few years ago at the age of 42. When he used to laugh everyone around him would end up laughing with him because his energy was so contagious. People would honestly come over to meet him to say thank you for the laugh it was what they needed. He would do it in restaurants, church, on roller costers.
So sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, he lived such a short life. But it sounds like he was a positive impact on a number of people, so that's always amazing to see. May he rest in peace
I don't know why an obviously gay man is giving advice to straight women about what straight men want. I don't want a chase. I'm not saying, "be easy", I'm saying, "let me know you're interested" or else I'mma assume you're not and move on.
@@GorillaPressCorpses My thoughts exactly! I as a straight woman will not be taking advice from a gay man on how to attract a straight man. He should stay in his lane
My friend (a woman) once asked me how to get a man when we were in our twenties. I regret to say I told her all the above. We even threw a fake party (a barbeque) to get the guy she wanted to come through. He pulled me aside to tell me about this chick acting weird around him (my friend - cos she was doing the whole sexy, flirty thing) She freaked the dude out. He ran for the hills. Since then. My advice, just be you, if that ain't good enough then that person is not for you.
Gay men think they think like straight women because they like dick too. But the thing is, gay men ultimately have more in common straight men because THEYRE BOTH MEN. I mean go figure
@@nawlnottoday3677 then it would make sense if gay men were giving advice to straight women that were trying to get with “DL” gay men that are actually straight men
@Blank Mane personally idc. It's not that serious. I'm not here giving advice, the man in the video is. I'm just going off how gay men think. Not saying it's true. So shake your head another place
Who came up with this idea that relationships are power based If your relationship is just based on you guys trying to gain power over one another that shits toxic
@@peace_seeker5545 It's not lies, and even if the person for you doesn't magically show up, at least you have focused on yourself instead of wasting time. You have achieved things, have a good life and a stable mental health. It is true that if you love yourself, it will be easier for you to love someone else properly. Most toxic relationships are born from people with low self-esteem and/or emotionally dependent. Learn to live on your own and love yourself, then the chances of a relationship succeeding will skyrocket.
@@peace_seeker5545 did u say she shouldn't love herself 1st? & she shouldn't make herself happy?🤣🤣🤣. Sooo she should be mad, sad, negative, angry & depressed & then someone will gravitate towards her then...ok
As soon as he started talking I was thinking, why would someone wanna hold all the cards and have all the power in a relationship? That doesn't sound like much of a relationship.
This is what i read EVERYWHERE! It's all about how men have money power or how women how pu$$y power. Why does it always narrow down to sex and money, this is not how we discuss relationship this is prostitution
Ladies, their is no hard ‘n fast rule. All men are different. A girl I met once, gave it up to me on the SECOND DATE...10years, one marriage & a baby later? We are still going strong. A man maybe attracted to one or two things. But he’ll stay with you for completely different reasons
Men that respect themselves won’t stick around to chase a woman that wants to play games. This ain’t no scrimmage, tag, or an in game situation. I’m not chasing a girl unless we playing a 5v5 pick up game & I have to guard her.
The actions being comitted by both sexes in these "games" you're referring to, have ironically been otherwise described as both toxic-masculinity and toxic-femininity.. Maybe the dating "game" itself is just fucking toxic, idk..
seeing your kakashi photo reminds me of that one episode when sakura “pretended” to tell her feelings to naruto. and he did not fall for it. basically she never let sasuke go. and one of the characters was finna swing on sakura in that scene🤣🤣😂
Thanks to the both of you for keeping it 100. I'm a young woman and I'm constantly shamed for not being "open" or seductive. But I feel like my value lies beyond my sexual value and so far I've stayed true to my conviction. There's a time and place for everything under the sun. Thank you both, I don't feel crazy about my standards for myself. Great outro song btw
As a man, I've always thought it was weird if a woman tries to have her "sexual value" as her only personality trait when it comes to dating even with attractive ones. Good for you for not doing that, you don't even need to approach but just have a pleasant conversation with the man.
@@donaldbowler4514 Well thanks for the advice, it's nice to hear this from a man. Generally, people tell me to put myself out there but that usually entails me dressing revealingly. It's not really about building rapport, assessing fit/character/vision etc. When I was a teenager, I felt I was a bit odd but now it's turned out that I've avoided a lot trauma that some women go through. I couldn't stomach that. Anyway, thanks Sir!
The right person will love u for you. When I met the love of my life I was a total prude and he brought out the best in me, having respect for urself is never the wrong thing to do.
When Aba said “let me get this straight” the second time. I dead ass threw my phone at the wall from laughing so hard and now I have a big dent on my wall. Thanks Aba I appreciate the laughter
95% of these dating youtuber “dating” coaches are still single. If they’re giving out all these advice then how come none of them are in a relationship?
As a straight, happily married woman (clearly I got at least one man to stay so I think I know what I’m talking about) ALL of his advice would coming off WAY too strong. All I did was smile, laugh, dress nice, be respectful and sweet and I had plenty of men wanting to be with me🤷🏻♀️
Seriously we are not that conplicated at all. And most of the videos telling men what to do are just as silly as this. If you watch youtube to get instructions on how to find a mate like its instructions on how to fix a sink idk what to tell you.
Did the same. I wasn't plaging hard to get, I was hard to get. My outer face is civil, polite and pleasant. Few people are worth my time especially in this back stabbing day and age. Carru yourself with grace, have good judgment and don't invite anyone and anything into your privacy
As a Native American man, NEVER touch my hair. Also, everything that was said in the video is wrong. There's plenty of men that don't like touching nor being teased. Some of us just want somebody to grow with and not to be played with.
That's not as commonly wanted these days... Its something I crave but as I am going to be 45 in a few weeks and still single (divorced, grown kids) people mostly play games and I'm starting to lose hope. Going to invest in some cats and start hoarding lol its safer than having my heart broke again!
@@gscr09 Possiblity of that significantly diminishes as you age and that is just life .Its called being realistic .Yeah I can win the lottery lol everyone can but the probability of that happening in my entire life span is quite low and most likely will not happen so that is a stupid perspective to get your hopes wrapped around 0.00001 % chances.To hold on to that hope does nothing but kill your other options of actual things you might probably have because you are still holding on to an impossible dream.Thats not a smart way to live.
