My ex and I broke up a year ago too and I remember watching your divorce video. I can’t believe its been a year. There has been up and downs of being alone but over all I’m happy with myself. I’m growing and becoming and better person.
The same with me, I broke up with my fiance 2 days before the wedding, it was devastating. I also watched your divorce video and now seeing this one.. you are such an inspiration ✨
Lisa I'm a 24 year old girl and i stumbled on your channel through your first divorce video and I've learnt so much from you. You are such a beautiful and secure woman and you really demonstrate that we never have to settle or beg a man to be with you. You really understand that the issue is with him and there was nothing you could have ever done to keep him or make him happy. He is truly a mad man for letting you go.
My husband of 4 years and partner of 9 years out of the blue sat me down 2 months ago and said he wasn’t sure if he loved me anymore and we needed to separate.. I was devastated. 2 days after that I went through his phone and found out he was talking to a woman (of course he was). Our wedding anniversary was 2 days ago and it wasn’t easy but I treated myself to a massage haha. I’m working on moving on, the hardest thing is that I still have to coparent with this person. I don’t know how but I know I will rise again. I wish him happiness. God is with the broken-hearted. I trust this journey.. I want to thank you for sharing your story. You look amazing, I could tell you’re at peace and have joy, I can’t wait until I get there. 😊
I went through this, two years ago. Honestly at that time, I didn't think I was going to make it. If you ever need to vent I have no problem sending my email or Facebook to you. I truly hope you are doing okay!
@@shay458 I never saw this response until someone just liked my comment. How are you doing? I hope you are better because I know healing is a slow process!
Lucy Belcher Hi, I’m in a better place now. I kicked him out of my house that night I went through his phone and of course he tried coming back. Unfortunately for him it was nothing but lust with this other woman and well, he lost his family over nothing... rejection was temporary for me but his regret will last a lifetime. I’m still coping and grieving specially since I coparent with him and he’s a good dad (at least that) and well my heart still loves him, that’s because the heart is selfless, however I’m using my logic and going with my gut, my heart will eventually catch up. I’m still going to my own counseling and working on self love and taking care of my children. Knowing that this happened for a reason and that I’m exactly where I’m suppose to be brings me peace. I’ve grown closer to god and my loved ones. I feel blessed. Thank you for asking 😊
I think the reason you got over him and look so happy is because you don't try to overanalyze what went wrong. You're gorgeous. I really really admire you.
I was ghosted by my boyfriend of 15 years. We weren’t spring chickens, either. He was 69 & I was 57. Just ghosted me. Changed his phone number, deleted his email. I grieved heavily for 2 years. But life now is sooooo much better. I don’t regret those 15 years. He changed me for the better in fundamental ways & I’m eternally grateful for him. It was a very spiritual experience & I’m a better person because of him. I just wish he hadn’t turned out to be such a coward. 🤷♀️
Spot on advice about blocking ex’s as long as you don’t have children with them etc, i think we prolong heartache unnecessarily when we look at their social media etc. it’s best to cleanse and move forward as you suggested!
“Don’t lose yourself holding on to someone who doesn’t care about losing you”. I absolutely live by this quote in all my relationships. Whether they be friendships or romantic relationships. Life is way to short stressing over who likes you or who doesn’t. You have one life and it’s up to us to make it what we want it to be. I want to be happy, so I don’t dwell.❤️😀Absolutely love your outlook and your positivity on your situation.
I believe in fleeting moments of happiness! Being an Ex-Wife of a Doctor they usually leave when you have to deal with health issues as a Lady. You did everything right, be blessed and still look for Love! Hugs
On Feb 13, 2013 I got an email (yes an email) from my husband that works out of country. He said he was moving out when he got stateside. We had been married for 33 years. I few weeks later your first video about your divorce showed up on my RUclips. I watched it and the other videos you have posted. I just wanted you to know how grateful I am for all the positive energy you have sent my way. Ive learned so much from you and you have helped me so much in my own journey. Thank you! ❤❤❤
anna anna never mind an email , I went to work one Saturday morning and when I got home he had left the house and set me a text : “everything between us has died , don’t contact me” . We a had a 4 years old kid , he never use to go out with out me and our son , everything seemed ok , he meet her through Facebook . Be strong girls , there again as Lisa says everything happen for a reason xoxo
I’m 24 and you’re my role model :) you’re a true example of class, grace and inner/outer beauty! I love how your spirit seems so young but you have wise words
After seeing your mom and listening to her, it's not difficult to see why you're such a ray of light. You're not just beautiful outwardly; you're grounded, and don't spend time on things like hatred and jealousy over the past. They really are wasted emotions. I love the saying about poison as a euphemism for hatred. And yes it really *is* a euphemism in my opinion. Your ex, when you think about it, sounds dangerous. You're clearly wise and yet he fooled you. Another thing you might remember is the bullet you very well could have dodged. I'm glad you're free of him. Karmic debt? Sounds more like emotional deficit. Xoxox. ❤ I'm happy for you and your complete surplus. 😉🌹
Lisa, divorce suits you! Your hair looks wonderful, and makes you look so young. Please don't go back to the gray hair or the fake ponies. You've never looked better.
No only color but also this hairs style. It looks so natural. I know that you (Lisa) like ponys and extensions but actually the better is less and classy.
bella watkins, I So Agree With You, I Think Lisa’s Hair Looks Beautiful this colour, she doesn’t need those fake ponies or anything with this style she has now...Plus she looks So Much Younger Than Before, I actually commented on her Grey hair a long time ago About How it Made Her Look Washed Out Lol And Got Bagged Out Big Time For That Comment Lol....And Here She is With Everyone Loving Her Brunette Hair.....it just makes me Laugh 😂...
I must say it again: You look so amazig in this new hair! (I know, it was an accident, but a happy one!) You look 15 years younger. I understand the discomfort with dyeing. I also one of the affected. I use henna - my hair is very fine - but I am tired from the 3 hours waiting untill is done - and also the color is far more red, that I want... so I know being gray is much more comfortable. But, You realy look amazing with dark hair!
