U can tell if he has someone at some point if he doesn't want to meet ur family, doesn't want u to meet his, u can basically call/ text n see him certain hours of a day, can't spend the night out, don't see u on holidays, meet up with u in private( ur house) if in public somewhere outta town,etc.
We have to be vigilant at all times and not be light about the red flags.It's ok to be alone.I married a man from the islands,but I take the responsibility for my choices in any relationships that I've been in.I'm a good girl,but I've chosen wrong.
"The ability to observe without evaluating is the highest form of intelligence." Indian philosopher, J. Krishnamurti ❤❤❤ Love ur content. Bless Up Nephew.😎
I remember hearing that Steve Harvey said "Act like A Lady, Think Like A Man" i didnt understand it at first but now what i get from it was we as women need to balance our energy. Its like we cant be too feminine, or too masculine. Being too feminine has our head in the clouds with emotions and we think, act, feel, perceive and make decisions solely on feelings, easily gullible or trustong, have no standards/boundaries, overly receptive/easily led. if we're too masculine we're too grounded/too serious, have our defenses too high, are not receptive, too independent, too self reliant, hide feelings. I think as we need to balance our feminine energy with a selective few of the masculine traits such as having standards, able to have feelings yet see things realistically or make decisions rationally. We display fully feminine we attract fully masculine "predators", who also dont balance their masculine energy either. I thought about this. A good man to me, is masculine such as being strong willed, rational, combative/protective (masculine energy) but still able to balance his energy with a few feminine traits such as compassionate, caring, considerate (feminine energy). So this just my thoughts. Are alot of us are walking around with an imbalance or unbalanced energies?
He/ she can b single but live with someone, juggling several people n still go back home like nothing happened n my opinion if you are with someone n struggling your "Living Single" like the '93 sitcom
Facts on Facts on Facts! I RESONATED with everything you said! Brother your ENERGY is on point. I manifested you and this feed as I NEEDED to connect with myself AGAIN! Thank you Kirk!🙌🏾😇🤗
I went on spiritual journey to bring myself to the awareness that you are talking about. It's been messy and painful, but the knowledge and awareness is priceless. I tell myself that I'm timeless and it helps me focus on the present and being in the moment. All things are temporary so existing in the now is pertinent if I want to live without regret. 😊
You are a good coach for a lot of women a lot of women need to listen to your channel cuz I had to learn this you know as women we just not looking for the past what this man is about we just looking at the outward appearance we're not looking what he's all about
Some women are looking for the past and the here and now. A public records search will help you find out some things that are necessary for you to know.
@konsciousKirk thank you I needed to hear this..now I can stop worrying about wasted time .I've been married before..so now I am looking for marriage to show up again 😅
A person at war with themselves, has low self esteem, Ego , GOD HATES EGOTISTICAL HEARTS !! You feel uncomfortable in public with them because they're always trying to flirt 👀👀 looking trying to catch somebody's attention. You hate going places with these kinds of people and you definitely don't trust them when you're with them and when you're not with them. I'D RATHER BE SINGLE ANY DAY THAN BE IN A HORRIBLE RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT ✌🏽 💙
Your so right on kirk when you come across someone or something It hits me real strong it raises my skin hair and my girl would say is my inner demons but I know I read people well enough and once I pick up on your energy and it don.t stand well with me am off I have no time to waste
Hey brother new to your channel your content has helped me through a recent break up and my spiritual journey too ! Thank you Kirk you are cool like an wiser big brother ! 💜🙏😊🙌🏽
It boils down to asking him direct questions and being friends first. Let him know what you want and expect. Understand that men have free will. The man im talking to is my friend but it is understood that we may date. We are in the vetting stage. We dont want to rush into anything. We ask deep questions. We are open and honest. He will tell me the truth if he wanted someone else because i made it clear that i would respect that ( even though i want to be with him) we have a foundation of friendship first. We have not been intimate ( even tho the attraction is strong) both of us want more. So we are taking our time. Sex is not gonna keep a man ladies! Our connection is strong because we didn't have sex. We been talking a year but are long distance. We seen each other once. He cant come to me because i am a caregiver for my elderly father. So its best and easiest for me to go to him. This situation is unique because he is a public figure that i been Crushing on since i was a child. I never thought we would ever meet, much less be good friends snd possibly more
Thank You for mentioning "You are a Healer". I have done years of self reflection and work and self-healing on myself. I am an Epthath and Healer. Broken men are like moths to this flame...last relationship took lots of time to vet him and then after involved I found out he had child hood unhealed trauma after involment. He Gray Ghosted me and by text saying he met someone else... Seems like it's not always possible to know everything.
