When a man can be so vulnerable to open up like he did shows a strength of character that is admirable. I have always enjoyed watching his late night show. It is clear to me now, why I thought he was a good soul.
I am 32 years sober. For anyone out there let me tell you that the first week is hard and over the next 3 weeks it gets a tiny bit easier. Then there is two years of temptation but after that.... it's been a cakewalk. The best thing I ever could have done for myself and my family. Good luck.
The “embarrassment” part gave me chills. I know severe alcoholism and it’s spot on. So many of my friends don’t know how close they were to being the last person to ever talk to me. Petty arguments would turn into slander about my problem and I remember thinking “I can’t win, I only cause pain and the pain I’ll probably cause in the future is more than the pain these people will feel when I kill myself”. It made perfect mathematical sense. Cold Turkey almost put me in the hospital (wouldn’t have been the first time alcohol had put me in the ER) and it doesn’t matter how long I’ve been sober, it’s been a while and I know I’m good. Just think next time you bring up someone’s drinking in the middle of an argument or assume drinking/drugs is causing 100% of their problems and joke distastefully about it. You magnify the problem in the abusers head and the sense of hopelessness is indescribable to anyone who hasn’t had a severe addiction. Especially when your closest friends and family are the ones to come at you the wrong way about your problem.
That last bit is true but the tragic part is having to walk on eggshells about it. That leaves walking away as the only logical route to go and "cold turkey" from a person is most damaging to that person. There just is no way around it, lest the problem claims two lives not just one.
This was validating. Almost 2 years sober. When I first started I was just a kid and didn't know shit from clay. Everyone I knew drank. It never occurred to me that it could be bad. But drugs and alcohol ruined my life. It's 20 years later and I'm still picking up the pieces from when I got introduced to them. Alcohol cost me relationships, jobs, dignity, and opportunities. It's all about recovery now, and it's not for the weak. It would be easier to NOT face my issues, but then I would never be sober. I'm glad I found this post.
I failed myself again, but RUclips "threw" this at me, and I feel better about my situaton because I can relate to many people commenting on this video/issue... Like Craig said, "certain type of people can't drink". To the people that recognize themselves like myself in this statememt, I wish you all the best. We can do it!
Finally I get now why people that are clean celebrate every year or so when they’re sober. Cuz every day they have a mindset to go back to what they were hooked on. It’s a challenge all the time. And even tho Craig is better now, he can’t ever consume alcohol. Cuz he would just end up like he was. I do wish that people recognized Actual things that are dangerous for you and quit selling it. You can be hooked to anything, but certain things like nicotine and alcohol Will get you hooked and shouldn’t be sold. It’s sad to say some countries talk about having loads of alcohol like it’s nothing. Alcohol and drugs take away lives. One cup at a time.
6-7-89. This date is the most important of my life. Craig is eloquent and REAL. Happy to he in the same club with him & with you. Class of '89!! One day at a time.
Lost a teaching career due to my alcoholism. Five months and four days sober now. Appreciate hearing stories like this. Update since I just saw all the responses: Appreciate all the support. Hit a year finally. January 18, 2023 is my sobriety date. One day at a time. Same sponsor I’ve had forever.
I remember watching this when I was going through an alcoholic bender. I thought it was impossible to put together some sober time. I'm now 5 years sober! Thanks Craig.
Stephen Silva Congratulations to all those who stay sober. I know that some people use the mantra one day at a time, but if that doesn't seem possible, try " One hour at a time". Not an alcoholic but had a different type of addiction. Hang in there, talk to people, take up running, weights, bicycling, walking, anything that causes you to concentrate on something else, even if it's pain, exhaustion, repetition or attention to detail. If you relapse, try again. Make changes to your home, apartment, move if possible to a different area? Sobriety is worth it.
I’m not an alcoholic, but I remember seeing this monologue the night it originally aired and thinking “This guy has class.” He should have received a standing ovation for this.
He probably warned the audience prior that he was going to do this- and not to clap. I was looking for the applause too. So they had to be asked. And the applause lights didnt get turned on either. I was moved by this as well. I' m sitting in my own urine watching this. At least I THINK it's my own urine.....
I have been sober for 28 years, and he is NOT breaking any tradition here! He never mentions A.A., he is sharing his experience, strength, and hope, without ever breaking his anonymity or anyone else's. He is a beautiful example a dynamic, sober, insightful man in society. He had the opportunity to help countless others and took it. BRAVO! We will never know how many seeds he planted.
Only thing AA ever did for me was make me wanna get drunk. Every meeting I went to was depressing and deprecating. I did make it 90 days once... Didn't attend a single meeting.
@@ilovebutterstuff you wanted to get drunk because you wanted to get drunk. You're not a victim. Did you get a sponsor, did you go through the steps, did you sponsor others? If you didn't answer yes, yes, and yes you were never IN AA you were just around it
@@seanwilliams_31 --- I don't think I was implying that I was any kind of a victim, but I will go ahead and assume that victimhood, and having to bend the knee to one's own inadequacies is somehow a mortal sin to you. Don't get me wrong, I hold personal accountability in the highest regard, but your little 'checklist'? Laughable man. Truly laughable.
@@connormckenzie1762 doesn't the Roseanne thing kind of mess up your ideology? Couldn't she have talked to her rabbi and then he could have called the Zionist cabal and they would have sorted it out yeah? Isn't that what you people believe?
no. im practicing a more controlled approach to my drinking. But, one day, after working outside in the heat, i just had to have a few drinks. I made it 14 days before i caved.
ROFL, you try punching out God yet? Your a mild alcohlic. Do you feel a demonic urge when you have a drink? It's overwhelming feelling. It won't stop. Can you relate?
So true. I drink alcohol but have many friends who are taking it one day at a time. You will never talk to more straight shooting(and funny) people on the Earth than recovered alcoholics.
I remember listening to this and wondering if I could get sober and stay sober. Now, nine and a half years later, I can allow myself to laugh. God bless Craig. Keep coming back.
Surely one of the greatest moments of television history: a man's honest telling of his failings turns the mirror on the audience. Even as a non-alcoholic, there's much to learn here about humility and empathy. This segment will live long after this era has passed
When he says "I can't do this anymore.. i'm going to kill myself.. I'll show them". I think anyone with an addiction has had those thoughts. His message is so uplifting; he shows you the dark side but also the hope and experience.
I'm not exaggerating when I say I believe this is one of the best speeches I've ever heard in my life. No judgement, no bullshit like buy this and that, just compassion, love for others and wisdom gained from the perspective of a former alcoholic.
No; it's not some kinda joke...from some kinda month... My friend quit smoking on Flag Day (years ago)... if he'd known it was Trump's birthday, I'm sure he'd be smoking to this day! Oh great...all jokes.... the day you decide...is the day you decide!
People like him sharing their stories help me every day. I cannot drink responsibly and live any semblance of a life. Unfortunately it took me 18 years and various legal issues to realize the problem was me and my thoughts/ feelings.
i am sitting at home right now trying to figure out how to stop drinking. I am so lost so afraid and so sick. I am just happy I can watch videos of people who have made it possible in there own lives. Craig thank you so much for your words. I know my time will come.
