INFP Is The Best Type And Here's Why

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  • @Yes_this_is_my_cat
    @Yes_this_is_my_cat 2 года назад +3700

    I'm that person that cries at EVERYTHING
    Sad: cries
    Angry: cries
    Happy: cries
    Scared: cries
    Alone: probebly singing

    • @MagdaLenaS2312
      @MagdaLenaS2312 2 года назад +89

      SAME! I know it’s a cooling down mechanism, but it happens even if I’m not as heated up… I think it also turns up to cool down others (when they argue etc.)
      And I’m definitely singing/humming/whisteling a LOT when alone xD

    • @Hellofellowhuman212
      @Hellofellowhuman212 2 года назад +23

      Same here!!🤣🤣

    • @iccybear9932
      @iccybear9932 2 года назад +11

      Meeee toooo

    • @fishum4n
      @fishum4n 2 года назад +11

      me too! And its feels good when ı see people like me

    • @joanabritolagarto1160
      @joanabritolagarto1160 2 года назад +4

      Meee toooo

  • @slipskolt7300
    @slipskolt7300 2 года назад +765

    INFPs excel at 3 things
    1. Not doing the things they don't want to do.
    2. Not doing the things they want to do.
    3. vibin'

    • @whitneyrose9293
      @whitneyrose9293 11 месяцев назад +21

      😂
      Well said

    • @erinb9647
      @erinb9647 11 месяцев назад +8

      As an ENFP, I can also agree for myself as well. 😆😆😆

    • @whitneyrose9293
      @whitneyrose9293 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@erinb9647 Truer words have yet to be spoken 😂
      Right! 💯

    • @WAckyD0odles
      @WAckyD0odles 5 месяцев назад +3

      I feel so called out rn-

    • @nursejane6662
      @nursejane6662 4 месяца назад +4

      Nailed it, bruh.

  • @mt.4445
    @mt.4445 3 года назад +1486

    Infps are good listeners.
    Me: *Spacing out a lot*

    • @naya4050
      @naya4050 3 года назад +18

      Ikr

    • @ladysophia7469
      @ladysophia7469 3 года назад +9

      Same lol

    • @noagoossens7273
      @noagoossens7273 3 года назад +49

      For real hahaha especially when people talk about details I don’t need to know

    • @lukewiegand9001
      @lukewiegand9001 2 года назад +86

      I think what people mean when they say INFPs are good listeners is that they are good at giving the IMPRESSION that we're listening. We could be daydreaming or thinking about a previous convo or thinking about how screwed up this person's situation is, but we give off a vibe that tells people we're listening. I can't really explain it other than that, but that's what I've theorized

    • @naya4050
      @naya4050 2 года назад +6

      @@lukewiegand9001 this might be trueee

  • @mellooobruhhh9281
    @mellooobruhhh9281 Год назад +1663

    As an infp, my days be like…
    - wake up early but continue laying on the bed till I
    it’s late
    - shower while knowing that I’m late but still chill then just zone out
    - arrive in class and look outside the windows imagine i was a class topper, successful billionaire, famous actor, and etc instead of studying
    - leave the class as soon as the class ends. Listen to songs while I’m on the way back home then create a lot of fake scenarios which is related to the mood of the songs
    - Get back to my room and watch drama, series or movies then imagine I was that fictional character.
    - go to shower and create a story plot which is similar to the movie I just watched and put myself as the main character
    - go to bed and accidentally recognize some weird and embarrassing things I did many years ago

    • @Katielomax7
      @Katielomax7 Год назад +149

      This is the most accurate and relatable thing I’ve ever read

    • @StarlightMoss
      @StarlightMoss Год назад +79

      How dare you be and know everything that I am and want to be

    • @mendokusai5823
      @mendokusai5823 Год назад +47

      Accuracy level lmao. I wake up on time but always late for class and any plans bc I zone out or distracted by something

    • @no-bv9jn
      @no-bv9jn Год назад +19

      How do you know my day?

    • @nan.v
      @nan.v Год назад +11

      How do you know me! 😂

  • @z9elka
    @z9elka 3 года назад +9957

    I'm infp, but... I don't really read. I like the idea of books, but I'm way to easily distracted to read. I just start daydream or think about something else.

    • @susanivy3619
      @susanivy3619 3 года назад +329

      I was like that in school...but an home I'll read the back of a box of a soup can if I'm downstairs eating and can't find something to read. I ONLY read non-fiction tho...to me life is so much stranger than fiction and it's REAL. If you get a book you like you may not be as distracted...if I don't like the subject my mind will wonder too.

    • @benjaminfast5496
      @benjaminfast5496 3 года назад +244

      @@susanivy3619 That's so bizarre to me that you only read non-fiction. I am the complete opposite. Correction, I enjoy reading psychology books, like the MBTI or Enneagram. But I LOVE fiction. I already live in reality (to the extent that my mind allows me to be present in it) so when I read, I don't want more reality. I want a fantasy/dystopian world where my mind can find inspiration, characters go on a journey, and my imagination can take off. I mean, as a result I take quite a while to read a book because I do stop quite often to ponder my own thoughts.

    • @EmiliodaRocha
      @EmiliodaRocha 3 года назад +100

      I do audiobooks myself. I do get distracted when I listen, but I just rewind to what I last remember hearing. I listen to mostly biographies and fantasy/sci-fi.

    • @ducky_urban
      @ducky_urban 3 года назад +82

      If you are like me you might have to try comic books first. They have pretty images to look at and less words ;)

    • @aniaania1674
      @aniaania1674 3 года назад +13

      Same :/

  • @isabelernst1417
    @isabelernst1417 3 года назад +4435

    I'm a bad INFP... I don't read books. I daydream about being a person who reads books though.

    • @austincarney9275
      @austincarney9275 3 года назад +289

      i feel seen & validated

    • @juxt_aposition9935
      @juxt_aposition9935 3 года назад +194

      No such thing as a bad INFP

    • @renoni3885
      @renoni3885 3 года назад +77

      You are INFP

    • @Melyuntonin
      @Melyuntonin 3 года назад +123

      I only read fanfictions
      i mean hey hey- It's nice to see others writing creative things alright

    • @snail5742
      @snail5742 3 года назад +14

      exactly

  • @miing9426
    @miing9426 3 года назад +4735

    As an INFP, I could say that being a great listener is both a gift and a curse. It's a gift because you get to have a certain connection with other people but sometimes when you're tired and drained you still feel like you have to listen to other people.

    • @9upforall555
      @9upforall555 2 года назад +35

      I agree, same!

    • @scourneene
      @scourneene 2 года назад +21

      yep totally

    • @TheInnerSpark
      @TheInnerSpark 2 года назад +10

      Yep

    • @elisa4620
      @elisa4620 2 года назад +21

      As an INFJ I relate. I think all the NF probably (or maybe even most of the feelers) probably do. Let's start a club!

    • @yatharthmishra4189
      @yatharthmishra4189 2 года назад +2

      True 💯

  • @OmagashV3
    @OmagashV3 Год назад +788

    I have just learned that I'm an INFP and when he said "INFPs retake MBTI test" I have laughed so much, because I did it 5 times in row just to be sure :D

    • @shivamtiwari1547
      @shivamtiwari1547 Год назад +11

      Same here

    • @denisederoba8719
      @denisederoba8719 Год назад +2

      Yep😊

    • @SanamJanamian
      @SanamJanamian Год назад +23

      I just wrote a similar comment🤣🤣 I don’t even know how many times I retook the test in different t websites, searched, read and tried to change my answer so maybe it changes to some other type 😂 it never changed

    • @sebastianmichael5819
      @sebastianmichael5819 Год назад +15

      Same but Im still tryna understand mine, I did it a few years ago and got ISFP, after that I got INFJ, and now INFP.
      Problem is, I relate to all of them to some degree

    • @reneets5729
      @reneets5729 Год назад +1

      I was asked yesterday what my type was and I took it again just to make sure. I don’t know how many times I’ve taken it anymore

  • @MissSpiderRider
    @MissSpiderRider 3 года назад +2156

    "There's a problem and they'll just ignore it" - I felt that

    • @acccmtdao6377
      @acccmtdao6377 2 года назад +16

      Lol 😩

    • @hallierosemusic
      @hallierosemusic 2 года назад +22

      Decided to read the comments while watching and as I read this he said it and my brain was like 0_0 WHAT

    • @anica7438
      @anica7438 2 года назад +9

      stop exposing meeee- pls- T_T

    • @smolpeepee9756
      @smolpeepee9756 2 года назад +24

      Me brushing my teeth after breaking the entire sink with water leaking: ….huh *continues brushing teeth

    • @hieung6851
      @hieung6851 2 года назад +14

      *Procastination. Me all the time

  • @pinotnoir4234
    @pinotnoir4234 3 года назад +3041

    "INFPs don't move and they don't do stuff" Me who does not move, nor do stuff *surprised Pikachu face*

    • @Umeshukitsune
      @Umeshukitsune 3 года назад +42

      There's so much in our heads!