Why haven’t you left ? Are you planning to leave? Why waste your time and life. I’m planning on leaving my relationship later on this month my apartment is already paid for to move in July, I’m leaving without saying anything. Don’t say anything just leave, he doesn’t care cuz he knows you won’t leave
When it comes to love , I feel like if us humans in these avatars lack to understand , what truly love is . People seem to focus on romantic love and transactional love . Persons often place “expectations “ on what they believe love is and how it works . Then adding “self love” you can’t really and truly live anyone if we don’t live ourselves . That is it and that is all. Society really does a job in us and how we perceive love , life , contentment and peace . Most people don’t get to experience the full spectrum of love , life, contentment and peace . Unfortunately because of tat programming we are trauma responding everywhere , pointing fingers , judging etc . Btw the painting analogy is perfect ! The attach and detach is on the 💴 … I recent years learned how to do this and keep my feelings and emotions separate and hold the good moments in a good place and being detach without feeling all messed up . Love your work ! Blessing to you and your loved ones !
love it. You just rap off the top of your head. Then let it slip you are an intelligent thoughtful person, I just found you. Listening helps me make sense Out much. You say it is a game. In thinking skills, we call Rapport a rhythmic dance.
From the Chi, thank you for the empowerment. I'm new to the dating scene... or should I say game 😂. I 😢e been married for 26 yrs. WHAT IS GOING ON!!! Thanks for letting us know 🤔
Hey loving your teaching and sharing. Wondering about your T-shirt. I absolutely love it. Can you share where you got it from?. Would love love to get one.
I picked up everything and then I told him if he think our relationship is too much for him we can end it. He swore nothing was wrong. I mentioned it again and i could tell he knew why I said it because he started getting a little agitated.
you’re my therapy for the night love the way you think and pass this on. I’m laughing my ass off. I’ve got it Picasso he said, and they said. I’ve got to Picasso. That’s pretty funny.
Asking the question what should she do after finding out the man she's been dating for 4 months is married is because she wants to hear a lie to keep dating him because she's gotten attached to him regardless if he's married or not. SELF RESPECT DISCIPLINE AND BOUNDARIES will save you so much unnecessary trouble !!!
I just wanna say I followed your advice on the picture thing and talked to the soul and the person now wants me way more idk what I did I hope it’s not ungodly
I use to trust too much when i was younger, and i did choose wrong because i thought everyone was nice like me. WRONG! I was told from a dear male friend that people aren't nice most of them. Years later, i found that to be true! Im still nice, but guarded. You have to protect yourself through discernment. I have been cheated on in long term relationships, i didn't feel stupid. I felt that he had deep rooted issues, and I will dismiss them as soon as possible. The longer you live, wisdom is your best friend. When something is over its over. Move on with no regrets.
Kirk, I love and so appreciate your sharing/teachings. I had 6 brothers, this is the wisdom/shared experiences I so desired to receive from them in life/living. THANK YOU❤❤❤
When you watch and learn ppl patterns you will know what you need to know. Pray for discernment. Date with your eyes open and legs closed!
Jesus!! Love that date part. 🎉😮
Thank you. Sex is something that’s Presious. It’s for married people.
Exactly, legs closed. When you know better, you do better.
If you have discipline, self-respect, and boundaries, you will be SAFE!
It’s true , a person with low self esteem is the worst to be with
If you have any doubt trust that feeling.
Some People can be narcissistic without having Narcissistic personality disorder.
Yes
U can tell if he has someone at some point if he doesn't want to meet ur family, doesn't want u to meet his, u can basically call/ text n see him certain hours of a day, can't spend the night out, don't see u on holidays, meet up with u in private( ur house) if in public somewhere outta town,etc.
So true
😩😩😩 I know those all too well!!!
We have to be vigilant at all times and not be light about the red flags.It's ok to be alone.I married a man from the islands,but I take the responsibility for my choices in any relationships that I've been in.I'm a good girl,but I've chosen wrong.
Hello
Iam single and don't have no man sorry just can't trust them
You’re like the big brother I never had. I am so grateful that I came across your videos! Thank you for your transparency!
