How I wish the adoption process could be faster for these babies…and their new families. I feel it might be less traumatic on the babies if they were younger.
I absolutely agree & have wondered why they can’t be adopted earlier. Around 18 months or so, they are more easily traumatized. Does anyone have any idea why this earlier adoption process is not done?
I love watching these adoption videos and thank God that there are people like the Cary family that find a place in their heart to bring a little life into their world and love her and take care of her. I wish I had been brave like that when I was younger and was told I could not have children. At that time people were adopting children and the birth mother or her family would change their mind and take the child away and I just couldn't fathom that happening so I didn't adopt. I should have been brave. I wish I had.
You are a great mom. I really love this video. I don't agree with some of these comments about the nannies not hanging out. They should hang out. It's an easier transition for all involved. Taking the baby back to the hotel for the night then going back to see the nanny the next day, and repeating that for a few days, shortening each trip is less traumatic. I've seen videos where the new mom just snatches the kid and leaves. Not good. Although the child will not remember the day, but that kind of anxiety will remain throughout his or her life.
That has to be such a tough call to make. In most of the videos I have seen, the handover is relatively quick, and that can be hard. I also see some families go back to the orphanage to visit and I wonder how the child processes that... perhaps it is a very individual thing.
Lynne Marie - how hard your comment sounds about diapers and weaning. I’m sure you didn’t mean to sound so severe bearing in mind that theses little ones have all come from orphanages where yes ,the careers do a wonderful job catering for the children’s basic needs and caring for them but they haven’t the time or resources to deal with each individual child to make sure they are all toilet trained and weaned by a specific age. In a loving ,caring family this is a natural part of raising your child and the parents have the time and the patience that is needed for this. Also one has to remember the trauma these little children go through when they are taken away from the only careers they have ever known and put into the arms of total strangers who don’t even speak their language and who do things in a completely different way to what they have been used to. They must be very scared for a while until they realise that their lives have undoubtedly changed for the better.I wouldn’t be worrying about diapers and feeding until they were happy and settled in their new homes- the child’s comfort and happiness has to take priority here.
She says the same thing all the time either comments about them having bottles or not yet potty trained. I don’t know why but as she asks the same questionsall the time she has a problem with these issues
Well said - especially about the time & resources of their carers. Their carers do a fantastic job for probably a pittance - doing a job where their hearts are broken on a regular basis isn't something many people would do and they deserve a lot more credit than they actually get !
I volunteered in Guizhou for a while, I dk why but just feel so connected to your story, so glad you came and have a new family member there, god bless
Why don't the procedures go faster? These babies should be adopted by the age of up to five or six months.....everything could be much easier, if so...
That was one frightened kid..I thought she resembled the carer holding her?. I'm not a fan if music especially when there is interaction ((crying and music sore on the ears lol )) cute baby.x
Lo que me e dado cuenta es que cuando van a la acdocion lo primero que la mayoría son niños ya mayorcitos que se dan cuenta y estrañan te ni an que adoctarlos más pequeños. Luego que las chinas y chinos los llevan a quién van a adoctarlos y están encima de los niños parece que no los quieren dejarlos a sus nuevas familias y están encima los niños que no conocen que solo las conocen a ellas y no quieren hirse con los nuevos normal están encima y parecen que lo hacen a posta 🤔🤔👶👶😭😭🤗🤗
It doesn’t matter the age. The looks, the smells of their new parents plus their energy. The babies see and feel those, too. All so different. I’ve adopted 11 of different ages from seven weeks to 17 years old. It’s just traumatic but so worth it!
Thank you for acknowledging the trauma that comes with adoption. It isn’t a personal failure on the side of either first or adoptive parents.. it’s part of the journey. Knowing it, acknowledging it, and not judging it can help everybody get through it I think.
2nd time to watch your video. Love your family. God bless you all . I also adopted My twins . They’re now in their 30’s , but still they call me mommy not mom
the nanny hanging out is the worst thing...baby might think she is going back with her, I think once the baby is handed over to the parent. the nanny should just split.
Pero estos niños los dan muy mayorcitos para adoctar y cuando los dan con razón no quieren irse por qué ya están acostumbrados a ellos y estrañan normal pero los dan muy mallores y lo que veo es que cuando van a por ellos no los dejan las maestras así de fácil parece como si no quisieran darlos a los padres adoptivos 😚😙🤗🤗😍😘
Andrea Cary what a beautiful child. You must bee very proud and loving parents.I just love seeing the kind people adopt a beautiful child soo nice.Thanks for the nice video all be blessed with love care and grace.
