I got Adhd and Asd. my mom acknowledges it but doesn't agree with it. She will say, "oh this must be your autism side." "ugh sorry it's ur adhd" "oh now sound bothers you know cause ur dr said you may have asd." I don't really feel validated by my mom with these two that I have. I mean I think different;y and process differently. When I do chores she has a specific way she wants them and most of the time I cant make that need for her. My mom is a loud person and most of the time when she get mad at something she gets even louder and My brain shuts down cause its really loud for me and I feel like its just adding fuel to the fire. im sad cause she doesn't want to learn about these things. I know my mom been through trauma and I think tbri will really help but she's just not opened to it.
Sensory processing issues aren't "cured," but learning what triggers them and coping strategies help tremendously. When a child finally feels "safe" in an environment (rather than always on edge out of fear of sensory "assaults"), they become more open to new experiences and new ways of relating to the people around them. One "aha" moment for us came when an occupational therapist explained that our child wasn't able to learn about math because her brain was too busy trying to keep her from falling out of her chair (one of her sensory issues is balance). Once she had a place to sit where she wasn't constantly falling over, her brain was able to comprehend higher matters. It opened up a whole new world.
@@happymusicmama Absolutely! It's the hierarchy of needs. Think of it this way, say you are out camping in the woods and you see a bear hiding behind a tree but no one else can see it from where they are standing. Then someone else tries to teach you how to put up the tent but all you can concentrate on is that bear! TBRI and Empowered to Connect is a philosophy that stops trying to teach the child how to build the tent and asks them why they can't concentrate or helps them figure it out and then helps them deal with the bear so that they can actually learn how to set up the tent. The bear in this case being their fear and trauma.
I got Adhd and Asd.
my mom acknowledges it but doesn't agree with it.
She will say, "oh this must be your autism side." "ugh sorry it's ur adhd" "oh now sound bothers you know cause ur dr said you may have asd."
I don't really feel validated by my mom with these two that I have. I mean I think different;y and process differently. When I do chores she has a specific way she wants them and most of the time I cant make that need for her.
My mom is a loud person and most of the time when she get mad at something she gets even louder and My brain shuts down cause its really loud for me and I feel like its just adding fuel to the fire.
im sad cause she doesn't want to learn about these things.
I know my mom been through trauma and I think tbri will really help but she's just not opened to it.
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So at the end of this video it makes me think the claim is that this little girls sensory processing is cured. Is that possible?
Sensory processing issues aren't "cured," but learning what triggers them and coping strategies help tremendously. When a child finally feels "safe" in an environment (rather than always on edge out of fear of sensory "assaults"), they become more open to new experiences and new ways of relating to the people around them. One "aha" moment for us came when an occupational therapist explained that our child wasn't able to learn about math because her brain was too busy trying to keep her from falling out of her chair (one of her sensory issues is balance). Once she had a place to sit where she wasn't constantly falling over, her brain was able to comprehend higher matters. It opened up a whole new world.
@@happymusicmama Absolutely! It's the hierarchy of needs. Think of it this way, say you are out camping in the woods and you see a bear hiding behind a tree but no one else can see it from where they are standing. Then someone else tries to teach you how to put up the tent but all you can concentrate on is that bear! TBRI and Empowered to Connect is a philosophy that stops trying to teach the child how to build the tent and asks them why they can't concentrate or helps them figure it out and then helps them deal with the bear so that they can actually learn how to set up the tent. The bear in this case being their fear and trauma.