I wish I had found your videos before my last dating situation 😕 but I know now 🙂
Gurllll I feel u!! ❤😢
"The ability to observe without evaluating is the highest form of intelligence."
Indian philosopher,
J. Krishnamurti
❤❤❤ Love ur content. Bless Up Nephew.😎
I remember hearing that Steve Harvey said "Act like A Lady, Think Like A Man" i didnt understand it at first but now what i get from it was we as women need to balance our energy. Its like we cant be too feminine, or too masculine. Being too feminine has our head in the clouds with emotions and we think, act, feel, perceive and make decisions solely on feelings, easily gullible or trustong, have no standards/boundaries, overly receptive/easily led. if we're too masculine we're too grounded/too serious, have our defenses too high, are not receptive, too independent, too self reliant, hide feelings. I think as we need to balance our feminine energy with a selective few of the masculine traits such as having standards, able to have feelings yet see things realistically or make decisions rationally. We display fully feminine we attract fully masculine "predators", who also dont balance their masculine energy either. I thought about this. A good man to me, is masculine such as being strong willed, rational, combative/protective (masculine energy) but still able to balance his energy with a few feminine traits such as compassionate, caring, considerate (feminine energy). So this just my thoughts. Are alot of us are walking around with an imbalance or unbalanced energies?
😩💯🥰😘😍
I rather be by myself than with a liar or cheater or abuser.
There are many undiagnosed narcs walking the earth.
You got that right.
This is the realest live ever
He/ she can b single but live with someone, juggling several people n still go back home like nothing happened n my opinion if you are with someone n struggling your "Living Single" like the '93 sitcom
Good stuff in this video. I love when these coaches little kids bother them while they are recording. Shows they are keeping it"real".
Needed this. Older brother advice I needed😮❤😂
Facts on Facts on Facts! I RESONATED with everything you said! Brother your ENERGY is on point. I manifested you and this feed as I NEEDED to connect with myself AGAIN! Thank you Kirk!🙌🏾😇🤗
USE DISCERNMENT....
FAST FOR 2 WEEKS.....STRAIGHT GO TO GOD IN PRAYER...AMEN
I went on spiritual journey to bring myself to the awareness that you are talking about. It's been messy and painful, but the knowledge and awareness is priceless. I tell myself that I'm timeless and it helps me focus on the present and being in the moment. All things are temporary so existing in the now is pertinent if I want to live without regret. 😊
You are a good coach for a lot of women a lot of women need to listen to your channel cuz I had to learn this you know as women we just not looking for the past what this man is about we just looking at the outward appearance we're not looking what he's all about
Thank you so much🥰🥰
Some women are looking for the past and the here and now. A public records search will help you find out some things that are necessary for you to know.
@konsciousKirk thank you I needed to hear this..now I can stop worrying about wasted time .I've been married before..so now I am looking for marriage to show up again 😅
Dating isn’t for marriage. It’s to collect the data on a person. Know what you want and don’t want. Court then marry. 30:42
KIRK this is great information 💯
A person at war with themselves, has low self esteem, Ego , GOD HATES EGOTISTICAL HEARTS !! You feel uncomfortable in public with them because they're always trying to flirt 👀👀 looking trying to catch somebody's attention. You hate going places with these kinds of people and you definitely don't trust them when you're with them and when you're not with them. I'D RATHER BE SINGLE ANY DAY THAN BE IN A HORRIBLE RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT ✌🏽 💙
New 2 your channel... U telling the Truth! On these behaviors.
Hello this is Tonya from Saginaw, Michigan. Appreciate your real talk.
your wisdom!!!!! youre such a breathe of fresh air.
The wisdom he speaking is amazing! I truly appreciate, and thankful I am at the level to receive it! Such a gem of a mind! Thank you!
Kirk I like you. Your analysis is great insight!
This is such great content! I enjoy your messages and I'm learning!! Thank you.
YES!!! THANK YOU. My energy has been too loud😊 Got it❤
I absolutely love listening to you!
Your so right on kirk when you come across someone or something It hits me real strong it raises my skin hair and my girl would say is my inner demons but I know I read people well enough and once I pick up on your energy and it don.t stand well with me am off I have no time to waste
Hey brother new to your channel your content has helped me through a recent break up and my spiritual journey too ! Thank you Kirk you are cool like an wiser big brother ! 💜🙏😊🙌🏽
Thank you so much❤️❤️
@@konsciousKirk definitely taking notes of all the facts🙌🏽may copy a few of your tops too 🤣🔥
@@eleanorward9533 lol.
