The 4 Pillars of Good Manners || Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan || AMAU
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- Опубликовано: 18 авг 2020
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Manners of a Muslim is a short course brought to you by Al Madrasatu Al Umariyyah. In a world where we are constantly interacting with one another, the way we conduct ourselves as Muslims could be the difference between Paradise and Hellfire. Join Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan as he takes you through the exemplary characteristics that we should all adorn ourselves with no matter who we are dealing with. Whether it be with family, friends, colleagues or neighbours, this course will help shape your character for the better, with the permission of Allah.
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My notes from the lecture
The conclusion of good manners are from 4 hadith's:
1. Say that which is good or be silent. Perfect your tongue. Protect your tongue. Control it. Use your teeth to imprison your tongue. Only let it out when there is a need. Only when saying something beneficial. 3 types of things we may need to say - a. It's clearly good to say
b. It's clearly evil.
c. It's doubtful and you are not sure whether it's good or evil - rather stay away from this.
This is the first foundation.
2. Leave off that which does not concern you
- stay away from unnecessary issues which are not really our business. Always full of issues, can never have good manners. Takes one out of the realm of good manners. This is common place today. Eg. Other people's relationships friendships etc
3. Don't get angry
- evil trait. Starts off crazy. Later calmed down we regret everything. Beginning of anger is lunatic, at the end regret. Don't come into contact with triggers that make us angry. Wisely avoid it.
When angry:
A. Sit down
B. Lay down
C. Stop talking. Utter silence
4. Love for your brother that which you love for yourself
- cleanse your heart. No enmity and grudges towards our brothers and sisters in islam. Don't let other people live in your hearts and minds. Forgive and forget. We benefit from this the most with tranquility. We cannot enter jannah with enmity and grudges in our hearts. What's in our hearts usually reflects on our limbs. We become rude, dismissive. Our hearts must not get corrupted. Don't be vulgar angry rude belittling mocking. We must strive in shaa Allah.
May Allah subhaana wa ta ala grant us all the best of manners Ameen
جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرً
Jazakallah khair
My brother
جزاك الله خير
Ameen... Jazak Allahu khairan❤
Ustad You and Ustad Tim humble is one of the most loving to me,what a man, May Allah unite us in hereafter in jannatul firdous,May Allah bless you and increase you in knowledge and preserve you for the betterment of Ummah,i want to hug you,kiss you on your forehead, I can't completely write my emotions,if the ummati is like this,What about the Prophet ﷺ and his companions,Allahu-Akbar!!!
I have never seen a English speaking knowledgeable speaker like him!
Mufti munir's not bad.
Maa Shaa Allaah
Yeh Kuch zyada ho gaya Bhai..😃
@@thestranger6340 please stop recommending "mufti" muneer 😒😒😒 the guy belittles salafi scholars.
@@thestranger6340 cap
Ibn Abi Zayd al-Qayrawani
"The Conclusion and front rope of good manner it comes from 4 hadith"
Summary
-Say Good or be silent
-Leave of that which does not concern you
-Do not get angry
-The mu'min(Believer) Loves for his brother that which he loves for himself
(This summary does not do the video justice, this is just here for revision purposes)
May Allah give us all excellent manners and akhlaaq.
May Allah reward Ustaadh Abdulrahmaan and the AMAU team tremendously.
Ameen.
ameen!
Maa shaa Allah may Allah reward you for making lots of series like this.
Amin
All of these are really hard except for those whom Allaah has made it easy. Sub'haanAllaah! May Allaah make us among those who have excellent character.
Jazalhallahu'khair. May Allah guide us to the straight path. Ameen.
يا مقلب القلوب ثبت قلوبنا على دينك. آمين.
