Women always reject these men - Jordan Peterson
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We ALL need to do better... There are a lot of women that could improve as well. Everyone should take a look at themselves and figure out where they need to improve. It isn't just a man thing, I think... I know I have things I could improve on and am trying to do so.
Yes, all of us need to work on ourselves, every day. It's forever work. There is no panacea but our relation with self is our best hope to finding love with another.
Absolutely.
While I agree wholeheartedly with your comment, Jordan's talking about the complaints he receives from men who are constantly rejected by women. I've met men like that. They are usually angry at women for rejecting them, like they are owed something. The sense of entitlement & grandiosity is through the roof, with no self-reflection or awareness how creepy their behavior is. These are not safe men.
@@peaceglory5973 Oh. Well, I am embarrassed to say I am naive in this moment 🙄 thank you.
@@peaceglory5973 I believe most fellas are pretty decent, for the right person. And that all of us must work with self, every day, even though we fall down, to strive to be better. Women are equally flawed as men, oh my goodness.
I didn't realize how "too nice" I was being till I started being blunt and fully honest. Some people might take it as harsh but I've realized it's better to hear a harsh truth than to hear a comforting lie.
Yes. Honesty. We need more of it. No more telling people what they want to hear cause you “care”. Let’s be real with each other and maybe we can actually see who is our real friends and who are just leaches for attention.
I agree with you!
those who would love and accept you for you would take the truth and stick around. those who don't wouldn't make a fruitful relationship with you even if you lied to make they stay. In the long run and for better relationship quality, it's better to be honest, and you can always learn articulation skills to make your truths more bearable upfront.
True fact Dian. Jordan seems to have attracted so many red pillers in his community. . However, they need mental and emotional health counselling. The majority of his community are male.
The Unfiltered Truth About The Red Pill-David Tian PhD The Masculine Psychology Project podcast Episodes 1 and 2
Sam Vaknin has excellent podcasts on Red Pill as well.
Tinder Myth Debunked - Dr Sam Vaknin podcast
5 Shocking Behaviors You Should Never Tolerate In A Man - Jonathon Aslay podcast
Women are not rehabilitation centres for badly raised men ----Julia Roberts
90% of men aren't good boyfriend or husband material ---Evan Mark Katz
80% of women file for divorce.
Like most people are going to hell and only faith in the gospel of Jesus Christ will save you
"become better" is now a goalpost that keeps moving farther away, no matter how much "better" youve become. social media smart phones have ensured it.
That's not true. I think if people get off the Internet, they will realize most people in the real world still admire sounds qualities that are worth aspiring towards.
Having courage, being honest, kind, truthful, forthright, wise, etc etc. That is the kind of better he refers to.
The only standards that shift are material ones that are not transcendent
If the goal post doesn't keep moving, then it would imply that at some point you stop. You never stop.
@@Dragonologist thats literally the opposite of what i said.
@@showspotter I assumed you were blaming social media for the constant need for betterment.
Relationships can't happen because people are using their smartphones to take pictures and abuse others. I am staying out of the game.
Dating apps and OnlyFans have created a generation of people that take no accountability and respect
women, women, not people.
Problem with relationships these days is women see one problem and just nope the hell outta there. Also having double standards and super high ass expectations, onlyfans, dating apps are all cringe and just shit. But yes pron and all that is also unhealthy and bad.
So whats better?
• Stay single, get rich then die alone?
• Quit pron, focus on yourself and maybe find a girlfriend?
• Try to find a good decent girlfriend in todays modern society? Have kids and settle down?
With all the double standards, laws against men, high expectations, dating apps, onlyfans, she can leave you anytime etc it all just sounds exhausting thus this is why men are watching pron, mgtow etc.
The channel Fight the new drug says as experts found out that from 2008 to 2011 the number of 13 years old seeing porn increased from 14 to 49 percent
just because of better cell phones.
9 of 10 porn videos are violent.
And many men who were exposed to porn too early have a problem having healthy
relationships because they were robbed of healthy sexuality and sexual happiness that is related to love and relationships.
It is destroying marriages and families because boys were taught the wrong way of sexuality.
Porn sex is not about love.
The expert explained that if 8 or 9 years old child sees porn, it may create such a great imprint in their brain
that it becomes so familiar to their brain that they may become future trafficked people or consumers.
that the boy's brain is also hijacked
by women's brains as well.
Some porn addicts say that they had a problem finding a real relationship because too much dopamine shuts down the brain receptors
so the person feels no pleasure from other healthy activities such as healthy relationships or doing sports etc. It's similar to gambling
More than 40 percent of women are trafficked against their will. but the ones who do it willingly are also manipulated in some way
20 percent of trafficked people are kids/ teens.
20 percent of trafficked people are men.
90 percent of women who worked in the porn industry or strip club industry were sexually abused before or in childhood,
so it's very familiar for their brain to feel objectified and work in the industry.
