When He Sends Mixed Signals

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  • @WNHTCT
    @WNHTCT 7 месяцев назад +347

    Mix signals also indicates other people are involved, too. He's being distracted by another lover or someone's whispering in his ear causing confusion.

    • @danielledavis9876
      @danielledavis9876 6 месяцев назад +28

      That's when you let him go and keep moving. Did it to my ex

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 6 месяцев назад +7

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 💯 🙏 🙌 👏

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@danielledavis9876 Sooooo #True, Sister 🙏

    • @madelinebigio7565
      @madelinebigio7565 5 месяцев назад +3

      Absolutely 💯 😊😊❤❤❤

    • @madelinebigio7565
      @madelinebigio7565 5 месяцев назад

      ⁠​⁠​⁠@@danielledavis9876absolutely 💯 agree me too! This is why I’m still single 60 years old and the older I get the less crap 💩 I take from a man 🧍‍♂️ who doesn’t value me ! Especially a Boy who refuses to grow up ⬆️ and mature as a man ! A lot of Narcissistic men do this too! I had one who try to put me in a 3 party situation too! And then a clown 🤡 who didn’t want to grow up ⬆️ because he was pampered by his mother and she was no longer here! But he was abusing her too! By manipulation her and didn’t help her ! All he did was take and when it was his turn to help her he didn’t care! When his Father died and all he did was make excuses for himself drowning in selfpity ,selfishness and in his ego ! I know one that treats his mom like she is a burden!

  • @GlobalFreeLiving
    @GlobalFreeLiving 7 месяцев назад +246

    As a rule, I don't do indecisive people. Period. If he doesn't celebrate me in the beginning... and very consistent.... I'm gone. Don't like wasting my time.

    • @laedeobroni
      @laedeobroni 7 месяцев назад +5

      Pause.
      Pardon cuz I been thru some shit 🤭
      Who hurt you?
      The reason I'm asking is cuz for you to point a finger, means you've acknowledged feelings, emotions felt things... ....
      Let it go
      Accept your responsibility
      Period
      Live,💯❣️ don't just Survive.

    • @swright8989
      @swright8989 6 месяцев назад +5

      Thank you for posting this, I needed to hear this

    • @GlobalFreeLiving
      @GlobalFreeLiving 6 месяцев назад +7

      @@swright8989 Love is very simple. Love is kind all the time. If it's not kind... its not love. And, don't take anything personal... don miguel ruiz.

    • @GlobalFreeLiving
      @GlobalFreeLiving 6 месяцев назад +13

      @@laedeobroni No one hurt me... I simply now my value and love is kind all the time.

    • @laedeobroni
      @laedeobroni 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@GlobalFreeLiving
      I can absolutely respect that
      Blessings 💞

  • @brendahart3754
    @brendahart3754 7 месяцев назад +204

    Smart women are discerning. And they also collect data each time they see that man, but we also have intuition. Intuition is something a man doesn't have. Trouble is, women will allow a man a few hiccups until they are faced with a real character flaw, or hurtful situation. Then men are surprised when they are suddenly dumped. Men always think they are one up on a gal, that is a big mistake to under estimate women.

    • @pauaaacc
      @pauaaacc 7 месяцев назад +19

      Hell yeah. Mirror what he does!

    • @Keke-vs7gm
      @Keke-vs7gm 6 месяцев назад +10

      Exactly!!!!

    • @lindawade1203
      @lindawade1203 6 месяцев назад +8

      👏

    • @ascensiondimension7119
      @ascensiondimension7119 6 месяцев назад +10

      All that intuition and still getting hustled by Pookie and Ray Ray.Too much FEELING and too little LOGIC.

    • @Raven.Tulips
      @Raven.Tulips 5 месяцев назад +4

      Yes, so true. Despite my shy and quiet demeanor, I am incredibly observant and intuitive. Before meeting my husband, I encountered a few men who attempted to pursue me. By simply listening and observing their actions, I noticed their concerning and disrespectful behavior. I distanced myself from them immediately! I did not hesitate. One guy persistently called and texted me after I told him it’s a no go. He even tried calling from another person's phone and was proud of himself when I answered. I firmly told him to leave me alone. It was absolutely ridiculous.