One of the best adoption videos I've seen. She is so precious, so beautiful! It looks like she adjusted really well to her forever family after her initial fears! The majority of the time it is difficult intially for these sweet little ones to be removed from the only life they ever knew, and placed into the arms of strangers. (It is so heartbreaking to see them crying when they meet their forever family...they are so scared initially.) I wish Chloe & her forever family all the best! God Bless! ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful and sweet girl. I loved her. Do you think you can share through what agency for adoption did you use? I would love to adopt a girl like yours. Thank you. God bless your family.
If you go to the blog No Hands But Ours, you'll find out all things related to Chinese special needs adoption. (You can read that they run from very minimal medical needs to severe ones.) They list everything from agencies to medical resources, etc. Best of luck and all blessings your way! 🙋🐼🙏
I do not understand why that nanny always stays with it, it has to go away, that is better for the child, the mommy can do it without her and the child will get used to it more quickly.love girl and also mommy 😘
As a guide, she also can act as interpreter between them. I don't know what school of logic taught you that it's better for the nanny to just drop the child and leave. They (not "it") are the only family those little ones know and ripping them away is greatly traumatic for the children. Letting go gently is kinder, and more loving, and even at that these children go through grieving processes that are heartbreaking. Most adopting parents would tell you that it's a long emotional road until the child has recovered from the trauma of their past.
Your video is riveting. You really caught all of the maelstrom of emotions. Your daughter is precious...when you were feeding her the soup and she showed you her hand, it almost felt like the beginning of trust. What an amazing journey for you all!!!
They almost always cry when handed over to their forever family. They are too young too understand, plus it is traumatic, leaving the only home & life they've ever known.
You must not have kids to ask a busy parent to post videos when raising children is enough work without worrying about a RUclips audience. (Parents who put their kids on RUclips every day are...ahem.)
Che meraviglia vedere lo sguardo di questi bambini che cambia... E diventano felici... ❤ Per me questo è stato sempre un sogno che non si è mai avverato. E guardare i video di adozioni mi fa stare bene😊
She is absolutely one of the sweetest little girls I’ve seen and her little ❤ is beautiful. I cried. Do you ever see her nanny from china? She loved her.
Очень серьезная малышка. Родителям долго придётся завоёвывать её внимание. В этом возрасте дети долго привыкают к другой обстановке. Дай бог всем здоровья и счастья.🙏🙏🙏👶👶👶💓💓💓💋💋💋
Would you guys adopt international again please please please please Chloe need a little sister to bound and play with and do girls things together please please you guys should adopt from China again or India
Thanks for Adoption...!! Why 90% People Adopt Baby From China. ?? Even China Government is Capable to donate to orphan child. Many Other countries like Phillipines, Vietnam, Indian have orphan childs, they need to be adopted, Because their countries can't afford to donate to orphan child, whatever...!! Child is child such like god everywhere.
@@chaotiongsai What a hideous and beyond racist thing to say. What's in your genes isn't curable, so please please never reproduce: What you would teach a child is toxic and patently untrue. PS You make despicable comments on so many videos. Can't your caretakers up your meds?
I think the new parents should hold off giving these little ones lollipops, it could be frightening to have a lollipop pushed at you, the little girl is sweet as all the gotcha children are.
What a beautiful family and darling little girl... Also, on one of the China adoption videos they said they bonded with their daughter over milk... Isn’t that incredible...
Of all the adoption videos I've seen on tube, every single orphan's initial reaction when meeting their adoptive parents is the same: distant, cold, fear, confusion and lack of responses, guarded, or crying. It's heartbroken to see their little faces. I raised 2 boys and their every cry was attended. They smiled and were excited every time when they saw me. I am so happy for these deserted kids to have a permanent home that they will be loved and cherished.
These children don't ask for this. Why are they treated this way. Taken from their country and culture far away to another country because the biological parents have these children and give them up and never know what happens
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How I wish the adoption process could be faster for these babies…and their new families. I feel it might be less traumatic on the babies if they were younger.
I absolutely agree & have wondered why they can’t be adopted earlier. Around 18 months or so, they are more easily traumatized. Does anyone have any idea why this earlier adoption process is not done?
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Beautiful baby, many thanks for giving this child a loving family. Respect!
If the lady would have just walked away it would have been so much better for the little one
I love watching these adoption videos and thank God that there are people like the Cary family that find a place in their heart to bring a little life into their world and love her and take care of her. I wish I had been brave like that when I was younger and was told I could not have children. At that time people were adopting children and the birth mother or her family would change their mind and take the child away and I just couldn't fathom that happening so I didn't adopt. I should have been brave. I wish I had.
Tears......So touching....I totally lost it when the little one offered food to her new mommy.
