You haven't uploaded anything in a very long time, and I hope you will see this comment one day. This video made such an impact on my life when I first watched this 5 years ago, now at the age of 22 I still think back to this video whenever I try to accomplish new things. The message behind it is simple yet effective, and somehow not as powerful when watching other motivational clips. Thank you and I hope you're living a happy life! X
I'm 21 years old and have been furiously thinking about these concepts my whole life and am glad to say I can internalise and relate every concept this lovely woman just mentioned to numerous real life situations. This is the real deal, and these are the ideas that my fellow man and women should be thinking about from day to day, because I believe confidence and people skills are two of the most valuable skills you will ever learn. Peace
I'm a musician and you really helped me to build my confidence and remove my fears of failure while I'm playing in front of people. I had very depressive childhood and I have always been scared by people and I always had that feeling of being small and unimportant... Thank you, you are beautiful, and I hope that I will play for you some day! Cheers :)
I'm AMAZED!! I'm just back to thank you, & recommend everyone to watch ALL your videos!! The information & skills you talk about are valuable & can't be missed! Actually after applying some of your advices, I found INSTANT results, which made me wonder why we couldn't know already about them!!!!!
Manners and beautiful looks are really simple to achieve! All you have to do is read some books and go to the gym and stuff. Been there done that. Building self confidence is way harder! I watched quite a lot videos about it on youtube and I can say this is really the best advice I heard! PDReema, you say exactly what I needed to hear - a simple and clear explanation of the things! Thank you!! :)
This is awesome! You actually have the law of attraction summed up in a single statement when you said (then later wrote, totally awesome!) "Positive thinking alone won't help you. You need to take action and change the things you want to change about yourself. Only then positive thinking is useful" These are golden nuggets of wisdom! The applications are so far reaching! Confidence life, everything. I love it! :D
you know what you are too cool, yup everything you said makes sense and you put it all in words and examples that people can relate to and understand. Thanks for taking the time to share your knowledge with us.
My "friends" make me feel bad about myself all the time , like about my hair. I used to listen to them but then I actually looked at it and thought it wasn't THAT bad. I've been loving my hair ever since :) I still have to work on my self-image tho, but I'm getting there Thnx 4 the video =D
Hello, your videos helps me a lot to aware more why and when occur the feeling of not confident. You are so kind and very generous for me any many people. Thank you very much.
Hey this is Great, i got my answere.. I have always wondered why i notice things i'm focusing on...They just seem to jump out at you...This is by far the Best explaination ive ever heard..THX.
Hi , I believe the beautiful woman in the video has really motivated me and showed me the path to success . She has actually enlightened the dark areas of worries in terms of fear especially in terms of public speaking in me .
You make some really interesting points, like how suddenly "everyone is talking about what you just did/bought/a person", and that happens to me all the time. Several months ago I was here on RUclips and watched a random Lady Gaga video. Not even a week afterwards, Lady Gaga was this new big thing; and I was like "But no one even knew about her not even a week ago", lol. xD
O M G! My life changed because of you! D: your incredible :O my life changed ALOT! because of you thanks very much! please keep making videos .. oh and btw dont care about ppl saying that you dont look good .. etc. your amazing so is your thinking ways .. omg thanks VERY VERY MUCH ! :/ i dont know what to say :'/ im proud of u :')
thank you I found a lot of useful stuff in your lecture.by the way,your town is crazy,I've never heard that many horns in my life even though I live in a big city,lol
Sometimes, people are not self confident because they are being put down by other people and it makes them feel bad and lose confidents and themseleves. To over come it you have to have self confident because some people may not be supportive.Plus be your self and don't take negative thoughts from people.
I love u! I am 15 and just started school. And i have been down since we started allmost. I acually did not know what was wrong so i looked at the internett and this is definetly my problem
thank you for this video. I've had confidence issues for the past couple of years (weight issues, acne, etc.) This video has definately given me a whole new perspective. oh and beep beep beepbeepbeep BEEP BEEP BEEPBEEPBEEP. hhaha someone lives on a busy street.
Wow, really good information. Hard to concentrate though! Also might want to aim camera facing your face since this is a confidence video looking straight at the audience, i think that would look better as opposed to you looking down. Thanks for the video the points you made on awareness were really good.