  • @shuwannajones530
    @shuwannajones530 6 месяцев назад +93

    Ladies they are still little boys, real men know what they want period

    • @ac1dfoxdie716
      @ac1dfoxdie716 6 месяцев назад +3

      Not fully true, cause I can get to know a women and then see some things I may not like which can make a person unsure about wanting to move forward afterwards. I.e mixed signals

    • @sos3241
      @sos3241 4 месяца назад +5

      Some men want to play the field.

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 Месяц назад

      ​@@ac1dfoxdie716then just say that instead of being wishy-washy.

  • @lovefarmer3560
    @lovefarmer3560 4 месяца назад +30

    Let men do what they want to do so that you can see what he’d rather be doing💯💯💯

  • @HTHTNT77
    @HTHTNT77 5 месяцев назад +21

    Confusion is the hint to remove yourself from the situation. I need clarity…

  • @TheSummitDevelopment
    @TheSummitDevelopment 7 месяцев назад +165

    Makes sense. I told a dude not to contact me in 2024. That I'd reach out to him in March 2025 (only because he was so upset when I threw up the ✌🏽). Why this dude come racking back a week ago trying to see if I found someone else?!? Sir, we are barely 3 weeks into 2024, and you made it abundantly clear that you want anyone but me. Go. A. Way.

  • @terryA228
    @terryA228 7 месяцев назад +143

    Above all else
    “ Guard your Heart “
    everything you do flows from it !!
    Sometimes we want to believe that the other person feels the same way about us that we do them
    we only end up hurting ourselves .
    Never let a man tell or show you twice they’re not interested . Move on &
    Choose You !! ❤

    • @zee_lolaj7382
      @zee_lolaj7382 7 месяцев назад +10

      Hear Hear👌🏿

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 7 месяцев назад +9

      AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

  • @chelove6370
    @chelove6370 7 месяцев назад +98

    AMEN! IF he doesn't call he isnt intersted! If he doesn't reach out or create time for you he isn't interested. Believe what he shows you the 1st time. If you aren't press you'll know his real intention. 😊

    • @ladybugbrack2834
      @ladybugbrack2834 7 месяцев назад +7

      💯

    • @shar2592
      @shar2592 7 месяцев назад +6

      Facts. Learned that the hard way. Never again, though.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 7 месяцев назад +7

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@shar2592AMEN, SISTER, ME 2🎉

  • @DonetaCalloway-x6q
    @DonetaCalloway-x6q 5 месяцев назад +16

    So true don’t entertain a man who is unsure it’s a waste of your time and energy . Life is too short and precious to waste time. Make your life count and make the most of it with the right person. ❤

  • @deena3003
    @deena3003 7 месяцев назад +41

    The problem is holding on to see if he'll be the one. It's best to let go at a moment notice. Just don't hold on and hang in there.

  • @Michelle-bi6gx
    @Michelle-bi6gx 7 месяцев назад +121

    So true. Many of us waste our time hoping and believing the best in people.
    It’s unfortunate it’s a chess game that involves feelings and it’s always seems to be the women that looses.
    But I encourage never to give up or change who you are just be open and honest even if people may say or think you are desperate.
    Ask for what you deserve and want in the beginning make it clear and I promise you you would eliminate a lot of the bullshit.

  • @baribach8701
    @baribach8701 7 месяцев назад +88

    I didn't think that I could change someone's mind but I did think, many years ago, that if I stayed in the relationship he would see who I am. That he would see my worth . Never happened

    • @Keke-vs7gm
      @Keke-vs7gm 6 месяцев назад +5

      Well, if you wanted him to see who you were and your value, that also was in the hope into changing his mind.

  • @bettymarshall615
    @bettymarshall615 6 месяцев назад +17

    Right! Because action speaks louder then words😂😂😂

  • @luckie6682
    @luckie6682 7 месяцев назад +22

    I do the same thing, and i will walk away silently and gracefully forever quickly , my momma and daddy taught me well, never wait around on any man that is indecisive, first impressions are lasting ones, a man will spend time, energy, money, love, on what he wants , i have an ex friend that is trying to come back now after he took his sweet time while entertaining what he wanted in the first place but now that she has rejected him , and im getting married to my yrue kingdom husband that i did not have too lift a finger for him to show me what real loves is and what he wants, i dont chase i attract, so i do know if any man truly loves a woman , he will move mountains too be with her , so men dont make that grave mistake of letting your blessing go by not showing love who truly love you , Amen

  • @The_Super_Poodle
    @The_Super_Poodle 3 месяца назад +11

    Women - let me be completely honest with you - if he’s sending mixed signals then he’s gay. There are no if ands or buts about it. I have never come across a man who said “man I don’t know how I feel about this one.” It’s either “she crazy.” Or “I think I’m in love.”

