Tarja "Diva"

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  • Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
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  • @omar_m_c
    @omar_m_c 3 года назад +50

    Tarja is amazing, she is unique, she has a powerful voice, a beautiful voice color, a spectacular handling and control of her voice and a magnetizing personality and she is also super beautiful

    • @czarnaKsc
      @czarnaKsc 3 года назад +7

      Totally agree 🥰 She has divine voice.Gosembumbs every time.

    • @jorgeluizalvesribeiro533
      @jorgeluizalvesribeiro533 2 года назад +1

      No meu coração também sou viciado nas músicas dela, uma Diva. Abraço amigo.

  • @efthimisevgenis3020
    @efthimisevgenis3020 3 года назад +23

    Tarja forever!!! We want more!!!!!

  • @LigeiaNoire
    @LigeiaNoire 3 года назад +31

    Does one need anything else?
    There's this version of her singing it live in Sao Paulo I believe and she is given a crown by a fan. A very morticia kind of crown... she actually puts it on and sings the whole song with it on!
    The debauched way that she sings the lyrics is also very self explanatory. Specially the rrrrrrats part. I love how smart and humorous she is. They tried to ruin her public persona because she wanted to leave and she survived like a Phoenix and laughing. Got to love this woman!
    The best part of it all, is that the song is amazing!
    Theatrical, dramatic and intense. Love this album.

  • @melczech3361
    @melczech3361 3 года назад +28

    As much as l love NW, and always will, I think what they did to Tarja really sucked, and you can see how heartbroken she was in her press conference, about it. I’m so happy for the success and love she has received. She deserves it!!❤️

  • @Jailands
    @Jailands 3 года назад +27

    Now you know why we've been telling you to check this one out. Tarja rarely says what her songs are about, but I really don't think she needs to on this one.
    To answer your question, that is the famous letter and some footage of her press conference after receiving it. This is Tarja's extremely classy reply. Also, so fun to see her perform this one live.

  • @r.e.4640
    @r.e.4640 3 года назад +18

    As always, all hale the TRUE QUEEN of Nightwish!!!!!, the very beautiful and enchanting TARJA!!!!!!😊👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @metalka_
    @metalka_ 3 года назад +31

    Oh man, how I waited for this. She is my favorite for several reasons, her voice has changed my life! ❤️

  • @debrakurenai588
    @debrakurenai588 3 года назад +17

    Goddess Tarja. She always brings a smile to my face. I hope things get better for you. Thank goodness for music huh? It’s kept me sane that’s for sure.

  • @bridgetmccracken1381
    @bridgetmccracken1381 3 года назад +16

    Glad you did this one :) . Her answer to Tuomas's Poet and the Pendulum. You said it best when you said it was a nice way to say F-U hahaha. As I said, there are 2 sides to every story and this was hers.

    • @JayTor2112
      @JayTor2112 3 года назад

      Probably more of an answer to Bye Bye Beautiful, since P&P wasn't a "diss" song against her, it was therapy for Tuomas. I see both sides as equally responsible in what happened, she was on her way out soon anyway by her own choice.

    • @Ozzy_2014
      @Ozzy_2014 3 года назад +1

      @@JayTor2112 talk of a love triangle. More the rumour.the keyboardist wanted her. It was not mutual ans she was already married. Hubby is also her manager. The letter left for her after the concert pretty classless way to part ways.
      The good news is the bassist and vocalist Marko was a friend with Tarja since childhood. After he left the band this year Jan/21 they made up. Friends reunited. So at least that is great news. Not so much for Nightwish who will have to find a new male vocalist.
      They went on to do similar trearment of Annette the successor to Tarja. Also classless. I don't think her ans Tarja are ever going to be close friends. Now Floor was friends with Tarja before she ever joined nightwish and still are. Replacing the person who replaced you is not going to be a source of conflict between them. I have no idea if the rumours about Thomas true, but seeing his reaction to Sleeping sun by Tarja while doing that song probablly sparked rumours. He does seem to have the lovestruck schoolboy look on his face. But reading people a weak point to me.
      But the deeds done 15 years ago and everyone has had a chance to move on. But its important to remember Tarja was there at the founding of NW. You get how that's an investment and not just a...Meh, I will take this crummmy job till something better comes along. Battles over who gets to control creative input and who gets final say on the end product is nothing new.