Hang in there Adam, you are not Alone, far from it....try to speak to someone in recovery....A.A. really does work (if you work it), and you can meet some great people....Take care and YOU CAN get Sober, that's a Promise..
A.A. it works I agree... go to meetings ...meet people..get a sponsor ...and get to working on those steps...life changing for myself! AA is for people who want it ..not people who need it...so show up if youre willing
Hi Guys.. Thank you for the replies. I will be 3 months sober on the 12 of August. I feel so much better physically. Mentally thats going to take a little more work. Dealing with some depression and still wanting to isolate but I am going to keep working hard. I think I need to go to more AA meetings. Good for getting out and building relationships.
I cried when he said he wanted to kill himself on Christmas morning. Thank God for his drinking friend for not letting him leave at that moment. We have to lose ourselves to find out who we truly are.
No, we dont. If you truly love and respect yourself, you dont have to go on a downward spiral to find out Who you really are. Its this "intensity and viscerality" worship we have that produces all The problems we face in Society today. Strive to be The most lightweighted and light hearted person you can with a decent sense or worth and you Will see how everything in your Life Will fall into place. You dont need to be anybody's hero, not even of yourself. Live intelligently, not intensily.
It's true what matthew is saying. You really do have to die to your old self completely, in order to truly start anew. If you have an old house built on a poor fountain, you can't just keep adding on additions and expect the original problem to be overshadowed. You have to go back and tear apart the old in order to make way for the new. "Don't put new wine in old wine skins"
I'm sorry for your loss, alcoholism is a life of suffering. I think about suicide sometimes because sometimes I don't think I'll ever be able to stop. I'm sober right now and I'm back to trying again, but it's ruined my relationships and I've lost so many jobs because I would relapse and show up to work drunk. I hope I can get it down this time I start intensive outpatient treatment soon if I don't succeed this time I'm putting myself in rehab.
I wonder if he knew how many people he was going to help when he went out and told this monologue. Thanks Craig you saved alot of us that needed to hear this
It’s a Blessing how many people he’s helped. How many people he’s reached. I’m pretty sure he had no idea of how strong his testimony was going to impact people. Thanks A lot.
After 1 year of being sober, tonight i was going to drink heavily, even though I didn't want to. I kept searching for reasons not to do it when I thought about this video. This finally worked, I cried, but it made me feel comfortable and strong enough to stay sober and not give in to destructive thoughts. Thank you, Craig, I hope others find the strength to move forward.
When Craig is silly, he's so silly. But, when he's serious, he makes so much sense and his advice is rock solid. I'm glad he chose to become an American.
"The only way I could deal with it (my addiction) is to find other people who have similar experiences and talk to them...it doesn't cost anything, it doesn't cost a thing." Love that quote! It's very true. Addiction recovery starts with finding the courage to talk about it with others.
I got drunk last night really drunk! I have been battling the fact that I cannot drink responsible. I have told myself a million times that I can control it. After I drink I have suicidal thoughts and depression, I feel lonely even though I’m married to an amazing woman and we have two wonderful children. The cycle is I drink>I get uncontrollably drunk> I wake up in fear depression and suicidal > I battle my demons for days and tell myself I’ll never drink again> That voice then starts to creep in as the days pass by and before I know it the idea of never drinking again has gone> then the next time I drink comes along (could be weeks) and I repeat it all again. Today I’m going to the AA and hopefully I can break the cycle
@@brittanynelson9114 your body (liver) is telling u something w the bloody nose. Liver can rejuvenate if u stop drinking unless its advanced cirrhosis. I know and Im healing eachday Im sober.
This s typical AA "talk" and thank God that it is. This man truly saved my life. For some reason this talk just hit me tight between the eyes. I lost everything because of my addiction. Now almost four years agosober and just as Craig says, I've slowly been getting bits of me back. It's been hell at times but nothing NOTHING like being drunk and hurting and alienating those who tried and failed to help me ( actually I probably failed them). Every AA meeting I go to I meet people who I can be more honest with than anyone. God bless this man.
You know what I like about this monologue? This entire talk embodies the 11th tradition and "attraction rather than promotion." Not once does he say he's in AA. Obviously, people got what he meant when he said look at the front of the phone book, and he probably knew they would... but I bet those people who laughed and aren't in recovery didn't think twice about it and soon forgot. The people who that line will stick with are the people who heard this story, wanted help, and began to feel hopeful that recovery could be possible.
For those that bash or are skeptical of AA this is exactly what happens at an open meeting. No preaching, no "cult stuff" ( we are not a cult!) just one man or women talking about what happened to them and how they stay sober. For some reason this video was the last straw that finally got me in AA and not around it. For those struggling all I can say is that for me I had to totally be a part of stuff. I needed to start helping anyone and ever so slowly things began to change. I literally found peace and spiritually in a coffee can. I was such a people pleaser that when I was asked to help set up I was terrified of showing up hungover or even not showing up! Slowly I started to do more stuff, and it became a way of life. It takes time, but please keep going, do what those "old farts" tell you to do and eventually life will change. Good luck! Be
Tommy Petersen I think the main reason people bash AA is the whole accepting god thing. I think they feel religion should be seperate from a recovery program
dick van dyke yeah, I went through that too. Finally I came to the conclusion that dealing with the "God" thing was better than dealing with the "dead" thing or the "jail" thing or the "on the street" thing. I eventually found a spiritually and God that worked for me. I stopped trying to control and question stuff just for the sake of not wanting to be a part of this crazy "AA cult" thing. I did not go to AA because I saw the light. I went because I had nowhere else to go and no one wanted anything to do with me. Over time this program gave me my life back and I finally learned how to help others and that "helping" is as much a part of my recovery as anything else. For me, and I can only speak for me, AA ( or rather the people in it) cared more for me than I did and taught me finally how to apply AA experiences to the real world. ( if you can survive an AA business meeting you can handle anything! ) Good luck you, it's a great life.
***** yeah you're totally right but I figure if I can help someone because they know I'm part of it then fine. But you're not wrong, I should be a bit more discreet.
The thing is that they're downright atheist and not agnostic and there's a major difference of course and anything that smacks of "God" is "religion" to them and so they balk at the word, but then again too 12 step members balk at the word Jesus too because they confuse the one of the churches and the one I of learned as the result of the steps that it's nothing of the sort, because in my Experience with the steps "heaven" seems awfully synonymous with Nirvana, when I did my 4th step after being one of those people that finally reached a wall with "my way of doing things" it was like dying while I was still alive, which is why the spiritual masters say "Die before you die"because therein lies humility, acceptance, and surrender along with the rest of the stages of death. Amazing what you find out doing an honest and sincere inventory.