They try to inform people to not watch porn because it's about human trafficking and the mental health of both men and women.
It's important to teach people how true love and empathy make people healthy and happy.
One of the experts explained that its the normalization of the sexualization of people and therefore it also affects marriages and young teens.
90 percent of women who worked in the porn industry or strip club industry were sexually abused before or in childhood,
so it's very familiar for their brain to feel objectified and work in the industry.
@@Maki-qw8he😂laws against men? Grow up
@@javireyes7333 Yes, there are laws against men in these brave new Feminist days. Divorce laws. The Istambul Convention. There are cities in the West (London for exaple) where even talking to a woman or looking at her general direction can count as harrasment with police involvement. So YES, there are LAWS against MEN.
We're all insecure to some degree but don't lie, even by omission, and work on you so that you can attract & accept what you are lounging for. Easier said& done. And God, please, don't lose yourself in anything or anyone else. I've done that& I'm still trying to get back in track& accept me.
@Jason You just had PTSD syndrome and once you got rid of it from your nervous sustem you immediately felt better. Congtrasts!
@Jason Wishing you the best fam
Damn.. but I really love to lose myself in the music.. the moment.
I wish to never let it go.
As a woman, I can say this: there are lots of women out there that no sane man would WANT, and if he had one, he wouldn't stay sane for long. We all have problems, and we all have areas of growth, but don't settle for a woman who is narcissistic, shallow, abusive, bitter, entitled, a professional victim, chronically dissatisfied, a drama-queen, crude and vulgar, dirty, or unfaithful. I don't care how hot you think she looks in that bikini, that'll wear off and she'll make your life a living hell. Worse, beware of anyone who would use children to boost her own ego. Guys, yes, some of you can shape up a little...but sometimes being rejected by a particular woman may be the best gift God ever handed to you.
Too many women protect abusive women, with a smirk. When it comes to it. A simple topic about pain in groups of her friends to test empathy bias quickly reveals predictors of which among will do it.
Amen....
yes I just can't help but think this is true woman are just ...ugh not good maybe its patriarchy in me .. or maybe the injustice and the wrong they do to my fellow men
I TRY to be objective about things and Try to understand the truth of a situation and YES maybe I don't fully understand what its like to be a woman
id like to tho id be open to being a woman for a day modern or traditional and everything in-between its just that woman don't know justice and that is the scary part
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This first comment stands true and deserves a pin. Yet we should always remember that the scale from Sane/Insane is not only subjective and abstract, but it is also a multifaceted spectrum. The characteristics this OP names are most of the "toxic" personality traits I've found best to avoid. And it's also not restricted to any one group or age. Men absolutely can be the same way!
All people need to learn to be high integrity and kindness.
screw kindess. women like toxicity
Men are always told they should become better.
Females are always told that they deserve better.
That is very true
Why «men» and suddenly «females»? You reek… of incel
Females are usually told that by other men or envious women.
@@aubreyjordan33 Challenging standards that you put on yourselves. The truth is that as a woman you can make absolutely zero effort in life and eventually a man will come to hand you whatever you want, and most of the time it's still not good enough for you. Men actually have to go out and create what we want for ourselves.
Heavy projection there buddy.
Being authentic and telling the truth WON'T get you women. Not by a long shot. That would make you a stranger to them. But it will make you a better person.
Truth!
In my experience most women are scared off by honesty but real quality women tend to stick around.
@@stinkybutthole3765 Most of today’s women know they’re unworthy of good men. Deep down, they know.
There is a difference between being authentic and telling the truth though. Telling the truth is about the words you say and authenticity is about the actions to back up the words. Women are attracted to authenticity and genuine actions. Truthful words are often harsh in nature and tend to push people (not just women) away
Being authetic and telling the truth to yourself.
Yes more men need to do this. Please. However just don't let women off easy. Many of them have been told their entire lives that men need to earn their attention and serve only to serve them. Which means we now have a large number of young toxic women that also bring nothing to a relationship but toxicity that many young men will chase after because they are physically attractive in some way.
If a woman will become nice and wise she will immediately be turned into a doormat...
@@Btrutaltruth Only if she allows herself to be and only if the guy she's dating is a living pile of human garbage. Also did you just imply that women are all terrible stupid people because otherwise society abuses them? Regardless if you think that is a legitimate excuse your a moron. Being a good person is never a bad thing whether your a woman or not. And if some toxic person male or female believes that their partner needs to earn their time loyalty and only exists to serve them they don't deserve a partner at all. We just need more good honorable people. If you are going to argue with that you need to do some serious self reflection.
@@Btrutaltruth same with a man.
@@elpacho....9254 I know a horrible woman..an alchoholic, gold digger and manipulator. She lives in a big mansion now which her third husband, who adupted all her children from previoua marriages, bought for them... She has not worked for decades and for many years had a maid..