    • @Izabela-ek5nh
      @Izabela-ek5nh 3 года назад +70

      I always feel too busy inside to act also outside. I tried, but it was kinda boring...

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth 3 года назад +48

      I'm planning on doing stuff. I'll get around to it all at once... Eventually. Gotta run it through in my head a few times first.

    • @eleanorrigby5618
      @eleanorrigby5618 3 года назад +31

      @@Izabela-ek5nh This is so insanely accurate. Like you want to live a life but the made up life in your head is more interesting

    • @Izabela-ek5nh
      @Izabela-ek5nh 3 года назад +15

      @@eleanorrigby5618 haha my best friend said I don't really have need for normal life if I have such amazing movie-like dreams every night... he has no dreams so need to be active in this dull place called reality 😂

  • @pink_n_squishy973
    @pink_n_squishy973 3 года назад +2832

    Im an INFP but I also have ADHD, so listening to someone often turns into to staring at a person while daydreaming about a pterodactyl named Lamar.

    • @BenjaminSpicy
      @BenjaminSpicy  3 года назад +381

      Lamar seems like a cool pterodactyl

    • @pink_n_squishy973
      @pink_n_squishy973 3 года назад +26

      @Irkalla here you go ruclips.net/video/YhOadP3i3a8/видео.html

    • @Umeshukitsune
      @Umeshukitsune 3 года назад +103

      Me too! I don't think I could possibly feel anymore than I do. ADHD and INFP traits overlap, wonder if I'd be an INFP without the ADHD.

    • @pink_n_squishy973
      @pink_n_squishy973 3 года назад +57

      @@Umeshukitsune I also wonder what I would be like without ADHD. I’d like to try medication to see, but to be honest the thought of being someone else scares me a little.

    • @_whooopty_
      @_whooopty_ 3 года назад +5

      I feel you cause same hahaha

  • @truenemesisprime550
    @truenemesisprime550 Год назад +324

    Actually as an INFP I would say yes I like to avoid conflict when it is not necessary but if you go as far as to push me or throw me, you've crossed a line and we have a problem where I release all my pent up anger with you as the focal point, but then feel bad about it afterwards when the anger subsides.

    • @13plus3plus1
      @13plus3plus1 11 месяцев назад +31

      And it subsides really quickly also. I don't have the energy for long periods of anger.

    • @Bascombe25
      @Bascombe25 8 месяцев назад +11

      Unless you do something to offend my values or say something I am highly opposed to. Then you're dead to me. No argument mind you, I'm just gone!

    • @alegna208
      @alegna208 8 месяцев назад +1

      💯

    • @ditto4003
      @ditto4003 8 месяцев назад +2

      same here but only with siblings if they r outside of my family I'll be the one apologizing.

    • @rubededcii2395
      @rubededcii2395 7 месяцев назад +2

      knowing exactly the moment you can be mad is such an INFP thing

  • @leigoldalagnason2291
    @leigoldalagnason2291 3 года назад +1264

    I'm an INFP-T, and I am the best at ghosting, then suddenly coming back like nothing happened...

    • @River132
      @River132 3 года назад +81

      Same and if their like "why did you awnser my calls or texts?, "Oh you texted me!? I've been so busy sorry :("

    • @rubysparkles5789
      @rubysparkles5789 3 года назад +83

      Omg I literally would text my friend and minute later they'll answer me and I'll answer them 2 weeks later

    • @etta5242
      @etta5242 3 года назад +8

      my personality test said that I'm a INFP-T what does that supposed to mean, even I don't know me.

    • @lexl4ch
      @lexl4ch 3 года назад +23

      I would ghost for like 11hrs then comeback and tell i was taking a bath 🤡
      - an infp-t

    • @evaaaxsheep
      @evaaaxsheep 3 года назад +4

      LMAO SAME!

  • @user-xp9yt4hw7j
    @user-xp9yt4hw7j 3 года назад +761

    😭bro that "ultimate creator of fake scenarios" IS TRUE

    • @Orchidlettux
      @Orchidlettux 3 года назад +12

      So true, just before I watched this video I was daydreaming about the boyfriend I never had lmao

    • @Harutoace_
      @Harutoace_ 3 года назад +5

      I was dreaming about my future hubby which I don't have at all lmao I am single 😂😂😭

    • @anon6187
      @anon6187 3 года назад +2

      xD

    • @luanarcey6573
      @luanarcey6573 2 года назад +1

      EXACTLYYYY

    • @vardets1032
      @vardets1032 2 года назад +2

      yeah i sometimes forget that its fake

  • @fishtacosalad9552
    @fishtacosalad9552 2 года назад +1723

    As an INFP, i feel honored for someone to understand us

    • @Nella_nova
      @Nella_nova 2 года назад +38

      Yea like the hobbies thing is so true. Karate. Art. Violin. Reading. Singing. Ballet. Drawing. Putting together a whole ass outfit I will never where. Making books that I will never write. So true.

    • @juto8052
      @juto8052 2 года назад +5

      @@Nella_nova summarized my life 😂😢

    • @Featheryfaith7
      @Featheryfaith7 2 года назад

      Yes.

    • @アイドル乙女
      @アイドル乙女 2 года назад +1

      Omg same^^

    • @Tempahh
      @Tempahh 2 года назад +3

      @@Nella_nova naaah i felt the writing books ill never write

  • @r.maciel2544
    @r.maciel2544 Год назад +234

    As I have aged, I have learned not to let others walk all over me and I refuse to be thrown under the bus. I've also learned to get my word in during conversations. My instinct is still directed at shying away, but I have learned to overcome that and be a person that doesn't take shit from people.

    • @bignasty4874
      @bignasty4874 Год назад +20

      Absolutely! I WAS a very timid person. To the point of cowardice a couple of times. That felt so shitty, that I decided an ass-kickin' can't possibly feel so bad, so I did some hard introspection. I decided what was important to me and worth fighting for, and set up clear boundaries. I am now much more assertive and confident in who I am.

    • @wendyowen1925
      @wendyowen1925 Год назад +9

      Yeah, that was the only thing that felt maybe... not so accurate. Or maybe it's just because I turned 60 last month & refuse to take crap from anyone anymore. Hah ;)

    • @ikea_bear1791
      @ikea_bear1791 Год назад +15

      Same!! I went through a really rough patch because I didn’t set my boundaries more firmly, but now I learnt my lesson and I’m definitely more assertive and aiming to be more confident with the way I carry myself

    • @ivankovwink1311
      @ivankovwink1311 Год назад +4

      One of my biggest goals in life is to be able to stand up for myself and not take shıt from everyone. Hopefuly one day…

    • @Mochi-re8cv
      @Mochi-re8cv Год назад +3

      ⁠omgggg guysss y’all also where doormatsssss and ppl pleasers at some timeee ? Omg now I love y’all even moreeeeeeee🌺✨

  • @moonlightsonata1369
    @moonlightsonata1369 2 года назад +1042

    "They broke a record in retaking MBTI test " i feel exposed!!

    • @zephyrsprout
      @zephyrsprout 2 года назад +84

      Honestly I only took it once and I have been to scared to retake it because I dont want to have to deal with the chances of me not being an INFP anymore.

