1. Marry the Man,not the Office. 2.Love the Lord and know him for yourself. 3.Love the Ministry. 4.You are there to serve. 5.Believe in him and show that belief. 6.Let him lead. 7.Serve within your area of permission. 8.Dont feel like you have to be the next pastor's wife. 9.Be open to feedback. 10.It's a long road. 11.Be confident in your caller. Other points * Your marriage will only work if you work on it. * Be intentional about who you trust and who you talk to. *Prayer is very important, Build a relationship with God. Thank you so much PL 🙏♥️💯
Ma, Your maturity and jovial spirit are a lethal combination... You're a revivalist, a remnant. Thanks for being a genuine support to the Apostle and the body of Christ. I believe your platform is only going to get bigger and your rewards will be evident to all... I see why celebration church is gaining so much influence and honor, because you're reaping the fruits of honor
I didn't even know how much I needed to hear this until I listened to it... I'm not even a Pastors anybody... But there is so much knowledge and wise counsel here
“When you’re married you’re under authority” Not a pastors wife but I definitely learnt things about marriage. Thank you for sharing from your wisdom PL. Love you ma❤
I didn't know that i need this, i just pumped into the video while looking for discussion to have before marriage. I will be getting married to a Pastor very soon. It's entirely a different thing coming from a Roman Catholic background. I really need this teaching and more.
Marry the man and not the office. Be open to feedbacks. Take what is helpful and forgive what is hurtful. Thank you so much for the opportunity to draw from your well of wisdom ma. God bless you PL
Everything shared in this video is gold, PL! The 8th point stood out to me because it’s not something I had given much prior thought to as “important” or even helpful. I’ll definitely start applying it; remembering to take with is helpful and forgive what is hurtful. ✨
Gems gems gems everywhere! Thank you, PL. Thank you so much ma. What stood out for me is the phrase 'even if you're building on the rock, you're still building'
Thank you ma for this It's important to work on yourself, develop your relationship with God. Don't be intimidated by others around your husband who won't see you as an important person
I love the feedback part Taking what’s helpful and forgiving what’s hurtful So good🔥 Was curious to know how the “Let him lead” part will play out if the woman is the pastor and her husband is not But I think I got my answer from this when you said if you’re ever confused about roles and how it’ll work,talk to God and your husband That settles it for me! Thank you Pastor Laju
This video was very helpful. I’m not a pastors’ wife but I can say that this is equally as helpful and as useful for wives generally. I like what you said about feedback - take what is helpful and forgive what is hurtful. Also you emphasized so much on prayer in all your points and I understand that prayer does help a whole lot. Thank you PL ❤
This is very helpful and inspiring my dear sister. I appreciate your simplicity and well of knowledge. I learnt so much from you today. More grace in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🙏. Love ❤you even though I'm seeing your vedio for the first time.
‘Don’t expect the man to ask you for everything before doing it when it comes to ministry’… very important point. That he’s not doing what you suggest doesn’t mean he loves you less- this I had to learn this one the hard way. So much wisdom here
PL you look stunning . I am a big fan of your style . Thank you for this video. The tips are even very helpful for any married woman even if your husband is not a pastor . It important to believe in your husband and love whatever he does
1. Marry the Man,not the Office.
2.Love the Lord and know him for yourself.
3.Love the Ministry.
4.You are there to serve.
5.Believe in him and show that belief.
6.Let him lead.
7.Serve within your area of permission.
8.Dont feel like you have to be the next pastor's wife.
9.Be open to feedback.
10.It's a long road.
11.Be confident in your caller.
Other points
* Your marriage will only work if you work on it.
* Be intentional about who you trust and who you talk to.
*Prayer is very important, Build a relationship with God.