Dang it! I take some time off of social media and miss this. 😂. I’m trying so hard to get past my husband of 21 years who unexpectedly asked for a divorce 6 months ago. I haven’t seen him since and I have blocked him from my phone and social media because he still thinks I’m going to take care of him. He was a cheating jerk which broke me harder. He also took the business we owned (that I put sooooo much energy to), obviously my job, the house we’ve owned for 16 years, and my only daughter moved 15 hours away for college (my heart breaks just saying that!). I’ve also lost friends I considered to be my best friends as I was too depressed to be around (I don’t blame them). My health is terrible (I have 4 autoimmune diseases which he used that against me) so I’ve lost a lot. I am very close to God and although I have been totally mad at Him, He loves me enough to keep me going. I have tremendous stress (financial), panic, depression, anxiety and it’s a battle however...I know I’ll get past this. I know it won’t be soon, and lots of hard times are in my future but I am now just learning to live for the moment. It’s hard, I’m very weak but one foot in front of the other. I hope everyone going through this can find happiness because it is there. You are loved and you are worth more than you think. Lisa, you are stunning and your beauty is internal and external. You are a blessing to many! Thank you for your dedication and support! 💜
You are going to be okay, you are right hard times are ahead but there’s also more beauty and laughter and love and all the things still meant for you. Learn to love the sound of your own foot steps walking away from the things no longer meant for you. I have family with many autoimmune diseases and I know it’s hard, I know I’m a stranger but know Someone out there cares about you and truly wishes you well. Be bold and let the mighty forces come to your aid. ❤️
I'm not sure how to word this but please understand it's coming from someone who wants to help. I believe that if you were together for 21 years and you helped in the business he took away, you are entitled to half of the martial assets. I bring this up not as a way to punish him (that's for God, Karma, & The Universe to take care of) but it is now about your survival. You have so much stress with your health concerns that alleviating your financial fears would help you in many ways. I don't presume to know the situation but I've had friends who were so angry and upset that they didn't address the financial situations in their divorces. They wanted no part of ex.s so just walked away without any financial compensation. That was something that they were entitled to. They were not critically thinking or too prideful and ended up with financial difficulties down the line. I have come out of a situation where I lost my house, my car, investments and there's nothing left. It feels as if at 57 I am starting from square one. I truly hope your situation improves and wishing you all the very best.
I agree with fearless kitten. You have rights and you need to stand up for yourself and your well being both financially and emotionally. What you need to do is exactly what Lisa explains in a lot of her update videos. Forgive, accept and take charge of your life. I feel for you, your situation is VERY hard and not fair. I am praying for your strength.
Your silver hair was gorgeous and it made YOU happy and that's all that matters! You're also rocking that brown hair girl! I watched my mom lose her hair during her battle with cancer. Hair/hair color doesnt define beauty. Doing what makes you happy does. ❤
Lisa, My name is Christy. I was shocked when I saw your video bc I went through the same thing, but my shock was when I found out my ex was having an affair. It turned my whole world upside down. I really admire the way you handled this. I appreciate your inner & outer beauty. I believe when men do this its bc they are wanting to be with someone else, and my husband had no desire to work on things. He was fine with the way things were, and I was left feeling so lonely in my marriage. I decided to make myself happy, & ended up leaving my ex after 23 yrs. It was the hardest thing I've ever done, but the best thing.. I didn't focus on him, and just worked on myself, which is what you did , & that's very healthy. I did a lot of therapy to make sure I could make good choices in the future; read a ton of books,took classes, listened to videos, took responsibility, and made sure my ex-husband & I were friendly so as not to hurt our children. I agree with you that negative thoughts only hurt ourselves, and they hurt any children involved. I had gotten to the point where I felt I was living the wrong life when i was with my ex. Now, I am so happy and grateful for the bumps in my road bc they brought me where I am today. I'm happy for you, too. Thanks for sharing yourself, & I'm glad I came across your videos.
I like your hair both ways! I'm letting my hair go gray naturally, and planning to avoid coloring, if at all possible. This is going be the best year of your life!
Lovin the hair, that cut suits you perfectly! He's kicking himself, you can be certain of that! You look 100% better, younger and healthier than when I first watched your duvorce video a year ago.
Hi I separated from my abusive spouse Fed 2018 and divorced Nov 2018. I consider Feb 2019 as one year of split. Healing and happy ! Thanks for sharing your story . I know how painful it can be .
Thank you for your words of wisdom! I'm not going through a divorce have been married almost 50 years. I'm going through other family issues and your videos and positivity are so helpful and uplifting. I wish you continued happiness!
I've seen a few of your videos before the divorce, and I always got the impression that your ex husband was kind of putting on a "good guy" act for the camera. He'd look at the camera and you could tell he wasn't being natural. Anyway, you're too good for someone who couldn't even look you in the eye in court. Plus, you're JLo lol 😊
@@stephguzThat's not always the case. There are men out there who will leave a perfectly good woman because they "think" they found something better ... if she was so bad then he shouldn't have been saying stuff like "my wife is amazing" while glaring into the camera with a fake smile.
Wow...how dare any of you blame a woman, for a man leaving.... lol..because she's not ugly, something is wrong with her mind. Seriously, I can see something is wrong with the minds of these commentators. Very cold, mean and jealous comments. Beautiful good people, also get hurt, for reasons put of their control. Rock on Lisa!! Sending love beautiful...xo
@@stephguz I don't... because let's be real, there are still some great men... but the majority are no good. Yes, I said it. Probably 8 times out of 10 it's something the man did.
@@stephguz You're for sure right about that...we have to learn to see the signs and trust our instinct when it comes to those types of guys. Sometimes they can put on a pretty good act for a while, but for the most part I think there are signs if we pay attention.
You are a beautiful woman! Not just for a 50 yr. old but for any age! In fact, you are way out of his league. There is a man out there that will appreciate you for your beauty inside and out! You have so much grace. Saying how you appreciated him standing by you during those hard times shows that. I love that you don’t have hate for him in your heart. On another side, you really should be a model. Seriously. I’m surprised that you aren’t doing this already. Love your hair! Keep it this color.
He did you a favor! You deserve someone much better than that! You look more stunning by the minute, so the divorce did you good. His loss your gain! 😗
I’ve watched your divorce videos and appreciate them so much. I’m going through it right now after 23 years of marriage. I’m the one who asked for the divorce for a lot of reasons, but it’s still heartbreaking. I have good days and bad days, but your videos have helped me know there is hope in the future.
You know, im not married and havnt been through a divorce but i find your insights and philosophy can be applied to many difficult challenges one may have. I so appreciate you sharing your wisdom and process of moving on, getting stronger and never loosing hope. Thank you xo
I totally agree with not letting ruminating thoughts destroy you. It doesn’t solve anything but makes us miserable. I’m going through a separation hopefully divorce with my husband. And I try not to think about the what if’s anymore. I’m done with him and hopefully can move on soon.
I agreed he is a big Time Narcissistic, with traits of sociopath!! I know that, to the point that he disregard her just like that. They are garbage with empty shell.
Narcissistic encounter for sure. Glad you are past it and no contact is the only way. You look wonderful and have done some great healing. Thanks for sharing.
Hi Lisa, I am 28 years old and my husband and I are going to file for divorce. I am beyond devastated right now and I don’t know how to cope. We just had our baby and I gave birth 2 months ago. He cheated on me multiple times and I’ve never felt such betrayal in my life. I’m so scared of the unknown and scared I will be lonely, since I am already in my late 20s and will be a single mom soon, but looking at you and your new bf, it gives me hope. Thank you so much for making this video, along with other ones too. I just don’t know if I’ll ever love someone again. So afraid to be alone
You are so lovable! I love that you haven't bashed or bad mouthed your ex. That's damaging to yourself and your standards, and it's just not worth being that way, for your own peace of mind. You're a strong lady and I admire your character. Keep up the great work!