I am a wise, supportive, hard working family dedicated woman robbed by my own husband when I was taking care of our only child. Beautiful, smart and handsome baby...He simply made me to lose a property I bought for us and built his financial cushion outside the family..
He got fat and unhealthy..And I don't deserve him, in his opinion...
He brought me and my son to our knees because of his fraudulent attitude to marriage and consistant jealeousy to his own little son....
So, fuck women's "wiseness"..And fuck, fuck (!!!!) this type of marriage which ruined my soul...
PS I hope, Jordan Peterson reads my comment. Waiting for his responce...
PPS And guess what? I'm still staying in this fucking "marriage", which ruined my life...Imagine what im thinking about looking at my sleeping husband?...😀😀😀👹👹👹
The payback for being a toxic person is in the long run is you die in bed of your own ignorance, alone, and you life doesn’t make a positive difference for anyone or the world. Focusing on what’s good now (or on one small part of the picture) is not a smart thing to do. Toxic women exist, don’t be the person that falls for them. The same applies for women finding men. It’s important to not be jealous because a pretty woman can get more dates, most of the dates she could get are useless and offer nothing. The average man or woman that’s put together and responsible actually has very few long term compatible partners that will work. The less put together you are the lower your chances are.
Working to achieve a higher consciousness is key.
Jordan looking fresh wit da airpods 😳😳
this comment sends me 😂😂😂
Was boutta say the same lol
His always fresh & classy & presentable 🫂👑👋🏼⚘💫😎
Lolll He's soooo with it.
Professor teaching game while dripped out
in the 1950's.. .or before- this advise would work. today? not so much. it's still the best advice- but don't expect modern females to respond- you'll be very disappointed. the upside there - is, the ones who do reject you? you DEFINATELY do not want to be associated with. a responsible, conscientious productive man who gets rejected? that's not marriage material you're looking at there buddy.. .and don't let ANYBODY tell you otherwise. just smile & move on. remember- if you have your career, your home, your retirement assets & benefits all in order? you're a better catch than 85% of men out there. and you've got all the time in the world. your biological clock is NOT ticking... and for this type of guy? every MINUTE that passes? his value gets HIGHER. relax. enjoy the search. maybe pursue some hobbies while you wait on 'mrs. right'.
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It's not necessarily a good thing that women will only go after you because you have your life in order, as those are called Gold Diggers. You'll know a woman is a keeper for sure if she stays by your side even when you're broke.
its not the best advice the best advice to get a womaan today is learn pick up, if your not a dominant alpha male ! top pick up artists and dominant abusive alpha males always have women, failing that its got to be money and power.
Mrs right might pass by if you wait too long
@@javireyes7333 and i GUARANTEE you, with THAT approach- mrs. fatal attraction psycho will NOT ‘pass you by’ she’ll smell the scent of gullible on YOU a mile away.
Height pill has entered the chat
Height is everything
I think Jordan is just too old and is still talking about women from his gen, not those from his daughter's and later ones.
@@TheStraightestWhitest His recent interview with the Australian lady was more relevant to us lot
Height only matters to tall women
If she's saying height or whatever other physical reason, she's just finding an excuse not to be with you because she doesn't like you in that way, she just doesn't know how to end the conversation
height only matters if you demand a successful life by sitting around and doing nothing
This is true on so many levels...man or woman....it's so important to constantly change and grow into maturity. I've learned to truly appreciate honest advice. 🙏💙
Yeah but that begins in your youth. Self-improvement doesn't begin when your 30.
@@Joe-tk8bn it most certainly can. And it should never stop.
@@Joe-tk8bnit begins at any age any human thinks of it and acknowledges if they should because how obviously miserable they are then change is inevitable. Youth, old age. Self prove on doesn't stop.
I ended up becoming so sincere and kind to everyone that now they both believe and are trying to convince me that I am an Asexual because I’m treating everyone with the same amount of generosity…
I have no clue if I did right or wrong for them to come to that conclusion
Edit: No I’m not doing it for a reward or anything. I’m not a narcissist I just like being nice to people and doing things for others, idk why that somehow translates to me being a bad person who only thinks of myself and how I could gain something from doing what I do. I don’t gain anything back from what I do and that has not once made me upset or think twice about what I do because making my friends happy makes me happy, regardless of material gain or reputation. My confusion was only why my behavior somehow determined my sexuality in the eyes of others, that’s all.
You didn't. Sounds like you're surrounding yourself with the wrong people
Hmmm…I’m 70 yrs old, married 43 yrs. what it seems you’re doing is being a better beta male. I have a husband like that and he’s a good husband, loyal, tolerant, helpful. BUT here’s the thing: our liberal society has created beta males who are highly conflict avoidant and can be described as passive aggressive. Modern men need to develop a more masculine alpha type of character. The strength of modern western men has been diminished significantly and it’s time for a massive come back. Start by going to the gym and working out. Get stronger, observe the men who are more competitive, a bit more aggressive then scale that to fit yourself. It’s not easy but women need a man who is a leader as well as a friend and lover. A man who shows protective strength for his family, strength to provide while the wife creates the home, nurturing the babies and young children for another 12 yrs each. It’s not easy for women because we are expected to have the kids, nurture them AND also work at least part time.