change your life around. Try out things , don't let ur life or environment stop you, just try to make things work. If is relationships try to be open with communication, if is work, be active of ur work :D God made life for u to enjoy , there might be some tests or hard roads to walk through but once u through u are competely different person. You are strong u just don't know it yet
Good video so far. I will be watching your continuation shortly. But I must ask. What the hell is going on outside your place? Some sort of traffic jam? All those cars honking. :p
OMG i am egyptian (well half) and i just watched the first few seconds, heard the honking in the backgound and saw the plants and new OMG THIS HAS TO BE CAIRO :D
This was really helpful, but I always have problems when I actually try to put tips to the test. I always get nervous and go back to my introvert ways.. :P
Here's the confidence equation: There 's only one YOU. The clearer your relationship with self, the more organic and authentic. If you can become the best YOU that you can be, confidence in YOURSELF is no longer a topic. Conversely, the absence of a relationship with self means you have no self to be confident in. After all, confidence needs a self. By the way, SELF-LOVE sets you free from others. -Godfrey Silas
I have social anxiety because I have a mild stutter, was born with deformed fingers and as a kid I was teased all through my younger years about my BIG ears( btw I`m getting ear surgery to pin them closer to my head). I think after this surgery I will feel better and mny self esteem will be way better. I won`t feel as sorry for myself anymore.
its life..move on!!! soon enough you'll find yourself more experienced on the bad side than anyone , then what's left?? only the good really!! :) sooooo......MOVE ON..all these encounters are here to teach you... but next time you meet someone and you are confident..dont feel superior to them or inferior..just know that you've been through that!! :)
that thing u said about the wrinkled shirt actually happened to me yesterday at my job(im required to wear and orange shirt to push carts at walmart) and i was so self conscious that i bought a new shirt of the same color and threw my other shirt away. i do like my new shirt though
i like the mirror idea. i think it works. can i ask a question? I am someone who used to be a strong positive thinker, and very confident. i am still somewhat confident to be honest, but as ive gotten older there have been stresses in my life and people around me e.g. marriages going wrong, being kicked off their college courses, hospitalisation, financial problems.
@Style1130 how about try applying just one of these tips TODAY? Like practice it around someone you are very comfortable with, someone who wont judge you. for me, its my dad where i have ease to do whatever i feel like bcuz i know he will love me no matter what. I had trouble singing in front of people, & i still do a little but not as much as i use to. i just practiced singing around my dad, & it was scary at first but later it feels so free! so i have more confidence to sing around others! =)
@2006kcl continuing my message: basically, i am a bit of a comforter for my friends/family, and i love being there for them, they mean a lot to me. my problem is, i feel like their negativity, complaining is rubbing off on me, and tbh, it's getting me down these days. i feel like i dont have a comforter myself, and ive realised that no one really asks me how i am. that doesnt bother me too much, but i dont know how to deal with feeling down and dealing with other people's negativity, plz help? x
@changuirus5000.....i know that is sad and its a sickness... but what should I do??? as soon as I enter someplace I start to sweat, feel desperate and sometimes i even panic... even when no one notices I am there.....I wish I could just go out there and be like the rest of the world but I just can't because I feel so.... I dont even know how to describe it but I know it's dumb and stupid... any suggestios?
@ChewbaccaRenee The way I feel is that people hate me for who I am...its hard to be myself sometimes and I have social anxiety for that matter. And for the record, I don't think I like any physical traits about me other than my face shape...that's about it and other things about my personlaity and character. Physical appearance wise, there is almost nothing I like about myself sadly and I feel like its going to affect me for the rest of my life. I get very paranoid.
@koochkooch You seem to know your stuff.. I have a little bit of acne and i can't help but somtimes Care about what people think about "me" because of these little red dots on my face.. What can i do ?!
For some reason I thought she would suck... but sh e s actually quite intelligent, interesting. And shes quite helpful! 1 in a million! Beauty and brains!!!
You haven't uploaded anything in a very long time, and I hope you will see this comment one day. This video made such an impact on my life when I first watched this 5 years ago, now at the age of 22 I still think back to this video whenever I try to accomplish new things. The message behind it is simple yet effective, and somehow not as powerful when watching other motivational clips. Thank you and I hope you're living a happy life! X
I'm 21 years old and have been furiously thinking about these concepts my whole life and am glad to say I can internalise and relate every concept this lovely woman just mentioned to numerous real life situations. This is the real deal, and these are the ideas that my fellow man and women should be thinking about from day to day, because I believe confidence and people skills are two of the most valuable skills you will ever learn. Peace
I'm a musician and you really helped me to build my confidence and remove my fears of failure while I'm playing in front of people. I had very depressive childhood and I have always been scared by people and I always had that feeling of being small and unimportant... Thank you, you are beautiful, and I hope that I will play for you some day! Cheers :)
I'm AMAZED!!
I'm just back to thank you, & recommend everyone to watch ALL your videos!! The information & skills you talk about are valuable & can't be missed!
Actually after applying some of your advices, I found INSTANT results, which made me wonder why we couldn't know already about them!!!!!
Manners and beautiful looks are really simple to achieve! All you have to do is read some books and go to the gym and stuff. Been there done that. Building self confidence is way harder! I watched quite a lot videos about it on youtube and I can say this is really the best advice I heard! PDReema, you say exactly what I needed to hear - a simple and clear explanation of the things! Thank you!! :)
Useful video, thanks for sharing! :)
Thanks for the video :)
Your advices are worth spending some time to listen!!!
