Aurora is such a gem, what a lovely person. A healthy INFP is so beautiful, it's a pity most of you guys really struggle with depression. My favorite type by far.
@@sophiamarmelstein1548 probably something like that. Not everyone can have a nice family and a childhood in the forest like Aurora. Sometimes I think we (INTP and INFP) are not really adaptable to the modern world. Too much pressure to conform, to obey schedules, we can't express our individualities.
@@Kitsune-kun663 I did grow up in a forrest, just not a safe one. And grew up with a mother with severe mental issues. Those feelings of safety...not really. Nonetheless still glad of who I turned out to be, kinda ☺️
maybe it's about being INFP maybe it's not, but my parents tell me that I'm not ok in general and that i live on cloud (don't know if it makes sense when u say it English), but usually I don't even know how to express myself with words, omfg
Aurora is my past self, with her optimism and gentleness. Depp is my current self, struggling to maintain a positive mindset with lots of self analysis, and Keanu is my hopeful future self. Where none of the ugliness in the world matters, just be happy and help others be happy.
Living in the now is so important. For INFPs it's so hard to do, especially ones with ADHD 👀 but if we can find joy in the now, and celebrate every breath, our lives will feel much more fulfilled. Just like that disney movie Soul says. Our purpose in life is to experience life
Living in the now has actually always been my most natural state, so I was surprised to read your comment. My parents were desperate about me being constantly in the now and forgetting about the future.
INFP with ADHD here, it took me years to get diagnosed and start a healthy balance of living in the now and planning for the future. (I still impulsively live in the now😂)
After being shamed for my INFP qualities, and ultimately masking them as a result, I am very much working towards liking myself in a more authentic way. I am amazed at how confident Aurora is in her own uniqueness! It is definitely a much more difficult achievement than many may think it is. 💕💕💕
Hello :) I feel you so much... I'm trying the same. Aurora is indeed amazing as a person and a musician. I also love Keanu and Johnny so much. Just Johnny has always had some issues liking himself and it's kind of heartbreaking for me, because he is such great and talented person... Recently I've discovered an actor Tom Sturridge who plays Morpheus in Sandman series. He is an INFP too and he is such an adorable guy... very inspiring for me!😊I hope you're doing fine, I wish you all the best! Take care!
I've thought about this a lot & concluded that the more you get outside your comfort zone the more you will become a fully formed INFP OR an INFP-A. So INFP's when they're young are INFP-T & you haven't had very many life experiences & as you get older life has a way of forcing you into uncomfortable situations but you go through with it anyway bc the risk is worth the reward. And the more you do this the more confident you become in your authentic self. Eventually you will hopefully get to the point where you don't seek out these situations but you don't avoid them either. And one day you're 40 and suddenly the shy, people pleasing, person that was always 2nd guessing themselves has matured into a confident, mature, well rounded, confident in their own skin adult who dare I say is close to achieving that illusive state of "INFP NIRVANA".
“What do you think happens when we die?” “I know that the people who love us will miss us” That have me chills and made me tear up. Such a beautiful answer. 💜
I hope that you achieve what you seek to obtain and that it makes you happy. Get out of your comfort zone. As an INFP the more you do it the more you will thrive. I am in my fourth decade here and only started practicing this modus operandi late in life but it has improved exponentially. Honestly, wish I had done this from a much younger age. I have small time goals but if you are a struggling artist, please don't do yourself a disservice by being stuck in cycle of self-criticism and fear. Focus on your strengths but stay aware of your weaknesses, just not hyper aware of the latter. Wish you all the best.
@@antoinettenovella1630 wow thank you so much Antoinette..... beautiful name by the way. You are so right I've just entered my 4th decade and it's amazing how much I'm changing, and becoming almost belligerent when someone tells me I'm not being realistic. I say, actually I am! Bugger off lol! Also wish I had been more tough from a younger age. But the only way to look at it is, now is all I've got, and I don't want to feel the same in 10 years!
I think out of all people, i resonates the most with aurora but in the same time i completely contradict her. Honestly i dont know how to explain this but its a feeling i feel strongly. A feeling of being understood through others but knowing you works and act in a completely different manor...
i feel the same way! i think that it is because the way of her thinking is very similar to mine. but unlike her, i am not as confident in expressing myself.
Being rooted in the "now" that's what the thoughts of all three resonated to. Yeah, we INFPs need to live, just live in the now, period. The world's a good place and life's good too, we just need a little bit of love for our wretched selves and focus on what's at hand, that's all. Thanks Benjamin, your content is growing manifold in terms of both duration and depth, thanks again buddy, stay blessed and keep helping our kind ✨😇✨
If you want to cry. Let it all out. Some advice that helped me is to not try and fight your mind but instead observe it. Try to love that your mind is scattered. I hope you feel better. Happiness comes with time. You need to feel sadness to feel happiness.🌼
depression, anxiety occurs because we expect a harmonious life, many of us are not aware, that we are not thoughts and feelings but we are awareness in thoughts and feelings.
I really like how I can relate to Johnny Depp and Kurt Cobain... Didn't know Keanu Reeves was a INFP that makes me smile 🥰 I'm a INFP-T 4w5 and I love writing poetry and I love acting
I really felt the 'try to make people smile' one. for most people out there it can be hard to just exist, we never know what someone is going through. and when someone did that for me when I was at my worst, it would've felt nice... but I just locked myself up... even if there were people around me physically, they weren't there emotionally... since I was a kid, my parents always told me to pray for more intelligence(? idk if that would be an accurate translation), or just becoming more knowledgeable. but at some point I just became really detached from that idea... for a while now, instead I pray that everyone in the world has at least one moment in a day, when they are genuinely happy... asking for everyone to be happy at all times would just be very impractical, and they might have to pretend. so maybe just one happy moment can make them hold on to the hope... that maybe, this world isn't so bad, right? ps: I feel like I'm just rambling, but it felt nice
What you said was very beautiful! And that prayer at the end I think really resonated with me for how gentle and sweet it is to wish others a moment of genuine happiness. We all deserve that, I think, and you very much do too! Hope you have a great day Sanya, cheers!