Both? Both genders? Who?
I will say though, it can rub people the wrong way to be too kind. Do you need everyone to like you? If so, why do you have this narcissistic insatiable urge to please everyone?
Some people really aren’t worth being kind to, and women especially look for this trait (may be why ‘bad boys’ theoretically can be more attractive)… Women live in a world where there are far greater dangers at any given moment than men, and because of this, it is highly attractive when a man isn’t afraid to draw a line in the sand…
Value yourself, don’t just give it to anyone. Others will begin to value you too.
@@tessarae9127 Both as in both genders, and no it doesn’t rub anyone the wrong way because I’m not a narcissist, I just treat everyone with kindness because it just feels like the right thing to do, and I don’t really care about my image that much and I don’t need everyone to like me. I have been trying to work on setting boundaries though that part does need improvement.
To all my fellow JP fans be careful not to make this an about men vs women. He's being hyperbolic when he says "all".
You’re 100% correct! Some will though! Sadly it’s inevitable!
No he is not lol.
If you have not had all, 100% of the women, all of them, reject you on every front but something they innately benefit from, you have not hit the bottomest of rock bottoms.
It’s not great.
Okay you little kid
That's literally the way it is...
hes wrong here.
I am so grateful for this man's influence on the world
Fascism is attractive to some people
@@MrTruthAddict JP's a fascist now? These people istg
@@MrTruthAddict anything right of Mao or Lenin is a fascist to the likes of those who would believe what you posted
@@ashtray2294 when you have a degree in political science you can critique my response here. Until then stfu
@@MrTruthAddict when one has to resort to name calling they've already lost the argument. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Spot on. We need real and good men.
Thank you for helping many men understand this! ❤
If the world is full of 6ft people, 7 ft becomes the 'standard'.
Stop making excuses
@Penderyn lol ye, all the redpill coaches selling courses are over 6.2 ft btw...
It's okay man, I'm on your side. They say the average is 6 inches, well I'm bringing down the average for you. 👊
yea 13cdays ago now where donging our owns heads on the moon just going to the toilet
@@nicford1486 stop ignoring valid ones
The men who have something to offer *are* the ones being rejected.
Ive been put down by girls because i was told that they are not enough for me
True story. My girlfriend’s friend has three kids with three different men, always wondering why she can’t find a "good" man. One night I was buying us all dinner. Out of nowhere, she literally laughed at me talking about how I'm unattractive to women while I was doing something nice. Fast forward two years later and her kids love me, and she is jealous of my girlfriend for how well I treat their kids. I'm tired of society telling me I'm supposed to feel bad for these "women."
Maybe, they are not offering the right thing.
@@SatiricalLizard If that were the case, the women wouldn't call them up when the women turn 35.
@@jonathanfarley2023 Being sour and insulting women is not going to get you anywhere. It's this kind of attitude that makes men unattractive.
It feels like men have a delayed start and heavy headwind at the race of life.
While women are literally floated on a fucking cloud all the way to the finish line
@turq1824 hm , no I wouldn't say the male and female who are raped had it easier. But Mabey perhaps the male had it harder in some sense because he morally should carry the female on his back. So the female is younger sister and the male is older brother but under 13- years old and 5 years separated. This reality exists for many and has so many humans. Suffered. It is not nice to necessarily compare with brutality. Sure definitely the man who had it the hardest had it harder than a woman who had it hard also but didn't come close to his suffering. Because only a man should is morally obligated to carry more but that's good. Do you not agree?
I wish I had this guy as a resource in my 20’s!! Oh I can only imagine man I would be today and the things I would have accomplished by now. But I spent my time then so hung up on thinking those standards weren’t for me and living in a reality I made to make-believe myself to be worthy of. When All I needed to do then was to own some responsibility and align my reality to the truth. Still am glad I came across JP’s work 6 years ago. My life has been 10x better, the same old patterns are gone and am finally on a path that is fulfilling. And I truly hope for the same or much better for anyone else who took the time to read this. ❤
you are going to take advice from a boomer that was simping for his wife when she was fucking every bad boy in her 20s but then when she got the baby rabies at almost 30 she finally got with peterson ?dude you are asking for a disaster.
There are so many Men and Women that need this wisdom now.
You're an amazing mentor im blessed to have came across your videos it has changed my life and it keeps changing for the best
God bless you man
Listening to JPs advice i was in a good relationship for 4 years. But I feel he should also mention that it takes many years for men to be competent enough and responsible enough to actually be a good partner.
