My Father Won't Let Me Marry Who I Want || AMAU Q&A
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BarakAllahu feekum.
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May Allah grant us righteous spouses who can be the coolness to our eyes.
Ameen :)
@بنت أحمد the bi'ithnillah wasnt for the dua as per such, rather it was to attest that through spouses, only Allah can give us peace and tranquility as all good is from Allah and Him alone, that being said, your statement is true and may Allah bless you fid dunya wal akhirah for the reminder
As Salam Alaykum I’m already married Al hamdoulillah, but I make that dua for my kids May Allah grant them pious spouses. And their offspring too.)
Nora as Salam Alaykum Amin and to you too;)
Shaitan is successful when an ummah makes halal hard and make the haram easy... Lets make halal easy
SubhanAllah...I am facing this exact same dilemma. May Allah make it easy for those of us who are struggling to get married. Ameen
And just remember when you take it to a court.....you may never have a relationship with your Father again, Ustadh Tim Humble explains this well
As Salam Alaykum don’t go Against a practicing Father and mother wish. Because there will have no happiness:( that made me cry and not been born muslima and having no father to guide us. May Allah grant us strong muslim family.
May Allah grant us a righteous and beautiful partner. Ameen
Perfect question.
Masha Allah wisely answered
Ya Ustadh, I love you for the sake of Allah, but I have a question. Why do you give the shaytan credit at the end? Doesn't the Hadith narrated in Abu Dawud, from Abu Malih regarding his riding beast, classed as sahih by Sheikh al-Albani, state one should not do this?
@@ummabdulrahmaan8827 - Jazakullah I didn't notice it.
Tim wa ʾantum fa-jazākumu-llāhu khayran" "And you too, may God reward you with goodness".
Where do we gain access to a Qadi in the west? Can we get information of a qualified person for us to go to? Especially when many who has waliaship over us aren't praying consistently, doesn't know the sunnah...looking through lense of nationalism only. Or our father's are deceased...
How do you handle such situations that many of the sisters in...
@@TheOneLogic69 yes.i just mixed the arabic and English together. Guardianship
iceurope.org/services/fatwa-judgement/
This is a website for a shariah council run by scholars in the UK. In section 5 you can book an appointment for guardianship queries. insha'Allah they will advise accordingly, may Allah make the affairs easy for our brothers and sisters.
This issue ruined my marriage and now my ex killed herself 👍thanks Islam.
@@TheOneLogic69 it impacts everyone. my life was ruined.
@@TheOneLogic69 we couldn't we used to live in an islamic country. We had no choice. I dont really believe in Islam anymore, just the lifestyle but core beliefs are gone. The event was too traumatic.
Why did ustadh mention that after the wilayah is stripped from the father, she can pick someone she trusts from her family and if not, it can be passed onto the believers. Is this with the pre-requsite that everyone else that had the ability to be her wali, no longer does, because im sure that once her father is stripped from it, it automatically goes to her grandfather and so on and so forth, can someone please clarify, or am I conflating two seperate issues.
Jazak'Allahu Khayraan!!!
As Salam Alaykum she can pick another Mahram anyone she wants. When you reverted it’s the same but family issue it’s good idea to get the oldest:) mahram:)
@@ummabdulrahmaan8827 wa aleikum salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, I always thought there was essentially a tree for those in line for the wilayah as that's what I've been told by my teachers which include the students of ustadh Abdul Rahman Hassan. Nonetheless it reminds me of my ignorance and the need to seek knowledge as I believe I confused myself on this issue. Jazaka'Allah Khayran for the answer and to double check I'll look into this mas'alah further and return back here in sha Allah!
BlueEagle786 oh Akhi maybe I’m wrong myself let me double check. Because I’m reverted it’s different process. We are all here to seek knowledge 1000% and knowledge it’s infinite;) in our beautiful diin :)
BlueEagle786 islamqa.info/en/answers/208700/she-does-not-have-any-wali-guardian-for-the-purpose-of-marriage-can-the-director-of-the-islamic-centre-or-her-maternal-uncle-give-her-in-marriage I got some information;)
abu aishā al atharī for my marriage someone from the family in law of my sister in law to be took the charge and signs the marriage certificate at the masjid. I got no father and only no muslim mother so that the way. But also the imam of the masjid I work signed a letter saying that I was muslima and I used to work in the masjid too. He wrote it to the imam who was supposed to make the nikah in Arabic. Complicated.
Baraku Allāhu fikum, did the hot seat end?
What about if the same issue happens to a brother where his father refuses him to marry the girl of his choice due to her ethnicities becauseI've the same problem. May the almighty bless you🤔🤔
Does a brother need the permission? Because i think thats only for sisters
@@TheOneLogic69 why tho? For all we know, a young muslim guy might meet someone bad and doesn't even need permission, but for a girl if the parents disagree with race (which is disgustingly racist) she needs 'permission'? Honestly people need to stop being so stupid and closed minded and allow their kids to marry different races as long as he is a good Muslim🤦🏽♀️
@@TheOneLogic69 can I ask would you ever try to control ur wife?
@@sarakhreawish6322 You cannot equate the two tho. Men and women deal with different issues in marriage and different things are required of them. If anything, it's for the protection of the women, and men who do marry someone unfit don't get looked at as good either so idk why people act like men have it easier.
I'm not saying she should be prevented from marrying someone from a different race, but then again I've seen this happen within my own family and you really have no idea why a women might pick someone outside her race either. I've seen many do it just because it's a "cool & hip" thing to them or she's sympathizing only to find out she didn't realize that man was projecting his own identity issues onto her. That guy might even pray, go to the masjid, etc but she has no idea what it means to be a good Muslim and she's just romanticizing all of it, and the father sees that. Subhanallah...there's a lot of that happening nowadays.
@@-glitch-8195 ik but race should have NOTHING to do with it. Race shouldn't be an issue at all, i don't get why people care so much smh🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
but the question is who is the right person what if the person has done bad and gone eg gone to jail
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