Somehow I felt Aurora was an INFP....now the confirmation....that is so surreal. I was caught by her the moment I listened to her the first time.... glad to he an INFP myself . hope I can be as precious as those people are.
I was always pretty sceptical towards this personality Test. Now I found this channel and I am so surprised and happy to see that there are actually people who understand me, you know? I always felt so distant from most people, I stopped to express myself and kept my creativity a secret from everyone. But recently, I'm slowly starting to open up. I try to be more like myself, more honest. Regarding the video, Aurora is a wonderful person, I really adore her sense of freedom, really inspiring. I think I relate mostly to Keanu, especially the part with the optimistic pessimist, that's also how I see the world. To sum it up, I'm glad I'm not the only one on earth who is normal. Just joking of course. It's just good to know that there actually are people who share some characteristics with me. Stay awesome everyone :)
Yeah I feel that the benefit of this test is just that you realise that there are other people like you and that just feels good. Also even when we try to quiet down our creativity, it always creeps back up and we have to do something 😄
I have done a lot of tests and I almost always get the INFP. But I'm not an artist, I don't write, I don't sing, I don't paint, I don't play instruments (I play the guitar quite badly). Is it wrong...? I am not like the INFP presented here, life has burned me down and somewhere I have lost the joy I see in them.
Same here - not particularly creative (mediocre at best). Plus have traits that seem more INTP - science nerd, work as a technical writer. Wonder if it's possible to be straddle the line between INFP and INTP - why do personality types have to be black/white? p.s. You said "life has burned me down and somewhere I have lost the joy I see in them" - are you living authentically? I didn't for much of my life, but when I decided to just be me, life got a lot better.
@@BenjaminSpicy I did the test 27 times ... I also found tests like: are you more INFP or INTP, are you more INFP or INTJ ... of course you know what came out ... it's not like I don't know myself ... I just can't feel it.
"Focus on what you love, and wait for luck to find you" Yeaaah that's pretty much it ahahah. I really relate to Johnny and Keanu in this. I just want everything to be"all good" as Keanu would put it. and remember to make people smile
broooo I literally cry when keanu said the one who loves us will miss us (when we died) 😭😭 that is pure... 😭😢 auroro is really the epitome of what an ideal infp looks like but most of us battle with mental illness 😶
I loved Runaway the first time I listened. And after a few listens, I got a deeper understanding of the essence and I suddenly wondered, whoever wrote this, she is relatable... we have the same thought process... I wonder if she's also an INFP?! Then I googled and found out Aurora wrote this and I was like WOW!!!!! When I found out she really is an INFP. it's one of the happiest days that I got too proud of myself. I'm one of her biggest fans ever since :)
Also I just discovered Aurora and she is the kind of person that fits the INFJ ideal of what the world should be, protect her at all costs. If the world was full of more Auroras then this INFJ could retire from this world with a sense of completion.
The last one, where Johnny said we should make people smile, made me cry with happy tears. So incredibly sweet. I'm also INFP, happily married, two wonderful children, stay at home Mom for medical reasons. No one except my husband and children, and my Mom, take me seriously. I miss my Opa so very much, we were kindred spirits, my Opa and me. He probably understood me better than my own Mom. He passed away in 2003, but I still cry when I think of my Grandpa. Miss him so much! We should make people smile. Hard to do for me, since no one takes me seriously. I can only make my husband, children and Mom smile. I wish the world was a friendlier place.
I'm a INFP I personally think dance really helps because in my experience whenever I felt down I kept on watching dance videos . So people don't stop yourself from exploring the new you through dance.
Hi......I'm Karen (not the meme kind....the good "kind" kind) I am 100% an INFP-T. Also recently diagnosed at 64 with Inattentive ADHD. That Dr. also confirmed my INFP-ism. I'm also an HSP......also an introvert that uses dry humor/story telling as a way of fitting in. I works with the right audience. Ask me a simple yes/no question & I'll respond with a short novel. I love the way you explain about INFP's with humor & respect. Thank you. We are beautiful butterflies! I fit the mold perfectly except my (100 thousand) photos are flowers & mushrooms & piles of stones, leaves, or dog poop (if interestingly unique), or ant mounds or snow stuck to a tree...yadda, yadda, yadda.....some sky photos but only if clouds are really cool looking. Never posted any of them....maybe I should. You would like them too. They are really really cool photos. Where can I post them? My 2 friends(?) & family don't get me. They don't try.... I'm always in need of "fixing" which means live life & think their way. I can't... I won't. (I tap my foot to a beat only I can hear.) I want to drop them as 'toxic' but will be left with no friends....not a bad thing? Are they really friends? I'm fixing to move to a town I've never been to... in a state I've never lived in. Alone. They think I'm crazy.....duh? I love my solitude but would like interaction occasionally too....hate crowds. I can spend hours...days...weeks....doing one craft or another....alone.....finish some....not finish others.....and I'm a RUclips addict. A "Useless Information Sponge" Maybe an Internet Tribe would be what I need. Thanks for listening......better stop now ..... this is turning into a short novel... all about me.
I relate soo much to "think their way", like I do my best to put myself in other people's shoes but never see anyone try to put themselves in mine as much as I do... And that is frustrating... I also had friends whom I am not sure about whether they were toxic or not. I distanced myself from them. We started talking again after nearly a year. But I needed time to recover from them bc solely interacting with them caused my heart to be so angry bc of all the things that hurt me that they did but never mentioned (except for giving hints or only very few issues) bc I dont want to cause drama. Now we talk from time to time. But I won't let her as close as she was. another one, I can talk to her on occasions but I don't consider her my friend anymore(i have one other friend that doesnt really get me sometimes but we share the same values, so she is very important to me) But you have to look what is better for you whether you are better off without these (toxic) friends or not.