Till then just keep it casual and don't commit, prioritise your own development. Their expectations are too high and riddled with insecurities we don't have time to deal with.
dude peterson is a mor0n. being competent for women just makes you into a good provider, not sexually attractive. you are giving that woman a good life while she is getting fucked by mr bad boys who are the most useless of men out there. that is what will happen when you listen to this boomer.
When in relationship with a woman imagine that each of them is someonce's daughter. Somebody is behaving the same way with yours..
@@Btrutaltruth sex has left the chat lol
@@jacktaipen2077 Ok. Good..lol
By having that attitude (to keep things casual and see people in your life as only temporary) is a down spiral to how people should see themselves in the world. You're literally training your brain and behaviours over years to act like that. So very ill prepared when someone very suitable does come into their lives.
GOD Bless You JBP!
I have been married twice and divorced twice. My first marriage lasted 13 years and was childless. My second marriage lasted 22 years and resulted in four kids plus I raised three stepkids to adulthood. I finally realized that my second wife used me and never gave a shit about what I wanted from life. Now I'm single again and happy. Do I think I should become better in order to get women? No, I am done with women, and life is good. I'm just an ordinary man, and I struggled sometimes, but I always found women. There are still women who want me, but I am done. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Life is so peaceful living by myself.
Right-Arm!
Smart move, you don't need to prove your worth, to any woman, you're wiser just from life experience. And your content with yourself and life... Have fun , and laugh. Life is to short not to. It's amazing what we learn about life, that's makes up a better person down the road...
Well why not find a Woman who is not a user Now?
I’ve always been attracted to smart guys but the pitfall in every relationship was they made their intellect the only important thing. Sometimes they would put down my own interest and taste or other activities people enjoy. Over time I realized I’d have to give up my desire for a smart man so that I had a kind and compassionate one. It’s an important lesson both men and women learn ❤
It is not about giving up a smart man for a kind one. It's about finding a person that is both, a balance between the two. More so finding someone whose personality melds with yours. One without the other is lacking.
I am attracted to smart guys too. The two men whom I have loved, ended up breaking up with me and married to wives with Phds. Brilliant woman. I am smart but my ex's alway felt I needed to be better and they were dissatisfied and I could never measure up. It was a lot of pressure and I just caved. Now i am just looking for someone who is passionate about thier life. It makes more sense then just someone who is smart.
@@sandracastillo3317 where do you live? Just which state, not specifically.
@Jason I see your point. Even though relationships may have not worked out for whatever reason, hopefully the time spent together has helped bring each person closer to knowing themselves better and closer to the best version of oneself.
I'm a decent guy and woman are not interested because not a bad guy
I'm a 50ish female and I think this is good advice for anyone, regardless of age or gender. Imma take this wise counsel myself.
I have nothing to offer and its so depressing and is why I usually stay away from dating, went on my first date at 27 and went on my 2nd date a year ago
Do you work? Do you cook? Can you be a listening ear? Can you have fun? Can you share hobbies? Do you have values? Can you exercise/present yourself pleasantly? Can you be reliable, stable and consistent? You don't need all of these but those are some ideas to work on if you don't already possess them. You do have value and you can create more! Life isn't over till it's over... get to work brother! love ya!
There are infinite things that can provide value... I thought of more, are you good at fixing things? Cars, computers, houses? Are you insightful, optimistic or funny? Where is your knowledge? You don't go 27+years on this earth without learning anything....
@@kylandaminick13 I take care of disabled people for a living, I've been cooking since I was 4, I always listen but I'm always forgotten. My interest are a bit nerdy like collecting cards
@@kylandaminick13 I'm good with computers and electronic devices
@@Tea_Dawg Modern women don't care about that stuff, keep doing what you're doing if it makes you happy.
I honestly think that if I would've heard you sooner like at very least 20years, it's never too late to do what's right. My mother told me if it was easy then everyone would be doing it. Something about the way my mother taught me and raised me like I was her and my father's kid together. Being raised by my birth mother's parents was the single most important and best blessing I could've ever had. Thank you Mr. Peterson, for helping me by giving me wisdom and honest care by showing and sharing which words are just not as potent as actions. Which its my goal to treat everyone the same as best as I'm able. You understand, know how to reach deep inside, our hearts and minds are constantly at mutiny. Follow my heart, mind, faith in God. It's not so hard to talk to the creator, who is worthy? Why is easier for me after the exp. with Him. Stay blessed you're such a blessing, thank you kind Sir
You’re a gem❤️😇
Jordan not only a wise man, but also a good looking man with much wisdoms , loves n humble. God bless u Sir Jordon ✝️♥️♥️♥️
All 12 virtues are needed. Not the ones you pick & choose.
What are the 12 virtues?
There are a lot more than 12 virtues. We should all try to improve in all the virtues because it benefits us spiritually.
A simple and straight forward message
He sums up every topic, so beautifully.
I totally agree 💯 percent
Men have to have all of these things to prove that they're worthy. The woman has to exist.
and? what are you gonna do sit around and complain? Race to the bottom...