    • @mellok6627
      @mellok6627 Месяц назад +3

      Facts!! Any guy I’ve dealt with who has these actions of “mixed signals” & bottom of the barrel bare minimum
      I found out is DL or probably upset with themselves bc they’re unhappy and not living outward with their TRUE SELVES
      Compared to the men I’ve dealt with who are SURE, actual man, emotionally available + more but just didn’t work out between us..their actions were sooo different & I’ve felt more in my femininity with them as for the
      “Unsure men” confused men…my emotions were over the place, gray area, I was confused and staring away from my femininity wasn’t a good feeling

  • @rubydejesus9119
    @rubydejesus9119 7 месяцев назад +50

    Yes, the Bible says that you will know them by their actions. Always look at the actions.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 7 месяцев назад +5

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER 🎉

    • @Keke-vs7gm
      @Keke-vs7gm 6 месяцев назад +9

      It said you will know them.by the fruits they bear.

  • @josephineward927
    @josephineward927 7 месяцев назад +58

    Most definitely so I move on so he can figure it out alone!

    • @mejuluperpetual5942
      @mejuluperpetual5942 7 месяцев назад +2

      Congratulations she will not cried again she cried one and wipe her tears congratulations one again

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 7 месяцев назад +4

      💯💯💯

    • @soni1109
      @soni1109 6 месяцев назад +2

      Go girl ❤

  • @rowendaseijner1211
    @rowendaseijner1211 7 месяцев назад +49

    I was hoping too, for 4 months. Mixed signals all over! Didn't want to label so I was not realy his gf. He was only sexually attracted to me. I broke up the relationship 4 times! After giving me the silent treatment I broke up forgood! I don't wanna wait till he change his mind about if am his gf or not. I have a life to live also

    • @bybyana26
      @bybyana26 7 месяцев назад +20

      Same exact thing happened to me. I kept trying to hold on because he kept saying he wanted to be with me while at the same time displaying actions that showed me he really didn’t. The sexual chemistry was there but, I started to feel less attracted sexually because deep down I knew he was full of it.

    • @sonyadunbar3747
      @sonyadunbar3747 6 месяцев назад +6

      You did the right thing. Don’t look back, it will only be more of the same. People are who they are.

    • @rowendaseijner1211
      @rowendaseijner1211 6 месяцев назад

      @@sonyadunbar3747 Yes that's true. Am a happy single now

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 4 месяца назад +11

    they know what they are doing

  • @ivonap3743
    @ivonap3743 7 месяцев назад +23

    You are true 100% absolutely true. Only problem is during that time while he is collecting data about you he often vibrate energy that keeps you stalled, and you simply are unable to move on . Because of that woman often mixing signals understands wrongly as they are naturally more oriented to feelings. As we all know women feels the love. Thank you coach for so simple and beautiful explanation. This is very kind and helpful . I am very grateful for this ❤

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 7 месяцев назад +1

      I've never heard this before, women are not prisoners or victims of energy unless they choose a man before he's chosen her for life. You are to love self devote to yourself therefore not being susceptible to others whimps and energies. This life is about your commitment to yourself you are not helpless and weak especially not to a man that is not even sure about you. Change your beliefs and the power is yours not up to a man how your life turns out it's up to you❤

    • @christineribone9351
      @christineribone9351 4 месяца назад

      ​@@ladyofspa
      Sort of. There is also fate or the X factor that shapes peoples lives. No matter what you may plan, fate determines the outcome.

  • @ahsiekli3004
    @ahsiekli3004 6 месяцев назад +6

    Yep! And while he is uncertain, I am certain that he's not the one. A man goes after what he wants, and I have the right to protect my peace and will collect my data and move out smooth if he ain't the one.

  • @user-jx2yg7fr7i
    @user-jx2yg7fr7i 7 месяцев назад +27

    We, women, collect data too, Mr.

    • @SimonKnight1023
      @SimonKnight1023 6 месяцев назад +1

      But you live in fantasy and ignore fact.