    • @StarrySkies
      @StarrySkies 2 года назад +13

      @@zephyrsprout thisss

    • @floralstorms
      @floralstorms Год назад +12

      @@zephyrsprout same but then took it later while wondering

    • @aadi9764
      @aadi9764 Год назад +4

      Nah I think the INTPs have us beat here.

    • @sssundae_berries
      @sssundae_berries Год назад +8

      @@zephyrsprout I’ve taken it like 5 times and every time it is the same

  • @infiniteonion2135
    @infiniteonion2135 3 года назад +4110

    As an INFP, I really appreciate this video; it's both entertaining and validating, the "best" at being sad..funny in its truth..if only THAT were a marketable skill...

    • @cam9759
      @cam9759 3 года назад +83

      Its almost like a calming sensation after the sadness that I like the most. Kinda like comparing it to a rainy day. Everything is dark and wet yet also calm and beautiful.

    • @carly9355
      @carly9355 3 года назад +13

      @@cam9759 that’s a good way of putting it.

    • @Umeshukitsune
      @Umeshukitsune 3 года назад +10

      Joji the singer is rich from being sad. Unsure if he's an INFP.

    • @infiniteonion2135
      @infiniteonion2135 3 года назад +8

      @@Umeshukitsune Yes, there's definitely money/career to be had if you can channel that gloomy, brooding melancholy just right; Morrissey and Robert Smith come to mind.

    • @infiniteonion2135
      @infiniteonion2135 3 года назад +26

      @@carly9355 Yet another thing INFPs are good at - metaphors...
      I find I just naturally use a lot of metaphors/analogies when I speak, maybe this is common amongst INFPs?

  • @yayalu8650
    @yayalu8650 2 года назад +654

    “They are really good at feeling sad” hilariously spot on

    • @thatswhatisaid8908
      @thatswhatisaid8908 Год назад +26

      Aren't we though? We love to be tragically misunderstood.

    • @Ballref
      @Ballref Год назад +2

      @@thatswhatisaid8908 😭😭😭you are not telling a lie

    • @tynettabrowning7152
      @tynettabrowning7152 Год назад +5

      @@thatswhatisaid8908 but the truth is we actually can absorb others emotions and energies, so yeah… being sad comes from the awareness that people may not have the same heart or values as us, and the love and caring at a deep level we give to others is misunderstood and not reciprocated ❤

    • @wayneisname4544
      @wayneisname4544 Год назад +1

      Sad infp noises :(

    • @LolaLoopsAndStitches
      @LolaLoopsAndStitches Год назад

      😂😂😂 Sad but is the truth!

  • @james240878
    @james240878 Год назад +136

    The bit about ghosting really got me, “if you have an INFP friend you might….might…not have them….anymore”. It’s so true 😂 it is the best proven way to escape other humans

  • @adilbek.ermekov
    @adilbek.ermekov 3 года назад +1196

    Shout out to all the INFPs out there
    U are truly the best!!!✨✨✨✨✨
    - INFJ

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth 3 года назад +55

      Nu, you're the best. Because you are open to other humans, and you don't act like a statue all the time.

    • @adilbek.ermekov
      @adilbek.ermekov 3 года назад +37

      @@CaveyMoth actually i act like a statue 🗿 especially with my INFJ stare. But when someone starts to genuinely talk with me i become a living statue, lol

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth 3 года назад +6

      @@adilbek.ermekov In most situations, I'm a statue. But in other situations, I'm a maniac bouncing off the walls. Gotta watch out for me.

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 года назад +5

      Aww thank you it’s the first time some one said that😂thanks💜

    • @cozyghostling8181
      @cozyghostling8181 3 года назад +4

      Thanks

  • @RenzoRivera
    @RenzoRivera 3 года назад +1350

    Why is the ghosting part so ridiculously true?? I'm laughing but I'm not proud and I'm glad I'm not alone holy shit

    • @briarroseO
      @briarroseO 3 года назад +128

      Agreed! It’s a big problem for me, I have to push myself to call people and barely manage to maintain contact. It helped me to recognise that part of the problem is the ‘boring’ factor - we are having too good a time on our own already! We have to actively make time to stay in contact with the ones that do matter to us. It gets easier as you get older if you work on it.

    • @samuelpardo1430
      @samuelpardo1430 3 года назад +26

      I mean like, I'm always ghosted, as an INFP, that just made me lose my faith and then disappeared

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth 3 года назад +36

      I ghost everyone so hard. But it doesn't help that I tend to offend people whenever I open my mouth.

    • @holographiq6299
      @holographiq6299 3 года назад +25

      I’m so glad I’m not alone. I feel horrible about it man

    • @hilaryray6810
      @hilaryray6810 3 года назад +11

      I’ve ghosted 2 people in 2 weeks😂

  • @loveahulic
    @loveahulic 3 года назад +832

    As an INFP, I am screaming with laughter 😂😂😂 I feel called out and complimented at the same time.

  • @betielart
    @betielart Год назад +166

    „They would rather be kind than smart“ sums up my life pretty much. Just because Im silent, doesnt mean that I agree or that I dont know anything. I just dont want a fight, I would rather keep my friendship than having a discussion that makes everyone uncomfortable

    • @frieschan1075
      @frieschan1075 Год назад +6

      This!

    • @Ustazgay
      @Ustazgay Год назад +11

      Also in general people aren't very open to being corrected. However if it's obvious you can take criticism, I will tell you. But of cours as INFP I'll say it nicely because being an asshole even when I'm right doesn't help anyone 😅

    • @Mochi-re8cv
      @Mochi-re8cv Год назад +3

      EXACTLY

  • @liana3886
    @liana3886 3 года назад +710

    I feel so weirdly called out, as I truly have 100 hobbies, but I only do them in my head. But hey, lately I’ve been going to therapy to learn how to not let other people step on me, and I’m getting actually motivated to do the thing called “living in reality”. If every INFP got motivated, we would actually rule the world.

    • @coocooformycocoapuffs3235
      @coocooformycocoapuffs3235 3 года назад +12

      dont worry I'm the same😂

    • @ashamaritzardellavista1994
      @ashamaritzardellavista1994 2 года назад +12

      How you learn?? I wanna know how learn to not let other people stem on us? Any tips?

    • @liana3886
      @liana3886 2 года назад +58

      @@ashamaritzardellavista1994 First of all, stop apologizing for everything. There are things that are our fault, but also things that happened that we couldn’t control. If something happens think for a bit before saying “I’m sorry”, because many times it’s not our fault. Is it raining outside? Are you not feeling well? Is there a traffic accident and you can’t make it on time? Don’t say “sorry” just inform the person / people about the situation, there’s nothing to apologize for.
      You want to say something but you are scared they will hate you for it so you stay quiet? I’m still learning to do it, but speaking out when you want to / have an opinion to share is very important. Don’t be scared to talk, everything can be communicated, but if things are left unsaid then it’s only you who will leave with sour taste in your mouth, not the other party. That goes for every situation, work included. Are you feeling super tired and ready to pass out? Ask for break, it’s just that simple.
      And finally stop thinking that you are a bother to somebody - you are not. By asking a question / requesting something you are not bothering people, you are communicating your needs, and that’s okay.
      Lastly, you have to become your no. 1 fan. If you are not rooting for yourself, then who will? Don’t beat yourself up (out loud or in you mind), instead start praising yourself. “Good job Asha, you did well today Asha”. It’s not “you’re so stupid, why did you make so little progress” it’s “well done Asha, you did your daily progress, you did so well”.

    • @ashamaritzardellavista1994
      @ashamaritzardellavista1994 2 года назад +11

      @@liana3886 thanks you thats helping me alot! I didn't expect you will call my name for example but it's actually work anyway 😭😭

    • @feriel6371
      @feriel6371 2 года назад +1

      @@liana3886 thank you !

  • @Igami_No_Io
    @Igami_No_Io Год назад +1640

    When he said "having so much hobbies but won't do it at the end." Just made me face plant because I feel that one.
    Edit: Holy crud what- 1.2k likes!? When did this happen??

