This is why they keep doing it to you over and over

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  • Опубликовано: 22 июн 2024

Комментарии • 78

  • @gnothiseauton8859
    @gnothiseauton8859 11 дней назад +13

    YES!!!👏 This is spot on and the timing was perfect...Thank you so much Kirk❣🥰To all of you watching this, please remember that you are enough, you matter and you are loved. So very much loved! 👑❤

  • @xxqueenofdarkness
    @xxqueenofdarkness 11 дней назад +18

    Gosh. I needed to hear this. Kept blaming myself and taking responsibility for everything. Thank you.

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  11 дней назад +5

      Good that you stopped blaming yourself.

    • @loisevora2717
      @loisevora2717 10 дней назад +1

      I love this! It's a lesson you need to learn.
      It's my experience that you will meet the same type of person until you learn the lesson. 😑

    • @loisevora2717
      @loisevora2717 10 дней назад

      @konsciousKirk
      Yes, Kirk a long time ago. 🙂

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 11 дней назад +11

    Your love can’t change shitty people ❤😂❤- this video is so soothing 💌

  • @Yulondia5225
    @Yulondia5225 11 дней назад +14

    Kirk, I must admit our upbringings (some) were to accept a man even if he’s abusive, unloving and adulterer.
    We were raised (some) to be content with a piece of a man than any man at all mentality. He wants you and that’s all that mattered; Not how he treats you, take care of the family, etc. etc. Which enable them and diminish our value which lower our self- esteem.
    We have to unlearn and relearn a lot of toxic behaviors, self worth, loving ourselves first and having faith our kingdom spouse will find us.
    Such a simple message, yet carries so much context and weight. #Masterclass 🔥🔥🔥

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  11 дней назад +2

      You’re right tho. Unfortunately that’s what the older generation taught the younger men and women what to accept. It’s sad. So men could be stuck in their ways and women had to accept. That’s really sad

    • @Yulondia5225
      @Yulondia5225 11 дней назад +2

      @@konsciousKirk My parents instilled in me to be glad I had a husband versus you deserve the best bc you are worthy to be loved, cherished and honored w/all due regards. Raised to look/lean outward instead of inward...
      Women, not men, are the glue that keeps the family together. However, the husband sets the foundation (Godly example) that the wife should amplify. Lead by love....not things... Women are such powerful being....

  • @Resilient7973
    @Resilient7973 11 дней назад +8

    Alot of people really needed it hear this , Thank You we have to learn how to forgive ourselves❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sheritownsend5359
    @sheritownsend5359 11 дней назад +8

    Excellent! So many people on social media have nothing worthwhile to say. I'm glad that you have and are saying it.

  • @mariemac7785
    @mariemac7785 10 дней назад +3

    Finally someone said it. And a real man said at that. Thank you for validating it. 🙏🏽

  • @diannemendonca2141
    @diannemendonca2141 11 дней назад +3

    I needed to hear that, been blaming myself for being naive and stupid

  • @ersilajones4473
    @ersilajones4473 11 дней назад +6

    WOW, no words but THANK YOU

  • @samz396
    @samz396 11 дней назад +4

    Wow u r amazing. I always say they are no regrets in life its all a learning experience, do better, be better. Thanks for sharing this message.

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  11 дней назад +1

      ❤️❤️ that’s right. Always a learning experience

  • @monical4686
    @monical4686 8 дней назад

    Such a beautiful message! Those of us who blame ourselves for "allowing" others to mistreat us, only feel that way bc we would never do that to them.

  • @ThabileTshabalala-ek1os
    @ThabileTshabalala-ek1os 10 дней назад +1

    I love how you keep your segments short and powerful 🙌🏽

  • @frehatipu9187
    @frehatipu9187 11 дней назад +2

    Hey, just what I needed to hear. Bless You!
    I agree, people should be credited for being hopeful ❤

  • @LaLaFox251
    @LaLaFox251 11 дней назад +1

    I love this! Words of wisdom. We need to love and forgive and also be good to ourselves. We learn and grow when the time is right.