I love how real aba and preach are. The fact that they remain so true to their innermost selves is a huge reason I watch their content, they're the kind of people that remain the same person regardless if they're giving advice or an opinion on a situation, or if they're doing a glass pipe add fixing to toke up. Legends. (Note: super baked whole typing this)
@Nita Tolbert, there's a Preach laughing compilation. Two of them, in fact. Preach's laughter alone is happily lethal. Whoever said that laughter isn't contagious has a dark sense of humor or depressed. @Brandon X, I get laughter tears all the damn time Preach laughs and falls on the bed. Imagine a live audience laughing that damn hard because Preach laughs so damn hard and authentic. Laugh on, Preach. Laugh on. We all, men and women, love your wild laughter.
I’m guilty of watching that exact video since it was on my recommendations, but I never had the confidence to do any of that ish since I hate playing games💀💀😂 if I like you, you’ll know.
Any woman that comes to this man for reassurance on how to express their feminine energy aren’t worth the time. Lmao it’s like we living in Bizarro world
Lol. Also he emphasizes "this can get a man sprung on you (snaps) QUICKLY honey" but also "I do that for weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks" bruv
@@animalkingdom2871 yea and it also takes time and special moments. Not seduction and manipulation. One leads to love and the other to lust and toxicity
I swear, humans are so strange sometimes... Why wasting all that time and energy manipulating him into staying? Either he wants to stay or he doesn't. And if he doesn't, he'll be gone anyway. I wouldn't want to force a person to spend time with me, but that's just me.
Thank you. I don't understand why people are so obsessed with making people stay, that don't want to. Let them go. I'm male and I find it attractive if my energy is matched. If I like a woman, I'll make sure to let her know. If she doesn't meet me with the same enthusiasm, excitement aso I would loose interest in her. Easy as that. No way am I chasing someone who clearly doesn't like me the same way or doesn't have the same intentions with me, as I have with her. Sounds so weird to me. And if they attempt mindgames, that's an instant no
@@riyo.38 I agree, it’s not suppose to be that difficult. When I met my hubby, we both mutually admitted we like each other. We connected with stories, attraction and intellectual conversation. It was so easy that it scared me, still I went with the flow. Let’s just be straight forward and not waste people’s time.
THAT PERSON HAS A ATTACHMENT THATS AWAY IS EASY TO SAY JUST LEAVE ,BUT MOST PEOPLE DONT LEAVE BECAUSE OF THAT ATTACHMENT THEY HAVE THERE FEELINGS INVOLVED
@@conormcgregor6932 Of course there's feelings involved and people will get hurt. Maybe even yourself. It's hard to do and deal with it, but that's life in general. One of my girlfriends left me, although we still loved eachother. It just didn't work. At some point you have to accept it and move on. I'm not saying meet someone new right away. It took me a lot of time to deal with that break up, but that's fine.
What gets me is some of us love doing this until the man does it too, then we get mad and call them dogs lol. I think there should a mutual interest so no one has to “chase,” unpopular opinion… I know.
A relationship is about conveying what both parties are seeking in a true, loving and respectful relationship. Responsible, mature minded adults focus a building a stable environment, not game playing. Being reckless and irresponsible are individuals who are need of self improvement, self love, self evaluation, self check list.
Y’all always talk like this over the internet. But nobody practices it in real life. You guys love to seem flawless behind a screen. But don’t even attempt to be better in real life. Just saying. Seems fake to me.
Like the men with 'dating advice' about how women should be 'punished for bad behaviour' and vetted, or how to manipulate a women into sleeping with you. But where are your comments criticising them. Oh yh, you only have a problem with women
Manipulation and toxic games...what a "wonderful" foundation to build a relationship on. I'm "sure" this kind of relationship "advice" won't lead to trust issues for men and women on the whole at all.
God I love when people basically say “play hard to get” cause that’s what shows me how little they really know. If a girl leads me on for weeks saying .lets take it slow” and never changes, I’m out of there. If you don’t got a good reason for it, it’s clear you’re fucking with me,
Yeah, the whole idea of MANIPULATION sounds like he's trying to skirt around the CONSENT rule by using coercion. NO! We women don't like being coerced by men, we shouldn't coerce men either. Stop playing head games. Be sincere and say what you mean.
@@tiffanyferguson829 I don't deny that, it's just not something a straight man would wear and requires a level of flamboyantancy that most guys dont have to pull off
I think people should just stop giving advice like this, it’s just really unhelpful since people who actually have dignity wouldn’t fall for it. That and it’s just cringe
When he said "a guy who likes to look at the Clevelands" I thought he meant like the Cleveland Cavaliers and went "ah, nah man I don't really watch sports."
@@bjjkickboxing7876 could have been part of premium service, like pre-release type thing only available for paid members. I'm not sure how YT handles that.
I guess I I broke all the rules because I literally chased a guy that I found attractive.. I was at a gas station and he was on his lunch break from work (he was wearing a city worker uniform) he purchased his stuff and went out the door. I ran after him and got his phone number... long story short he had multiple baby mamas and just was released from prison 😂🙄 However, I respected him so much for being up front about it ❤️❤️❤️
@@aniyahb.5152 Yeah and they sit there while the guy doesnt pay attention to them at all and he finds someone else.Nearly everythin is situation dependent
@@aniyahb.5152 lol..I didn't run a 4k to get him. I just ran out the store door. Besides, when you say chase, it sounds like running after someone even when the person isn't interested.
you're not, showing them for everyone is a big red flag. but most importantly bringing out your morals to the tables should take you further than "assets" as nice as they may be they are not the be all end all.
Well it depends on how you want a guy to perceive you. He's either going to think Chyna is a "respectful" chick who keeps her goods private, or that Chyna's a "fun" chick who's here for a good time not a long time.
As a psychology student I can tell you it takes years to become "good" at psychology and even then you're probably only knowledgeable about one specific subject within psychology. And subjects can be extremely niche.