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You are a great mom. I really love this video. I don't agree with some of these comments about the nannies not hanging out. They should hang out. It's an easier transition for all involved. Taking the baby back to the hotel for the night then going back to see the nanny the next day, and repeating that for a few days, shortening each trip is less traumatic. I've seen videos where the new mom just snatches the kid and leaves. Not good. Although the child will not remember the day, but that kind of anxiety will remain throughout his or her life.
That has to be such a tough call to make. In most of the videos I have seen, the handover is relatively quick, and that can be hard. I also see some families go back to the orphanage to visit and I wonder how the child processes that... perhaps it is a very individual thing.
May the Lord Jesus bless this beautiful family & May that little girl find security, love, & a sense of being wanted & so loved as she clearly is.
Una vez que la cuidadora entregan al ninio, deben retirarse, apenas dejen de llorar, si las siguen viendo, vuelven al llanto, y eso es injusto
respect to the foster mums and dads for loving these children and giving them the confidence to love others.
Lynne Marie - how hard your comment sounds about diapers and weaning. I’m sure you didn’t mean to sound so severe bearing in mind that theses little ones have all come from orphanages where yes ,the careers do a wonderful job catering for the children’s basic needs and caring for them but they haven’t the time or resources to deal with each individual child to make sure they are all toilet trained and weaned by a specific age. In a loving ,caring family this is a natural part of raising your child and the parents have the time and the patience that is needed for this. Also one has to remember the trauma these little children go through when they are taken away from the only careers they have ever known and put into the arms of total strangers who don’t even speak their language and who do things in a completely different way to what they have been used to. They must be very scared for a while until they realise that their lives have undoubtedly changed for the better.I wouldn’t be worrying about diapers and feeding until they were happy and settled in their new homes- the child’s comfort and happiness has to take priority here.
very kindly said. And you were so insightful
She says the same thing all the time either comments about them having bottles or not yet potty trained. I don’t know why but as she asks the same questionsall the time she has a problem with these issues
EXACTLY
@@barbarawhitley5094 probably, i hope that wonderful baby is with a good family, and doenst turn to be like that lady i got so annoyed
Well said - especially about the time & resources of their carers. Their carers do a fantastic job for probably a pittance - doing a job where their hearts are broken on a regular basis isn't something many people would do and they deserve a lot more credit than they actually get !
I volunteered in Guizhou for a while, I dk why but just feel so connected to your story, so glad you came and have a new family member there, god bless
Adorable little lady, what a wonderful ending for the whole family❣️
Why don't the procedures go faster? These babies should be adopted by the age of up to five or six months.....everything could be much easier, if so...
Were is Gabby now?so cute chinese girl...
Oh my goodness what a brave beautiful girl despite our fear & heartache we still offer food to our new mommy
Wonderful video friend 💖✌️Lots of love.
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What a sweet baby !! ❤
That was one frightened kid..I thought she resembled the carer holding her?.
I'm not a fan if music especially when there is interaction ((crying and music sore on the ears lol )) cute baby.x
These aren't for our entertainment.
Especially it's always the same songs in these kinds of videos. Seriously. Maybe the agency produces these for the families?
Love your family! Great people!
Beautiful girl! Beautiful family! 🙂🙂
Oh those stacking cups are magical! Sending love and hugs from the UK 🇬🇧💝💜💖💛❤🧡💚💙
Lo que me e dado cuenta es que cuando van a la acdocion lo primero que la mayoría son niños ya mayorcitos que se dan cuenta y estrañan te ni an que adoctarlos más pequeños. Luego que las chinas y chinos los llevan a quién van a adoctarlos y están encima de los niños parece que no los quieren dejarlos a sus nuevas familias y están encima los niños que no conocen que solo las conocen a ellas y no quieren hirse con los nuevos normal están encima y parecen que lo hacen a posta 🤔🤔👶👶😭😭🤗🤗
It doesn’t matter the age. The looks, the smells of their new parents plus their energy. The babies see and feel those, too. All so different. I’ve adopted 11 of different ages from seven weeks to 17 years old. It’s just traumatic but so worth it!
Thank you for acknowledging the trauma that comes with adoption.
It isn’t a personal failure on the side of either first or adoptive parents.. it’s part of the journey.
Knowing it, acknowledging it, and not judging it can help everybody get through it I think.
praying she is happy and healthy. She certainly is beautiful and kind and what a darling smile. TY for giving her the opportunity to experience family
Sad and Happy in the same time 😭😭😭😭😭
GOD BLESS ALL
God bless you and your family.