That's it! I'm so glad I found your channel. Granted I'm only 35, but I enjoy all your videos. I figured it out, you are a perfect mix of Gwen Stefani and Jennifer Lopez, simply gorgeous!
Laura Caton What a perfect likening. Everyone comments on just the J. Lo thing but I was thinking no, someone else as well. Gwen and J. Lo, yup, perfect.
This is none of my business. I admire your strength and am in awe of what you have been through emotionally and physically. What’s none of my business is your hair. If you want to go back to your silver adventure, we will all learn a lot. BUT you look SO FANTASTIC right now, I can’t not tell you. If being GORGEOUS is at all important (and I feel like it is), you’ve got that down!
I'm 31 years young and I absolutely love your RUclips channel! You are goals and I look forward to aging in style and with a positive mindset just like you! Thank you for all of your advice on how to heal and let go of a past relationship. ❤
I absolutely agree with you, that everything happens for a reason and That is also why I'm so proud of you because you are so strong you stood still and never give up even if you've been divorced two times now. It's really hard to think how struggles you've been through. God will bless you always and don't lose hope and have faith always.
Kimmie Kins hi Lisa I have been following you in a few dasys and I before this video I saw u had grey hair it’s like night and day! I really admire you for moving on from the divorce and been such a postive strong Woman through the divorce and all. Keep up the upbeat and strong woman that you become, I applaud you !!! You really are a beautiful woman inside and. Out!
I love the fact that you can be open and honest about that. Divorce sucks but you kicked ass through this painful experience. You look amazing and I’m loving this hair color on you!
Over a year old but I hope that Dominic from Poland goes to the doctor immediately when you are having suicidal thoughts that means you’re suffering from a disease called depression no one should have suicidal thoughts if you do there’s treatment for the disease of depression, I’ve had two family members suffer friend and friends that I’ve had the same disease so I hope she’s listening and I hope she knows to go immediately even this is over a year old to get the help she needs. 🙏🏻
Truly cannot believe it has been a year! I was already in the process of healing when you were just starting your journey. It looks like we are both in a much better place! 💚
You are one smart lady!! (Except trusting in Joel Osteen ... He's a fraud; A "pretender" preying on individuals' vulnerabilities for money when all is revealed about his "doings" behind the facade!) That aside ... You are blessed and meant to walk through life helping and uplifting the spirits of others, as you do such for yourself naturally on the path of life! God bless and take care! Really enjoy your channel!
When I didn't have a church to go to I listened to Joel Olsteen on the radio. After a while I started to feel unsettled and creeped out and a lot of negative stuff started happening in my life. I don't think this man is a Christian at all. He's a blab it and grab it properity preacher. He has no humility. And he has a creepy Spirit on him.
I am not a psychologist but it sounds like he has borderline personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder.. people who suffer from these mental illnesses tend to discard people, and one day just flip up on you for no apparent reason. They have a “black or white” type of mindset and when their mind is set up on something they tend to not see the other side of the story. I’m glad you’re out of that relationship. Btw - I am so inspired by your mature mindset and the way you’ve handled this entire situation. I am only 23 but I’ve been through a very bad breakup with someone who I believe has bpd. I thought he was my soulmate and one day he completely switched on me and left with no explanations. I completely fell apart and lost hope, I’m still heartbroken over it although its already been a year. But seeing how well you’re handling your divorce really gives me hope. You’re very wise, thank you.
Can you do more positive videos, please? Can you teach us how to train our brains to be positive? The way you see life is beautiful and I really need to think that way. I have terrible anxiety and I’m sick of it controlling my life.
Love the hair color..it's very becoming to your skin tone..You look more relaxed and seem to be more at peace. and very grounded, I admire your strength..I wish you all the Best of happiness in the Future.
Skin tone, exactly! I have nothing against gray hair but I always thought that her skin is so warm and lively that gray hair wasn't the best match. My own gray skin tone would match gray hair much better 😂 Also, Lisa's face and body and skin look like those of a 20-year-old so gray hair on top of it looks like it's, well, fake!
Sari V I agree with you..I always thought sh carries grey well but it 'didn't fit' with her complexion. I started going grey when I was 26 and started to go with it..however so many people said I looked washed out and my face was too young..so I started using hair dye. Now that I'm older I see a difference in my 'skin tone' and Now dark hair looks fake on me and too harsh. So now I'm using a softer color with lots of highlights that looks more natural..
omg if you only knew how much you helped others like myself, yeah you showed it was painful and something hard to go thru, but regardless we got to stay strong and remember life goes on, and we need to learn to love ourselves first and to stop being so dependent on someone's else's perception or approval! Ur such a blessing and so beautiful inside and out any man would be so lucky to have you but I'm sure Prince Charming will come at its own time! Regardless keep shining doll ❤️
I clicked on your skin care over 50+ because I couldn't believe how amazing you look, I want to know your skincare. I started clicking on your videos, this particular video WOW your strength and the way you answer the questions and the outlook of life is truly amazing! I was in a similar relationship at 1st then he was a full blown narcissist. Glad I walked away. I also started listening Joel Osteen and read Law of Attraction and helped. You look amazing 👍💕
Thank you Lisa for all your openess, I've been through so many rough times in my life and then after all the pain and heartache and starting to feel a bit better I lost my dear beloved father 2 years ago due to a neglecting caretaker at a revalidationcentre (he was there for 3 weeks with a hernia and got very sick during that last night, developped a pneumonia that was fatal), I was/am devestated in a lawsuit now and so sad. I discovered your channel last year and you inspired me to keep going. This video helped me again with all the wise lessons you gave us here again. Thank you for being you Lisa!
Lisa, please consider becoming a life coach/grief counselor. I think you would be awesome at helping people get through tough situations! Ugh sorry one more thing....could you tell me what hair color brand/number your hair is? I would love to have your hair color lol
You look and seem 20 years younger - loved your gray hair but love your softer make up and you look amazing! I am 3 years past divorce it was a roller coaster 17 years turns out it was the best thing that has ever happened to me!