Lol Preach is rolling, but How about being intelligent, confident, be your true self and genuinely care about and be interested in him instead of manipulating and degrading the man? If he’s not into you keep it moving. Sex doesn’t keep a man and is available anywhere and if you manipulate him like that, he’s not going to care about or want to keep you, he’ll just want the sex and dip, because if all you have offer is sex he’s going think “ why should I stay with you when I can get the same thing literally anywhere else? Maybe even better?” Because there’s always someone out there waiting and more than willing to give it up at the drop of a hat and maybe way better than the last Manipulation is a good way to repel a man but you can always depend on Aba and Preach to call out the B.S. but Aba with the “lemme get this straight” lmao I can’t like he’s just here like “ what kind of shit is ?” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You know what would make me want to chase a girl? Confidence and Intelligence, being able to engage and really get into it about things that are important to them. I knew a girl who was going to school to be a Mechanical Engineer and talking to her and her being able to confidently speak about it was so interesting. It was great engaging and asking questions about this topic that she liked to discuss. Her dream is to design rides for Disney.
People don't know how to have conversations now a days. 😅 All parties are confused and worried about investing too much or being vulnerable. We're all going to die alone. 🤣
I'm sorry but I only take advice from couples who have been married for like 20 30 40 years... if your single and your giving other single people advice on how to get someone you need to have several seats 🤷♀️
💯. I been with my girl 8 years. Since we were 17. Life is good, got our own place, no drama, we are literally best friends and we STILL refuse to give people advice. What worked for us might not work for others and it’s not my place to tell people how to live their lives especially when it comes to their potential husband or wife. People should keep relationship advice to themselves. My relationship is successful and I’m still aware that I’m learning. Yet you have people who have several failures, are single or gay etc and trying to give advice to heterosexual people. Imagine me as a straight male trying to give advice to lesbians. Don’t listen to them
What happened to just being the best version of yourself and finding someone with common interests, good character and similar lifegoals. Manipulation should never be the way you gain a partner. You'll have a hard time wondering if they like you for you.
I married a girl that wouldn't let me smash for 2 years. I had so much respect for that. The chase is far more interesting, makes the catch far more rewarding.
simp
What a joke
@@AbaNPreach bruh 💀💀💀💀💀
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He trolling😂😂😂
Beauty attracts. Personality keeps.
Can't play hard to get when you're hard to want.
Right you have to be desirable in the first place 🤷🤔😏
Damn dude, first time I've heard the hard to get Hard to want.
That's some good advice right there
Straight facts 💯💯💯
Amen!!!
BARS!!!
he's teaching heterosexual women how to attract heterosexual men with the knowledge of attracting gay men.
Can't make this ish up
@@The_Black_Anarchist where? in opposite world? Where up is down and left is right?
@@brandondavis7015 his audience is women
@@The_Black_Anarchist so bisexual men then , stop trying to make up your own set of facts, straight men are straight, gay people are gay. Do I really have to tell you that straight men are in no way attracted to or even think about experimenting with gay guys? Do I seriously need to say this to you? Y’all love living in this alternate reality where what you say is ultimately fact and it’s not
@@The_Black_Anarchist any man that you been with was gay or bisexual, there’s nothing wrong with that, but to say you’ve been with STRAIGHT men… just hear that statement out loud it literally makes no sense.
Every time Preach does "the laugh" an angel gets it's wings.
That laugh is so contagious 😄
I laughed my ass off too🤣
Preech*
LMAO!!!!
Did he laugh because Aba said "let me get rhis straight" in a video with a gay dude?
Is this dude serious? His experience is with gay men. Gay men and straight men are into different things… clearly.
100000%. It is wayyy more different than I thought
The flamboyant gay culture for relationships is very dramatic and toxic. It's basically a reality TV show.
Now if he wasn't flamboyant he would probably be in an actual decent relationship and be able to give decent advice
@@bombomos the misogyny in that comment. Him being feminine is not the problem
@@NoName-sp5dp it literally is duck 🤣😂
@@NoName-sp5dp and explain how's that misogyny?? He's a gay man not a woman no wonder terfs exist women like you have really watered down feminism to not only include transwomen but apparently gay feminine men I doubt you'd care if he was a masculine gay man
"So let me get this straight" I lost it asf😂😂😂😂😂😂..
Facts
@camron thaxter I read your comment 1st. But when Aba says it, it hits different 😂
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Me too. lol
Lmao that line was a killer!!
I like how a gay man who pursues gay men is coaching straight women how to pursue straight men
Ikr I be watching this fool for his personality but In my mind I’m like wtf can he teach me
😂😂😂😂...you said it first but I was about too....tell him the rest of us ain't gay
right 💀💀💀💀
I love aba and preach but this whole thing like, half of what they are laughing at is just that he's gay. MAKE BETTER JOKES GUYS. Try harder.
YESSSS! Lmafo
Here's what I've learned: if he's into you, he's into you. Whether you put out fast or slow, whether you tease or don't. If he's into you- you got him. And as long as you keep treating him with the same respect you want in return, you'll probably keep him. End of story.
Thank Jesus. Someone with a brain.
Nope. Can't compute. This is not complicated enough 🤣
I’m taking a screenshot of this to remind myself of this wisdom when if I may need it
Thank you!
I'm not chasing forever though
Plot twist: while you did all this and got the man, there’s another woman studying these same videos to steal your man. It will work, because he’s easily manipulated and coerced. How you got him is how you gonna lose him.
This comment is underrated
If he can be stolen from a good woman by this bullshit he was a trash ass dude anyway
Maybe you picking the wrong people to give a chance, you make all dudes sound like scrubs lol
@@carmenisabel extremely underrated
word
“Press pause. So let me get this straight”
I couldn’t keep it together after that
I'm crying!!! 😂😂😂
@@LUCYLULU13 lol
big pause XD
Preach’s laugh is literally therapeutic. How can you not laugh after hearing him?? 😂
His laugh is infectious af
If they could bottle that and sell it, they could stop trying to sell me bongs and sex pills....LMAO!
It's like listning to La Linea laugh, if you guys remember that cartoon? 😂
Exactly
Facts lol had me rolling
"Dear gay men: DO NOT give dating and sex advice to heterosexual people, especially if you are a gold star gay," says this gay man. 😂😂
😂 Exactly. The nerve.
😂😂😂
Do any of this to a woman. Its toxic.
Gold star???
@@alswisha8519 a gay man that has never had sex with a woman
I learned to never take advice from these relationship "experts" or online guru's who don't have a ring on their finger themselves. How you coaching the game from the bleachers? Have a seat.
do tan lines count?