@@biggibbs4678 you can agree it’s stupid how that works right
@@reactthat1749 There should be a question mark at the end of that statement!
This is a lie, most men don’t look at women as worthy but objects , a woman has to be worthy to a man for him to take her serious and for marriage.
don't lie to yourself buddy, you know you have a list of requirements too. cause if any and every woman would work for you, you won't be single anymore.
Right on Dr. Peterson , so true
Learned that early on and taught that to my children. Strive to be the best you can be and the right man / woman will be there for you.
I'm going to relearn these sorts of things for my son. I got where I needed to go, got what I needed to get, all by learning the hard way, namely without a father figure. It's time for me to pass the torch.
I seriously don't understand why some women are so hateful towards JP. Why on earth would you criticize a man who's trying to help young men, and people in general, become better versions of themselves?
1) his odd cruelty towards overweight women 2) his obsession with breeding and pushing everyone to have kids
Some women view strong, well formed men as a threat.
Also he doesn't buy into coddling people with poor behaviors like pretending fat people are just fine.
@@misterkittyandfriends1441 Omg, I love your name! We totally have our own Mr Kitty and Friends! We have a cat we rescued in 2015. We found him in the dead of a Northern Alberta winter and he was so starved I literally thought we were just giving him a warm place to die & that he wouldn't make it through the night The vet said she'd never seen a cat that close to death who survived. But my daughter, who had just survived her own bought with a terminal illness, refused to give up on him. She was only 15 at the time. She named him Mr Kitty. He's a pale peaches and cream orange with beautiful blue eyes. The vet said he's a flame point siamese & tabby mix. Because of Mr Kitty, I started rescuing, taming, & homing feral cats in my area. To date I've rescued nearly 200 cats and dogs. We have 4 cats & 3 dogs that we've kept for various reasons. Mr Kitty is friends with, & snuggles with all of them. Today my daughter is great, lives in town, and works at a pet store that also works with a shelter. Tonight, Mr Kitty is currently enjoying his own yearly tradition of sleeping on the tree skirt under the Christmas tree! Lol
PS. I also agree with your comment! Lol 💕
@@misterkittyandfriends1441 Apparently males need tons of cuddling from their father figure though
Jordan is incredible he speaks the truth and what everyone needs to hear especially young people trying to find their ways male and female
Will all the single moms who fell in love with their coke dealers I don't think women are looking for anything that has any worth but rather for guys who trigger their PTSD
Agreed. Thank you
Like ,she aint gonna mess with you if your room is dirty, start with cleaning your room and you will be surprised what kind of path that will take you, a dirty room is not worth it man
Well said
My problem is, I listen but never apply it
We’ve all had that problem! You’re not alone ❤️😇
Yeah, tell them all please
well jordan you'd be amazed if you knew how many women choose men with nothing to offer as their partners
Usually those people do pretend (for awhile) that they do though and then trap their victims
Amazing....💖💖
Dude his suit looks so damn sexy 🔥
"Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked; you will reap what you sow." Many read this and despair because it reminds them of the evil they have done. However, it is great encouragement because you will be rewarded for every good thing you do. But people believe that they deserve their own thoughts and ideas about it, rather than being humble and righteous with a world that isn't theirs to own. However, think about it; every day you have is another day you can do wonderful things, and yes, you will receive the same from the hand of God. "My yoke is easy and my burden is light."
Amen.
Says you will not receive from works alone. Do you expect to be rewarded for work at your job? Do you think something happens if you make it easier for yourself on job? Do you want your bosess job? Can you do it better than him? How do you have so much time at work to do all these things? Your not giveing all you can to your job and think your worth more so a small raise at the end of the day is not going to be enough to see you in the morning. Its ok your starting on the night shift anyway.
@@lesterpace5625 "He will give to each according to what they have done." "Knowing that you will receive the same from the Lord when he comes."
Amen
That’s nonsense though. There’s a reason the phrase “No good deed goes unpunished” exists as well.
This is the second video of his I saw recently where he listed one of the key components of men being attractive to women was "generosity". By that do you mean spending money on women? Paying for their time as if their company deserves money, and the man's time is worthless? That is an amazing recipe for a man to build resentment quickly. Paying for her time over a few dates, then doing the old pump and dump. Where women end up hating men after a dozen in a row do this. Why not go dutch, and Don't give "it" away right away, then if the guy won't hang around for 20 something dates, she knows he was never serious about her.
I realized I have nothing to offer. 🙃😑
Money. You can be a pimp I guess. But for you, the biggest regret should be that whilst you were working had in school and college, your crush was getting spit on and gutted out by a jock or drug dealer. For her it was a phase, for you, it was reality.
Thanks Jordan 💙
According to the dislikes, the cast of Olivias Movie watched this video.
I never really looked at life as a competition with others.