***** This very much relates to me. If you of an anti-bullshit (aka religion) nature, check out SMART recovery programs. Treatment for addicts from the 21st century. Actually, I recommend this to ANY addict because they realize that some addictions can be managed, instead of the blanket treatment of abstinence and willful ignorance from AA programs.
This moment right here. This when I really started to like Craig as a person, not just an entertainer. When people ask me why I like him. This is the video I show them.
Happy Presidents Day! I watched this video many times in my drinking career. It was Craigs message that helped me turn to AA. 9 months and 1 week today.
Very touching words, and good points. After 28 days, it's isn't over, it's a lifetime of struggles, but not nearly as many struggles that come with chronic alcoholism. Each day sober matters. I had a relapse that turned into a miserable bender, but I'm 3 weeks sober today, and will do whatever it takes to achieve long term sobriety. Good luck to Craig, and all the others who have this struggle. Keep on keepin' on :)
Roach Around I keep relapsing and always feel like shit. I'm tired of waking up going to my job feeling sick just getting thru the day to drink again. when I stop I feel good . still sad and lonely and bored but I tell myself I'm not gonna drink today . it's a day by day struggle. it's no joke . alcohol is the worst thing to enter my life. it's destroyed my relationships with loved ones.
Lunchbox1017 it's interesting how we look at relapse like it's a failure but it's actually pretty normal. I think it's important to address why you drink in the first place and why you feel guilty for relapsing. If you don't fix why you drink in the first place you might always gonna risk a relapse . A lot of alcoholics seem to get on better with an antidepressant medication because alcohol has been depressing the system for so long it has trouble coping. Every single thing in this life is a choice. Even our own happiness is a choice if you really think about it.
To steal a quote from Joe Walsh... I only got drunk once, for twenty years. I was hard core. Totally Marinated from the time I came to, til the time I passed out. I don't know how I did it, but I managed to quit after 3 tries, on Feb. 9th, 1999. I'm coming up on nineteen years sober this coming February.I was and still am a full time working musician, I did not take a break while I was getting sober. I went into the Lions Den Six Nights a Week. I can't believe I'm here to talk about it. I have a GREAT support system. Now... All I have to do is look at my audience every night, and I can find someone doing something that makes me say, "Oh Yeah! That's ONE of the reasons I stopped drinking!" Anyway, Thanks for posting this video. Craig is awesome! Peace Mates, Kenny Vrocks
Fair play to Ferguson for being able to talk honestly about alcholism and what causes it. We need more of this kind of openness in our society. Not to judge people or their experiences, but to understand a bit better.
Keep it going because I know from a brother who is an alcoholic, who is luckily 4 years off the drink, it is a bollox of a thing when it gets out of control. I'm sorry for the language but that's just the way it is.
Don’t give up. Trust me, if I can do it you can too. 1+ liter of vodka a day for years. Google AA speaker recordings. Buy snacks. Drink lots of tea and water. You can DO THIS.
Look i do not know, i may never meet you in person, please know we have all been where you are . Find help however you can. Do not be afraid to cry in front of people or ask for help. It works if you work it.
It took two DUIs in a six month period last year to finally quit--and an ankle bracelet that detects even the slightest bit of alcohol. It'll be one year in a few weeks. Nearly every day I think of how I could easily be in prison for decades instead of home and sober. Don't remember it, but in court the arresting officer in the first DUI stated that luckily for him--and me--he glanced up and swerved before I hit him head on doing around fifty. I blew a .25. Six months later, having not learned my lesson, I pulled over off a highway and a cop drove up. I told him I was too trashed to drive. He'd seen me get out of the car. I blew a .39 first, then, at the station, a .40. Him and his buddies said I should be dead. The judge said it as well. Anyway, thank God it happened. After a few months of eating well, my head being clear, being active, etc., I felt better than I'd felt in a few decades. I finally realized I'm one of those people that can't live with the excuses anymore, no "weekend warrior" BS, no more "I'll cut down" or anything like that. I simply cannot drink. So hang in there, don't drink for a few weeks, eat well, you might have trouble sleeping, but stick with it. You'll thank yourself for it in the long run and you'll get to know the old you again, the one who wasn't shackled by a liquid that does you more harm than good. It's weird at first--being around people drinking--but the more you're sober in various situations the more confident you'll become. And those around you will be as blown away as you are, believe me. You'll do it, don't worry. It's a process, that's all, and the longer you go without the easier it will be. And soon enough you'll actually be able to laugh about it like our man here. I have more pissing myself and hiding the fact that I've pissed myself stories than anybody. On that note, good luck to you.
Went to my fourth AA meeting last week. Because I want to go. Haven't made any pledge, haven't signed any contract, but by talking to other people who've been where i've been: my atttudes have changed. I've been sober for about a week. Because I want to be sober. The 'drinker' in me that wants to drink, is outnumbered by the twenty people who go to these meetings who are not drinking.
I had ten months last year.. after battling for about two years of what seemed like a groundhog day of relapse, hospitals, detox, sober time, but then repeat. Now, I'm 12 days sober. I recently went through a terrible break-up in France, was left behind in an airport in Istanbul by my ex, and my Mom is dying of dementia. It's hard to cope when the only coping mechanism in my life has been alcohol for so many years. I'm also struggling to finish my doctorate in anthropology... when life starts to fall apart, it's easy to lose hope. This is the biggest struggle of my life. Craig's honesty gave me hope. Love you, my friend! Scottish roots on my side.. Knox, Worth, etc.. You won't read this, but I just want to thank you.
Honesty, Openess, and Willingness, that is the HOW of Alcoholics Anonymous. Good luck to those who are sick and suffering this Holiday season. Craig has spoken his truth in his walk for sobriety. Wish this man was still on TV. Or had a podcast. Merry Christmas to all.
You get to a point in happy sobriety that you absolutely love an AA meeting.. so going to one almost every day of the week is no chore.. Funny how a person feels.. I thought I would be bored And sad and my life would be boring but I experienced the exact opposite.. please please please anyone out there with a problem just open your mind and try it...
It's great to see celebrities like Craig be so open about his fallacies. Wish there were more who could speak up to those who hold them in high esteem, to show them that there is always hope for something as devastating as alcoholism and other addictions.
I was raised by an alcoholic. It destroyed my parents' marriage, his health, and left me with a childhood that I'd rather forget. My dad's biological dad was an alcoholic and ran out on the family, and my dad did his best to repeat the same behavior. Three kids, three wives, and he was barely around for any of us. My siblings and I don't have the issues with alcohol he did. As a safety catch, I was diagnosed with gout when I was 16, so I have another reason to minimize drinking. To this day, I despise drunkenness. I don't go to music festivals, or other large events with alcohol, and I have a short temper at bars with strangers.
It’s heartbreaking to think we almost lost one of the greatest TV personalities ever. I love how genuine his joy and humor are and we are lucky to have him
I showed this at an AA meeting and also to my drug councilor a few years back and they all thought it was very poignant and profound. Kind of wish Robin would have seen it once again before he went into his depths.
