@@LivingMinny They'll show you a pattern of inconsistency. A person constantly communicating with you without going on dates is them just draining your energy
5:03 "Let people show you who they truly are" A lesson that I have been taught repeatedly, because I failed to learn it the first time. If a person fails to meet you at the middle, Do not suggest, offer or make it easier for them to do said thing that they're within their capability to do. If you ask a person to let you know when they're free, so you can contact them during that time, and they do not, leave it alone If you pop up to someone and they do not respond to you, do not double text. Leave it alone. Do your own bit, do not do your bit and the other person's bit to get their attention. If they fail to respond the first time you were friendly, don't over exert yourself to do more. Or you set that as a standard for the relationship and inevitably become drained as I did. Trust me, it's not worth it.
1) ask for Snapchat 2) doesn't really ask you on a date 3) imaginary scenarios are better than reality 4) don't have that little cute pint of jealousy 5) compliments other girls around you - hates you 😂😂😭
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this! Was talking to this guy who claimed was “interested in me” and was “willing to see how things go” but made no interest to take me out on dates or see me, text or call me when he was clearly free! I decided to cut things off and keep things platonic with him and he tried to gaslight me into thinking I was the problem even though he was putting in below bare minimum effort. 😭
Girl not me just writing this in my note pad..the moment he stops doing the simplest of things for u or u ask the simplest things and he doesnt acknowledge it.forgeting birthday, stop buying gifts,stop taking u on dates, no longer wanted to spend time with u...things is queens step up dont give that person ur energy they as whata up just saw u have nothing to say and that's it and the mist hurtful one after they slept with u telling u they want u to be friends it's the disrespect for me.but I know my king is out there and he cant wait to spoil me😊
This. I had to download the video so I can keep reminding myself. It's the 'forming busy' for me. Even though we're all busy. We all make time for what is important to us.
Lucy said “ if he compliments other girls in front of you” he hates you😂😂😂😂 I literally laughed hard..... I agree with what she said 👍🏼 😂😂🤣 * I’m still laughing typing this😆😆😆
If he finds your opinions silly, If he doesn't OFFER to pay for you when you make a quick stop to get something, If he doesn't love you in your love language because he thinks he knows better, RUN SIS.
Amazing video lucy. Thank you so much for this darling. This has been an eye opener for me, i mean i knew all this and i somehow thought i was being extra hard on these men for not tolerating bare minimum from a man. And now i feel so great and validated watching this video. Thank u darling ❤️❤️😊
Lucy i hv followed all that and hv ended up alone my mum tells me no one can hv 5/5 but if he has the 4/5 u can continue with him if he has 2 then run without looking behind
“If he complements other girls in your present he doesn’t like you 😢mhen that’s deep thanks for the fruitful words and consoling advise ❤much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
What if the guy shows these signs that he is interested in a lady but the lady does not reciprocate the same energy? Can you do a video for 10 signs a woman is not into a man?
I don’t care if he’s held up in meetings from nine to five. It takes as little as thirty seconds to type a message and hit send. Does he not go to the bathroom all day? Does he not get a lunch break? What about when he gets home from work? If a man can’t take thirty seconds out of his busy day to say hi or that he’s just thinking about you, then he’s not thinking about you at all and it’s time to #Delete and stop wasting your time. Same goes for a guy who takes three days to respond to your last text message. Is that really the kind of person you want to date? Now I’m not saying to #Delete him if he has an excuse and lets you know ahead of time, such as he’s going camping and won’t have reception or something.
What if the person is not financially stable to take you out and all but he would do when he gets Like you know he will do those things when he becomes financially stable
I don't entirely agree with the Snapchat thing.....I personally will never give someone I'm just trying to get to know my number......if you even ask.....I'll tell you I prefer snapchat it's just a matter of preference to me
“Tell me why it’s sweet in your head , but in real life it’s not sweet ????”
The truth right there 😂
I meannnn 😂
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Sometimes You can communicate with someone daily , and they are still not interested in you.
Definitely!
What then shows that they might not be into you??