Thank you so much PL 🙏♥️💯
So much wisdom in this video. I have been a Pastor's wife for 6 years plus and I must say this is golden ❣️ well done Pastor Laju
Well done and well articulated ❤❤
Wow, as a pastor’s wife to be in two months, I must say that this is good food for the journey. Thank you Ma♥️
Ma, Your maturity and jovial spirit are a lethal combination... You're a revivalist, a remnant. Thanks for being a genuine support to the Apostle and the body of Christ. I believe your platform is only going to get bigger and your rewards will be evident to all... I see why celebration church is gaining so much influence and honor, because you're reaping the fruits of honor
‘Take what is helpful, forgive what is hurtful’
- PL 2024.
I didn't even know how much I needed to hear this until I listened to it... I'm not even a Pastors anybody... But there is so much knowledge and wise counsel here
😂😂😂 - "pastor's anybody" got me
‘Even if you’re building your house on the rock, you still have to build it’.
I am not a pastor's wife but i learnt a lot this isn't only for pastor's wife but for all kingdom wife's, thanks for sharing
“When you’re married you’re under authority” Not a pastors wife but I definitely learnt things about marriage. Thank you for sharing from your wisdom PL. Love you ma❤
I don’t know if I’ll ever be a Pastor’s wife, Lol, but I find this video very helpful just as a worker in God’s vineyard.
I didn't know that i need this, i just pumped into the video while looking for discussion to have before marriage.
I will be getting married to a Pastor very soon. It's entirely a different thing coming from a Roman Catholic background. I really need this teaching and more.
Marry the man and not the office. Be open to feedbacks. Take what is helpful and forgive what is hurtful. Thank you so much for the opportunity to draw from your well of wisdom ma. God bless you PL
Everything shared in this video is gold, PL! The 8th point stood out to me because it’s not something I had given much prior thought to as “important” or even helpful. I’ll definitely start applying it; remembering to take with is helpful and forgive what is hurtful. ✨
Gems gems gems everywhere! Thank you, PL. Thank you so much ma.
What stood out for me is the phrase 'even if you're building on the rock, you're still building'
Marry the man, not the office📌📌
What would God have mercy do, what would my husband have me do, what would the ministry have me do. Stood out most for me🎉🎉🎉
See how PL is glowing 😍😍
Seeeeeeeeeeee 🥹🥹🥹
You can say that again
Be the greatest cheerleader, pray for them more, show the believe in them
Take what is helpful and forgive what is hurtful ❤
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This beauty is too much PL 😘 🥰 😂, allow us to breathe ma.
Thanks for sharing this knowledge with us
“Let him lead.”
Take what is helpful , and forgive what is hurtful .
God richly bless you, PL..
You're a pool of wisdom.
"Try to take what it helpful and forgive what is hurtful"
Thank you ma for this
It's important to work on yourself, develop your relationship with God. Don't be intimidated by others around your husband who won't see you as an important person
Yeahhhhhh... Those so focused on your husband that they don't know what you do to oil the engine
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*Try to take what is helpful, and forgive what is hurtful!* - Pastor Laju Iren
Thanks so much, PL ma.🙏🏽❤
I love the feedback part
Taking what’s helpful and forgiving what’s hurtful
So good🔥
Was curious to know how the “Let him lead” part will play out if the woman is the pastor and her husband is not
But I think I got my answer from this when you said if you’re ever confused about roles and how it’ll work,talk to God and your husband
That settles it for me!
Thank you Pastor Laju
This is pure truth, you did justice to the topic by touching on different aspects. Thank you PL👏👏👏👏
THANK YOU,
Pastor Laju Iren❤❤❤
God bless you for this
This topic covers both pastors wives and Non pastors wife. Very interesting, I learned a lot.
Take what is helpful, and forgive what is hurtful 😊
9. Its a long road, treat others with Grace ❤
This video was very helpful. I’m not a pastors’ wife but I can say that this is equally as helpful and as useful for wives generally.
I like what you said about feedback - take what is helpful and forgive what is hurtful.
Also you emphasized so much on prayer in all your points and I understand that prayer does help a whole lot.