    • @JeffSans
      @JeffSans Год назад +5

      hello its me

    • @Igami_No_Io
      @Igami_No_Io Год назад +2

      @@JeffSans I was wondering if after all these years you'd like to meet

    • @Edw590
      @Edw590 Год назад +4

      Hmm I seem to actually do, and prefer to go do one of my hobbies (have various and no time 😃) instead of daydreaming (though I still love daydreaming). Hope you all nonsenses start doing stuff! XD (joking ahah. but go do something! it's AMAZING after we begin. then can't let go of it and want to do more)

    • @wayneisname4544
      @wayneisname4544 Год назад +4

      There's so many projects I want to do but I always end up saying eh, maybe next weekend

    • @dorothybrown1268
      @dorothybrown1268 Год назад +4

      This is soo true and it hurts so bad but it made me stomach laugh 😂😭
      I came here to get mojo to do one of the billion hobbies I have in mind .
      It's quite hilarious and I don't know why but this guy's voice over... So funny. Quite adorable 😄

  • @awin.a.mahmood4817
    @awin.a.mahmood4817 Год назад +102

    I've never felt so roasted yet so flattered at the same time 😂 THANK YOU!

    • @kenneth3753
      @kenneth3753 11 месяцев назад +3

      I know right. I want to forward this to my wife but she'll just roll her eyes and say yeah right. She likes to roast me with my.... Let's say mannerisms.

  • @shasings
    @shasings 2 года назад +283

    this dude HAS to be an INFP, with how INSANELY accurate this is. feels like he knows me personally, it's scary.

    • @aungmin5475
      @aungmin5475 Год назад +2

      ikr he make me feel like i am made of glass

  • @闇の世界-n9n
    @闇の世界-n9n 3 года назад +469

    As INFP, I can 100% agree, but I have never heard someone talk about my features with such RESPECT, peopel call me crybaby or slowpoke and I always wanted to be someone else. Thank you 🤗

    • @naya4050
      @naya4050 3 года назад +5

      Same lol except the listening part

    • @taiyoko-san2069
      @taiyoko-san2069 2 года назад +3

      This literally made me so happy that I wasn’t even sad😂

  • @ultimateboss2005
    @ultimateboss2005 2 года назад +1400

    As an INFP, reading comments when others say "As an INFP I do this...that...I feel like this...that.." and when I relate to them...
    I don't know
    I just
    Don't know
    I have found my people.
    I LOVE YOU ALL INFP MATES. THANKS FOR EXISTING AND NOT LETTING ME BE ALONE 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    *Edit* : my heart when INFP mates reply to this comment -> 💓

    • @lavaluke6817
      @lavaluke6817 Год назад +34

      Im sorry if you felt alone beforehand.

    • @ultimateboss2005
      @ultimateboss2005 Год назад +26

      @@lavaluke6817 haha well, I still do but I'm used to it. But thanks for the reply though, it makes me feel...noticed? (sorry I'm weird lol)

    • @azizulfikri8392
      @azizulfikri8392 Год назад +22

      @@ultimateboss2005 Well they are rare so it's always nice to see another kindred soul

    • @ultimateboss2005
      @ultimateboss2005 Год назад +14

      @@azizulfikri8392 ohh are you INFP as well? btw, i think every personality type tries to be kind in their own way....but since you think INFPs are kind, well, thank you hehe

    • @TheTrueKingJ
      @TheTrueKingJ Год назад +7

      Im an INFP!

  • @william_long1065
    @william_long1065 Год назад +88

    Every single thing hit me so hard. I feel called out but also so seen at the same time.
    I feel like INFPs taking the test over and over to see if their personality has changed is like taking a test to see if you're gay. If you feel the need to take it, you already know the answer. Bless you, my INFP brethren.

    • @theatrerimbaud3672
      @theatrerimbaud3672 Год назад +6

      Lmao your comment just made me feel the same way as a queer INFP who keeps taking both tests. 💀

    • @TheHornedDiva
      @TheHornedDiva 8 месяцев назад

      Rotf

  • @shadowvlk3861
    @shadowvlk3861 3 года назад +819

    I am an modern INFP. I don't read books I read long youtube comments...
    (cause I don't have books..)
    hehe..
    I like this video, because it made me smile, so thank you

    • @titanking5956
      @titanking5956 3 года назад +13

      That pfp though 😳

    • @chilliii8800
      @chilliii8800 3 года назад +19

      i don't have to have books to read them, just read them on the internet

    • @polynomy8511
      @polynomy8511 3 года назад +12

      Same
      I don't read that much of books cause I don't have one
      But I do like reading articles and wiki pages

    • @subhadramahanta452
      @subhadramahanta452 3 года назад

      Same hehe

    • @Gabs19067
      @Gabs19067 3 года назад +10

      I read wattpad stories 😔

  • @macmist
    @macmist 2 года назад +282

    "The loudest and most compassionate silence you have ever heard" - This alone made me laugh to tears

  • @olxxa4967
    @olxxa4967 2 года назад +590

    13:23
    "If you just want to relax and just have someone that will silently exist next to you to chill then INFPs are Just the best at that"
    I just felt it

  • @badpoetry33
    @badpoetry33 Год назад +110

    “Looking at your past, looking at your future, looking at yourself…. it’s just so sad.” 😂😢😂😢😂😢 you nailed it, Benjamin ♥️♥️♥️. yours are hands down my favorite INFP videos on the internet

    • @Angelwhatsername
      @Angelwhatsername Год назад +1

      Ikr I cackled at that one xD

    • @florencehenderson3707
      @florencehenderson3707 11 месяцев назад +1

      Same. That was so funny, then he just moved on....I think that's infp humor...

  • @anoNEMOs
    @anoNEMOs 2 года назад +642

    It's pretty hard for me to start reading, because I read one sentence, start imagining those things I read about, and associations bring me in completely different places. I read another sentence but I already forgot what the first one was about, so I read the two sentences again and it all starts again.
    But when I finally get into it, I read like 100 pages in one session.

    • @juminhan3375
      @juminhan3375 2 года назад +13

      Lmfao relatable

    • @user-vs7pe6ez4i
      @user-vs7pe6ez4i 2 года назад +4

      yep yep so true

    • @8bert9
      @8bert9 2 года назад +17

      Me too unless I am interested in what I am reading. If it is boring to me I drift off on the first page and when I come back to reality I have read 10 pages but have no idea what was on them..

    • @vousmavez
      @vousmavez 2 года назад +2

      Relatable lol🤣

    • @ar15u5
      @ar15u5 2 года назад +2

      omg isso true XD

  • @River132
    @River132 3 года назад +343

    "They dont like you they wont tell you. They'll just slowly fade awayyy," not wromg the people I like i stick around for tho.

    • @cringyhuman3210
      @cringyhuman3210 2 года назад +3

      But they will never notice you :) sorry

    • @electriccub4072
      @electriccub4072 2 года назад +2

      I’m extremely guilty of this

    • @lunibombom4551
      @lunibombom4551 2 года назад +8

      As an INFP this is true, I slowly fade away because it hurts to just cut the person off.

  • @maka4640
    @maka4640 2 года назад +651

    I feel called out haha. I just retook multiple personality tests because I was having INFP imposter syndrome. I want to do all these things but instead of actually doing them I daydream about how cool it will be to do them, and make very in depth plans of how to do them, but never do them

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 2 года назад +37

      Yes. The best and worst things happen in our minds. 😂😭

    • @davidh6868
      @davidh6868 2 года назад +22

      its funny that INFP imposter syndrome is a thing. Like we're so insecure we're not even sure if we're emotionally sensitive or just "dramatic."

    • @fluffywheeler4205
      @fluffywheeler4205 2 года назад +1

      before the video started, I literally said to myself "should I watch the video first? Maybe I should take the personality test one more time to make sure." And here I am :)

    • @sosomam4049
      @sosomam4049 2 года назад +2

      @@davidh6868 Exactly. So insecure, we doubt the authenticity of our own emotions.