@@monito3575 Thanks for your advice. I am still figuring out what to do. Main friend (ex neighbor) is now 1,000 miles away, so it's only phone & mainly texts. Whew! She's being very 'Snarky' lately because I'm not following her advice (I didn't ask for) on a life changing decision I have to make. I listen to advice but.... I think with my own brain. I make my own decisions. As an INFP, I do hate conflict & this is draining my energy too much. It keeps me from my RUclips learning & nature photography addictions. Maybe ghosting is the only way....for awhile anyhow. Or just have boring conversations with her about the weather....yawn!
@@Karen-li1me I am so sorry to hear that:( Do you remember whether your problems with her started before or after she moved away? I made the experience that via text messages people tend to misunderstand each other way more often... But sadly if she lives that far away there are Not many options... With regards to the ghosting, that is something that happenes to me so often with people who are draining😅 but it really is not a nice feeling from the other person's perspective. If you really don't want to talk to her for some time, then I'd recommmend you tell her you need some space bc you are emotionally Stressed out and need to really think some things through (or whatever reason you'd might give her). That way you'll have space but at the same time don't harm the relationship in case you want to come back.. The easiest way would be to straight up tell her what is wrong, but being an INFP myself, I know I wouldnt do it either 🥲 And I want to say I am sooo sorry when people talk to me about things like this I tend to always talk about myself, I dont mean it in a selfish way, its just my way of showing them that I know how they feel😓 And btw I think nature photography is soo beautiful!! I also wanted to try it but Idk if I am commited enough... But I do love nature documentaries, they are soo nostalgic and beautiful😪😪 I hope you will take the right decision about the choice you have to make and wish you the very best! I hope I didn't annoy you with my long messages or advices. Have a great day Karen❤️🥺
@@monito3575 Thank you.......whoever you are. I couldn't ghost her. What's going on right now is about me being happier by being a more authentic INFP & her having to accept it. She also doesn't understand that my brain is wired differently with ADHD & I don't think like most people. Everyday tasks are harder. People need to let me do things the way that works for me. I'll set some boundaries & enforce them. People will have to adapt. I'm wanting to post my photos somewhere in the near future. The theme may be: "Different" is beautiful too..... I've got other priorities right right now that forces many things to the the 'back burner' for a bit.....including an older brother with mobility issues.
@@Karen-li1me I am very happy for you that you didn't ghost your friend at the end. :DAnd I am sure she will get used to your authentic selve 😊 at the end of the day it is what we strive for as INFPs (generally speaking) being the person who we truely want to be even if it means we have to go against that which the people in our environment want us to be sometimes. I remember you asked in your original comment where to post your photos: I just watched another video of this channel, he recommended reddit, and from my side: maybe Instagram or Pinterest? You could give it a try ☺️ (I don't use neither of them, I only have Email, Whatsapp and RUclips😅) btw your theme sounds so cute and INFP like, I love it!! If you want to share some of the photos you took with me, feel free to do that but please don't feel forced, you don't have to!! I also don't want to come off as creepy😳 I hope your brother has no (or at least not much) pain!! He can be very happy to have you as a caring sister!! Take care of him and yourself ❤️ Also, if there is a cure for his issues, I hope that he gets better soon!!
Oh how I love Keanu. I love that he's an INFP. I also love that JRR Tolkien is an INFP, too. I'm old, so I don't know Aurora's work, and I was never a Johnny Depp fan, so... but great video, I'm a new subscriber.
I’m an infp and I am heavily inspired by aurora, I want to be free like her and not feeling tied down, she’s my favorite artist and I recommend her to everyone because she’s not just music to be, she’s expressing her soul without fear and I want to be like that
I have started to like myself more. Like we are really odd and weird but we are also mysterious and fascinating. Im slowly trying to understand the person inside my body.
The poem Mr Reed wrote, it's such a beautiful reflection, in such a painful sounding way; of who we really are. People often say that I'm pessimistic; but I'm really not. I'm a very happy upbeat person and I don't view negative things in the way, that others do. When I look at something negative, it's usually for a purpose, the purpose of change, the purpose of growth. I see the positivity that comes from that and so I refused to say that it's pessimistic. Because through that, I found peace and happiness. Through that I've helped others 💓
Explore Dancing - yeah i do... it is really fun. I remember dancing in a Disco or Bar and it was really fun even when People watched me. People liked me for that, because often People don't dance because they fear that they look like a fool. But looking like a fool isn't that bad because in some way you show people that you are a human being who isn't perfect.
Finally some positive INFP videos Ahhaha…. I’ve seen so many where just all the struggles are listed and anything positive is painted in a poor light… when it’s actually a good thing. Feeling proud to be an INFP and much more understood
I really like this video :) it’s so innocent and simple takeaways from the lessons the INFPS that rose to fame have taught us but still put in a very meaningful way.
Sometimes I am not sure if I am an INFP or not, because while I can relate. I am not exactly what my family calls me a softie but I believe it’s because I was forced to be more tough due to having insensitive family and hard childhood experiences.