2nd time to watch your video. Love your family. God bless you all . I also adopted My twins . They’re now in their 30’s , but still they call me mommy not mom
That is awesome! Thank you for watching!
I love your precious family! Thank you for making my day!!!!!!!
the nanny hanging out is the worst thing...baby might think she is going back with her, I think once the baby is handed over to the parent. the nanny should just split.
I agree. They hang around too long
Pero estos niños los dan muy mayorcitos para adoctar y cuando los dan con razón no quieren irse por qué ya están acostumbrados a ellos y estrañan normal pero los dan muy mallores y lo que veo es que cuando van a por ellos no los dejan las maestras así de fácil parece como si no quisieran darlos a los padres adoptivos 😚😙🤗🤗😍😘
Brasil Londrina💞 USA💞China💞 l love💖 Thank you 😍 kiss 😘👶💋
Andrea Cary what a beautiful child. You must bee very proud and loving parents.I just love seeing the kind people adopt a beautiful child soo nice.Thanks for the nice video all be blessed with love care and grace.
Thank you! God bless you!
One of the best adoption videos I've seen. She is so precious, so beautiful! It looks like she adjusted really well to her forever family after her initial fears! The majority of the time it is difficult intially for these sweet little ones to be removed from the only life they ever knew, and placed into the arms of strangers. (It is so heartbreaking to see them crying when they meet their forever family...they are so scared initially.) I wish Chloe & her forever family all the best! God Bless! ❤️❤️❤️
Bendiciones!! Ver si carita sonriente es un hermoso regalo para el alma!!!
Asi es q bueno q estas familias pueden hacerlo Dios las bendiga
cant stop my tears when i saw yuanyuan cry. she knew she was gonna say goodbye to her foster mom
Tantos matrimonios que tratan de tener hijos y por Medio de estos paises que se Les pueda dar esta oportunidad es una bendicion para ellos
Beautiful and sweet girl. I loved her. Do you think you can share through what agency for adoption did you use? I would love to adopt a girl like yours. Thank you. God bless your family.
If you go to the blog No Hands But Ours, you'll find out all things related to Chinese special needs adoption. (You can read that they run from very minimal medical needs to severe ones.) They list everything from agencies to medical resources, etc. Best of luck and all blessings your way! 🙋🐼🙏
She is so sweet!
Beautiful
I cried as I watched this little innocent child handed over to her new parents. I hope she adjusted rapidly.
Son muy mayorcitos para adoctar y se dan cuenta y sienten y sufren y estrañan las caras y costumbres👼 pobre angelitos💕😳
Chloe has a ressemlance wth Bruce Lee when he was a baby she wlll be a beautiful woman later on !
I do not understand why that nanny always stays with it, it has to go away, that is better for the child, the mommy can do it without her and the child will get used to it more quickly.love girl and also mommy 😘
that was a guide - not the nanny I think
As a guide, she also can act as interpreter between them. I don't know what school of logic taught you that it's better for the nanny to just drop the child and leave. They (not "it") are the only family those little ones know and ripping them away is greatly traumatic for the children. Letting go gently is kinder, and more loving, and even at that these children go through grieving processes that are heartbreaking. Most adopting parents would tell you that it's a long emotional road until the child has recovered from the trauma of their past.
@@hilaryc3203 well said Hilary.
Sending all my love to that little cutiepie
Your video is riveting. You really caught all of the maelstrom of emotions. Your daughter is precious...when you were feeding her the soup and she showed you her hand, it almost felt like the beginning of trust. What an amazing journey for you all!!!
Love the T-shirt with "loved by my mom". Yuanyuan is soooo adorable! Respect
多可爱的孩子！她的父母看到这视频了吗？
每次观看这类视频我都感动落泪。
这对好心的夫妻上天保佑你们！
祝小女孩在异国他乡健康成长，幸福快乐！
Regarding the lollipops they have no idea what to do with it should have 2 first parent puts one in their mouth THEN HANDS 1 TO BABY !! 😊
Omg, so cute! God bless you!
Regarding the lolipops , It worries me when they shove them at baby and then walking all over with them in babies mouth coulf choke on them !!!😢
She is beautiful. I love her cautious poker face. :)
She's beautiful and full of emotional energy. God bless you and your family
I feel so sad for the child it ia so traumatic for someone so young.
They almost always cry when handed over to their forever family. They are too young too understand, plus it is traumatic, leaving the only home & life they've ever known.
You know what's more traumatic? Being in an orphanage until they are 14 and age out of the adoption program and are on the streets of China
So sweet hope it worked out for you all
Hermosa muñeca
Adesso hai una mamma e un papa✌😥😥🙎♀️
Beautiful baby😍
Can you please please please do daily vlogs and mommy tags please I love you guys your kids are so cute
You must not have kids to ask a busy parent to post videos when raising children is enough work without worrying about a RUclips audience. (Parents who put their kids on RUclips every day are...ahem.)