    • @K12829
      @K12829 2 года назад +1

      Same. I procrastinate a lot but not actually do what I plan to do, that's why I get scolded a lot

  • @arrypotter9472
    @arrypotter9472 Год назад +51

    As an INFP, I can accurately say that we often have many hobbies. I have so many hobbies because I don't hang out with people much and would rather spend my time doing things that help me express myself and that are fun. I play violin, piano, guitar, and ukulele, I sing, I crochet, make bath bombs and scrubs, I'm currently writing three books, I'm learning Spanish and Dutch, I make origami roses, I have a knack for interior design, I'm learning how to do digital art, I collect candles, I make diamond paintings, I am a huge space nerd and stargaze with my telescope all the time, I play volleyball a lot, I am learning how to paint portraits, and so much more. That's just off the top of my head. Sounds cool, however it can be frustrating because I never know what to do with myself. I could work anywhere and do just fine, but I don't know where I WANT to work. Also I have depression, anxiety, OCD, and ADHD and struggle a lot. So yeah there are benefits and downfalls to being an INFP, however it is who I am and I might as well be proud of it.

    • @PaprikaHotSauce
      @PaprikaHotSauce 9 месяцев назад +3

      Are you me? 😅❤

    • @laibaakhtar9905
      @laibaakhtar9905 8 месяцев назад +3

      I haven't found any comment this relatable 😅. I'm mbbs student, learning arabic, have downloaded Harvard CS 50 course to learn coding, have to learn research this year, freelance writer, have been painting and sketching in the vacations between my written and ospe exams, a little bit of singing, loves book reading and have read a lot of fiction, history related books, various social, political, psychological and economical articles, enjoy cleaning but only for myself not for others😂, love capturing nature, and of course I have also faced depression, ADHD, being super sensitive and a lot of other things

    • @howcomethisisnotavailable
      @howcomethisisnotavailable 7 месяцев назад +2

      I've always wondered if I'm like this because I'm INFP or because of my ADHD, do you have any idea?

    • @arrypotter9472
      @arrypotter9472 6 месяцев назад

      ​@howcomethisisnotavailable both? I'd say both. Or maybe you have infp tendencies BECAUSE you have ADHD. Either way, you're beautifully unique, and you deserve unconditional love, appreciation, and support for who you are.

  • @zombiehampster1397
    @zombiehampster1397 3 года назад +438

    Seriously though, that anger is real. i try to keep my pickle jar firmly sealed and only release it in the loneliness of my room. Sure it reeks of pickles, but pickled anger never smelled so good.

    • @macphlurry5592
      @macphlurry5592 3 года назад +10

      Holes in drywall are never fun tho

    • @Umeshukitsune
      @Umeshukitsune 3 года назад +17

      I have so much anger! INFPs avoid conflict but due to our strong moral compass, I've been challenging my lecturers when I feel oppression and microaggressions are perpetuated.

    • @lenula1
      @lenula1 3 года назад +6

      I even thing it is much better than lashing out to other people. Sure it might not be the best for myself, but I have not found other way of doing it. Also, what a world would it be, if every type liked to argue and be assertive.

    • @polynomy8511
      @polynomy8511 3 года назад +2

      Yeah I also do that
      But sometimes I can't keep it in and I just starts to answer rudely

    • @layedbackthomas
      @layedbackthomas 3 года назад +2

      I feel like I have the anger thing but it goes away pretty quickly.

  • @EDOGtv
    @EDOGtv 3 года назад +320

    The satire in this video was really good lol there were nuggets of truth mixed in and made it good.
    Also about the anger, if an INFP is comfortable enough around you… there will be rage shown. But yes, we will regret it afterwards. 🤣🤣

    • @purpletiger98
      @purpletiger98 2 года назад +9

      Most of the regret is cause I can cut deep and later feel horrible for it 😅

    • @edinam5464
      @edinam5464 2 года назад +1

      True that 🤷

    • @Rin_Chawngthu
      @Rin_Chawngthu 2 года назад

      My friends get awkward and scared if i show anger cause i never almost do. And the mood drops if it's at home

  • @inkamerikagirl2732
    @inkamerikagirl2732 Год назад +19

    As an INFP, I agree that i find beauty in sadness and I feel it very deeply. And when I say deeply, I mean DEEPLY.

  • @ShayleeOfficial
    @ShayleeOfficial 2 года назад +1037

    I was laughing out loud throughout this whole video. Omg, too relatable.

  • @mapl_xx6346
    @mapl_xx6346 3 года назад +220

    I’m an infp and tbh I have no words to describe how accurate this is 💀

  • @sweetsadsiren5569
    @sweetsadsiren5569 2 года назад +476

    I feel both attacked and validated at the same time
    Like I’m in this picture and I don’t know how to feel about it
    Multiple times I have screamed because this is way too accurate

  • @michalinaata5267
    @michalinaata5267 Год назад +51

    I was smiling and giggling through the whole video, as an INFP 😇 Thanks for that

  • @chronozormu457
    @chronozormu457 3 года назад +269

    I don't think that I have EVER watched a video about my personality type where I would've heard so many truths and legit things about myself lol I am so happy for this video, thank you!

  • @behappy2847
    @behappy2847 2 года назад +290

    I'm an infp, i love watching korean dramas and before sleeping I'll imagine myself as the main character🤡

    • @burningseaa795
      @burningseaa795 2 года назад +19

      One of my fav things to do

    • @UwU-lm9or
      @UwU-lm9or 2 года назад +7

      LMFAOO when I was kid watching kdramas especially since dramas during the time were old and stereotypical
      I liked to imagine myself as the main character EVEN WITH THE TRADITIONAL DRAMAS TOO 💀✋✨

    • @Jojo-mc7ku
      @Jojo-mc7ku 2 года назад +4

      Well hello self or should I say ahnyonghaseyo chingu

    • @Munchster798
      @Munchster798 2 года назад +1

      Sameee exept i watch C-dramas

    • @lonelydaisy6413
      @lonelydaisy6413 2 года назад +1

      Im watching people's life vlog and then "if i was.."

  • @airlynaces
    @airlynaces Год назад +407

    The first one about the sky is so relatable as an INFP. Didn’t know so many other INFPs did the same when they see a beautiful sky

    • @JeffSans
      @JeffSans Год назад +29

      i adore the skyyyyy

    • @En3rgyLee
      @En3rgyLee Год назад +20

      Lol it’s so true. When I have free time in staring at the sky. I literally make art works of sky when I’m in the mood to do stuff

    • @simplyz3964
      @simplyz3964 Год назад +24

      I literally almost cried while looking at the starry night sky like three days ago
      Does our personality type just long to return to space?

    • @lajirafa481
      @lajirafa481 Год назад +9

      So true. I’m on social media only posting sunset pics lol😂

    • @sunhythen
      @sunhythen Год назад +16

      We are probably from somewhere up there. We may return to our rightful home someday and be with our big universal family. This planet doesn't always feel like home.

  • @cathleyagarcia7627
    @cathleyagarcia7627 Год назад +28

    Can I just say this though? This would probably be the most hilarious video I have seen describing INFPs. Hahaha. Kudos to the narrator. His way of introducing ideas is very entertaining. I think it makes the viewers, especially INFPs, find humor in the reality of who they are and not take themselves too seriously which can be refreshing ❤ Tested as an INFP here.

  • @yaellevi5448
    @yaellevi5448 3 года назад +258

    I have a hearing problem as an infp and it's amazing. Here's why:
    I can just pretend I can't hear people whenever I want and I can just say that I couldn't hear them and then ignore everyone whenever I want.
    Fun.

    • @tabearebekka
      @tabearebekka 3 года назад +12

      lol same :D but to me It's so difficult to ask people again and again if u really didn't understand them because of ur hearing problems (because u don't want to annoy them), also mine isn't about the volume, more about tones so yea, but it's actually quite cool if u can use that as an excuse for not paying attention haha :D

    • @icantthink2853
      @icantthink2853 3 года назад +6

      That’s called selective hearing.

    • @yaellevi5448
      @yaellevi5448 3 года назад +7

      @Fire tears no that means I can ignore people and they can't be mad at me

    • @yaellevi5448
      @yaellevi5448 3 года назад +4

      @@icantthink2853 my ears have this problem where they make too much earwax

    • @yaellevi5448
      @yaellevi5448 3 года назад +2

      @Fire tears no I can just ignore them and mentally prepare myself to have a conversation with someone until they shout so I could hear them and I have an excuse to forget things that people told me.

