7 of many reasons why men may cheat sometimes. Listen with an open mind

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Комментарии • 57

  • @MegaRose1958
    @MegaRose1958 Месяц назад +29

    I feel Bottom Line people cheat because they want too!They don't care how it makes that other person feel.

  • @cynthiadickerson5403
    @cynthiadickerson5403 Месяц назад +9

    There are some women out here carrying it the same way a man does. They should find one another.

  • @dejabriggs3206
    @dejabriggs3206 Месяц назад +4

    I feel like it's just no hope sometimes just be by yourself

  • @MegaRose1958
    @MegaRose1958 Месяц назад +7

    Kirk I like what you said. " You don't know who you have" you are right. I thought the last relationship I had was going to be my best ever. It ended up being my worst.😂😂😂😂😂

    • @aquafina6544
      @aquafina6544 Месяц назад +4

      Ditto megarose, I wasted 13yrs with someone I absolutely loved with my entire being. I was the one with the sexual overdrive however as it ended, I realized why he tried to guilt me is bcus he was cheating the entire time and everyone knew but me and I wasn't the only one there were 10 others that he played with and lied to and used.
      I spent yrs discombobulated depressed broken, then my body gave out literally. My back spontaneously broke. My lumbar discs in my tailbone region ruptured and stuck in my sciatic nerve. I lost mobility 4yrs and was in a wheelchair for 3. I had 2 spinal surgeries and ulcer surgery. Currently I'm disabled but walking and a portion of my disc is still lodged in my nerve and I have partial paralysis from hip to toes.
      Cheating and toxic selfish self centered males can literally break a good unsuspecting woman.

    • @MegaRose1958
      @MegaRose1958 Месяц назад

      @@aquafina6544 Wow, Thanks for sharing. Yes my ex had accused me of cheating even though I didn't. I'm glad I got out of the relationship which became
      mentally, emotional and at the end physically abusive. I hope you continue to heal!!! I have enjoyed listening to Kirk's videos. I also listen to Dr. Ramani, her videos have also helped me in dealing with my Toxic relationship I ended two years ago. I'm glad platform's like this exit so people can share and help educate others.

  • @michad707
    @michad707 Месяц назад +2

    Most men who walk away from their wives think the grass will be greener elsewhere. What he doesn't understand is that the grass is green where you water it. Let him leave. Be happy with who you are and move on. Why stay with someone who disrepects you. Love and light to all.

  • @yemedemure414
    @yemedemure414 Месяц назад +3

    Cheating is an internal thing. It’s spiritual. It’s who the person is and the choices they make. If you accept a cheater back that’s your decision. Know your self worth! Married or not.

  • @ladyofspa
    @ladyofspa Месяц назад +14

    What you dont deal with emotionally you act out. Sex is easier then being honest with self and significant other about how unfulfilled you really are.

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 Месяц назад +2

    This is the truth. It’s just life and how it goes sometimes. Especially when a man/woman feels trapped in their relationship, due to kids and circumstances

  • @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana
    @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana Месяц назад +1

    You're absolutely right 🎉🎉 all we need to do is discipline ourselves.🎉🎉🎉

  • @KK-ygh
    @KK-ygh Месяц назад +2

    Kings dont cheat. They create a paradigm/world where they dont cheat. Islam is RIGHT.

  • @HeEmpressMe
    @HeEmpressMe Месяц назад +7

    People are driven by their desires and impulses, instead of conscious decision-making. They lack the self-discipline and control needed to make responsible choices and prioritize long-term goals over immediate gratification.

    • @e.watson6346
      @e.watson6346 Месяц назад

      I had self discipline- we had (3) kids & he was staying out all night long sometimes, there was no excuse for that at all: so we retaliated by dating outside of the marriage- a form of retaliation

    • @HeEmpressMe
      @HeEmpressMe Месяц назад

      @@e.watson6346 Self discipline- the ability to control one's feelings and overcome one's weaknesses; the ability to pursue what one thinks is right despite temptations to abandon it.

    • @HeEmpressMe
      @HeEmpressMe Месяц назад

      @@e.watson6346 I’m not saying you were wrong in your actions you did what you thought or felt was right. But to be self-disciplined is to not allow anyone to take you out of your character. Trust me I have been taken there but I allowed that person to control my emotions instead of me having emotional intelligence and making a conscious decision not out of anger or my feelings but out of reason.

    • @mcleo9935
      @mcleo9935 Месяц назад

      @HeEmpressMe,I think also is Selfishness,Egotistical behaviour,as well my opinion

    • @mcleo9935
      @mcleo9935 Месяц назад +1

      Peace/ Peace of mind is the more important thing,and also acknowledge the crestorvof all things put him first and exercise some faith.

  • @JohannaGOETZ770
    @JohannaGOETZ770 Месяц назад +3

    Peace and quiet. Love at first sight feels peaceful and quiet. Without peace it is neurosis at first sight period.🤭🙏

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 Месяц назад +1

    So right temptation is all around u n again it’s up to you to control that beast in you. It all starts with you. Control.