  • @Pablo_Maidana
    @Pablo_Maidana 3 года назад +6

    WOW! I LOVE TARJA

  • @alegotik87
    @alegotik87 3 года назад +20

    The prens conference was real . Was terrible public humiliation in my opinion... the past is the past and now we have her grate solo music.... now is time for love to hate.

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад

      TRUTH!!!!! 💖💖💖💖💖

    • @isab.c.6702
      @isab.c.6702 3 года назад +3

      But I think that the press was a "good thing"... A way of people to see that she is a human, with feelings and not that "diva" in a bad way that Tuomas said... Anyway, it was a long ago and Tarja is way better without him 🙏🏽

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад +1

      @@isab.c.6702 Way way way way better 💘

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад +1

      Love To Hate is another TARJA masterpiece.
      Love the official London video💘

  • @melicriszoe1
    @melicriszoe1 3 года назад +5

    Una canción llena de sentimientos. La siento liberadora! Me gustó que haya puesto música de circo porque todo lo que montaron fue un circo hasta despedirla al final de la show. Tenés muchísimas más buenas canciones que escuchar de Tarja. Otra que le dedicó a NW (para mí) es until muy last breath.

  • @lauralee98
    @lauralee98 3 года назад +11

    Awww lol I've never seen this vid of Diva before. Love it. T is also my favourite singer pretty much ever. That was actual footage of her crying btw in a press conference following the open letter. Ultimately there will be some things on both sides of the story that aren't good. When relationships breakdown they breakdown and that's that. There were some pretty shitty things the band did to her though. Like saying she always travelled alone and not with them. Personally I don't blame her on that. They used to party hard get drunk and producers and others would just be having orgy type things all around and Nightwish have said that themselves in their book. Also, when she was attacked by that guy on stage and he pulled her to the ground by her hair and ripped her top open - they just left him too it until security eventually twigged and carried on playing while she was escorted of crying. Bless her though after a few songs off she went on to finish the concert whilst crying all the way through. Guys just left her at the end too as they didn't know what to do. I still love Nightwish, but that's a black stain for me. I think they've matured a lot too since. They were a lot younger then. Songs I also LOVE by her include, Die Alive, I walk Alone, Innocence - music vid for that one is good as is Victim of ritual. Empty Dream also a good music video - was a song done for a film. Paradise with Within Temptation - no brilliant Live versions of that but vid is epic. You and I, Undertaker, Anteroom of death - rarely reviewed but fab song. Ahhh, there's sooo many. Just pic any song really. XD

    • @lauralee98
      @lauralee98 3 года назад +5

      BTW - Floor and Tarja are good friends and she since seems to have buried the hatchet a bit with Marko. Search for them singing together at some Finish Christmas thing. Fantastic and quite moving to see. Over the Nights they sort of start apart and grow closing and the times they hug you can just sense the release. :)

  • @larryzigler6812
    @larryzigler6812 3 года назад +8

    Thanks, there is great live video of TARJA performing this rather scathing just response.
    A fan video, no doubt .

  • @Rafael-qi9bt
    @Rafael-qi9bt 3 года назад +15

    I hope things get better, my friend. Don't worry about entertaining us. We like you and we just want to share this musical moment with you. Being together is what matters. About this video, the part where Tarja appears crying is real. This is an excerpt from the press conference she gave after being fired. You can find this complete press conference here on RUclips with English translation. The parts where the band appears with "sex, drugs and rock n roll" behaviors type are also real videos. They were taken from the documentary "End of innocence" released by Nightwish itself at the time of the album "Century Child", the group's fourth. You can also find this complete documentary here on RUclips with English subtitles. These sources, among others, were the foundation for the strong criticism that Nightwish received because of Tarja's resignation. No old fan would be against the band for no reason. Despite everything that happened, I would still love to see Tarja meet with Nightwish. A reconciliation would be iconic. Stay well and safe, my friend! Hug!