Hey Lisa. Your encouraging message is a blessing to many people struggling during and after a relationship fractures. I know your heart aches about your hair. I've been there myself. Seems like there are a lot of women who don't get the fact that once it's grey, it's grey. Putting color on is futile. Color on Monday, roots shining through on Wednesday or Thursday for certain. Did it for decades myself. Mine is 80% white now and fine like baby hair, but thankfully abundant. My new hair goal is Farah Fawcett big, luxurious, sparkling in the sunshine hair. Lisa, you make yourself happy with whatever you decide about it. 👵🏻 💙
to that first ? my ex wanted to sleep with other girls. and then did in our bed with 2 girls. . .. I left him. My current husband and I have been married 16 years and we are actually happily ever after though for real!
honestly it didn't matter the WHY because I will never have the full truth. I know that his heart betrayed our marriage. My second husband is VERY loyal and wonderful but the truth is I will never check his phone, or social media or go over the top putting my exes crimes on my new good man. Galations 6:4-5 4Each one should test his own work. Then he will have reason to boast in himself alone, and not in someone else. 5For each one should carry his own load. when I got divorced I let that relationship go and moved past it with even my thoughts. I am so thankful to have a loving, safe, strong marriage now with so much teamwork and FUN! I was content during my single life as well. I still loved my first when I divorced him too. It was confusing to end a marriage to someone I still LOVED but I realized just because you love them doesn't mean you are COMPATIBLE.
I love your outlook. My ex did the very same thing with me. Thank you for admitting that you still have your hard times but tell us how you get through them.
Divorce looks beautiful on you!!! I’m sorry for the pain, but agree wholeheartedly that this is all part of Gods plan in our life. It’s how we react to situations like this and you have handled this with the utmost integrity!! Your future looks bright!!
Grit your teeth and hang in Suzi I get where you're coming from; a long drawn out divorce can be so hurtful and traumatizing and affect your mind, body and spirit. Hope you get it sorted so you can move on 😊
@@suzihazlove4979 My ex husband had an affair too... the married woman dumped him then he wanted me back ... but our marriage was destroyed and he hanged himself
your hair style and color are amazing， I just bought a iron flat last night, I WAS so happy, but in the morning he said to me that he wants to divorce with me ~ what a life and what the reasons he gave me is just like your ex... ... I just searched about divorce and cried with you on your last divorce video, and now I see you are so amazing ~👍🎉 I am not sure if I will divorce soon, but thank you for sharing your life with me ,with us... Thank you so much , thank you from Toronto
it's taken me so long to heal from a breakup. I didn't want to see that he was being removed from my life for a reason.... once I saw it though, it made me feel so much better.
love this old video! you’ve prob heard this before but i get the sense that one of the reasons he left was because he felt overshadowed and threatened by the force that you are and wasn’t strong/secure enough in himself to handle it - he felt the need to be with someone who made him feel admired and like “the man” again. same reason gwen stefani’s ex husband left her. also you always look great of course but i will always be in the camp that thinks that this hair color looks hands down the best on you. it makes you look so fresh! and the cut too - i was surprised this is only two years old because you look a good 10 years younger with this style!
My ex and I broke up a year ago too and I remember watching your divorce video. I can’t believe its been a year. There has been up and downs of being alone but over all I’m happy with myself. I’m growing and becoming and better person.
That’s awesome Maria 💕💕💕💕
The same with me, I broke up with my fiance 2 days before the wedding, it was devastating. I also watched your divorce video and now seeing this one.. you are such an inspiration ✨
Self love is the best, nothing beats that
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Lisa I'm a 24 year old girl and i stumbled on your channel through your first divorce video and I've learnt so much from you. You are such a beautiful and secure woman and you really demonstrate that we never have to settle or beg a man to be with you. You really understand that the issue is with him and there was nothing you could have ever done to keep him or make him happy. He is truly a mad man for letting you go.
With this color, you look like Selma Hayek and Winona Ryder had a baby! So beautiful!
Smith A too true!
She does 😊😍😍😍😍😍
Yes!
Hi!
She looks similar to : some Salma, a lil' Winona, a lil' Jen Lop, some Gwen, at most Minka Kelly, in my view. She's looks GOOD!!!
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssss so beautiful
My husband of 4 years and partner of 9 years out of the blue sat me down 2 months ago and said he wasn’t sure if he loved me anymore and we needed to separate.. I was devastated. 2 days after that I went through his phone and found out he was talking to a woman (of course he was). Our wedding anniversary was 2 days ago and it wasn’t easy but I treated myself to a massage haha. I’m working on moving on, the hardest thing is that I still have to coparent with this person. I don’t know how but I know I will rise again. I wish him happiness. God is with the broken-hearted. I trust this journey.. I want to thank you for sharing your story. You look amazing, I could tell you’re at peace and have joy, I can’t wait until I get there. 😊
I went through this, two years ago. Honestly at that time, I didn't think I was going to make it. If you ever need to vent I have no problem sending my email or Facebook to you. I truly hope you are doing okay!
Lucy Belcher thank you. Yes you can send me your email. I don’t have a FB.
@@shay458 I never saw this response until someone just liked my comment. How are you doing? I hope you are better because I know healing is a slow process!
That’s horrible. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. I hope you feel better now I can’t begin to imagine how painful that must have felt.
Lucy Belcher Hi, I’m in a better place now. I kicked him out of my house that night I went through his phone and of course he tried coming back. Unfortunately for him it was nothing but lust with this other woman and well, he lost his family over nothing... rejection was temporary for me but his regret will last a lifetime. I’m still coping and grieving specially since I coparent with him and he’s a good dad (at least that) and well my heart still loves him, that’s because the heart is selfless, however I’m using my logic and going with my gut, my heart will eventually catch up. I’m still going to my own counseling and working on self love and taking care of my children. Knowing that this happened for a reason and that I’m exactly where I’m suppose to be brings me peace. I’ve grown closer to god and my loved ones. I feel blessed. Thank you for asking 😊
Lisa, nothing against your gray hair, but you look absolutely gorgeous with this hair color.....just gorgeous!
Thank you! I’m kind of getting used to it and just embracing it for now ❤️
Beauty101byLisa please don’t go back, you look glowing!
Such a strong woman you are and yes you look a lot like JLO😉😘
And her grey was beautiful as well!
I agree,imagine how stunningly beautiful she'd look if her hair was long
Don't change this haircolor for any reason! It' perfect on you!!!
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I think the reason you got over him and look so happy is because you don't try to overanalyze what went wrong. You're gorgeous. I really really admire you.
Thank you Sara! And that is so true. I have tried to over analyze in the past and all it does is drive yourself crazy ❤️
Argh, that's my problem.
You look sooo good with your hair color
Thank you Linda ❤️
Linda Burns I told her she would lol
Her hair looks so purty .
She looks fantastic with either hair color. The silver didn't age her, it looked funky because she has great style.
20 years younger with your hair like this!
I know you’re bummed about your hair but I think it looks amazing!!!!