  • @triplegrace155
    @triplegrace155 10 дней назад +1

    It's been 5 years. You are right he was a shitty person. I have healed, and now i am a better person, but he will never be a better person. He is a fool stuck in his thirst for illusions.

  • @ShantaMcDonald
    @ShantaMcDonald 11 дней назад +2

    I needed to hear this. It's like you were speaking directly to me. Thanks

  • @nesleecharles9059
    @nesleecharles9059 10 дней назад

    Indeed! I am giving and accepting GRACE-- Suspending blame and guilt. Yes, Waited too long! Stayed longer than the expiration date. Hoped! Learned the lesson. There you have it.

  • @Shannonrogersdancer
    @Shannonrogersdancer 10 дней назад

    Once again, that hit home 🌟 please know my gratitude for your helping myself and others. You're teaching people some really valuable lessons 🙏🌟🌟🙏

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 11 дней назад +1

    This should be International Anthem❤

  • @user-bw9mp1in9l
    @user-bw9mp1in9l 10 дней назад

    God Bless You Kirk
    Thank You!!!🙏🕊🦋❤️

  • @natali4009
    @natali4009 11 дней назад

    Shitty is what shitty does😂
    Took me nearly 25 years the first time, then 7 years on with another, not being able to believe what I heard, witnessed and felt.
    My last words to myself and the other were… “if it looks like shite, and smells like shite… then it is shite… I’m not afraid to scoop it up in a bag and throw it in the bin”.
    My problem was giving
    “ the benefit of the doubt “
    due to my upbringing.
    So another thing I have discovered is that one must sometimes leave old ideas behind… because life is for learning new things .❤

  • @beautyjite6653
    @beautyjite6653 10 дней назад

    This is powerful. I needed to hear this as I am healing. Thank you so much!

  • @tyisseboykins6315
    @tyisseboykins6315 11 дней назад

    Exactly!!! You are on point.

  • @empressniki11
    @empressniki11 10 дней назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @theonerealestatesecret
    @theonerealestatesecret 10 дней назад

    All is well and I am protected.💪🏿🔥

  • @vanessajohnson6077
    @vanessajohnson6077 10 дней назад +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEOS 😊 GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏾🌹

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  10 дней назад

      You are so welcome and thank you❤️❤️

  • @tiff7138
    @tiff7138 11 дней назад

    This was very much appreciated!! Thanks Kirk (:

  • @empressmitchell3436
    @empressmitchell3436 11 дней назад +1

    🎉🎉🎉I really Stay to long okay thanks for sharing beloved 😊

  • @ravenjones7649
    @ravenjones7649 10 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing! Aaaaayyyyyeee!

  • @AgnesUdo-Etuk-ve2lg
    @AgnesUdo-Etuk-ve2lg 9 дней назад

    Thank you so much for this message Sir 🙏👍❤️

  • @user-ch3qk9qf5n
    @user-ch3qk9qf5n 11 дней назад

    Yes right on point and thank you for this laugh for what you said at the end 😅❤😊❤

  • @Resilient7973
    @Resilient7973 11 дней назад +1

    Hey Professor Happy Sunday to you and your family

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  11 дней назад

      Heyyy Resilient. Thank you. Happy Sunday to you also. Hope you’re having a blast

  • @deltv5937
    @deltv5937 11 дней назад

    A powerful message it resonates so profoundly thank you 😊

  • @dharmon8798
    @dharmon8798 11 дней назад +3

    If he contacts me one more time, I'm going to block him. No means No

    • @montecito12
      @montecito12 10 дней назад +1

      You block him now, so he can't contact you one last time. Block him now. If you really want to.

  • @DedeEssel-dk2mh
    @DedeEssel-dk2mh 11 дней назад

    Thanks a lot, I needed this.