This monolog made me a fan for life of both Craig and Britney. And here we are 2021 the events he's talking about have come full circle with her. Keep putting one foot in front if the other. You can get through what you're going through.
This was quite brilliant. The audience’s laughter was quite annoying at times, nevertheless Craig’s monologue was brilliant. I’ll add this to my weekly playlist.
and compassionate too.. a lot of people were making fun of Brittney at the time & it all got pretty ugly. But this gentleman put a different take on the situation basically asking people to be kind, always.
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Came today to complete the circle. One full year sober. And this started it.
I was 29 when I found this and it helped me stop, he explained what others couldn't understand. I hope you've managed
Congratulations!!
I'm looking for It, its good to see others understand
Thank you, Carlos.
Congratulations, Carlos! Keep up the vigilance. I am celebrating my two weeks sober and I feel so much better.
I'm 10 years sober this helped me make it through 1 more day
God I miss Craig. This is a real monologue
When a man can be so vulnerable to open up like he did shows a strength of character that is admirable. I have always enjoyed watching his late night show. It is clear to me now, why I thought he was a good soul.
I am 32 years sober. For anyone out there let me tell you that the first week is hard and over the next 3 weeks it gets a tiny bit easier. Then there is two years of temptation but after that.... it's been a cakewalk. The best thing I ever could have done for myself and my family. Good luck.
Im a recovering alcoholic too and this one of my favorite monologues.
The “embarrassment” part gave me chills. I know severe alcoholism and it’s spot on. So many of my friends don’t know how close they were to being the last person to ever talk to me. Petty arguments would turn into slander about my problem and I remember thinking “I can’t win, I only cause pain and the pain I’ll probably cause in the future is more than the pain these people will feel when I kill myself”. It made perfect mathematical sense.
Cold Turkey almost put me in the hospital (wouldn’t have been the first time alcohol had put me in the ER) and it doesn’t matter how long I’ve been sober, it’s been a while and I know I’m good.
Just think next time you bring up someone’s drinking in the middle of an argument or assume drinking/drugs is causing 100% of their problems and joke distastefully about it. You magnify the problem in the abusers head and the sense of hopelessness is indescribable to anyone who hasn’t had a severe addiction. Especially when your closest friends and family are the ones to come at you the wrong way about your problem.
That last bit is true but the tragic part is having to walk on eggshells about it. That leaves walking away as the only logical route to go and "cold turkey" from a person is most damaging to that person. There just is no way around it, lest the problem claims two lives not just one.
So true. I'm 28 and have tried everything under the sun to get sober and so far the only thing that has worked for me is aa. There is hope! 🙂
I like the fact he can talk about this. It really helps to know other people have this problem. It makes me feel less on my own
This was validating. Almost 2 years sober. When I first started I was just a kid and didn't know shit from clay. Everyone I knew drank. It never occurred to me that it could be bad. But drugs and alcohol ruined my life. It's 20 years later and I'm still picking up the pieces from when I got introduced to them. Alcohol cost me relationships, jobs, dignity, and opportunities. It's all about recovery now, and it's not for the weak. It would be easier to NOT face my issues, but then I would never be sober. I'm glad I found this post.
I failed myself again, but RUclips "threw" this at me, and I feel better about my situaton because I can relate to many people commenting on this video/issue... Like Craig said, "certain type of people can't drink". To the people that recognize themselves like myself in this statememt, I wish you all the best. We can do it!
Brilliant. Big respect 🙏
Definitely definitely definitely my level!
a great piece
This is great. Very heartfelt-The unfortunate thing is if you’re born with the gene ones too many and 100 isn’t enough.
I can see he would be one hell of a good sponsor!
Finally I get now why people that are clean celebrate every year or so when they’re sober. Cuz every day they have a mindset to go back to what they were hooked on. It’s a challenge all the time. And even tho Craig is better now, he can’t ever consume alcohol. Cuz he would just end up like he was. I do wish that people recognized Actual things that are dangerous for you and quit selling it. You can be hooked to anything, but certain things like nicotine and alcohol Will get you hooked and shouldn’t be sold. It’s sad to say some countries talk about having loads of alcohol like it’s nothing. Alcohol and drugs take away lives. One cup at a time.
The jokes are for the sober. The story is for the drinkers.
Not when the sober are trapped in a house with the drinkers...
Tophef Tyr I was referring to this setting with the audience. But I agree with you as well.
@@topheftyr533 Nah, friend. No jokes in there.
Nah, the story's for everyone.
I'm not a drinker but I didn't laugh at all. Bless him💚
6:44 - 7:01 - "I don't have a DRINKING problem, I have a THINKING problem." That statement is absolute Gold. Hit me hard.
Yeap! Unfortunately (or not...) it is an issue with someone's mind, not necessarily the substance itself.
@@EduDixie that vital point has gotten very obscured since the mental health industry took over drug and alcohol treatment.
If you like this, google his talk in the AA meeting. Heartbreaking and inspiring.
@@EduDixie Obsession of the mind and allergy of the body.
@@VCT3333 Thank you recommending that cause I never would have found it! Man gives a great talk.
August 30, 1989. Still one day at a time.
T Hobbs Good Job. That’s so great. And God Bless you!!!
My dad quilt July 21, 1989. Still taking it day by day. God bless you.
6-7-89. This date is the most important of my life. Craig is eloquent and REAL. Happy to he in the same club with him & with you. Class of '89!! One day at a time.
Congrats on 30 years
Keep coming back
Lost a teaching career due to my alcoholism. Five months and four days sober now. Appreciate hearing stories like this.
Update since I just saw all the responses:
Appreciate all the support. Hit a year finally. January 18, 2023 is my sobriety date. One day at a time. Same sponsor I’ve had forever.
Hang in there! One day at a time! New playground, new playthings, new playmates! Best Wishes from Ohio, home state of Dr. Bob Smith.
KentA Mitchell thanks for that. 24 at a time
Like the Doobie Brothers sang.... minute by minute
@@johnkeerie9083 Stay strong. You are not alone.
Sending out much love and admiration for your strength
I remember watching this when I was going through an alcoholic bender. I thought it was impossible to put together some sober time. I'm now 5 years sober! Thanks Craig.
Ha, me too man. 2 and a half years :)
Congrats. How did you do it?
Congratulations, man! I hope all is still well.
👊😃 ❤️
Stephen Silva Congratulations to all those who stay sober. I know that some people use the mantra one day at a time, but if that doesn't seem possible, try " One hour at a time". Not an alcoholic but had a different type of addiction. Hang in there, talk to people, take up running, weights, bicycling, walking, anything that causes you to concentrate on something else, even if it's pain, exhaustion, repetition or attention to detail. If you relapse, try again. Make changes to your home, apartment, move if possible to a different area? Sobriety is worth it.
great post. I remember watching this when I was all over the place.
It helped me too Stephen.
I’m not an alcoholic, but I remember seeing this monologue the night it originally aired and thinking “This guy has class.” He should have received a standing ovation for this.