I was ghosted by my boyfriend of 15 years. We weren’t spring chickens, either. He was 69 & I was 57. Just ghosted me. Changed his phone number, deleted his email. I grieved heavily for 2 years. But life now is sooooo much better. I don’t regret those 15 years. He changed me for the better in fundamental ways & I’m eternally grateful for him. It was a very spiritual experience & I’m a better person because of him. I just wish he hadn’t turned out to be such a coward. 🤷♀️
We Are Legion this is so horrendous!! I’m really sorry he did this to you but am so happy to hear you have reached the other side and are healed. 💛
🤧 So terrible! I'm glad you picked everything back up! 💚
We Are Legion sorry if that was rude but what kind of man does that. Ugh, I’m glad you are so much better now ❤️
I believe God watchesover us ... Rejection is protection!
Spot on advice about blocking ex’s as long as you don’t have children with them etc, i think we prolong heartache unnecessarily when we look at their social media etc. it’s best to cleanse and move forward as you suggested!
You look STUNNING with your new hair color, especially with the top that you're wearing. Wishing you the best in life!
Thank you so much Noemi ❤️
“Don’t lose yourself holding on to someone who doesn’t care about losing you”. I absolutely live by this quote in all my relationships. Whether they be friendships or romantic relationships. Life is way to short stressing over who likes you or who doesn’t. You have one life and it’s up to us to make it what we want it to be. I want to be happy, so I don’t dwell.❤️😀Absolutely love your outlook and your positivity on your situation.
Now this is truly a beautiful color on you, no lie, for real you look at least ten years younger.your hair looks so much more healthy, and shinier.
I was thinking that she looks 40, too! Stunning.
I believe in fleeting moments of happiness! Being an Ex-Wife of a Doctor they usually leave when you have to deal with health issues as a Lady. You did everything right, be blessed and still look for Love! Hugs
On Feb 13, 2013 I got an email (yes an email) from my husband that works out of country. He said he was moving out when he got stateside. We had been married for 33 years. I few weeks later your first video about your divorce showed up on my RUclips. I watched it and the other videos you have posted. I just wanted you to know how grateful I am for all the positive energy you have sent my way. Ive learned so much from you and you have helped me so much in my own journey. Thank you! ❤❤❤
Anna I’m so grateful that I was able to help you! Stay strong girlfriend ❤️❤️❤️
anna anna 💗💗how are you💖💖
@@mermaiddiyartist8119 im doing good now 😊
anna anna never mind an email , I went to work one Saturday morning and when I got home he had left the house and set me a text : “everything between us has died , don’t contact me” . We a had a 4 years old kid , he never use to go out with out me and our son , everything seemed ok , he meet her through Facebook . Be strong girls , there again as Lisa says everything happen for a reason xoxo
@@zeza02 im so sorry. Hope things are better now for you!
You are completely glowing in this video, stunning as always 😍😍😍
I love her😘😗
Thank you Briana 😘
Lookin' good girl. He is a douche - and that is clear. You deserve so much better. You learned a lesson and he lost a great wife. Hugs😘
I’m 24 and you’re my role model :) you’re a true example of class, grace and inner/outer beauty! I love how your spirit seems so young but you have wise words
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
To me Lisa you look better than ever!!!! Always so beautiful!! I do admire you so much!
Thank you 💕💕
"Karmic debt"?? Man, did he do you a favor in leaving! I love your hair:)
Yup
Would have been nice if he told me about his karmic debt before he asked me to marry him 😜🤣 Oh well glad he’s in my past.
Never ever heard of Karmic debt!!!!! What did he just invent????
What a lousy excuse...you are better off without him!
@@butterification i had to literally google karmic debt definition😬. I never herd that term.
After seeing your mom and listening to her, it's not difficult to see why you're such a ray of light. You're not just beautiful outwardly; you're grounded, and don't spend time on things like hatred and jealousy over the past. They really are wasted emotions. I love the saying about poison as a euphemism for hatred. And yes it really *is* a euphemism in my opinion.
Your ex, when you think about it, sounds dangerous. You're clearly wise and yet he fooled you. Another thing you might remember is the bullet you very well could have dodged. I'm glad you're free of him. Karmic debt? Sounds more like emotional deficit. Xoxox. ❤ I'm happy for you and your complete surplus. 😉🌹
Ah
Lisa, divorce suits you! Your hair looks wonderful, and makes you look so young. Please don't go back to the gray hair or the fake ponies. You've never looked better.
No only color but also this hairs style. It looks so natural. I know that you (Lisa) like ponys and extensions but actually the better is less and classy.
bella watkins, I So Agree With You, I Think Lisa’s Hair Looks Beautiful this colour, she doesn’t need those fake ponies or anything with this style she has now...Plus she looks So Much Younger Than Before, I actually commented on her Grey hair a long time ago About How it Made Her Look Washed Out Lol And Got Bagged Out Big Time For That Comment Lol....And Here She is With Everyone Loving Her Brunette Hair.....it just makes me Laugh 😂...
I must say it again: You look so amazig in this new hair! (I know, it was an accident, but a happy one!) You look 15 years younger. I understand the discomfort with dyeing. I also one of the affected. I use henna - my hair is very fine - but I am tired from the 3 hours waiting untill is done - and also the color is far more red, that I want... so I know being gray is much more comfortable. But, You realy look amazing with dark hair!
Dang it! I take some time off of social media and miss this. 😂. I’m trying so hard to get past my husband of 21 years who unexpectedly asked for a divorce 6 months ago. I haven’t seen him since and I have blocked him from my phone and social media because he still thinks I’m going to take care of him. He was a cheating jerk which broke me harder. He also took the business we owned (that I put sooooo much energy to), obviously my job, the house we’ve owned for 16 years, and my only daughter moved 15 hours away for college (my heart breaks just saying that!). I’ve also lost friends I considered to be my best friends as I was too depressed to be around (I don’t blame them). My health is terrible (I have 4 autoimmune diseases which he used that against me) so I’ve lost a lot. I am very close to God and although I have been totally mad at Him, He loves me enough to keep me going. I have tremendous stress (financial), panic, depression, anxiety and it’s a battle however...I know I’ll get past this. I know it won’t be soon, and lots of hard times are in my future but I am now just learning to live for the moment. It’s hard, I’m very weak but one foot in front of the other. I hope everyone going through this can find happiness because it is there. You are loved and you are worth more than you think.
Lisa, you are stunning and your beauty is internal and external. You are a blessing to many! Thank you for your dedication and support! 💜
krissy beaubien - you were too good for that bum. Keep your head high and your spirit higher . hugs 🤗
Thank you so much Krissy! Hang in there ❤️ Sending love, strength and healing ❤️
You are going to be okay, you are right hard times are ahead but there’s also more beauty and laughter and love and all the things still meant for you. Learn to love the sound of your own foot steps walking away from the things no longer meant for you. I have family with many autoimmune diseases and I know it’s hard, I know I’m a stranger but know Someone out there cares about you and truly wishes you well. Be bold and let the mighty forces come to your aid. ❤️
I'm not sure how to word this but please understand it's coming from someone who wants to help.