  • @squashedeyeball
    @squashedeyeball 3 года назад +9

    Cheers mate! You come first, so my well wishes are for you, first and foremost
    Regarding what happened with Tarja, it can take a long time to explain, in order to do it justice. But the way she was betrayed by her "friends" since the creation of NW...
    This letter was pressed right after "end of an era", and is pretty much what some would argue is a defamation of character.
    "Diva.. Behaviors... Blah blah blah". The simple fact is that Tarja planned to leave NW eventually, but giving her band a 2 years notice and a promise for an new album and an entire tour.
    Throughout those years she gave 100% to the band, and the live videos from 2003 to 2005 will prove it.
    From interviews with her, you understand that she was bullied a lot in childhood, which made her very shy and concealed. But she was blooming when she started performing.
    For some this shyness may seem like "she's cold", but that's utter bs. If any, every interaction she has teaches the opposite.
    The band itself owes much of it's existence to her, being that her voice and persona aspired it f rom the very beginning.
    And back in the early years, yes, Tarja was THE mascot of NW.
    I can rant a lot more about this, because even if one has grievances with a band member for any reason, there are ways to end a collaboration.
    Having Tarja give her soul in "End of an Era" (While a bit sick, btw), seeing her so happy throughout the entire thing... And knowing all along that you're going to stab her in the heart not long after?
    And if you go back to a show from Mexico 2000: Tarja was attacked on stage by a fan who tore her cloths off. She ran backstage, yet her "friends" kept playing.
    As these things lead to the letter, to me it reads as spiteful.
    But all in all, Tarja made peace with Marco and even played with him several times in recent years.
    Floor and her are friends, so there is no bad blood between them.
    And while being very hurt by what happened, she got over it a long time ago. I doubt she'll ever make a guest appearance with NW, but there is not hate or anything similar.

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад +1

      Well stated plus TARJA has better things to do rather than make a guest appearance. Rather revolting from my point of view !!!!

    • @squashedeyeball
      @squashedeyeball 3 года назад

      @@larryzigler6812 True, but I'm sure a ton of fans will go our of their minds if this happens. I can speak for myself though.

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад +1

      @@squashedeyeball I understand what you are saying, however it won't happen.
      You see Tommy must still love her and thus hate her too. He could very easily put a stop to most of the hatred directed towards her, sad fellow.

  • @jimmyboy131
    @jimmyboy131 Год назад

    Tarja is coming to my city this summer for a tour. I'm very excited since I've never had a chance to see her live in person.

  • @cassychristian2037
    @cassychristian2037 2 года назад +1

    Make sure you check out Innocence

  • @karenreis355
    @karenreis355 3 года назад +6

    I'm crying... thank you.

    • @TheRealMediaMan
      @TheRealMediaMan  3 года назад +1

      Noo don't cry.

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад +1

      @@TheRealMediaMan Tears of joy when it comes to thoughts of dear TARJA'S emotional and creative freedom. 💖

  • @gaiavenus
    @gaiavenus 3 года назад +15

    I just love her, she's just amazing, and she will always be the #1 Nightwish Queen to me, originals always remain timeless. Yes, this was part of the open letter and the press conference is real I put the link for you to check out. You should see what the open letter says, it looks like she called the song *Diva* because thats what they wrote about her, she very sweet and down to earth person, she also grew up in a small town and was bullied by others for years. Oh, there is so much documentary you have yet to see of old footage. I hope you feel better and whatever your dealing with will come together, we are here for you if you need us or our company. Thank you for bringing more Tarja, and really enjoyed this upload. Your just amazing :) Always thumbs up!!!!
    *Tarja Turunen press conf (with SUBTITLES) / post NW break up ruclips.net/video/OYko9mxUJeY/видео.html

  • @TheGreatDetectiveKnows
    @TheGreatDetectiveKnows 3 года назад +4

    Definitely watch the press conference, it's pretty heartbreaking.