I am from where Chloe was born. It is great to see that she started a wonderful new life in States. Maybe see you in Xingyi one day.
❤️Chloe
LOVELY story!! God bless each of you!!
Wish there was no music.
I had to shut down. Too much music. I couldn’t handle it.
Good thing it wasn't made for you buddy.
What are wonderful people
Hi coach cary! it’s brenna
Hi Brenna!!!
I saw a guy wearing a TShirt that said. AVIANO, ITALY.....my home town...how beautiful in a beautiful story.
19.15 wkwkwkwk 🤣
10:00 i think this is the best part.
Che meraviglia vedere lo sguardo di questi bambini che cambia... E diventano felici... ❤
Per me questo è stato sempre un sogno che non si è mai avverato. E guardare i video di adozioni mi fa stare bene😊
She is absolutely one of the sweetest little girls I’ve seen and her little ❤ is beautiful. I cried. Do you ever see her nanny from china? She loved her.
19:15 wkwkwkwk 🤣
Superbe mini boy !!!!
The person in brown coat looked too menacing😣
I don't think so !
thank you
Очень серьезная малышка. Родителям долго придётся завоёвывать её внимание. В этом возрасте дети долго привыкают к другой обстановке. Дай бог всем здоровья и счастья.🙏🙏🙏👶👶👶💓💓💓💋💋💋
Dios los vendiga
0:12 thats deep
Pobrecitos lo que sufren para el cambio aunque les espere una vida en familia,se me rompe el corazón,deseo que sean felices los agelitos
Would you guys adopt international again please please please please Chloe need a little sister to bound and play with and do girls things together please please you guys should adopt from China again or India
@ce collie I could hug you. 😂🙋
❤️❤️❤️🌟🌟🌷🌷💐💐💐💐
Ciao che bello bambino carino anche la famiglia che o visto il vidio che molto bello ciao tutti tre
Let the parents talk, cut out the music!
These are not for our entertainment. They are for the family. Complain about something you buy tickets for.
Can please guys please do daily vlogs and mommy tags please I want to see Chloe grow up please
Alot of children adopted China.
Thanks for Adoption...!! Why 90% People Adopt Baby From China. ?? Even China Government is Capable to donate to orphan child.
Many Other countries like Phillipines, Vietnam, Indian have orphan childs, they need to be adopted,
Because their countries can't afford to donate to orphan child, whatever...!! Child is child such like god everywhere.
Unfortunately those counties often have rules that make adopting very hard.
@@chaotiongsai What a hideous and beyond racist thing to say. What's in your genes isn't curable, so please please never reproduce: What you would teach a child is toxic and patently untrue.
PS You make despicable comments on so many videos. Can't your caretakers up your meds?
БОЖЕ ТОЛКОВА МНОГО ДЕЦА ИЗОСТАВЕНИ А ВСЪШНОСТ ИМА СЕМЕЙСТВА КОИТО ТОЛСОВА ТРУДНО МОГАТ ДА ОСИНОВЯВАТ ДЕЦА ЗАЩО
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God Bless two wonderful people!!!!!
👏👍😘🙏🏼💝
She was hungry! So cute!
I think the new parents should hold off giving these little ones lollipops, it could be frightening to have a lollipop pushed at you, the little girl is sweet as all the gotcha children are.
Jillian Wilson I don't like small children having lollipops at all..very dangerous.. x
What a beautiful family and darling little girl... Also, on one of the China adoption videos they said they bonded with their daughter over milk... Isn’t that incredible...
What a cuti!
Of all the adoption videos I've seen on tube, every single orphan's initial reaction when meeting their adoptive parents is the same: distant, cold, fear, confusion and lack of responses, guarded, or crying. It's heartbroken to see their little faces. I raised 2 boys and their every cry was attended. They smiled and were excited every time when they saw me. I am so happy for these deserted kids to have a permanent home that they will be loved and cherished.
This!!! So awesome! Also, oh my gosh she looks so cute with that little buz cut!
😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
19:37 umm was that boy disgusted?? Hope not.
Lo mejor del mundo es ser padres
away with those nannys, baby. bring and go. is much better.
Why do they keep going back to see the fosters
Why do so many nanny's come
I agree they hang around too long
These children don't ask for this. Why are they treated this way. Taken from their country and culture far away to another country because the biological parents have these children and give them up and never know what happens
It's not what's best for the parents It's about the children. If the parents give their child they don't deserve to know