The wisdom!! Glad I came across this! :)
Sheila from Virginia.
I appreciate all the information you share with us .
Powerful words Emporer ❤️❤️greetings from West Palm Beach Florida 🔥🔥🔥⭐️⭐️⭐️💯
🗣️ Ayeeeee! South FL! 👌🏾💯
It boils down to asking him direct questions and being friends first. Let him know what you want and expect. Understand that men have free will. The man im talking to is my friend but it is understood that we may date. We are in the vetting stage. We dont want to rush into anything. We ask deep questions. We are open and honest. He will tell me the truth if he wanted someone else because i made it clear that i would respect that ( even though i want to be with him) we have a foundation of friendship first. We have not been intimate ( even tho the attraction is strong) both of us want more. So we are taking our time. Sex is not gonna keep a man ladies! Our connection is strong because we didn't have sex. We been talking a year but are long distance. We seen each other once. He cant come to me because i am a caregiver for my elderly father. So its best and easiest for me to go to him. This situation is unique because he is a public figure that i been Crushing on since i was a child. I never thought we would ever meet, much less be good friends snd possibly more
😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
Very true ,you nailed it 😊
Love your wisdom it definitely gave me understanding. Trust my instincts.
You know you look rich!!! Peace and continued blessings 🙏🏿
JESUS PEACE Kirk you are 2000 % correct. Spot on
Great information!
Facts that Part 💯 💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I Love This The Moment Enjoy It In The Moment,When it’s Gone,it’s Gone.Very Well Said My Brother,Excellent Advice.I Will Always Remember This.
You are right to the point.
From Barbados
Dame boy wisdom
Thank you 🙏🏻
I had to heal because I was broken. ❤my life is so much better 💕 23:24
Good morning. I'm watching from Reno, NV. Thank you for your videos.
Maranda from Decatur, Alabama... I'm listening, keep talking ❤
Hello I'm from Frankfort ky and this was a very interesting video thank you for sharing this topic ❤
Very informative 👏🏽 👌🏽
Greetings from London Town 🇬🇧
I love you man. Real talk
Just ask the question. Are you single and involved or single and uninvolved? 💯💯💯
They lie
Thank You for your insight 🌹✨
Haha I love your shirt!! 🤎⚡
Thank You for mentioning "You are a Healer". I have done years of self reflection and work and self-healing on myself. I am an Epthath and Healer. Broken men are like moths to this flame...last relationship took lots of time to vet him and then after involved I found out he had child hood unhealed trauma after involment. He Gray Ghosted me and by text saying he met someone else... Seems like it's not always possible to know everything.
Hello I am in Los Angeles giving a lot of good advice. Keep up the good work.
Maureen appreciates your message. I am in Barbados West Indies
All my husband does is LIE
Why haven’t you left ? Are you planning to leave? Why waste your time and life. I’m planning on leaving my relationship later on this month my apartment is already paid for to move in July, I’m leaving without saying anything. Don’t say anything just leave, he doesn’t care cuz he knows you won’t leave
Hey
Tamaira from Pittsburgh, Pa.
I love listening to your realness.
❤❤ thank you
When it comes to love , I feel like if us humans in these avatars lack to understand , what truly love is . People seem to focus on romantic love and transactional love . Persons often place “expectations “ on what they believe love is and how it works . Then adding “self love” you can’t really and truly live anyone if we don’t live ourselves . That is it and that is all.
Society really does a job in us and how we perceive love , life , contentment and peace .
Most people don’t get to experience the full spectrum of love , life, contentment and peace .
Unfortunately because of tat programming we are trauma responding everywhere , pointing fingers , judging etc .
Btw the painting analogy is perfect !
The attach and detach is on the 💴 … I recent years learned how to do this and keep my feelings and emotions separate and hold the good moments in a good place and being detach without feeling all messed up .
Love your work ! Blessing to you and your loved ones !
Thanks, 💯 facts as always
Listen and learn ya he is speaking facts ❤
love it. You just rap off the top of your head. Then let it slip you are an intelligent thoughtful person, I just found you. Listening helps me make sense
Out much. You say it is a game. In thinking skills, we call Rapport a rhythmic dance.