  • @Ludmi83
    @Ludmi83 3 года назад +5

    I hope you feel better and things gets better.
    Ahhh "Diva" and "Enough" are the only two song she did about the whole mess...tbh is towards to Tuomas rather than the band. And yeah the press conference 2005 is the real footage of the conference she did in Finland after the letter...its in yt but mind you is a bit sad to see cos i can't see Tarja crying cos is the most close of an angel crying and is way too sad.
    She doesnt sing this song much live but I hear Diva live and she does have fun with the song...
    I hope when pandemic is over you can go and see her in a concert :)

  • @jorgeluizalvesribeiro533
    @jorgeluizalvesribeiro533 2 года назад +3

    I love tarja Turunen Beautiful forever, @MediaMan

    • @TheRealMediaMan
      @TheRealMediaMan  2 года назад

      We all do. She has a special place in my musical heart

  • @isab.c.6702
    @isab.c.6702 3 года назад +7

    I think you would like "Victim Of Ritual" (Live At Woodstock), if I am not mistaken, from 2018. I like it cause you can see how happy she is and how much she really enjoys being on a stage.

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад +1

      Please check out Dat Guy Cliff
      He has just done a boatload of TARJA reactions !!!!
      He has fallen under her spell much the same as MediaMan has...

  • @dorodr1513
    @dorodr1513 3 года назад +5

    From Tarja’s solo career, she did a cover of Still of the night. The midle part of the song is just amazing, in my opinion very much better than in the original one. I hope you could react
    Another wonderfull song is Oasis

  • @isab.c.6702
    @isab.c.6702 3 года назад +4

    Another song she made, lets say ''for the same person'' was "enough", with the lyric video maybe you will get more details, like, she mentions ''just because I am in love" refering to Tuomas kicking her out because she got married. She mention "You drew a play written with my blood", not only cause she was the front of the band, but maybe cause of some moments when Tuomas was forcing her to sing, to reach some difficult notes that she said she even cry, she also mention about 'drinking', that easly you can see trough some videos was a problem (guys drinking too much, in this video you just watched there is a part where tuomas is beeing carried to his bed). Problem to react is, there is a lyric video, good to understand what the song is about and there is a live version where you can see her anger (I see Tarja live performances for years and never saw her that way) but the video has a terrible audio quality. But, maybe not to react, if you want to see just for curiosity (either way, better to watch lyrics first):
    lyric video: ruclips.net/video/72qh_Q05SrM/видео.html
    live low quality lol: ruclips.net/video/6k9VFf8JcwY/видео.html
    (sorry for always writing too much...)

    • @TheRealMediaMan
      @TheRealMediaMan  3 года назад +1

      No it's fine. I like all the little details

    • @isab.c.6702
      @isab.c.6702 3 года назад

      @Anna M. you're welcome. I love it too. She is such a "diva" (in a good way) even when she is writing about those times...

  • @isab.c.6702
    @isab.c.6702 3 года назад +5

    All of the videos are real. The press conference, if you haven't seen yet you should, it is sad, but it shows what Tuomas did to her... That part about "vodka" is a "joke" about they always beeing drinking and things like that... Just after that it shows Tuomas beeing carried to his room. They said that Tarja was never with the band (she traveled alone or with her husband) but sure she had her reasons.. One of the documentarys of NW (End of Innocence) you can see how imature they where, a reasonable person can asume that is not easy to live with imature drunking guys talking about sex, geting naked and ridiculous (it is all on that documentary, I am not making things out of nowhere...)

  • @coachmikesfilmroom3111
    @coachmikesfilmroom3111 3 года назад +1

    She's reunited with Marko for a Christmas show. They did a duet of Ave Maria. In an interview after she said she would not be reunited with the rest of the band. She and Floor remain Friends though

  • @solinatuulia4743
    @solinatuulia4743 2 года назад +3

    Nice cat 😻 And nice reaction 👍

  • @cassychristian2037
    @cassychristian2037 2 года назад

    One of my favorites is the Carpenter

  • @cassychristian2037
    @cassychristian2037 2 года назад +1

    Great reaction. Great song

  • @isab.c.6702
    @isab.c.6702 3 года назад +3

    Happy it put a smile on your face.. mine too.
    good to see you.
    stay strong!!

  • @tapanim6576
    @tapanim6576 3 года назад +5

    I like the song, not a big fan of the fan made video. But Tarja is amazing and beautiful as always.

  • @liricobarroco
    @liricobarroco 3 года назад +2

    Wow. I love diva song!