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 Месяц назад

      ​@@SimonKnight1023 guess you know every single woman huh? 🙄

    • @SimonKnight1023
      @SimonKnight1023 Месяц назад

      @@SR77736 You all aren’t that complicated.

  • @smarterthinker1729
    @smarterthinker1729 7 месяцев назад +12

    There is nothing like a conflicted man !

  • @ritamarashlyan3185
    @ritamarashlyan3185 6 месяцев назад +6

    Absolutely true
    Action speaks louder then words

  • @ladyofspa
    @ladyofspa 7 месяцев назад +16

    Listen it's simple.
    Our dating practices are out of balance, health, and best interest for women. Reserve yourself till you have verified this gentleman with proof. Delay being convinced he's ideal for you until engagement. Sex, falling in love, commitment, babies, buying homes are for after marriage after he's certain he's devoted to a life with you. The rest is playing and testing leading to dead ends often, and broken spirits. Devoted to yourself then join a healthy compliment partner in marriage build a family.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 7 месяцев назад +3

      Sooooooooo #TRUE, Sister 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @WarriorBrideBattleCry
    @WarriorBrideBattleCry 3 месяца назад +6

    I'm a woman who collects data & separates my emotions from it

  • @awmpropertygroup3839
    @awmpropertygroup3839 5 месяцев назад +4

    100% ! Literally was my own experience just recently. when he finally opened up ...he Saud just that. Women do need to be more emotionally intelligent. Collect data don't rely on how you feel. Fall bk on your frminty and ve your best authentic self. If it doesn't work. You still know who are.

  • @ElizabethSmith-e
    @ElizabethSmith-e 7 месяцев назад +15

    So true he says and does different facts that means he’s unstable person that can’t handle reality and makes up excuses

    • @SimonKnight1023
      @SimonKnight1023 6 месяцев назад

      Or he’s just using you.

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 Месяц назад

      ​@@SimonKnight1023 that's true too

  • @marciawilliams6821
    @marciawilliams6821 6 месяцев назад +5

    I say actions speak louder than words.
    Words are just words .

  • @victory9086
    @victory9086 7 месяцев назад +13

    Answer: Put thousands and millions of space between you and him....Deuces..beloved...i was born by myself ..when my breath leave my body ..it will be 2 lungs 🫁 in one body..😅

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 7 месяцев назад +2

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @stephaniehoward3912
    @stephaniehoward3912 7 месяцев назад +12

    Can't change a man only if he wants to change himself about you

  • @kkw-pal1178
    @kkw-pal1178 4 месяца назад +2

    Female here... I collect data, assess, analyze it, plan, evaluate, and take it from there. The feelings at the time don't matter. I continue to do this cause men are unpredictable. Always have a plan B,C, etc.

  • @ABBAGIRLNoMore-WitsEnd16
    @ABBAGIRLNoMore-WitsEnd16 5 месяцев назад +3

    I think that we as people say actions speak louder than words but we really don't want to believe it. However, I truly believe it because we do exactly what we want to do intentionally for the most part so why wouldn't our actions be exactly what we want. He is not uncertain he just either just allowed himself to be tempted and got caught up or doesn't want to hurt your feelings or he just wants to have his cake and eat it too playing games.

  • @maryscanlon1407
    @maryscanlon1407 7 месяцев назад +7

    So true, he invited me to his home told me we should break up and said he noticed my insecurities on the fone despite knowing I had been very hurt in my life but was watching me when I was being honest, open, vulnerable .. .. absolutely horrible very very hurt 💔😞

  • @theorderofthebees7308
    @theorderofthebees7308 6 месяцев назад +5

    A mixed signal is a no baby girl always a man that wants you is secure in his decision .

  • @nilsar1946
    @nilsar1946 5 месяцев назад +3

    Mixed signals are the worst! Now he is what another person

  • @authenticallyzenful
    @authenticallyzenful 6 месяцев назад +5

    I ain’t trying to change his mind… leave me the fuck alone

  • @shannonbrown4601
    @shannonbrown4601 6 месяцев назад +4

    Ppl only talk about this from the angle of the words being greater than the actions. But when the actions supersede the words, wtf is THAT?
    It left me in COMPLETE confusion and felt like I had to decipher morse code until we parted ways

  • @courtneymcneal6436
    @courtneymcneal6436 7 месяцев назад +4

    So true. I watch their actions. It gives me all I need to make a decision. However, determine is everything majority of the time before it even begins..