Whats funny is all the sterotyped words that other infps have been told too or talk about themselves I have also experienced as a fellow infp. I'm been called too quite, too emotional, too sensitive, boring, negative, don't get yar, weirdo, unrealistic, rub ppl the wrong way. I can't say I've had too many compliments lmao. The joys of being an infp. I really do have to stop dwelling on all the negative. I'm still researching to understand more about those skills and hopefully grow as a person and not be stuck in my loop because I've been through some shit. Haven't we all ❤❤❤love all infps and all other personalities too. I'm in Rainbow and unicorn mode. Tomorrow might be back to thunder storms and grey clouds but I kinda like that mode too. It's all feels beautiful people as long as you know how to come out for some air every now and then. 😊 and don't let the downs dictate the rest of your existence
I never really thought Johnny Depp was an INFP.. he seemed like a play boy to me for a long time which isn't the personality type you associate with INFP but guess I was wrong
INFPs feel for others. He is always thinking of others and doing things for others without any fanfare so it’s easy to miss what an INFP he really is. Misunderstood and quirky, that’s us. 😊Keanu is great but I don’t think he’s an INFP.
I dearly love Aurora and Keanu, and believe they are as charming and selfless as these clips suggest. But they are also INFPs fortunate enough to be operating from a position of rare privilege. People lucky enough to have a job that validates and reenforces their personality. A lot of us INFPs don’t have that platform or the acceptance to be so carefree. But, as an experiment I’m going to cut my hair into a chic bowl style and go to work wearing a repurposed pup tent and see what happens.
I have ENTP and ISTP bestfriends. My husband is also an ISTP. Good thing that they have idea on how different personality works. Sometimes I do not know if people are already abusing my kindness because I always think of the goodness in them. My bestfriends are always there to remind me that too much kindness will make others forever dependent and abusive towards me.
instincts... i really know this. its not rationality or excessive morality that should be followed but this creative imagination, magical borderline impossible and even absurd dynamo according to the logical linear aspect of the mind. the one being active when we are dreaming at night, thats the one should be enhanced to create magnificent works. yet its scary because there, there is no time and space. its can be chaotic and sometimes crazy
2:05 I wouldn't call that necessarily selfish 4:28 wow, that is amazing and I absolutely admire her because I can relate to her the most out of these 3💗4:31 this!!!!
That was classic. Keane reeves saying about happiness and he interprets it as its all good. I always say that too myself especially when things start shifting from not so good. And funny enough I got that reference its all good from a TV series called dark angel and one of the characters always said its all good. All good all the time.... Love it when fellow infps do or say things that I can identify with and not feel so astrocisized like a me vs them sort of mindset which isn't very healthy. 😊
Maybe she is a healthy INFP. She has understood herself and trying to make herself more comfortable in this society. Even me, an INFP has started not to give an f of what people think of me
A poem I wrote about nature called her majesty. Nature surrounds us Envelopes our senses The sun warms our soul The wind casts troubles free from our mind Animals gives us insight into their secretive lives Nature is the true world Authentic and life-giving We are merely visitors fortunate enough to be graced by such majesty....
Aurora is such a gem, what a lovely person. A healthy INFP is so beautiful, it's a pity most of you guys really struggle with depression. My favorite type by far.
I think it's something you can lose when you have to function in adult society. You might start to care too much about what society thinks of you
@@sophiamarmelstein1548 probably something like that. Not everyone can have a nice family and a childhood in the forest like Aurora. Sometimes I think we (INTP and INFP) are not really adaptable to the modern world. Too much pressure to conform, to obey schedules, we can't express our individualities.
@@Kitsune-kun663 I did grow up in a forrest, just not a safe one. And grew up with a mother with severe mental issues. Those feelings of safety...not really. Nonetheless still glad of who I turned out to be, kinda ☺️
What's your personality type ?😯
maybe it's about being INFP maybe it's not, but my parents tell me that I'm not ok in general and that i live on cloud (don't know if it makes sense when u say it English), but usually I don't even know how to express myself with words, omfg
Aurora is my past self, with her optimism and gentleness. Depp is my current self, struggling to maintain a positive mindset with lots of self analysis, and Keanu is my hopeful future self. Where none of the ugliness in the world matters, just be happy and help others be happy.
Same
same I mean really :C
I can relate to this in some way, but i also think we should copy the good things of each one to be a better person :)
Same I can relate
So perfect
"I'm a optimist through total pessimism". Alright, you nailed it, Keanu.
Living in the now is so important. For INFPs it's so hard to do, especially ones with ADHD 👀 but if we can find joy in the now, and celebrate every breath, our lives will feel much more fulfilled. Just like that disney movie Soul says. Our purpose in life is to experience life
INFP with ADHD- we live in the now but we focus on everything in the now
Living in the now has actually always been my most natural state, so I was surprised to read your comment.
My parents were desperate about me being constantly in the now and forgetting about the future.
INFP with ADHD here, it took me years to get diagnosed and start a healthy balance of living in the now and planning for the future. (I still impulsively live in the now😂)
Ayo i am also an INFP with ADHD, quite the experience haha :0
bruh how every infp have ADHD 🤣 damn
Keanu is ultimate gentle man
Aurora is beautiful pure soul
Johnny is very wise and collected
What I learned: having supportive parents makes all the difference...
Exactly.
As an INFP, I feel encouraged 😌💕
Same here
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I am an INFP. Aurora is an INFP. So from now on I love to be an INFP.
Aurora is literally the symbol of INFP
After being shamed for my INFP qualities, and ultimately masking them as a result, I am very much working towards liking myself in a more authentic way. I am amazed at how confident Aurora is in her own uniqueness! It is definitely a much more difficult achievement than many may think it is. 💕💕💕
Hello :) I feel you so much... I'm trying the same. Aurora is indeed amazing as a person and a musician. I also love Keanu and Johnny so much. Just Johnny has always had some issues liking himself and it's kind of heartbreaking for me, because he is such great and talented person... Recently I've discovered an actor Tom Sturridge who plays Morpheus in Sandman series. He is an INFP too and he is such an adorable guy... very inspiring for me!😊I hope you're doing fine, I wish you all the best! Take care!