Agree 100%
He probably warned the audience prior that he was going to do this- and not to clap. I was looking for the applause too. So they had to be asked. And the applause lights didnt get turned on either. I was moved by this as well. I' m sitting in my own urine watching this. At least I THINK it's my own urine.....
You couldn't hear a dump truck driving through a nitroglycerin plant.
Absolutely! I miss Craig so much - his honesty and humility made his show the best ever!
Yup! That was a very "sober" monologue indeed (pun intended).
I have been sober for 28 years, and he is NOT breaking any tradition here! He never mentions A.A., he is sharing his experience, strength, and hope, without ever breaking his anonymity or anyone else's. He is a beautiful example a dynamic, sober, insightful man in society. He had the opportunity to help countless others and took it. BRAVO! We will never know how many seeds he planted.
Only thing AA ever did for me was make me wanna get drunk. Every meeting I went to was depressing and deprecating. I did make it 90 days once... Didn't attend a single meeting.
@@ilovebutterstuff you wanted to get drunk because you wanted to get drunk. You're not a victim. Did you get a sponsor, did you go through the steps, did you sponsor others? If you didn't answer yes, yes, and yes you were never IN AA you were just around it
@@ilovebutterstuff Please don't discourage others from getting help in AA. I've seen it work miracles in the lives of many alcoholics
@@seanwilliams_31 --- I don't think I was implying that I was any kind of a victim, but I will go ahead and assume that victimhood, and having to bend the knee to one's own inadequacies is somehow a mortal sin to you. Don't get me wrong, I hold personal accountability in the highest regard, but your little 'checklist'? Laughable man. Truly laughable.
@@ilovebutterstuff Well. Now you know why AA didn't "work" for you.
America and the world needs Craig Ferguson back on television.
He's NOT a flaming liberal so they wont allow him back unless his ratings are through the roof.
@@connormckenzie1762 good point
Feck yaaaaas!
You are so right!
@@connormckenzie1762 doesn't the Roseanne thing kind of mess up your ideology? Couldn't she have talked to her rabbi and then he could have called the Zionist cabal and they would have sorted it out yeah? Isn't that what you people believe?
Craig is not a "preachy" guy, so when he says something important, I listen. Because its not Bullshit.
Agreed 110%! No preaching, just honesty and humility from an AMAZING man!
i am 8 days sober...this helped.
+James Woe Are you still sober?
no. im practicing a more controlled approach to my drinking. But, one day, after working outside in the heat, i just had to have a few drinks. I made it 14 days before i caved.
ROFL, you try punching out God yet? Your a mild alcohlic. Do you feel a demonic urge when you have a drink? It's overwhelming feelling. It won't stop. Can you relate?
+James Woe Are you practicing controlled drinking? how old are you? I'm 27 btw,
Controlled drinking is like putting a shotgun in your mouth and then being suprised that you blew your head off.
I'll be 9 years sober May 7.
One day at a time folks.
One day at a time.
HELL YES! GO YOU DUDE! MAKE IT TO MANY MORE! 😎
One day at the time.
From Portugal, God bless
One at a time...
Sometimes it's just one minute at a time..
It's all good though...
congrats!!
This is the way recovered alcoholics talk. It's straight, it's true, and gives a lot to think about, Craig clearly has done the work.
Couldn't possibly agree more.
Any friend of bill is a friend of mine
So true. I drink alcohol but have many friends who are taking it one day at a time. You will never talk to more straight shooting(and funny) people on the Earth than recovered alcoholics.
I stopped in 1980 when i was 21. Craig is spot on
Joshua Carroll Exactly. Big difference between doing the work and meeting maintenance.
I remember listening to this and wondering if I could get sober and stay sober. Now, nine and a half years later, I can allow myself to laugh. God bless Craig. Keep coming back.
What'd u do
@@markonino12 I got my a** into AA, go to meetings, work the steps every day. It’s simple but effective, for me at least.
Surely one of the greatest moments of television history: a man's honest telling of his failings turns the mirror on the audience. Even as a non-alcoholic, there's much to learn here about humility and empathy. This segment will live long after this era has passed
I distinctly remember watching this. I Thank God I never had that problem with alcohol.
When he says "I can't do this anymore.. i'm going to kill myself.. I'll show them". I think anyone with an addiction has had those thoughts. His message is so uplifting; he shows you the dark side but also the hope and experience.
Yep… I’ll show them, I’ll hurt me!!!😂🤣‼️my God ! We ARE powerless and have unmanageable lives
I'm not exaggerating when I say I believe this is one of the best speeches I've ever heard in my life. No judgement, no bullshit like buy this and that, just compassion, love for others and wisdom gained from the perspective of a former alcoholic.
I saw this the night he gave this speech. It’s because of this, I decided to come clean and he became my favorite comedian of all time
Respect! I'm 68 and been sober for 34 years. Exactly half of my life. And this is definitely the good half!
Well done 🌷
“Certain people can’t drink, and I’m one of’em.”
Me too. I quit April 1st 2016- currently 27. Craig inspires me to stay sober.
❤️⚡️Wonderful man.
Me, too. I simply cannot drink responsibly. It's not possible....We are out there.
The Ancient Lantern April 1st...?
No; it's not some kinda joke...from some kinda month...
My friend quit smoking on Flag Day (years ago)... if he'd known it was Trump's birthday, I'm sure he'd be smoking to this day!
Oh great...all jokes.... the day you decide...is the day you decide!
The Ancient Lantern, right on. Good for you, and keep it up.
People like him sharing their stories help me every day. I cannot drink responsibly and live any semblance of a life. Unfortunately it took me 18 years and various legal issues to realize the problem was me and my thoughts/ feelings.
i am sitting at home right now trying to figure out how to stop drinking. I am so lost so afraid and so sick. I am just happy I can watch videos of people who have made it possible in there own lives. Craig thank you so much for your words. I know my time will come.
i know how u feel man. 3 DUI's later I'm 28 no job, parties over I'm an alcholic
Hang in there Adam, you are not Alone, far from it....try to speak to someone in recovery....A.A. really does work (if you work it), and you can meet some great people....Take care and YOU CAN get Sober, that's a Promise..
A.A. it works I agree... go to meetings ...meet people..get a sponsor ...and get to working on those steps...life changing for myself! AA is for people who want it ..not people who need it...so show up if youre willing
Hi Guys.. Thank you for the replies. I will be 3 months sober on the 12 of August. I feel so much better physically. Mentally thats going to take a little more work. Dealing with some depression and still wanting to isolate but I am going to keep working hard. I think I need to go to more AA meetings. Good for getting out and building relationships.
Eamonn Nolan Thank you
My dad died from his addiction. If you're reading this and are struggling, you can do it, for yourself and those who care about you. You're worth it.
I cried when he said he wanted to kill himself on Christmas morning. Thank God for his drinking friend for not letting him leave at that moment. We have to lose ourselves to find out who we truly are.