This goes both ways though. All humans(men& women) should both be stretching each day to be better then they as an individual was yesterday. If you aren't willing to be& do what you expect& look for in a partner, then you will never have a true authentic, peaceful relationship & partner.
Most women conditionex to put themselves forward and never aske anything back, especially after marriage when they put themselves into unpaid labore of childbearing and housekeeping alone witb career and the rest..
So, we need to bring attention of men to fo the same instrad of hiring lowets who can hide their incone from dovirce..
Always to the point I love Jordan Peterson.
Then how do all these jailbirds have children lol
It’s really about genetics lol not how “wise” you are
Bcuz of looks and they bang ratchet women. JP is coping a bit here but let's get real, if you don't have a productive schedule, a ( well-paying ) job, a good reputation ( social status ) going on for you and are not confident in yourself nor in your abilities, you are plain fcked in life, not just with women but also like he said with career and friendships. If you're friendless and broke, there's a reason for that and your dating will suffer ten fold.
@@stonedoco7455 To an extent yes but an average looking, neurotypical, 6 figures earner with a good job or business mogs the buffed up convict to oblivion, especially if you consider middle class women over the age of 23!
@@ayugoslav5554 tell Jeremy Meeks that
@@stonedoco7455 Jeremy Meeks is the exception to the rule. Many convicts mog him to hell and back, and as he himself said, pretty boys don't last in the pen
❤ Beautiful!!!
Both men & women need to do some deep soul searching.
Jordan Peterson is someone we can all learn from regardless of our sex❤❤
peterson needs a soul searching too
Tell it!!
Its crazy, i have money, my own house, stable, i have no problem with all that. I get rejected cause im a 5'9 black dude that isnt ripped. And because im "boring" (meaning im not cheating, fighting, or being toxic). At least thats what ive been told.....its all come from black chicks tho...so i for the most part see where the problem is...
Papa I suggest you date out of your race then
Become a passport bro Papa Zulu and you do you
Don't ever change who you are and never compromise your values for anything. Good things will come to you. God bless you sir.
how the fuck are you complaining about being 5'9"? you could be 5'3". the fact that you view yourself as short despite being an average height is your problem.
Maybe a different country would be better.
Low selfesteem is horrible I’m 25 an still have a horrendous time talking to women younger or older than me and it’s because of severe social anxiety growing up as a kid can still effect the adults of the future and low selfesteem feeds the anxiety more
Same
In a purely physical sense, women are a lot more vulnerable than men. And so when a woman falls in love, she is not only putting her heart on the line, she is also putting her life on the line. Men think it's just about sex or money, no, it's about survival.
Anyone can have a weapon though, and a weapon is much more effective than brute strength
Agreed.
Although, it's less a physical risk today than say the 1700's...
Many people have forgotten, that child birth, holds a fatality rate for females of 1 in 5. (Or 15%) Women bleeding to death after/during the birth of a child, being the highest probability.
That death rate has dropped significantly, to something around 1 in 150. (Or .07%) getting to a hospital, ect.
Its no longer a high topic of conversation.
There is a lot of problems comparing 2020, too say 1910.
Current society, has willfully forgotten the problem (s), eliminated/lessened by advances in current technology/medicine.
Societal 'norms/acceptance' has not caught up with advancements.
In general, if I knew there was a 1 in 5 chance of certain death from sex, I would be more selective of my sexual partners.
Imagine if they had some state run security system to protect woman like idk 911?
@@hllndsn1
Your response made me laugh.
It's a city person response...
I'll let someone else from rural America explain emergency services, in rural America. I no longer live there..
It's about money, status, property, dignity. Woman can rob anything of this without any effort whatsoever.
Bro got the drip 🥶🥶
The men with the positive traits he outlined are PRECISELY the ones who are being rejected. The immature, unstable bad boy is the one they want seemingly. Responsible behavior is the kiss of death for these women.
There is another option & that is take control of your life for yourself I don't see that you have to be with someone in order to be whole. With that comes confidence & choice rather than acceptance of what is just available.
Want to be more attractive on all fronts? Don't be yourself, because obviously it will never be enough for people.
Fuck that, I like myself and I don't care if anyone else don't.
The best rule of thumb when it comes to dating: "your dream partner also have standards. If you seek someone flawless, you better also be flawless or else why would they settle for you?"
As a man you always need to be productive. It’s so easy now for young men to do nothing
Productive is for fools. Real men live life, they don’t become a mindless producer for corporations.
@@mchazelover
Amen.
Being a sacrificial rag doll to protect a fragile being is a disturbing reality our time has embraced for too long.
It's utterly disgusting and not real love.
The real issue is that our world is too demanding, too pressurized, too harsh, and volatile. That's where our focus should be.
Not in enabling that destructive underlying force that turns "men" into targets for the sake of a "thing that gives birth and looks pretty".
Everyone who supports that model should see the truth for what it is and be utterly horrified and repulsed.
@@mchazelover and how do you live life without resources? You can’t go 5 miles out your town without needing the dollar just to survive.