GOD;
THANK YOU FOR LOOKING BEYOND MY FAULTS AND SEEING 👀 MY NEEDS...AMEN GLORY 😤
I'm watching and listening from Oakland, CA. Your look is fine with me. I like your T-shirt too❤.
Yay Areaaaa! 🗣️💯👌🏾😍
Good afternoon; awaiting your words of wisdom and experience ❤
1:01:34 Thanks for the information. Thank goodness, there's involvement without attachment. Well explained. ❤
Hi. I am from Boston Ma ( Lynnfield ) grateful i found you ❤
From the Chi, thank you for the empowerment. I'm new to the dating scene... or should I say game 😂. I 😢e been married for 26 yrs. WHAT IS GOING ON!!! Thanks for letting us know 🤔
Divorced after 26 yrs.
❤❤
@@jazzy4realI’m about to also after 20+ years
Happy Friday from Mz. Circle😊🔥🔥🔥
No I think 60 percent of people are narcissistic these days. It’s a lot of narcs these days.
Tuning in from Cairns , Queensland Australia👋🏾
Hello , this is my first time listening to you. Thanks for the insight. Mimi
Hey loving your teaching and sharing. Wondering about your T-shirt. I absolutely love it. Can you share where you got it from?. Would love love to get one.
I'm single and I'm happy 😁😁 not all the time but I'm happy
I picked up everything and then I told him if he think our relationship is too much for him we can end it. He swore nothing was wrong. I mentioned it again and i could tell he knew why I said it because he started getting a little agitated.
yes indeedy 100 percent truth to all you have said.
you’re my therapy for the night love the way you think and pass this on. I’m laughing my ass off. I’ve got it Picasso he said, and they said. I’ve got to Picasso. That’s pretty funny.
Asking the question what should she do after finding out the man she's been dating for 4 months is married is because she wants to hear a lie to keep dating him because she's gotten attached to him regardless if he's married or not. SELF RESPECT DISCIPLINE AND BOUNDARIES will save you so much unnecessary trouble !!!
She is a disgusting human being and so stupid to even ask that question , what should she do? Like obviously stop seeing him. Wicked attracts wicked
I love your wisdom
💯 WOW..GREAT TOPIC 🏆🏆🏆🏆
What if he tells you everything about himself, deep and all that but still acts funny... like act exactly what you talking about
Right.....smh
then just make sure you dont get yourself involved with him...for real
@@originalmix2546 True...
Stick to the facts not the fantasy. Do you want a person that acts funny as a partner? If not keep it moving.
@@faitht.4244 Facts
Oooo... I'm listening to this one for sure 🎉
I believe you- people know the truth but they fear to know it and deny their inner warning.
You'll never know how many people out there are narcissist they're not running to be diagnosed that's why the numbers are low
I just wanna say I followed your advice on the picture thing and talked to the soul and the person now wants me way more idk what I did I hope it’s not ungodly
Did u take him back? And I’m sure it’s because he no longer has control over your emotions
Can you elaborate on the picture thing? I must have missed that video. Thanks.
What’s the picture thing??
@@dawnkemp3188I want to know too!
57:00 That picture explanation was my freedom.
Hi kirk...I just enjoy listening to you❤
Hi. Thank you so much🙏🏾
I use to trust too much when i was younger, and i did choose wrong because i thought everyone was nice like me. WRONG! I was told from a dear male friend that people aren't nice most of them. Years later, i found that to be true! Im still nice, but guarded. You have to protect yourself through discernment. I have been cheated on in long term relationships, i didn't feel stupid. I felt that he had deep rooted issues, and I will dismiss them as soon as possible. The longer you live, wisdom is your best friend. When something is over its over. Move on with no regrets.
Beautiful truth thankyou
The truth shall set you free amen
Very Interesting, Hi, Good Morning ,
Toni , I’m from Dallas Texas
Thank you ❤
St Augustine Florida. Let me know if you ever come visit I'll show you around it's a really cool place
I’m in Va!🔥🔥🔥
Speak the Truth
Kirk, I love and so appreciate your sharing/teachings. I had 6 brothers, this is the wisdom/shared experiences I so desired to receive from them in life/living.
THANK YOU❤❤❤
Hey you look great you are so handsome beatiful delivery. Keep going!!