No, we dont. If you truly love and respect yourself, you dont have to go on a downward spiral to find out Who you really are. Its this "intensity and viscerality" worship we have that produces all The problems we face in Society today. Strive to be The most lightweighted and light hearted person you can with a decent sense or worth and you Will see how everything in your Life Will fall into place. You dont need to be anybody's hero, not even of yourself. Live intelligently, not intensily.
It's true what matthew is saying.
You really do have to die to your old self completely, in order to truly start anew.
If you have an old house built on a poor fountain, you can't just keep adding on additions and expect the original problem to be overshadowed.
You have to go back and tear apart the old in order to make way for the new.
"Don't put new wine in old wine skins"
@@fauberkaupfmann982 I think it's common knowledge that an alcoholic in active addiction doesn't love or respect themselves. I should know.
Lost my boy 2 years ago to alcohol induced cardiomegely. He was just 34 years old. God I miss my baby boy. Thank you Craig for your brutal honesty
God.
So sorry for your loss.
I'm sorry for your loss, alcoholism is a life of suffering. I think about suicide sometimes because sometimes I don't think I'll ever be able to stop. I'm sober right now and I'm back to trying again, but it's ruined my relationships and I've lost so many jobs because I would relapse and show up to work drunk. I hope I can get it down this time I start intensive outpatient treatment soon if I don't succeed this time I'm putting myself in rehab.
@@REN-dj5sg Hang in there buddy! One step at a time. I don't know you, I'm from Brazil, but I do hope you get better. I'll be rooting for you brother
I wonder if he knew how many people he was going to help when he went out and told this monologue. Thanks Craig you saved alot of us that needed to hear this
It’s a Blessing how many people he’s helped. How many people he’s reached. I’m pretty sure he had no idea of how strong his testimony was going to impact people. Thanks A lot.
Scotland, we'll give you Jimmy Kimmel if you lend us Craig Ferguson. Hell, we'll even throw Fallon in there for free.
NO
GIVE US BACK CRAIG 😡🥰🥺
Never 😂
Nah keep Craig, you need him more! We have lots of Craigs to help us out
Kimmel and Fallon SUCK especially Kimmil
After 1 year of being sober, tonight i was going to drink heavily, even though I didn't want to. I kept searching for reasons not to do it when I thought about this video. This finally worked, I cried, but it made me feel comfortable and strong enough to stay sober and not give in to destructive thoughts. Thank you, Craig, I hope others find the strength to move forward.
Strength with you
One day at a time. Good luck.
217 days of sobriety today. What he says is true.
I hope you are still well
Craig: she clearly needs help. Audience: HahAaHHahA
When Craig is silly, he's so silly. But, when he's serious, he makes so much sense and his advice is rock solid. I'm glad he chose to become an American.
He sounds Scottish lol
@@NB-sq7ui He is Scottish, born and raised. Thought he's spent much of the last 25-30 years or so in the U.S., and is now a U.S. citizen.
I read this some where else "alcohol gave me wings to fly but took the sky".. one day at a time
I like that...Ive got the sky back and I no longer have the need to fly
I feel like Craig is doing a lead on public TV.and I love it.
I really like that. I can really relate to that. Thanks.
"The only way I could deal with it (my addiction) is to find other people who have similar experiences and talk to them...it doesn't cost anything, it doesn't cost a thing." Love that quote! It's very true. Addiction recovery starts with finding the courage to talk about it with others.
Well said. I'm a recovered alcoholic, 2 and a half years sober.
Now....3.
Mark Foster happy b day
"This is a chronic condition you're going to have to manage" is the greatest line I've ever heard about addiction.
He has total class not joining the bandwagon beating up someone in public like everyone else does.
Good for you, Craig. You certainly understand. I've been sober since Feb. 28, 1999. It's one of the best things I ever did.
John Ryan Good for you! I've been sober since March 26th 2014. You are right. Giving it up is so much better.
Many more too you!
John Ryan great job!
Coming up on 20 years...good on ya!
Lame.
Congrats on 20 years.
I got drunk last night really drunk! I have been battling the fact that I cannot drink responsible. I have told myself a million times that I can control it. After I drink I have suicidal thoughts and depression, I feel lonely even though I’m married to an amazing woman and we have two wonderful children. The cycle is I drink>I get uncontrollably drunk> I wake up in fear depression and suicidal > I battle my demons for days and tell myself I’ll never drink again> That voice then starts to creep in as the days pass by and before I know it the idea of never drinking again has gone> then the next time I drink comes along (could be weeks) and I repeat it all again.
Today I’m going to the AA and hopefully I can break the cycle
it is a god thing to break the cycle. and i hope the best 4 you! ONE day at the time.
I'm going to my first AA meeting today. Thank you, every single one of these comments inspires me for how familiar they sound.
@@Tridentus I have 4 months and 13 days today
@@brittanynelson9114 your body (liver) is telling u something w the bloody nose. Liver can rejuvenate if u stop drinking unless its advanced cirrhosis. I know and Im healing eachday Im sober.
Worked for me, 24 years now. You don't HAVE to do anything in AA, just keep an open mind; take what you can use and leave the rest.
This s typical AA "talk" and thank God that it is. This man truly saved my life. For some reason this talk just hit me tight between the eyes. I lost everything because of my addiction. Now almost four years agosober and just as Craig says, I've slowly been getting bits of me back. It's been hell at times but nothing NOTHING like being drunk and hurting and alienating those who tried and failed to help me ( actually I probably failed them). Every AA meeting I go to I meet people who I can be more honest with than anyone. God bless this man.
You know what I like about this monologue? This entire talk embodies the 11th tradition and "attraction rather than promotion." Not once does he say he's in AA. Obviously, people got what he meant when he said look at the front of the phone book, and he probably knew they would... but I bet those people who laughed and aren't in recovery didn't think twice about it and soon forgot. The people who that line will stick with are the people who heard this story, wanted help, and began to feel hopeful that recovery could be possible.
For those that bash or are skeptical of AA this is exactly what happens at an open meeting. No preaching, no "cult stuff" ( we are not a cult!) just one man or women talking about what happened to them and how they stay sober. For some reason this video was the last straw that finally got me in AA and not around it. For those struggling all I can say is that for me I had to totally be a part of stuff. I needed to start helping anyone and ever so slowly things began to change. I literally found peace and spiritually in a coffee can. I was such a people pleaser that when I was asked to help set up I was terrified of showing up hungover or even not showing up! Slowly I started to do more stuff, and it became a way of life. It takes time, but please keep going, do what those "old farts" tell you to do and eventually life will change. Good luck!
Be
Tommy Petersen I think the main reason people bash AA is the whole accepting god thing. I think they feel religion should be seperate from a recovery program
dick van dyke yeah, I went through that too. Finally I came to the conclusion that dealing with the "God" thing was better than dealing with the "dead" thing or the "jail" thing or the "on the street" thing. I eventually found a spiritually and God that worked for me. I stopped trying to control and question stuff just for the sake of not wanting to be a part of this crazy "AA cult" thing. I did not go to AA because I saw the light. I went because I had nowhere else to go and no one wanted anything to do with me. Over time this program gave me my life back and I finally learned how to help others and that "helping" is as much a part of my recovery as anything else. For me, and I can only speak for me, AA ( or rather the people in it) cared more for me than I did and taught me finally how to apply AA experiences to the real world. ( if you can survive an AA business meeting you can handle anything! ) Good luck you, it's a great life.