😂😂
MJ is not a relationship expert or guru. He’s the CEO of an insurance company who tells juicy stories about his love life and sometimes he gives advice based on his experience. I think he’s hilarious. But just wanted to clarify that he doesn’t proclaim to be an expert. This is more like his personal blog content.
Even ones with a ring suck.
Having ring means nothing mfs will cheat in some way regardless
I didn’t have to manipulate my guy to be with me. I was just myself and he accepted me. There’s no trick to getting a man.
If you gotta do all this to get a guys attention, most likely he isn’t the one. It’s should be easy and organic
Real talk right here.
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Its not about JUST getting his attention. Its about having the upper hand.
Boom bam.... that easy
Exactly... and the same is true for women. If you need to be someone other than yourself to have a mate you're probably not that great of a person
"so let me get this straight" lmao
''Big Pause''
''So Let Me get this Straight''
Them words had so much humor in them during the video.
You can't get this one straight.
The cringe on aba's face made me press the like button 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s not straight bro it’s a circle 😂
@@Blutiger-Ant might've been the best aba face since the girl that said she wanted to perform an act on a dude while he's gaming LMAOOO
You know what men want? Someone who is straightforward, up front and honest. If ur interested, just tell them and chances are the honesty will be attractive in itself. You wanna play games? Have fun at the arcades
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Fr lmao women that play games make me tired and makes me lose all interest
Fr I'm just saying him being a gay man saying "we don't chase men" is bad and funny enough, but like.. Shouldn't one of the perks of being gay be avoiding all these bullshit games? Lool
@@nickb6425 gay man are feminine. So basicaly answer is no.
Honesty an communication is the key to a successful relationship
Have confidence, don't look desperate, and communicate what you want. This is for men and women. Communicate what you want if y'all aren't on the same wavelength then move on. Once again Communicate.
People in real life, don’t react to that. People react to negativity. Unfortunately that’s the only time anybody has a single word to say in real life. On the internet y’all are so positive and upbringing. You guys talk your best and give your all to be likable behind a screen when it comes to videos like this. But when I step out into the real world, don’t nobody have a clue what kindness or communication is.
@@Kal-El207 maybe cuz your only looking for the wrong people 🤷🏾
Women who believe this crap: "Imma make myself difficult to 'get'."
Men subjected to this crap: "Sweet, she's finally leaving me alone. Time for video games with the homies."
Facts or getting my life back aligned
The irony of being "difficult to get" is that the girl almost always never get attention from the one they want it from. Espescially since the one they want only get negative or dismissive bodylanguage.
"Turn into a fucking Tsundere" cus that always fucking works in the shows, right? It's not like the "will they won't they" tropes used in series and movies use Tsundere personalities purely to HALT the progression of the relationships between the main characters or anything xD
@@TardMania I see what you did there 👌🏾
@@TardMania I respect your ass SO MUCH for using Tsundere as a example. i cannot stand Tsuns in anime. worst girls imo
@@RasenRendanX They're not just used in anime unfortunetly, but I have no clue if there is an english word to describe them.. other than derogitory terms like "stuck up" and "bitch", commonly used together..
There are some series and anime that pulls it off, but those usually also emphesise the negative sides of that personality trait, such as difficulties making relationships with anyone because they are acting toxic towards people whom are friendly towards them, a good western example of this is disneys frozen. Not saying that movie is particularly good, but the symbolism of the ice-queen-esc girl living in a fucking ice castle because of her cold af personality and have no visitors or communication with any other people, does atleast show abit of consequence of such traits.
I gotta wonder what the actual precentage of males whom think girls being bitchy and grumpy is cute. Not that it matters, imo, as previously stated, I'm failry certain they only exist to extend "will they wont they" tropes to keep viewers watching more episodes. I do begin to think though whilst writing this that maybe the men who actually fantasise about these women looks for a women which is hard to get to know just so they can "have them all for themselves" or some similar primal ownership shit.. which would be kind of creepy if I'm right about that :S
dating coaches never teach how to have a healthy relationship, just how to manipulate.
Because sadly they fall for the one who hurts them, not the good one
because they are also manipulating their audience ad have nothing really to offer but cheap tricks.
@@arvyarvy4242 sorry but you guys are more manipulated here in my opinion because aba and preach find him a way alll the others find him that way. I've seen multiple videos of that guy which is very positive and good, he makes just videos on youtube which we won't spend anything for.
Stephan Speaks is one of the best out there. He's also purple-pilled.
Because healthy relationships are complicated.
Abe: “let me get this straight.”
Preach: has one of those laughs from middle school where you think your going to die
Guess they never left school 😉
Hil-a-rious
Preach is the stupid cousin you can't stand, but can't do without...that laugh...........😂😂
Preach is 2 seconds away from peeing himself with that laugh
In Britain you get primary school (4 to 10 years old) then secondary school (11 to 15/16 years old)
I wish Americans would simplify the way they describe school.
I refused to sleep with my boyfriend for almost 8 months because he refused to get tested for hiv. I don't think I was wrong, I had my own negative results but he wouldn't go get tested because he was embarrassed that people would see him and think that he was sick. People don't sleep together for other reasons that don't include playing hard to get.
Preach's laugh reminds me of my late uncle. He passed away a few years ago at the age of 42. When he used to laugh everyone around him would end up laughing with him because his energy was so contagious. People would honestly come over to meet him to say thank you for the laugh it was what they needed. He would do it in restaurants, church, on roller costers.
Rest well Uncle 🙏🏽
Rip unc🙏🏾
What a good rememberance of your uncle! 💜 Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏼
So sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, he lived such a short life. But it sounds like he was a positive impact on a number of people, so that's always amazing to see. May he rest in peace
May Acts 24:15, 1 Corinthians 15:25-26 and Revelation 21:3-5 bring you comfort.
I don't know why an obviously gay man is giving advice to straight women about what straight men want.
I don't want a chase. I'm not saying, "be easy", I'm saying, "let me know you're interested" or else I'mma assume you're not and move on.
Exactly. He's not even a traditional, straight male. So why is he trying to target the straight audience?
As a straight man this man doesn't represent us and who is responsible for letting this man out?
@@BboyTurok1990 truth!
@@GorillaPressCorpses that's deep...