I believe that if you were together for 21 years and you helped in the business he took away, you are entitled to half of the martial assets. I bring this up not as a way to punish him (that's for God, Karma, & The Universe to take care of) but it is now about your survival. You have so much stress with your health concerns that alleviating your financial fears would help you in many ways.
I don't presume to know the situation but I've had friends who were so angry and upset that they didn't address the financial situations in their divorces. They wanted no part of ex.s so just walked away without any financial compensation. That was something that they were entitled to. They were not critically thinking or too prideful and ended up with financial difficulties down the line.
I have come out of a situation where I lost my house, my car, investments and there's nothing left. It feels as if at 57 I am starting from square one.
I truly hope your situation improves and wishing you all the very best.
I agree with fearless kitten. You have rights and you need to stand up for yourself and your well being both financially and emotionally. What you need to do is exactly what Lisa explains in a lot of her update videos. Forgive, accept and take charge of your life. I feel for you, your situation is VERY hard and not fair. I am praying for your strength.
Your silver hair was gorgeous and it made YOU happy and that's all that matters! You're also rocking that brown hair girl! I watched my mom lose her hair during her battle with cancer. Hair/hair color doesnt define beauty. Doing what makes you happy does. ❤
Lisa, My name is Christy. I was shocked when I saw your video bc I went through the same thing, but my shock was when I found out my ex was having an affair. It turned my whole world upside down. I really admire the way you handled this. I appreciate your inner & outer beauty. I believe when men do this its bc they are wanting to be with someone else, and my husband had no desire to work on things. He was fine with the way things were, and I was left feeling so lonely in my marriage. I decided to make myself happy, & ended up leaving my ex after 23 yrs. It was the hardest thing I've ever done, but the best thing.. I didn't focus on him, and just worked on myself, which is what you did , & that's very healthy. I did a lot of therapy to make sure I could make good choices in the future; read a ton of books,took classes, listened to videos, took responsibility, and made sure my ex-husband & I were friendly so as not to hurt our children. I agree with you that negative thoughts only hurt ourselves, and they hurt any children involved. I had gotten to the point where I felt I was living the wrong life when i was with my ex. Now, I am so happy and grateful for the bumps in my road bc they brought me where I am today. I'm happy for you, too. Thanks for sharing yourself, & I'm glad I came across your videos.
THATS LIFE🙄 nothing is forever"
I like your hair both ways! I'm letting my hair go gray naturally, and planning to avoid coloring, if at all possible. This is going be the best year of your life!
wow you look fantastic!
Glowing
Omgosh! Is it possible that you look even younger and more beautiful with each passing day? 😁. Love your channel! You are so encouraging. Xoxo
Thank you so much Becky 💕
You go, girl!! You are an amazing and gorgeous woman! Keep on smiling!! ❤️ You are an inspiration to all women!!
...”Karmic Debt”? He can only be with certain people for a certain amount of time? 🙄 Thank u, Next.
Um
Lovin the hair, that cut suits you perfectly! He's kicking himself, you can be certain of that! You look 100% better, younger and healthier than when I first watched your duvorce video a year ago.
24 years married and found out he’s been having an affair and heartbroken ! How do you recover? You give me hope!
Hi I separated from my abusive spouse Fed 2018 and divorced Nov 2018. I consider Feb 2019 as one year of split. Healing and happy ! Thanks for sharing your story . I know how painful it can be .
Blind faith is not easy but...........EVERYTHING happens for a reason. 😘❤️
Thank you for your words of wisdom! I'm not going through a divorce have been married almost 50 years. I'm going through other family issues and your videos and positivity are so helpful and uplifting. I wish you continued happiness!
I've seen a few of your videos before the divorce, and I always got the impression that your ex husband was kind of putting on a "good guy" act for the camera. He'd look at the camera and you could tell he wasn't being natural. Anyway, you're too good for someone who couldn't even look you in the eye in court. Plus, you're JLo lol 😊
@@stephguzThat's not always the case. There are men out there who will leave a perfectly good woman because they "think" they found something better ... if she was so bad then he shouldn't have been saying stuff like "my wife is amazing" while glaring into the camera with a fake smile.
Wow...how dare any of you blame a woman, for a man leaving.... lol..because she's not ugly, something is wrong with her mind. Seriously, I can see something is wrong with the minds of these commentators. Very cold, mean and jealous comments. Beautiful good people, also get hurt, for reasons put of their control. Rock on Lisa!! Sending love beautiful...xo
@@stephguz I don't... because let's be real, there are still some great men... but the majority are no good. Yes, I said it. Probably 8 times out of 10 it's something the man did.
@@stephguz You're for sure right about that...we have to learn to see the signs and trust our instinct when it comes to those types of guys. Sometimes they can put on a pretty good act for a while, but for the most part I think there are signs if we pay attention.
You are a beautiful woman! Not just for a 50 yr. old but for any age! In fact, you are way out of his league. There is a man out there that will appreciate you for your beauty inside and out! You have so much grace. Saying how you appreciated him standing by you during those hard times shows that. I love that you don’t have hate for him in your heart. On another side, you really should be a model. Seriously. I’m surprised that you aren’t doing this already. Love your hair! Keep it this color.
He did you a favor! You deserve someone much better than that! You look more stunning by the minute, so the divorce did you good. His loss your gain! 😗
so true
As my ex husband hanged himself he did me a favor too
I'm happy to see you happy
I’ve watched your divorce videos and appreciate them so much. I’m going through it right now after 23 years of marriage. I’m the one who asked for the divorce for a lot of reasons, but it’s still heartbreaking. I have good days and bad days, but your videos have helped me know there is hope in the future.
Hope u get well soon.. Love u 😗😘
kribri78 wow you’re really strong!
Hang in there!!! You got this ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You know, im not married and havnt been through a divorce but i find your insights and philosophy can be applied to many difficult challenges one may have. I so appreciate you sharing your wisdom and process of moving on, getting stronger and never loosing hope. Thank you xo
He was a narcissist. Thank your lucky stars he’s out of your life. They are evil people.
I totally agree with not letting ruminating thoughts destroy you. It doesn’t solve anything but makes us miserable. I’m going through a separation hopefully divorce with my husband. And I try not to think about the what if’s anymore. I’m done with him and hopefully can move on soon.
Sending love and strength ❤️❤️❤️
Donna Dempsey Same here, here’s to the future x
I agreed he is a big Time Narcissistic, with traits of sociopath!! I know that, to the point that he disregard her just like that. They are garbage with empty shell.