***** yeah you're totally right but I figure if I can help someone because they know I'm part of it then fine. But you're not wrong, I should be a bit more discreet.
The thing is that they're downright atheist and not agnostic and there's a major difference of course and anything that smacks of "God" is "religion" to them and so they balk at the word, but then again too 12 step members balk at the word Jesus too because they confuse the one of the churches and the one I of learned as the result of the steps that it's nothing of the sort, because in my Experience with the steps "heaven" seems awfully synonymous with Nirvana, when I did my 4th step after being one of those people that finally reached a wall with "my way of doing things" it was like dying while I was still alive, which is why the spiritual masters say "Die before you die"because therein lies humility, acceptance, and surrender along with the rest of the stages of death. Amazing what you find out doing an honest and sincere inventory.
***** This very much relates to me. If you of an anti-bullshit (aka religion) nature, check out SMART recovery programs. Treatment for addicts from the 21st century. Actually, I recommend this to ANY addict because they realize that some addictions can be managed, instead of the blanket treatment of abstinence and willful ignorance from AA programs.
Three nationally renowned hepatologists each gave me two months to live,,,, now 13yrs of sobriety proved them all wrong. 13 and life to go.
give yourself a pat on the back,but always beware!!!!!
+Jackle61 A renowned hematologist told me that I would never be able to take another drink. I'm proving him wrong with one glass of whiskey at a time.
David Suspended You must be seeing the wrong doctor. A hematologist works with blood, a hepatologist works with the liver.
Jackle61 Battling the alcohol with liver problems myself. Bless you.
Can you explain some of your habit and story? How did you recover from liver disease?
This moment right here. This when I really started to like Craig as a person, not just an entertainer. When people ask me why I like him. This is the video I show them.
20 days. Still counting in days. This has helped me no end, maybe cos im Scottish as well.
Paul hello. How are you today?
Keep going mate I'm also Scottish from Fife. I'm 7 months old.
How is it going?
@@andresbarriga5305 May not be to me but I'm the comment above. I'm still sober. It sucks but my life's better because of it.
@@acloserlook6133 Good for you. Life is good if one let it be good.
His accent was so much stronger back then.
Edward Kenway I noticed that too
Thick!
Happy Presidents Day! I watched this video many times in my drinking career.
It was Craigs message that helped me turn to AA. 9 months and 1 week today.
That's awesome! Still going strong?
He did a great lead here, didn't he?
@@CaliforniaCarpenter7 4 years last month
@@pat3765 Hell yeah, man! Same here, congrats!
Very touching words, and good points. After 28 days, it's isn't over, it's a lifetime of struggles, but not nearly as many struggles that come with chronic alcoholism. Each day sober matters. I had a relapse that turned into a miserable bender, but I'm 3 weeks sober today, and will do whatever it takes to achieve long term sobriety. Good luck to Craig, and all the others who have this struggle. Keep on keepin' on :)
Daily reprieve
Good luck to you.
Roach Around I keep relapsing and always feel like shit. I'm tired of waking up going to my job feeling sick just getting thru the day to drink again. when I stop I feel good . still sad and lonely and bored but I tell myself I'm not gonna drink today . it's a day by day struggle. it's no joke . alcohol is the worst thing to enter my life. it's destroyed my relationships with loved ones.
Lunchbox1017 it's interesting how we look at relapse like it's a failure but it's actually pretty normal. I think it's important to address why you drink in the first place and why you feel guilty for relapsing. If you don't fix why you drink in the first place you might always gonna risk a relapse . A lot of alcoholics seem to get on better with an antidepressant medication because alcohol has been depressing the system for so long it has trouble coping. Every single thing in this life is a choice. Even our own happiness is a choice if you really think about it.
Lunchbox1017 Brother, reading your words...is like I wrote them myself.
3 years sober. AA helped
Hey buddy. 5 years sober now?
This is real. Gives me chills every time I listen to it. I am so happy to be sober!!
I had tears in my eyes listening to this for the first time. Fifteen years sober.
This isn’t comedy, this guy is just up here speaking FACTS
To steal a quote from Joe Walsh... I only got drunk once, for twenty years. I was hard core. Totally Marinated from the time I came to, til the time I passed out. I don't know how I did it, but I managed to quit after 3 tries, on Feb. 9th, 1999. I'm coming up on nineteen years sober this coming February.I was and still am a full time working musician, I did not take a break while I was getting sober. I went into the Lions Den Six Nights a Week. I can't believe I'm here to talk about it. I have a GREAT support system. Now... All I have to do is look at my audience every night, and I can find someone doing something that makes me say, "Oh Yeah! That's ONE of the reasons I stopped drinking!" Anyway, Thanks for posting this video. Craig is awesome!
Peace Mates,
Kenny Vrocks
Fair play to Ferguson for being able to talk honestly about alcholism and what causes it. We need more of this kind of openness in our society. Not to judge people or their experiences, but to understand a bit better.
Ferguson you are the fucking MAN
I’m an alcoholic. This definitely helped. Thank you.
Robert, how are you today, if I may ask? Love. Henry.
As of Dec 27 2020 i am 245 days sober.
Nobody on TV right now talks like this, ever. Imagine how many people were helped by this monologue. It's sad that he's not doing this anymore.
I quit drinking 6 months ago. I did it to save money and be kind to my brain and liver. mostly for saved money.
Keep it going because I know from a brother who is an alcoholic, who is luckily 4 years off the drink, it is a bollox of a thing when it gets out of control. I'm sorry for the language but that's just the way it is.
Making A Life Work
I quit nicotine and pain pills too. crazy huh.
Pathetic
Jeez dude how much you make
holdmybeer awesome amigo 👏🏻
As an alcoholic, 18months sober, this is one of the best videos I've seen. Explains alcoholism brilliantly. Thank you 🙏
i'm so glad overcame what you went through. stay strong and much love
As a still struggling alcoholic this gives me the chills. So true. Winters are so hard for me.
You'll get there, hold on!
Don’t give up. Trust me, if I can do it you can too. 1+ liter of vodka a day for years. Google AA speaker recordings. Buy snacks. Drink lots of tea and water. You can DO THIS.
Hang in there. There is never a future in drinking. Nothing good comes out of it. Seasons pass, tough times don’t last only tough people. ✌️
Look i do not know, i may never meet you in person, please know we have all been where you are . Find help however you can. Do not be afraid to cry in front of people or ask for help. It works if you work it.