Thank you PL ❤
Blessed 🙌
I must confess 🙌🏿
Please can we have part two ❤This is diamonds OMG
I really really can’t wait, but I have to wait.
Speak to someone you prayerfully choose whose fruit you have seen 🙏
2. Love the Lord 🙏
Accept what is helpful, forgive what is hurtful
PL, you never cease to amaze me! Thank you ❤️
Take what is helpful, and forgive what is hurtful 💕
There’s so much wisdom in this video. Thank you, PL!
Take what's helpful and forgive what's hurtful when it comes to receiving feedback. Thank you so much Pastor Laju. God bless you❤️
4. You are a pastor's wife to serve 😊, a primary aim
Even though you married a son of God, God is still your Father!❤
Awesome teaching,God bless you real good..
I learnt a lot ❤️
This is very helpful and inspiring my dear sister. I appreciate your simplicity and well of knowledge. I learnt so much from you today. More grace in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🙏. Love ❤you even though I'm seeing your vedio for the first time.
She's so beautiful
I'm dating a Pastor. God bless you for this PL😊❤
Everything stood out for me because I can relate in my very little way too! Thank you so much mum❤️Amen ma🙏
Powerful! Full of so much wisdom! God bless you ma!
This is so helpful Pastor Laju. God bless you❤
7. Serve within your area of permission!
Take what is helpful and forgive what is hurtful
"Treat yourself with grace"
Thank you PL❤
I love your sense of humor
This was so good, thank you so much for making this video. Opened my eyes to a LOT of things that I still need to work on. Thank you again!
Thank you ma for this. More grace ijn
Thank you so much Mama
Your marriage will only work if you work on it 📌
Thank you MUMSY!
❤❤. Thanks for sharing ma
PL, I love the quality of your videos. Thank you for this🙌🏽
Thank you so much ma. This was timely.
Wow so much wisdom Mma ❤
Thank you Ma❤
‘Don’t expect the man to ask you for everything before doing it when it comes to ministry’… very important point. That he’s not doing what you suggest doesn’t mean he loves you less- this I had to learn this one the hard way. So much wisdom here
PL you look stunning . I am a big fan of your style .
Thank you for this video. The tips are even very helpful for any married woman even if your husband is not a pastor . It important to believe in your husband and love whatever he does
Thank you so much ma 🥰❤️ for such a powerful session 🔥🔥❤️
Thank you ma, I have learned alot.
Thank you so much, PL.
So Pretty and Witty ! Thank you so much ma❤ This was wholesome
Thank you Mom, God Bless You.
You’re so wise ma and I love you ma. Thank you so much❤❤
Taking feedbacks well stood out for me most.
Take what's helpful and forgive what's hurtful.
Thank you PL.
This is so profound 😊❤️
This video is too insightful
I love itttt
Thank you PL❤❤
God bless you ma. Concise and rich❤
Thank you so much
God bless you
Take what is helpful and forgive what is hurtful. Hmmm
Very insightful, thank you PL 💜
Thank you, PL💜🙇♀️
Wow, this enlightening... thank you PL😊
This was so amazing PL❤. God bless and keep you and eveŕy Pastor.
😊
This is soooo timely! God bless you
Beautiful PL😻❤️
Thank you Mum!
Thank you so much Ma, this information is vital 🙏🏾
Thank you, PL! Always sound
So much wisdom in this video. Thank you, PL❤
God bless and strengthen you and every Pastor❤
Thank you for this PL!
Here! Here! Marking my attendance! 🥰🤗
It’s more than okay to be behind the scenes📌📌
Thank you PL🥰🥰
Super helpful!
Thank you PL!🙌❤️❤️❤️
Thank you PL ma🤲
3. Love the ministry ❤
So impactful, thank you PL. ❤
God bless you Maa❤
THANK YOU SO MUCH PL.
YOU ARE SUCH A BLESSING
Thank you 👏