ما شاء الله
جَزَاكَ ٱللّٰهُ خَيْرًا
Follower from 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
In love with these videos so much, thank you so much Alhamdullilah. May Allah bless you and your family ameen
اللهم صل و سلم على نبينا محمد
آمين
May Allah bless and protect you
As salaamu alaiykum my family and I are truly grateful for these videos. In a time of so much fitnah and trials, this is like a shining light calming to the soul alhamdulillah.
alhamdulillah
Barakah'allah fiqhm. Very refreshing may Allah make us those with moral character and good manners amin
اللهم إنا نسألك العافية
Much needed and extremely beneficial dear brother Barack Allahu Feek, May Allah(swt) give us all the strength to cage our tongues, leave off that which doesn't concern him, make us of those whom can control our anger and give us the most perfect of manners and enter us all into Gardens which rivers flow. Ameen🤲🏼
ALLAHHU AKBAR
May ALLAH strengthen you and reward you شيخ, and keep us all steadfast on Islam
Aameen
Alhamdulillah May Allah bless this brother in this life and with jannatul-firdaws in the next life Ameen
Allahumma baarik ya ustadhuna
Jizaaka'Allaahu Khayran
JazakAllah khair Ustaadh. SubhanAllah much needed advice at every phase of life.
Ma sha Allah.
Allah humma baarik dearest respected beloved shiekh always such beautiful beneficial reminders inspiring knowledge and spiritual enlightenment JazakAllahu khayrun wa Ahsanal jaza Allahu ilayk habibi shiekh🤲😥💯💎🤲
Ma sha Allah
Jazakallahu khayran ustadhunaa
Baraku Allahu fikum shiekh and AMAU
I would love to hear more recitation from you Ustadh MashAllah.
Mashallah let's take heed
amazing video, really beneficial
Baarakallahu fee
Allahumma barik! Allahumma ameen!
Allahumma Ameen!
Mashalah!
Alhamdulillah
Allahu akbar
U r doing great job by making PDF's of ur lectures
Where can we access PDF
@@nejmahamid4625 from here u can have access to PDF notes -
ruclips.net/video/Il6mStIrZHQ/видео.html
@@ak_6741 i cant submit it whenever i click submit nothing happens. Help?
ALLAH SAYS IN QURAN:
133.AND HASTEN TOWARDS FORGIVENESS FROM YOUR LORD AND A PARADISE AS VAST AS THE HEAVENS AND EARTH, PREPARED FOR THOSE MINDEFUL OF GOD. 134. THEY ARE THOSE WHO DONATE IN PROSPERITY AND ADVERSITY, CONTROL THEIR ANGER AND PARDON OTHERS.AND ALLAH LOVES THE GOOD-DOERS.(CH-2,133-134)
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Is there a way to get notes from this lecture series? Like all the ahadith that ustadh is quoting?
I have question for ustadh Abderrahman where can I send ? Please
Does anyone know the intro-nasheed?
Where is the intro nasheed from?
Any books in English?
assalamualikum
Can someone write those books he recommended at 41:50 please? 🥺 English is not my mother language & it’s going to fast for me..
مكارم الاخلاق - ابن ابي الدنيا
الادب- ابن مفلح
اداء-ابن عبد القوي المرداوي
نبوة-ابن اسحاق
جامع الاخلاق الراوي و اداب السامع للخطيب البغدادي
جامع بيان العلم و فضله-ابن عبد البر
تذكرة السابع-ابن جماعة الكناني
كتاب حسن الخلق-عبد الرحمان ناصر السعدي
I just have a doubt. If we don't correct people when they are wrong, aren't we sinful? So how can we stop arguing if that person is wrong???
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which scholars are of the opinion you should forgive and forget because I haven't seen any ahadith that clearly indicate to forgive and forget rather a brother informed me about the fact that the sahaba who killed Hamza(ra) the uncle of the prophet(saw). The prophet never looked at him.
Would this mean the prophet(saw) held a grudge?
This is what the brother came to me with and i was hoping to get an answer
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The prophet saw always forgave. He
would only have a grudge if Allah was not pleased with the person. For instance Abu sufyan killed many sahabi but once he converted and repented rasullollah saw was very kind to him.
And he never looked at him because it reminded him of what he did to his uncle and that hurt him a lot.
Can you give me a reference fro this, please?
@@look4yourself650 read the life story of Abu sufyan.