  • @user-zj8il7ti8y
    @user-zj8il7ti8y 7 месяцев назад +8

    I collect data about a man his actions what he do and what he don't do. I go through them thoroughly trying to learn them before the first date.

    • @specialk8927
      @specialk8927 7 месяцев назад +2

      I do too and they get mad when you go over that data with them all the things you done for that person compare to what they didn’t do for you😅

  • @nicolemartin-pz1wl
    @nicolemartin-pz1wl 7 месяцев назад +20

    I've done that with my son's father and failed because he left me and married something else 👍🏾. But he's still not happy

    • @kimberlyknighton5071
      @kimberlyknighton5071 7 месяцев назад +20

      Not your problem. Keep conversation only about your son. Do not entertain his personal problems. He’s playing games.

    • @nicolemartin-pz1wl
      @nicolemartin-pz1wl 7 месяцев назад +12

      @@kimberlyknighton5071 I agree 💯👍🏾

    • @nicolemartin-pz1wl
      @nicolemartin-pz1wl 7 месяцев назад

      @@kimberlyknighton5071 he never been in his life

    • @danielledavis9876
      @danielledavis9876 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@kimberlyknighton5071 exactly, my ex tried it and I told him I am not entertaining his.unhappiness in his marriage...not my problem

    • @SimonKnight1023
      @SimonKnight1023 6 месяцев назад

      Well he’s with a woman so happiness is hard to come across.

  • @AdahPAHtatah
    @AdahPAHtatah 6 месяцев назад +3

    He is right when he says men don't know what they are doing. Relationships baffle them sometimes.

    • @SimonKnight1023
      @SimonKnight1023 6 месяцев назад

      Because women are chaotic and don’t say what they actually want.

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 Месяц назад +1

      It's not that. They know. Sometimes we women tolerate too much.

    • @AdahPAHtatah
      @AdahPAHtatah Месяц назад

      @@SimonKnight1023 Men are the cause of the chaos!

  • @jspnc123
    @jspnc123 6 месяцев назад +3

    Why be uncertain ever? Give it to God! ❤

  • @beatricerichardson1311
    @beatricerichardson1311 7 месяцев назад +2

    Exactly so My parents always told me to have a plan Bcde.... Its ok if someone changes their mind. Blessings

  • @rochellethundercloud346
    @rochellethundercloud346 6 месяцев назад +2

    Mixed signals are always a no

  • @lesawells7611
    @lesawells7611 6 месяцев назад +1

    The ones that wait till you are married to show you they are un certain. Then you hold on to vows. But, holding on is a waste of your health and your hold being..LADIES / AND GENT LET THE BOY OR GIRL GO.

  • @cwd132
    @cwd132 7 месяцев назад +5

    ...as an effective practice, I take physical intimacy off the table for the first 3 to 6 months. During that time, I put a lab coat on, pull out the clipboard, and collect data...no flags 🚩!?!...we can proceed and elevate...

  • @perla9594
    @perla9594 6 месяцев назад +2

    A mixed signal means a man is comparing you with another woman or many women. Listen to his words and actions🤨🤔. I believe things were better without social media and the Internet. I was too busy with my college education and career, and now H***** I should have married in the 80s or 90s. A lot of messed up broken divorced men are very scared to enter into a new chapter in life😣. As an analyst, I always collect data, men notice, and get upset.😂😂 A man can't evaluate me correctly. One man jumped back from me when he looked at my diamond cross neckace. 😂😂😂 cross ✝️ 🔥 burn 🔥burn. I am sick of this bull crap era!!☹️

  • @MissK504
    @MissK504 5 месяцев назад +2

    Here's how to solve this problem. Instead of teaching women how to "collect data" teach men to walk their talk. Simple basic easy no confusion. End of problem.

  • @lisaaustin4181
    @lisaaustin4181 6 месяцев назад +1

    The actions speak louder than words

  • @Rosamallett777
    @Rosamallett777 6 месяцев назад +5

    GOD GOT THIS, YES INDEED I TRUST GOD'S PROCESS AND CLAIM IT ALL IN THE HIGHEST POWERFUL BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST'S HOLY ALMIGHTY NAME!!❤️🙏💯🔥

  • @WeR1bodyNChrist
    @WeR1bodyNChrist 7 месяцев назад +8

    Sounds like instability to me.