@@GorillaPressCorpses My thoughts exactly! I as a straight woman will not be taking advice from a gay man on how to attract a straight man. He should stay in his lane
"You have a pancake for an ass? Don't worry i've got maple syrup"
Now that is a quote for the ages my dude.
So true, sweetin them cakes right up
Straight up.
He got that I can't lie 💀
"Ass or no ass, I will put creme on that pound cake" 🤣
I don’t like pancakes anyways
My friend (a woman) once asked me how to get a man when we were in our twenties. I regret to say I told her all the above. We even threw a fake party (a barbeque) to get the guy she wanted to come through. He pulled me aside to tell me about this chick acting weird around him (my friend - cos she was doing the whole sexy, flirty thing) She freaked the dude out. He ran for the hills.
Since then. My advice, just be you, if that ain't good enough then that person is not for you.
WHY WOULD WOMEN TAKE DATING ADVICE TO DEAL WITH MASCULINE MEN FROM A CLEARLY HOMOSEXUAL MAN? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!
Because some of them gay men mess with them DL "masculine" men
Gay men think they think like straight women because they like dick too. But the thing is, gay men ultimately have more in common straight men because THEYRE BOTH MEN. I mean go figure
@@nawlnottoday3677 then it would make sense if gay men were giving advice to straight women that were trying to get with “DL” gay men that are actually straight men
@@nawlnottoday3677 Funny enough straight women are the most homophobic 😂
@Blank Mane personally idc. It's not that serious. I'm not here giving advice, the man in the video is. I'm just going off how gay men think. Not saying it's true. So shake your head another place
Who came up with this idea that relationships are power based
If your relationship is just based on you guys trying to gain power over one another that shits toxic
Exactly people believe that shit, people just need to use condoms and check on their sexual health every month and u food🤨🤨
Scorpios.
I guess humans like illusion. It's on some primal ish
And will quickly become abusive. Have fun with that!
Right
I don’t think a gay man is the best person to tell straight woman how to attract straight men
Ask the fishermen. Or in this case.
Ask good Moms lmao
Yup, ask your father, your brothers or your (real) male friends.
Except if it's kevin scamuels 🍵 👀
@@everyonedeservestogohome2949 Kevin is bi. He was married to a woman and has a daughter. I don't think this guy has touched a vaj
@@bluebird1694 wait what? bro😂 please re-read your sentence
Best advice ever: Genuinely love you first , focus on what makes you happy as an individual then the person for you will come
@@peace_seeker5545 It's not lies, and even if the person for you doesn't magically show up, at least you have focused on yourself instead of wasting time. You have achieved things, have a good life and a stable mental health. It is true that if you love yourself, it will be easier for you to love someone else properly.
Most toxic relationships are born from people with low self-esteem and/or emotionally dependent. Learn to live on your own and love yourself, then the chances of a relationship succeeding will skyrocket.
@@peace_seeker5545 did u say she shouldn't love herself 1st? & she shouldn't make herself happy?🤣🤣🤣. Sooo she should be mad, sad, negative, angry & depressed & then someone will gravitate towards her then...ok
@@foreveralchemy3193 When did I ever say that? U must be a therapist or sumn the way u just know what's on my mind lol.
It’s like there isn’t something called companionship and trust. Its all about manipulating and power, what a sad world these people live in.
at 30 :why cant i find good men ?
As soon as he started talking I was thinking, why would someone wanna hold all the cards and have all the power in a relationship? That doesn't sound like much of a relationship.
Right🤷
lol the most manipulative people say shit like this
This is what i read EVERYWHERE! It's all about how men have money power or how women how pu$$y power. Why does it always narrow down to sex and money, this is not how we discuss relationship this is prostitution
Ladies, their is no hard ‘n fast rule. All men are different.
A girl I met once, gave it up to me on the SECOND DATE...10years, one marriage & a baby later? We are still going strong.
A man maybe attracted to one or two things. But he’ll stay with you for completely different reasons
How’d you land her for ten years bro? That’s crazy, tell ur story man.. could learn a thing, true that with all men are different too
Men that respect themselves won’t stick around to chase a woman that wants to play games. This ain’t no scrimmage, tag, or an in game situation. I’m not chasing a girl unless we playing a 5v5 pick up game & I have to guard her.
Exactly, I am not playing these manipulative games
Kakashi sensei, spitting fax as usual.
The actions being comitted by both sexes in these "games" you're referring to, have ironically been otherwise described as both toxic-masculinity and toxic-femininity..
Maybe the dating "game" itself is just fucking toxic, idk..
See you at Summoner's Rift
seeing your kakashi photo reminds me of that one episode when sakura “pretended” to tell her feelings to naruto. and he did not fall for it. basically she never let sasuke go. and one of the characters was finna swing on sakura in that scene🤣🤣😂
Thanks to the both of you for keeping it 100.
I'm a young woman and I'm constantly shamed for not being "open" or seductive. But I feel like my value lies beyond my sexual value and so far I've stayed true to my conviction. There's a time and place for everything under the sun.
Thank you both, I don't feel crazy about my standards for myself.
Great outro song btw
As a man, I've always thought it was weird if a woman tries to have her "sexual value" as her only personality trait when it comes to dating even with attractive ones. Good for you for not doing that, you don't even need to approach but just have a pleasant conversation with the man.
@@donaldbowler4514 Well thanks for the advice, it's nice to hear this from a man. Generally, people tell me to put myself out there but that usually entails me dressing revealingly. It's not really about building rapport, assessing fit/character/vision etc.
When I was a teenager, I felt I was a bit odd but now it's turned out that I've avoided a lot trauma that some women go through. I couldn't stomach that. Anyway, thanks Sir!
The right person will love u for you. When I met the love of my life I was a total prude and he brought out the best in me, having respect for urself is never the wrong thing to do.
"we dont chase men!!" proceeds to do everything in his power to chase man ...
lmao, I can’t rn.This man is a hypocrite.
Gender norms are bad but not when they benefit women!
Lol 😂
He is a walking, talking, breathing contradiction.
@@pootis4986 They are supposed to benefit each gender....
When Aba said “let me get this straight” the second time. I dead ass threw my phone at the wall from laughing so hard and now I have a big dent on my wall. Thanks Aba I appreciate the laughter
That about sums up most of the cold opens in these videos for me
Oof I can’t do without my case
Hahahahaha
Big pause.
