I love your honesty I had an eye opening talk with my mom and realized I have been much more mean than gentle with my toddler after having my baby. So overwhelmed and stressed and never doing anything for myself. But this is not her fault. I want her to feel loved and gentle parent her. I want her to feel safe, not scared in going to scold her. I don’t know what to do I just want to be better
This is so helpful, and it’s lovely to feel validated. My childhood was horrible and I’m frequently triggered by my children. I’ve never felt the urge to hit but I’ve shouted and felt dreadful afterwards, I am extremely sound sensitive and I also often feel overwhelmed and can’t think straight. I will be trying these tips to help me calm down and respond in the way I can feel proud of. I know it works when I am upset and my children try and comfort me with the words I’ve used with them. 😊 Thank you!
I find that doing some of these things when I start feeling upset really help me keep my cool... most days 😂 I think it’s also important to acknowledge that we are humans and only God has never ending patience. If we get it right 30% of the time, we re doing great 😊💪🏻
I love your honesty I had an eye opening talk with my mom and realized I have been much more mean than gentle with my toddler after having my baby. So overwhelmed and stressed and never doing anything for myself. But this is not her fault. I want her to feel loved and gentle parent her. I want her to feel safe, not scared in going to scold her. I don’t know what to do I just want to be better
I understand your heart I’m dealing with the same thing.
I have trouble with this all the time I need to learn more gentle parenting than verbal anger when she does something wrong or pushes my buttons
This is so helpful, and it’s lovely to feel validated. My childhood was horrible and I’m frequently triggered by my children. I’ve never felt the urge to hit but I’ve shouted and felt dreadful afterwards, I am extremely sound sensitive and I also often feel overwhelmed and can’t think straight. I will be trying these tips to help me calm down and respond in the way I can feel proud of. I know it works when I am upset and my children try and comfort me with the words I’ve used with them. 😊 Thank you!
“Adrenaline & deep breathing cannot coexist in the body at the same time” … 🤯🤯🤯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
omgg I love the picture of the video, that's my mental state with my child most of the time
Finally, someone who gives me tactics to stay calm bc my fight or flight is faster than my brain
Thank you ❤
Great tips to become better human beings ! Thanks Sosso
I find that doing some of these things when I start feeling upset really help me keep my cool... most days 😂 I think it’s also important to acknowledge that we are humans and only God has never ending patience. If we get it right 30% of the time, we re doing great 😊💪🏻
Great tips! I will put some of these into practice! thank you.
Thank u so much needed this
Loved your tips❤
Des conseils bien utiles, et pas seulement pour la relation avec les enfants !
En effet, ces conseils s’appliquent tout autant pour les adultes!
The video's picture is so me 😂😂
I’m so glad I’m not alone 😂😂😂
My triggers are going off waiting for you to get to the point 😂