  • @On4Eudaimonia
    @On4Eudaimonia 2 года назад +482

    I have an INFP best friend of 13 years. I LOVE INFPs. I repeat LOVE. I’m an ENFP and life is a constant adventure of imagination and creativity side by side. You INFPs also make me feel so free to be truly me, both my bright and dark sides.

    • @tabboud
      @tabboud 2 года назад +9

      we try :D

    • @suraya_
      @suraya_ 2 года назад +23

      as an infp, I love enfps. yall are my favorite type. you guys are so fun

    • @DarkSoulsZHL
      @DarkSoulsZHL 2 года назад +8

      I'm an INFP and my best friends are INFP, ENFP and ISTP.
      And yes, I love ENFP's too.

    • @RubitheRacoon
      @RubitheRacoon Год назад +2

      thats the plan 👍
      i hope you and your friend are doing well btw :)

    • @Angelwhatsername
      @Angelwhatsername Год назад +2

      I'm an infp and my best friend is an enfp, so I can attest we love you back! XD

  • @lumine7330
    @lumine7330 2 года назад +881

    As an infp, I appreciate your kind words. Most of the wisdom you speak is accurate. But there is just one thing, mortal...
    We never really talk to ourselves. We communicate with different societies in multiple galaxies and feed each other information. This is why we hide our intellect. If it were to get out, not only would all other types feel inferior, but they would learn the secrets of the universe.
    And you, yes you. Reading this. This mustn't get out into the world. If you have seen this, you are one of the few to have been given such responsibility to bare this secret. I hope I can count on you, human.

    • @me1.0
      @me1.0 2 года назад +55

      Nah I talk to myself too 😂

    • @linguisticsnerd433
      @linguisticsnerd433 2 года назад +43

      Yes see we're never truly alone, us INFPs

    • @lumine7330
      @lumine7330 2 года назад +5

      Lol

    • @confusedlemon9289
      @confusedlemon9289 2 года назад +33

      DONT TELL HIM HE MUSNT BECOME TOO POWERFUL

    • @lumine7330
      @lumine7330 2 года назад +21

      @@confusedlemon9289 Oh no... it seems that I have revealed our powers! I am so sorry, my friend....

  • @jyying22
    @jyying22 Год назад +46

    As an infp, i totally agree with the animals thing
    I was at my friends birthday party, and she had brought her bunny down. So, I spent the whole time looking at and petting the bunny. I was so worried that I would be considered rude because I'm paying more attention to the bunny than my friend;-;

    • @wendyowen1925
      @wendyowen1925 Год назад +4

      I've done the animal thing a buncha times. Another time I also was led by a little girl into her room cuz she wanted me to see her drawings, and we just hung out there the whole time drawing & dunking Oreos into orange juice. It was a great party.

  • @GachaINFP
    @GachaINFP 3 года назад +598

    this is the nicest thing I've ever heard- and everything is so true, especially the taking the MBTI test a bajillion times 😂
    tysm! I loved this so much 😂💗

    • @BenjaminSpicy
      @BenjaminSpicy  3 года назад +24

      I'm happy you liked it 😊

    • @subhadramahanta452
      @subhadramahanta452 3 года назад +3

      I gave one recently 😂

    • @disnat7197
      @disnat7197 3 года назад +10

      right, im making sure im an INFP lol

    • @aziyaimee8477
      @aziyaimee8477 3 года назад +1

      Hahahhaha! I laughed hard at this one. Urgh now everyone knows. It's supposed to be a secret

    • @marycinderellacasulla1790
      @marycinderellacasulla1790 2 года назад +1

      Relatable to taking the test many times.

  • @bluefeathers4756
    @bluefeathers4756 3 года назад +305

    I literally bursted out laughing when he said
    "Ultimate creators
    of fake scenarios"

  • @nektariosh3470
    @nektariosh3470 3 года назад +123

    I'm an INFP and I think I would rule the world quite well. Who's with me on this?

    • @anny1933
      @anny1933 3 года назад +8

      Looks like a hard think to do but I'm with you gl

    • @tmckmusic8584
      @tmckmusic8584 3 года назад +14

      True, with our values, it would be a different world.

    • @averagescentedman
      @averagescentedman 3 года назад +8

      I’m an infp but I disagree with u…Nothing would get done lmaoo

    • @bosslez
      @bosslez 3 года назад

      Yes!! Agreeable, every infp's should try dat,

    • @vannvirithek677
      @vannvirithek677 3 года назад +2

      @Elijah Kang i agree with you 100% for the procrastination thing 😂
      Our type is not made to rule, it would be the worst thing to do, maybe not for the world but to ourself. Ruling is like asking an INFP to stop being who we are, it like commiting spiritual suicide

  • @planetoii
    @planetoii Год назад +8

    INFP who has injured walls and accidentally broken 2 windows with my anger. Don't want to take it out on anyone but also don't want to leave it all inside killing me from the inside out. Let it out somehow.

  • @DivineOracularEssense
    @DivineOracularEssense 3 года назад +402

    crazy...not that i’m proud of it but i am the queeen of ghosting. interesting that i’m not the only infp who is. sometimes i wish i didn’t have a tendency to do that to my friends or potential friends, and to social media in general. (i am horrible with being regularly active on social media). it’s a good thing i’m not in the dating world

    • @luminyam6145
      @luminyam6145 3 года назад +21

      Ghosting is exactly my methodology. I can't deal with the demands of friendships, it is an onerous duty.

    • @Je-xl5my
      @Je-xl5my 3 года назад +15

      Yeah when I’m angry at someone I totally ignore them

    • @Niveous23
      @Niveous23 3 года назад +3

      i thought infj types were the kings/queens of ghosting. maybe ya'll are the silver medals of ghosting?

    • @luminyam6145
      @luminyam6145 3 года назад +9

      @@Niveous23 It's bad, I even ghost my own children. I didn't realize it until they gave me hell for not returning texts and phone calls.

    • @Niveous23
      @Niveous23 3 года назад +8

      @@luminyam6145 well damn, guess you get the gold medal? congrats..?

  • @abigailthalman1190
    @abigailthalman1190 2 года назад +147

    I like how you put in the fake day-dreaming in class thing but, as an INFP, I want to say something about it. Yes we do zone out & day-dream quite frequently in class but, unlike what you said in your story, we’ve learned to look like we are focused. So, that way we can day-dream without interruption.

  • @meysaya592
    @meysaya592 3 года назад +155

    I just loved the whole endless hobbies, then do nothing part, that was just, epic.

  • @haynb03
    @haynb03 Год назад +27

    I’m not even done with the video yet but I want to say thank you. I don’t need therapy anymore. This is the most entertaining and relatable content I’ve ever seen.

  • @AlPHAjOLE
    @AlPHAjOLE 2 года назад +595

    I have never felt more called out and validated at the same time.
    Thank you.

  • @radalenta
    @radalenta 3 года назад +136

    I never see the most accurate INFP's explanation like this one. This video explained me so damn well.

  • @amoldivo
    @amoldivo 3 года назад +222

    This is the weirdest video I've ever watched and finished and feels like it's pretty weirdly yet best made.... The jokes are literally for INFPs to understand lmao although the maker might not be INFP himself (maybe?) But it's been heck a good video describing INFP!

    • @acccmtdao6377
      @acccmtdao6377 2 года назад +5

      Not with the fashion sense!! INFP are supposed to have good sense of fashion but too tired to you know, care about puttimg them on

    • @katarinabozovic5601
      @katarinabozovic5601 2 года назад +3

      @@acccmtdao6377 Or too poor, in my case. But at least I can wear certain outfits in my head and look great there XD

    • @acccmtdao6377
      @acccmtdao6377 2 года назад +3

      @@katarinabozovic5601 ur case is mine as well xd

    • @kedskies
      @kedskies 2 года назад +1

      @@katarinabozovic5601 🥰

  • @PersonWhoAsked
    @PersonWhoAsked Год назад +13

    as an INFP, for me making up scenarios in my head can be used to the advantage, such as writing a book. it's a big help.

  • @xxyenxd2382
    @xxyenxd2382 2 года назад +156

    As an INFP who plays violin, piano, guitar, and drums, i feel called out.