Preach’s laugh
*The cure for all diseases and world hunger*
Wait you can eat sound? It taste like a Big Mac?
You should hear KSI'S laugh
True that
The key to world peace
95% of these dating youtuber “dating” coaches are still single. If they’re giving out all these advice then how come none of them are in a relationship?
To be fair, this isnt relationship advice, its infatuation advice, which seems to be what he does.
They're cursed with knowledge.
Because they don't know how to keep a man, they only know how to trap a man into wanting them. There is no love and respect here.
@@aninsimone man/woman. Guy and girl incels fr be "teaching" how to get somebody to like them
He gay though they a whole different can of worms
As a straight, happily married woman (clearly I got at least one man to stay so I think I know what I’m talking about) ALL of his advice would coming off WAY too strong. All I did was smile, laugh, dress nice, be respectful and sweet and I had plenty of men wanting to be with me🤷🏻♀️
Right!
Seriously we are not that conplicated at all. And most of the videos telling men what to do are just as silly as this. If you watch youtube to get instructions on how to find a mate like its instructions on how to fix a sink idk what to tell you.
Did the same. I wasn't plaging hard to get, I was hard to get. My outer face is civil, polite and pleasant. Few people are worth my time especially in this back stabbing day and age. Carru yourself with grace, have good judgment and don't invite anyone and anything into your privacy
@@tyrellseymour7724 🤓🤓🤓
That's all it takes...so many women don't get it
His advice is straight out of a Cosmopolitan article from 1994
Yesssssss 😅😅😅
He’s old school but guess what a lot of old school people are still together
As a Native American man, NEVER touch my hair. Also, everything that was said in the video is wrong. There's plenty of men that don't like touching nor being teased. Some of us just want somebody to grow with and not to be played with.
That's not as commonly wanted these days... Its something I crave but as I am going to be 45 in a few weeks and still single (divorced, grown kids) people mostly play games and I'm starting to lose hope. Going to invest in some cats and start hoarding lol its safer than having my heart broke again!
@@marshawright9620 lol you are 45 you are quite late to losing hope with grown kids.You shouldve lost that hope a looong ass time ago.
@@ogulcandursun1665 Nope. There’s someone for everyone in every age bracket.
@@ogulcandursun1665 thats shallow, never too late to find someone.
@@gscr09 Possiblity of that significantly diminishes as you age and that is just life .Its called being realistic .Yeah I can win the lottery lol everyone can but the probability of that happening in my entire life span is quite low and most likely will not happen so that is a stupid perspective to get your hopes wrapped around 0.00001 % chances.To hold on to that hope does nothing but kill your other options of actual things you might probably have because you are still holding on to an impossible dream.Thats not a smart way to live.
I love how real aba and preach are. The fact that they remain so true to their innermost selves is a huge reason I watch their content, they're the kind of people that remain the same person regardless if they're giving advice or an opinion on a situation, or if they're doing a glass pipe add fixing to toke up. Legends. (Note: super baked whole typing this)
“So let me get this straight…..”
*kills everybody with laughter on a global scale*
Sir, that is a war crime! 🤣
Straight terrorism
Preach laughing 🙌 always makes my day!!
@Nita Tolbert, there's a Preach laughing compilation. Two of them, in fact. Preach's laughter alone is happily lethal. Whoever said that laughter isn't contagious has a dark sense of humor or depressed. @Brandon X, I get laughter tears all the damn time Preach laughs and falls on the bed. Imagine a live audience laughing that damn hard because Preach laughs so damn hard and authentic. Laugh on, Preach. Laugh on. We all, men and women, love your wild laughter.
I’m guilty of watching that exact video since it was on my recommendations, but I never had the confidence to do any of that ish since I hate playing games💀💀😂 if I like you, you’ll know.
Respect for that, bruh
Ayyy pin of fame
Pin of sane
That's how it was with my fiancee. Gave it a couple of days and she just wanted to get down with me. And here I thought I just looked scuff as fuck.
Won't speak for others, I thank you for that.
Aba: let me get this straight
Preach: “proceeds to lose his shit”
Love you guys😂
Any woman that comes to this man for reassurance on how to express their feminine energy aren’t worth the time. Lmao it’s like we living in Bizarro world
Lol. Also he emphasizes "this can get a man sprung on you (snaps) QUICKLY honey" but also "I do that for weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks" bruv
Right if someone likes you then they like you. You don't have to play silly games😵😂🤧
@@animalkingdom2871 yea and it also takes time and special moments. Not seduction and manipulation. One leads to love and the other to lust and toxicity
Imma say this again: We NEED a 2nd camera by the couch to see Preach when he falls over laughing like that! 🤣 🤣
This would finish me😂😂
I fund that. Take my money$
We need a petition.
i support this 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I'll vote and donate money to that. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the first few seconds had me dying
His laugh is contagious
What’s up Alteori? Good to see you here.
I'm telling you. The opening line had me hollering 😂😂😂
💀💀💀💀💀
Mane the rest of the seconds had me dying 🤣🤣🤣
Aba: “So let me get this straight”
Preach & Me: 🧨LAUGH🧨
😂😆😆😂😂😂
wherr you from?
@@abderrahimyoestoy3100 go on somewhere 🤧🤣
@@regina0273 why?
Same 🤣🤣
same 😂
I don't think I've ever seen Preach laugh that hard. Shit is contagious.
Right 😂😂😂😂
I swear, humans are so strange sometimes...
Why wasting all that time and energy manipulating him into staying? Either he wants to stay or he doesn't. And if he doesn't, he'll be gone anyway.
I wouldn't want to force a person to spend time with me, but that's just me.
Thank you. I don't understand why people are so obsessed with making people stay, that don't want to.
Let them go.
I'm male and I find it attractive if my energy is matched. If I like a woman, I'll make sure to let her know. If she doesn't meet me with the same enthusiasm, excitement aso I would loose interest in her.
Easy as that.
No way am I chasing someone who clearly doesn't like me the same way or doesn't have the same intentions with me, as I have with her.
Sounds so weird to me.
And if they attempt mindgames, that's an instant no
@@riyo.38 I agree, it’s not suppose to be that difficult. When I met my hubby, we both mutually admitted we like each other. We connected with stories, attraction and intellectual conversation. It was so easy that it scared me, still I went with the flow. Let’s just be straight forward and not waste people’s time.