Calling a narcissist "people" is a bit of a stretch
Narcissistic encounter for sure. Glad you are past it and no contact is the only way. You look wonderful and have done some great healing. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for answering my question in this video! You have handled this past year with such Grace........🌸~Pamela Lee
Hi Lisa, I am 28 years old and my husband and I are going to file for divorce. I am beyond devastated right now and I don’t know how to cope. We just had our baby and I gave birth 2 months ago. He cheated on me multiple times and I’ve never felt such betrayal in my life. I’m so scared of the unknown and scared I will be lonely, since I am already in my late 20s and will be a single mom soon, but looking at you and your new bf, it gives me hope. Thank you so much for making this video, along with other ones too. I just don’t know if I’ll ever love someone again. So afraid to be alone
My x called me 3 yrs after divorce said sorry,, I forgave him,,,, life goes on,,,, with my prince now,,
Keep going,, never give up,, lv lv jilly
You are so lovable!
I love that you haven't bashed or bad mouthed your ex. That's damaging to yourself and your standards, and it's just not worth being that way, for your own peace of mind.
You're a strong lady and I admire your character.
Keep up the great work!
That's it! I'm so glad I found your channel. Granted I'm only 35, but I enjoy all your videos. I figured it out, you are a perfect mix of Gwen Stefani and Jennifer Lopez, simply gorgeous!
Laura Caton What a perfect likening. Everyone comments on just the J. Lo thing but I was thinking no, someone else as well. Gwen and J. Lo, yup, perfect.
This is none of my business. I admire your strength and am in awe of what you have been through emotionally and physically. What’s none of my business is your hair. If you want to go back to your silver adventure, we will all learn a lot. BUT you look SO FANTASTIC right now, I can’t not tell you. If being GORGEOUS is at all important (and I feel like it is), you’ve got that down!
Thanks for the video! Your hair looks beautiful but I loved how you rocked the silver/grey.
Amen to everything you said, Lisa. Thank you for being so strong, inspirational and for all the uplifting thoughts.
I just had to pause video in confusion that you have 33 year old children??? you look this same age
She probably had them young. My mum had me at 22 and she is 43 now she still looks young.
Yes if you do the maths she must’ve been 17 ? When she had her son
Kathy A shes 50 she looks amazing
Irena K. Wow you sound so toxic and if you’re going to bash somebody at least learn to spell properly
@@annabelle.2398 And yet here you are.....
I'm 31 years young and I absolutely love your RUclips channel! You are goals and I look forward to aging in style and with a positive mindset just like you! Thank you for all of your advice on how to heal and let go of a past relationship. ❤
Wow your hair looks amazing!😍
I absolutely agree with you, that everything happens for a reason and That is also why I'm so proud of you because you are so strong you stood still and never give up even if you've been divorced two times now. It's really hard to think how struggles you've been through. God will bless you always and don't lose hope and have faith always.
I dealt with my divorce by feeling the intense pain and looking for hapiness in everything at the same time
I agree. People come into your life for a reason, a season or for life. I’m glad you are strong enough to carry on after being blindsided.
I literally can’t believe it’s been a year!!
Kimmie Kins hi Lisa I have been following you in a few dasys and I before this video I saw u had grey hair it’s like night and day! I really admire you for moving on from the divorce and been such a postive strong Woman through the divorce and all. Keep up the upbeat and strong woman that you become, I applaud you !!! You really are a beautiful woman inside and. Out!
I love the fact that you can be open and honest about that. Divorce sucks but you kicked ass through this painful experience. You look amazing and I’m loving this hair color on you!
I too believe everything in life happens for a reason👍 so glad your doing much better now😊❤️
Hugs🤗 Texas Lady
I am sorry for your pain, but the nuggets of wisdom you share are truly beautiful. Thank you and namaste
You have a wonderful attitude on life. God bless.
Over a year old but I hope that Dominic from Poland goes to the doctor immediately when you are having suicidal thoughts that means you’re suffering from a disease called depression no one should have suicidal thoughts if you do there’s treatment for the disease of depression, I’ve had two family members suffer friend and friends that I’ve had the same disease so I hope she’s listening and I hope she knows to go immediately even this is over a year old to get the help she needs. 🙏🏻
OMG! YOU'RE GORGEOUS....LOVE YOUR HAIR COLOR AND LOOKS GREAT ON YOU😘💖
No contact and not caring is so right. Focus on you! I agree with everything you are saying. Keep up the good work...
You are truly beautiful inside and out. A great inspiration ❤️ thank you for sharing !
Truly cannot believe it has been a year! I was already in the process of healing when you were just starting your journey. It looks like we are both in a much better place! 💚
You are one smart lady!! (Except trusting in Joel Osteen ... He's a fraud; A "pretender" preying on individuals' vulnerabilities for money when all is revealed about his "doings" behind the facade!) That aside ... You are blessed and meant to walk through life helping and uplifting the spirits of others, as you do such for yourself naturally on the path of life! God bless and take care! Really enjoy your channel!
Beware!!! Joel Osteen is a fraud.
I definitely don’t trust Joel Osteen. No pastor should be making the kind of income that he does.
She's a new anger though
Agreed! I used to love his message but he is a shameful fraud.
When I didn't have a church to go to I listened to Joel Olsteen on the radio. After a while I started to feel unsettled and creeped out and a lot of negative stuff started happening in my life. I don't think this man is a Christian at all. He's a blab it and grab it properity preacher. He has no humility. And he has a creepy Spirit on him.
I am not a psychologist but it sounds like he has borderline personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder.. people who suffer from these mental illnesses tend to discard people, and one day just flip up on you for no apparent reason.
They have a “black or white” type of mindset and when their mind is set up on something they tend to not see the other side of the story.
I’m glad you’re out of that relationship.
Btw - I am so inspired by your mature mindset and the way you’ve handled this entire situation. I am only 23 but I’ve been through a very bad breakup with someone who I believe has bpd. I thought he was my soulmate and one day he completely switched on me and left with no explanations. I completely fell apart and lost hope, I’m still heartbroken over it although its already been a year. But seeing how well you’re handling your divorce really gives me hope. You’re very wise, thank you.
Can you do more positive videos, please? Can you teach us how to train our brains to be positive? The way you see life is beautiful and I really need to think that way. I have terrible anxiety and I’m sick of it controlling my life.
Yes I will do that! Hang in there ❤️ Sending love and strength 💕💕💕
Beauty101byLisa thank you so much 💕💕
Hey Liz. I have the same anxiety issues if you'd like to chat.
LISA, I recently turned 20 but your my hero!! I hope I grow up to be as smart, gorgeous healthy, fulfilled and strong as you!
Love the hair color..it's very becoming to your skin tone..You look more relaxed and seem to be more at peace.
and very grounded, I admire your strength..I wish you all the Best of happiness in the Future.
Skin tone, exactly! I have nothing against gray hair but I always thought that her skin is so warm and lively that gray hair wasn't the best match. My own gray skin tone would match gray hair much better 😂 Also, Lisa's face and body and skin look like those of a 20-year-old so gray hair on top of it looks like it's, well, fake!