    • @Nella_nova
      @Nella_nova 2 года назад +4

      Only play my violin. I have a keyboard and a ukulele which I don`t play cuz` I don`t have a teacher.

    • @tinaranathania
      @tinaranathania 2 года назад +5

      violin, piano, guitar, and flute here ahhahhaha
      Edit: ukulele too now HAHAHAHAHAH

    • @electricant55
      @electricant55 2 года назад +7

      Same. Of course I only play them in my head

    • @tabboud
      @tabboud 2 года назад +1

      used to play violin, congas, bells, and ukulele, currently play piano, drum set, guzheng (chinese instrument). o7

    • @flickr5721
      @flickr5721 2 года назад +1

      As an INFP who plays cello, guitar, piano, and ukulele, i feel validated by this comment

  • @ithseem
    @ithseem 3 года назад +157

    I, an INTJ, have almost always harboured a fascination toward INFPs for all the reasons above. I know one in real life and have been friends with her for years. She's had some problems with confidence, but it has gotten better now. She's also super philanthropic and I can see her changing the world (or at the very least, someone's world) for the better

  • @andhereismyspout
    @andhereismyspout 3 года назад +287

    I was screaming over this video. It's the funniest, coolest thing I've watched on yt for a while, I reckon. These points are SO ridiculously relatable, and the way they're presented in exaggerated, humourous form is EXCELLENT! I want to show this video to everyone I know now lol but I know only INFPs will truly 'get' it. I don't know how the heck you knew that I retake the MBTI quiz way more than needed though! That one shocked me. XD

    • @anon6187
      @anon6187 3 года назад +9

      Just retake it, just to make sure xD

    • @venkatraypai5229
      @venkatraypai5229 2 года назад +6

      I feel the same . I am laughing at the vedio for how much relatable it is oh God and at same time I want to show this vedio to everybody, that happy I am.:)

    • @rachelclare8795
      @rachelclare8795 2 года назад +1

      INFP here-Loved This! Wow! It’s so funny how details are characteristic, I always have something to improve on - that was given as a characteristic somewhere-possibly another character type, so I’m still going to try and go to bed earlier…etc.

  • @ree2546
    @ree2546 Год назад +22

    As an infp who's sad af right now because I have no friends but am too anxious and don't know how to socialize, 8:10 hits different

    • @Gacha_june
      @Gacha_june Год назад

      same with me

    • @aistieramusic
      @aistieramusic Год назад

      Same here. ❤

    • @sky_if721
      @sky_if721 7 месяцев назад +2

      Same. And sometimes my thoughts repeat the embarrassing moments from socialising.

  • @ForestG
    @ForestG 2 года назад +384

    I never thought I could feel so hurt, hopeless, flattered, and superior (while questioning any right I have to feel better than anyone else) at the same time. You, sir, have cracked the code. INFPs, if they could actually lift a finger, would be a true force to reckon with. However, we conserve our energy for when the time comes. Then, as if out of nowhere, we strike in the night with all our might and achieve victory at any cost. Don't f*ck with our values or we will lift our a*ses off the couch and transform into our true alien form to convey our sharp intellect, vivid ideals, and plan for Earth while we inhabit this planet. We need to get back to nature. Thanks for reading whatever this was.

    • @tabboud
      @tabboud 2 года назад +16

      straight fax (as a fellow infp)

    • @ForestG
      @ForestG 2 года назад +3

      @@annawidlarz7967 I'm glad 😃

    • @ForestG
      @ForestG 2 года назад +5

      @@tabboud Indeed 👌 It's a blessing and a curse, but I'm working on overturning the curse.

    • @haven-of-bliss
      @haven-of-bliss Год назад +4

      Seriously. Yes. Don't tread on my values. 😠♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @OfficeDuck-
      @OfficeDuck- Год назад +6

      Omg this comment- i really couldn’t help but laugh even though it is almost 2am

  • @alt-uc6tn
    @alt-uc6tn 3 года назад +135

    I thought everyone loves the sky. I do love it so much though more than an avwrage individual I guess, and I didn't know it's common to infps which is also my mbti lol

  • @villinaudasi5418
    @villinaudasi5418 3 года назад +114

    OMG! THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO DESCRIBING INFPS EVER!!!

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth 3 года назад +3

      It's so concise and true! It's like a window into my brain. Well, except maybe the saving the world part. This world is so fake and transient.

    • @villinaudasi5418
      @villinaudasi5418 3 года назад +2

      @@CaveyMoth Ikr!

  • @uglyfuzozzi4353
    @uglyfuzozzi4353 Год назад +13

    As an Indian infp kid who's about to sit through board exams in a few months I absolutely hate myself so much for daydreaming and losing focus.

  • @gracesinnapen9666
    @gracesinnapen9666 3 года назад +84

    As an INFP procrastinating and watching this video under bedcovers during the day, I totally agree with all these points, especially about being sad... Just mentioning that we are often sad made me sad and I cried...

  • @dmc7285
    @dmc7285 2 года назад +110

    as an INFP (like all the other persons here I guess) I rlly loved this video and thank you for doing a "INFP in a nutshell" that isn't the emo or crybaby stereotype

  • @f.megawati
    @f.megawati 2 года назад +89

    THE AMOUNT OF TIMES IVE ACTUALLY SAID "Respect your elders" AS AN INFP WHILE BEING THE YOUNGEST IS ACTUALLY SO IRONICALL&Y FUNNY TO ME

    • @goldenemery7417
      @goldenemery7417 2 года назад

      No bcz SAME 😭😭🤣

    • @Nella_nova
      @Nella_nova 2 года назад +5

      My ballet teacher calls me and old lady. And I was on Netflix and saw a thing that I know this little boy I know watches and was like: "Is this what the kids are watching these days. My childhood was better." I`m 12.

    • @jhibehhhkkooo6t99
      @jhibehhhkkooo6t99 Год назад

      infp here,one time I said to my older brother "always say less than necessary" he told me what does that mean? I confidently said "you'll understand when you grow up😌"

    • @jhibehhhkkooo6t99
      @jhibehhhkkooo6t99 Год назад

      my dad often calls me an old lady

  • @AnisiaEK
    @AnisiaEK Год назад +15

    The ending with the test, literally, whole video was sitting there and like "okay, maybe I re do the test? Maybe it changed". This is way too accurate, nearly feels like perosnal attack wth

  • @twitzmixx8374
    @twitzmixx8374 2 года назад +115

    I love this guy immediately. His humor, his calming voice, the way he speaks things in cadence. It's just straight up comforting. 😣 I feel like he knows me in a spiritual level, casually makes fun of me while smirking then pats me in the head and laugh. It's so wholesome!!!

  • @annoyingdog4820
    @annoyingdog4820 2 года назад +75

    This is literally the best description of the INFP type I've ever seen.
    I feel so seen 😭😭❤❤❤

  • @chloe_jasmine985
    @chloe_jasmine985 3 года назад +50

    I never felt so understood in my entire life lmao 😂😭

  • @j.robertson9025
    @j.robertson9025 11 месяцев назад +4

    The part about the hobbies…. Just looking around the room I see an embroidery hoop, a spinning wheel, a warping board for weaving, a pair of knitting needles, a harvest basket for gardening, and a bushcraft knife. Yeah, it’s safe to say that I have a couple hobbies 😂

  • @ryantripp771
    @ryantripp771 2 года назад +188

    Recently I’ve been struggling with my self identity and feeling out of place. I honestly think just taking the personality test and looking into what being an infp means has given me confidence in being myself that is much needed.
    There were just too many points that hit so close to home for me! Thank you for this video!

    • @fooltruth
      @fooltruth 2 года назад

      Still feel like shit cus I let this girl down I fucked up so hard and I actually love her so much

    • @mwyaski
      @mwyaski 2 года назад +1

      @@fooltruth I hope something good has happened now

    • @gaby5546
      @gaby5546 2 года назад +2

      Aw *hugs*, I know that feeling too. It's great to finally find other people like us though, relating to other infps has been so comforting and validating and reassuring for me. We're beautiful creatures, I'm starting to appreciate that.