I did this for years and it created so much pain and anger inside of me. Don't, be your self. Own the difference, it's needed in the world
I've thought about this a lot & concluded that the more you get outside your comfort zone the more you will become a fully formed INFP OR an INFP-A. So INFP's when they're young are INFP-T & you haven't had very many life experiences & as you get older life has a way of forcing you into uncomfortable situations but you go through with it anyway bc the risk is worth the reward. And the more you do this the more confident you become in your authentic self. Eventually you will hopefully get to the point where you don't seek out these situations but you don't avoid them either. And one day you're 40 and suddenly the shy, people pleasing, person that was always 2nd guessing themselves has matured into a confident, mature, well rounded, confident in their own skin adult who dare I say is close to achieving that illusive state of "INFP NIRVANA".
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“What do you think happens when we die?”
“I know that the people who love us will miss us”
That have me chills and made me tear up. Such a beautiful answer. 💜
INFP struggling artist here. Thanks for the tips!
I hope that you achieve what you seek to obtain and that it makes you happy. Get out of your comfort zone. As an INFP the more you do it the more you will thrive. I am in my fourth decade here and only started practicing this modus operandi late in life but it has improved exponentially. Honestly, wish I had done this from a much younger age. I have small time goals but if you are a struggling artist, please don't do yourself a disservice by being stuck in cycle of self-criticism and fear. Focus on your strengths but stay aware of your weaknesses, just not hyper aware of the latter. Wish you all the best.
@@antoinettenovella1630 wow thank you so much Antoinette..... beautiful name by the way. You are so right I've just entered my 4th decade and it's amazing how much I'm changing, and becoming almost belligerent when someone tells me I'm not being realistic. I say, actually I am! Bugger off lol! Also wish I had been more tough from a younger age. But the only way to look at it is, now is all I've got, and I don't want to feel the same in 10 years!
@@antoinettenovella1630 it's true that nothing much amazing ever happened in a comfort zone. And whenever I get comfy it falls apart anyway.
I think out of all people, i resonates the most with aurora but in the same time i completely contradict her. Honestly i dont know how to explain this but its a feeling i feel strongly. A feeling of being understood through others but knowing you works and act in a completely different manor...
We are all the same but different 😄
Same here 💕
Similar spirit, very different execution
i feel the same way! i think that it is because the way of her thinking is very similar to mine. but unlike her, i am not as confident in expressing myself.
your enneagram type is probably different to her type
"The best trio doesn't exi..." ❤️
Being rooted in the "now" that's what the thoughts of all three resonated to. Yeah, we INFPs need to live, just live in the now, period. The world's a good place and life's good too, we just need a little bit of love for our wretched selves and focus on what's at hand, that's all.
Thanks Benjamin, your content is growing manifold in terms of both duration and depth, thanks again buddy, stay blessed and keep helping our kind ✨😇✨
Same here 💕
"We just need a little bit of love for our wretched selves." Why is this so true? 😩
I think I'm starting to understand why I've felt like I've been holding a gun against my head the past few years...
I want to cry. Why is this so hard to fight your own mind? Why is this so hard to be happy for me?
You should cry it out and then I hope you'll find happiness. Send love to you! 💖
If you want to cry. Let it all out. Some advice that helped me is to not try and fight your mind but instead observe it. Try to love that your mind is scattered. I hope you feel better. Happiness comes with time. You need to feel sadness to feel happiness.🌼
@@kelvogel4035 thank you so much, for your words 😭! It's me, just with different account.
@@oldtrafford57 are you doing better now?
depression, anxiety occurs because we expect a harmonious life, many of us are not aware, that we are not thoughts and feelings but we are awareness in thoughts and feelings.
I really like how I can relate to Johnny Depp and Kurt Cobain... Didn't know Keanu Reeves was a INFP that makes me smile 🥰 I'm a INFP-T 4w5 and I love writing poetry and I love acting
Me tooooo😉
I really felt the 'try to make people smile' one.
for most people out there it can be hard to just exist, we never know what someone is going through. and when someone did that for me when I was at my worst, it would've felt nice... but I just locked myself up... even if there were people around me physically, they weren't there emotionally...
since I was a kid, my parents always told me to pray for more intelligence(? idk if that would be an accurate translation), or just becoming more knowledgeable. but at some point I just became really detached from that idea... for a while now, instead I pray that everyone in the world has at least one moment in a day, when they are genuinely happy... asking for everyone to be happy at all times would just be very impractical, and they might have to pretend. so maybe just one happy moment can make them hold on to the hope... that maybe, this world isn't so bad, right?
ps: I feel like I'm just rambling, but it felt nice
It was nice 😊
You'r not rambling, dw ab the others opinions, what you said was just beautiful, as long as you say it from the heart its ok :)
What you said was very beautiful! And that prayer at the end I think really resonated with me for how gentle and sweet it is to wish others a moment of genuine happiness. We all deserve that, I think, and you very much do too! Hope you have a great day Sanya, cheers!
Somehow I felt Aurora was an INFP....now the confirmation....that is so surreal. I was caught by her the moment I listened to her the first time.... glad to he an INFP myself . hope I can be as precious as those people are.
I aspire to be like Aurora, just allowing yourself to be free and enjoy life the way you want in this limited time we have
I was always pretty sceptical towards this personality Test. Now I found this channel and I am so surprised and happy to see that there are actually people who understand me, you know? I always felt so distant from most people, I stopped to express myself and kept my creativity a secret from everyone. But recently, I'm slowly starting to open up. I try to be more like myself, more honest. Regarding the video, Aurora is a wonderful person, I really adore her sense of freedom, really inspiring. I think I relate mostly to Keanu, especially the part with the optimistic pessimist, that's also how I see the world. To sum it up, I'm glad I'm not the only one on earth who is normal.