THAT PERSON HAS A ATTACHMENT THATS AWAY IS EASY TO SAY JUST LEAVE ,BUT MOST PEOPLE DONT LEAVE BECAUSE OF THAT ATTACHMENT THEY HAVE THERE FEELINGS INVOLVED
Exactly.
@@conormcgregor6932 Of course there's feelings involved and people will get hurt. Maybe even yourself.
It's hard to do and deal with it, but that's life in general.
One of my girlfriends left me, although we still loved eachother. It just didn't work. At some point you have to accept it and move on.
I'm not saying meet someone new right away. It took me a lot of time to deal with that break up, but that's fine.
What gets me is some of us love doing this until the man does it too, then we get mad and call them dogs lol. I think there should a mutual interest so no one has to “chase,” unpopular opinion… I know.
Yup women love playing the game until the man starts reading the manual as well 😂
@@imanigordon6803 Facts don't hate the player hate the game all I did was peep the game and pick up the controller 😂😂😂
I am sorry did you just spoke sanity?
@@Realjcjammer yep, thats the only way to stop them from playing the game when they start loosing more often
Why Preach laugh sound like trying to start the car in winter? 🤣🤣🤣 (I have a similar laugh, I know 😅)
100% 🤣🤣🤣
Lol
it reminds me of a puppy crying
How the fuck is this comment from 2 days ago? This video says it was uploaded 4 minutes ago.
@@mcmudger1538 Maybe Patreon
A relationship is about conveying what both parties are seeking in a true, loving and respectful relationship. Responsible, mature minded adults focus a building a stable environment, not game playing. Being reckless and irresponsible are individuals who are need of self improvement, self love, self evaluation, self check list.
Y’all always talk like this over the internet. But nobody practices it in real life. You guys love to seem flawless behind a screen. But don’t even attempt to be better in real life. Just saying. Seems fake to me.
“You Got pancakes well i got maple syrup”
*Words by preach*
Haha great analogy
Best quotes by preach
Here is some dating advice: Don't play games.
Exactly smfh
Like the men with 'dating advice' about how women should be 'punished for bad behaviour' and vetted, or how to manipulate a women into sleeping with you.
But where are your comments criticising them. Oh yh, you only have a problem with women
@@missNCW Who are you talking to? I didn't mention men or women.
@@fidelmercado2621 lmao she definitely plays these silly games look at her other comments on the channel 🤣
@@missNCW pathetic
"we don't chase men" "like nature intended" bruh is a walking contradiction
Fruits shouldn't b giving women advice on how to get men, he used to his own kind of "men"...it ain't da same dude🤣
Bruh 😂 I said the same thing....like how that work?
?
@@sunsundks3891 nature intended men to chase WOMEN
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"If you got pancake ass bring some maple syrup" lmaoo
"We don't chase men" says the man... who chases other men.
Yo it's been a while since Aba laughed this hard he had to fall on the couch lmao!
feelsbadman.
I can't tell if i'm being trolled or not but on the off chance you weren't, that was Preach my man.
Preach was on the floor, not aba
ooof.
Abe and Peach and pretty funny ngl
I watch these just to hear preach laugh, I swear it’s medicine for the soul...always makes my day!
He basically explained to women what every teenage girl learns within a year of puberty onset.
Hahahah damn so true
Tryna teach the master the basics 💀
Underrated comment right here. 👍🏾
Manipulation and toxic games...what a "wonderful" foundation to build a relationship on. I'm "sure" this kind of relationship "advice" won't lead to trust issues for men and women on the whole at all.
So true, and great smart ass way of wording it. 🤣
God I love when people basically say “play hard to get” cause that’s what shows me how little they really know. If a girl leads me on for weeks saying .lets take it slow” and never changes, I’m out of there. If you don’t got a good reason for it, it’s clear you’re fucking with me,
💯
Too many fish in the sea to keep chasing one who don’t want you.
Lol and I think I’m kinda dumb cuz if a chick did that with me I’d just think she’s not interested in me
It's amazing the idea of waiting until marriage is so foreign to you.
"For weeks?"
You're a LOT more generous than me! Lol. As soon as I spot the game playing, I'm outta there.
When Aba said, “Let me get this straight”, I hollered!!! 😅😂🤣
Yeah, the whole idea of MANIPULATION sounds like he's trying to skirt around the CONSENT rule by using coercion. NO! We women don't like being coerced by men, we shouldn't coerce men either. Stop playing head games. Be sincere and say what you mean.
This.
"head games"🤣
Well said ma 👍🏾
Preach's laugh is the only anti-depressant I need 😂
It is
Therapeutic af
but a manipulative woman already knows how to be manipulative...he's literally not saying anything
And manipulative women usually have an agenda, and when they dont benefit theyre the first to leave
It's for nice, good women who are fucked up always, we need to learn some stuff sometimes.
Yeah that's true
Lol exactly
He’s preaching to the choir.🤣😂
His laugh is contagious. Mosquito bites. Pancake azz. I died. 😂😂😂😂
I would NEVER ever ever EVER want Preach to laugh at me for anything lol. Talk about more fuel to the fire lmao
This guy traded his masculine energy to get that tank top
Tank top was kind of 🔥
@@tiffanyferguson829 I don't deny that, it's just not something a straight man would wear and requires a level of flamboyantancy that most guys dont have to pull off
Some traded their inheritance for a plate of food. It all started then.
@@ezerbia deep cut
🤣
The title of this video should have been “how to lose a guy in 10 days”.
Right!!
10 days? Tch as soon as you tried 8:36 on me I'm gone.
Underrated comment.
I didn't even watch it after the first part I already knew it was gonna be bad.
I think people should just stop giving advice like this, it’s just really unhelpful since people who actually have dignity wouldn’t fall for it. That and it’s just cringe
When he said "a guy who likes to look at the Clevelands" I thought he meant like the Cleveland Cavaliers and went "ah, nah man I don't really watch sports."
I never heard that reference for boobs
How is your comment 2 days old when the video came out 18 mins ago?