  • @maxinewilson3583
    @maxinewilson3583 4 месяца назад +1

    Intuition matters it’s not inferior in this scenario. A man behaviour should match but intuition can assist figure out deceptive and safety identity red flags which may on the surface not necessarily appear important in terms of behaviour so intuition can offer a way to filter the behaviour that might be brushed off as nothing or less important due the subtleness of said behaviour

  • @maryrice5873
    @maryrice5873 7 месяцев назад +4

    way too much I'll stay single thank you

    • @perla9594
      @perla9594 6 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣Amen!👏👏

  • @nicolemartin-pz1wl
    @nicolemartin-pz1wl 7 месяцев назад +3

    Wow u are right again coach 👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Sherry-s1s
    @Sherry-s1s 4 месяца назад +1

    I say, let them go!

  • @LizaLavolta
    @LizaLavolta 3 месяца назад +1

    I need a longer version of this video

    • @CoachKenCanion
      @CoachKenCanion  3 месяца назад +1

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  • @bbeautiful6390
    @bbeautiful6390 7 месяцев назад +4

    Ok THEN HE IS SLOW😳. DOESN'T TALK JUST STARES AND SMILES🥴🤓

  • @laedeobroni
    @laedeobroni 7 месяцев назад +2

    Dropping Jewels 💎
    ❤💯

  • @Janice-dq9wk
    @Janice-dq9wk 4 месяца назад

    Preaching it brother 😁😂🙌🏽👏🏽🕯️🕯️

  • @anitasher2434
    @anitasher2434 7 месяцев назад +2

    Good information on men ❤

  • @adrianwillis66
    @adrianwillis66 4 месяца назад

    Then I am unsure too. Lol Women usually give back the energy that they receive.

  • @deloresgraham4356
    @deloresgraham4356 5 месяцев назад +1

    If a person DOESN'T want you in their face, DON'T settle for being at their Feet. "A mind is a terrible thing to waste." MIND Games are Time Wasters, focus on starting Businesses.

  • @KimberlyGray-cd3lt
    @KimberlyGray-cd3lt 2 месяца назад +1

    My ex said that,he called me 1 day and said I'm trying to figure you out,we broke up 1 week later, Single life is Beautiful ❤

  • @jackiewatson6562
    @jackiewatson6562 6 месяцев назад +1

    I am not about to try to change anyone. He is a grown man. Supposedly. If you don't know what you want by now, bye.

  • @annmalone8208
    @annmalone8208 5 месяцев назад +1

    So I am dating a man who is there, takes me out, pays for things. yet does not want to qualify the relationship. - What?!

  • @IWONTBEPSYOPED
    @IWONTBEPSYOPED 5 месяцев назад +1

    truth!!

  • @marylevatte4192
    @marylevatte4192 6 месяцев назад +1

    Yes. I called him out on his games. He got in his ego. Oh he thought he was getting my goodnesson a first date. Lol no boo Im not what you used to. So come at me correct. If you trying to play me like a trick ask what do I charge. Im a queen treat me as such. I don't care if you don't like it but respect it. I stepped back and he took months calling after that and I didn't respond. I saw right then he was still on bull crap. Good reading.

  • @christinephilcox3872
    @christinephilcox3872 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yes, I see that!

  • @GodsSparrowSpeaks
    @GodsSparrowSpeaks 5 месяцев назад

    Good grief - so true about women here
    Ugh. My feelings actually annoy me at times 😒

  • @gershwyngershy4793
    @gershwyngershy4793 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for your sayings 🎉

  • @SigmaTruth351
    @SigmaTruth351 5 месяцев назад

    Good stuff. Mixed signals is a NO in my database and it’s time to move along. And when you move along, 2 things happen, He chooses you or he doesn’t and either way, you get to choose him from a data based POV. Also, sex is not the go to… no soul ties that cloud good judgements. Sex is last when dating.

  • @aliciaaustin4030
    @aliciaaustin4030 7 месяцев назад +1

    Mix signals are red flags!this also used also but used differently as men. A woman's emotions are a Red flag based on the man's maturity to see feel, and 😢👂🏽LiSTEN🗣️🙏🏽💯

  • @LightHouse_222
    @LightHouse_222 6 месяцев назад +1

    Now he has all that data and I left. Maybe he can use all that data on the next woman.
    Woman need a man who knows what he wants.
    We need solid foundations, not a computer deciding if he wants us, while we are around, feeling the earth is not stable under us.