Just joking of course. It's just good to know that there actually are people who share some characteristics with me. Stay awesome everyone :)
Yeah I feel that the benefit of this test is just that you realise that there are other people like you and that just feels good. Also even when we try to quiet down our creativity, it always creeps back up and we have to do something 😄
I don’t think I’ve ever related more to a poem than Keanu’s poem
Shes so cute
Also is infp mascot based on aurora
I have done a lot of tests and I almost always get the INFP. But I'm not an artist, I don't write, I don't sing, I don't paint, I don't play instruments (I play the guitar quite badly). Is it wrong...?
I am not like the INFP presented here, life has burned me down and somewhere I have lost the joy I see in them.
It's definitely not wrong. What do you do then to express your feels?
Same here - not particularly creative (mediocre at best). Plus have traits that seem more INTP - science nerd, work as a technical writer. Wonder if it's possible to be straddle the line between INFP and INTP - why do personality types have to be black/white?
p.s. You said "life has burned me down and somewhere I have lost the joy I see in them" - are you living authentically? I didn't for much of my life, but when I decided to just be me, life got a lot better.
@@BenjaminSpicy To express them? Rather nothing.
@@spirit_of_the_abyss1020 do you test close on Feeling/Thinking?
@@BenjaminSpicy I did the test 27 times ... I also found tests like: are you more INFP or INTP, are you more INFP or INTJ ... of course you know what came out ... it's not like I don't know myself ... I just can't feel it.
"Focus on what you love, and wait for luck to find you"
Yeaaah that's pretty much it ahahah. I really relate to Johnny and Keanu in this.
I just want everything to be"all good" as Keanu would put it.
and remember to make people smile
andrew garfield is another famous infp and I think he is a really healthy good infp
Hitting the like button before watching because I know it will be good😉
Wow thanks!! 😊😊
Thank you for showing that INFP’s are great people too. We need to be reminded of that - a lot! 😄
aurora is what i aspire to be when i grow up i hope i'll be a healthier infp in the future cause it's been going downhill
broooo I literally cry when keanu said the one who loves us will miss us (when we died) 😭😭 that is pure... 😭😢 auroro is really the epitome of what an ideal infp looks like but most of us battle with mental illness 😶
I loved Runaway the first time I listened. And after a few listens, I got a deeper understanding of the essence and I suddenly wondered, whoever wrote this, she is relatable... we have the same thought process... I wonder if she's also an INFP?!
Then I googled and found out Aurora wrote this and I was like WOW!!!!! When I found out she really is an INFP. it's one of the happiest days that I got too proud of myself. I'm one of her biggest fans ever since :)
"Freedom is a handsome thing to wear"
Wow, that's my motto. Keeps me afloat.
"It can always be worse."
Every time I discover something intimate about Keanu I think the man sorely needs an INFJ friend. -INFJ
Also I just discovered Aurora and she is the kind of person that fits the INFJ ideal of what the world should be, protect her at all costs. If the world was full of more Auroras then this INFJ could retire from this world with a sense of completion.
Does this comment section have a rent? I wanna live here. I feel more understood here than anywhere else.
The last one, where Johnny said we should make people smile, made me cry with happy tears. So incredibly sweet. I'm also INFP, happily married, two wonderful children, stay at home Mom for medical reasons. No one except my husband and children, and my Mom, take me seriously. I miss my Opa so very much, we were kindred spirits, my Opa and me. He probably understood me better than my own Mom. He passed away in 2003, but I still cry when I think of my Grandpa. Miss him so much! We should make people smile. Hard to do for me, since no one takes me seriously. I can only make my husband, children and Mom smile. I wish the world was a friendlier place.
❤
I'm a INFP I personally think dance really helps because in my experience whenever I felt down I kept on watching dance videos . So people don't stop yourself from exploring the new you through dance.
I’m proud to be the same personality type as these amazing people ❤
Hi......I'm Karen (not the meme kind....the good "kind" kind)
I am 100% an INFP-T. Also recently diagnosed at 64 with Inattentive ADHD. That Dr. also confirmed my INFP-ism. I'm also an HSP......also an introvert that uses dry humor/story telling as a way of fitting in. I works with the right audience.
Ask me a simple yes/no question & I'll respond with a short novel.
I love the way you explain about INFP's with humor & respect.
Thank you. We are beautiful butterflies!
I fit the mold perfectly except my (100 thousand) photos are flowers & mushrooms & piles of stones, leaves, or dog poop (if interestingly unique), or ant mounds or snow stuck to a tree...yadda, yadda, yadda.....some sky photos but only if clouds are really cool looking.
Never posted any of them....maybe I should. You would like them too.
They are really really cool photos. Where can I post them?
My 2 friends(?) & family don't get me. They don't try.... I'm always in need of "fixing" which means live life & think their way. I can't... I won't.
(I tap my foot to a beat only I can hear.)
I want to drop them as 'toxic' but will be left with no friends....not a bad thing?
Are they really friends?
I'm fixing to move to a town I've never been to... in a state I've never lived in. Alone.
They think I'm crazy.....duh?
I love my solitude but would like interaction occasionally too....hate crowds.
I can spend hours...days...weeks....doing one craft or another....alone.....finish some....not finish others.....and I'm a RUclips addict. A "Useless Information Sponge"
Maybe an Internet Tribe would be what I need.
Thanks for listening......better stop now ..... this is turning into a short novel... all about me.
I relate soo much to "think their way", like I do my best to put myself in other people's shoes but never see anyone try to put themselves in mine as much as I do... And that is frustrating... I also had friends whom I am not sure about whether they were toxic or not. I distanced myself from them. We started talking again after nearly a year. But I needed time to recover from them bc solely interacting with them caused my heart to be so angry bc of all the things that hurt me that they did but never mentioned (except for giving hints or only very few issues) bc I dont want to cause drama. Now we talk from time to time. But I won't let her as close as she was. another one, I can talk to her on occasions but I don't consider her my friend anymore(i have one other friend that doesnt really get me sometimes but we share the same values, so she is very important to me) But you have to look what is better for you whether you are better off without these (toxic) friends or not.