  • @melicriszoe1
    @melicriszoe1 3 года назад +3

    I love when she Said rrrrats haha

  • @littlecollie86
    @littlecollie86 3 года назад +4

    Hope you’re feeling better. There is a song from Tarja that I listen to when I’m feeling down. Sing for me, ’cause I need her to sing for me and ’cause I like the meaning in the song. There are those moments in life when you need someone to be the voice of reason.
    This is more symphonic metal. Sing for me (live from London 2018): ruclips.net/video/cn3NW9AZKaI/видео.html

  • @Kuroo21
    @Kuroo21 3 года назад +3

    7:01 Aaah, this song (this version) was the very first song I ever heard with Nightwish. I love it soo much.
    Hope you'll feel better soon.

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад

      Not a Nightwish song, TARJA wrote it.

    • @Kuroo21
      @Kuroo21 3 года назад

      @@larryzigler6812 I'm pretty sure it's a Nightwish song 😊

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад

      @@Kuroo21 Don't be silly

    • @Kuroo21
      @Kuroo21 3 года назад

      @@larryzigler6812 @larry zigler You sure we're talking about the same song? I put a time stamp in my comment and the song playing at that time, is Sleeping Sun by Nightwish from the Oceanborn album

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад

      @@Kuroo21 Sorry, my fault

  • @dorodr1513
    @dorodr1513 3 года назад +3

    I’m not sure of wich songs did you react. I recomend Walking in the air (From wishes to eternity) and Sleeping sun, the oficial video from 1998. Sorry if you did it before

    • @TheRealMediaMan
      @TheRealMediaMan  3 года назад +1

      Apparently I did the wrong Sleeping Sun video lol

  • @merjahassinen6920
    @merjahassinen6920 7 месяцев назад

    I have same kind of cat..black

  • @brentliebrecht7866
    @brentliebrecht7866 3 года назад +3

    The BYE, BYE, BYE was the bands 1st single with Anette Olzon. Their diss at Tarja. Her first rock single was I walk alone released in 2007.
    Taja and Floor are friends from before Floor joined NW. She told them she will NEVER sing that song. BTW not going to take sides but 5 years after parting ways, they fired Annette when she was in hospital giving birth to her child, over Christmas! So take that behaviour into account. Tarja far too classy to respond in kind. I do know that Marko buried the hatchet and made up with Tarja, to the point of doing a duet together. Of course Floor and Tarja have sung together. Were and are friends.

    • @TheRealMediaMan
      @TheRealMediaMan  3 года назад

      I'd like to think annette was let go for MANY more reasons than that. She was terrible.
      Tarja has proven she will be just fine on her own. The band still never recaptured the magic they lost

    • @coachmikesfilmroom3111
      @coachmikesfilmroom3111 2 года назад +2

      @@TheRealMediaMan I wouldn't call Annette terrible. She was not a good fit for nw, but her solo stuff from what I've listened to is very good. The problem with her firing is the boys tried to lie and said she quit the band. She called them out after having her baby, and they had to admit the truth. Pretty much shows they have a pattern how they treated the females in their group.

    • @TheRealMediaMan
      @TheRealMediaMan  2 года назад

      @@coachmikesfilmroom3111 not on record. On record she sounds fine. But can she pull of anything live

  • @metalfan6666
    @metalfan6666 3 года назад +4

    Your cat is a diva

  • @larryzigler6812
    @larryzigler6812 3 года назад

    A list of more TARJA'S songs that many consider a response :
    DARK STAR
    TOO MANY
    EAGLE EYE
    I WALK ALONE
    BOY AND THE GHOST
    LOVE TO HATE
    💖

  • @y.a.s9198
    @y.a.s9198 3 года назад +1

    Hope you are feeling better! Love that Tarja always puts an smile in your face. Here are some recommendations that I think you are going to love. Deliverance ( a song for her daugther) ruclips.net/video/vImWhWxMGms/видео.html&ab_channel=jeseden Crimson deep ruclips.net/video/UGkbQj8e6JI/видео.html&ab_channel=earMUSIC and Lucid dreamer: ruclips.net/video/FCmHHJIEbS8/видео.html&ab_channel=toxxxik80. And from her Christmas shows, oh holy night: ruclips.net/video/9pPh3kzBvnw/видео.html&ab_channel=MartinDybala. You should also try something from her classical music performances.