So true
Who would have guessed that becoming a man requires growing up? Amazing insight indeed.
For younger generations this is not clear sadly. People want to be infants all their lives, check out what happened with the Twitter daycare and how mad they are when Elon Musk asks them to work
Caveat: I feel that the underlying values (in principle) are relevant @any age, really.
Does being really attractive to the female species, protect you from the family and divorce courts wrath against men?
You get it!
Yep “the king of uncles” indeed 🙄
I’m grateful to be alive at the same time as Dr. Peterson. A true father to the world.
I am talented. Good looking ( so I'm told) and I have a heart in the right place BUT I'm heterosexual, and living on a small income, so my dating days have finished.
Its the same for many men
That's ridiculous. I found the love of my life in my mid 50s. I'm essentially broke. She didn't care one bit. She's from Europe
If you are talented why are you living in a small income?
@@Jane5720 the two aren't necessarily correlated. Look at JP there. He's not really talented, he has a crippling addiction problem yet people just hand him money (one million per year on Patreon alone) because he uses big words to spread white supremacist conspiracy theories.
@@MrTruthAddict Yes I know he has issues. It could be that he’s highly intelligent and educated that could have something to do with it other than what you think
I wonder how much rejection J P experienced from girls when he was a teen?🤔
It seems to be a hit button for him and… we are best at helping others overcome what we have overcome… I just would be so much more impressed… if I am right… if J P would admit that he was that rejected, disenfranchised young man he’s helping now.
In todays world, it’s women that got nothing to offer for a man. No hymen - no ring
Women have more to offen than their virginity. I guess you should be a virgin too or does this rule apply just to women?
I start liking this guy...finally somebody telling things as it is
A question to all the women viewers: "What does a women has to offer to a successful man?"
Incessant nagging?
The voice of reason..
It's not as clear cut or one dimensional as that, honesty gets u nowhere with women.
As a guy that's 5'7 I'm completely invisible to most women. And the FEW that notice my presence think I'm a creep with out ever hearing or saying a word between us.
Hypergamy will smash the Patriarchy. 😜🤪🧐
lmaoo
I believe they call that MAN UP/BUCK UP!
I'm really tired of JP's dating tips. Women make babies and that's about the extent of what they have to offer me. I'm not on the lookout for sexual pleasure, I don't care what women want in a man. I don't care what it takes to get ahead in a materialistic society.
Michael you shouldn’t have a problem then at anything
then why are dating tips even relevant to you?
If you've written yourself and dismissed women (which is what youve just said whether you realise it or not) then dating is moot to you.
Black pill spotted!
@@beezle1976 Yeah but what inherent value do modern women give you.
I reached my early 30s deeply dissatisfied with my situation. I was simply not attractive and I didn't understand why. I decided to change myself. I gave up my motorcycle and bought a car. I bought a home of my own, first a flat, then a house. I gave up my hobby of competitive chess (it's seriously antisocial). I gave up drinking. I found a higher paying job. Probably some other changes that escape my memory right now. This took a few years to accomplish. I dated a few girls and found a girlfriend, now my wife of 32 years (anniversary today!). Jordan Peterson is totally correct.
So many men offer literally nothing in a relationship but demand that women find them desirable. Send these dusties packing.
Swap the genders around and there ya go chief
@@eta_carithebrightlord3396 and? do you want to improve your life or prove to others how bad you have it?
@@biggibbs4678 Hey I'm not entitled to anything the difference is that sub par women demand extraordinary men. It's not a balanced transaction.
So obviously true
Selfishness, laziness, impatience, and an aversion to reality are qualities being encouraged by the school system and general culture. They cause young people to start a terrible lifelong habit of sitting around passively letting someone else do all the active efforts of thinking, talking, and making of decisions and even vaguely believing that doing that was all the "work" they needed to get a "good" education, which they might even imagine would automatically lead to a high-paying job and life of ease. Such was my own experience to some extent, although from age 21 or so, confronted by unavoidable financial difficulties that no one was going to help me with, i was forced out of that pathetic childish delusion and into the real world. I've seen much younger persons, cushioned by their parents' or grandparents' money against any such worries, stay mostly idle, doing nothing of value, well into their thirties or older.
@Dee Westhill... I agree. I see the school system plays a huge part in making both men and women incompetent for functional relationships by conditioning us into laziness, passiveness and non-sensical priorities.
@@AngelCoyoteMusic The school system conditions most kids into the passivity of many office desk jobs. No wonder home schooling is so popular, although many working parents don't have the luxury of choosing that for their kids!
I know a lot a guy who do not have all of those qualities and they have a girlfriend. How do you explain that?
What is the name of this interview?
If only I had heard this advice 15 years ago, my life would be better. But I think that we have always the rest of our life to become the best version of ourselves
JP is helping me.
My King❤🎼🎵
Does anyone know what interview this is from?