@@monito3575 Thanks for your advice. I am still figuring out what to do. Main friend (ex neighbor) is now 1,000 miles away, so it's only phone & mainly texts. Whew! She's being very 'Snarky' lately because I'm not following her advice (I didn't ask for) on a life changing decision I have to make. I listen to advice but.... I think with my own brain. I make my own decisions. As an INFP, I do hate conflict & this is draining my energy too much. It keeps me from my RUclips learning & nature photography addictions. Maybe ghosting is the only way....for awhile anyhow. Or just have boring conversations with her about the weather....yawn!
@@Karen-li1me I am so sorry to hear that:(
Do you remember whether your problems with her started before or after she moved away? I made the experience that via text messages people tend to misunderstand each other way more often... But sadly if she lives that far away there are Not many options...
With regards to the ghosting, that is something that happenes to me so often with people who are draining😅 but it really is not a nice feeling from the other person's perspective. If you really don't want to talk to her for some time, then I'd recommmend you tell her you need some space bc you are emotionally Stressed out and need to really think some things through (or whatever reason you'd might give her). That way you'll have space but at the same time don't harm the relationship in case you want to come back..
The easiest way would be to straight up tell her what is wrong, but being an INFP myself, I know I wouldnt do it either 🥲
And I want to say I am sooo sorry when people talk to me about things like this I tend to always talk about myself, I dont mean it in a selfish way, its just my way of showing them that I know how they feel😓
And btw I think nature photography is soo beautiful!! I also wanted to try it but Idk if I am commited enough... But I do love nature documentaries, they are soo nostalgic and beautiful😪😪
I hope you will take the right decision about the choice you have to make and wish you the very best! I hope I didn't annoy you with my long messages or advices. Have a great day Karen❤️🥺
@@monito3575
Thank you.......whoever you are.
I couldn't ghost her.
What's going on right now is about me being happier by being a more authentic INFP & her having to accept it.
She also doesn't understand that my brain is wired differently with ADHD & I don't think like most people. Everyday tasks are harder. People need to let me do things the way that works for me.
I'll set some boundaries & enforce them. People will have to adapt.
I'm wanting to post my photos somewhere in the near future.
The theme may be: "Different" is beautiful too.....
I've got other priorities right right now that forces many things to the the 'back burner' for a bit.....including an older brother with mobility issues.
@@Karen-li1me I am very happy for you that you didn't ghost your friend at the end. :DAnd I am sure she will get used to your authentic selve 😊 at the end of the day it is what we strive for as INFPs (generally speaking) being the person who we truely want to be even if it means we have to go against that which the people in our environment want us to be sometimes.
I remember you asked in your original comment where to post your photos: I just watched another video of this channel, he recommended reddit, and from my side: maybe Instagram or Pinterest? You could give it a try ☺️ (I don't use neither of them, I only have Email, Whatsapp and RUclips😅) btw your theme sounds so cute and INFP like, I love it!! If you want to share some of the photos you took with me, feel free to do that but please don't feel forced, you don't have to!! I also don't want to come off as creepy😳
I hope your brother has no (or at least not much) pain!! He can be very happy to have you as a caring sister!! Take care of him and yourself ❤️ Also, if there is a cure for his issues, I hope that he gets better soon!!
Oh how I love Keanu. I love that he's an INFP. I also love that JRR Tolkien is an INFP, too. I'm old, so I don't know Aurora's work, and I was never a Johnny Depp fan, so... but great video, I'm a new subscriber.
Runaway has a whole new meaning to me now
(I seriously never knew that Aurora is an INFP)
"Puppies!" Is the best advice ever. 😁
I’m an infp and I am heavily inspired by aurora, I want to be free like her and not feeling tied down, she’s my favorite artist and I recommend her to everyone because she’s not just music to be, she’s expressing her soul without fear and I want to be like that
Aurora in the thumbnail 😍
Love her ❤️
I have started to like myself more. Like we are really odd and weird but we are also mysterious and fascinating. Im slowly trying to understand the person inside my body.
The poem Mr Reed wrote, it's such a beautiful reflection, in such a painful sounding way; of who we really are. People often say that I'm pessimistic; but I'm really not. I'm a very happy upbeat person and I don't view negative things in the way, that others do. When I look at something negative, it's usually for a purpose, the purpose of change, the purpose of growth. I see the positivity that comes from that and so I refused to say that it's pessimistic. Because through that, I found peace and happiness. Through that I've helped others 💓
I always loved the woods and the park. Rejuvenating ❤
Explore Dancing - yeah i do... it is really fun.
I remember dancing in a Disco or Bar and it was really fun even when People watched me.
People liked me for that, because often People don't dance because they fear that they look like a fool.
But looking like a fool isn't that bad because in some way you show people that you are a human being who isn't perfect.
Finally some positive INFP videos Ahhaha…. I’ve seen so many where just all the struggles are listed and anything positive is painted in a poor light… when it’s actually a good thing. Feeling proud to be an INFP and much more understood
I really like this video :) it’s so innocent and simple takeaways from the lessons the INFPS that rose to fame have taught us but still put in a very meaningful way.
This is the best freaking video ever especially as an INFP
Sometimes I am not sure if I am an INFP or not, because while I can relate. I am not exactly what my family calls me a softie but I believe it’s because I was forced to be more tough due to having insensitive family and hard childhood experiences.