Sari V I agree with you..I always thought sh carries grey well but it 'didn't fit' with her complexion.
I started going grey when I was 26 and started to go with it..however so many people said I looked washed out and my face was too young..so I started using hair dye. Now that I'm older I see a difference in my 'skin tone' and Now dark hair looks fake on me and too harsh. So now I'm using a softer color with lots of highlights that looks more natural..
@@JustMe-vo9bqGood point. Natural doesn't always LOOK natural. 😊
omg if you only knew how much you helped others like myself, yeah you showed it was painful and something hard to go thru, but regardless we got to stay strong and remember life goes on, and we need to learn to love ourselves first and to stop being so dependent on someone's else's perception or approval! Ur such a blessing and so beautiful inside and out any man would be so lucky to have you but I'm sure Prince Charming will come at its own time! Regardless keep shining doll ❤️
You should remarry.. Any handsome young man is ready for you.. I'm also one of them... Love u baby😗😘😍
This is your best hair color in my opinion because your hair looks shiny or glossy and super healthy!!!! Love it
my daughter said you look like jennifer lopez also especially when your hait is lighter
I clicked on your skin care over 50+ because I couldn't believe how amazing you look, I want to know your skincare. I started clicking on your videos, this particular video WOW your strength and the way you answer the questions and the outlook of life is truly amazing! I was in a similar relationship at 1st then he was a full blown narcissist. Glad I walked away. I also started listening Joel Osteen and read Law of Attraction and helped. You look amazing 👍💕
Sorry Lisa for what happened. You are strong and beautiful. He is one weird and immature man, thats for sure :/
Thank you Lisa for all your openess, I've been through so many rough times in my life and then after all the pain and heartache and starting to feel a bit better I lost my dear beloved father 2 years ago due to a neglecting caretaker at a revalidationcentre (he was there for 3 weeks with a hernia and got very sick during that last night, developped a pneumonia that was fatal), I was/am devestated in a lawsuit now and so sad. I discovered your channel last year and you inspired me to keep going. This video helped me again with all the wise lessons you gave us here again. Thank you for being you Lisa!
Thank you so much Deborah. I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad. Sending love and healing ❤️❤️❤️
Thank You Lisa for your warm response. Sending you love in return.
Lisa, please consider becoming a life coach/grief counselor. I think you would be awesome at helping people get through tough situations!
Ugh sorry one more thing....could you tell me what hair color brand/number your hair is? I would love to have your hair color lol
I cannot agree more!
You look and seem 20 years younger - loved your gray hair but love your softer make up and you look amazing! I am 3 years past divorce it was a roller coaster 17 years turns out it was the best thing that has ever happened to me!
I am so sorry about what happened to you. You were so beautiful with your gray hair.
Hey Lisa. Your encouraging message is a blessing to many people struggling during and after a relationship fractures. I know your heart aches about your hair. I've been there myself. Seems like there are a lot of women who don't get the fact that once it's grey, it's grey. Putting color on is futile. Color on Monday, roots shining through on Wednesday or Thursday for certain. Did it for decades myself. Mine is 80% white now and fine like baby hair, but thankfully abundant. My new hair goal is Farah Fawcett big, luxurious, sparkling in the sunshine hair. Lisa, you make yourself happy with whatever you decide about it. 👵🏻 💙
to that first ? my ex wanted to sleep with other girls. and then did in our bed with 2 girls. . .. I left him. My current husband and I have been married 16 years and we are actually happily ever after though for real!
honestly it didn't matter the WHY because I will never have the full truth. I know that his heart betrayed our marriage. My second husband is VERY loyal and wonderful but the truth is I will never check his phone, or social media or go over the top putting my exes crimes on my new good man. Galations 6:4-5 4Each one should test his own work. Then he will have reason to boast in himself alone, and not in someone else. 5For each one should carry his own load.
when I got divorced I let that relationship go and moved past it with even my thoughts. I am so thankful to have a loving, safe, strong marriage now with so much teamwork and FUN! I was content during my single life as well. I still loved my first when I divorced him too. It was confusing to end a marriage to someone I still LOVED but I realized just because you love them doesn't mean you are COMPATIBLE.
I love your outlook. My ex did the very same thing with me. Thank you for admitting that you still have your hard times but tell us how you get through them.
You look like 26 year young girl😘😗
VICKY LAL more like 36 she looks so good for her age
@@jewelonly1046 no way 36
VICKY LAL ok lol
Divorce looks beautiful on you!!!
I’m sorry for the pain, but agree wholeheartedly that this is all part of Gods plan in our life. It’s how we react to situations like this and you have handled this with the utmost integrity!! Your future looks bright!!
You look like Penelope Cruz with you hair like this ♡
I was thinking more Selma Hayek;)
🙄 no ones
I just love you. This is my new mantra: I trust in life good or bad
You look so young here....
I'm in a 3 yr. Divorce.
It's been torture...
I'm tramatized.
Sounds like He had a affair. Fell through and he tried to make it with you.
But then decided he was not into commitment within you.
I’m so sorry your hurting. Hang in there girl you got this ❤️❤️❤️
Grit your teeth and hang in Suzi I get where you're coming from; a long drawn out divorce can be so hurtful and traumatizing and affect your mind, body and spirit. Hope you get it sorted so you can move on 😊
@@suzihazlove4979 My ex husband had an affair too... the married woman dumped him then
he wanted me back ... but our marriage was destroyed and he hanged himself
your hair style and color are amazing， I just bought a iron flat last night, I WAS so happy, but in the morning he said to me that he wants to divorce with me ~ what a life and what the reasons he gave me is just like your ex... ... I just searched about divorce and cried with you on your last divorce video, and now I see you are so amazing ~👍🎉 I am not sure if I will divorce soon, but thank you for sharing your life with me ,with us... Thank you so much , thank you from Toronto
You look so beautiful. Love your hair color
I love what you say “ I trust Life” sooooooooo true . Thank you !!!
BTW: your hair looks amazing!!!!
The Universe knows!! God knows!! You have a great outlook on the situation!! Good for you!! You are amazing!!
It took me 6years.... now in retrospect I see that God removed him... that took a long time to see.....
Bobby bob hope you’re better , it takes time to heal
it's taken me so long to heal from a breakup. I didn't want to see that he was being removed from my life for a reason.... once I saw it though, it made me feel so much better.
love this old video! you’ve prob heard this before but i get the sense that one of the reasons he left was because he felt overshadowed and threatened by the force that you are and wasn’t strong/secure enough in himself to handle it - he felt the need to be with someone who made him feel admired and like “the man” again. same reason gwen stefani’s ex husband left her.
also you always look great of course but i will always be in the camp that thinks that this hair color looks hands down the best on you. it makes you look so fresh! and the cut too - i was surprised this is only two years old because you look a good 10 years younger with this style!