@@LivingMinny They'll show you a pattern of inconsistency. A person constantly communicating with you without going on dates is them just draining your energy
@@dvmn444& they literally are bored lol they may like the conversation but know they don't see it going anywhere
@@brandisbombnailz Exactly whole time they texting you while being around somebody you don't know about lmao
5:03 "Let people show you who they truly are" A lesson that I have been taught repeatedly, because I failed to learn it the first time. If a person fails to meet you at the middle, Do not suggest, offer or make it easier for them to do said thing that they're within their capability to do.
If you ask a person to let you know when they're free, so you can contact them during that time, and they do not, leave it alone
If you pop up to someone and they do not respond to you, do not double text. Leave it alone.
Do your own bit, do not do your bit and the other person's bit to get their attention. If they fail to respond the first time you were friendly, don't over exert yourself to do more. Or you set that as a standard for the relationship and inevitably become drained as I did. Trust me, it's not worth it.
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You know when someone isn’t that into, you know!!!
"He knows what he's suppose to do but if he's not doing it then you're not the one he wants to do it for." Period.
1) ask for Snapchat
2) doesn't really ask you on a date
3) imaginary scenarios are better than reality
4) don't have that little cute pint of jealousy
5) compliments other girls around you - hates you 😂😂😭
“Its the action that actually matters”😭!!!
That’s soo trueee!!!!
I wish I could “like” this video 1,000 times. Thanks for the pep talk. Some of us needed this 😅
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this! Was talking to this guy who claimed was “interested in me” and was “willing to see how things go” but made no interest to take me out on dates or see me, text or call me when he was clearly free! I decided to cut things off and keep things platonic with him and he tried to gaslight me into thinking I was the problem even though he was putting in below bare minimum effort. 😭
The makeup, hair and ambience!
A premium Babe❤
Lucy Benson out here doing the lord's work cos this is so timely ❤❤❤
Right?😂😂I almost overplayed my part with this guy then boom, I saw this video! I'm finna block him even
Real
You are so right sis❤💯 Guyss that claim to be busy but actively updating their WhatsApp status, really??😂😂
I really love ur videos and it helps me a lot in my social life
Honestly.
Amazing video , I’m 21 so it’s nice to hear good advice from a woman older and much wiser . Love your videos ❤
Girl not me just writing this in my note pad..the moment he stops doing the simplest of things for u or u ask the simplest things and he doesnt acknowledge it.forgeting birthday, stop buying gifts,stop taking u on dates, no longer wanted to spend time with u...things is queens step up dont give that person ur energy they as whata up just saw u have nothing to say and that's it and the mist hurtful one after they slept with u telling u they want u to be friends it's the disrespect for me.but I know my king is out there and he cant wait to spoil me😊
This. I had to download the video so I can keep reminding myself. It's the 'forming busy' for me. Even though we're all busy. We all make time for what is important to us.
Watched twice because I needed sense to get back into my head. Thank you
That's why I'm back here again 👏🏾😂 the sense was starting to leave my head
Lucy said “ if he compliments other girls in front of you” he hates you😂😂😂😂
I literally laughed hard..... I agree with what she said 👍🏼 😂😂🤣 * I’m still laughing typing this😆😆😆
If he finds your opinions silly, If he doesn't OFFER to pay for you when you make a quick stop to get something, If he doesn't love you in your love language because he thinks he knows better, RUN SIS.
Needed this. I’m in my 30s and I don’t have time to waste
Atall sis ❤️
You took all the words outta my mouth! So glad you share same view cause it’s crazy how my friends think my expectations are too high, CRAZY!.
Big sis energy activated😊🥳❤️🔥
“ princess treatment, period “
Amazing video lucy. Thank you so much for this darling. This has been an eye opener for me, i mean i knew all this and i somehow thought i was being extra hard on these men for not tolerating bare minimum from a man. And now i feel so great and validated watching this video. Thank u darling ❤️❤️😊
😂😂😂shots firedThis generation is a mad one🤧🤣. “Let people show who they truly are,let them perform “🫶🏾always getting lessons about this🙈
First off, you are stunning!!!! So gorgeous. Secondly, I love your accent. I subscribed awhile back for this great content. And yes, let them perform.
Aw thanks darling
Love your hair Lucy. ❤❤
I couldnt get my eyes off your hair🤩😍.Its so beautiful
Lucy, Thank you. I have been struggling with a decision and now that decision is made. Thank you sis X❤
Lucy baby you look so beautiful 😻
This hair fits you so much ❤
Thank you Lucy this was really helpful
Giiiiiiirl Exactly what i needed to hear today - Thank you for amazing content Lucy
What you said abs Snapchat is so accurate!