Why is she me!? Why am I she?? I love her
I know that the ones who love us will miss us.. that has always been my favorite thing ❣️
Whats funny is all the sterotyped words that other infps have been told too or talk about themselves I have also experienced as a fellow infp. I'm been called too quite, too emotional, too sensitive, boring, negative, don't get yar, weirdo, unrealistic, rub ppl the wrong way. I can't say I've had too many compliments lmao. The joys of being an infp. I really do have to stop dwelling on all the negative. I'm still researching to understand more about those skills and hopefully grow as a person and not be stuck in my loop because I've been through some shit. Haven't we all ❤❤❤love all infps and all other personalities too. I'm in Rainbow and unicorn mode. Tomorrow might be back to thunder storms and grey clouds but I kinda like that mode too. It's all feels beautiful people as long as you know how to come out for some air every now and then. 😊 and don't let the downs dictate the rest of your existence
I never really thought Johnny Depp was an INFP.. he seemed like a play boy to me for a long time which isn't the personality type you associate with INFP but guess I was wrong
I think the media likes to project Johnny as a Studley-do-everybody because that's how they make money
Typical to misunderstand INFP, I get that too a lot. It hurts a lot when somebody accuses me of it
INFPs feel for others. He is always thinking of others and doing things for others without any fanfare so it’s easy to miss what an INFP he really is. Misunderstood and quirky, that’s us. 😊Keanu is great but I don’t think he’s an INFP.
This poem... that's an experience.
I’m honoured to join the INFP’s🙂
Aurora is a literal gift to the world, an international treasure.
I love Keanu and his poem
Oh cool I just noticed that i share the same personality type and birthday as Keanu :)
I love Mr. Reeves, but as an INFP... I am pretty sure, He is ISFP. And that is exactly why I adore him so much.
I dearly love Aurora and Keanu, and believe they are as charming and selfless as these clips suggest. But they are also INFPs fortunate enough to be operating from a position of rare privilege. People lucky enough to have a job that validates and reenforces their personality. A lot of us INFPs don’t have that platform or the acceptance to be so carefree. But, as an experiment I’m going to cut my hair into a chic bowl style and go to work wearing a repurposed pup tent and see what happens.
Keanu's poem was so grim but cute
“You do you. Don’t be a dick.” - Every INFP ever.
My motto 😂
I am an infp and I can relate to everything these people said. Thank you for reminding me, especially today. I needed that.
Dont forget that Keanu reeves and aurora are INFP 9w1
And Johnny Depp and Kurt Cobain are INFP 4w5
That makes a lot of difference in them
Kurt Cobain was an INFJ
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"Healthy INFP" reminds me of "wealthy INFP"
Aurora reminds me of Luna Lovegood
I have ENTP and ISTP bestfriends. My husband is also an ISTP. Good thing that they have idea on how different personality works. Sometimes I do not know if people are already abusing my kindness because I always think of the goodness in them. My bestfriends are always there to remind me that too much kindness will make others forever dependent and abusive towards me.
instincts... i really know this. its not rationality or excessive morality that should be followed but this creative imagination, magical borderline impossible and even absurd dynamo according to the logical linear aspect of the mind.
the one being active when we are dreaming at night, thats the one should be enhanced to create magnificent works.
yet its scary because there, there is no time and space. its can be chaotic and sometimes crazy
2:05 I wouldn't call that necessarily selfish 4:28 wow, that is amazing and I absolutely admire her because I can relate to her the most out of these 3💗4:31 this!!!!
Wow. Aurora is very inspiring. All three of them are. Thanks a lot for this beautiful video. ♥
Johnny Depp is my type??? An INFP??? I'm honored
That was classic. Keane reeves saying about happiness and he interprets it as its all good. I always say that too myself especially when things start shifting from not so good. And funny enough I got that reference its all good from a TV series called dark angel and one of the characters always said its all good. All good all the time....
Love it when fellow infps do or say things that I can identify with and not feel so astrocisized like a me vs them sort of mindset which isn't very healthy. 😊
I got told a few days ago on an Instagram comment to “buck up snowflake and deal with it”. Wtf people.
Aurora is suuch a sweet person ^-^
So what I'm hearing is these 3 need to form a band...
I maintain a hunger but not an ambition 💗💗
Johnny Depp, Keanu Reeves, and Björk ❤❤❤
I dont get one point from Aurora... she said that she doesnt care about what other people think but that is one of the core feature of being an INFP
I’m not sure that she’s an INFP.
Maybe she is a healthy INFP. She has understood herself and trying to make herself more comfortable in this society. Even me, an INFP has started not to give an f of what people think of me
It's my first time knowing Aurora and her hairstyle is exactly my ideal haircut. Haha I think she's awesome
Thank you for this beautiful video! These people are amazing, I love them all so much❤
A poem I wrote about nature called her majesty.
Nature surrounds us
Envelopes our senses
The sun warms our soul
The wind casts troubles free from our mind
Animals gives us insight into their secretive lives
Nature is the true world
Authentic and life-giving
We are merely visitors fortunate enough to be graced by such majesty....
These are fascinating ppl.
This video really made me feel comfortable ✨🍀 thank you 😊
My problem is I take myself too serious and sometimes pessimistic. I don’t dance either because I feel embarrassed and stupid.
Aurora is such a Ne aux. Ne is so obvious to her (e.g. i might be...)
Thank you for this ❤
Please drop more videos like this 😊
These happy people are the exception and not the rule.
What a little cutie, who is that free spirit? What is her work?
Aurora? an absolutely amazing singer/composer :)
when JD is ur fav celeb and an infp like u
Think Aurora and Johnny would be a great couple actually.
Thank you for this!
It might sound strange but i was more like keanu or john but now i am more like Aurora and bit like keanu. I don't know what i am. 😅😁
You are what you are. Please never define yourself by other individuals but your own self. 😉
JANHWI no pressure as long as you end up in your own bed alive by the end of the day, you are a successful human being!!
Depp is a real INFP
Ive always loveD being INFP..😊
Currently on the field to acquire currency so I can buy back my freedom and live like Keanu ha e time to philosophy and create