It took two DUIs in a six month period last year to finally quit--and an ankle bracelet that detects even the slightest bit of alcohol. It'll be one year in a few weeks. Nearly every day I think of how I could easily be in prison for decades instead of home and sober. Don't remember it, but in court the arresting officer in the first DUI stated that luckily for him--and me--he glanced up and swerved before I hit him head on doing around fifty. I blew a .25. Six months later, having not learned my lesson, I pulled over off a highway and a cop drove up. I told him I was too trashed to drive. He'd seen me get out of the car. I blew a .39 first, then, at the station, a .40. Him and his buddies said I should be dead. The judge said it as well. Anyway, thank God it happened. After a few months of eating well, my head being clear, being active, etc., I felt better than I'd felt in a few decades. I finally realized I'm one of those people that can't live with the excuses anymore, no "weekend warrior" BS, no more "I'll cut down" or anything like that. I simply cannot drink. So hang in there, don't drink for a few weeks, eat well, you might have trouble sleeping, but stick with it. You'll thank yourself for it in the long run and you'll get to know the old you again, the one who wasn't shackled by a liquid that does you more harm than good. It's weird at first--being around people drinking--but the more you're sober in various situations the more confident you'll become. And those around you will be as blown away as you are, believe me. You'll do it, don't worry. It's a process, that's all, and the longer you go without the easier it will be. And soon enough you'll actually be able to laugh about it like our man here. I have more pissing myself and hiding the fact that I've pissed myself stories than anybody. On that note, good luck to you.
Great public service message from the heart, mind and soul
AA will save your ass. and the rest of you as well. it ain't easy and you have to have help. My opinion only
Went to my fourth AA meeting last week. Because I want to go. Haven't made any pledge, haven't signed any contract, but by talking to other people who've been where i've been: my atttudes have changed. I've been sober for about a week. Because I want to be sober. The 'drinker' in me that wants to drink, is outnumbered by the twenty people who go to these meetings who are not drinking.
Love this guy, love his story............... one day at a time, and only one day at a time......ten years have gone by. I made it through another day
I had ten months last year.. after battling for about two years of what seemed like a groundhog day of relapse, hospitals, detox, sober time, but then repeat. Now, I'm 12 days sober. I recently went through a terrible break-up in France, was left behind in an airport in Istanbul by my ex, and my Mom is dying of dementia. It's hard to cope when the only coping mechanism in my life has been alcohol for so many years. I'm also struggling to finish my doctorate in anthropology... when life starts to fall apart, it's easy to lose hope. This is the biggest struggle of my life. Craig's honesty gave me hope. Love you, my friend! Scottish roots on my side.. Knox, Worth, etc.. You won't read this, but I just want to thank you.
I read it, and thank you for the words, helps tremendously. So sick of Alcohol running my life instead of Me.
Honesty, Openess, and Willingness, that is the HOW of Alcoholics Anonymous. Good luck to those who are sick and suffering this Holiday season. Craig has spoken his truth in his walk for sobriety. Wish this man was still on TV. Or had a podcast. Merry Christmas to all.
Nicely done, Craig. You're a good man.
Craig is brilliant and so comfortably honest.
God damn, I love Craig Ferguson
AA - one of my oldest friends goes in to a meeting every single morning at six a.m. before work. Every. Day.
You get to a point in happy sobriety that you absolutely love an AA meeting.. so going to one almost every day of the week is no chore..
Funny how a person feels.. I thought I would be bored
And sad and my life would be boring but I experienced the exact opposite.. please please please anyone out there with a problem just open your mind and try it...
In my last couple of years of drinking I woke up in my own urine a time or three. 24 years sober now.
You and Craig have been sober the exact same amount of time!!
Steve Sheldon it could have been someone else’s urine.
I'm slowly turning into a teenage alcoholic, but maybe this video can help me get on the right track
don't wait 20 plus yrs from now and quit do it now for your own sake for your health etc..... and you'll never regret it, and that's a promise.
How are you doing now if you don't mind me asking?
You teenager... Perfect time to be smached every week end
@@chrisredig1381 Being smashed every weekend isn't alcoholism
It's great to see celebrities like Craig be so open about his fallacies. Wish there were more who could speak up to those who hold them in high esteem, to show them that there is always hope for something as devastating as alcoholism and other addictions.
I was raised by an alcoholic. It destroyed my parents' marriage, his health, and left me with a childhood that I'd rather forget. My dad's biological dad was an alcoholic and ran out on the family, and my dad did his best to repeat the same behavior. Three kids, three wives, and he was barely around for any of us. My siblings and I don't have the issues with alcohol he did. As a safety catch, I was diagnosed with gout when I was 16, so I have another reason to minimize drinking. To this day, I despise drunkenness. I don't go to music festivals, or other large events with alcohol, and I have a short temper at bars with strangers.
It’s heartbreaking to think we almost lost one of the greatest TV personalities ever. I love how genuine his joy and humor are and we are lucky to have him
"I'm sorry to annoy the censors..."
*years later*
*TOOTHSIE FRUITSIE*
Anyway, motivational story, Thanks Craig.
I hope you still are
I loved this man. I wish he hadn't retired from the show. He's quite literally the greatest talkshow host I've ever seen.
“They’re very near the front of the telephone book.” Deep
Could you explain? I didn't get that
@@weary_traveller111Craig is referring to an organization called "Alcoholics Anonymous", commonly known as "AA".
7 months 15 days sober!
I will not drink with you today 💜
1111 days sober today. This video has given me the strength to continue on many occasions. Thanks, Craig.
I showed this at an AA meeting and also to my drug councilor a few years back and they all thought it was very poignant and profound. Kind of wish Robin would have seen it once again before he went into his depths.
+falseFlag AA is a cult.
Michael 111 He's right, I can't deny it helps some people but it's definitely a cult program.
Robin had Lewes Dementia.
@@thegreatbriton1203 no on new when he left that comment though
@@thegreatbriton1203 Lewy-Body dementia
I have been sober for almost three years. This video was a important first push. Thanks Craig.
This monolog made me a fan for life of both Craig and Britney. And here we are 2021 the events he's talking about have come full circle with her. Keep putting one foot in front if the other. You can get through what you're going through.
This was quite brilliant. The audience’s laughter was quite annoying at times, nevertheless Craig’s monologue was brilliant. I’ll add this to my weekly playlist.
I want to get sober, today is my day, no more alcohol for me 5/18/22 - KRW
How are you!
@@sayedalazam4228 still on the wagon bb lol. Being responsible tho. Working hard. Having a few drinks each night, nothing crazy 💪🏻❤️🤙
Greatest talkshow host ever.
Greatest "comedic" talkshow host, perhaps. Take a look at some of Dick Cavett’s shows and see what you think. Cheers.
1 is too many & 10 is never enough .
Yes
I NEVER had one drink.... Never.
Man, that hits home.
The balls on this man. I am an alcoholic too he gives me hope how strong and brave this monologue is
and compassionate too.. a lot of people were making fun of Brittney at the time & it all got pretty ugly. But this gentleman put a different take on the situation basically asking people to be kind, always.
I love Craig Ferguson. I do miss his show.