    • @malikaganai3413
      @malikaganai3413 Год назад

      Yesss, sameee! Same with me. Fellow INFP individual here🙋‍♀️ Been there, gone-going through this!🙌

    • @imcatwoman3738
      @imcatwoman3738 Год назад

      Yea as an infp i tend to have these self identity issue often i just write down all my traits and read it out loud or whtever is it im thinking

  • @abelelte5896
    @abelelte5896 3 года назад +70

    I just found out that Im an INFP and it has changed a lot for me. I am learning a lot about myself and how to act in daily life and stuff. But Im still trying to let go of a lot of stuff such is being so perfectionate and constantly trying to better my appereance to others wich makes me very insecure and im constantly second guessing.
    I really love these types of video's because it makes me look at the good things that we as INFP's can bring to the world instead of constantly being mad at yourself because your not social enough etc.

    • @seattlejones2908
      @seattlejones2908 2 года назад +1

      I can def relate…we are not for everyone. Only really special other people take the extra time to see all the awesome we offer. It is unique and fits our character. We are cute, creative, random, and fun. We offer excitement in the realm of the mundane. We color the clouds as rainbows and the sunshine is a juicy peach. We see life reimagined.
      In reality I pretend that I can be well received socially but I second guess what I say, how I look, etc. other people can read that insecurity. I’m getting smarter tho…looking for and finding people who I am confident around so I’m not obsessively over-observing and critiquing myself. Sometimes it seems like it has to do with the quality/personalities of the people I tend to feel more comfortable being around.
      Quantity doesn’t usually pan out for me ever…it just takes to long to get to the level where I’m comfortable enough to share my best qualities.
      I have to be choosy with which friends I make as so many people have no concept of reciprocal communication. I find myself 6 months+ into a friendship and we are still hashing the same boring crap as when we first met. Friends…hmmmmmm??? I have better conversations with myself and at least it interests me!

  • @Aurora-qn2dx
    @Aurora-qn2dx 3 года назад +54

    ..the teacher would always Say that i was "away with the fairies" in school... I was literally.

  • @urmomdotcom4039
    @urmomdotcom4039 2 года назад +461

    "If you had an INFP friend then you... might not have a friend anymore" 🤣🤣🤣

    • @wayneisname4544
      @wayneisname4544 Год назад +82

      As an INFP, I normally just wait for people to text me because I don't want to text them every 5 seconds and annoy them. They normally don't text very often but I still consider them my friend. I do send occasional memes that I think they might like but I really don't know how to start a conversation very well 😂

    • @uxvocabclub
      @uxvocabclub Год назад +12

      👻 😂😂😂 This is spot on me.
      And then I almost retook the test before he said that that's what we do.
      So now I'm just accepting it.
      😂😂😂

    • @alexstozek12
      @alexstozek12 Год назад +2

      Yup hahaha and the ghosting part was on point

    • @lapisstories
      @lapisstories Год назад +1

      Lol so me

    • @Mochi-re8cv
      @Mochi-re8cv Год назад +1

      Pffttttt that’s me 😂

  • @ish-shv4475
    @ish-shv4475 Год назад +4

    This is really just an INFP having a conversation about why they are awesome by themselves but then they accidentally end up criticising themselves

  • @sebastienmaloron1660
    @sebastienmaloron1660 2 года назад +74

    so funny and right on spot, you figured out all those quirks we may have. My wife once told me that I must be a prototype, a one of a kind experiment and that the rest of humanity has been designed on an entirely different pattern.

    • @yiddotrenda35
      @yiddotrenda35 Год назад +2

      this made me laugh so hard and it's also one of the most romantic thing she could make up :D

  • @pigtailsandteddybears
    @pigtailsandteddybears 2 года назад +164

    I feel like I've just embarked on a whole new spectrum within the audience of this channel. You all are beautiful, _so_ damn beautiful. I've never come across this many people that I can _actually_ feel this much adoration for. If you see this, thank you tremendously for putting this channel up, Ben.
    And thank you to anyone who read this. 🥰

  • @andhereismyspout
    @andhereismyspout 3 года назад +34

    The bit about INFPs style of "focussing" in class cracked me up so much 🤣

  • @forranger4281
    @forranger4281 11 месяцев назад +3

    The talking with others is so accurate. Unless we're on the same wavelength or vibe, i just dip out.

  • @sk61181
    @sk61181 3 года назад +85

    No, no, no Benjamin, stop, stop right there, you can't read me just so fluently like this, that's my job as an INFP and then some...

  • @waterlilyandvine
    @waterlilyandvine 2 года назад +115

    You had me at "ultimate creators of fake scenarios." Omg! This video was hilarious and, yet so true as to what rolls around in my head.

    • @haven-of-bliss
      @haven-of-bliss Год назад +3

      Seriously... and it's even harder when you like someone... you end up falling more and more with the them in your fantasy 🙃🙃🙃 ♥️

    • @thatswhatisaid8908
      @thatswhatisaid8908 Год назад +2

      Oh I know! We are so good at it, and it's so sad when others don't get it. I'm hilarious, but my humour is wasted on other types. My daughter gets it though. She's INFP too.

    • @some_88
      @some_88 Год назад

      @@haven-of-bliss it's me lol.Sometimes i imagine or dreamin about having a gf

  • @vnusian108
    @vnusian108 2 года назад +19

    took the test 6 times and kept getting infp just to make sure 😭 damn this shit is lowkey better than astrology

    • @ClashColors_
      @ClashColors_ Год назад +1

      I know I don’t relate to my zodiac sign at all, but i definitely relate to INFP things

  • @cain5075
    @cain5075 Год назад +7

    this video made me feel so happy and understood while being the funniest shit I've ever seen
    when you said "infps can be so interesting if you just let them speak" I almost cried istg
    thank you for loving us goofballs

  • @Bluz1
    @Bluz1 2 года назад +33

    Don't think I've ever watched a 19 minute video with a smile on my face from start to end, thank you.

  • @taiweannoona1204
    @taiweannoona1204 3 года назад +63

    Im the INTP , my son is the INFP. You just made me love him even more. Didn't know that was possible...
    would like to see what you come up with for the INTJ- my daughter❤️ thankyou for the laughs today, much appreciated.

  • @basil8924
    @basil8924 3 года назад +46

    1:20 flashback to that one time I was this close to crying in class for a scenario I made up in my head that ended up never happening

  • @yorkshirelassdiaries4841
    @yorkshirelassdiaries4841 24 дня назад +2

    Procrastination ✔️
    1000 hobbies ✔️
    Amazing imagination ✔️
    Chill ✔️
    Creative ✔️
    Intuitive but not intellectual ✔️
    Empathetic ✔️
    Pacifist until my lid flies off, then take cover ✔️
    Avoid drama and conflict ✔️
    Good listener ✔️
    Chatterbox ✔️
    Highly emotional ✔️
    Love my own company ✔️
    Been described as other-worldly ✔️

    • @achebwahs1111
      @achebwahs1111 12 дней назад +1

      Check, check, check ✔️ ✅️ 💯 😉

  • @mc-hs3uj
    @mc-hs3uj 2 года назад +74

    I relate to almost everything on this video except for the fact that sometimes I really show my anger and I don't let people step on me , like yes I would cry and be sensible about the discussion but still I would defend myself and fight with the other person even though inside I would be crying lmao

    • @mlandry491
      @mlandry491 2 года назад +14

      Right! I am the same way. Especially if someone is trying to get me to do something I dont believe in or if someone I care about is being hurt. Is that not INFP ish behavior? Thats it. I'm taking the test again...
      lol

    • @undeserving_of_wifi
      @undeserving_of_wifi 2 года назад +4

      Right!

    • @laundrewashington3734
      @laundrewashington3734 2 года назад +5

      @@mlandry491 you right, we may be peacemakers/mediators but that certainly doesn't mean we don't know how to fight or won't fight for what we truly believe in and for the people we care about. (At least in my opinion lol smh)

    • @En3rgyLee
      @En3rgyLee Год назад

      I took the test and you’re accurate I’ll fight and get mad if I need too but later on I’d feel horrible about fighting and if I was right for getting upset (even though I know I was). Then I’ll have a sad flash back of how things were great before I opened my mouth. 😭 I’ve found my people!