Lucy i hv followed all that and hv ended up alone my mum tells me no one can hv 5/5 but if he has the 4/5 u can continue with him if he has 2 then run without looking behind
Don't let anyone pressure you. It's better to be alone than to be with someone that makes you feel alone and unhappy
Lucy doing the lord's work.
This hair looks beautiful on you😩😩❤
I love the hair😍😍😍link pls?
“If he complements other girls in your present he doesn’t like you 😢mhen that’s deep thanks for the fruitful words and consoling advise ❤much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
Thanks ms lucy I really needed this 😢❤❤
Thankyou Lucy ..i needed to hear this today!!
I love watching her so much, learned a lot and I’m only 16
Omg I really needed this, I feel like I was going astray
Hi Lucy,am from Kenya &l love your vlogs/videos so much .Keep it up!❤
Me too sis, she's so amazing 💯
First to comment ❤ I love Lucy
Thank you Lucy for your inspiration and guidelines. Thanx alot
Hiii, Lucy
Thanks for this video.
I love you so much Lucy, thank you for this I needed it😭❤
What if the guy shows these signs that he is interested in a lady but the lady does not reciprocate the same energy? Can you do a video for 10 signs a woman is not into a man?
Nice hair
A spot on video.
Nice one Lucy🥰
Thank you darling
Girllllllll, you look gorgeous!
Thank you so much for this 😭😭
Thank you Lucy ❤
I agree with all what you say!
BEAUTIFUL
This was perfect
The guy i'm seeing goes weeks without texting me when he does it's to know if im avalaible to "chill" (have sex) 😂
Petition for longer video please ❤
I love you sm thank you for this❤
This hairr tho 😍😍
Love it and thank you❤❤❤
You said it all sis
The last one was for me😭😂
Great video
This look 🔥 ❤
Preach Lucy!preach!
I don’t care if he’s held up in meetings from nine to five. It takes as little as thirty seconds to type a message and hit send. Does he not go to the bathroom all day? Does he not get a lunch break? What about when he gets home from work? If a man can’t take thirty seconds out of his busy day to say hi or that he’s just thinking about you, then he’s not thinking about you at all and it’s time to #Delete and stop wasting your time.
Same goes for a guy who takes three days to respond to your last text message. Is that really the kind of person you want to date? Now I’m not saying to #Delete him if he has an excuse and lets you know ahead of time, such as he’s going camping and won’t have reception or something.
When you get to the point of being an item and you say I love you and he never says he loves you, back 😂run, cut it off sis
All salient points. But these men are wicked o. They'll be doing all of these things and still not really want you😅
Issa evil world we live in, but we must keep going 👏🙏🏿🥲
Love that
👏👏👏 nice words
🤣🤣🤣 only sweet in your head, wow.
One thing somebody going to do is SHOW you how they feel about you 😒
I'm here🥂
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I'm done with him at this point cos he failed alllllllll 😭😭💔
I know I didn't make a mistake subscribing.
Girl... You're working overtime wth... I've been in limbo for the past few days and here comes this video... Argh maan. 😭💔🚶♀️
What if the person is not financially stable to take you out and all but he would do when he gets
Like you know he will do those things when he becomes financially stable
girl some girls are gonna have to reevalutate some rships after this video 💕💖❤
Lol 😂
So true 😂
Yeah 🤎.
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He got a wife, 4 kids, 3 girlfriend and 14 bms🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Meh can badda
Do you have a cold?🥺
Lol!!! Have you met Nigerian men in Nigeria? They will do all this and still be married with four kids😂🤣😂(na them even jealous pass)
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Action speak louder
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Let’s stop making excuses and compromising woman!!
Hair so pretty..I wonder what color combo it is
Absolutely True! Thankyou 🤎.
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I don't entirely agree with the Snapchat thing.....I personally will never give someone I'm just trying to get to know my number......if you even ask.....I'll tell you I prefer snapchat it's just a matter of preference to me
As for luxy app is not easy to access I downloaded they were demanding for 40k to unlock it before i could chat that’s bullshit
Lucy is our online Bestfriend okay??? 🫶🏾❤️
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Okay ❤ love her