  • @kidchocolate9253
    @kidchocolate9253 11 дней назад +1

    I approve of this message.❤

  • @helenaioannou3384
    @helenaioannou3384 10 дней назад

    Love this❤ thank you 🙏🏼 blessed me

  • @cherylsimpson6702
    @cherylsimpson6702 10 дней назад

    On Point!💯

  • @tonjagee11
    @tonjagee11 11 дней назад +1

    Hey brother Ty for the wisdom👈

  • @TelesiaIoakimi-tl9fq
    @TelesiaIoakimi-tl9fq 11 дней назад

    I don't know nothing of you, or someone else, I really don't know anything about anybody....but, I will say, No....they didn't done anything to me...but as you know , we are helping or we giving some ideas, but if they against it, why should I keep it now..forget it! At least I have little I got from them....I accept the few, appreciated that🙏🏽.....I'm not argue because I know what in their head... Secondly, let find what the mistakes the world did long ago....That's is it! ..so move on, simple!
    I don't waste any time, my time is very precious, and I save my energy...I am the person I make my own decision, get rid of rumours... Theres no room for discussion of anything, I thanks for you or everyone for all your amazing thoughts about me, bad , good.... Jesus Christ! ❤....
    We cannot understand love, if we don't understand ourselves. God bless ❤❤❤❤.

  • @GwendolynPearson-wo9cx
    @GwendolynPearson-wo9cx 11 дней назад +1

    Love your teachings

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  11 дней назад

      ❤️❤️ thank you so much and for your continued support 🙏🏾

  • @KatbeautyG
    @KatbeautyG 11 дней назад

    Hello Kirk 🥰🥰🥰🥰
    Smilin from ear to ear, love ur toilet analogy! Lol! Thanks! SOO TRUE!
    U made my day!hehe!

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  11 дней назад +1

      😂😂😂 I’m glad I can help make your day

  • @donnie7274
    @donnie7274 11 дней назад +1

    😂GET UP OFF THE TOILET😁

  • @rachaelhunter3105
    @rachaelhunter3105 11 дней назад

    Yes 💯 🎯🎯💪

  • @lisashannon238
    @lisashannon238 10 дней назад +1

    THANK YOU

  • @itisalright2785
    @itisalright2785 11 дней назад

    Thank you

  • @aftonstjames
    @aftonstjames 11 дней назад

    My children’s father has left and come back three times… thank you fr I needed this

    • @Elle_ene
      @Elle_ene 11 дней назад

      I always feel sooo much better after listening to you! 💕 You have such a wonderful gift of communicating truth with such compassion and style and with sharing from a diff perspective we may have missed ourselves....brings me to tears! Thankyou💖

  • @dona_grace
    @dona_grace 11 дней назад

    Okrrrr😂🎉, Get up, bathe up, wash it out your hair, detox it out your body, rebuke that ruminating mind, drink ya tea baby, put ya pretty clothes on, and fresh perfume, gloss them beautiful lips and be out🙌🏾🕊️✌🏽🥰

  • @brendapokorny326
    @brendapokorny326 11 дней назад +1

    Wisdom.

  • @sheilahill7333
    @sheilahill7333 11 дней назад

    I agree

  • @dharmon8798
    @dharmon8798 11 дней назад +1

    Ok now, after you have left them alone, why are they keep contacting you?
    I'm not going back. I'm done. Once I have told a person that I'm done, and do you, they need to stop wasting their time and energy. I'm fine

  • @sylviahunter-sr4is
    @sylviahunter-sr4is 11 дней назад +1

    Hey Brother Kirk 👋

  • @sosoc2616
    @sosoc2616 11 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @CierraW-ImReallyHer444
    @CierraW-ImReallyHer444 11 дней назад

    ❤❤❤👏🏾💎👏🏾❤❤❤🫴i agree

  • @mellok6627
    @mellok6627 11 дней назад

    I love you

  • @gogol8941
    @gogol8941 10 дней назад

    🩷