  • @simonelanger6563
    @simonelanger6563 3 года назад +2

    That video though

  • @isab.c.6702
    @isab.c.6702 3 года назад +3

    D I V A

  • @ireen1962
    @ireen1962 3 года назад +1

    Two parties two stories

  • @user-jh5pl7bs4q
    @user-jh5pl7bs4q 3 года назад +1

    Королева👑❤

  • @isab.c.6702
    @isab.c.6702 3 года назад +2

    Dont look like a "diva" monster as some may say: ruclips.net/video/w3d5sj5EUUY/видео.html
    The version of sleeping sun with steve'n seagulls that I tould you about 🙃

  • @antoniocarlin5026
    @antoniocarlin5026 3 года назад +1

    Tarja is a petite woman jejeje I´m 1.76 shes maybe 1.56.....one time here in Monterrey before a show with the Twisted Sister she´s walk in front of me....jajaja and I don´t recognize her.... I ignore it! jajajajaja..... Is beauty but too thin!

    • @Ludmi83
      @Ludmi83 3 года назад +1

      What??? Tarja is not 1.56 lol, she is 1.63/ 1.64 cm or in inches 5'4"

    • @antoniocarlin5026
      @antoniocarlin5026 3 года назад

      @@Ludmi83 well...! I calculate jajajaja.... by the height of my ex girlfriend! jajajajaja shes petite...and I dont recognize in jeans and dressed in pretty colours jajajajaja (and tenis)

  • @isab.c.6702
    @isab.c.6702 3 года назад +1

    A F* DIVA!

  • @gaiavenus
    @gaiavenus 3 года назад

    Didn't know when you edit your comment you lose the heart LOL something new I learned.

    • @gaiavenus
      @gaiavenus 3 года назад +1

      LOL Thank you :) when I did the edit, I was like Noooooooooooooooo my heart LOL Your so cool LOL, and thats why I love your channel, can't help it my planet is Venus and I love hearts LOL I had a long day and haven't had my drink yet, don't mind me.

  • @beldin2987
    @beldin2987 3 года назад +1

    No fan of these kind of hate videos since the maker sureley also doesn't know the whole truth. After all i heared so far in the end it was also even Marko who said at some point "either she goes or i do", so maybe people can now also make Marko hate videos.
    I still love Tarja, was a big fan of the band from maybe 1998 or whenever i discovered them until 2005 and i was also shocked when i first heared about it, but in the end nobody outside will ever know the whole truth behind, so take it for what it is and stop blaming people.

    • @JasminaGo
      @JasminaGo 3 года назад +9

      The blaming part in most cases comes, not from that fact that the split happened, but HOW it happened. And that lies solely in the guys, led by Tuomas. Tarja wanted to leave, it could have been a clean break, handled privately between the members of Nightwish, and just release a statement for the fans: "we're going different ways, exploring new possibilities, bla bla bla...". Instead is was turned into a personal assault, trying to assassinate Tarja's and her husband's character. You're right no one knows the whole truth behind what happened, there were a lot of accusations tossed and counter arguments made, personally I believe the truth is somewhere in the middle between the two sides. Whatever it was, it could have been handled in a way more befitting adult men, professionals in their field, without them having to resort turning into 13 year old mean girls.

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад +2

      TARJA and Marko are friendly with one another, try again.

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад

      @@JasminaGo Well stated, just so damn happy that she left 💖💖💖💖💖

    • @beldin2987
      @beldin2987 3 года назад

      @@JasminaGo The thing is, meanwhile all members seem to have gotten over it and have their career, so why do so called "fans" again and again try to heaten up the hate towards some persons.
      And hey, if anyone is really such a big Tarja fan, and hates Tuomas sooo much for how evil he is, in that case he should just be happy for her that she got free from him, right ?

    • @larryzigler6812
      @larryzigler6812 3 года назад

      @@beldin2987 Indeed very happy for her and her happiness is very obvious 💖