@@bjjkickboxing7876 Time ring bro, its simple 🤷✨😏
Lol thats great
@@bjjkickboxing7876 could have been part of premium service, like pre-release type thing only available for paid members. I'm not sure how YT handles that.
This advice is as good as telling someone to dunk their head under water and take a deep breathe.
LMAOOO
This is why you always need a big homie. So you can have someone tell you when you're genuinely messing up
Preach's hard laugh kills me every time. I need a gif of that. That is the best depiction of LMAO.
I guess I I broke all the rules because I literally chased a guy that I found attractive.. I was at a gas station and he was on his lunch break from work (he was wearing a city worker uniform) he purchased his stuff and went out the door. I ran after him and got his phone number... long story short he had multiple baby mamas and just was released from prison 😂🙄 However, I respected him so much for being up front about it ❤️❤️❤️
Omg
Did he smash?
As a woman, you're supposed to let a man come to you. NEVER CHASE A MAN! His job is to approach, yours is to vet.
@@aniyahb.5152 Yeah and they sit there while the guy doesnt pay attention to them at all and he finds someone else.Nearly everythin is situation dependent
@@aniyahb.5152 lol..I didn't run a 4k to get him. I just ran out the store door. Besides, when you say chase, it sounds like running after someone even when the person isn't interested.
Am I wrong for thinking guys that actually like you prefer to see your “assets” in a private situation rather than for everyone to see....
No. No you are not. Intimacy is so exciting
you're not, showing them for everyone is a big red flag. but most importantly bringing out your morals to the tables should take you further than "assets" as nice as they may be they are not the be all end all.
No you're not wrong
Well it depends on how you want a guy to perceive you. He's either going to think Chyna is a "respectful" chick who keeps her goods private, or that Chyna's a "fun" chick who's here for a good time not a long time.
Your not wrong thou
I like men. I promise, we do not associate with this unearthly presence.
I hate students in psychology who have been on the course for two days.
“Students of psychology” = watches literally one episode of Sherlock
@keep rollin no one wants your link
As a psychology student I can tell you it takes years to become "good" at psychology and even then you're probably only knowledgeable about one specific subject within psychology. And subjects can be extremely niche.
@@soultakerx2 agreed, it’s a pretty interesting topic but the whole referencing thing is killing me
I so needed a laugh this Saturday night...you guys are giving me life tonight!
A Cat doesn’t approve of Manipulation.
Yet again, a Cat is correct. A Cat is wise.
Very wise, A Cat. Very wise.
Nobody cares. Your whole comment history is just like farming. It's cringe
My cat is very manipulative, he's adorable, but still. Lmao
@@bbbbbbb51 brandon chill out and get a job
Lol Preach is rolling, but How about being intelligent, confident, be your true self and genuinely care about and be interested in him instead of manipulating and degrading the man? If he’s not into you keep it moving. Sex doesn’t keep a man and is available anywhere and if you manipulate him like that, he’s not going to care about or want to keep you, he’ll just want the sex and dip, because if all you have offer is sex he’s going think “ why should I stay with you when I can get the same thing literally anywhere else? Maybe even better?” Because there’s always someone out there waiting and more than willing to give it up at the drop of a hat and maybe way better than the last Manipulation is a good way to repel a man but you can always depend on Aba and Preach to call out the B.S. but Aba with the “lemme get this straight” lmao I can’t like he’s just here like “ what kind of shit is ?” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
People really thinking the sex is the special part 🤦 and miss EVERYTHING ELSE
Why is it so hard for people to be genuine and honest 🤦🤷
Lol
@@CamTheStudent half the time the sex isnt up to par, lol and..
Its usually not worth it, even if it is good sex.
That part
That was really long bro
You know what would make me want to chase a girl? Confidence and Intelligence, being able to engage and really get into it about things that are important to them. I knew a girl who was going to school to be a Mechanical Engineer and talking to her and her being able to confidently speak about it was so interesting. It was great engaging and asking questions about this topic that she liked to discuss. Her dream is to design rides for Disney.
How the fuck is this comment from 2 days ago? This video says it was uploaded 4 minutes ago.
@@mcmudger1538 patreon my friend
NANI the FUCK... bruh this video is 4 minutes old yet this was commented 2 days ago...
That’s awesome
Im with you there brotha
"So let me get this straight"
*Rip preach*
I felt super drained after coming home from work today but Preachs laughter after "let me get this straight" worked as emotional cpr
Aba: (*VISIBLE CONFUSION*)
Preach: 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
17 seconds in, I'm like NOPE.
shout out to the coach gang
Nobody:
Preach: BONGS, BUBBLERS, BONGS, DABBING
Be reasonable, be honest, be humble, be feminine, that is all
Got it.👍
I always find these super flamboyant men to be the worst.
I agree
People don't know how to have conversations now a days. 😅 All parties are confused and worried about investing too much or being vulnerable. We're all going to die alone. 🤣
ABA and PREACH should do a video on getting and keeping a good dude!
You don't understand how much joy preaches laugh brings me.
I'm sorry but I only take advice from couples who have been married for like 20 30 40 years... if your single and your giving other single people advice on how to get someone you need to have several seats 🤷♀️
💯. I been with my girl 8 years. Since we were 17. Life is good, got our own place, no drama, we are literally best friends and we STILL refuse to give people advice. What worked for us might not work for others and it’s not my place to tell people how to live their lives especially when it comes to their potential husband or wife. People should keep relationship advice to themselves. My relationship is successful and I’m still aware that I’m learning. Yet you have people who have several failures, are single or gay etc and trying to give advice to heterosexual people. Imagine me as a straight male trying to give advice to lesbians. Don’t listen to them
@@ShinigamiShionZ exactly
@@ShinigamiShionZ 💯 true
I must have a lot of masculine energy in me,because if I like somebody I go for it,I don't sit and wait and don't play games...
Theres only one way to a mans heart.
And thats through his stomach.
😂😂😂 and there's only 1 way through his stomach, through his azz.
“Do not be the chaser, only the chased”
Stay Hard Stay Healthy
Aba: "Let me get this straight-"
Preach: *dying on the floor lol* 🤣🤣🤣
'So let me get this straight' 🤣🤣
😂😂
What happened to just being the best version of yourself and finding someone with common interests, good character and similar lifegoals. Manipulation should never be the way you gain a partner. You'll have a hard time wondering if they like you for you.