This is awesome! You actually have the law of attraction summed up in a single statement when you said (then later wrote, totally awesome!) "Positive thinking alone won't help you. You need to take action and change the things you want to change about yourself. Only then positive thinking is useful" These are golden nuggets of wisdom! The applications are so far reaching! Confidence life, everything. I love it! :D
you know what you are too cool, yup everything you said makes sense and you put it all in words and examples that people can relate to and understand. Thanks for taking the time to share your knowledge with us.
Congratulations for the video that i really like.. :) keep up the good work.
She is absolutely right !!!!
Great video, psst i love your style! Beautiful!
4:53 the honks are pretty funny
good 1 :) great job :)
My "friends" make me feel bad about myself all the time , like about my hair. I used to listen to them but then I actually looked at it and thought it wasn't THAT bad. I've been loving my hair ever since :)
I still have to work on my self-image tho, but I'm getting there
Thnx 4 the video =D
Hello, your videos helps me a lot to aware more why and when occur the feeling of not confident. You are so kind and very generous for me any many people. Thank you very much.
that was really informative. you present the information well. thanks.
Hey this is Great, i got my answere.. I have always wondered why i notice things i'm focusing on...They just seem to jump out at you...This is by far the Best explaination ive ever heard..THX.
Hi , I believe the beautiful woman in the video has really motivated me and showed me the path to success . She has actually enlightened the dark areas of worries in terms of fear especially in terms of public speaking in me .
This was so helpful! :)
Great Insight. Lovely
So helpful. Thank you!
thanks very much i found these videos really helpfull over a rought time i wonder what would have been if i hadn't seen them, thanks very much.
You are very intelligent. Thank you for posting these videos
I really like your take on this topic! :D
good advice, i couldn't stop laughing at the car horn wars going on towards the end.
Thank you I really like your video.I have been having lot oe troubles of believing in confidence in my self. I hope you show more.
Robert
You make some really interesting points, like how suddenly "everyone is talking about what you just did/bought/a person", and that happens to me all the time. Several months ago I was here on RUclips and watched a random Lady Gaga video. Not even a week afterwards, Lady Gaga was this new big thing; and I was like "But no one even knew about her not even a week ago", lol. xD
thank you that was great keep the good work god bless
I love it !
Thank you :*
+Hind Derkaoui
And I love your picture. The kid's hair is awesome...
+J Aurelio P Thank u ^^
O M G! My life changed because of you! D: your incredible :O my life changed ALOT! because of you thanks very much! please keep making videos .. oh and btw dont care about ppl saying that you dont look good .. etc. your amazing so is your thinking ways .. omg thanks VERY VERY MUCH ! :/ i dont know what to say :'/ im proud of u :')
thank you I found a lot of useful stuff in your lecture.by the way,your town is crazy,I've never heard that many horns in my life even though I live in a big city,lol
you summed up most of my ideas, thanks for the vlog.
Sometimes, people are not self confident because they are being put down by other people and it makes them feel bad and lose confidents and themseleves. To over come it you have to have self confident because some people may not be supportive.Plus be your self and don't take negative thoughts from people.
Enjoyed the post. Thanks.
Thank you! your videos help me a lot.
Goood one
Thank you! it does makes sense!
SO TRUE!
@PayPayVids WELCOME TO CAIRO BABY, i could recognize that honking anywhere and anytime
GOD BLESS EGYPT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
great video, thanks
Great tips thanks
You are awesome!!!!
good one!
well explained :-) thank you!
@PDReema thank you very much !!!! I really need the info you gave!!! God bless you!
thankyou, this is brilliant.
I love u! I am 15 and just started school. And i have been down since we started allmost. I acually did not know what was wrong so i looked at the internett and this is definetly my problem
good info !! thanks
this was awsome advise i clicked the like button =P, and i dont even have confidence issues XD
thank you for this video. I've had confidence issues for the past couple of years (weight issues, acne, etc.) This video has definately given me a whole new perspective.
oh and beep beep beepbeepbeep BEEP BEEP BEEPBEEPBEEP. hhaha someone lives on a busy street.
ohh thanxxx..i thnk i will b much confident now
thanx...u look great :)
That's really good... Now close that window!!!
This is great
Very good.
Wow, really good information. Hard to concentrate though! Also might want to aim camera facing your face since this is a confidence video looking straight at the audience, i think that would look better as opposed to you looking down. Thanks for the video the points you made on awareness were really good.
thank you, thats really helpfull
nice video.............
change your life around. Try out things , don't let ur life or environment stop you, just try to make things work. If is relationships try to be open with communication, if is work, be active of ur work :D God made life for u to enjoy , there might be some tests or hard roads to walk through but once u through u are competely different person. You are strong u just don't know it yet
this is great vid!!
those horn in the background are so distracting tho, haha
Good video so far. I will be watching your continuation shortly.