  • @ritacoleman3684
    @ritacoleman3684 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you brother amen

  • @LoveFaithLive
    @LoveFaithLive 3 месяца назад +1

    A hurtful realisation that we have to realise.

  • @nancyshreves8596
    @nancyshreves8596 6 месяцев назад

    Absolutely true words
    Thank you Sir

  • @helenepiceno2519
    @helenepiceno2519 Месяц назад

    Yes, my husband had been abusive to me, I don't deserve this treatment he left me telling me I don't Love him.

  • @joansheekey476
    @joansheekey476 6 месяцев назад

    Actions speek so loud. And his actions most cernty have. ❤

  • @oumiemogari8476
    @oumiemogari8476 7 месяцев назад +1

    Profound indeed😊

  • @Mone525
    @Mone525 3 месяца назад

    Truth!!!

  • @miriambarco8832
    @miriambarco8832 7 месяцев назад +7

    He may be wanting to make you chase. Hopefully give up ur resources so he can benefit w/o effort

  • @affableone7321
    @affableone7321 6 месяцев назад +1

    “ 🤔Listen to what he does”

  • @Virgothagxd
    @Virgothagxd 6 месяцев назад

    Sometimes it's about wanting to come correct rather than inconsistency

  • @thespiritualrealist-ki2416
    @thespiritualrealist-ki2416 5 месяцев назад

    Treated me like gold. Told me he didn't want anything. Now that's confusing lol

  • @a.d.morton4624
    @a.d.morton4624 5 месяцев назад

    FACTS!

  • @rachelcoloradomy3kidz778
    @rachelcoloradomy3kidz778 5 месяцев назад

    😢 I prayed for This answer and I have rec'd the message Tfs ❤

  • @user-wc6ku9dr7l
    @user-wc6ku9dr7l 7 месяцев назад +1

    Amen,thanks brother!❤❤❤

  • @themela9showwithfulaniyira338
    @themela9showwithfulaniyira338 6 месяцев назад +1

    I refuse to play man games, period man Coach. I am a receiver, I have choices. Deal or no deal. #grownwomenspeak

  • @sos3241
    @sos3241 4 месяца назад

    It's funny how hard ppl work to be with someone. Long-term relationships were always easy for me, I'm low maintenance & look for the same. Communication, consistency, effort & trust.

  • @hc4357
    @hc4357 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks. He’s not interested all 4 of em.

  • @rochellesmith510
    @rochellesmith510 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you ❤real truth ❤

  • @christineribone9351
    @christineribone9351 4 месяца назад +1

    Women have a 6th sense aka. intuition. They use it to protect themselves from betrayal and game playing. Dont underestimate women.

  • @peggyolfert9208
    @peggyolfert9208 7 месяцев назад +1

    No Actions Whatsoever Going Forward 😂

  • @bunnyboonot4u
    @bunnyboonot4u 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you!! I just subscribed! 👍❤

  • @baribach8701
    @baribach8701 7 месяцев назад +3

    I didn't think that I could change someone's mind

  • @MaryLevatte
    @MaryLevatte 6 месяцев назад

    Yes a man tried this with me he wanted me to tell him all my wants and he tried to make it all the same. He thought all that talking was make us sleep together. I called him out on his bull crap because I didn't sleep with him. Lol he got in his ego I stepped back. So he stopped calling for a long time. When he did he texted acting like he knows me and like I didn't know it was him. I didn't even respond. He showed me he was a dog

  • @1curlygyrl
    @1curlygyrl 6 месяцев назад +1

    What about the man that says and shows; I love you I adore you and they will do anything for you, But once in a while act like they can’t stand, you then try to ignore their mean behavior with acts of kindness? Who can explain those mixed signals

    • @martymcfly5764
      @martymcfly5764 6 месяцев назад +2

      You are seeing the early red flags of an abusive individual who gets off on control. If he is already doing little things to keep you confused and feeling like you're less than, just imagine what he's capable of once he has you trapped with marriage. It always escalates and it will only get worse. I don't get why women choose to ignore their intuition as well as what is clearly right in front of their face. Believe what you see and run far away before it's too late. Consider yourself warned.

  • @norlia9471
    @norlia9471 5 месяцев назад

    Absolutely true word thank you real truth
    Thank you sir for this measage.. Amenx3🙏👏