  • @zoilarodriguez1532
    @zoilarodriguez1532 Месяц назад +2

    No two situations are the same....

  • @readermode9916
    @readermode9916 Месяц назад

    How comforting! "If the man gets caught he's gonna leave the girlfriend." Don't feel special because he chests with you." Yes wives! Walk around feeling special because if he gets caught he will run back in your arms. If such was the case there would not be a 50% divorce rate. How comforting!

  • @angelaharry3814
    @angelaharry3814 Месяц назад +1

    You are talking nothing else but the truth.

  • @lisavenn663
    @lisavenn663 Месяц назад +1

    This is so raw thank you

  • @beautyjite6653
    @beautyjite6653 Месяц назад

    Makes so much sense. Thank you!

  • @Elizabeth-os9tn
    @Elizabeth-os9tn Месяц назад

    Thank You ‼️❤️

  • @susan5048
    @susan5048 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for being real.

  • @Sakem0to
    @Sakem0to Месяц назад

    Wow, yt randomly recommended your channel. I was thinking, let's give it a go, let's hear what this guy have to say, but hey, you super shocked me how realistic and honest you are with saying all this. Its like, i knew all this, but its totally different when you hear it from a guy. Simple but powerful advices. You're easy for listening and i like your vids are not too long. Thank you

  • @DM-sv2ei
    @DM-sv2ei Месяц назад +2

    The nature of the beast within.

  • @user-ch3qk9qf5n
    @user-ch3qk9qf5n Месяц назад

    Very so true 💯 it definitely goes both ways thank you for this advice

  • @11Bryght999
    @11Bryght999 Месяц назад +1

    Right on.

  • @nuahsonuchance88
    @nuahsonuchance88 Месяц назад

    💯💯💯💙💙💙 that Part i agree as a man from that lifestyle discipline over ego and self control damn that was me gotten much better and sometimes just unsatisfied

  • @sharonlewis4228
    @sharonlewis4228 Месяц назад

    Goodevening from Miami Kirk.

  • @user-hm5dm2gx3k
    @user-hm5dm2gx3k Месяц назад +7

    This is very true with some men. But why do the good person have to suffer from their selfish needs. The person this happens to then have love issues because they were into the person and couldn't see this was just a challenge for them or a fulfillment of them filling their sexual urge 🤔. This makes people hard to get close to someone who really might love them.

  • @desrinesimpson561
    @desrinesimpson561 Месяц назад

    Good evening blessing.

  • @user-hm5dm2gx3k
    @user-hm5dm2gx3k Месяц назад

    Good evening kirk 😊

  • @e.watson6346
    @e.watson6346 Месяц назад +12

    I cheated out of retaliation & I was much better than him at it: I showed him what it felt like, and if I had cheated with Mr. Right,I would have left him totally

  • @MAMIE443
    @MAMIE443 Месяц назад

    What if your man chooses to look for other women? Like searching on dating sites? These men don't have women falling in their lap they are actively searching and looking

  • @duffykarlston873
    @duffykarlston873 Месяц назад

    I know a lot of cases where the wife knows all about the sidechicks their husband had and still have and yet they still hold on to them. How low and disrespectful on their part. And please do not call this "love". This is co-dependence. And it is sick.

  • @AmandaEverett-sy4ut
    @AmandaEverett-sy4ut Месяц назад +1

    These are just excuses trying to justify cheating. Ive never done it and wont. Id rather leave with my held up high. If he wants to cheat he knows when he leaves that doors locked permanetly. No 2nd chance. Im worth more than a lying cheating scumbag

  • @starchoo4616
    @starchoo4616 Месяц назад +1

    Men cheated becos weak, lack of self control feel challenge do thing behind wife

  • @tyra136
    @tyra136 Месяц назад

    Tell u something i stopped caring if my husband cheats or not.as long as he takes cr of his responsibilities at home and doesn't treat me bad am not stupid we don't stay coz we are..i belive just wise enough to know that most men do so ..why waste time getting another one.here i already have attachments. I also don't feel obligated to do wife dutyies only when i feel like...and my kids are happy .

  • @angelamhlongo1749
    @angelamhlongo1749 Месяц назад +1

    💯🎯🇬🇧

  • @lisavenn663
    @lisavenn663 Месяц назад +1

    I need me a man from another culture like this lol

    • @Keke-vs7gm
      @Keke-vs7gm Месяц назад

      Kirk grew to this man cause he has spoken on how he was a cheater.

    • @ready2live38
      @ready2live38 19 дней назад

      It's not the culture, it's the man🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @lucretiaanderson4781
    @lucretiaanderson4781 Месяц назад

    It’s bottom-line selfish

  • @aquafina6544
    @aquafina6544 Месяц назад +2

    Waa that is the dumbest thing I've ever heard, " we got our whole lives why have so much sex"? Bahaha life is short and the only time you have isnthe moment you're in.