But I must ask. What the hell is going on outside your place? Some sort of traffic jam? All those cars honking. :p
OMG i am egyptian (well half) and i just watched the first few seconds, heard the honking in the backgound and saw the plants and new OMG THIS HAS TO BE CAIRO :D
gurus should have the quality in order to teach others about..but i feel more and much more confident after seeing you in the video
great video
love this vid thanks
This was really helpful, but I always have problems when I actually try to put tips to the test. I always get nervous and go back to my introvert ways.. :P
Here's the confidence equation: There 's only one YOU. The clearer your relationship with self, the more organic and authentic. If you can become the best YOU that you can be, confidence in YOURSELF is no longer a topic. Conversely, the absence of a relationship with self means you have no self to be confident in. After all, confidence needs a self. By the way, SELF-LOVE sets you free from others.
-Godfrey Silas
Good vids :) thanks
I have social anxiety because I have a mild stutter, was born with deformed fingers and as a kid I was teased all through my younger years about my BIG ears( btw I`m getting ear surgery to pin them closer to my head). I think after this surgery I will feel better and mny self esteem will be way better. I won`t feel as sorry for myself anymore.
good stuff
its life..move on!!! soon enough you'll find yourself more experienced on the bad side than anyone , then what's left?? only the good really!! :) sooooo......MOVE ON..all these encounters are here to teach you... but next time you meet someone and you are confident..dont feel superior to them or inferior..just know that you've been through that!! :)
thank you!!!
that thing u said about the wrinkled shirt actually happened to me yesterday
at my job(im required to wear and orange shirt to push carts at walmart) and i was so self conscious that i bought a new shirt of the same color and threw my other shirt away. i do like my new shirt though
Thank you
Thank u v . much sister...
you understand me sooooo well :O
5:00 hahahahahaha the cars are going nuts
I think the drivers outside are trying to show their confidence by honking a lot but secretly they are insecure about themselves.
i like your pjs!
Perfect example of availability heuristics.
i like the mirror idea. i think it works. can i ask a question? I am someone who used to be a strong positive thinker, and very confident. i am still somewhat confident to be honest, but as ive gotten older there have been stresses in my life and people around me e.g. marriages going wrong, being kicked off their college courses, hospitalisation, financial problems.
Great advice. What's up with all the car horns?
Very smart
5:05 the cars LOOL
@Style1130 how about try applying just one of these tips TODAY? Like practice it around someone you are very comfortable with, someone who wont judge you. for me, its my dad where i have ease to do whatever i feel like bcuz i know he will love me no matter what. I had trouble singing in front of people, & i still do a little but not as much as i use to. i just practiced singing around my dad, & it was scary at first but later it feels so free! so i have more confidence to sing around others! =)
You can only really be confident if you accept who you are
thanks for this nice video , want to say if you tell us how native speak fast?
thanks alot
Tank you
Very interesting, when is the next video?
thanks
great tips.. thank you..... and you're pretty
hey man thanks for the reply otherwise i never woulda known i mad top comments. i make top comments frequently
@2006kcl continuing my message: basically, i am a bit of a comforter for my friends/family, and i love being there for them, they mean a lot to me. my problem is, i feel like their negativity, complaining is rubbing off on me, and tbh, it's getting me down these days. i feel like i dont have a comforter myself, and ive realised that no one really asks me how i am. that doesnt bother me too much, but i dont know how to deal with feeling down and dealing with other people's negativity, plz help? x
@changuirus5000.....i know that is sad and its a sickness... but what should I do??? as soon as I enter someplace I start to sweat, feel desperate and sometimes i even panic... even when no one notices I am there.....I wish I could just go out there and be like the rest of the world but I just can't because I feel so.... I dont even know how to describe it but I know it's dumb and stupid... any suggestios?
U the best
@ChewbaccaRenee The way I feel is that people hate me for who I am...its hard to be myself sometimes and I have social anxiety for that matter. And for the record, I don't think I like any physical traits about me other than my face shape...that's about it and other things about my personlaity and character. Physical appearance wise, there is almost nothing I like about myself sadly and I feel like its going to affect me for the rest of my life. I get very paranoid.
i was counting the (ummm) every time you say umm sorry lost count
but you have good advice
@koochkooch You seem to know your stuff..
I have a little bit of acne and i can't help but somtimes Care about what people think about "me" because of these little red dots on my face.. What can i do ?!
For some reason I thought she would suck... but sh e s actually quite intelligent, interesting. And shes quite helpful!
1 in a million! Beauty and brains!!!